Sireyn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
64	So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children. Well, come on down and fill your cart with 'pons and pads from MaxiMart!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 07:22 PM
79	Kink community showing their true face. This is why kinkshaming is important You make such a brilliant point. It's absolutely sickening to think that people actually have kinks for things like asphyxiation and waterboarding, yet I cannot imagine anyone who's nearly suffocated or drowned would actively seek out either of those experiences for trauma-coping. But sure, bring on the rape play and age play for survivors of sexual assault. "BeCaUse kInK Is hEaLINg!"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 06:42 PM
325	Kink community showing their true face. This is why kinkshaming is important Supposed mission of the event: "learn how to use kink to heal from sexual trauma" Expectations from scrotes in attendance: "learn how to use sexual trauma survivors to support my kink"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 04:50 PM
132	So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children. Vetting technique: ask him his thoughts on having sex while you're on your period. If he gives you any variation on an "ewwwww" response, regardless of how you personally feel about it, he's an immature jackass. 🚩 If he says he's particularly turned on by it, he's literally telling you that the sight of your blood gets him hard. 🚩 If he says that your preferences and comfort are paramount and he's happy with whatever works best for you, that's the only right answer. ✅ Just say no to red rag red …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 04:44 PM
156	So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children. Yes! Period products are a brilliant vetting technique. The vast majority of women have conditioned ourselves to be so responsible and well prepared, that needing emergency tampons or similar will rarely be an issue. But a guy who would abjectly refuse to run to the store to buy a box if we're in need is showing all his NVM colors in full 4K.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 04:31 PM
60	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 20 - The Queens Respond to Listener Feedback + Future Plans for FDS! Please take my vote for an FDS 101 series! 🙋‍♀️ The handbook, while chock full of essential reading and information, may not be the most easily accessible or digestible for all, because the information is spread across so many unique posts, a few of which have been deleted by their respective authors. For gals who discover the podcast but don't use Reddit, or those who absorb information and concepts best through an audio format, having the most vital concepts from the handbook available as podc…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 06:28 PM
22	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 20 - The Queens Respond to Listener Feedback + Future Plans for FDS! Also I think a great addition would be analyzing cases through the lens of safety using resources like Gift of Fear or Why Does He Do That. Love, love, love your suggestion. I'm listening to the pod right now and haven't gotten to the segment where they discuss a true crime spin-off, but upon reading about it here in the thread, I winced a little because the genre, which I love, has been absolutely done to death (no pun intended). So in order to bring something really fresh, meaningful, and FDS-…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 06:20 PM
164	female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮 Right? How insanely fucked up it is to live in a world where we fine women €1500 - almost $1800 - for not showing enough ass cheek in an athletic competition. 🤦‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/21 09:50 PM
140	Scrote Signaling This scrote is giving me such GamerGate vibes. "AcTuALlY, IT'S aboUT EtHIcS IN SeXuAL aSsaULT NuAnCE!" No, it's really fucking not, Chaz.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/21 09:47 PM
277	female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮 So beach handballers get fined for wearing shorts that weren't tiny enough to pass as bikini bottoms, and a Paralympian long jumper gets admonished because her sprint shorts are supposedly too tiny and bikini-like. JFC. I feel like I'm in a twilight zone, it's 2018 again, and folks at the French Open won't STFU about Serena Williams' catsuit. Stop. Policing. Women's. Clothing. And. Bodies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/21 09:41 PM
15	What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you? Your sympathetic anger is giving me all the feels, thank you! 🧡 He honestly and truly thought I'd be sooooo grateful for books and chocolate, and it's like ... seriously, who doesn't think that through? Insanely hot weather aside, those chocolate bars could have been absolutely crushed to dust by heavy books jostling around without proper padding. Then to not think about the meltability aspect on top of that, I just can't even.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/21 02:02 PM
374	What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you? My NVX (whom, in my Pickmeisha days, I actually tried to maintain a friendship with) sent me some books that I'd mistakenly left behind when I moved out of our apartment. Thinking he was being exceptionally creative and clever, instead of packing material, he filled the empty spaces in the box with fun size Hershey bars, and then shipped it off to me. By UPS Ground. In July. The box arrived literally oozing melted chocolate at the seams, the inside was like a trick-or-treat murder scene, and all…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/21 10:47 PM
22	What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with age Believe it or not, she met him in person, multiple times! Poor (barely legal) girl. 😝	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/21 06:20 PM
95	What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with age One of my NVXs followed up our relationship with a dalliance with a European cam girl 30 years his junior. The man makes about $200k/year, but I'm sure she really wanted him for his ED, mental health issues, micro penis, and sparkling personality. 🙄🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/21 04:33 PM
106	This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable. It's a new Twilight fan fic called Fifty Shades of Nay	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 01:42 AM
166	This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable. I'm honestly shocked that His Scrotajesty will actually eat proteins spiced with salt, pepper, and garlic rather than just platefuls of chicken fingers chased by Mountain Dew from a sippy cup.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 01:39 AM
170	This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable. I feel like this scrote just watched Fifty Shades of Grey a half dozen times, taking notes like: "I'MMA PUT ALL THE MOST BITCHIN' DOM WORDING IN HERE SO ERRBODY CAN FEEL MY BIG DICK ENERGY" He should have used 🍆 for bullet points to really hammer it home.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 01:36 AM
360	This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable. HIS PASSIVE PERSONALITY 😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 12:25 AM
76	Document, document, document! Ahhhh, auto-banned because of brigading butthurt scrotacity - sounds about right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 06:48 PM
175	Document, document, document! I don't know a thing about Tiktok, so please forgive a potentially silly question, but: Why does this platform keep banning women for documenting and sharing egregious examples the horrifying behavior of men? Especially when the behavior is not alleged but is actually captured on camera? TikTok going out of its way to ban women for sharing the truth of the harassment they've endured is absolutely unreal to me. I didn't see the man's face in this video, and it appears that she blocked out pertine…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 06:20 PM
240	Today I was told to be less professional at work... "Thank you for complimenting my professionalism, I really appreciate it!" Then the onus is on him to admit that he wasn't complimenting you, which (one would hope) would make him sound and feel like a complete ass even to his own ears.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 09:36 PM
15	LVM need your constant validation. Notice how he keeps fishing for compliments and reassurances. I knew he was LV but sometimes it’s amusing to see how pathetic they get. I blocked him after this (why the dates are weird, I took screenshots after I blocked him). Your responses were so succinct and perfect. You were basically saying: "Here's the shovel, my dude: keep digging your own grave!"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 05:58 PM
283	Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair? He has severe Protagonist Syndrome. This is brilliant! I had never heard the phrase before, but the description fits him so perfectly. GOD FORBID that a woman exercises her autonomy and elects to move to a different seat when one becomes free, or waits until she doesn't have to use a piece of gym equipment directly adjacent to a guy, or dares to finish her meal efficiently and leave an establishment in a way that makes a man feel confused and butthurt. 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 05:56 PM
65	"You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging him Ghosts you for a week and then says "thanks for the ghost" like a bitter little bitch. The delusion is next level. You're awesome for sticking to your values and subsequently discovering the depths of his scrotacity!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 05:51 PM
76	Red Flags that indicate he doesn't see you as a fully autonomous person You refer to him as your husband, but I'm sincerely quivering with sympathetic rage and hoping beyond hope that you meant that he's your ex-husband (or will very soon be)? Because holy red flags, Batman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 05:48 PM
36	LVM need your constant validation. Notice how he keeps fishing for compliments and reassurances. I knew he was LV but sometimes it’s amusing to see how pathetic they get. I blocked him after this (why the dates are weird, I took screenshots after I blocked him). So the LVM playbook goes something like: Manipulative "compliment" (he's impressed by you so far so you'd better keep proving your worth) Copypasta bio filled with a list of undesirable traits Fishing for reassurances Neg-adjacent "compliment" (the fuck does he mean by calling you sweet in your own LITTLE way?) Nah x1000. So many bullets dodged, sis. Huge props for no texting after 10pm and your brief-as-possible responses!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 05:45 PM
54	I will no longer be the only one who doesn't get an orgasm... I've genuinely never had an orgasm from PIV - I just thought it wasn't possible for me, and the statistics seem to back that up, so I never questioned it. But during the hellfire first months of COVID, I purposefully went looking for a little slimline vibrator that I could potentially slip between my clit and my future partner, so next time I'm blessed with having a boyfriend a man is blessed with having ME, I'll be able to take care of my own damn needs if necessary. And if it makes him feel de…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 09:27 PM
79	I will no longer be the only one who doesn't get an orgasm... When they whine about wanting you to cum and you're not even close and you're like "Maybe I would if you would stop grooving with your tongue like you're playing Dance Dance Revolution, FML!" 🙄😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 09:23 PM
267	Imagine your boyfriend telling you he won’t hesitate to hit you because he’s afraid you’re a psycho... Never laid a hand on each other and never cussed each other out no matter how heated things got. Great plan, because he fucking said he'd hit you if provoked. So congrats for barely keeping yourself from being beaten. You won the husband lottery, sis. Have a medal. 🏅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 09:17 PM
242	Lingerie is NOT a gift My last ex asked me for my clothing size once, so I asked why. He turned it around and asked me why I was being cagey. I said something to the effect of: "I'm hard to fit. I wear different sizes in every brand. I'm often a different size in tops versus bottoms. If the brand goes by designations like S/M/L/XL, I absolutely have to consult a size chart. I enjoy my comfort and I'm particular about what I like to wear. And again: why are you asking?" He got all huffy and said he had just wanted to b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 07:59 PM
8	Weekly FDS Check-In I love this! Exploring FDS has opened up so much space in my mind, it's amazing. Having that indulgent time back to really relax and enjoy myself, to focus on self care and leveling up instead of stressing about some man, has been so incredibly beneficial. Enjoy your vacation!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 04:48 PM
97	"You need to forgive!" Hear hear! Getting angry is what led to watershed moments like the Women's March and the MeToo Movement. Fuck forgiveness. Forgiving is what makes us passive and compliant. Anger is what colonizes, mobilizes, and actually moves the needle.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 03:43 PM
131	"You need to forgive!" Whenever someone tries to give me this absolutely piece of asinine advice about my abuser and assaulters, all I can say (through clenched fists and gritted teeth) is: I will never forget, so why should I forgive?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 03:41 PM
93	Oh no honey, that’s not something to be proud of Presuming that this DRONA box is something akin to the IKEA cube box she's referring to ... Sis, you had to pay your LVM $50 to fill a 13"x15"x13" box, and you're on Reddit looking for claps on the back and "you go, girl" style appreciation. Kick his cube to the curb, and then you'll have something praise-worthy to gloat about.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 10:52 PM
28	A cheating man 100% wrote this. By making these unpopular opinions popular and giving them a wide reach it makes women with a HEALTHY mindset doubt themselves and feel as if something is wrong with them for not wanting to be with a cheater. Do not fall for it. Hold the phone: are you saying that ladies don't bond over sharing casserole-making tips, and sync their periods while coupon clipping for household cleaning products?!?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 09:30 PM
76	A cheating man 100% wrote this. By making these unpopular opinions popular and giving them a wide reach it makes women with a HEALTHY mindset doubt themselves and feel as if something is wrong with them for not wanting to be with a cheater. Do not fall for it. Would LOVE to see the reaction to the exact same post written from the reverse standpoint. "I would have no problem with my wife taking a second husband. I'd also have no problem being the second husband." The post would probably be downvoted to oblivion, OP would be accused of being a troll, and their DMs would be filled with hateful, emasculating screeds.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 09:10 PM
36	God help the woman married to this man EPIC. 👏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 08:27 PM
378	When you follow a financial literacy page and then they start posting this shit... Unfollowed! If my man buys me "a shoe" instead of a pair, I'll buy him half a suit and bury him in it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 08:21 PM
85	FDS is Working A STD panel is not a ticket into my pants, it’s the height requirement to ride the ride. QUEEN ENERGY, and such a brilliantly worded motto. I love it! I feel the exact same way about how FDS principles lead to more feelings of confidence and less feeling crushed when a LVM lets his true colors show. Once I feel like I've meaningfully leveled up, I kind of can't wait to get into the OLD game for the first time in over a decade. The effort of vetting is going to feel so much better than all the ef…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 07:18 PM
240	God help the woman married to this man Imagine being the kid who one day finds out that their birth was less important than a fucking hockey game watched from nosebleed seats. Dude would have gotten a better view of the action watching the game on his mobile in between his wife's contractions. What an absolute tool.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 07:07 PM
115	Why Does He Do That? Answer: Because he can If you haven't read the book Why Does He Do That, by Lundy Bancroft you should. It's essential reading for all women. I just started reading this book last night. I'm so grateful for the FDS recommended reading list. Have a feeling I'm going to have a lot of jaw-dropping, eye-opening moments in my near future thanks to these books.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 04:59 PM
55	US husband brings his wife a coffee and her cat every morning This is sweet, but it also gives me a bit of a twinge because I think of all the stuff I used to do for my LVX that was so normalized and would have never warranted any kind of mention on a major website. In my certified Pickmeisha days, I would wake up when my boyfriend's alarm went off, and while he was in the shower, I'd make him coffee and cook his breakfast. Then I'd sit with him while he ate, and when he went to get dressed, I'd make his lunch for him to take to work. Then I'd see him off …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 02:31 PM
8	It isn’t that bad… I'm loathe to worry you, because the side effects you experience and their lingering effects vary wildly from person to person. But I'm in my 40s now (and I've been off BC for at least 15 years) and I still have a low libido, dryness, and struggles with depression and anxiety. I also had a serious scare with a blood clot in one of my legs in my 20s, which is no joke. Atop all of that, taking BC left me with estrogen dominance, which I'm thankfully able to treat with OTC supplements. Unless you a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 02:17 PM
59	It isn’t that bad… Reading all of the side effects of birth control made me realize that my five year stint on the pill left me worse for wear than I initially believed. I already knew that it made me suffer from: Blood clots, low libido, weight gain, migraines, acne, mood changes, anxiety, and depression. I had no idea that it may also be to blame for chronic vaginal dryness and dry corneas as well. I haven't touched BC of any kind in 15+ years and I still deal with the dryness and a libido that never recovered t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 01:47 PM
5	In this AskMen post some guys were complaining they spend money on dates and girls end up not being interested and I saw some wild scrotes "bUt I SHaVED MY bAlLs, tHO!" Here, have a fucking medal. 🥇	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 08:29 PM
4	Court papers detail sexual assault claim against Dodgers' Trevor Bauer - he strangled her until she PASSED OUT Hill said that she was crying and shaking after regaining consciousness and that Bauer reportedly began to console her, allegedly saying: "You're safe. I'm here. You're safe... I would never do those things to you if it wasn't sexually." RAPE AND VIOLENT ASSAULT ≠ ROUGH SEX It absolutely terrifies me how many men conflate acts of violence with "liking it rough". You can absolutely have something more akin to rough sex just by virtue of being more vigorous and primal, and in the heat of the momen…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 08:23 PM
12	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 17 - Scrotation Management : The Benefits of Multi-Dating I dont let men waste my time when id rather crochet This needs to be imprinted on a yarn bag or similar. Talk about a fantastic motto! 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 04:40 PM
27	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 17 - Scrotation Management : The Benefits of Multi-Dating I resonate with this so much! I'm also super introverted and I prefer deep social connections. Like you, the idea of having a rotation with guys I'm not genuinely interested in feels draining and exhausting. And the deeper I happily fall down the FDS rabbithole, the quicker and more intuitive it has been to see the signs of LVM-ness and want to nope out of the situation so as not to waste my time. Sometimes finding a single HVM feels like an insurmountable mountain, let alone finding a nice stab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 04:11 PM
3	Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist. Such an innocuous little acronym for something so vile. I strongly suspect that we have porn to "thank" for simulated rape becoming part of the kink mainstream. 🤢 indeed!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 03:59 PM
15	NOT ALL MEN DESERVE THEIR GENES BEING PASSED ON TO THE NEXT GENERATION - ladies please be careful with who you decide to have kids with He should do her a favor and leave though. Which he's apparently not capable of doing without querying the Internet first. 🙄 This epic toolface. You're right, she deserves SO much better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 08:17 PM
31	NOT ALL MEN DESERVE THEIR GENES BEING PASSED ON TO THE NEXT GENERATION - ladies please be careful with who you decide to have kids with She managed to lose all of her pregnancy weight in three months while taking care of a newborn baby, and scrote is wah-wah whining that her stomach ACTUALLY RESEMBLES THAT OF SOMEONE WHO'S HAD A FUCKING BABY?! I can't even with the audacity of men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 08:08 PM
56	Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist. ZERO chance that this porn-sick babyscrote actually goes and talks to a therapist as his edit suggests. No idea which subreddit this originated from, but willing to bet there are CNC-apologists aplenty in the comments, soothing the kid into thinking that he's just into hard kinks like it's no big deal. He's going to leave that poor girl with scars (emotional for sure, if not physical as well), and if - god willing - she wises up and leaves his ass, he'll just go looking for a submissive pickmeis…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 08:04 PM
52	THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money. Every time I read "the trash takes itself out", it's like a hallelujah/amen moment for me. I'm in my 40s and I shudder to think of how many LVM I've entertained in my lifetime. FDS has me reevaluating so many things, and I'm living for it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 06:02 PM
25	"He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest) The resignation in her words just undoes me. "Three good dishes" - three?! So he couldn't even prepare as many dinner options as the number of children his wife carried and (from the sounds of it) largely raised on her own. Unreal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 11:31 PM
61	The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.” Seriously! If this had been a one-off or once in a blue moon thing, he would have never taken the time to write this "wahhhhh, make me feel better about being impatient and entitled" nonsense. So clearly they travel often enough that it's become an issue; if they have the money to travel, why not spend the $100 to get her PreCheck as well? I've had men strike up unwanted conversations with me in airport lines, and it's one of the worst things because you're being held captive and it's not like y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 11:23 PM
18	I found dating to be really empowering, and I wish other women would experience it that way too. Thank you so much for sharing your OLD experience and your set of rules and standards. I'm childfree, working for myself, and I'm temporarily living in a city different from where I'd like to end up, so OLD makes the most sense for me, dating-wise. (Though I'm putting in the time with my singlehood, working on my mental health and well being, before giving it a go.) It's uplifting to hear that you're having a good experience so far, and I really appreciate the way you're approaching it. "Losers …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 05:58 PM
49	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 16 - Walk Dates are For Dogs - (feat. Viral Tik Tok Star @Kokobeaute) I listened to the audio of Kokobeaute's TikTok, then visited the link that was posted to the pod's Insta, and I marveled at the thought of people getting offended at a gorgeous HVW having entirely reasonable standards. The part that really stuck with me: "We're not doing drinks either. You are gonna try to get me drunk and take me back home." EX 👏 ACT 👏 LY 👏 The disdain on the newscaster's face before and after the video played was so nakedly apparent, yet all I could think was: Cornelia is not …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 02:12 PM
118	Learning to Say "No" and Learning to Ask for What you Want You reminded me of a time a few years ago when my ex and I were moving out of our condo, and a neighbor blocked our moving truck in. I knocked on doors until I found the right one, and fell all over myself fawning for their cooperation. "I'm so sorry for the inconvenience, but I need to move this truck and your car is a little bit in the way. Could I bother you to move it, please?" As you can imagine, they said sure, waved me off, and a half hour later, they still hadn't moved their car. So I se…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 02:03 PM
51	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In I've been systematically reading the handbook and am seriously considering starting a Google Doc file with "highlights" of particularly powerful insights and advice gleaned that I can refer to often. I don't know how often the compendium gets updated with new links, but my parched ass has been drinking in all the knowledge like the handbook is an oasis in the desert. Such an epic resource!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 02:46 PM
9	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In I just listened to that episode of the podcast and had more than a few "yaaaaas, queen" moments!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 02:43 PM
12	Reddit hates women who say size matters. You are my hero! 💀😂 I have way more than a handful, which I can't do anything about unless I want to pay thousands for a reduction and deal with all the attendant healing and scarring that goes along with it. My extra large breasts may be a waste, dude, but only one of us is trash!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 02:05 PM
30	🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drives It truly is such a worthwhile vetting technique! My last LVM boyfriend would take turns too sharply, often resulting in hitting the curb and giving the car a good jolt. He would get supremely annoyed when I gasped aloud and reflexively grabbed onto the "Jesus handle" every time this happened. He told me that I should learn to suppress my instinctive reactions. I'm kicking myself now for not responding that he should learn how to drive. 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 01:08 PM
17	Men who say "What do you want me to do, say no?" when they take sexual advantage of women need to be stopped. I've always been stunned by the hypocrisy of men who don't recognize their own role in the behavior that they're so ruthlessly judging. It comes into crystal clarity for me when a man scoffs at the morals of a woman who gets pregnant at a young age. It's not like there's a sudden rash of virgin Marys out there; own the fact that men have to participate in conception. If a LVM insists upon blaming and shaming, save plenty of it for the dude who participated in the sex that culminated in pregnancy…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 12:51 PM
43	HVM will respect your time; LVM have no worries making you wait around for them because they have no respect for you. Never prompt them to act right. Let them learn by your absence. This hit me hard. I can't count the number of times I've bent over backwards to try to teach a man how to treat me right. This was the "cold water splash to the face" that I needed this morning. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 12:43 PM
30	Blood in the water: a custom made tactic Thank you, that really helps to clarify it for me. And good on you for breaking up, blocking, deleting!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 11:41 PM
77	Blood in the water: a custom made tactic Would you mind sharing what his neg was? This sounds like a fascinating tactic, I'm just trying to suss out how to pick up on a particularly clever and covert neg.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 08:18 PM