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And women have gotten punished before for making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:23 PM
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I love your attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:56 PM
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Ive wanted for these incels to suddenly become very handsome, so they get to experience what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:40 AM
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There's been goegeous young women who were depressed and lonely because nobody approached them, since they were presumed to be taken or out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:56 AM
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Hard agree. I was handsome in my early 20s yet I struggled with all women. I had 0 confidence, 0 people reading skills and very shy, depressed and lonely. And even when I met women for dates, my social skill issues would get in the way. Alot of incels for example, think physical appearance is all it takes. They are dead wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:55 AM
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This guy wrote a relevant article "Problems Facing Women Who Are Shy And Inexperienced With Men" https://www.succeedsocially.com/shywomen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:53 AM
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Can you expand on what u told that woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:17 AM
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These parties have empowered lots of men and women. Everyone comes away with something different. They empowered me by teaching me it's ok to make mistakes with women and women won't hate me just because I accidentally make them uncomfortable. I also learned that accidentally making a woman uncomfortable doesn't make me an evil man. I also learned that simply expressing interest in a woman doesn't automatically mean she will be creeped out. One woman became empowered to set boundaries and see th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:37 AM
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Now I get it. Yeah it'd make me so happy to reward them like this. They built me up when I had no confidence with women. They taught me to be comfortable making mistakes, to understand that just because a woman gets uncomfortable, doesn't make me an evil guy. It also doesn't mean they will hate me. I grew up with a mother who constantly ranted about evil men. They also helped me get rid of toxic programming from school bullies and my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:24 AM
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Sex parties are their own subculture, distinctly different from their countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:55 AM
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With swinger parties yes with occasional exception. However swinger parties arent the only ones in existence. Ive tried swinger parties as a single guy, never again. There's also gangbangs and orgies that welcome single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:59 PM
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Ive seen all kinds of men and women show up, ages ranging from 20 to 50+, various races, shapes, heights, various appearance levels. All you need is to smile and have a positive attitude. Like dont permasmile, but smile from time to time. Ive heard of parties where 18-19 show up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:56 PM
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Don't bring non-invited people to the party. Not only will they be denied entry, it's a good way to get banned permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:38 PM
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No always means no. Dont try to proceed regardless, this includes manipulating a woman to change it to a Yes. You will get kicked out and your info shared with all the organizers in your region.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:37 PM
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There are several sites. I found mine on Fetlife. Remember: - read all the rules - what happens at the party, stays there. - Keep your mouth shut. Dont give locations and times to people who arent there, especially vanilla people. Women go to these to feel safe being slutty, dont ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:35 PM
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It all depends on the sex party. The ones i go to allow all sorts of men and women, most of whom dont look the prettiest. Where did you read this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:22 PM
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Am I picking up sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:08 PM
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Holy shit. I didn't know about nichemaxxing, which is exactly what I've done. I've found my home in sex parties. These are events that focus on consent, direct clear communication and having fun. The way it goes is like this: Me: :: make smiling eye contact with a woman :: Her: :: either she does or doesn't :: Me: :: if she did :: "would you like to play?" Her: "yes" or "no" Me: if "yes", then take her to a bedroom and ask for whatever sex act I'm interested in. If she consents, then proceed. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:50 PM
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Its dumb. I simply let her move on. I do wonder if perhaps some men have respectfully given you space, but its the abusive douches that you more easily recall and notice. Our brains are wired to notice the negative more,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:48 PM
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If you're anything like I used to be, there's a deeper reason you didnt act: how would you have treated yourself if for whatever reason, you got rejected at some point? In my case, I'd obsess and berate myself for weeks. Made me very gun shy. Avoiding social faux paux became way higher priority than getting women.
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:18 PM
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I realize not everyone lives in the US. I only know the US but I presume my observations also apply to other western countries.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:01 AM
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In the west, you cant just bring only looks to the table. There's tons of handsome men lonely and socially awkward for a reason. In poorer countries, westerners automatically bring way more than whatever looks they have, handsome or ugly.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:01 AM
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So did he take up PUA study or improved some other way?
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:01 PM
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Very very different than simply becoming very good looking in the US. Thailand introduces socioeconomic advantages u lack in the US.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:33 PM
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Thanks for the upvotes guys and girls. Theres nothing like being told "Dude you could've had any woman u wanted" and feel anything but that. And to have the creeped out women and mistreatment at that.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:22 PM
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And i see so many unattractive men and women out and about holding hands. Sometimes only one or the other being attractive.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:55 AM
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Sometimes I wish the guys who believe this, would suddenly become very good looking overnight. They'd find out real fast that good looks arent everything. Social awkwardness will fuck things up. Bad clothing choices will hamper them. Remaining shy will make them lonely. Several ppl told me in my early 20s I looked very good yet I was shy and lonely and was 5'6" tall. Sometimes even creeped out women on accident. I was socially awkward and couldnt read hints to save my life. This is why I hate th…
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:53 AM
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Eeep it's a good thing you didnt use the fantasy confrontation approach. That seriously couldve gone very sideways and possibly become persona non grata there. She easily couldve played it off like you're a creep going off on her. I like how you actually did it.
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:17 AM
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Extremely short sighted. I dont even know how to respond to this. You sound like an incel.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:08 PM
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As a guy who's been considered good looking in the past, I very strongly disagree. Good looks give you an advantage, but it's not all you need. You still have to read subtle indicators of interest from women + know how to react. I was terrible due to a disability that makes it extra hard to read people. You still have to be able to read when someone wants you to approach VS leave them alone. You still need to manage your body language. Like if you're feeling sad due to loneliness, you cant let t…
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:49 PM
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