SitDownandPee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problem We could be here til' the end of time, attempting to scream back and forth at each other, and yet, the only thing that ever happens is these teenagers step in out of the hallway, "Hey, Woah! I cannot believe the phrasing I just heard used to describe a woman! My goodness , let me tell all you anonymous people how outraged I am by your exaggeration. It is better that you know this, my emotional vomit, than attempt to discuss your topic, if bad words are going to be used. Blah blah blah." When i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 07:55 PM
5	Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking about Yea, I knew of a girl like this in college. Received a wide breadth whenever I'd see her walking on campus. Seemed to glow. A minor celebrity came near our school once. She brought them to the campus and went on a date. I once stood and held the door for her, while she was like, 30 feet away. I didn't even really make a decision. My mind was like you're doing this. I'm pretty sure I started apologizing before she got there. She laughed and was polite and understanding. I'm sure it could be awful…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 01:41 PM
1	Weight vs height, is a huge double standard No no, they made a reasonable observation, but then couldn't move one step beyond that, and realize that any 12 yr old can appreciate the difference between a healthy distribution of weight or more muscle mass on 1 vs someone with a belly. " I swear, it's like the men here lack critical thinking and just find things to be upset about." Yea because they're definitely giving us the benefit of the doubt. Shame on us for getting a little upset while we bang our heads against the wall attempting to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 04:41 PM
2	For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worries as with many other aspects of our culture, the focus has been tightened to only include the worst amongst us. When I first found trp in like 2014 it included many guys who were nerdy throughout youth, but had begun bulking up and becoming successful in their 20s. These guys would relay the differences they experienced with women before their glow up and after. There were many more men on the forum who there was hope for. They were, myself included, simply not motivated as young men to focus on b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 01:39 PM
6	Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their Husbands Have you seen this one around here yet? I've noticed it a few times. Particularly infuriating. "We've all been admitting this the whole time!! Who didn't already know this? Duhhh DUhh Duhhhh! You're actually the blue pilled ones because we're all black pilled, and putting on an act. All this red pilled stuff is obvious." but only for this very moment. The first exit to escape back to blamelessness will be taken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 09:33 PM
4	Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it. One of the replies in the link you posted. -"He sounds fairly immature. How can he not see that she wasn't actually looking for a relationship with the threesome people whereas she actually IS looking for a relationship with him, which is why she wanted to wait before jumping into sex. It's super clear cut." I REFUSE to believe women don't understand why this is frustrating. Especially considering that they NEVER just straight up tell the guy, "Well obviously I've had my sexual fun but this rela…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 07:21 PM
4	The most feminist thing you can do is to actually give women enough agency to be losers. It's an easy RP win, if they show some self restraint and not alienate most people with their weirdo talking points. Only if you want to admit you were painting a rosier picture than you let on. And it doesn't count if you've never chimed in on this. Its not an attack on randos with good boyfriends. The girls here USE their "bf" to win arguments, by saying they're nothing special and he's dating. So no, I truly hope you think your arguments were correct and weren't simply obfuscating to perpetuate something that is convenient for your mind. tangent: if you WERE to talk more shit about them, you would see it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 06:58 PM
1	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? your retort in an argument was to suggest that you were right because it was all great on your end. The argument was, "you're clearly incorrect because its all working in my favor(hit on more, looking better, real men) so what's wrong?" I wasn't even really arguing against you. I'm suggesting that arguing by saying, "Well I get hit on all the time by women so clearly there's nothing to the red pill." Using the argument that i get hit on does NOT prove that trp's arguments are incorrect. It ONLY …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 09:11 PM
2	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? -Men hit on you MORE after you had a son. -They prefer motherly energy which you now have. Your hips are better now than they ever have been! Because of pregnancy and entropy! -You even attract real men, not fake awful ones. That's all in your favor. Can you see that? Can you not appreciate why one is correct to question people who assert fact, based off the idea that everything is going their way so, "Stop trying to figure out if the world isn't as perfect as I want it!". Can you at least app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 08:58 PM
10	Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them? I'm on your side, but I think an apt argument here might be that we don't want to date any woman who did uncomfortable, "painful", or otherwise coerced/depraved sex acts with past guys. Like that's just as good an argument. She doesn't want to give you bjs, thats fine, but I don't need a partner who was so outclassed in previous hook-ups/relationships, or so submissive that they can't stand up for themselves and set healthy boundaries. We don't like that she did things for another guy but not us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 09:44 PM
12	Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them? And this is more to the man's ego and prerogative, but to view sex as something with value that some people have a lot of and others have very little, its pretty easy to understand that the have-nots resent the haves for being frivolous and shallow. Women don't owe men sex, but they could be more dignified with the wealth they have. In the same way that people feel that athletes are paid too much or that billionaires don't need yachts or islands, it SHOULD be pretty easy to understand why men wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 09:28 PM
4	If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazy Fine if you take this dodge, then why not just tell men when they ask? This line of reasoning is "Omg its so stupid who even cares?" Well then if no one cares just tell us cuz its obviously no big deal. Who flinches first. It has become obvious to men that women won't tell you this number, or that they clearly feel insecure about it. And when someone exhibits those emotions, then you start asking yourself, "wait, what is there to be ashamed of?" Its just a natural conclusion from that reaction. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:12 PM
6	Female Dating Strategy Agreed. At its core, the red pill, was that life isn't as nice as everyone around you wants to make it seem. So some of that info worked on women, but it meant there were hard truths about us as men as well. but without telling yourself allllllll the truths, you are not going to become fully actualized and thus are being denied your full potential. Whatever else your education technique tells you, if it is hiding the peak of the summit from you, then you have some extra questions to ask. But the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 04:37 PM
2	There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value. Blue pill is specifically about hiding from the truths that taking the red pills reveals. If you don't believe in the revelations of the red pill(which is fine and valid), you can revel in being called blue pill. If you refuse to accept the revelations of the red pill you resign yourself to the blue pill because it makes you feel safe and content. Red pill is tough truths, blue pill is denial of those difficult realizations. I don't believe there is a reference point for blue pill when not in co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/21 09:21 PM
2	The reason why some women claim looks don't matter that much is because they subconsciously characterize certain physiological traits as a man's personality rather than a part of his looks. However, on anonymous forums... it would seem there is motive. I believe that early on in life, children are superficial and opportunistic before morals and the acknowledgment that you aren't the center of the universe sets in. As social cliques form, in school, it is often for shallow superficial reasons. We have yet to come up with the self-esteem that allows us to get over this and appreciate the non-beautiful for the value they possess. So we compensate by either trying to hang out with them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/21 12:34 AM
1	People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand dating I'm not entirely sure how you justify that once one entertains a set of thoughts, that person is now incapable of entertaining other ideas and changing their mind? If anything, being blue pilled and then taking the red pill, is meant to be a very, "I know that I know nothing" sort of experience. (But I'm up for helping those who are close minded. You have a point there. My perspective is clearly on the best amongst us, and you want to make sure the worst amongst us aren't a problem. Fair.) Peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/21 07:56 PM
3	People who use [Insert Pill Colour] subreddits, are the last people to understand dating You may be correct that they rely on anecdotes. But u/GullibleAirport732's specific point is that an ever increasing proportion of men find the anecdotes to ring true and after a time of paying attention to these teachings, they feel satisfied with their new perspective. You may be right that it doesn't apply to everyone. You may be right that they haven't been able or allowed to perform a true scientific study on these topics. But the fact remains, men find these anecdotes and spaces to be ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/21 06:06 PM
2	"Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractive (Do BPs take any of this to heart?) "The anger and resentment is understandable but in all honesty the only way through that is radical acceptance. The only way you will ever have peace is to grow past being stuck in anger at the unfairness of it. This is the world we live in and hating and railing against it isn't going to change anything. Changing our perspective is the only way to resolve this internal dilemma. One thing that stuck with me from my time in AA is the idea of powerlessness. It i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 08:10 PM
2	It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways. Don't forget every time a girl has used sex as instant gratification, jealousy manipulation, or as validation thus acknowledging intimacy as ultimately valuable. "If you don't wanna see me Did a full one eighty, crazy Thinking 'bout the way I was Did the heartbreak change me? Maybe But look at where I ended up I'm all good already So moved on it's scary I'm not where you left me at all So if you don't wanna see me dancing with somebody If you wanna believe that anything could stop me Don't sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/20 05:48 PM
2	The “manosphere” and other adjacent communities are damaging to the majority of people’s mental health who engage in them I'm a tall good looking dude. I have no trouble with women either in dating them or in simply being friends and getting along with. I have very low numbers by choice and I am happy with that. I'm not religious, nor am I a prude. I encourage others to be who they want to be. I've been friends with players and guys who have trouble dating and understanding women. I enjoy the manosphere(trp,mgtow youtube) for being an unfiltered view into male thoughts on women and dating. Its just a discussion b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 09:35 PM
8	If men stopped using women for sex, you'd find the connection you're really looking for I get picked on all the time for dancing too close to eugenics shit, so I'm totally not doing that to you. But you don't need to go a breeding program to solve this. We simply need to not teach all children that they will find love. Don't make loving relationships an expectation society has of people. "Some of us will be cut out to partner up with someone, its really more of a function than a privilege", is the way I would like it phrased. Everyone hates that the incels have expectations. Me too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 05:32 PM
8	If men stopped using women for sex, you'd find the connection you're really looking for Plus its just moving the goal posts again. "Oh yup thats the only problem with the incels, the way they think. If only we could solve that we'd be attracted to them. I can't believe they don't spin plates." These guys have objectively been rejected by the sexual market place. The "bad" ideas come afterwards. If there were chaste women out there, they still wouldn't want to date incels. I think men instinctively want a women to have a low N-count because of parental nonsense. But the new-age-man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 05:25 PM
3	If men stopped using women for sex, you'd find the connection you're really looking for OP's post goes like this: Men complain about these aspects of reality. They would like women to be chaste and interested in men for reasons other than their looks and domineering capabilities. Women are not chaste and do not like men for reasons other than being Hawt or dangerous. How is this brainwashing? They've explained that one cohort wants things one way. The truth is life is not that way, and yet we're arguing that they are mistaken? It all makes perfect sense to me. You need to go back t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 04:55 PM
3	The Red Pill vs. the Black Pill Pay attention to this response. I love this place, and believe the ECs deserve their respect. But I feel they have moved away from delivering and savoring red pill truths and being honest, in favor of pushing the value of this place. He even shamed you as you noticed. You were foolishly seeking perfection simply by asking the question. I'm itchy at how close that was to a feminine answer. The options were, "No, incel men aren't needed in the SMV and thus should find value elsewhere." "Yes, if th…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 08:59 PM
10	I (35m) recently swallowed a long overdue RP and my fiancé (28f) is lost. She can't accept nor understand this and it's gonna ruin our relationship. What makes you think she's "the One"? Why are you so intent on committing to this girl? These questions will explain a lot for us. You need to realize that the girl will tip you off to the problems you have inside yourself. She is the canary in the coal-mine regarding the blue-pilled aspects of yourself. So right there, you should understand that we will always suggest you simply not be a part of a couple/LTR right now. You are not ready, and this girl has given you plenty of reasons. (She acts …	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/18 07:50 PM
2	AWALT - wall banging chick admits her BF doesn't bring in the coin and she wants to know how to make him do so The problem with that talk is that she's creating a problem that will ruin her life and he never mentions it to her. He allows her to think that she can put together a project the night before it is due. She gets all upset because Stefan lays out the slim chance of her current man being "good enough" in her eyes to have children with. She's upset because she "loves" him. The message from this talk should be, if you made a conscious decision to live the casual dating lifestyle throughout your 20s…	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/16 09:08 PM
4	Man is upset to discover his wife is stripping nude on a beach while on vacation without him. Relationships subreddit calls him a shitlord, tells him to man up and accept her open sexuality. Yeah, this is what's become of male dignity. Regardless of how we analyze the post, they are suggesting that he hold frame when the topic comes up between the two of them. We should be able to recognize and acknowledge that as a tactic for winning an argument.	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/16 02:15 PM