SituationOptimal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I’m not a bad man… Time. Time changes everything. Doesn’t ease your pain now, but just know, that life can be long, and what goes around, will surely come back around. Best of luck, man.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/25 01:48 AM
2	Post on the lack of father figure for women 100%. Recently dated a girl who never knew her father, travel nurse. Absolute emotional chaos. No sense of emotional regulation, management, nor maturity. It was truly like dealing with a 6 year old child. Couldn’t reason, nor come to a consensus, and her impulse was ‘flight’ whenever there was any emotional discomfort. Truly shocking that a 39 year old woman could be such a train wreck. Your post is 100% accurate.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/25 01:41 AM
1	Everything collapsed at once and my wife just asked for a divorce Thanks for sharing. Your situation sounds tough, I’m sorry to hear you’re contending with all those very difficult things. I’ve certainly had my own ‘dark night of the soul’ year: career abyss, friendship betrayal, maternal toxicity, business losses upon business losses, the list goes on. 2025, has been hellish. BUT I’ve had a few blessings along the way, too, knowing there’s never a natural floor to how bad things get. What’s gotten me through is hyperfocus on what has been good in your life. A…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/25 01:29 AM