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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | New gay guy could use some AltTRP advice | SixZeus | /r/altTRP | 12/12/15 04:18 AM |
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| 1 | New gay guy could use some AltTRP adviceWell, in the past I've definitely tended towards being a bit forward, for fear of missing out/letting them slip away. Maybe it comes across as clingy, I don't know, but whatever the problem, it hasn't really been working well. I guess I just fear that the whole thing will just sort of die if I let it remain stagnant or wait for them to make the moves. | /r/altTRP | 13/12/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | New gay guy could use some AltTRP adviceSexual Polarity was a great read. Very enlightening. According to that, I've been going about it all wrong. Unfortunately, the consistent advice I got from it seems to be "do nothing." It's very hard to see that as a successful strategy. Seems to me like do nothing would more often than not simply result in nothing. Anyone have any experience in this area? I'd love to know if anyone's really having success with the do nothing strategy. I guess part of the problem is that I don't really feel like… | /r/altTRP | 12/12/15 11:21 PM |
| 1 | New gay guy could use some AltTRP adviceThanks for the reply, very helpful stuff. I feel like I've got one half of the lone wolf equation down. I'm a very independent guy. I've got a good job, my own place, a badass car, etc. I keep my apartment clean, do my own laundry, cook quite well, am a pretty gracious person, etc. If this was simply about life skills, shit, guys ought to throw themselves at me. When it comes to my interests though, I don't really have anything quite as photogenic as being elbows-deep in an engine. I'm a writer … | /r/altTRP | 12/12/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | New gay guy could use some AltTRP adviceTrue, though it doesn't seem like a sign that things are particularly right either, 'cause there's been guys that I've felt like we were a pretty good fit. I can't deny being eager, though I don't want to come across as desperate, but at the same time, I do want to signal that I'm interested. I guess I'm just trying to find the right balance. Wondering what I can do to give myself the best chance, if not take control of the situation, you know what I mean? | /r/altTRP | 12/12/15 04:49 AM |
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