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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women would do better in dating if they involved the men in their family with mate selection My family is very important to me. If my dad, grandfathers, and uncles genuinely didn’t like my husband we never would have made it far enough in the relationship to get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 01:30 AM
4	If you want to marry someone, what n-count would you tell them you have? Same lol My husband was in a local band that was pretty popular in his twenties and he was the hot lead guitarist- I knew he pulled. His number was high, not as high as I expected but higher than mine. I don’t care. They were all a bunch of one night stand’s except for me and his only ever ex girlfriend. I’m the one he decided to fuck for life (marry lol) that’s all that matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 10:06 PM
2	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing Lol talk to text auto correct foils me again!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:14 PM
1	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing Okay- so only make yourself in vulnerable positions with the ones you DO trust. That’s the whole point. If you don’t trust, most people that don’t fuck those people only do that shit with people that you trust because when you having sex with somebody, you are trusting them with your life either threw it out, accidental or annotated, pregnancy, or sexually transmitted diseases, some of which are incurable. So yeah… It’s cool not to trust people. It’s cool not to trust most people but don’t put y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 04:58 PM
5	Do you think some women are against sex work because it takes away a lot of their power over men? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 03:17 PM
2	Do you think some women are against sex work because it takes away a lot of their power over men? Considering my sex worker friend who was working in a legal state and followed all safety advice guidelines she was still murdered this past July. She was also a semi well known adult film star. She was killed by the last client she was “with” barely hours afterwards. And she made a video with him and uploaded it (with his consent) 2 hrs before he killed her. He was easily identifiable and on camera and was quickly found.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 12:40 PM
3	Do you think some women are against sex work because it takes away a lot of their power over men? My friend was a prostitute and adult film star in Vegas where it’s legal and regulated. She still got murdered this past July.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 12:37 PM
3	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I would say the sister has boundaries and has a personal preference for modesty… Completely unrelated to whether or not she trusts her brother. I trust my dad I know he would never do anything to me, but I also that age 30 wouldn’t want him to see me undressed because it’s awkward and I don’t like being naked and exposed regardless of the trust. It has nothing to do with whether or not the brother in your scenario they are may not do some thing or just the caution, because keeping in mind that s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 12:12 PM
1	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing Well, every individual is different. I buried my husband, because I fully trust him if I had any doubt whatsoever about him or if I thought he was even slightly capable of adultery or significant betrayal, I would’ve never married him, nor would I have dated him for as long as I did before he proposed. (we dated 8 years, engaged one year, married this past September)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 12:09 PM
2	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I never said have blind faith. I said don’t make babies with, have sex unprotected with, or get married to, anyone you don’t fully trust. And no I have a healthy level of skepticism regarding my residual area. But I’m not raw dog gangbang fucking my city, my neighborhood, or even my street. I cant trust someone I don’t know, and it’s hard if not impossible to trust an entire group of people as a unified whole that every single person in that category (such as all the residential citizens in my l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 11:52 AM
2	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing We’re talking people who we willingly allow in our lives who we partake in risk related behavior with because we trust them in particular. Not geography or every person existing within the bounds of an extended geographical municipal community. Stop switching goal posts. I said you shouldn’t be having sex, or making children with a person that you don’t trust well enough not to doubt them. Never did I say you should blindly trust every single person who ever existed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 10:55 AM
3	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I do lock my doors because I’m not stupid. And intruders would not be people who I have invited into my life or into my home. Therefore, there is no trust for them however, my best friend it does have a copy of the key to my house and she has an open invitation to come over let herself at any time, because I trust her. I don’t just trust every single person every where all the time… Obviously not. What I was saying is I do not engage in intimate activities or forge relationships (romantic, sexua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 10:12 AM
3	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I mean, the friends who haven’t lost my trust, yeah. I’ve given my best friend my bank card, I’ve co-signed a loan for her, I’ve given her my SSN for when she needed it (I think in relation to the loan application) Because I trust her, and she’s never given me a reason not to. If somebody is a person that I don’t think I would feel is trustworthy… I probably wouldn’t be their friend, acquaintances definitely I’ll hang out with them and be buddies, but I wouldn’t forge a friendship unless there’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:59 AM
4	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I would not be having unprotected sex with a person that I didn’t first trust. Also, my philosophy is I trust you, until you give me a reason not to- then if you do violate my trust and want to regain it you have to work to earn it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:52 AM
3	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing Then, don’t fuck liberals or “Normies”. And don’t fuck anybody unprotected with whom you don’t trust enough to be honest about the paternity of her child is that results in one or if you don’t trust her to be honest about STD statuses. Honestly, just don’t fuck anybody you don’t trust .	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:44 AM
3	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I mean my husband trust me and I trust him. Otherwise we would not have gotten married. or even continue to dating if one of us didn’t trust the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:42 AM
3	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing Why do you wanna be in a relationship with somebody who you feel you need to test the paternity of her child with you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:41 AM
2	The current dating market is evidence of our slip back into naturalistic mating behavior. Yeah. It’s fucking tragic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 05:06 AM
3	The current dating market is evidence of our slip back into naturalistic mating behavior. A lot of women are waiting later to have their first baby. They want to establish some form of financial stability from finishing college and starting a career first before starting to try for a kid. Also a LOT of women are experiencing infertility issues preventing them from having kids as soon as they want, if ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 11:17 PM
2	The current dating market is evidence of our slip back into naturalistic mating behavior. Well when your options are sell my body or starve/get evicted/etc then is it really their truest choice? Yes, a lot may choose sex work- but the choice isn’t like choosing between taking a summer semester studying abroad or staying home to spend more time with your new boyfriend. It’s more a Sophie’s choice scenario. Where both options are awful, but you have to pick one or the other. There’s no third option of “ooooor I can pick the door to my ultimate ideal preference!” It’s not sink or swim. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 11:02 PM
2	The current dating market is evidence of our slip back into naturalistic mating behavior. Yup. A friend of mine was apparently a pretty fairly well known ‘talent’ within the porn community and she was murdered a few months ago. Only a few hours after her last upload. The dude in the video with her killed her afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 10:55 PM
2	Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details. Holy shit I did that for my best friend when her dog died. I’d definitely do it for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 09:18 PM
1	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? I’m still on the fence. I agree sex work is valid work. And I am a feminist and I have quite a few friends that are sex workers. In fact, my best friend in the entire world my maid of honor was a sex worker for sometime however, another really good friend of mine was also a sex worker engaged in legalized prostitution in Nevada and she was still murdered two months ago by her last John that night. I think grown consenting adults should be free to do whatever they please as long as it does not in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 06:29 PM
6	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? Exactly! That’s honestly how it’s done. Everything else is BS tactics like you’re trying to win a game or capture a prey. Let shit happen organically But it won’t happen sitting in your house alone online or playing video games ALL DAY EVERY DAY there’s free time. (Nothing wrong with video games or spending time online but you do you have to go out and about at least every once in a while or you’ll never gonna meet somebody because nobody’s just gonna walk into your front door and be your Perfec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 07:53 PM
5	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? There is no age limit for losing your virginity. I lost mine when I was 15 my husband lost his when he was in his mid-20s everybody’s different a lot of people wait for marriage. Just because you might be a virgin still at the age of 30 does not mean that there’s anything wrong with you, and it does not mean that you are behind and it does not mean that you’re too old to you I still have not experienced sex. Everybody does their milestones and their own times when it’s right and what are the ben…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 01:09 PM
14	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? Well, if all you’re interested in is casual sex, then you’re correct. Most swim are not gonna be that interested unless there’s some sort of pseudo-commitment like a friends with benefits situation where there’s rules and boundaries and an established agreement. However, there are plenty of women out there who are not only down for casual sex, but actively seek it out and that’s what they’re looking for. It’s just a numbers game and honestly you catch more fish when you cast a wider net. You can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 08:03 AM
7	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? There are lots of women who don’t mind virgins. When I was a senior in HS for my guy friends 18th bday present I took his virginity. Even though I wasn’t a virgin myself, and we were more friends than romantic it was still something he wanted and appreciated and I liked him he was my friend and I didn’t mind. I wanted to give him that experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 07:37 AM
49	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? Especially women who are already in commitment monogamous relationships… like I wing man for my guy friends and talk them up to my single friends and sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. Recently I wingmanned for my husband’s best man at our wedding in September and now he’s engaged to my hottest bridesmaid. What more can we realistically do?’	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 04:21 AM
1	Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness? My husband has an amazing personality, it’s one of the main reasons I fell in love with him. But goddamn he is so sexy too. I fell in lust with him the first moment I saw him. I fell in love once I got to know him. I definitely don’t feel I settled if anything I think he’s out of MY league.(although he disagrees lol). We started having sex because he was hot, now I am WITH him with him mainly because his personality. Physical attractiveness will only get you so far in dating imo. If you want mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 01:43 AM
1	Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage? Idk I just got married after dating 9 years and our sex life improved	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 12:38 AM
2	What would equity in dating look like? Exactly I asked out the man who is going to be my husband in three days. My two previous boyfriends I approached them first too. All my girlfriends hit on dudes all the time. Girls picking up guys, asking them out on dates, trying to pick them up at bars for sex, etc. has been a thing forever. Just because you haven’t been asked out by a girl doesn’t mean that girls don’t ask guys out. There are plenty of women who have never been asked out by a man before but that doesn’t mean they assume that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 10:06 AM
7	For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men. Pregaming while getting ready together with my girlfriends before going out together is honestly one of the best parts of the night. Like if we are t going to get ready together then ride to the bar/party/game/whatever together then why are we even going out at all?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 07:28 PM
3	Single motherhood partially responsible for the resentment towards women No, Freudian psychology has been largely discredited	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/19 02:22 PM
5	Single motherhood partially responsible for the resentment towards women The Oedipal Archetype has an entire another focus portion to it than just the sexualizing of the mother. The full “tag line” definition for the Oedipal Complex goes “You want yo murder your father and marry your mother” so in this stage of Freud’s psychosexual development theory is that the male child will start favoring the mother/seek more attention from the mother while simultaneously becoming more aggressive toward their fathers, and shifting toward seeing them as your competitor for Mom’s a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/19 01:05 PM
7	Passionately Kissing > Sex when it comes to assessing a woman’s raw sexual desire. Okay. So there’s lots of reasons why I might physically want my partner but I don’t want to/can’t have sex right that moment right then and there. Like say I’m on my period, I’ll still myself sexually desiring him and what not but not want to go further than making out/heavy petting because while my boyfriend doesn’t care about having sex with me if I’m on my period, I myself don’t want to deal with the logistics of sex on my period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/19 09:45 PM
3	Am I missing something? Is being a goldigger now the norm rather than the exception? Yeah I’m perplexed as well. I’m a 26yo female and literally all I’ve ever wanted out of a romantic partnership is a loving relationship. Money, social status, wealth were never apart of my idealism’s in what qualities I wanted in a spouse. I want someone to be my family, not my income/status symbol. Wtf y’all. Maybe it’s because I grew up with two loving parents who loved and still love each other and my parents are still married and therefore I’ve always had my family home life model what a hea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 11:18 PM
5	Older people of this sub, has dating always been this way or have you noticed any changes recently? Also now that I think of it; the musical Grease takes place in the 1950s as well and it’s riddled with inappropriate references to underaged teenaged sex. The character Rizzo has a pregnancy scare with Kinnicky (sp?) who she has a casual sexual relationship with but they aren’t “going steady” aka in an exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship; she even tells him that the ‘mistake’ was some other guys when he approached her about it. Marty Maraschino has multiple boyfriends she writes to who a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/18 06:05 AM
1	Older people of this sub, has dating always been this way or have you noticed any changes recently? Tbh I think fear of dealing with dating in the modern era keeps lots of people from breaking up and have considered a post on this subject Thankfully this isn’t what seriously keeps us together presently. We are still very much in love with each-other and we therefore continue to plan our futures for the foreseeable and unforseeable together. That being said; I’d be a liar if I said the prospect of “getting back out there again” in the dating world as a single 20-something woman primarily on pla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/18 05:15 AM
4	Older people of this sub, has dating always been this way or have you noticed any changes recently? Hey I’m a 26y/o female here! I met my boyfriend of five years(and counting!) at a bar on my 21st birthday! He also is/was a musician and he was playing a set at the bar I was at and during his break came down and said hello introduced himself and then bought me a drink. Granted we didn’t officially begin dating until like 9 months later; however you better believe that meeting him that first night definitely encouraged me to continue to go to that particular bar from then on out so that I might …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/18 02:52 AM
5	Older people of this sub, has dating always been this way or have you noticed any changes recently? On one hand, the impression I got from my own hippy generation boomer parents is that casual sex, free love was a way more common thing then, and "statistics" seem to back that up as well. Yeah anecdotally I’ve been rewatching old M•A•S•H reruns on Hulu lately and one thing I picked up on that went over my head before (because I was a kid the first time I watched the reruns on syndicated cable) was that Major “Hotlips” Houlihan (For those who aren’t familiar was a female Army Officer) slept with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/18 02:43 AM
4	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. Okay so you’re assuming that having to have an abortion isn’t one of those consequences which she is now having to be responsible to obtain a costly medical procedure that has very serious long time physical and psychological side effects. That’s not getting to benefit from getting to engage carelessly in risky sex and also getting escape any responsibility of consequences... that is her facing one of many potential consequences both she and the partner signed up for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 06:46 PM
3	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. Listen people(both men and women) can have irresponsible sex now, and run the risks of being responsible for any resulting consequences; or you can have responsible sex and therefore avoid the risk of the unwanted resulting consequence existing entirely. But you can’t choose to knowingly and intentionally participate in irresponsible sex and also get immunity from having personal responsibility to any potential consequences that may result from your irresponsible actions causing it it occur in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 06:05 PM
8	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. Same! On the flip side, I have absolutely stopped mid hook up and put my clothes back on and refused sex even though I was the initiator and super horny because the dude didn’t have a condom and im not willing to risk ruining the entire fucking rest of my life over a single orgasm that apparently couldn’t wait until a different time when a condom is available.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 04:53 PM
4	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. Uhhh yeah even if I’m on birth control, I still would make a sex partner wear a condom because I’m also not trying to run the risk of contracting any kind of disease. And even when in LTR where there’s been trust built and disease risk is mitigated by monogamy preventing std exposure... I still never, ever, have let my partner finish inside of me. Like, it flabbergasts me that people can be at all surprised when they end up with an unplanned unintentional pregnancy and it’s like well why are you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 04:45 PM
8	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. if you can't feed your kid the're given up for adoption on the grounds of neglect. Problem solved. Then that the kid gets put into foster care which means your taxes still end up supporting this child anyway soooo the problem hasn’t been solved it’s just been shifted and repackaged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 04:15 PM
6	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. Lol I’m a nanny to a 3 year old girl who was conceived while on the IUD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 04:05 PM
4	Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV. Birth control is the only treatment (besides surgical sterilization which is a major invasive surgery) for endometriosis; a condition which the symptoms are often so severe that medication treatment is necessary for managing the condition and providing symptom relief in sufferers. This disease is completely manageable when treated but when left untreated can be a life debilitating disease that prevents them from the ability to function in every day life making them unable to attend class or work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/18 01:48 PM
1	Off Topic Thread: What's something that seems obvious in your profession, but the general public misunderstands? (24 November 2018) Yep! My dad was a naval nuclear engineer. He even taught at the Naval Nuclear Power School for a few years. He also was chief nuclear engineer on a few nuclear submarines and was in charge of operating and maintaining the reactors that power them. few months back we were discussing nuclear power and he was telling me how these reactors actually work in order to generate energy, and he also broke down the same reasons that caused those same notorious fall outs! Apparently nuclear power is a lot l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/18 10:44 PM
1	It's not men pushing the stay at home mom, it's women That's not splitting the load at all that's your husband not wanting to do chores or have to have any responsibilities in the home/parenting. also how is you bringing up the idea of you returning to work and him saying that isn't what he wants to do and so you don't joint decision making? I truly apologize if this sounds rude or straight forward but unless that's just a wasaaay over simplified way you exampled and I'm missing something that just honestly doesn't sound like a group decision it so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/18 11:49 PM