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| 13 | Which group are the real winners: Men who have sex, or men who have children? | Debate | SkeletonMagi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Dat Ass | Discussion | SkeletonMagi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Retro pill-theory for one of my earlier dates | Discussion | SkeletonMagi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:42 AM |
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| 2 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV men6 months hiatus after rejection? Took me 10 years getting over being rejected by girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Build your perfect partner with the following attributes and limited points.I dump all my points into tits!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Straight men, when is it OK for gay men to cold approach you?Whenever my dick is hanging out for them to see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:23 PM |
| 6 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?If the man is high enough value, top 1% at everything in life, she will want sex and his kids, and will even take his sexually transmitted infections with the deal, and also share him with other women. The men that have to trade their resources like marriage for sex and kids are not huge value superstar men. They are beta males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?Why do women open up their hearts and vaginas for criminals and the unemployed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is it a bad deal?Because a man doesn’t need anything more than a woman’s body. You are like a used car salesman trying to up sell me from sex with you to marriage with you. I never wanted marriage with you, only sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 58 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?It’s one of the only male problems women never feel - paternity fraud. Maternity fraud, where the mother doesn’t know if it’s her kid, is kind of a thing because my wife was crazy about making sure our newborn had sharpie on its heel so no one could swap the baby. I believe all men should DNA test kids they are potentially the father of. Women can bitch if they want, but I promise that same woman did research on the man online to try and fact check what the man says is true about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Do women need to have a hoe phaseI’m a guy and I’ve turned down more sex than I have accepted. I think casual sex is idiotic and dangerous. For a guy a single sperm cell in the wrong girl and ruin your life. There is no signature for the father on the abortion order. The girl can travel to another state where the laws are different. Anyway, have your ‘hoe phase’, I have no STIs and never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Do men in general envy women?I used to, because I was a virgin and women get all the sex they want. But then I learned bad sex isn’t even worth having. Women want resources not sex, so sex isn’t even valuable to them. It’s like I could have all the carrot cake I can eat, which I can because I have a job, but it’s not healthy and not even good unless I specifically crave it. Finally, women are terrified of every unknown man and being cornered in places. They lock doors and always look over their shoulders even though it woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Men dont have much to offer in datingVibrator tech must be as advanced as porn these days. Maybe men and women don’t need each other for sex at all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Do Type A women with dominant personality types with high earning potential gravitate towards less dominant men?I think you are right. My wife is a doctor and I just have a masters degree. She earns somewhere around 4 times my salary. I am introverted and computer programmer whereas she is extroverted people person that can wrangle a whole crowd to do her bidding. She is obviously louder and declares day to day and week to week and vacations and hotels and rental cars. But she does say she needs my consent on big stuff, purchases over $5k, and in particular the direction of our lives with regards to where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:31 AM |
| 26 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.Women are quick to fire the divorce gun when they feel resources aren’t coming in for them. Women absolutely don’t want to be the breadwinner and support a husband that is “between jobs” or “taking some time to decompress” or “taking a sabbatical to find himself” even though wives say that kind of garbage all the time to justify not working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doMuscle is denser than fat. Usually when someone weighs more than you think they do, it’s because of hidden muscle, usually in their legs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 01:11 PM |
| 11 | I don’t see anything wrong with pumping and dumping a womanPorn gives me all the pretty, horny make-believe women I could desire… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?Yeah, about a year later I was in college, I guess she was too. She showed up at my workplace of my summer job, started a conversation, she seemed to establish pretty quickly I was single and she was single because we weren’t with our high school sweethearts anymore. I just left her hanging, I had work to do! I was going back to college at the end of the summer and hell no did I want a girlfriend still back home, not even a hot one. I wanted fewer and fewer reasons to go anywhere near dad. I als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 10:30 PM |
| 8 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?There was one beautiful girl in my high school that ripped ugly guys a new asshole turning down their advances, and justified it to her friend group it’s the right way to go about it. I secretly hoped one day a beautiful man turns her down just as harshly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menIf a guy wants to be great a violin, he has to get one, practice a ton, learn everything possible. Going 24/7 at the violin makes him the best violin player he can be. But going 24/7 at a girl is not the right way to get that girl? Why not? It is not obvious to anti-social men that violin playing and girlfriend acquisition aren’t similar endeavors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menPart of a man’s journey to better himself is to break the thought that women are perfect creatures worthy of all men’s time, money, and effort. I used to think this and spent all my time, money, and effort chasing singular women. I would think “THIS one will love me for who I am, unlike the others. She is special.” I had to realize she is not special. All women have vaginas. They all can suck a cock. They say one thing in public then do completely opposite in private. They tell men to chase and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?People sweep daily? Are they witches with too many brooms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?I think OF is an avenue vastly more open to average women than average men. Men want sex more than women want sex. Women want resources and fame more than men want it. Lots of the time, men want resources simply to increase the quality and quantity of pussy they can access. However, it’s possible that we’ll see OF be reputation destruction that men use against women, when normally social media is a vehicle where women destroy men’s reputation. The sad reality is realizing how many beta simp cuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that women's clothing has gotten more and more revealing and sexualized as society got more and more progressive?Women compete with each other for male attention, validation, and ultimately for mates, sperm, and relationships. Women now also competes with women and men for jobs. Increasingly sexualized women are them upping their game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How are there so many successful men who continue to struggle?Successful people are often too busy to date. They are picky about who they spend time with. Also, young men in tech may make good money but they are still beta males with unattractive bodies that never learned or never will approach females, so they get ignored or fleeced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?The good: 31yo with a body like Marky Mark, except I am taller. Just over $100k annual income at a fun job. Blue eyes blonde hair genetically. My parents are still together and do not need financial assistance from me. I never drink smoke or so drugs and have never cheated on a girlfriend. The bad: Virgin, balding, stained teeth, 10 year dry spell, Asperger’s syndrome, introvert, plays video games and jerks off to porn to relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Women have very high standards for romantic interaction but very low standards on treatment while in the relationshipTry $2000 a week, and yes now I treat her waaay worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 29 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?Men can’t possibly know if you’ve “clearly avoided looking” at them. You are deranged if you think this is an adequate “Stop” sign you’ve erected that’s both inaudible and invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Most men ignore the women they claim to wantAlimony and child support are a thing. For the men that want to be fathers, seeing their kids is all that matters, and the stay-at-home mom will win full custody, and winning full custody basically wins the house as well. Yes, they will never have a better male in their life because now they are older with some other man’s kids, I will concede that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Assholes and Hypergamy: Women prefer assholes and create their dating problemsI think what happens is the top 1% women (say young Sandra Bullock, Halle Berry) get hit on constantly by lower status men. These 1% women will only be happy with top 1% men, but these 1% men are either taken or enjoying multiple women. Even Sandra Bullock and Halle Berry get cheated on because the sexual opportunities for top 1% men are irresistible. Tiger Woods had over 100 mistresses but his wife stayed. This sub thinks women are ‘ok’ with it, they stop being ‘ok’ with it when it goes public.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Men settle- women do notWomen arguing sex after marriage like to say “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Men refusing to wife a high n count 30+yo female can say “Why do I have to buy the spoiled milk when you gave it away for free the last ten years while it was still fresh?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:49 AM |
| 0 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereIf a man can correctly identify himself being in the bottom 49% of males, the best thing he can do is completely ditch women. He is losing nothing because he wasn’t getting laid and women can no longer fleece his betabux on a weekly/daily basis. Dating, chasing pussy, whatever it’s called is expensive in money and time, but if he poured 5 years of that as investment in himself, he’d rocket up above a huge proportion of the betabux that wasted the same 5 years on dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you care less if you're cheated on by a woman with another woman?It’s a dump. The only difference is I can’t possibly suffer embarrassment of another man’s child popping out of her during a timeline that might imply I am the father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?This dame gets it. Screening loser males is a hard job, use shortcuts where you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateI always assume “I want a taller than average man” is code for “I want a bigger than average penis”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexThe other men in this sub need to realize it’s net negative to bang a parade of women who are 2’s and 3’s just to “up your notch count” to brag to other men. There are massive downsides for interacting with low-quality women like lifelong STIs, baby-traps, and opportunity cost of say a singular quality 8+ woman who is potentially wife material. Quality women aren’t at bars or clubs more than once a year. You’re not accomplishing any great feat by banging a new drunk chick every Friday just becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBI went to the gym 2 hours a day but my future wife went about one hour per week to yoga. I think women underestimate the effort required for male physical fitness at each 1% above say 90%. It requires dedication, food control, LOTS of sleep, injury, and forgoing fun stuff like alcohol and social outings that overlap your gym schedule. Just two months of sloth can wipe out a year of progress, at least for me since I’m mesomorphic. Women look at ads or trending social media posts where only the to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 0 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?Good teeth indicate good wealth. A man with straight, pretty teeth means his parents could afford braces when he was a kid, increasing the chance of generational wealth flowing into his kids. My wife says this is how she screens poor men at a glance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableI haven’t had a bad relationship. I’ve had very, very few of what a woman would call a relationship. But no “bad” ones. One of them I guess got bitter and started parading other men to me at my workplace. But I was told by her best friend of a “change” from our breakup. After about 3 guys she must have gotten over it or too busy to care about me anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadTheir genes carry on, and their children (and children’s children etc) have the potential to fulfill whatever “winner” criteria are en vogue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | When can you say “I love you” in a relationship? Who should say it first?Upon full insertion of my penis into her vagina. It’s best done with “I…” while aiming, “love…”, during the first thrust, “you…” as my pulsing cock lingers inside as she goes wide-eyed with the enormity of her raw feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 01:38 AM |
| 3 | What's the best piece of dating advice given to you (that worked) and did it come from a man or woman?I feebly tried to flirt with her, she put up the “I have a boyfriend” barrier so I admitted defeat and asked how should I go about succeeding at this endeavor in the future. It’s more like I lost 30lbs of fat and gained 25lbs of muscle. The girls started hitting on me instead of me having to hit on them. So I guess I started dating like a girl does - look good, let them come to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 04:31 PM |
| 14 | What's the best piece of dating advice given to you (that worked) and did it come from a man or woman?I a male virgin at 29 sat next to a pretty girl on a plane and asked her dating advice. She said “lose weight” so I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex.Men - get a sex fembot with the appearance you specify. Women - get a relationship manbot that will listen to your endless drivel and physically murder the low value men that attempt to bang you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?I wouldn’t say so. There are probably a LOT of incel/MGTOW men, given the statistic that 30% of men age 20-30 have had zero sex in the last year. Add in all the money flowing from beta males to female content creators on sites like OnlyFans and we can conclude unslaked male thirst is an abundant resource. We are talking about potentially 300 million men on planet Earth who are not sexually satisfied, getting zero sex. I absolutely promise you that getting rejected with no pussy for years takes i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?I think I was pretty normal low value male ten years ago at age 30, when I treated any and all dating advice from men who weren’t as gospel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:22 PM |
| 7 | Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities?My brother married a single mother of 2 because he wanted kids, but over time she siphoned off assets for herself and her kids then refused to have a kid with him. So he got divorce-raped. Single mothers could simply want more assets and not more kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?MGTOW is about NOT finding/pursuing women. I suppose the end goal is buy a cabin in the woods, and everyday cut down a tree, catch and stew a rabbit on a campfire, then fall asleep looking up at the stars. Repeat until dead. In reality MGTOW go to a boring job then play video games, eat junk food, then masturbate to porn then fall asleep in one-room studio apartment. Repeat until dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?It was pretty crazy when I stumbled in there initially. I get “Don’t get screwed by men” as a subreddit mantra, but it spilled over into “Screw men over first!” also reminded me that being married is better than dating. Dating sucks such ass, everyone does it since the dawn of our species we haven’t figured it out, yet we can split atoms and walk on the moon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?Um, I was a male virgin until 31, got married to a female, and had my children via an embryologist. Unless masturbation counts as sex, which I don’t think it does, something else than sex surely counts in my case. But you’re right that I’m not childfree. I think the men with a mentality of working hard, achieving, and prioritizing a monogamous relationship over wanton sex will overlap precisely with men that want kids to pass on their legacy/wealth/genetics. I’m guessing you’re not into broke gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadReproducing is one of the very few things humans must do. Every one of our ancestors passed the rigor of mate selection and succeeded. 80% of females reproduce, 40% of males reproduce. I challenge you to name someone in your family tree that produced no offspring from 100 years ago. One of the “dead leaves”. You don’t really need to know who they are because their contributions to you (and to the world) have been crushed into dust over time, unlike DNA that replicates and survives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:19 AM |
| 2 | The Wall Mega-ThreadI personally think childfree men are losers. I feel it’s a fact that all of our ancestors were winners that led to us, and all of the “non-ancestors” are dead leaves of the genetic tree. Women can choose to be with a childfree/loser man if she wants but 100 years onward from now they won’t matter or be remembered except someone specifically finding dead leaves of their genealogy. Divorced and widowed men are good bets, they passed at least one female’s tests for marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadI admit that my wife was mostly a means for having children. When I hit 30, I had an excess of time and money. I thought if I ever wanted a legacy of any kind I needed children and that door was closing since I am more attractive at 30 for fatherhood than I would be at 40+. I researched donor eggs and surrogacy, guess it’s not nearly as easy for a single male going to an “egg bank” as it is a single female going to the sperm bank. I admit the kid thing was backburner all the way though my 20s an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4All how do you define virginity?“Virginity” means a penis has not entered her vagina, not even one inch. “Mouth virginity” means she hasn’t given a blowjob. “Anal virginity” means no penis has entered her asshole. Lesbian stuff is ok, including strapons. None of those can get her pregnant. Ideally she doesn’t know the taste of sperm, so she’ll have nothing better to compare when she tastes mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | The Wall Mega-ThreadA 40yo woman will be lucky to have even one healthy baby, and often only after stumbling over hurdles at the fertility clinic. A man who wants say 3 kids simply can’t marry a 35yo woman and expect her to physically deliver his 3 kids. So the handful of men with wealth that also want a large family must marry a vibrant, healthy, BMI 18-28, fertile woman that has the years ahead to produce the heirs to his kingdom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 05:06 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone actually talk about *having sex* on this Sub?Usually the girl can’t make sensations in my penis as good as my hand can. Only twice has vaginal intercourse resulted in me cumming. Even if she’s hot, she’s not pornstar hot, and if I’m in an Asian mood or whatever. However, I can cum to porn in say 3min if I’m in a hurry. I can also stroke for an hour if I’m not in a hurry. I can cum 5 times in a day to porn, and only once per day to a girl. Girls want me to cum, they think the sex sucks or they aren’t pretty if I plow them hard for 20min and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone actually talk about *having sex* on this Sub?I am addicted to porn. Honestly physical sex with a woman is worse. There are so many hoops to jump through, and she isn’t as hot as a pornstar where I can essentially choose the race, face, dimensions, and sexual act. If I’m not ready to finish I just hit replay. I’m also getting older and fatter and just admitted defeat that other hotter guys get all the pussy and I get none, even if I were to try. So min-maxing my physical sexual abilities would be like practicing snorkeling when I could be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | what’s the appeal in dating a woman with no experience?If they are an incel virgin who wants to experience sex before they die, marriage could be their only Hail Mary pass to potentially unlimited sex with one female. Escort/prostitutes charge by the hour and it’s much higher than the average man’s salary, and possibly a nogo if the male fails a screening test. So a below average man (I’m talking 49% of men which is a lot of people) is paying for sex in some fashion, whether it’s $ or commitment (which includes $). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | what’s the appeal in dating a woman with no experience?The fear of a man marrying a triple digit body count woman is she will have had a better cock, better kisser, better BDSM, and likely better everything than him before, and she will eventually become bitter at some or all of it. But the real kicker is those 100 previous men got the younger sexual female without having to marry her. The married man is presumably sacrificing his sexual strategy of unlimited sexual access to unlimited women for exactly one woman who has already put a hundred other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?It’s not much different from women chasing make-believe Chad, who is richer and prettier than you, has girls all over him but still he gives you all his commitment and never cheats on you, because “you’re you”. Women get to have their Twilight and Fifty Shades fantasy movies where a nearly useless female gets infinite romance from the highest value male on the planet. Men get porn where they infinite sex from hot, extremely willing females who require no resources from the male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?That is Monk Mode, an extreme version of MGTOW, which says to not marry, not cohabitat, and not be in a long-term relationship with any woman for any reason. Short term relationship, sex, and hookups are on the table but never in exchange for commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?You underestimate the male sex drive. I went to the gym for 2 hours a day for 2 years straight just for the possibility to lose my virginity with one night of sex. Men do tons of things just to maybe get rewarded with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:22 PM |
| 3 | If you and a girl sleep together on the first date, do you become uninterested in her?Why would I think poorly about a woman that I get to bang? Would you think poorly of a man who, on the first date, puts his credit card in your purse for you to use as you see fit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:12 AM |
| 5 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersWell, I know a girl who got pregnant from a one-night stand with a condom. The condom slipped off inside so she got an abortion. I also know a man who had sex the very first time and got a girl pregnant with his cherry pop. I don’t know anyone with an STI. I am not good enough friends with anyone that they’d share that. My roommate that I’ve known for 5 years I suspect is an incel so I don’t ask because as a virgin I know it’s like a dagger in the heart never getting laid. Since women can get in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 06:35 AM |
| 3 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersHence why I was still a virgin at 30, but disease free! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Women here, what ways do you show interest?One time girl I had just met asked me to take my shirt off. In public, at a restaurant, with other men present at the table. I had been working out for a year so this was a surprised because I was not used to this kind of request. It caught me very off guard and I didn’t know how to respond. I just changed the subject and walked away after the meal. I was traveling and would never see these people again. I didn’t know until years later reading red pill content that women actually want casual sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 11:27 PM |
| 0 | If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual?No. I have a biological desire to sire offspring, and thrusting my erection into a vagina satisfies that urge. I believe the men who successfully procreate are winners and the men who don’t are losers. Sticking my dong in a man’s butt is kind of the opposite of passing on my genes to future generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down?When I was dating to find a monogamous wife because I wanted kids, I was technically n = 0. I went on a date with a girl who claimed n = 0. It was probably true based on all the filters she had in place to even get a first date out of her. She had a “why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?” attitude and actually said that quote when I asked her about premarital sex. I was fairly certain this girl wasn’t going to have sex without marriage first. However, she was simply not hot enough to j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down?My new metrics for sexual partners: * Unicorn - no digit * Virgin - single digit * Normal - double digits * Slut - triple digits * Pornstar - quadruple digits I would never consider an LTR or marriage to a slut or higher. She’s just likely damaged and my dong won’t compete. I ask n count on a date usually by revealing my very, very low n count first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:50 AM |
| 0 | If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action?There’s a Netflix special “Our Father” documenting a fertility doctor that swapped in his own sperm for decades. His over 100 children and counting are still discovering each other on genetic testing apps like 23 and me. He is one of the most successful humans of all time. He didn’t commit any crimes because the females were willing and there was no fraud law about sperm swapping. In fact, over 100 women did in fact get pregnant and have kids which were theirs, and I imagine the women where over… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | TRP behavior and modern women behavior are mirror images of each otherI actually don’t mind when Sex in the City or Twilight or Fifty Shades of Gray are female emotion porn. I get to watch the male fantasy of my choice of female performing my choice of sex act often for free with ads. We as men get to see what women actually fantasize over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when youngYes, wealth can be inherited. He would need wealthy parents, be on good terms with them, and also YOU would need to be on good terms with these wealthy in-laws. Then the wealth is also shared with his siblings, maybe a charity or good cause. If you are the stepmom then it’s possible the inheritance skips you and goes to the grandchildren, which is fine and happened in my family. There’s some social requirements for this windfall. If they are smart they have a trust, if they are dumb they get hit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 08:03 AM |
| 11 | So Many Men Leave Their "Starter Wife" After SuccessMarried men are more attractive to women than single men. It’s pre-selection. The married man has passed the tests of at least one women. The single man is possibly a leper. My wife has expressed visceral distaste for a friend of ours who is getting old and has never married. She just thinks there must be something inherently wrong with him, perhaps social ineptitude, zero confidence, crippling debt or credit rating that’s being hidden, or a micro-penis. Whatever it is, he is likely still a virg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when youngThat’s not how marriage works in a community property state (like California). Any wealth your husband builds is also yours, it’s not 50/50, it’s 100% his and 100% yours. He can spend and/or you can spend for any reason and it’s all justified in a courtroom. Also true for wealth you build. The exception is if you both go through rigamarole of premarital assets never co-mingling. Which is a chore. And if you were to say host a party for his potential business clients and anyone talked shop at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Women live in 'post nut clarity' due to being the less horny gender. This is one of the main drivers of female pickiness.So like, Chris Hemsworth walking up to you and offering $100 million if you’ll have his baby? sploosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Women live in 'post nut clarity' due to being the less horny gender. This is one of the main drivers of female pickiness.I don’t know, lesbo porn is pretty hot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 12:57 AM |
| 4 | What do women think of muscles on men and which is body type preferred?Look to what male models are in women’s magazines or romantic interests in rom coms. You should target that. I don’t know who gets cast in those roles but perhaps Idris Elba. Compare to the male models in men’s magazines or promoting men’s products. These men are roided veiny huge muscles because that’s an ideal the male reader aspires to. Similarly, the female models in magazines and modeling clothes for women are very skinny, an ideal that the female reader would want to reach. If women want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameThat regret happens later in life for everyone. Women regret having the extraneous sexual encounters. Men regret not having the extraneous sexual encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedMitochondrial DNA is how to distinguish between men and women contributing to the gene pool. https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/through-history-more-women-have-reproduced-men-180952840/ Yes, women do other things. But most of them want at least one kid, and in my experience many women are blind to this or don’t think or plan far enough ahead, say 10 or so years into the future. They just let life happen to them and are ruled by emotions in the moment. I actually do think it’s my place to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedWell I saw somewhere that 80% of women reproduce and 40% of men reproduce. So women are roughly twice as successful or get “baby rabies” or what-have-you. So yes most women want kids, or the gender reproductive success rate would be the other way around. And a significant portion of the 20% of women that fail to reproduce REALLY wanted kids and tried and failed due to infertility barriers. There’s happiness tests where the saddest people on the planet are older women who wanted kids and failed t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThe girl I knocked up got an abortion, and there is no line on the document for the father’s/Vick’s signature. If there’s no paper at all, it’s the same for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedSorry kids interruption Jordan Peterson says women eventually hit an age where having children becomes their primary goal in life. Even partner, VP-level executive women who are part of his private practice. It is rare for a woman to simply not want kids at all, and it truly being the best choice for her lifelong fulfillment. I mean someone has to want kids, they are a huge financial strain, time sink, and opportunity cost. It makes sense that women get baby rabies moreso than men. The questiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedJordan B Peterson, god’s second son, says it’s common when a loose 💩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedHe is putting his dick into 25yo pussy for decades. He is doing what all men have wet dreams about. “Frequently being bashed” doesn’t mean all men wouldn’t do it given the chance. DiCaprio has a case for being the most desirable male ever, as far as raw number of vaginas being rubbed while thinking of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get married“Looked down upon” just means the man isn’t high enough value. Jeff Goldblum pulls 30 years down, Leo DiCaprio 23 years down. All men would be banging exclusively 21-24yo models if they could. But only rich famous gorgeous men can do that. Anyway, what men want/would do and what they settle for in reality is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:44 AM |
| 4 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedIt cut it off for me. She was hot and into me. On our first date I found out she had a kid so all she got was a hug from me and a ghost. I won’t pour my resources into someone’s else genes. I’m not a cuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedBaby rabies The “single mom” plan is to get knocked up by any man with superior genes OR a man wealthy enough to afford child support. The “married woman” plan is marriage and you get that man’s genes, $, and possible his time/effort into your kids. It’s just women securing resources, and 30 is when men cut off the age on dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 4 | The experience of being a woman online.I went to the gym for more than 1 hour a day for 2 years before girls started giving me compliments, DMs, and they would insert sexual comments with smile or giggle during conversation. That is a lot of working out, and I got to the 35DM I would say across all my dating apps and social media. I absolutely didn’t get to over 50. I am guessing that men who are lead singers, actors, and such must be completely flooded with all the female validation. I had to become the most physically fit male in m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?But men don’t want attention, they want sex. Case in point, gloryholes are a construct where men can get sex without attention. If gloryholes were as commonplace as Uber rides then men would be much happier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?All an average guy has to do is tag along with an alpha male and see how women treat him. Women throw their literal bodies at a traditional handsome masculine tall man. He can fuck one then the other and they are ok with it. “obviously” girls would say, but it goes a step further. Women will actively step on and belittle the ugly men. I have seen my wife burst out ridicule at social media video posts made by an ugly man. The man is clearly advertising himself as single though he is also bald, sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Curious - how do RP/etc theories perceive lgbt relationships?Not many are remembered 100 years from now. Maybe 10%, closer to 1%. Also, it’s not “the norm” for a man to father children. Only 40% of men pass on their genes, perhaps less depending on how much paternity fraud is happening. The average man actually fails to reproduce, and eventually time will erode his existence to irrelevancy. It is the norm for a woman to have children, 80% or so do. Children can produce more children and so on, thusly the fathers and mothers of humanity automatically matte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Curious - how do RP/etc theories perceive lgbt relationships?I don’t think about gay relationships, trans people, childfree, or infertile people either. People who electively remove themselves from the gene pool are simply not going to matter 100 years from now. Anything and everything they did will be ground to dust or become irrelevant. I personally don’t think about, read about, or emulate mundane people from 100 years ago. The only mundane people that mattered to my existence are those in my family tree. Now carry that out to 200, 300, etc years. Peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 04:49 PM |
| 6 | Don’t you want to be that guy?The problem is that most men are “average” on the bell curve of humans yet will give “average” women a chance because we just want sex that much. Average women however want nothing to do with average men. The man has to be taller, braver (to do the approaching), richer, more famous, more intelligent, better educated, more traveled, etc than she is. If the guy is better than her in every way then she is interested. Men definitionally are settling due to female hypergamy. It is not fair. Women tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights?Shouldn’t it be more like: a man has the burden of being attractive enough for a woman to have sex with him; a woman has the burden of being attractive enough for a man to spend his money on her. Anyway, I will say that I personally had an abortion document in my hands expecting I had to sign it but to my extreme surprise there is no place for me to sign. As the father of the child my opinion didn’t matter. A man no longer has any sway over his woman or any means to correct her bad behavior. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?Yes, procreation. I owe it to my future kids to at least give their mother a chance. And I’m convinced that men who have kids are winners while men who fail to procreate are losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What is some good advice/tips for an inexperienced guy looking to date/have his first relationship?Whatever works. I too got into incredible shape so girls just didn’t really pry on dates. As I was walking around with muscles and abs, I think girls just assumed I was getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What is some good advice/tips for an inexperienced guy looking to date/have his first relationship?I agree. I think storytelling is a big deal and the best ones have a hint of truth but the right amount of embellishment. I might be fortunate enough to have had a girlfriend in high school. After my college dry spell I could mostly exaggerate and rearrange no problem my past love life making it seem more amazing than it was without lying or getting caught. For example, in reality I got to 3rd base with one girl a long time ago. On a date with a new girl, if she presses for info I could speak ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | High earners of PPD.My wife makes triple what I make. I do the dishes and garbage while she does laundry, mostly because I will do the laundry “wrong” if I do it. The main downside of being a lower earner husband is I don’t get laid. Every once in a while if my wife has a bad loss day at work she will get a little horny knowing I at least made some money anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 09:06 PM |
| 3 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.I had abs and big muscles at 30 because I worked out for 2 years straight, had no debt and a good job with medical with paid travel. I absolutely gave my wife my best body, though she was far from her best at 30 having gained weight from stress for her doctorate. I am pretty flabbergasted by pictures of how much hotter she was when she was younger. But I don’t harbor ill will like this OP implies. We both wanted kids so that’s why we married. I wasn’t pursuing the hottest sex ever, seems like an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Terrified about this, want to discuss, CC woman are a nightmare for the future.I don’t have a copy paste ready, indeed I type it out. I think you underestimate Chad’s success with females | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Terrified about this, want to discuss, CC woman are a nightmare for the future.I talked to a couple Chads and they simply live in an entirely different universe when it comes to women. One said he had lost count of all the women he’s slept with - he was lean with a great face/hair like young Adrien Brody. I’m his same age and my count was zero. Another was more of a tall muscly Vanilla Ice-looking guy. I was talking to him in the computer lab about a shared school assignment and a girl two monitors down who had never met us before just constantly interrupted us flirting wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Disgust toward average men who see sex-workers has more to do with their social status than genuine morality concernsThere are multiple a-list female actresses publicly declaring they would bang Leo DiCaprio, I think Anne Hathaway and Selena Gomez said as much on talk shows on their 18th birthday no less. It’s possible Leo is the most desirable male of all time, far moreso than any Roman emperor or Egyptian king. On the Female Dating Strategy sub they bash him but I bet over 90% of them would fall hard for him if they were actually in his presence because he has massive fame money and genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Is It Cuckoldry If She Has Sex With Other Women?Hi, Beta Simpcuck here to shed light on this. The cuck part only cares about your biological children, your assured paternity. If your wife sleeps around with other women you can’t be made a cuck because she can’t get pregnant from that activity. Anyway, have your kids take a paternity test, and don’t tell the mother you are doing it. It’s just some cheek swabs you can do while they sleep. You must do it in secret because there are actual websites that sell fake paternity tests so women can cuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:52 AM |
| 3 | risk vs reward of marrying for menA girls income doesn’t get a guy hard like a guy’s income will get a girl wet. Guys get hard from women with beauty, youth, and pleasant demeanor, not what car she drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | risk vs reward of marrying for menYes, women are always quoting these promotions as a huge benefit men get from marriage. I think it’s more 60/40 that men that are more likely to get promoted/career-grow are exactly the kind of men women go very far out of their way to marry. Traits like being responsible, dependable, well-groomed, and conscientious will make you stand out both to employers/bosses as well as women wanting a family and household. The other thing is the father often MUST work harder and climb corporate to keep his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Would you date or marry a single mother or father?I went on a couple dates with a single mother. I barley hugged her once. Afterwards I thought “what am I doing as a childless never married male” and cut it off. I then dated increasingly better females until I wifed one, a childless never married female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?I want more sex. A lot more. Twice a day. But my wife can’t be bothered because she knows that a divorce would favor her. So she only needs to keep the relationship at 51% of the happiness divorced life would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 05:50 PM |
| 12 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?“Seeking arrangement” sugar sites/apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?I have a good relationship with my mom. She is friends with my wife and adores her grandkids. My father was the tyrannical one but he’s dead now. My mom was always the tempered one growing up. I visit once a year from a very far distance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?She’s mostly too skinny but yes I like my women thick with tits not tats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?I don’t have tattoos. I believe tattoos correlate to higher body count. They are a huge turnoff. The only time a tattoo makes sense to me is so an otherwise indistinguishable pornstar can be identified on camera. I knew plenty of girls in college and nearly all of them get a tattoo and a new piercing as a way to rebel since their parents no longer supervise them. I married a girl with zero tattoos. She also finds tattoos a turnoff. In college when she had the inevitable friends-get-tats night ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP.The fastest I’ve ever gotten into a girl’s pants is in college when I walked right up next to her as she was walking back from class with a “You’ve got a great pair of tits!” And I kept it up with “careful, perhaps there are rapists in the bushes over there…they’d come for those tits of yours.” I was actually trying to get slapped in the face, not anything more or less. On Friday, this girl found me in the cafeteria, plopped down next to me excitedly whispered her boyfriend won’t be around this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 5 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?I think women talk too much. I was weirded out to find out through casual conversation that my wife’s college girlfriends all knew details about my penis. Meanwhile, I have no idea when where or with whom my brother lost his virginity, and we lived together in the same room until age 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?At least my sex drive would be precisely satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 11:39 PM |
| 5 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?We choose the genders of our children. The way is IVF, and then PGS testing for chromosomal abnormalities. Each fertilized egg is around 1000cells and frozen at day 5 or 6. Our first batch had 6 blastocysts, but one was discarded due to trisome13 (it had a triplicate 13th chromosome and wouldn’t result in a live birth). Because it’s a genetic test, we knew we had 2 girls and 3 boys. We got to pick which one to implant. We have a healthy daughter and healthy son now. My wife wanted the daughter a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How to lower standards?Yes there are very successful men that want a big family. Once a man has millions of dollars and can buy, travel, and live pretty much anywhere, consumerism loses much of its luster. I know a guy who has millions who is married to a woman who also independently has millions. All they do is focus on their children. Children will outlive you, your millions will ultimately go to them, so these children have a LOT to learn about wealth…and how to raise the next generation, too. I remember reading so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Can a decreased interest in sex attributed to other things as lack of attraction ?Porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How to lower standards?Fat chicks have problems getting pregnant, especially after 30. My fertility clinic will not accept a surrogate unless their BMI is 18-28% and below age 35. Women outside this range is not worth the risk and rigamarole. No one talks about all the miscarriages that are happening every day, but there’s a day of the week at the hospital where they evacuate uteruses. Miscarriages are very traumatic emotionally and push out a successful birth even further. And increases the chance for permanent child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men?Date jocks, marry a nerd. Later in life in retrospect, women often regret sexual encounters whereas men often regret missing out on sexual encounters. The vast majority of men get close to zero physical compliments from women. Men can remember such a compliment from multiple years ago because it’s their most recent compliment from a woman. Big tits get all kinds of male attention, good and bad. Bigger tits on a girl is attractive the same way taller height is on a guy. Just because a guy will sl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 0 | My two dates experience as a manHow many inches are you packing in the pants? It’ll matter once you cross home plate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | He disliked women with high body counts but being a virgin was a dealbreaker?Hi, I probably have some insight. I was a 30yo virgin Male and started dating since I got natty jacked and women were giving me obvious IOI, elevator eyes such, I was probably 7.5/10, had $100k in the bank with no debt, and looking for marriage and children. I got onto 4 dating apps and my first date was another 30yo virgin female. We got 3 dates is all, I barely hugged her once, then when I texted her “I think you’re sexy” she ghosted me. Let me explain. First it was very hard to get a date wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?The bigger animal/male usually wins in a fight. It’s as simple as that. Weight classes in combat sports are a thing for a reason. It’s also a female status thing. A girl with a tall boyfriend will parade him around for other women to see/envy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:31 PM |
| 8 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?There’s a 200,000 year evolution reason that the women want protection, not just for themselves but for their village. Height/reach is a big deal in a fist fight. If the women in a tribe after 100 years collectively bred with the shortest men then another village would wipe the out eventually with superior males. So all the women who didn’t fiercely select for height fitness were killed or enslaved. The women who bred their tallest and strongest physical men would win those encounters. They were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | porn preferences in redpill tradcon men vs blue/purple pill menJerk off instructions from a solo woman pov | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | porn preferences in redpill tradcon men vs blue/purple pill menI am MGTOW and prefer joi women that are close to my age, absolutely not teens. Not saying that’s healthy but it’s what I gravitate to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 04:46 AM |
| 8 | How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date?The autistic is pretending to be neurotypical during a conversation. As if acting on stage. But in reality social cues change and this is where the autistic “looks” wrong. They laugh too little or too long at a joke. They don’t recognize it’s their turn to speak or when their turn expired. They can’t tell when someone is trying to end the conversation early. They correct factual mistakes or interject facts that no one cares to know. They don’t realize the conversation turned serious, say about c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: If you want a relationship with a woman, why do you want one? What do you want that relationship to look like?A pretty place to put my penis. Also, after a decade of MGTOW, I would love someone if they proved they found me attractive. I date like a girl, looking for quality over quantity, so my opinion isn’t valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 4 | What are the dating prospects for the bottom 20% of men?Right hand or left hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to assume if a woman smiles at you repeatedly that she to some level finds you attractive?No. Consider yourself blessed you dodged that false rape accusation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 09:49 AM |
| 29 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Cutting ties with all friendzone females is an important skill. Keep your friendzone only male. You can undress in front of male friends and compare penis lengths. You can’t with female friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:34 AM |
| 5 | The Oscars MegathreadWhat’s there to debate, Will Smith’s penis must be bigger than Chris Rock’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 2 | There is something wrong with RP mentality.Quantity sells. I feel like a bunch of red pill stuff is a ploy to men’s egos to boost their body count, so red pill sells content to that end. They never say “give all your resources to exactly one woman it’ll be best in the end” as that’s not a revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 0 | What Do Men Get Out Of Relationships Other Than Sex (And Are Relationships Really Reciprocal)?My wife provides around 500% my income. She doesn’t really cook or clean, we get take out and hire house cleaners. I am the one that mostly tends to the children, which eats up all our time. I bring my massive penis. She is a pretty place to put my penis. I bring a vigorous thrust, she brings an ecstatic exhale. It’s also important my job brings medical dental and vision insurance to the family because hers does not. My wife is a buzzer beater so she was probably scared of missing out on childre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:24 AM |
| 5 | There is something wrong with RP mentality.I believe many men start reading red pill rhetoric only after having their worldview shattered somehow - being cheated on or divorce or an incel witnessing firsthand how women treat Chad. I never knew how easy Chad had it until one answered straight “I lost count.” So there you go, two men the same age, one a virgin and the other lost count. I was the virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:59 AM |
| 3 | There is something wrong with RP mentality.Can you summarize Skippy to me, there is too much content for me to consume - is it basically the 40yo virgin movie except Steve Carrel is handsome and funny whereas Skippy isn’t? I myself was a 30yo virgin once but I didn’t post cringe talking about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 06:20 PM |
| 0 | What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship?She must have a functioning vagina. Must want children. Must not have children currently. Must want my children. Must not cheat. Must not make horrible financial decisions. I’m no cuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Which group are the real winners: Men who have sex, or men who have children?My kids weren’t created via sexual intercourse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Which group are the real winners: Men who have sex, or men who have children?He could be shooting blanks. Which is why I’m asking the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Which group are the real winners: Men who have sex, or men who have children?Adoption Surrogacy You are the godparent of a child whose parents died These are sexless ways to have children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Maybe it's a modern thing, but I always thought of relationships and sex as a product of attraction. Not something you do for the sake of it.It felt like there was an inflection point at age 30 when the man ticks up in Sexual Market Value but the girl ticks down. I lived through it, and a girlfriend of mine at the time agreed that she was dropping a criterion from her list of criteria each year she got older. Case in point, I am the shortest man my wife has ever gone on a date with. Her friends, which each had multiple kids, implored my future wife to finally m stop cutting off below 6’ men which is how I ended up in her online datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.When I ram my erection into a vagina, it feels best when it’s a virgin vagina. Compared to non-virgin vagina, virgin vagina is statistically younger, tighter, more exclusive, and my sperm get first dibs on procreation. That’s why virgins are better than sluts in my male opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHumans are remarkably good at monogamous pairing to equal value, given how messy everyone’s favorite pastime, mate selection, is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Dating requires intention and hard workSometimes a girl is in med school and is busy 24/7. For stress relief and to sleep better, she’ll bang a hot dude weekly while demanding no relationship. She ain’t got time for dates or planning visits to in-laws etc. And she’ll be moving to a new state for residency anyway. It’s not like every girl is constantly relationship-seeking and every boy is constantly sex-seeking. I, as a man, once turned down a girl’s sexual advance not because she wasn’t hot or it wouldn’t be fun or my dick didn’t wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 08:55 AM |
| 6 | There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want toI’m a man. If I wife who has banged every other man in the village, I am giving up my reproductive strategy to bang anyone else. But gaining the ability to have sex with her isn’t an exclusive experience, everyone had her first, their sperm got ahead of mine in line for potential pregnancy, and her pussy was younger and tighter as well. As a man, I would like other men to be thinking, “Wow his wife is hot, he gets to bang her and I don’t. That makes him more of a winner and me more of a loser.” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m thinking of a naming my son “Beta Simpcuck” - Is that trendy enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 06:36 AM |
| 7 | If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after?I hear it’s also a thing in the high school drama/acting club - ours would also sing a broadway play each year. There are men and women in drama, but lots of gay men. This means the straight male actors (who automatically have social skill and confidence because they are actors) are a minority and get swarmed by the straight females (and have groupies). The hottest guy in my high school, at least the one I overheard girls at lunch talking about nonstop, was whoever was the male lead in the schoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 07:42 AM |
| 1 | RPW tactics in loooong LTRs10 years, similar situation, long distance in the beginning. Her sex drive has tailed off but mine is still high due to being a virgin before meeting her and also I’m a man. Our kids are a shared responsibility where we often play man-to-man defense, and we compromise rather quickly because fighting in front of kids or trying to make a point only harms the kids. At the start her income was lower than mine, now hers is much higher than mine. I tell myself it’s her hypergamy screaming when she dem… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on a man with a low to potentially no body count?I can explain my reasons. I am what your post describes, 30yo virgin with a degree, $100k/yr job, and abs. I have goals for my life, and I avoid “disasters” with life choices. I have never consumed alcohol because it can too easily create disaster in my life. Lots of sitcoms and movie plots begin with an impaired decision but that will never be me. Similarly, I refuse to have children before I am ready. I will not put my penis into a vagina until I’m 51% sure my life will improve 9 months later … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 06:49 AM |
| -1 | How did you meet your husband?No time to traditionally date during ph D, but barely enough time to long distance video date. Since he was willing to do this around my schedule it means we eventually fell in love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | How did you meet your husband?Matched on a dating app, a paid one, while I was still getting my doctorate. He was average height balding but had abs and blue eyes blonde hair. Thickest gluts I’d ever dated and squeezed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Why are we so hated?They want what they can’t have, and they can’t have us. All they can do is rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:33 PM |
| 5 | I recently did a purge of all men I suspected were only friends because they wanted to sleep with me. Now I have literally no one around.I got a puppy! The little rumpus melts my heart with his cute face and antics! COVID is great as far as working from home + puppy potty training. I’ve had him over a month but I still can’t decide on a name - Pandemic? Apocalypse? Somethin badass fo sho. That’s the story of how I got a warm boy to snuggle me at night during quarantine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?Fo sho! I got to sort through the piles in my extra room - put me in great mood finding all sorts of treasures my besties had given me. I put some on the walls so it kinda feels my friends are in the room even though they physically can’t be due to quarantines and curfews here. Then a month passed and I decided to decorate the now-clean extra room, furniture nice and cozy helping me relax. Gotta remember to not pile up all my shopping bags and forget what’s in them again - a new resolution. Anot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:46 AM |
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