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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Taking a solo vacation to work on this stuff: good or bad idea? You are doing at least one thing wrong - make the travel part the primary goal. Game while you get the opportunity, but chart a plan for the month to see some awesome sights, learn a culture or history, take amazing pictures. Not only will you become more interesting during the trip, the story of this month will make for great game material for years.	/r/seduction	21/12/13 11:45 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/10/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Seduction in a Relationship: For those in long-term relationships and marriages, but enthusiastic about the self-improving, life-improving tips in Seddit - what elements work well? How do you use them?	/r/seduction	11/06/13 04:19 PM
8	How do you remain 'alpha' while in a relationship? Then, there's being the provider. The provider of resources, of protection, of stability, of nurturing and of safety. After ten years, my marriage hit a road-bump hard - a grief/depression/distancing/mid-life-crisis related semi-affair. In sorting through it all - and this sub-red helped me immensely find my inner game - I've had some time to ponder what Alpha means. Was the guy who charmed his way into my wife's heart Alpha? He was a pro at this - cheated on his wife many times, was great with …	/r/seduction	07/02/13 04:19 PM
2	Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love - Underneath the topic, you MUST keep gaming your SO, while in a relationship, or lose her. That article is so beta, it is not funny. It starts on a good footing. There are two elements - staying attractive and other options. But he quickly loses the plot. The reason women commit to relationships is not because they have no other option. The entire article is about how smartphones give girls options. It ignores the other part - be attractive.	/r/seduction	30/10/12 03:41 PM
2	How do I re-seduce my own girlfriend of 3 years? Fixing yourself can't make her be less narcissistic. Be totally honest in a constructive way about it. Tell her that you feel ignored/taken for granted. Tell her, specifically, what she can do to stop this pattern. If she will not/cannot make changes, then you have a decision on your hands - to put up with it or move on. Luckily for you, you aren't married with kids. That's two more degrees of freedom.	/r/seduction	13/09/12 08:48 PM
1	What we should be teaching these incoming freshman to college How do really long marriages work then? Is it that they don't change, or, more likely, do they figure out the change part together? I think you made my point. If you wait for the "perfect" partner, you will likely wait forever or be in for a divorce. No such thing exists.	/r/seduction	14/08/12 07:25 PM
1	What we should be teaching these incoming freshman to college I didn't say one doesn't change. I challenged the idea that future change should prevent a long term relationship. Don't you think people change in their thirties, forties and seventies?	/r/seduction	13/08/12 11:34 PM
6	What we should be teaching these incoming freshman to college Even if you find a girl at 18-22, you're going to change a lot in the 5-10 years after college and what brought you together then may no longer apply. This is bull. shit. Being in a good long-term relationship isn't about some magic chemistry that comes down from the sky. That initial spark you feel when you start to bump uglies - that doesn't last very long - a year or so, max. The secret to a long-term relationship, if you value such quaint ideas, is to grow constantly, learn, stay interested …	/r/seduction	13/08/12 04:56 PM
3	A realisation about oneitis, (at least in my case). Don't kid yourself .... This will be hard. That said, it will be the best gift you will ever give yourself. Get strong, stay strong. Also, great to see you not come out cynical and misogynistic.	/r/seduction	22/07/12 07:59 PM
4	Last night, a female friend from work stayed at my house and we fell asleep together on the couch, cuddled together. We're just on the couch now, watching Super Troopers, laying down, facing opposite ways. What should I do? Foot massage now! If I am picturing your position right now. Feet are incredibly tactile, like the handshake trick, but more intimate.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 07:15 PM
2	To hell and back - stronger [one more tribute to inner game] Totally agree. Therefore the "it may not work" line in my original note. It is more likely, but not because she "got away" with it this time. She saw a side of me that no wife should see (the rage, oh, the rage). She realized how close she came to fucking it all up and I think (hope) that will deter it in the future. But you are right. It is a weakness for her. Perhaps always was.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 05:50 PM