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| 1 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themEvans and Hemsworth ARE crazy bodybuilder levels. Those guys look the way they do in movies because studios are footing the bill for training, a perfect diet, and pharmaceutical grade anabolic steroids. That’s combined with the fact that the shirtless scenes in movies require doing additional cutting, water depletion, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?Anarchism isn’t a singular ideology. Stefan Molyneux and Hans-Hermann Hoppe are both anarchists and both are very conservative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do women not work out as much as men?Number one thing that they’re looking for? Maybe, maybe not. Number one preference, again, specifically when selecting for appearance? Absolutely. I gave examples of media, etc. overwhelmingly consumed and created by women. Men didn’t make that standard, women did. As for your personal example, maybe you only care about someone’s personality, I don’t know you IRL. Generally speaking, a man has to pass a looks threshold before his personality is even considered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not work out as much as men?First of all, I acknowledged that it’s typically not who women end up with and why. Second of all, I gave examples of who women are demonstrably attracted to. Saying “I like dad bods” is just a way for a woman to signal that she’s not superficial, that she’s a good person. Basically; Most people think that they’re good. If good people aren’t superficial, then I must not be superficial. It’s not superficial if I like “dad bods”. Saying that’s what you’re attracted to and having that be the body t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not work out as much as men?That’s why actors playing the love interest in chick flicks, or models on the covers of romance novels, or the guys who do well on dating apps all have dad bods, right? Dad bods (low muscle mass with a small to medium amount of abdominal fat) are never women’s first choice. They may end up w/ a man who has one either due to settling or the man letting himself go, but let’s not pretend it’s the body type women desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not work out as much as men?The men women give as examples of “dad bods” are more often than not actors with more tren than blood in their veins (ex. Jason Mamoa on vacation). Just because it’s a different category of roided up bodybuilder doesn’t make them not roided up bodybuilders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Women here give wildly contradictory answers depending on who they want to defeat in a argumentNowadays any man can have a beard. Topical minoxidil works on faces just as well as on scalps, and there’s no male facial baldness, so no need to take finasteride for maintenance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Heterosexual Women: would you trade desirability for guaranteed safety from sexual assault.29 states have some form of permitless carry. In the ones that still require a permit, the majority only take at most a day or two of time. States like NY, NJ, CA, etc. are the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:37 AM |
| – | What are some of your favorite stand up comedy bits about relationships and dating?Owen Benjamin - How to Love a Woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:21 PM |
| 4 | There's a "What are your most controversial or unpopular dating rule/opinion" thread over at r/AskWomenOver30. What are your controversial opinion about their controversial opinions?Why should men act traditional if women aren’t going to? Most men who object to fulfilling the role of being a provider do so because women aren’t fulfilling their side of that equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Women were not more traditional or less hypergamous in the past.If you’re going to start from the premise that society should have no input on what people do, regardless of its impact, then why bother having any form of society? Your argument is basically that if someone can do something, then no one should stop them from doing it or even criticize them for it. That’s no way to run a civilization, it’s basically just an argument to empower people’s most base immediate desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Women were not more traditional or less hypergamous in the past.“This would never happen because women when given the option lean heavily towards sexual liberalism” That’s a poor argument. As we can see in America, when given the choice, people will lean heavily towards eating junk food excessively. It’s their choice, but it also has obvious negative impacts by reducing lifespan, quality of life, etc. Just because people will choose something absent any social/legal pressure doesn’t mean it’s a good choice for themselves or society as a whole. Leaving out an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicChris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, etc. are fairly universally considered attractive. They’re all on gear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicThe actors and influencers that women consider attractive are on gear. Just because you’re juicing doesn’t mean you look like Ronnie Coleman when he stepped on the stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:33 PM |
| – | Is the crisis of modern dating also an existential struggle in of itself? More explanation in the opWhat you describe in the first paragraph is very similar to what Kaczynski wrote about in Industrial Society and its Future. Essentially, what he calls “the power process” involves: setting a goal expending effort to achieve that goal achieving the goal having autonomy When humans don’t need to engage with the power process for the purpose of survival (hunting/gathering, building shelter, etc.), it’s replaced with “surrogate activities” which mimic the power process, but are fundamentally unfulf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 07:25 PM |
| 3 | CMV : young men today should spare themselves torment by not getting emotionally invested in one day becoming a fatherWomen outnumber men at a single point in time, but not over longer time periods. In other words, the ratio of men to women on Tinder on any given day is around 70:30-90:10, however, over the course of a year it’s closer to 55:45. This is because women tend to be on apps for shorter periods of time (due to burnout, finding something and getting off, etc.) and the fact that women tend to use only one app at a time whereas men use multiple. As to your first point, if we looked at right swipes as mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do thisModern science largely came from religious individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:51 PM |
| 10 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?Women making more money exacerbates hypergamy. Women want men who earn more than them, regardless of how much she earns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:19 PM |
| 2 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Those are symptoms of the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 10:01 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?If you can’t find that in the US, that’s on you, Ngl. There are far more socially conservative men than women in the US, meaning that you can shoot way out of your league and still win. It’s not gonna be easier in another country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 10:38 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Statistically, the unhappiest archetype are unmarried women in their early/mid 40s who have a professional career.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Discussion : Why shouldn’t there be “losers” in the dating market? Why is it wrong a lot of men will lose out?Your use of “wrong” implies that you’re looking for a moral argument, but I think that a practical argument would be more effective. Societies w/ a large amount of young men who cannot find a partner are more politically unstable, more violent, and less productive. Simply put, it’s in the best interest of a society and its members to ensure that people partner up. You can disagree w/ whether this should be the case (whatever that means), but it’s a trend that’s held true across geography, time, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | "Women waste money on frivolous things!"Guns are an investment that holds or goes up in value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Men dont actually care about a women being healthyA room full of bodybuilders aren’t going to have “a thing or 2 to say” about you (if you meant that they’d be saying negative things). The biggest guys in the gym are usually the nicest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 09:32 PM |
| 23 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?The analysis was of online search data/consumption of material online, not books. Written porn is porn, just like video porn is porn. The medium doesn’t somehow make it not porn. You asked if there was a category, I responded that yes, there is, and in fact it’s one of the top 5 categories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:27 PM |
| 51 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?According to analysis by Google engineers, “billionaire” is one of the most common categories of erotica - alongside vampires, werewolves, etc. - which is the type of pornography that’s primarily consumed by women. In short, yes, there is a rich man category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Does the rise of Joey Swoll support RP’ers claims of female solipsism?As I said in my first comment, they’re inextricable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Does the rise of Joey Swoll support RP’ers claims of female solipsism?Some of my tank tops are baggier and they’ve never gotten caught on machines. I used to wear basketball shorts (switched to short shorts to show off the quads), but wearing baggy shorts never impeded my workout. Wearing gym clothes that make you look good is fine - I do it - but let’s not pretend that looking good isn’t the purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 04:27 AM |
| 7 | Does the rise of Joey Swoll support RP’ers claims of female solipsism?Tight clothes aren’t worn to be comfortable though. If you’re just dressing for comfort, you wear things that are baggy. Tighter fitting clothes main purpose is to make you look good and looking good is defined by what’s attractive to the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 03:14 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Women can't be upset at some men telling them to "choose better" if they keep perpetuating the notion of a "Woman's Intuition."There’s a study that’s been posted here before that showed women prefer men who exhibit dark triad personality traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | "I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."Costello’s a researcher who’s doing work on incels - did the podcast circuit (Williamson, Lotuseaters, etc.) to talk abt his findings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:06 PM |
| 3 | "I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."We’re not talking about mixed race ppl as a whole. We’re talking about a certain subset of the mixed race population who, by their own admission and by the data, struggle more with dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:28 PM |
| 3 | "I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."So now you’re changing your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:11 PM |
| 4 | "I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."You said mixed race ppl don’t struggle in dating, and that’s not true. Some mixes struggle significantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:02 PM |
| 5 | "I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws."The comment was specifically talking about HAPAs. Asian men struggle disproportionately in US dating. This is born out statistically (one example being the OkCupid race data, another being the research done by William Costello) and also can be seen anecdotally if you look at subreddits/online communities relevant to those groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally?Correct, it does rely on population growth. That’s why they’re pushing for mass immigration, especially from countries with minimal histories of workers rights. No need to worry about your native population declining when you can just replace them with millions of people from the 3rd world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 12:25 AM |
| -1 | To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally?Those oligarchs are the ones pushing feminism. Rockefeller was one of the earliest funders of the feminist movement as a way to decrease wages and increase profits while pushing kids into gov’t schools so they could be trained to be “good” workers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What’s the female version of game?That’s why I put “abs” in quotation marks. When people refer to “having abs” they’re referring to having large/heavily developed abs in conjunction with low BF%. Women have a different abdominal wall structure, significantly lower testosterone, and a higher BF% (at least to look attractive). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | What’s the female version of game?Women don’t really have the physiology/hormonal profile to have “abs” or get bulky without a lot of concentrated effort to do so. If the goal’s to be attractive to as wide a range of men as possible, this video goes over a study that found what’s statistically most appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s weird at first, but now I can’t go back. I keep my socks on bc I’m not an animal, but not having your heels lifted up by shoes feels much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo shoes for squats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s a subgenre that’s not my usual go-to, but can be interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWere they forced into unhappy marriages, or did the risk of pregnancy force them to treat sex more seriously? Seems like it’s the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Study about female pair bonding?I specifically referenced the existence of alpha-beta hierarchy. Again, if you read Goodall’s book, she discusses an example of pair bonding in chimps and refers to it as likely being similar to the first pairs in humans. Additionally, other human behaviors like in group preference, borders, etc. can also be observed in chimps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Study about female pair bonding?“Adults with BMs have had their first intercourse statistically earlier and were more sexually active compared with controls.” Source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:11 PM |
| 9 | Study about female pair bonding?So, you watched Adam Ruins Everything? Like the other guy said, chimpanzees (our closest genetic relative) absolutely have alpha-beta hierarchies. Just read In The Shadow of Man by Jane Goodall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??It’s bc you can set a range, so if someone was interested in men 6’-7’, that would add to all of the columns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAt least for men, the increased numbers provides more possibilities, which is important since it’s a numbers game. Also, the risk of suffering negative social repercussions (being labeled a “creep”, etc.) is much lower. A lot of this stems from there not being clearly defined rules of how/when/where you’re “allowed” to approach women. For ex. men get told “get a hobby and meet women through that” but also get told “women are just trying to enjoy their hobby, why are you hitting on them, it’s not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:02 AM |
| 4 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?The OkCupid study is from back when it was more popular and had a _/5 rating system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 5 | When saying women are “promiscuous”, where are you getting that info?Statistically it’s accurate: “Adults with BMs have had their first intercourse statistically earlier and were more sexually active compared with controls.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.They’ve done studies on this. Increasing wealth/status increased physical attractiveness (this one specifically referenced height). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Is is better for a man to have a women's body or her mind?It only makes sense logically with a glaring omission: If she’s willing to “give it up” easily for anyone then she is, by definition, easy, and the truth always comes out, it’s just a matter of when, meaning that the fallout is likely to be exacerbated by what is at best misleading someone and at worst lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 06:45 PM |
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