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| 7 | Who else is enjoying holidays without family drama?You Sir, Have the right mentality. Some can enjoy the solitude. For some solitude = Heaven. For others solitude = loneliness and depression. It's all about how you condition your mind and look at life. Like you - I do not miss the family drama one bit. Just do you and enjoy your own company. Happy Holidays and best of luck in your journey. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | 1st Christmas without my kidYep I get it. It's a dirty tactic. Hopefully you're able to rise above it and put the kids first - i.e. no toxicity, drama, hate in their lives. I get it's hard. As they get older they'll learn people's actions speak louder than words. When I hear somebody badmouth somebody else - to me it speaks volumes about the gossiper. Not the other person. And I get they're kids so they may buy into whatever your former significant other is feeding them. Only thing you can do is be there for them, be a goo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/24 05:32 PM |
| 3 | 1st Christmas without my kidNever badmouth the mom in front of her. Just be there for her when she needs you and let it be known you'll always be there. As far as your own mental wellbeing - Create your own happiness. Don't think of the past or worry about the future. Just concentrate on the present moment. I know it's hard. Positive mindset. Avoid hate, negativity, toxicity and drama. Throw yourself at your hobbies that make you smile. Exercise works wonders. If you're still having a hard time - contemplate going to bed e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/24 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Why does my marriage feels like Prison? What did I do wrong?Settled for somebody you weren't compatible with because you feared being alone? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/24 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Hey guysKeep him busy in the present moment. Try to get him to forget about the past and not worry about the future (I know it's hard). There's only the present moment. Time does heel old wounds. You go through Holidays and life changing events alone and need that other person and they aren't there for you. You then realize that person is no longer important anymore. Being alone this Christmas/New Year may be a wake up call - she's gone. And while painful - it will help him realize it's over and it's ti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 07:34 PM |
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