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| 1 | Dating isn’t about what you deserve. It’s about what you’re attracted to.Most women don't even find themselves attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 07:44 PM |
| – | More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and datingFor real. I get told how bad and horrible it was to ghost someone and what does she do after asking for my help? She doesn't want it to happen to her so what makes you think I want that? I totally agree it is horrible. Busy my ass. Her ex treats her like shit and she gives him all the time of the day while he just makes her life miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 10:00 AM |
| 1 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongAnd if he said he choose not to communicate all the time through text messages when everything was being taking out of context that lead to too many misunderstandings. Important conversations should be talked about in person, but text messages was all she did. She didn't want to talk and that's my issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongThey deserve the same chance you gave the guys that hurt you. They are not responsible for those guy's actions towards you or the choice's you made in those relationships. They don't deserve the consequences of your past and were not in any way part of it. They deserve a clean slate just like you would want. Everyone has been hurt. You got hurt because you put yourself in that position. Being hurt is always something that might happen to us when we choose to share our life with someone. We're ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Fuck that. I'm not going to waste my time making some pretty girl happy if she dont want the same for me. I want someone who wants me to be happy to. I jist dont want to be given them attention when they want it and ignore me when they dont feel like it. I deserve that much at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsI never heard any man hating a woman for their body count. But I'm not interested in those women.i like women who have some respect for themselves and I just see a high head count as a turn off honestly. I'm sure they love the attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 06:53 AM |
| – | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsI very well did that. I cut out anyone I had interests in. Even told them I only had time for one. I get upset when I see the effort they make for others but not the one that they're suppose to be in a relationship with. You think I got the same? Fuck no. Ignore me for a week and a half and then I see them hanging with someone else? The only truth I got out of it was that they break everything they touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Low value guys always pretend they're better than low value women and its hilarious.I think we're all capable of determining between right and wrong. But as being better than someone else, I think I'll leave that up to the universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 11:06 AM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Yeah, but not all men will use you. You can't treat them like they are when you first meet them and don't even know them. You shouldn't be judging them starting off just because of other men. I think it's pretty shitting if you find a man that's amazing but then treat them like he's using you and then you get hurt in someone say because of that and then blame him for you getting hurt when its because your mindset and actions were the cause of all it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Yeah that's what I feel like happened to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Online negative about relations lowers the bar for men and encourages "nice guys" ?Why would they want another one-sided friendship when they have plenty of those already. Why would their social network have to do with anything about who they are. If you wanted someone to get to know you, you would find out for yourself and not make assumptions based on their social media. If they wanted to date somebody already on their social media it would already have been done with. It doesn’t mean he has other options or anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 07:59 PM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearYet, women’s emotional needs come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?I might add that I'm 42 and I look like I'm 30 so yeah at least I got that going for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?I don't think 8 years is a big difference.They made it work because it wasn't just then putting in the effort to make it work. So obviously those women knew what they wanted and put effort into getting it. It's not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Question for the girls with friends like thisI remember saying this once to her because our relationship was mostly text messages and she just assumed I was angry so she was angry. She was angry all the freaking time. She make angry faces at me when I came up to talk to her at work. I have never showed her any type of anger like she has. It was frustrating and I almost left her because of it. There's a difference between hurt and being upset and she didn't want to hear how she made me feel. She literally didn't care about my feelings when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | 50-50 doesn't work because men actually have to do more than the woman in order for the relationship to surviveWhat a load of crap. It's all depends on the people involved and has nothing to do with gender. My place is super clean why my girls is messy, but you think I care that is messy? No. I think she's the one that doesn't put any effort into it but again I know it's because of her situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Men should choose better womenThat's why trust is so important. If you don't have trust then you don't have nothing else. I mean they could accuse you of seeing someone else when your not, but they'll believe it no matter what you say. They could be one of those people who say if they're doing it then I'm doing it. That would have nothing to do with the other person, but with her making poor choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?Depends how you look at it. Is your relationship with him different than what he shows you or are you saying he's different when you talk to him on the phone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 03:01 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipHow about not making assumptions like you know what he wants. Why bothered to care if you never cared enough to find out for yourself?You think is an assumption and has no room to be included along the side with the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipMaybe you don't notice the change in your behavior towards them than it once was before and that in turn makes it ackward for them to be around you because they see that change. Don't assume you know their intentions if your not interested in asking him. If what you say is true and that's how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:32 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipWell it's not like I was looking for a friend to begin with and it's not like they're putting in effort to maintain the friendship as it is so why does it all have to be me that initiates everything? Then complain about it when I stop? Yeah, makes no sense. I ain't going to find a relationship talking to one who's already in one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Single independent women are not really as independent as it seemsIndependent woman usually choose themselves.i was happy before her, but hers was fake. Now it's like we switched places ever since we left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingThat's the stupidest thing I ever heard. I wouldn't even bother if that were happening to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: People try to blame their personal problems on society. For females, it’s usually their self-esteem. For males, it’s usually their dating problems.No, I think we all blame ourselves like it should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:16 AM |
| – | The fear of not getting sex can sometimes be the main cause of not getting sex.If you both like each other and like being around each other then they should be able to make it work. It's not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Primary elements of the Friendzone: Scarcity mindset, no self-prioritization, dishonesty with intent. A reality check.Well I don't see how you can't do one thing without it being labeled in some form of toxic. Being to quick to judge when they don't even understand the reasons behind the other's logic. It's like everyone is so focus on being negative that they forget about all the positive things that made you attracted to them in the first place. Those positive things will always out weigh the negatives so why focus on those. It's not like anything is ever permanent. It's not like I'm ever going to ask for som… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:47 AM |
| 7 | Primary elements of the Friendzone: Scarcity mindset, no self-prioritization, dishonesty with intent. A reality check.What can't I be excited about something for once in my life? | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadThat was well said. I needed that. Thanks. I'm just grumpy. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 10:43 AM |
| 6 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadI think this was in Japan, but they had these go-carts with dildos attached to them. The faster they went the faster the dildo went. Well you can imagine the rest. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadWomen know when they are beautiful with the make-up, sexy outfit, and perfect skin. They might have all the guys chasing them, but not me. Why would I? When there is already a bunch of guys chasing the same woman? How much attention does she need anyway? Besides I'm not going to spend all my time trying to make her happy when if ain't doing the same for me when it comes to those types. I go for the girl who's a "diamond in the rough", the ones who are cute, quiet, kind personality, no make-up, w… | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadPut em in a body bag Johnny! | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.So what if I'm not geting sex? I have time for one woman and one woman only. Just because you need to have give boyfriends at one time doesn't mean I need to go looking else where for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.Yup. Men and women are not equals. But neither are better than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Stop falling in love with people you're not datingThat's the problem. I'm risking a lot by taking a chance and now I'm feeling I just might regret it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | The Foundation of Masculinity: Independence, Resilience, Emotional Centeredness, Growth, Charisma, SkillI do the same thing. I write everything down that I want to remember and to reflect on. It's like a personal journal full of thoughts, quotes, knowledge, poems i wrote, deep personal feelings, stuff i need to remember that i keep forgetting, stuff how to become a better person, and last but not least, love. You should use Notepad++. It's great. You can mark lines with a blue dot as a bookmark and press F2 to cycle between them for quick references and you can have multiple files open inside of t… | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What should I tell a girl if she's replying slowly?Thanks for putting that in a little more perspective. In my opinion I think the lowest grade of communication is silence, then followed by smoke signals and then Morse Code. Texting is the lowest form of communication with a cell phone and it must be pretty primitive, regardless everyone still communicates using some form of texting like you sir are now. Your comment got a reply because it wasn't meant to anyone specific and not to just one person, so yes of course you wouldn't expect anyone to … | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Things you need to stop doing if you become obsessed with every woman you start casually datingI've been aware of my behavior and I seem to be the type of being needy, but I think it's mostly because I'm insecure mostly. If I look at myself and the situation I'm in, that half of these are probably true about myself. I think a lot has to do with the situation because like say lack of communication. Yeah I talk about her to other people to who's willing to listen. Doesn't text back possibly the next day. I'm not like obsessed with her. I just want to feel wanted. There is nothing wrong with… | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 08:00 PM |
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