Skitterbird Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What is a slut? No. For practical purposes, being a slut is what you are, not what you've done in the past. One instance means nothing. Again, it's not about the number, it's about who you are. However, a large number is very often an indicator of your personality. If I eat McDonalds once, it probably doesn't mean anything. If I eat Mccy D's for every meal, every day for a month, that likely says something about me. Not really. A woman can use sex as an "in" to gain access to prospective boyfriends. Whether or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/15 02:23 AM
4	Outliers are the majority. What do you define as "fitting the TRP narrative"? You can choose to define it as narrowly or broadly as you want, which would accordingly encompass anywhere from 1% to 99% of the female population. I'll also say, that a lot of TRPers (of which there is a significant overlap with PUA) would be quite happy with a 25% success rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/15 01:41 AM
2	Are women the 'gatekeepers' of sex, and can have sex whenever they want? Yes, I am resentful when the weather sucks. Unlike OP, I don't have to ask whether or not I'm right to be, I know I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/15 02:56 AM
2	Slut-shaming is regulation Why do you think "slut" off hand, or even slut shaming in general is any sort of defense mechanism? It doesn't make any sense at all. If I hit on you and you say no, "Whatever frigid prude, go home to your cats" is at least a logical response. It's a defense mechanism because I obviously am the greatest thing since sliced TRP; only a crazy cat lady would turn this down. Alternatively: "You were ugly anyway." (2 minutes ago you were the most beautiful girl in the building) "Stuck up bitches like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/15 02:20 AM
2	Q4BP Men: What, specifically, did you do to attract women? Just the part about looking good, hitting the gym, living an independent life, not letting anyone push you around, putting yourself in the right situation, and having fun doing what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/15 01:19 AM
2	Q4BP Men: What, specifically, did you do to attract women? Lol really? I've read some of Roissy/Heartist, and I didn't like his style. I've read some of Roosh too, and he seemed far more aggressive and masculine than my girl-like strategy. I developed this from a combination of GLL, Mark Manson, RP/seduction, and my own experiences. I guess the idea of "be awesome independently, don't be desperate, let it come to you" is actually pretty old, and a lot of my influences were themselves influenced by these earlier guys. TIL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/15 01:16 AM
9	Q4BP Men: What, specifically, did you do to attract women? I use the girl strategy of looking my best, being as attractive as possible passively, and giving people openings to make the opening move. Hit the gym. I'm 5'10, 150lbs, 11% bf. Losing %bf and getting ripped helped a lot. I pretty much got nowhere while skinnyfat - I was effectively an ugly girl. I could definitely stand to gain some weight, which I'm currently working on now. Lean bulk! Dress well. There are many ways to dress well; the only universal rules are: fit is king, and have a coheren…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/15 12:21 AM
4	Q4TBP: What do you think is the most frustrating thing about RP "philosophy?" My 3 major beefs with TRP: They present their beliefs in a very arrogant way, as if their views are scientific, universal, and the only truth. This includes concepts with some basis in reality, like hypergamy, pareto's principle, biological sex differences, etc. Then they proceed to treat these as hard and fast rules, with their interpretation as the only truth. For example: pareto's 80/20 rule becomes "women will only fuck the top 20%, and are literally disgusted by the bottom 80". Besides the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/15 11:28 PM
1	Any BP/NON-RP who were raised w/traditional gender roles? How was it? TLDR: BPers and Non-RPers who were raised with these expectations, how was it? Fun? Comfortable? Suffocating? I hated TGR and fought against it from societal expectations in general, not just my parents. Did you match up with traditional expectations for your gender pretty well or clash horribly? I like lifting, fitness, sports, technology, outdoorsy stuff, and learning how to hunt. I'm independent, will never back down, and fiercely resist any dominance from external sources. I also have long s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 02:10 AM
3	CMV: White privilege is a real thing (Video Discussion) Here's why you're being downvoted: I think almost anybody reasonable will agree that white people in general have it better, and black people have it the worst, and widespread systemic racism exists, mostly at the expense of black people. For lack of a better term, we can call this "privilege". But the idea of "privilege" is part of a framework of critical race theory, which a lot of people hate, even if they only know it as "SJW-ism". Heck, my beef with critical theory goes all the way back to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/15 11:15 PM
6	The validity of The Red Pill as an objective science The Red Pill is not science. At all. If your claim is simply "most women are attracted to alpha males", then you fail to define what alpha means, and none of the several RP definitions of "alpha" are anything like the actual biological usage. If your claim is more simply that most women are attracted to qualities like height, strength, status, money, etc. then I don't think anybody can dispute that; real science agrees with you there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/15 01:14 PM
2	The new TRP fascination with sex robots is (1) absurd insofar as they assume that it will become a normal thing; and (2) basically a parody of TRP The TRP obsession with sexbots is pretty comical, much less the idea that human relationships are going to be replaced by them. Women already have access to male sex bots that are bigger, harder, blacker, more mechanically robust, and do everything but take out the garbage. I guess that's the end for heterosexual relationships. Birth rate to crash, humanity to go extinct, news at 11. That said, I have a very good reason for wanting to fuck a sexbot, and that's to give a giant middle finger and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/15 05:50 PM
7	Clarification+Debate: what is an alpha and what is a beta? There are a bunch of different definitions even within TRP and the blogs. They don't line up with each other, and some are contradictory. RP definition 1: Alpha is traits of physical fitness. These might include physical attractiveness, height, size, or high testosterone indicators like aggressiveness or dominance. Beta is traits of provisioning. Resources, willingness to share resources, commitment, stability, caring. This is probably the "best" definition for RP, since it fits into their AF/BB…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/15 07:12 AM
10	Why does blue pill think red pill is racist? The number 1 race related topic I've seen in TRP is Indians and Asians talking about being Indian or Asian. Occasionally you'll get stereotypes about asian women being more desirable, and black women being less desirable. I'm sure there are racists in within the TRP population, just like any other. It gets magnified due to their "real talk/tell it like it is/no PC BS" mentality. I don't think TRP itself is inherently racist, although there may be an underlying intersection of racists and TRP. TR…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/15 07:09 AM
3	All Pills: What are some "lies" you were legitimately told about the world growing up and by whom? Be specific. My parents and teachers told me I had to conform. Not "in order to X" or anything, just "conform or else". Implicitly, it was conform in order to be accepted or get anywhere in life. I struggled with this most of my early life; my teens and high school years were in part defined by an overcorrection against this imperative. I mellowed out in my 20s. I still do what I want, but no longer feel the need to actively oppose external expectations as part of some grand fuck you to the world. There's a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/15 06:50 AM
2	I have a bunch of questions for BPers. Please answer honestly. 1. Why is it not okay for us to slut-shame, but perfectly fine for you to virgin-shame? I never got the point of either of these; they are not at all related to me. It is probably true that a sizable number of the posters in /TRP are metaphorical "virgins" (probably not literal virgins; TRP would call them "beta"), that's still no reason to hold it against them. At worst I can call them "wrong", but whatever, no skin off my back. They are clearly unsatisfied with their lives and free to pursue w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/15 06:21 AM
2	Are red pillers deluded to think that born betas can raise their SMV enough to have lots of casual sex with reasonably good looking women? So let's assume a guy is a typical beta in the red pill sense and he is nothing special lookswise (about a 5-6) genetically (facial structure, height, body type). Height is the only thing you can't change. Lift to get a better body. As you lose body fat %, your facial aesthetics will improve. You can improve your dress and style. Cut out the approval-seeking supplicating behavior and do what you want. I haven't even touched on parts of TRP I don't agree or are not familiar with, like game. Or on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/15 11:45 PM
3	How accurate is BP's understanding of TRP concepts? Not even TRP members always agree on what these terms mean. There is some variation on how these terms are defined and used, even within the RP community itself. AWALT, to some TRP members, may literally mean AWALT. Others take it to mean most women are like that on average, so we assume the general case. Still others treat it as "all guns are loaded". To one RPer, Dread might mean keeping one's SMV high while in relationships, passively having options, and being willing to walk if necessary. To…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/15 05:44 PM
3	Prestige based status and Dominance based status I don't know; if I had to make a few wild ass guesses: As someone else said, dominance is faster to attain than prestige. The very first self improvement principle of TRP is "Lift", something that starts building dominance fast. You can't change height, but lifting can and does build mass, change your facial aesthetics, increase your testosterone, and so on. Dominance comes from the self (by choosing to behave a certain way), as opposed to prestige which is earned from others (from one's own acc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/15 04:19 AM
2	Prestige based status and Dominance based status Status/SMV is central to the TRP framework, but I don't believe they make the distinction between status from prestige and dominance. They are aware of and encourage both. The TRP platform of self improvement is all about increasing one's prestige, and TRP is full of dominance concepts like Machiavellianism, Dark Triad, 48 Laws of Power, and such. In the TRP model, status/SMV is simply a singular quantity that stems from both prestige and dominance. The two are not always mutually exclusive, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/15 03:46 AM