Yes, I agree stopping it is very freeing. I don't think that it brings out the worst in people, I think it brings out their true colors if you give it time.
Different standards apply to you, huh? A "real single girl" will be better off staying that way than making herself "100% available" to guys like you. A smart girl keeps her options open in dating until she finds someone that respects her and her time. Women should be treated as human, not as objects.
Most men don't know how to treat a woman, or give her pleasure. It has nothing to do with having too many options or having a low libido. Most men have nothing to offer women, so what's the motivation?
No, of course it's not wrong to want someone in your life, but being angry and resentful about the possibility of never having that... is actually pushing it away.