Skylarias Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Abusive and degrading porn destroys another woman's body and life	MALE DEPRAVITY	Skylarias	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/22 08:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? No, it's because I'm a woman and I've been that young woman getting hit on by men old enough to be my father. If he's going for women half his age, then he is creepy. Period. I'm not infantilizing women when the majority of 20yr olds do NOT have any interest in dating men old enough to be their fathers. I'm sticking up for younger women by trying to protect them from creeps like you and OP. This seduction subreddit was supposed to be for both men and women, but it's bordlerine a pit of gross men…	/r/seduction	17/02/24 10:52 PM
-5	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? Well, considering I'm 31, a 43 yo hitting on me isn't that creepy. It's somewhat acceptable because I'm over 30. Unrealistic of him, but not super creepy. What is creepy, is a 43yo man hitting on girls in their 20s. Period. Like I said, if I were in my early 20s still, I'd be disgusted by a 43yo man like OP hitting on me.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 01:29 PM
-10	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? As a woman, yes, it would be creepy. I'm 31, so I wouldn't be disgusted like I would be if I was still in my early or mid 20s. But I'd still want nothing to do with you. Unless you were exceptionally attractive and fit for your age and very charming, or very wealthy (while still being attractive, fit, and charming). At the end of the day I want kids though, and 43 is too old for that.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 12:24 PM
–	Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royalty Are you seriously trying to claim that the internet (in particular, online gaming) is a "men's space"? It's a hobby like any other. You don't need a penis to play video games. And men don't need to make in game chat toxic... whether that's being toxic towards men OR women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 01:46 PM
15	This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real. And ugly or average doesn't mean a man is going to be loyal either. If you have two men, with the same chances of them ghosting and lying about wanting a relationship, why not choose the more attractive one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:40 PM
11	Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps? Exactly. So much content is revenge porn, it's not even funny. And that's ignoring all the men that take pictures or videos of women without their knowledge or consent... And post them online too	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 07:27 AM
2	The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to them Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, I often need at least one arm to balance. Two is better for more force. Or for a better angle if leaning back and arching my back. It's just simple logistics... if the man is laying or sitting there, doing nothing, and the woman is the only one moving, the woman hands are most likely occupied with keeping stability or keeping momentum going. Sounds like you have 0 experience riding a mans dick, or in paying attention to what the woman is doing when riding you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 07:58 PM
2	The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to them Speaking as a woman, that angle is not the best. It doesn't hit the g spot well (or at all) The issue is the "fun" positions require use of my arms for balance sometimes... so for a woman to take a more active role, it means they are choosing between touching the man, balancing, or touching their own clit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 06:00 PM
22	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: It's what guys here constantly tell others. Get a hobby... find some interests... improve yourself. Don't be boring. Educate yourself so you can be well rounded in conversation. Fit, well dressed, well groomed, but also have some personality. Have interests outside of work and dating or drinking. Educate yourself on modern topics, things like love languages, read up on cool new scientific breakthroughs, pop psychology, have a hobby of making or building something with your own hands... always ha…	/r/seduction	08/09/23 05:44 AM
118	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: This... if someone is "too nice", it can sometimes mean they're a pushover. The type to hide their real thoughts and feelings... rather than communicate them. Being nice isn't enough. How well does OP communicate his interests, desires? The type of person, that in a group, says "I'll do whatever you guys want to do?". And doesn't really add anything to the group. Or the type that suggests activities?: "Hey, there's a really cool hiking spot with a waterfall about 15min away". Or "Anyone else wan…	/r/seduction	07/09/23 01:08 PM
23	If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problem Right??? He wants it over in 5 minutes or less. Most men go to the doctor when that's happening regularly...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 04:03 PM
–	CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average man OP didn't say anything about it being a good thing or advantage. Simple speaking about averages and outperforming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 09:41 PM
23	CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average man Yup- serial killers, school shooters, domestic abusers. Men lead in so many metrics. More likely to commit violent crimes. Women, more likely to be raped. More likely to be stalked. There's pros and cons for each gender. For example... Men will complain about women's common talk topics, since conversations are usually revolving around other people, their lives, keeping in touch with others. Keeping up to date on their friends and families. Whereas men's common talk topics will be a random event/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 03:50 AM
1	Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ? Yea, I'm guessing you weren't expecting that end. Neither was I. Just a reminder that the cost of dating, for women, is higher. It could be a stranger, or a guy you have known for several years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 08:08 AM
2	Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ? The moments I loved my ex the most were the ones he showed vulnerability....talking about his fears, insecurities... and showing emotion. Where he showed trust in me. The sex was insanely good, we had amazing chemistry. Intellectually and physically. (before anyone hops on him being an ex, it's not related to the vulnerability... he's an ex because he ended up raping me when i was considering leaving him)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:22 AM
2	The standard rejections of "no spark, not enough chemistry and not feeling it" is just a nicety of 'I didn't find you sexually attractive.' It's not always equal. Aesthetic attraction is based on appearance only. Sexual attraction has many more factors. Body language is a factor. The way she walks, dances, smiles, looks at you, etc. Pheromones, scent. The way a woman glances over coyly, while giving a sultry look. Aesthetic attraction may have caused the man to gain initial interest, but sexual attraction has other factors. Imagine that gorgeous woman in the club opens her mouth to talk, and she sounds like a cartoon character. Or s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 07:24 PM
3	The standard rejections of "no spark, not enough chemistry and not feeling it" is just a nicety of 'I didn't find you sexually attractive.' There's aesthetic attraction, which means you find someone attractive. But it does not necessarily mean in a romantic or sexual manner. It could be as simple as "WOW that man/woman is really beautiful". Sexual attraction and chemistry often overlap, but not always. Both are needed for a long term, long lasting relationship. Chemistry means your personalities match. Spark usually refers to sexual attraction, but it can also be a strong emotional or intellectual match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 10:32 PM
0	how abnormal is it for women compared to men to have a very high libido? I've had a higher libido than my last 3 guys... aka every one since I no longer identified as asexual. But men are more willing to hookup with strangers because they're less likely to get murdered/raped/assaulted. Hence the falsity that men have higher libidos. I don't have a link to the study I read, but self-labelled high libido women want sex more often than their high libido male counterparts. I can't remember the stats for how low libido men and low libido women compared though. The major d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:45 AM
7	CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationship wtf. No, women have more self control and know how to handle their libido themselves. Sex almost always results in orgasm for men, but not women. So i know it's hard to believe for some men, but it's relatively easy for a woman to decline likely mediocre or subpar sex until she knows she's truly interested in the man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 06:25 AM
1	How do women benefit from having a hoe phase? *to the media Obviously the police arent the ones sharing this with the news. Confidentiality	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 10:34 PM
3	How do women benefit from having a hoe phase? And? If a guy truly did rape a woman, she should ruin his career. So what if it's cherrypicking? Rape victims often don't come forward to begin with, or they make a police report and the DA decides not to press charges. Because unless there's direct evidence, like video footage, it's too much "work" for most DA's, who are lazy POS. So those women likely already reported it. But the news doesn't care to report it until the rapist is running for a high profile position. There's so many factors, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 06:50 PM
1	How do women benefit from having a hoe phase? Or. She either didn't know who he was when he raped her (fake name or whatnot) ... OR he had such a low level job that it wasn't worth it. Reporting rape is a very stressful thing, having to recount the worst moment of your life over and over and over again. Most women choose to bury it, try and forget about it. But when she sees and recognized him on a TV ad, or mailer, she either now knows his real identity.... or realizes this man is about to have much more authority than he ever should have.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 03:11 PM
2	You have no idea what it's like to be an unattractive woman. So which country was the woman you spoke of in? You said she lived in an environment where she didn't encounter it... which country? I'm in the US myself, which is obviously higher on the list	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 02:45 PM
2	You have no idea what it's like to be an unattractive woman. Men that cat call don't care... I've been harassed while with my brother, my dad even (who's 6'3" and over 200lbs, but to be fair it wasn't immediately clear I was out with them, but I was also like 10yo). Also, her personality doesn't matter. At all. Men don't get to know you before they harass you. They just start harassing you, screaming to you out of windows as they drive by. Circling or following you in parking lots while you're walking into a store.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 12:47 PM
2	You have no idea what it's like to be an unattractive woman. The normal woman had never been around drunk men? Ever? Cause drunk men often have worse behavior. Especially to strangers. I feel like she probably wasn't normal looking, and if she was then she never went outside... I can't even tell you how many times I've been walking through a parking lot into a store, down the street, at or into a concert, etc, and some man catcalls me while driving by. Or pulls up beside me while I'm walking to hit on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 12:21 PM
12	There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of Pennsylvania Men who bring up issues of women in regards to fertility, always seem to ignore the fact that their sperm degrades in quality too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 10:13 PM
0	Men Have to Change in Order to Get Women, but Women Don't Haha, so there was no "good way" to answer your question of if I'm attractive? If I tell the truth, you gaslight and say I must be mistaken. I could be all those things, and you still claim I may be unattractive. PS: The men didn't buy me drinks to get in my pants. I've straight up told them I wasn't interested, wasn't going to talk to them, and they didn't press it further. At least one guy kept sending me drinks all night, while keeping to his side of his bar with friends, because i was "too p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 09:23 AM
0	Men Have to Change in Order to Get Women, but Women Don't I'm attractive enough that random men buy me drinks without wanting conversation... attractive enough that I got into a VIP area with unlimited topshelf liquor for free this past NYE (an older guy gave me and my friend some wristbands to get into the VIP concert area, each sold for prob $300 per person before the event). Attractive enough that other women come up and compliment me sometimes when I'm out and dressed up for the night. Attractive enough that I have had stalkers before. Attractive e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 08:42 AM
2	Men Have to Change in Order to Get Women, but Women Don't Because as a woman, I've dated short guys before. My friends have dated short guys before. It's not an issue unless the guy has a complex about it and MAKES it an issue. His facial features and personality matter far more than height. If a man thinks height is the ONLY reason that 0 women want to date him, he's likely just being deliberately ignorant as to the real core issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 08:11 AM
0	Men Have to Change in Order to Get Women, but Women Don't Well, no way is it his personality and outlook towards life. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 07:08 AM
1	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? I wouldn't want a virgin guy... but I would prefer a lower body count under 5. Or under 10. Once a man has slept with over 30 women, it just starts getting more and more sketch... and I generally assume they're so deep in hookup culture they're never gonna be marriage material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 02:37 PM
10	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy Sorry. A woman that desires the strong guy, may want to live? Even back then, pretty sure women weren't going: "Well, you killed my dad, brothers, and husband. But you're pretty fit, so sure, let's fuck"	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 01:45 PM
2	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. Trouble is, a lot of guys want that without actually intending to provide for the woman. (Not girl btw, unless you're a pedo. Then that's a whole nother topic). And even more guys want women to be dependent on them, while not providing for them. Ie. They expect women to drop everything in their life and prioritize them. But life doesn't work like that, unless the guy is exclusively dating loser women who still live with their parents and have 0 job, minimal education.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 01:25 PM
0	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. This. Sadly. I've matched with guys who, after a single date, expect me to dedicate at least 1-2hours a day just for talking to them. In addition to dates and whatnot. Some men want a woman overly reliant on them. Clingy. Dependent. Literally can't do anything without their man. And being that woman doesn't overlap very well with holding down a full time job, helping care for elderly relatives, babysit younger relatives or friends kids in a pinch, cleaning and maintaining their own household (as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 01:13 PM
2	I never understood this concept when it comes to sex For me, man #1 and man #2 are the same man. Not every man can meet #2 criteria. So, #1 is only good for sex. I don't do hookups so there is no point for me to interact with man #1 unless we are otherwise friends. And if we are friends, I'm not sleeping with him. I suppose he could change and get into category #2. And then I would sleep with him. If he is relationship material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 10:08 AM
1	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy He literally couldn't even do his research either. It's so transparent that it's just a fantasy. But enough guys in the comments ate it up.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 05:20 AM
6	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy Just check out his recent replies to me. He thinks his dick is so great a woman orgasmed just from touching it ... with her hand. Oh. And every woman he has ever fucked has had an orgasm. Some, multiple orgasms. Yet the sex is so great, they all end up blocking him. Bro doesn't know what an orgasm is.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:23 AM
7	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy You made a girl orgasm. From letting her touch your huge cock. I'm so fucking done. I feel so bad for all the women you've hooked up with. Maybe one day you'll wake up.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:19 AM
5	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy Nah dude. I'm sure that you're such a great sex god that every woman has an orgasm with you, every time. But even though you're sooo amazing at sex, there's something wrong with the women. Because for some reason, despite you giving them multiple orgasms, they somehow don't want to come back for more. I know what women want. Orgasms. Good, reliable, sex. Regularly and frequently. Daily. Or multiple times a day. If you actually gave orgasms out consistently, you'd have your choice of any woman on…	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:13 AM
5	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy "I ...never fucked a girl who didn't have an orgasm" Unless you ate them all out first, or stimulated the clit, that's scientifically impossible. And really. If they orgasmed. Why did they all block you?	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:07 AM
5	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy Yea. Women get more experienced when older, know what they like. So they can orgasm for REAL. Instead of faking it and pretending to be in a porno with fake moans. But nah, I'm sure the 19 year olds all know their body so well that they can always get an orgasm with a complete stranger. You do realize that touching tits does nothing for most women right?? You need to touch the clit. This whole post of yours just reads like a teenage boys fantasy. EDIT: PS: your balls shouldn't be hitting their a…	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:02 AM
5	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy I'm a woman. That would not make me cum. That would not make most women cum. Sounds like you jackhammer them, and that's all. And manhandle??	/r/seduction	04/09/22 03:56 AM
6	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy Only 18% of women can orgasm with PIV (penis in vagina) sex alone. Sooo either you're really good at going down on your ONS's or they were faking it. Considering you got blocked, and only the ones THAT did come back, only came back weeks later (ie they couldn't find someone else). I'm betting it's the latter	/r/seduction	04/09/22 03:40 AM
1	Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars? Can confirm. When I can go out with a guy, I do. It's why I'll occasionally go to try out new clubs with my brother and his friends. They deter men, which is a big bonus when I'm going someplace new for the first time. It doesn't even need to be a 1:1 ratio. Just having 1 guy to 2 women will be enough to scare off any unwanted male attention.	/r/seduction	08/05/22 11:24 PM
1	She told me I can do whatever I want to her Please don't listen to all these porn sick losers telling you to choke or physically harm your girlfriend. Have a discussion with her first, before sex. Agree on a safe word or when to stop. Talk about what she wants done to her, what she's curious to try, what she knows she likes. Don't just go in there trying to act out a bdsm scene when neither of you are on the same page.	/r/seduction	03/04/22 09:16 PM
2	She told me I can do whatever I want to her No, this guy watches porn OP clearly had never had a discussion with the woman about her limits and doing all that shit? Slamming into doors? Putting a belt around her neck?? That's way too much unless the woman explicitly asked for such things and gave consent prior to. You don't go from vanilla to bdsm master in one sitting. And certainly not without discussions about boundaries, soft limits, hard limits, safe words, etc.	/r/seduction	03/04/22 09:13 PM
6	What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? All the practice could have been with 1 or 2 long term relationships though. Doesn't necessarily mean a high body count.	/r/seduction	02/02/22 10:42 PM
3	my post about not listening to women's advice was removed It's because ONLY being nice isn't enough. Women want a man who will treat them well. Not be a pushover for EVERYONE. The issue is guys think all they have to do is be nice. Not flirty, fit, or fun.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 02:44 PM
3	my post about not listening to women's advice was removed Soo many incels here. They think you have to trick women into liking them... or "hunt" them like prey. When women want to find a good relationship just as much as men. Hookups are another story, as they're very low reward (very low chance of orgasm or even good sex) for women and high risk (STDs, date rape, stalkers, etc)	/r/seduction	19/01/22 02:42 PM
2	[deleted by user] Uhm. Are you sure that was a good wow? Did she go back in or initiate further kissing herself?	/r/seduction	10/01/22 01:01 AM
7	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game Tell them you're looking for a serious relationship, don't want to jump into things... and want to ensure you can be friends before you become lovers. Foundation for a good relationship and all that. Source: demisexual female It's a bit different when you're going on dates with a complete stranger too, versus someone you already know through friends/work/school. In the latter cases you can screen out the incompatible personalities. In the former, you need more dates to make sure you have chemist…	/r/seduction	01/01/22 10:04 AM
11	Ten Ways Guys Fuck Up Their Game Don't worry. Not all women want sex by the 3rd date, unless they're specifically looking for something casual. You can still work on building up sexual tension before you have sex, and IMO makes it even better the longer you wait (as long as its not months)	/r/seduction	01/01/22 10:00 AM
20	[deleted by user] Idk why this is getting downvoted. Testosterone makes it easier to gain muscle and get fit. But that's not going to happen unless you put in the work. 100 x 0 is still 0.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 10:03 PM
-2	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? I'm pretty sure 99.99% of the "females" in this world have 0 interest in you explaining the concept of attraction and seduction to them. In fact you'd do a great kindness to all of womenkind if you stfu snd stopped spreading your toxic ideology. Women hit on and seduce men, not every woman is a passivist in this regard. And they know better than everyone else what works to attract women, because they directly know why each approach succeeded or failed. But sure, compare women to fish. If you can…	/r/seduction	16/12/21 10:38 AM
3	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? Wow the red flags here. Should have stopped reading after you stated the only valuable input a woman has is feedback on how you're fucking them: "The only words you want to consider from a female are those that help you calibrate while you're trying to fuck them "	/r/seduction	16/12/21 07:17 AM
2	I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through texting Ah, well I'm glad everything is good (between you two). And agreed, its frustrating.... silence is worrying. On her end though too, I can understand... especially because when you're sick the last thing you want to be doing is keeping up with text conversations...cancelling plans and rearranging things with work and family can be quite taxing as it is. Although hopefully she got the message that if this happens again, you'd like even a small headsup. Best of luck to you too	/r/seduction	06/12/21 08:51 PM
3	I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through texting "Close the deal"? I'm assuming you mean sex. You can't just jump into wanting sex super quickly with super attractive women, who know they're attractive (which only going on dates for 2 weeks is). Every man and his father have already tried having sex with her. You need to let her feel safe around you. And have her fall into your lap. If you're transparent about wanting sex quickly and not wanting a connection, it'll be a major turn off unless a hookup with a hottie is all she wants. Plus, frien…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:53 PM
1	Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough? Idk, with the constant pulling away, I'm guessing she either wasn't 100% fully committed and kept alternating between wanting to get physical and not wanting to. Plus, asking if you pulled out? Did you guys not wear a condom? She might be worried she caught an STD. Especially if she got a UTI or something after having sex....a lot of the symptoms are similar for some. Not to mention, depending on how long it's been, she could have symptoms similar to a UTI just from having sex for the first time…	/r/seduction	16/11/21 10:32 PM
1	Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough? Because when you care about someone you want to give them pleasure? Literally the same reason most women give their guys bj's. Caring about someone and wanting to see them having a good time is not being a beta. If that's what you think, you're probably just saying that cause you're bad at it or you have serious issues about how you view women.	/r/seduction	16/11/21 10:25 PM
1	Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough? A month of talking/texting is a lot of effort. But 3 in person dates is nothing. Especially if they're short dates (ie 1-2hr coffee dates or movie dates). At least for some women, spending a few hours together with a man is not nearly enough to get to know him well enough to have sex if she has personal hangups. FYI texting/talking on the phone does NOT count towards this. Texting and talking should be reserved for knowing hobbies, common interests, and arranging dates. Real connection happens i…	/r/seduction	16/11/21 09:25 PM