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| 1 | How to be unique, but not creepy on dating sites?That's when I really don't care about the opinions of others. If I cared about others' perception of me, I would follow socially-mandated rules. Alas, I don't wear make-up. If I must wear pants, I wear pajama pants. Oh, and I only wear shoes if I'm going into a business where they will actually force me to leave when I'm not wearing them. This is because I see no need to act any differently just because society mandates I do. I must always put a period after any type of punctuation mark? Damn qu… | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 04:15 AM |
| 1 | How to be unique, but not creepy on dating sites?Okay, but only because you said "plz". Sometimes grammatical rules are adopted because of common usage. When I say "sometimes" I actually mean "pretty damn near all the time". Since you seem to be so into the parenthetical example, I will explain my reasoning behind putting the period inside the parentheses. Each time this occurred, it was in the instance that the parenthetical statement was a complete sentence. A parenthetical statement, by definition, is a statement that can be taken out, and … | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 03:23 AM |
| 0 | How to be unique, but not creepy on dating sites?I often make small protests in regard to grammar (such as occasionally not putting the punctuation inside the quotation marks when it conflicts with my logic). Following logic takes precedence to following set rules of grammar if the rules don't make sense. Why would I put the period outside of the parentheses if the entire sentence is inside the parentheses? | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 01:31 AM |
| 3 | How to be unique, but not creepy on dating sites?Try to use proper spelling and grammar when you type, too. That's an automatic weed out for me, generally. The creepy ones are less likely to be good typists in most girls' minds. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 01:38 PM |
| 2 | How to be unique, but not creepy on dating sites?You want to message them with something to which they'll want to respond. Things that would make me respond: Something that makes me laugh. I really like wit. I also dig the unexpected. (This isn't very specific, I know, but I should be sleeping instead of thinking.) If I've listed something on my profile in which I have an interest, and it's not something that's incredibly common, and you genuinely also have that interest, say something about it. If I have Fringe listed as one of my favorite sh… | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?I think it's because I generally take the masculine role in relationships. This might be why I'm attracted to the more feminine guy. Maybe I'm just strange, but I can easily classify the girls I'd like to date if I were a man as the ones who easily make friends with guys as opposed to the feminine ones who can't go out without feeling completely subconscious without makeup and really fashionable clothes. I'd want to date the ones who spend their free time playing video games, programming, and be… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?Be yourself. Be awesome. Take care of you for yourself. Every woman has different preferences. No matter what you do, somebody's going to like you as long as you have the personality and confidence. Do whatever makes you feel the best. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?Much better. Although this is probably somebody I'm not supposed to like. It also took me a couple of pages to get here. I wouldn't say this is perfect, but it's a lot closer to what I would find attractive. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?Well.... My knowledge of this is completely based on public school PE, so I can see how I might be wrong on this one. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?I have been searching for a body that I find attractive on the internet for the past 45 minutes. I still can't find a single one. Men don't post pictures of themselves when they look how I would prefer they look. I got a little bit closer with this. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 06:51 PM |
| -6 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?I mean lean muscles versus bulky muscles. Bulky muscles are created with more resistance. Lean muscles are created with more repetitions. This guy is bulky and completely unattractive to me. That may be a bit extreme, and your average guy won't be that bad, but I'm definitely more physically drawn to something that's way harder to find on Google. This is even a little too bulky for my preferences. In the end, though, the physical attractiveness of a man weighs very little on my decision of which… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 06:01 PM |
| 13 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?I'm going to admit that I am way more attracted to lean muscles than bulky muscles. I have no idea why, but a big, muscular arm is a bit of a turn-off. I'm not saying I'm the type of girl that everybody would want... but I have never run into opposition from any guy with whom I've ever tried to flirt. I'm also just letting you know that there are some girls out there who do prefer a lack of bulk. Down-to-earth girls are also less likely to be looking for men at bars. They want quality men, and a… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Read the side bar, but not sure where to go from here.I understand the perfectionism. I have it, but I'm slowly trying to get rid of it, because I think it's a flaw of mine. For example, I will argue with somebody until they accept that I'm right, and I hate being wrong. This said, I still manage not to give a fuck about what others think. Society's expectations are oppressive. It's just a fact. You need to learn to do what's right for you and not for society's expectations of who you should be. You know that you're awesome, right? So go out there … | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 04:40 AM |
| 4 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.As a female, it's less about what they teach and more about the way that they teach. The most frustrating thing to me is when a guy goes really slowly through the easy part, then rushes through the difficult part. I can figure out the easy part on my own most of the time. Even better would be if he asked me how his pace was occasionally. Otherwise I just start complaining about it or just tune him out and figure out how to do it on my own/with the internet. tl;dr If you're going to teach her som… | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Why She Stopped Sleeping With YouThis does an amazing job putting into words something that I've been trying to explain for so long. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 05:36 PM |
| 2 | When does all this start being fun?The problem is definitely the venue. I find clubs and bars in my city far too loud to even have a conversation with somebody. I much prefer walking through common areas of campus, finding a couple of people playing pool, and striking up a conversation with them. In similar situations, you can hear each other because there's not a ridiculous amount of music playing, and because this is a place that people are conditioned not to approach others, their guard is down, and they find it refreshing tha… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Female pickup artists and the alpha female?I don't see what's so difficult to believe about a female who takes all the same tactics that the guys here use and apply them to men. Women have the same problems men do. It's easy to get laid if you're willing to settle, but you have to have game to have the quality men chasing after you, especially if you aren't the most attractive. Some tactics might be slightly different, but you're a fool if you think that everything you use on women doesn't work just as well on men. (I am of the opinion t… | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 06:34 AM |
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