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ConversationSlabbedSack/r/seduction31/03/22 01:58 PM
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Where would I even go about hiring my own trainer? I have absolutely 0 social media presence, I don't like it and the only way to reach me is my phone if I know you. Might make things hard to get girls without social media but I've got too much shit to worry about than other people's lives.
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:53 PM
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Thank you man! Of course I'll keep trying, letting things come to me. I'll just be taking more of a backseat approach since it really doesn't bother me too too much that girls don't want me considering everything I've done on my own, but being lonely definitely sucks. I can't wait to feel what confidence is like, to not wake up and worry constantly about my weight.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:34 PM
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Another commenter suggested I focus my time and energy on weight loss and muscle gain during this time, and leave women alone. Maybe I can balance that by outer gaming, getting social and branching out a bit with zero expectations? Just to experiment. Definitely hyper focused on diet and exercise right now, however.
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:54 PM
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Yes, but low body positive image and no good pictures lends me to feel like that wouldn't be viable.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:07 AM
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This is gonna be fun.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:40 AM
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Damn. I never made that connection, but that would explain this situation for sure.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:39 AM
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When you say Dom, what does that entail? I'm not one for the whole pegging thing, nor do I want to be tied up. I'm happy to take the lead, it's a matter of when and if I should do things aren't awkward. Typical low confidence. I'm intrigued though.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:30 AM
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Right on man! Thanks for stopping by, I'm gonna look at intermittent fasting!
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:28 AM
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Everything's a balance. Just gotta find it. Thanks for stopping by bro.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:13 AM
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Thanks for shining some light on this. Losing a good chunk of weight would really help my confidence, and my charisma is already pretty good. Seems like there's a good chance of fun in my future. I gotta get out and go to some bars, most nights I'm in bed by 9 and I get up at 4. I'm sure there's time in there to mix things up and get in some trouble.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:12 AM
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Right. Am I a pussy for listening to her, though? I was trying to be there for someone that was in rough shape at the time, trying to be a decent man. I ain't ashamed if you think I was, I'm just asking.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:10 AM
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Never. I never approach women, and it's not for lack of lust. I have programmed myself to care much, much more about success and friends, money and status than about women. But the thing is, I'm already well on my way but have no fun to show for it. Sure, I get invited out all the time, and I've got plenty of female and male friends to do stuff with, but there's never an endgame in mind. Gotta really start putting myself in line and getting it done, life's too short.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:08 AM
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That's where I'm confused, all things were leading there but I mean she cried and cried and spilled all of her guts to me, stayed the night curled up on me like a kitten, and then I never saw her again. I sound like a pussy, sure, but this is twice now. Each of them said I had, and I quote, a "bright aura", and a "pretty life", albeit the pretty life comment came when she was drunk. Both commented on my soul, and both were infatuated with how old school I was. It was off putting to hear that, be…
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:06 AM
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I'm inexperienced and figured asking for consent was indecisive to a woman, shows how much I know. It really does seem like every step you take involves some sort of game, at least in some capacity large or small. That's going to take some practice.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:03 AM
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Yeah man, the whole diet and exercise thing will certainly be the hardest but I'm willing to give it a shot, especially since I've basically had 10+ fit men comment here and tell me literally exactly what the fuck to do with my fat ass.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:01 AM
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Short and sweet. Thanks for the words friend, can't wait to put all this shit to use.
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:00 AM
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Gnarly!
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:59 PM
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Hahaha that last sentence was funny as Hell, "if they nod that means yes". I appreciate it bro, looking forward to my next go around with all this new game.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:58 PM
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Currently putting it all in a word document, can't fucking wait to get started.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:57 PM
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I fully understand it's the main issue mate, believe me. I've already compiled all of this information and have made space in my schedule tomorrow for a morning walk, as well as made a nutrition plan. I appreciate the harsh truths though. Hate it when people sugarcoat it.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:57 PM
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Biohacking the body... what is that?
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:14 PM
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What a journey it will be. Thank you for taking the time to lend me a hand.
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:29 PM
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Jeez. Really putting it into perspective with this reply. It's like I know what needs done, I just need to get off my fucking ass and do it.
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:25 PM
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Nervous to join a gym because obviously I'm not in the best shape, I'm lazy, I work almost 15 hours a day, and it costs more money. In other words, bullshit excuses.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:55 PM
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This one is very reaffirming. Thank you, sometimes I get a bit impatient and need to let things ride, especially considering I've built for myself already. I do need to be aggressive. I know how to, but I'm so scared of rejection and awkwardness that I default to walking on egg shells or not taking action.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:46 PM
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Haha I actually did try the latter, and she wasn't into it. I didn't really explain it well in the post, but I genuinely tried to initiate.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:56 PM
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I've been unhealthy for so long that I may have forgotten what the human body does and feels like to live in when you're "normal".
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:55 PM
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🤙🏻
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:54 PM
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Seems like diet and exercise are the most common theme and I'd be lying if I said that I wasn't inspired.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:54 PM
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I understand. Am I hopeless for missing what seem to be obvious signs to everyone else? It's almost like I'm stupid or something, one even went as far as to ask if I'm gay. Not offended, but that's a bit concerning.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:53 PM
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Another comment full of awesome advice. Thank you, diet and exercise have never been a focus of mine so it's hard to look somewhere for good information that suits my exact situation.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:51 PM
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Not gay or bisexual. I am just not comfortable with and don't have much experience with game and women in general. Trying to iron some things out. I have the typical problem with making my own needs and wants taken care of before others, thus making me seem like a pussy. Trust me, I've had plenty of people think I'm gay. I'm just comfortable being my own type of man, but there's always room for improvement.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:45 PM
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I didn't realize how much of a push-pull game it was, I've been out of the game. No more school so girls aren't just around all the time, I suppose.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:37 PM
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No offense taken whatsoever, you bring up great points. You've addressed the balancing issue I have with good and bad and certain other things in my life perfectly and I thank you. Now all that's left to do is research, and practice. Seriously, thank you so much.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:36 PM
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Awesome! I'm not generally afraid to escalate, I know WHAT to do, just not WHEN or even IF I should. It all comes down to a lack of self confidence. This fucking thread is really, really helping though.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:12 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:11 PM
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That's what I half-figured myself, that last part. Build confidence while I'm not getting much attention, and do it for me.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:11 PM
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That last paragraph spoke to me. I'll need to do some searching and experimenting to get rid of my good guy tendencies. Always been afraid of keeping an image, mainly because I have pretty decent status where I'm from and a strong last name to boot. I really do appreciate it.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:10 PM
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Sage advice. Now it's a matter of finding another girl, gotta get more social. Sometimes I wish I'd have more social tendencies than the need to be responsible and straight and narrow, but there's a balance. Again, thank you. I can't fucking wait to spit some game.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:08 PM
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Thank you so much man. I've never known where to go for gym advice, or eating advice, though it would have helped if I went searching harder and looked in the right spots. As far as exercise, gyms have always intimidated me for lack of knowing what in the fuck I'm doing. Any advice there? I'm sure it's as easy as walking in the door, but baby steps.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:06 PM
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I could just twist an awkward question into game depending on the moment, and if she says no? Well... who cares. Right?
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:05 PM
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This is true. I'm an over thinker through and through, but Hell. Lotta advice in this thread to start changing some things around.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:04 PM
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I'll be damned. I never realized how rarely the women I've been with have initiated until you said it takes a certain woman to do it. Lack of confidence leads to indecisiveness about future steps, something else to work on. Thank you so much.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:03 PM
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Will do. Not a lot of confidence here, for fear of rejection and shit getting awkward. Typical stuff.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:32 PM
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No shit... thanks! I'll buy 'em tonight. Thanks for the honesty!
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:28 PM
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Understood. Hard not to sound like a prick, trying to give the most info I can. I am reading NMMNG as we speak, and it's helped too. All a journey, I appreciate the help man!
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:23 PM
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That's what I mean! I'm glad somebody understands. I definitely need to work out and get on a regimen. It's just, taking that leap and having the confidence to step into a gym knowing nothing about any equipment and whatnot. How'd it go for you?
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:22 PM
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Right on, I appreciate that. I'll look some other posts up on this and I'll do some research.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:21 PM
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You first.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:20 PM
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Could be. Made out, rubbed up on her, played with her hair and her titties, I did most of the work. We had a discussion and she was in tears about her past, and I'm a great listener so I did the decent thing and let her talk. I don't really mind. I think I just have a vibe that yells "I'm a good dude", and younger girls don't know what to do with it. But you could be right! Any tips?
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:04 PM
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Dude, if your job makes you relocate, that is a fucking fresh start. Enjoy your own company. Walk by that bridge every day and tell it to fuck off. You're letting yourself beat yourself right now. You already have the good job in place and that makes everything else a lot easier. Just pick a place and fucking start. It won't happen overnight and fuck sometimes it won't happen in a year. But 12 years of nothing... you have to look at yourself and make changes. Nobody said it would be easy. You go…
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:29 AM
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