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Ye, the problem is that there is virtually no possibility for me to go to any doctor. I look for way to handle it until I can.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:43 AM
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Maybe you are right in some places hower I still don't think I have posted it for validation. I said we like validation from others not only myself but it doesn't mean I seek it. But if it happens I won't try to not feel good. Wouldn't it be stupid? I will take your words to heart and do what I can to not be burned by this girl. And also maybe I will understand something I don't understand now. However I still think you missed the point of my post. I was just interested what I can do with an ide…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 09:48 PM
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Then what's the point of this sub anyway. I didn't post it to seek validation. I just wanted to share my story, no more. Apart from that we all like some validation, don't we? That's why we do anything in life, to feel it was worth it. I don't believe in actually 'killing your ego'. And even if it is possible I don't want it. Anyway, if you actually killed your ego you wouldn't post that reply. You wouldn't care about it. That's not what 'swallowing the pill' is about. At least for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 08:03 PM
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Frankly - sex is good, better than before. I don't see a reason why I would stop myself from doing what I did. Just as you said, if she will want it, she'll do it. What's the point in trying to prevent it. I mean, what actually could I do? The only way what I am willing to do is to make her realize that it won't pay off. In a way that if she does it I will break up and she won't have better than me, simple.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:59 PM
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It's hard to give actual to-do. I kinda winged it as I said in the post. What I can say is that I just become more and more shameless with things I've been telling her. Everything was situational, I am big fun of natural game, it's hard to give precise phrases. I think if you try you will know what to do as appetite grows by eating. You will want to see how far you can go. For me it turned out I could go pretty far.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 08:34 AM
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Well I think it turned out pretty well. I think the one big thing is that you must redefine your metrics for success. If you have a problem of anxiety hitting while not spinning enough plates I would say it's a problem with your abundance mentality. I think that the end goal of it is to just know that you are attractive and can get woman if you want it. If you need constant reassurance by getting new girls it seems like you still can't believe in your abilities. Basically my mindset is like that…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 08:14 AM
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Like what was the progression every day?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 05:48 AM
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Hey, I was the other way around. I'm writing to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 05:45 AM
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Well, actually this wasn't that subtle I just pretty much added something sexual to every other thing we were saying. The most dumb thing I remember was when we were food shopping and when we went for fruits I asked her if she wants a banana, she replied no and then I told her I'm not talking about fruits. But basically, I was touching her slightly, like pushing her ass with my finger and telling her that I will push it later with something else, I was playing the gadgets card giving her hints w…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 05:42 AM
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Hey, that's a good advice. The 10pm thing isn't that strict now. After some time it kinda blurred when we started normal routine, she is much more horny as the sex is better still, however. For now I'm not that scared as we are rather young and she is still living with her parents that do not leave the home, also in small town. There is not much she can do to fuck someone else but I agree that's not the solution and even though I will be more aware of it and take a look. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 05:30 AM
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Yeah, most likely. And that's what I'm intending to do in the future and actually doing at this time. The thing that shocked me most was how easy it is to make humans brain act like dog hearing the food is coming to his bowl. Her body is actually telling her when she is about to be fucked.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 08:37 PM
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Well that's the thing I didn't know, I have to learn more about it. Maybe next holidays will be good time to try, I'm saving some money as I can so maybe it's not that impossible.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:59 AM
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The good thing is that I have somehow some natural charisma in myself, and dealing with people was always natural for me. I never had problem with that, and that's how, even though my life looks how it looks like, I've been able to find as good friends as I found. In terms of personal finance, well, I already count every shitty coin I want to spend, and always think twice before I buy something. I can't really drop out of school, that would be bad idea. First - it wouldn't help me with finances,…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:14 AM
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Currently I don't have money for that. I can't work many hours because of school and most of the money I get I spend for things like food to at least not be that hungry and have any energy. Hopefully though in time of one year there is a possibility of changing that, because many companies in Poland are starting to hire people after they ended they 4th semester. Now I'm starting 3rd one, so maybe the better life is not that far. I mean, I survived all this time, so what one or two years are gonn…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:06 AM
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The problem with moving to America is that it's almost impossible to get visa to USA in Poland. If it's not gonna be 1 month visa because of Holidays or other similar thing, the only way to get it is already getting a job in big company in America, and getting visa then. So if company like google or other big one would hire me - no problem. Other than that - well.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:03 AM
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No. I didn't do anything with her since then.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:07 AM
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No, because we realized that something could have gone wrong like 2 days after. We didn't even actually had sex. It was that after she jerked me off I put my hand on wet mattress and after some time I fingered her with that same hand.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:36 PM
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Well, it depends on how you feel. It's your to decide if you're gonna accept it or not. And her to decide if she want's to keep in touch with them or not. From my point of view I would say that keeping contact with exes isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes the relationship can't be one way, but can be second way, and it's nothing wrong with being friends with a person you were in romantic relationship with, if it didn't work out but you still like each other in other ways. Just be as strong perso…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:10 AM
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Well I thought about it too. And I'm pretty sure that's it since you know, I can't think about any circumstances that could say 'no she can't be pregnant' and that aren't present here. Guess I'll just wait these few days until she get's her period and dump her.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:06 AM
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Yeah, but it's been a month still.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:57 AM
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As I said in post - I did buy her pregnancy test. Even three to be sure. She says she's not gonna do them because she's scared. I can't make her piss on it right?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 08:58 AM
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Definitely gonna take a look on it
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:19 PM
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Yeah, of course by dumping uni I don't mean that I will somehow be able to live by myself. It's more than I wonder if that wouldn't be better in terms of self-development/education. In some years I'm aiming to be software developer. Most of the companies offer job either to people with degree or students. That's the biggest reason why I am on this uni. Because I always learned better by myself and because of uni I don't have that much time to actually do that.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:46 AM
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Why is that with omegas and vit d? I do not take them.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:41 AM
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The only job I could get now is some shitty job that I would hate even more than these studies. I don't want to be cashier or something. Not because I feel like it's shame or something. I would just feel even more stuck this way. What I thought is more like make something by myself. Actually learn only the stuff I want to learn, try new things so maybe I discover something new. I would definitely do that if my situation was at least slightly better. But at that point the most important thing for…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:14 PM
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I do lift, I do meditate, and I have a journal where I write things I want to achieve, how I'm gonna do that, and I make a resume every month, for almost 4 years now. Also, I don't blame other people. Ok, probably my situation isn't the best that could be given to me, but I'm not gonna cry about, what I want to do is to proactively change that situation. The question is what do I do proactively to actually make that change. The problem is that I'm at the exam time on Uni having no motivation wha…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:08 PM
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Never heard about it, probably someone just wrote wrong word, but doing cold approach requires some boldness for sure. If I would have to give the definition of cold approach I would just say it is approaching someone with intention to initiate contact. Doesn't matter if it's a girl you're interested in or some random stranger you want to ask about direction to Starbucks.
/r/seduction14/05/18 09:24 PM
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Between a cold approach and what?
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:15 PM
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Ye, the fact that doesn't help in my case is that I met her through my college buddy, we don't actually like each other so much, but the she is his good friend and even tho i didn't see her since december, this guy is like walking reminder, or when I accidentally see him texting with her normally, god, stupid thing. But I think it gets better, maybe I need more time...
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:54 PM
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May I ask how long it's been?
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:18 PM
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Good luck with it! Tell me how it worked when you'll do that :D
/r/seduction08/05/18 08:41 AM
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I can't believe I forgot to mention this in my post but I think Models works best when there is already attraction and it helps you become more attractive. But it doesn't spark attraction in itself. That's truth too. But this is because models focuses on being attractive, not doing something attractive. More on the root of the attractive behavior than the behavior itself. But it's true that it makes your interaction more strong, deep, girls actually like your softer, emotional side, of course if…
/r/seduction06/05/18 07:37 AM
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That's because models isn't really book that is focused on the process of getting girls. Even Mark Manson himself said, that he didn't like writing about these concepts like "how to be funny" etc. This book is more the self-help book, man-up book. It doesn't teach you the things to do to women, it teaches how to be attractive by being better. As he said, the only real way to be better with girls is through self-improvement. And this you can get so much from the book. Cut-off everything about dat…
/r/seduction05/05/18 09:28 PM
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Hey, definitely gonna check it out. This info I mentioned came from Models book I really enjoyed and that changed my mindset a lot and for better, where author set rsd next to PUAs like Neil Strauss, Mystery etc. Today I have much free time, I guess it's time to check it out!
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:01 PM
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Yeah I heard about it, but I also heard that some of their stuff should be avoided because it promotes bad practice like narcissism, disrespect or creating false persona. Is it true? I know that there are few rsd guys. Are there ones that I should avoid?
/r/seduction11/02/18 07:20 AM
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It doesn't matter how important something is for you, you will still experience ups and downs. I don't say I can't do it without help. I say that help would... help and if someone is interested it would be nice. I don't force anyone to anything. For myself it would be funny experience to be mentor for someone in terms of for example basic social skills, especially because I had problems with them too, now I don't.
/r/seduction11/02/18 07:08 AM
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If I can basically meet her max 1 time a week then why not to text to talk and flirt a little? I don't think not going for a kiss is a problem here since we were only on 2 dates yet, and yes, I am inexperienced but I feel like every next meeting was more physical and she is also inexperienced. I agree that probably I could go further but it were my first times really. Also, I don't think that she made excuse this time, I didn't really ask her much time before. And she said that "next week sure" …
/r/seduction05/01/18 03:47 PM
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