Slashe3r Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
151	What am I supposed to do at the bar?	Field Report	Slashe3r	/r/seduction	12/04/24 08:51 PM
17	How do Guys get SECOND Date?	Comprehensive	Slashe3r	/r/seduction	07/03/24 11:22 PM
0	How can I tell who I can attract?	Fundamentals	Slashe3r	/r/seduction	12/04/24 05:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Feel like I can't touch on first dates I feel like most people aren't going to agree with what I am going to say but I noticed when a woman really likes, she will do the escalating, touching for you. Women in general don't come across men that they find "attractive to them" so when they do, they do absolutely everything they can to keep him. So a woman really likes you, her actions towards you will speak volumes, I had a girl initiate making out after I hugged her at the end of the date, of course I did kiss her cheek but I'm general…	/r/seduction	14/04/24 10:57 PM
4	What am I supposed to do at the bar? What do you mean by that? How am I getting a higher quality woman at a Hotel Lounge? Also, can I go to those lounges without paying for a room? Here's what I want, a woman that I find attractive, doesn't have to be a 10/10, just an average woman who's curvy since that's what I find attractive. She gives me a solid sign that she's interested and then I walk over to her. I can handle the conversation, I'm good at that, I just don't know how to start conversations.	/r/seduction	13/04/24 03:27 AM
4	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I will try to become better at starting conversations. Right now I'm working to feel comfortable sitting at a bar alone and making mistakes like spilling drinks, not knowing how to sit, working on my posture so my posture is more masculine, I think I'm very conscious of how people perceive me so I'm trying to focus on what my posture looks like, am I speaking too fast, am I too excited while I'm talking, am I loud enough or they can barely hear me? I'm trying to improve all of that while simulta…	/r/seduction	13/04/24 02:30 AM
6	What am I supposed to do at the bar? Has it improved your dating now that you no longer look for an outcome?	/r/seduction	13/04/24 02:27 AM
2	What am I supposed to do at the bar? Do you think I present myself well enough from my pictures, is there something more I can do? Someone told me to wear louder colored clothes	/r/seduction	13/04/24 01:03 AM
3	What am I supposed to do at the bar? True 😂	/r/seduction	13/04/24 12:50 AM
1	What am I supposed to do at the bar? Do you have to pay for them?	/r/seduction	12/04/24 11:13 PM
1	What am I supposed to do at the bar? What is that?	/r/seduction	12/04/24 11:10 PM
9	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I don't think I'm confident enough to start talking to strangers. Man, I find dating so hard, it's like there are no instructions or rules	/r/seduction	12/04/24 11:09 PM
10	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I don't know how you play bar games, do you have to pay for them? I'm not social so I don't know what to do and I think I'm too afraid to make myself look stupid in front of other people.	/r/seduction	12/04/24 11:06 PM
2	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I have a question, when I go to a bar by myself, is it better to sit by the bar or is it better if I sit by myself by reserving a table for "one person" before I go there. Which one is better?	/r/seduction	12/04/24 11:04 PM
2	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I don't think I'm confident enough to do that plus all I drink is margaritas.	/r/seduction	12/04/24 10:54 PM
2	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I'm in NYC	/r/seduction	12/04/24 09:28 PM
9	What am I supposed to do at the bar? Interesting insight, Hopefully I get there too :)	/r/seduction	12/04/24 09:23 PM
30	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I don't think I have the confidence level to be comfortable in that situation, I'm sorry	/r/seduction	12/04/24 09:18 PM
1	What am I supposed to do at the bar? I don't have anyone to go with me	/r/seduction	12/04/24 09:16 PM
49	What am I supposed to do at the bar? Oh, I did that because I was a little afraid of going to a bar during the weekend and worried I wouldn't find a spot to sit and look stupid in a crowded bar	/r/seduction	12/04/24 09:12 PM
1	How can I tell who I can attract? So notice eye contact before I initiate the conversation, gotcha, I assume really confident women might make strong eye contact because they are confident so it still won't be a 100% success rate but let's see. Thank You!	/r/seduction	12/04/24 08:57 PM
1	How can I tell who I can attract? Does that eye contact thing still hold its value if I'm talking to a waiter or someone who has to look at me while talking to me?	/r/seduction	12/04/24 08:42 PM
1	How can I tell who I can attract? Is there any way to gauge this before you start talking to them?	/r/seduction	12/04/24 06:14 PM
2	2 simple reasons why not having a clear outcome is killing your (seduction) gains And what if the things that girl is looking for are hard for you to become? Can't get taller, jacked or rich just like that. I do understand your point and it's a good one which should in theory make everything easier but most of us can't become what the ideal man is for a woman. Most of us lose at the height, and not being rich. Especially living in more expensive cities like NYC, LA, Miami, Atlanta, or Chicago for the US at least. So the first point you made, is where 60% of men would lose.	/r/seduction	12/03/24 04:05 AM
1	Looking for a girl This gotta be an April fools joke 🤣	/r/seduction	12/03/24 03:58 AM
-2	French or Spanish classes for maximum baddies? Wait, let's say I want some Spanish baddies, If I go to Spanish language class, there will be all kinds of women but Spanish since they already know the language? So doesn't that defeat the purpose?	/r/seduction	08/03/24 08:23 PM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? Interesting, hard to understand what you meant exactly but I'll try to understand.	/r/seduction	08/03/24 08:16 PM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? Where by East River? Btw, what time? I assume closer to the sunset is romantic I guess? My family lives with me so I can't take her back to my place but if she finds me attractive enough, maybe she will take me to hers?	/r/seduction	08/03/24 08:07 PM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? Damn, you sound like you must be getting action all the time, can you break it down how to escalate step by step? Where should I first start touching the woman, like her fingers or something? What places do you recommend? How do I find places where you can sit side by side?	/r/seduction	08/03/24 08:05 PM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? Interesting, which places do you recommend to go for a stroll? Also, you do that in this cold weather? Lol 😂	/r/seduction	08/03/24 07:58 PM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? I agree with this but haven't had it so 😕	/r/seduction	08/03/24 08:20 AM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? I don't live by myself, that's my problem. My family lives with me.	/r/seduction	08/03/24 08:20 AM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? I talked to a girl and a different guy and they said it's totally normal to spend 150 on a first date in NYC so I don't know ;( it's expensive to begin with here, each drink is like $20, make it for four, 2 for her and 2 for me with some appetizer and it's $120 after tip. I'm not doing something that's not expected, I think New York is just expensive in general :( On the other hand, I don't know how to escalate, I do touch women's fingers when out with them, or their hand but nothing more than t…	/r/seduction	08/03/24 07:39 AM
3	How do Guys get SECOND Date? But I don't think a coffee date would lead to sex? I haven't had sex in 5 years, I would like to get some action	/r/seduction	08/03/24 04:13 AM
1	How do Guys get SECOND Date? Interesting	/r/seduction	08/03/24 03:09 AM
12	How do Guys get SECOND Date? Nah bro, we didn't go anymore dates. I think we both lost 😂	/r/seduction	08/03/24 12:27 AM
7	How do Guys get SECOND Date? I don't think women would want to go on a Coffee date in NYC. They're probably getting hit on by men wanting to take them out for drinks, expensive bars and clubs! My date 2 days ago told me on her last date, the guy took her out to a cruise boat that goes from one borough to another and then she got dinner with him. How am I supposed to compete with that?	/r/seduction	08/03/24 12:20 AM
1	When a woman likes you, you will know I had a date 2 days ago and it didn't go anywhere but I honestly couldn't say anything because her hobbies are swimming, sky diving and some outreageous things that I don't know myself and can't afford it either. What do I do in that situation?	/r/seduction	02/03/24 06:49 PM
4	When a woman likes you, you will know Interesting, can you explain it in a bit more in depth? I would like to do this on my dates, when should I imply this? Later in the date?	/r/seduction	02/03/24 06:42 PM
2	When a woman likes you, you will know In my personal experience I've noticed that when a woman is interested in you, she will ask you more personal questions like "How old are you" "Where do you come from" "Where do you live" "Are you single" "Are you looking for a long term relationship" Usually, the more interested she is in you, the more she wants to know about your personal life to check if she would want to be with you. None of these are definitive signs, but the more personal she's trying to be, the more she's probably interes…	/r/seduction	02/03/24 06:40 PM
15	I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insights Lol, that guy is super jealous. Funny enough I always thought that "women were women's biggest enemy", first time seeing a guy get jealous over another guy's success! Lol	/r/seduction	02/02/24 09:32 PM
15	If a woman likes you, she will let you know I agree with you but the biggest thing that you overlook is that most guys, more than 70 percent of men's population can't just find a different girl. That's literally the reason why they try so hard because it took them a long time to get even one girl in the first place. Of course I'm recommending getting disrespected in exchange to be with this one girl, but average men tend to be more cautious and I don't see anything wrong with it. I have been single for 4 years now and I can't attract any …	/r/seduction	21/01/24 11:18 AM
3	This shit is so addictive That's just lies being told to men in disguise of hope. It actually doesn't exist.	/r/seduction	26/10/23 04:02 AM
3	This shit is so addictive Ain't addictive for me because women don't find me attractive. Sucks but it is what it is.	/r/seduction	26/10/23 02:36 AM
3	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. The question is, what are the "right" things to do in terms of Seduction and how do you catch yourself doing the wrong thing and then correct yourself. That's the hard thing because no one explains what's the right thing to do. Also, you said there are plenty of ugly dudes who have partners but to be honest, a lot of ugly dudes are going out with these women who are also women that most of us don't find attractive. I'm not being hateful towards anyone but I do have a strong standard for hygiene …	/r/seduction	02/08/23 06:51 AM
2	Why do girls who have boyfriends stare at me? I'm a taxi driver in NYC. and my brother does the same job, girls ask him out everyday while no one asks me out. So I guess I'm not that attractive.	/r/seduction	22/07/23 02:05 AM
4	Why do girls who have boyfriends stare at me? Apparently the girls I have talked to, don't like sex or they don't like me lol	/r/seduction	21/07/23 09:00 PM
1	Get your shit together before you start doing "game" and cold approaching women. Sounds very toxic, don't you think?	/r/seduction	20/07/23 08:42 AM
41	My observations with guys who pull women This post won't help guys get girls though. Your friends got it from inside, also known as "inner game" Most guys, including myself still struggle with women and me and I bet a bunch of others, are stuck in a situation where "We don't even know our problem". To give you context, I do dress well, grooming and hygiene on point, smell extremely good, and really really good social skills. This subreddit did help me with one thing, couple of fellow Indians pointed out that I am a bit out of shape (20…	/r/seduction	16/07/23 11:40 PM
4	Old school tip: the Knee test Does anybody know any body language cues to know whether someone is interested in you or not before even talking. Eye contact is a hit or miss for me, sometimes women make eye contact out of purely being polite.	/r/seduction	15/04/23 02:03 AM