| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | AlimonyThat makes sense. It’s a very broad rule of thumb only, not the law, but useful if you want to settle quickly. I still think net is fairer. Your lawyer should be able to calculate it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/22 07:11 AM |
| 2 | AlimonyI’d base any calculation off net not gross because your tax rate filing single will be a lot higher. It looks like the rule of thumb in NJ is 1/3 the difference, so 22.5% would seem a little low - but it may be fine if her expenses (need) are low or she’s getting a lot of assets and self-supporting without alimony. 6 years seems like a long time for a 10 year marriage and she already works full-time. 10 years is not a long time. Just enough to get your social security amount but still pretty sho… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Left my wife and I want her backYou know whoever you end up with is going to be less physically attractive over time because people age and get out of shape, right? Seems like you get bored easily and you’re not the commitment type, and follow your d*** where it leads you. Every teenager goes through this stage, but once you marry and have kids you should have matured out of that. I didn’t get married until I was 35, because I was like you for a long time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/20 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Lawyer sucking everything she canYou want to pay less money and your STBXW wants the money, so is asking for child support through property. That’s a common scenario. It’s got nothing to do with her lawyer. The lawyer’s not getting the child support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Wife took kids and left stateIs that your answer ignoramus? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Wife took kids and left stateSo any parent can just take their children whenever and wherever they want and conceal their location from the other parent because they have “legal custody”. Show me the law that allows that, absent an emergency to escape harm. Did OP say he was a pedophile or domestic abuser and his wife was escaping harm in emergency circumstances? Sure, if its an emergency like that, a parent can justifiably leave. But he didn’t say that. So you’re assuming new facts aren’t you, dilbert? She just told him sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Wife took kids and left stateIf you don’t know where she is, also call the police and report it. She may have violated the federal Parenting Kidnapping Prevention Act. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/20 06:12 AM |
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