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| -4 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areOP, I have a newsflash for you--you create your own misery thinking this way, and "never showing any weakness" and "having your armor always on." Bc self-assured, grown adult women see that behavior and think "emotionally immature with a low emotional IQ". We don't want men like that. All of the women I know, and I know a lot, are with men they definitely do NOT need but simply want, including myself. I'm sorry that you feel this way, but your perspective is incredibly skewed and you're creating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 05:45 AM |
| 0 | If there was a test that could confirm cheating, would you make your man take it?Nope. If I can't trust him with something as basic as not cheating, I shouldn't be with him. And my partner would have every right to break up with me. For starters, ANY grounds is grounds for a break up, bc no one owes anyone else a relationship. But mainly, I wouldnt blame him for not wanting to stay with someone who doesn't trust him and believes him capable of such egregious behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 09:36 PM |
| -2 | Would you prefer your son to be a genuinely good person who can't get a date, or a sexually irresistible asshole?Not being shallow and immature automatically equates to low self-esteem for you? That's sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenNah. It's not the fact that they're sleeping around that is being criticized. It's their behavior and attitude towards their sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 02:23 PM |
| – | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?We want to be treated and approached like people, not something you might get to have sex with st some future point in time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:54 PM |
| – | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.Nobody here is minimizing violence experienced by men. That is a strawman. Bringing UP violence against men when discussing violence against women is minimizing and demeaning. If you want to discuss violence against men, make a post about it. (By "nobody" I mean me lol, and "here" is this comment thread, btw) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.Dude. Stop. The strawmaning is just too annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.Aahhhh, that explains A LOT Sweet cheeks, you need to realize that the way YOU view things isn't the way everyone else does. Just bc YOU find what I'm saying to be something that would make you miserable doesn't mean I'm miserable. Like I said. Please stop projecting on me. I'm not an IMAX screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.I'm the furthest from miserable, so I'd appreciate you not projecting your twisted fantasies of suffering women on to me, thanks. Lololol. The very fact that you have no clue how the ability to laugh at yourself is a useful skill is incredibly indicative of your ignorance. Are you really young?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.It literally does, tho. Literally. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.You're welcome to hold your erroneous opinion. Science disagrees 🤷🏻♀️. Do you think the world is flat and climate change is a hoax, too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.Oh, I laugh at myself all of the time! You clearly lack this skill, however. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.Women are significantly more likely to experience intimate partner violence. Women are significantly more likely to experience sexual violence. And who is it that's hurting these men, hmmm??? The vast majority of the time, it's another man. So, thank you for adding to my point that men are dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.Honey. The draft is DUE to the patriarchy lmao. Men suffer under the patriarchy, too. How is this so hard to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.Of course, I'm holding them to a different standard lmao. Men have the entire weight of oppressive patriarchal systems behind them. Women do not. Men are MUCH more dangerous to women than women are to men. That is simply reality. Scientifically proven reality. Women have endured CENTURIES of oppression due to their gender. Men have not. So yeah. Different standards, champ. Until either I die or the system changes so that what I wrote above is no longer the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 01:06 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Hitting "the wall" as a woman should be embraced!It should be seen as a good thing, and frankly, I do think it exists: in the minds of bitter 55 yr old men who dream of a malleable, naive 22 yr old they can manipulate & take advantage of who doesn't know any better and therefore will accept the bitter man's shitty behavior and be unaware of just how mediocre he is in bed. The way these men bitch and moan about older women having "too high of standards" is extremely elucidating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Males are more likely to accept being fetishized in a LTR than women.Bc most men fetishize the women they date. IMHO. So ofc they're cool having it happen to them. Plus, men just care that someone wants to fuck them. They don't necessarily care why. While women do. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 08:48 PM |
| 7 | Women don't want to be breadwinners, or do domestic labor.Hun, you're the personification of confirmation bias, first of all. Your argument is literally "I think women feel this way so that MUST be the catalyst behind these circumstances/facts." Again. There is an extremely SMALL amount of women who are stay at home wives without having kids. That has an almost insignificant impact on the stats bc the number is so relatively low. Second, if women want men to be the breadwinner, they're not going to want to stay single any longer than necessary. Bc they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 02:17 AM |
| 8 | Women don't want to be breadwinners, or do domestic labor.Who gives a fuck? There is a VERY small percentage of women who are housewives without kids, hun. And people staying single has literally no effect on what I just said. These are statistical, objective facts. You talk as tho there's this epidemic of women wanting men to be the breadwinner when reality proves that to be untrue. Half of couples in Western society have the woman making as much or more than her partner. If your perspective was actually true, that percentage would be MUCH lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Women don't want to be breadwinners, or do domestic labor....half of couples in Western societies have the women making as much or more than their partner. This is a fantasy you created in your own head to justify whatever beliefs you have about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 12:53 AM |
| -3 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.Might not be "all men" but it's certainly a fuck ton of them. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 06:40 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.Hun. Voting independent with the way things are will accomplish nothing except potentially causing harm. Reality is reality, and you have to operate in the framework you're given if you want to be successful at creating change. You vote for the party that is more likely to get you closer to your goal, or at the very least won't backtrack from it, and you work to bring about change slowly and surely until the climate is such that voting independent would actually accomplish something of true wort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:43 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.I knowwwww!! I'm not sure where in "The world is a shitty place, yes, but you shouldn't add to the shitty. You should help when you can and contribute to building a safer society" they saw "MEN SUCK" byt apparently that's what they see. "Everyone else is doing it" quit being a reasonable response in grade school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:29 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.I actually believe in abolishing the draft completely, but if the draft is unavoidable, then I believe women should have to sign up, too. My brother in christ, while I do love going to the sauna and getting my nails done, bc who wouldn't amirite, those things cost money. I ain't made of cash. Unfortunately. Sigh. Your move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:25 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.I love it! One of my favorites is "have the day you deserve." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:19 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.Damn, who hurt you, broseidon of the brocean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 12:05 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted."The world is a cold, cruel place" is a massive cop out for selfish, cowardly people who want all of the benefits of living in a society without the responsibilities of living in a society. Just bc the world is shitty, doesn't mean it's okay to add to that shitty. The world shouldn't be shitty. Good, decent people want to change that, which will never happen if people keep adding to the shitty for their own personal gain. Who hurt you, my brother in christ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:33 AM |
| -1 | If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phoneThis is one HELL of a false equivalency. You also very conveniently leave out the fact that she's pregnant. Do you have any idea how shitty pregnancy is? Any clue what those hormones raging thru your body do? Clearly not. Further, the game completely changes when children become involved, and everyone knows and understands that. So asking for a paternity test of a child is NOT the same as asking to look at someone's phone. His wife is pregnant and insecure. Instead of reassuring her and showing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Men need to normalize disappointing womenThis is laughable. And it's just a dressed up version of "women will test you to see if you'll give in to requests like carrying her purse at the mall, and if you do, it shows her she's more dominate so she loses interest." Which is just incredibly absurd. I also like how you speak of women as both children and some kind of different species. A species you clearly do not understand. Nobody likes a doormat, but a woman will not "feel more powerful" than her man if he indulges her--she'll just fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 06:59 PM |
| 10 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.So, basically, men need to up their relationship game and get on our level, son. I don't necessarily care for the implication that life should suck for single women, tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe shit tests are real?No. It's called being an adult, and communicating. If you're worried they won't be honest with you... yeah, they might not tell the truth. That's life. Sometimes, people lie. But the emotional immaturity of others doesn't condone your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention?Before I met the man I'm currently dating, I would have answered with a resounding "YES." But now, if I could receive his attention and be invisible to all other men, then yes. If this doesn't work out, tho, I'm done with dating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What age range do males start to be seen as more of a threat and less innocent?I started fearing boys when I was in 1st grade and a pack of them chased me around the playground trying to force me to kiss them. It never improved. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 12:37 PM |
| 0 | Doesn't Elon, Nick Cannon etc. prove that TRP is partially right about hypergamy and about how women are willing to share certain men?Except there are tons of poor, deadbeat dads with kids from multiple women. Lololol This doesn't prove hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 12:37 PM |
| -2 | Your own attractiveness is static, so raising your standards only makes you less likely to find your partnerPlease tell me how it objectively lowers value? Bc most ppl want kids--the financial strain would he just the same if there was shared DNA. This idea of men not wanting to "raise another man's kids" is so gross. Love and family isn't about biology. So, really, how has she objectively lowered her value? Y'all realize that a woman who already had kids used to be MORE valuable bc it proved her fertility? Which shows that "value" in that regard is entirely subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Setting the Negativity Aside, In Your Opinion Which Broad Trend(s) Is/Are Headed in a Good Direction?I do think that the added attention to the unique factors that contribute to poor men's mental health is a good thing overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"I love it when my personal beliefs are validated. Thank youuuu! ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"Boo hoo for you, I guess. Sorry, but what's morally and ethically right doesn't GAF about how horny you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"I mean, it truly depends on something that many people in this sub seem unable to grasp--context. But sure, if there's no fucked up power dynamics. 🤷🏻♀️ I'm genuinely perplexed as to the point you think you're making here? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 02:50 PM |
| – | Women see men as worthless/dangerous by default, so "don't be negative" is easy for them to say.We do not see men as dangerous or worthless by default. What an inflammatory, clickbait statement lololol. What we do indeed do by default is practice rational, common sense safety protocols--bc we don't know if they're dangerous or not... And I'd much rather hurt some nonabusive dude's feelings than end up violated or abused or killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"40 yr olds shouldn't be fucking ppl below the age of 25, tho. Any 40 yr old, regardless of sex, gender, "maturity" level, etc etc. That's just creepy. Like for real. Go wild and fuck all the 30 yr olds you want at age 75, but stay away from people whose brains are literally still developing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"There is no "earning a right to fuck" lmao. You always have that right. It's your body, your choice. Go get your knees shoved up by your ears and have a fantastic time, my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:22 PM |
| -2 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to menMany of your 'studies' aren't rigorous or peer-reviewed. Further, what those studies show is that YOUNGER generations are moving away from gender discrimination, which is a good thing, but doesn't change the fact that the majority of systems are still set up to uphold patriarchal systems. These are isolated studies of specific fields that have recently had a surge of women applicants and that have campaigned for more women in those careers... I'm very glad to see our push for equality is startin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceThe ratio on dating apps is 70%-80% men and 20-30% women... and that's not even taking into account the bots and scammers. The women you're talking about comprise a comparatively small demographic. Lol. And it continues to boggle my mind that men blame women for refusing to lower their standards, as if you're entitled to a partner that you are being unfairly denied. Many men are "pornsick". They can't keep it up or reach orgasm during sex bc their brains have been so over-saturated with unrealis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 02:59 PM |
| -5 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to menLololol. Affirmative action is not hostile to men. It's honestly hilarious to me how quick men are to label attempts at equality as hostile oppression. It is scientifically proven that the majority of the time, companies will accept resumes from a "man" and reject the EXACT SAME RESUME if it comes from a "woman." We aren't hostile towards men--we are simply evening the scales. Again, it's funny how equality feels like oppression to those at the top of an unequal hierarchy. The reason most discus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 01:37 PM |
| -3 | Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other womenYeah, it's called internalized misogyny. Lol. So, yes, the patriarchy. Two things can be true simultaneously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationShe isn't talking about that kind of situation. She's talking about situations where they have been rejected by the woman. She states that several times in her post. That is what I was responding to. I'm sure there are some shitty women who deliberately string dudes along, but it's not as epidemic or ubiquitous as you seem to think. A lot of the time, things guys see as "encouragement" or "signs" or "boyfriend behavior/requests" are just women trying to be their friend. That's on the guy for rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationThere IS no plausible deniability, there's just deniability. She is suggesting that rejecting them but still remaining close emotionally and such is what grants that PD. It doesn't. Bc if a woman rejects you, but you continue to believe there is a romantic possibility, that's a personal problem of yours, not the responsibility of the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:58 PM |
| 0 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationYou don't understand context and nuance. And OP specifically states that she's talking about when a woman has already rejected the guy but keeps him around. Do you need to re-read it? If someone has told you "no, I don't want to date you", they aren't leading you on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationThat is such a dependent question... some ppl lean on partners in different or more intense ways than others. Everyone's definition of these terms is gonna be a bit different. What is your scale? Your measuring stick? But personally? Yes. I lean on my loved ones for emotional support and validation if I don't have a partner the same as my partner... bc we all need emotional support and validation. And, what, only those in romantic relationships deserve that? Lololol. That's very weird thinking i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Feminists who say, "I support women's wrongs" ... what do you mean?Lmao. Look at my comment history and you will one hundred percent see me calling out women who have done egregious things. I see women calling out other women who commit SA and DV all the damn time. And YOUR allegations about women refusing to call out "fake rape allegations" is weak as fuck. You give no specific examples, nor do we know if the "allegations" you're referencing ARE actually "fake" or if YOU just think they're fake. Guess what, hun? Confirmation bias absolutely exists, as does Dun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:15 AM |
| 0 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationDude. Except for the financial part, everything you just described, emotional support, a shoulder to cry on, emotional validation, etc... is just friendship. 🤦🏻♀️ How is it the woman's fault if she continues being friends with a man who has feelings for her if she's made the fact that she only wants to be friends clear?? Do you not lean on your friends as a shoulder to cry on and a source of networks and resources and emotional validation? Bc I do. And so do all of my friends. That's what being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:04 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the future of feminism is in the west ?This is giving major bigotry and I don't like that Why not look at what true Christianity does to feminism? Bc, yes, many Christians have become more lax about things, but the fact remains that one of the core tenets of Christianity is that woman is subservient to man. Like, MAJORLY subservient. It also is extremely against pro-choice regarding women's reproduction, which laughs in the face or feminism. Why aren't we talking about that, hmm?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | The "Nice Guy" trope is, in most cases, a projection on the woman's partDating apps are cesspools. Their entire existence is based around physical looks, so of course that is gonna skew. Sure, physical attractiveness plays a big role, absolutely. And for some, it's the end all be all. But not most. And for MANY women, how attracted we are to you can absolutely change based on getting to know you and forming a connection. Stop with the dating apps--all that will accomplish is continuing to make you feel like shit. Dating apps are full of shallow ppl looking for a hoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | The "Nice Guy" trope is, in most cases, a projection on the woman's partThen you'll never get what you want 🤷🏻♀️ You want me to show you pics of my late husband and a couple of my exes for proof? Lmao Said LH was 5'8, pasty as hell, paunchy, had a super weak jawline, and broke as fuck. My most recent ex has a gut that could rival Santa's and beady shark eyes. My first serious boyfriend was also 5'8" and broke as fuck, but he wasn't paunchy... he was rail thin. Like, could fit in my size 2 jeans perfectly skinny. He also leaned more feminine in his features--no rugg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:44 AM |
| 0 | The "Nice Guy" trope is, in most cases, a projection on the woman's partThis... is the biggest cope I've ever seen. And your idea of a "nice guy" is inaccurate lol. "Nice guys" are the ones who enter into a friendship with a woman with the hopes of dating her, and then gets pissed at her when she rejects his advances and starts bleating like a deranged goat about how she was just leading him on and "using him for emotional support and someone who will listen to her problems"... as if that's not what fucking friendship is. Lmao. Attractiveness has nothing to do with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 02:26 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentNo. We wouldn't. Men face the problem they do bc they fail to set up adequate social networks for themselves. And bc they have been socialized to believe that men MUST have sex, that it IS a need. I have gone years and years without sex, not of my own accord. My best friend was single, not by choice, for 10 yrs. You know what we did?? We sucked it up, we leaned on friends and family for emotional support, and masturbated. Grow up, use your hand, and realize that women experience the exact same s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Question For Women, Which Of These Men Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?I wouldn't date any of them, as they all have red flags in their personality that make them undateable. And it's extremely clear what you're doing, based on the chosen personality traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 11:37 AM |
| 1 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderHe's bashing the very thing that keeps women from having a "women's mental health crisis" or a "women's loneliness epidemic." Hahahahha. It's honestly pure comedy gold--disdaining the very thing that would help yall. LOLZ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderOh, I understand the point lmao. It's just an illegitimate, inaccurate point. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:05 PM |
| -2 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderSeems to me, based upon the successful suicide rate (as it is important to note that men don't ATTEMPT more than women, they just SUCCEED at a higher rate) in men, the "men's mental health/loneliness epidemic," and the bitching and moaning that occurs on this sub and others overrun by the manosphere--men could stand for feedback that's a little less brutal. Wanna know why there's no women's loneliness epidemic? Nope, sorry boys, it's not bc we have pussies. It's bc we build social networks. We f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:27 AM |
| 0 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderYou have to be trolling. Lmao. Or just not all that bright, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:21 AM |
| -1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Strictly trying to date "men with potential" when you're young is indeed stupid... and perhaps the only good point made there is that you can never predict the future, so it's a risk with too high of chance of failure. This desperate, rabid need for women to lower their standards? Like why y'all keep doing yourselves dirty like that?? Just telling on yourself with your entire chest. The only people who think "too highly" of themselves are those who believe they are somehow intrinsically superior… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityAbsolutely not true lmao. Masculine traits are still thought of positively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityI do what I can to promote the cause | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:19 PM |
| 62 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityTo answer your question with nothing but objective logic, the beneficial aspect of feminine traits for women is to provide those traits in return for being protected and provided for. Women don't need that anymore. So unless you are deliberately intending to catch yourself a man who is looking for those traits, there are no directly beneficial incentives to be feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.And fucking damn right I'm angry. Lmao. I'm fucking furious. The difference is that I have the emotional intelligence and maturity to recognize, acknowledge, and adequately process my emotions--one part of the processing being expression of those emotions. Unlike many men, however, I turn my anger to accomplishing constructive tasks, such as dishing out straight facts that hurt insecure little boys' feelings and not beating someone's ass bc I have the mental perspective of a toddler. 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 08:37 PM |
| 0 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Is your reading comprehension shitty along with your personality? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Thank youuuu. It's a sad but undeniable fact that many seem to bury their heads in the sand about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:40 AM |
| -3 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Oh believe me, I have to deal with shitty men--so I already do! Thank you so much for the concern, that's super considerate of you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:39 PM |
| 6 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Oh lord, oh man HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Sorry, had to get that out. 70% of dating app users are men. And the 30% of women doesn't even account for the bots and scammers. Men are ABSOLUTELY fueling dating apps. I could also talk about WHY the main or OG sites were created if we really gotta. LOL. Feminism in NO WAY claims all men are rapists or abusers lmao. What we do is speak facts about the objective, statistically proven issue we have with men & violence. Even accounting for men who don't report and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Red pill is about understanding women not shaming themCool. But ACTUAL women, not men who want women, are overwhelmingly telling you that you're incorrect. Lmao. And y'all refuse to listen. So, no, it's not about "understanding our nature." It's about finding ways to manipulate and control us. GTFOH with that BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 01:05 AM |
| -1 | What US women want is a fantasyYa caught me! How'd you know that all my besties call me Shamu?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 05:29 PM |
| -1 | What US women want is a fantasy🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Do women prefer to share a high value man than to have a low value man?Is your friend in the room with us right now? There are always going to be ppl who have extremely low self-esteem, or mental illness, or trauma that causes them to behave in irrational and absurd ways that seem completely reasonable to them. I'm assuming you've come to the conclusion about the attraction to cheaters by observing the fact that many women appear to become even more attached to the cheater and desperately attempt to "fix" themselves so the cheater won't cheat again. That is not gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 04:35 PM |
| 7 | What US women want is a fantasyThis DESPERATE and blatant need to convince women to lower their standards is TELLING | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him?It's all about chemistry. And what "red pill" and "black pill" individuals fail to accept is the fact that chemistry has to do with so many things. Sure, physical attractiveness can play a big role. But it's also about something indistinguishable that occurs when two people with good chemistry meet. Tbh, most of the time, it's just not going to work out. You can do nothing wrong and "everything right" and STILL come out the loser. That's simply life. The difference between sad, angry men who tur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?I could ask you the same about what you mean if you say you want to find "a good person" to be friends with. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?Well, now I just did, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 10:14 PM |
| 4 | How are "good" women supposed to prevent cheating, post-wall?Girly pop, you just gotta find a man who isn't shitty. Good luck lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How are "good" women supposed to prevent cheating, post-wall?Even in scenarios they tailormake to satisfy their every whim and coddle their massively fragile egos, men are still assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:12 AM |
| 9 | most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm womenTo begin with, I completely reject your original premise that women want men who conform to some masculine gender roles and not others. What we want is a fully functional, well-rounded adult who contributes equally to the partnership. All of those "masculine" traits you describe? Those are simply GOOD traits. Those are good traits for women to have! Do you know what are also good traits? Being considerate and nurturing and thoughtful and supportive. We think we should be all of those things, too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 11:00 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.Uh huh, faulty data lmao. And so do I, as I addressed in my reply. Also, guess what, hun? I'm a woman! Wow, imagine that. A woman, being an authority on women. Astounding! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I'm saying what I said lolol. When you're younger or before you actually do something, you can often believe you want something and then change your mind. Lmao. We don't need to incentive women to have kids. Incentivizing and enabling are two different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:36 AM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Again, there are myriad factors that could account for that disparity you stated, including the fact that women may think they want 2 or 3 and then actually have a child and realize they do not. Or younger women could be socialized to believe they want a larger family and realize as they age that they actually personally don't want that. I would need much more data indicating that disparity is caused by external and not internal factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.I appreciate you putting in the work to elaborate where I was unwilling. Just don't have the energy to be a professor today lololol. Appreciate ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.That disparity could be accounted for by things that do not equate to women being disallowed by circumstance to have as many children as she actually wants. I would need to know more about where you got your data from to address your response adequately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.Yes, I do lmao. I answered in a separate reply addressing all of his supposed "data". Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.You do realize that these women you're referencing have contact with MEN, right? And therefore, inarguably, men are also experiencing contact outside apps. So no. Not an explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.You're the one making the initial claim. Pony up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.First, that's NOT what I'm referencing--I'm discussing the studies themselves, their objectives, their samples, and their methods. But, hey, let's talk about the reasons why only 30% of dating app users are women... which is a number, btw, that doesn't even account for how much of that 30% are bots/scammers. I'd LOOOOVE to hear your theories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.Sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:33 PM |
| 7 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.I want to know why we need to incentivize women to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.Why does nobody have any concept of context & nuance anymore?? Looking "creepy" and behavior that may or may not be deemed "creepy" via subjective analysis by each unique individual, are not the same. Further, looking creepy, as I said, can have NOTHING to do with physical attractiveness. It can be body language, facial expressions, just fucking VIBES. We are constantly on the look out for danger. I don't know how to explain nonverbal communications and intuition to you. The dating app statistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:26 PM |
| – | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.You really just do not get it. Holy hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:21 PM |
| -2 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.You're simply incorrect. You're also using a ridiculously skewed study--of course ON DATING SITES where the SOLE significant contributing factor to beginning a conversation is looks.... women are going to rate looks as important lmao. Dating sites like Tinder and Hinge and Bumble are literally based on looks. In real life, that is NOT the way it works. "LAFS" is a ridiculous thing to base predictions of long term romantic desire and success on. Many ppl don't experience that AT ALL. Many, many p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themWho isn't desperate for a laugh nowadays, am I right?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themYou think you're being very clever, I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themNo, you're just hurting your own feelings with erroneous conclusions and blaming us for it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themI don't understand why y'all keep making up shit to get angry over. I have never heard a woman argue against ANY of those things. Lmao. I guess oppression can look kinda cozy from the outside looking in, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeOh, I am absolutely gonna return his energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?You're entitled to your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:45 PM |
| – | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeYou... don't understand definitions of words, do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?I mean, me caring about something isn't something you're gonna make me feel bad about. So, go off babe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:30 PM |
| 4 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeThe fact that you think my reply was vague or deflecting (which is the term you really meant to use but hey I'm no grammar Nazi haha) is ALSO sad. How can you be THIS obtuse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:29 PM |
| 3 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeOh, no, I'm not concerned at all. What I am is nosey AF, bc someone clearly wounded this dude. Which is fine. We all get hurt. Ain't nothing wrong with it. I talk about who hurt me all over my profile, my dude. But y'all don't know how to be emotionally intelligent apparently. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:15 PM |
| 2 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeHoney, you're the one claiming you can be "entitled" in your preferences. That automatically and undeniably implies that you think certain women aren't "qualified" to prefer a certain level of man. Hence, requirements by default. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:02 PM |
| 6 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeFam, who hurt you? Women having higher standards than you doesn't make them delusional lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:25 PM |
| 13 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeIt is really, really sad that you think there are requirements for preferring certain things in your partner. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:22 PM |
| 10 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?Because most men seem to become friends with women solely for the purpose of eventually obtaining sex/romance. And that's annoying AF. There's a HUGE difference between a guy who wants to be your friend and is open & honest about the fact that he finds you sexually attractive (but is okay being friends) and a guy who keeps it to himself the entire time hoping he'll eventually convince you to date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 04:23 PM |
| 24 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Bc women are the ones whose lives and health are put at risk to produce a human. They are the ones whose resources are drained for nearly a year and even longer if they breastfeed. That's why. And that is LAUGHABLE. I know so many men who DID just opt out of parenthood. "But child support," you wail. Get over it. The kid is HERE at that point. And fine, ya know what? Don't allow us our abortions, sure, but CS is retroactive to the date of conception, and includes half of all medical expenses. Oh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 12:34 PM |
| -2 | Women with high relationship standards--please tell me about what you offer in returnI bring me, and all that comes with that. If that's not right for them, that's not right for them. You're making it transactional and you can't do that. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:12 PM |
| 7 | Women of reddit, would you be ok being the breadwinner if it means the husband only gets to have an open ended side of the relationship?It's a kick ass username, I don't blame you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 12:43 PM |
| 6 | Women of reddit, would you be ok being the breadwinner if it means the husband only gets to have an open ended side of the relationship?You really think you're doing something here, huh? How absolutely adorable! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Men who are sure their woman is loyal, wouldn't let their woman be hit on in a bar, by Chad, as an experiment.Thank youuu! Hashtag: IChooseTheBearAndMyManWouldToo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 02:43 AM |
| -1 | Are women finding less men are willing to help them?My point was very clear, which makes your intent just as clear. Those groups are not automatically harassment groups, so your broad claim is incorrect, demonstrably. Lololol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Men who are sure their woman is loyal, wouldn't let their woman be hit on in a bar, by Chad, as an experiment.Do you not realize how often pretty girls get hit on?? As others have said, there's no need for an experiment. And we get hit on by men who are more conventionally attractive, or have more money, or a chiseled 6-pack ALL of the time. We don't cheat bc we care about our partner. This entire posts REEKS of projected insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 09:46 PM |
| -2 | Are women finding less men are willing to help them?I've seen these groups. And while some certainly do, most don't. There are also groups specifically formed to harass women. Human beings gonna suck. Your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Are women finding less men are willing to help them?I hope they continue to avoid us--sounds like a win/win if I've ever heard one. If you're dating multiple ppl while telling them you're exclusive, then ending up on one of those sites is the consequences of your actions. Cheaters deserve exposure. If you truly believe harassment lawsuits for simple cold approaches are occurring, that's laughable. For it to even BE harassment, you have to first inform that person to stop talking to you unless they're saying something obscene or blatantly discrimi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 03:20 PM |
| -1 | Men’s positive actions are individualized while their negative actions are collectivized and …No, you didn't. Lmao. And you never had any intention of doing so. But nice try, hun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 10:42 PM |
| -5 | Men’s positive actions are individualized while their negative actions are collectivized and …I'm not nodding along, tho. This whole post is just generalized assumptions... the very thing you are supposedly against. However. The trials that we collectivize?? They're DEADLY traits. Men commit violence against their partners at astronomically higher rates than women, including in same sex relationships. It is a matter of SAFETY. A woman making fun of you or being shallow or using you as an ATM doesn't get you raped or abused or murdered. You always treat every gun as tho it is loaded, bc i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedNah, the incels just can't stand the fact that they do not possess the characteristics necessary to see a real live young woman naked. It's hilarious that they bitch about women with unfair or unrealistic standards, but then denigrate and reject women who are older. Bc they don't want older. They want young and beautiful and fresh. But some don't want to just come out and say that, bc it's hypocritical AF, so they instead find reasons to reject older women even tho those older women are finally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Are women "witholding affection from men"?The idea that women should be forced to lower their standards and provide what these men see as a NEED is a very common concept in the incel realm. They don't want to accept that sometimes, ppl are just alone and lonely. It sucks, but it's just life. They also don't want to put in the work to actually grow. I've seen SO many men bitch that they "tried everything ppl said and it STILL didn't work so they gave up." Um, sir? You just proved to me you didn't actually improve and grow, bc if you DID … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 07:58 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsExactly! But to that I say: so women are just interchangeable orifices to you, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 03:54 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsSure, the guys that just think of women as interchangeable orifices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Women put the bar higher for men than most would want for themselves.That was a LOT of words for "I have absolutely no desire or intent to grow as a person and better myself, so instead of doing that, I'm going to blame women for wanting a good man." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 03:43 PM |
| -3 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsIt's insane how these dudes bitch and moan about women having stupid standards and then turn around and present a laundry list of traits they desire in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?Then I'm not sure what exactly you were trying to accomplish aside from demeaning women's lived experiences and the stark facts of the violence we face bc you got your feelings in a twist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?Nah, it's not irrelevant. Men are, objectively and demonstrably, much more violent than women are. Even when only comparing same sex male relationships--men kill their dates and their partners at fat higher rates than women do. Hence, Einstein, women who date men are more at risk of violence than men who date women. Oh, wait. That's my whole point, isn't it? Thanks for helping me illustrate it, my guy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?Lmao. Who kills those 80%, hmm? Oh, that's right--the vast majority are killed by their own kind. The call is coming from inside of the house, my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Age-Gap Relationships (Remixed)I don't think 18 yr olds should be able to do any of the things you mentioned. They're children. Military recruiting is NOTORIOUSLY predatory. NOTORIOUSLY. If anything, it grooms kids more than human being groomers do. I don't think adults should fuck teenagers and I don't think adults should fuck someone whose brain is still developing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approachedExcept it is already declining, at least for women. On Bumble, for example, the ratio of men to women was somewhat reasonable. Now, women make up only 25% of Bumble users. And when you add in that half of that 25% is probably bots and the result is a rather bleak picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Is the use of makeup deceptive?It's been said before and I will say it again: If a man mistakenly believes I naturally have kohl-lined eyes and glossy lips, that is a personal problem of his. I say this as a woman who almost never wears makeup. And if your number one concern is being tricked into banging "an ogre," good for you! My biggest fear is my date murdering me. Forgive me if I'm less than sympathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 01:17 PM |
| -2 | Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virginMy partner thinks you're hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virgin1) Know how to be in an adult relationship 2) Be nice 3) Don't be a POS 4) Be financially independent 5) Have a car 6) Don't be an asshole 7) Be into the freaky shit I am 8) Have a credit score and a bank account. They just need to exist. 9) Be nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virginThey have to be a Chad, ofc! Duh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:06 PM |
| -1 | Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virginAbsolutely, just like I'll put up with theirs lolol. That's what being in a relationship means. And, see, this is exactly why I want a man who knows how to be in a serious adult relationship. SMH. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virginYou've never heard of the concept of "minimum requirements"? I find that very difficult to believe. I understand you were being opportunistic and insulting a sexually active woman when you saw an opening to do so. Your intent was never unclear. It's too bad for you that your shot wildly missed its mark. And of course, a lot of men won't be into the stuff I'm into lmao. Being "slapped around" as you so elegantly described it is just a TEENSY part of all that turns me on. What's your point? Or are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virginI don't lmao. But to engage in that shit properly, you need to have some sexual experience at bare minimum. You have heard of minimum requirements, correct? It has nothing to do with assuming experienced men would be into my "intense stuff" and everything to with the ppl who ARE into it needing to have some experience. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:11 AM |
| -3 | Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virginI mean, I'm into some intense stuff, so sexual inexperience would be a big roadblock to overcome. It wouldn't be a deal breaker, tho. I'd be very worried about their ability to be in and maintain a long term, adult relationship, tho, if they'd never been in one. I would say the same for someone who just slept around or had short term relationships. It has nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with knowing how to be in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:51 PM |
| – | Physical attraction isnt a shallow thing to desireSexual attraction isn't just about physical attractiveness. If you solely concentrate on someone's looks, that is shallow. Ppl also seem to conveniently forget that looks 100% fade with time. The fact YOU are also old and wrinkled doesn't change what you've considered physically attractive all of your life. Yet many ppl continue to date in their later years. Bc it's NOT all about looks. Keeping it 100, I think that for a lot of ppl who ficus so much on physical looks, it's less about their attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 01:16 PM |
| – | Just because women feel attraction rarer, that doesn't mean their sexuality is all that much "better".I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. It's not just that men are supposedly "easier." I'm incredibly sex-positive--the number of people a man sleeps with is of no concern to me nor the speed in which they do so. It's how men approach us. It's the fact that out of 300 DMs I've received here on Reddit, only about FIVE approached me as tho I'm an actual human being who they would appreciate knowing even IF sex isn't a possibility. Only about 5 respected my boundaries. All the others? It wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 01:49 PM |
| – | Men who committed a high body count women, how do you not feel like a loser?Can I just pay the toll, please? I'd really like to cross this bridge and never think about it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:42 AM |
| – | Men who committed a high body count women, how do you not feel like a loser?Lmao. You have to be trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Too many women are seriously NOT looking for an actual human connection with a man.It's so odd that y'all make up these weird little scenarios to get mad about. Feminists talk about this shit all of the time. 🤣🤣 Just go to the Feminism sub ffs. Oh, man. Y'all are something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:44 PM |
| 3 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?Lolz. I did, hun. The reason I commented was TO answer your supposed conundrum. But apparently, my point just whizzed right on over your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:41 PM |
| 8 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?So, no. Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:39 PM |
| -4 | Too many women are seriously NOT looking for an actual human connection with a man.This is exactly why we need feminism. 🤷🏻♀️ All of those standards these women hold men to? They were set in place by the patriarchy. The call is coming from inside the house, fam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:37 PM |
| 8 | How do you tell if a guy is 'Red Pill' and not just a guy who has a basic level of respect for himself as a man?You can suck and not be a bad person. You can be a bad person who is very good at pretending not to suck. Do you understand human beings, my dear brother in christ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:09 PM |
| 7 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Okay, I really hope I don't come off ableist, or am fetishizing autistic ppl, or anything like that, bc I myself am ND, but it's just a fact There is nothing like that 'Tism Rizz. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 10:39 PM |
| 2 | You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel?Yeah, that was meant to communicate my feelings about it--I wouldn't care. If they're horny, they're horny. Why wouldn't they take care of the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel?Love that for them? Lololol. I mean, I'm (mostly) a submissive with a very high sex drive with the right person, so I very, very rarely turn my partner down. (I don't just agree to sex bc of a dynamic, I want to make that clear. I spent far too long having sex I didn't want to have in order to please my selfish, abusive partners.) But when I do, I'd expect him to jack off at some point that night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 02:46 PM |
| -1 | Which qualities are ok to want in a partner when you don't possess them yourself? Which ones are not ok to want when you don't posses them yourself?Oh, no, absolutely not. I would think that would be obvious? But most men ARE incredibly oblivious, so I am far from surprised. I am hilarious, tho, so there's that. Thanks, trauma! 🩷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Which qualities are ok to want in a partner when you don't possess them yourself? Which ones are not ok to want when you don't posses them yourself?You just played yourself and you don't even know it. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:23 PM |
| 11 | Which qualities are ok to want in a partner when you don't possess them yourself? Which ones are not ok to want when you don't posses them yourself?That's... not what she's saying. The societal idea of "skinny" is not born out in many women's bodies who are naturally more broad. I am a petite lady. I am the skinny ideal. I do nothing to earn that. And I have friends who are NOT petite, whose actual skeletal frame is broader and "thicker" than mine, who many men read as "fat" due to the aforementioned societal idea of skinny, who DO go to the gym 4 times a week and eat healthy. That's what she's saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:23 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitThis is a really, really funny scenario that you made up to injure your own feelings Let's indulge your absurdity, shall we, and respond with this: Sooooooo sorry that we want to make sure men we actually want to invest our time & energy into want us for more than our orifices. How manipulative and stupid of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.No, it doesn't make me feel anything, to be completely honest. Why would a man need me? Why would I be insulted by a man making a general statement that has nothing to do with me personally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:44 PM |
| 3 | How conditional is your love?I had no conditions in my past relationships, and I paid a very steep price. My love is exceedingly conditional now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:20 PM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.And I guess that answers my question 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:44 AM |
| 2 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Slave princess, baby girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:44 AM |
| 3 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Prove it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:39 AM |
| 2 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.But did ya get picked, love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:38 AM |
| 0 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Lol, I am chill? They're just questions, my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Sigh. I was pointing out your faulty premise, hun. Men also still get sex even when they rape and murder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:06 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Exactly. And when we say we "don't need" a man we mean we don't literally need to be in a relationship with a man to successfully function in life with food in our bellies and a roof over our heads. Do you really want a woman to be with you bc she needs you for survival? Why don't you want a woman who is with you bc she wants you bc of the happiness and comfort and safety you give her with your presence in her life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Hun, all of the fan mail received by male serial killers makes your attempt to shade women laughable. The fact that you read "I want a partner, not someone who wants me to provide all of the labor with no reciprocity" as me wanting a "slave" is also laughable. And cringe af. Um, I get that most of y'all are really bad at reading a room, but did my username not tip you off to some pretty important information?? Lmao. If anyone is the slave, it's me, sweetie. Consensually. But you'd not know what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:52 PM |
| 9 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Nobody said anything about bragging lmao. But, indulging your hypothetical, they DO have reason to brag when for centuries they were told they didn't have the ability or capability to be strong and independent and are STILL told that, constantly. But I'm sure you think sexism doesn't exist anymore except towards men bc you're feeling the results of the patriarchy but can't admit it's your own gender's damn fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:49 PM |
| 8 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women....being a true partner is anything but casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 10:33 PM |
| 23 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.It's sad that your response to "I'm a strong, independent woman that doesn't need a man" is "then why are you even looking for one???" Um. Bc I'd like a partner? Just seems the vast majority of men mean "maid/cook/mommy/therapist/secretary" when they say that's what they want, not an actual partner. It just seems to indicate you view relationships as transactional--only in it for what the other person can provide to you. Lol. I've never had any issues getting dates, idk what that part is about. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMY'all think the cashier girl was flirting with you bc she giggled at your awkward joke. Considering that, I'm not surprised you'd see flirting where there is none. When you feel extremely threatened, you're likely to see threats all around you. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?Do you know the first rule of gun safety? You always behave as if a gun is loaded. Men are ALL loaded guns until we know for a fact they're safe. Bc they could seriously hurt us. They could kill us. They could do worse than kill us. It's so, so laughable that you're making this about yourself. God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?Why do you keep seeing yourself in things you claim you don't do? It's very odd. If you don't rape women, then the bear question isn't about you. Lol. The fact that you see it as being about you is... concerning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?Yes, I did. Lol. Again. They have nothing to be ashamed of if they don't assault or intend to assault women. Young ppl often get upset about things they shouldn't. That's when older individuals explain to them that getting defensive about women expressing A REALITY is not an appropriate response. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?No. It doesn't. Bc if you're not a man who assaults women, you have nothing to worry or be upset about. It is a fact that a woman alone with a strange man is a life or death situation for her. How is that damaging? If that hurts young boys feelings, maybe they should examine why they're mad at women for expressing their legitimate and valud fear instead of the men who have made us afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?Lol, it has nothing to do with me being pissed off about dudes picking a tree instead of making me their therapist on top of mommy, maid, cook, nurse, and secretary. Like, please, bore the fuck outta tree with your 30th monologue that week about your favorite podcast, not me. I'm pointing out that this question, solely created as an attempt to demean and diminish women's experiences, is based on a completely false premise. I'm sorry that bothers you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMThis is a classic case of creating what we fear and seeing what we think we're gonna see. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:37 PM |
| – | Why is there this obsession in the manosphere with wanting to ‘replace women’?Perhaps we wouldn't be so "hateful and spiteful" if so many men weren't such assholes. 🤷🏻♀️ Y'all delude yourselves into calling what y'all do "fragile." Why am I surprised you also delude yourselves into believing we need you to lololol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 09:29 PM |
| – | Why is there this obsession in the manosphere with wanting to ‘replace women’?Lmao. Keep telling yourself that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 08:02 PM |
| – | Why is there this obsession in the manosphere with wanting to ‘replace women’?Bc they convince themselves that while women don't want them, we need to be wanted by them (or men in general, I suppose). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?The tree is meant to symbolize suicide. It is based on a false, misleading premise. Men are just more successful at suicide. Women actually still ATTEMPT suicide two times more than men. Our misery is still there, we just tend to pick methods seen as more socially acceptable and readily available for women such as pills, and therefore we get saved and/or are unsuccessful more often than men. Futhermore, of COURSE the bear question generalized men. Do you not realize that being alone with a stran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:26 AM |
| 0 | What percentage of men under age 30 do you think have sexual options?Why are you making it a power struggle, tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time?It's sad that you believe being cleverly selective and being horny are mutually exclusive. Your claim also presumes that being horny and having self-control are not compatible concepts. Which is sadder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:12 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting themlaughs in demisexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:09 PM |
| 12 | Bangmaid is a loaded term that adds nothing to the discussion about relationships.There are many men who say that's all we bring to the table, and all that they want from us. I mean, some also want us to be their baby machine, ofc. Maybe if women weren't treated as marketable commodities to "use" and "own" by society and the majority of men, they wouldn't approach men as ATMs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Women: How do you know a man has "done the work" - and how much does it matter these days?...you can absolutely tell. From their behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 09:18 PM |
| 0 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Oh, don't worry, I worship him enough for the both of us. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 12:00 AM |
| -1 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Why do I need counseling when I have Daddy's ass? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 10:33 PM |
| -1 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Lolz. Nice strawman. Come back when you can argue in good-faith, without fallacies. Then we'll see if you can try your seat at the big girls table. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 10:12 PM |
| 0 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Tsk tsk tsk. You boys do not pay attention to detail. No, trash had anal sex with me. I no longer allow this to occur. I have yet to peg a man (I don't count my first husband bc like... I just dont, anyway) but Daddy likes it when his princess takes charge sometimes, so I'll let you know when it happens if you want? But Daddy isn't trash, tho, so Idk if you want me to or not? PS: I'm really sorry that no one wants to let you put your penis in their butthole. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 09:50 PM |
| -1 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Again, couldn't be more welcome, dear child. I am here to help! 🫂❤️ | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 09:33 PM |
| -2 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.You are so very welcome! Willing to lend a hand any time 😘. I do, after all, aim to please. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 09:16 PM |
| 0 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Excellent observational skills | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 08:24 PM |
| -3 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Oh... oh no. So close and yet so so far. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 08:14 PM |
| -1 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Way to tell on yourself, bro. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 08:03 PM |
| -2 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out....exactly. I'm glad you're at least self-aware. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 07:53 PM |
| -6 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Oh, you are so very welcome, hun! I do aim to please, after all! 😘 | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 07:43 PM |
| -8 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out.Oh, you ain't seen lunacy yet, sweetie. But if you wanna play ball with the big kids, I'm happy to oblige 😘 | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 07:29 PM |
| -10 | If only there was a man to save her. A Pennsylvania woman was attacked by a female bear while she let her dog out....damn, I got you pressed. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 07:19 PM |
| -5 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingOkie dokie artichokie | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/24 03:55 AM |
| -8 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingNah. As an Eng. Lit major who scored a perfect score on her RC on the SATs, I think I comprehend exactly what's going on here... A pity party. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/24 03:47 AM |
| -11 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingAh, yes, the retreat packaged as taking the high road. You'd think yall would've learned newer tricks... or at least gotten more creative with them... but I shoulda known I'd be let down once again. Sigh. I played myself. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/24 02:47 AM |
| -15 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before wedding🤣 Oh, no no no. We aren't doing false equivalencies here, hun. And I'm not a Gender Studies professor. Not that you'd listen if I were. Go do your own make believe research and tell yourself whatever sad, woeful tale you want warble across the land. The power imbalance? Will never be the same. Sorry... sweetie. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/24 02:38 AM |
| -9 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingMen get away with this shit EVERY single day. And it's other men dismissing and invalidating these crimes as "hot". Never have I seen a woman defend a woman raping a young boy. Lolz | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/24 02:36 AM |
| -16 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingYes, anything is possible when you're making it up, sweetie. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/05/24 02:32 AM |
| -33 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingLike... provable, demonstrable reality. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/05/24 11:06 PM |
| -42 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingIt's not really something you can disagree with, my guy. It's literal facts. Lol. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/05/24 11:06 PM |
| -31 | Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before weddingIt literally happens all of the time? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/05/24 10:39 PM |
| 7 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?It's called being hilarious as fuck, kind, smart, respectful, and considerate. Luck is no more a factor than it is in dating in general. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 05:10 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.Because we are just as horny as y'all are, my guy. You realize "horny" just means "desiring to fuck/engage in sex acts", right?? I can be super horny, dude, but yeah, I'm not gonna be too interested in sucking the dick of a man whose pee I just had to wipe off our bathroom floor or letting a man who treats me like I'm an object not a human being bend me over and rail me. "Horny" doesn't mean "willing to fuck anything that moves and shows even half-hearted interest." 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 05:26 PM |
| – | Is it easier in 2024 for an autistic man to make a fortune than get into a romantic relationship.I'm fairly positive that it would have always been this way if women hadn't been forced into unwanted marriage by myriad means fair & foul until a few decades ago. This doesn't really say anything other than ppl used to have greater incentives to marry ppl they otherwise wouldn't want to marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 05:22 PM |
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