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| 1 | Queens set me straight. Should I commit to closing the long distance gap with a HVM at the cost of my short-term financial securityIf you can’t find a job in country C then country C is no longer a viable place to move to. If this relationship does not work out what would your life look like if you make this decision? And are you ok with that outcome? If you are ok with moving to country C regardless of if it works out with your SO then go. If you think there’s a slight possibility you would have resentment or regret based on this decision then don’t do it. I was in a similar position with my own long distance relationship.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:59 PM |
| 7 | How to approach the topic of wanting to start a family soon?Are you married? If not that should be the first step before diving into creating a new human. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Should you be financially independent from ur spouse?Married people go through hardships and sometimes they are not honest about it. Marriage is hard work and what most married people don’t do is broadcast their issues to other people. Why is this controversial? My point is you have no idea what actually goes on in any other persons marriage no matter what they tell you. If a person has a SECRET account they will keep it SECRET. Especially to avoid the judgement you just presented in your comment. Do married couples lie? Absolutely because they ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Should you be financially independent from ur spouse?All I’m saying is most people aren’t going to be honest to outsiders about details of their marriage. Most people aren’t even forth coming about their finances either. There are plenty of reasons why someone might want to have their own money separate from a spouse. Whatever these reasons are most people don’t go around openly discussing it. Married couples lie about the dynamics of their relationship to each other, to themselves, and to other people ALL the time. Vetting or not, people can and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/19 08:21 PM |
| 3 | how can i learn to cook?YouTube is your friend. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Should you be financially independent from ur spouse?If a person has a secret stash of money in their marriage they are not going to go around and tell people this. Keep that in mind. People will often time paint their marriage as perfect and will never tell you that one of them has a gambling problem, spending problem, or is just plain bad with money. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/19 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Should you be financially independent from ur spouse?The honest truth is being a RPW doesn’t stop your husband from possibly dying, medical emergencies that makes him unable to work, or simply falling out of love with you. It’s not about what is respectable or not. It’s about weighing your risks. You have to do whatever is best for YOU. But don’t be so stuck on living philosophies you ignore the realities of the world. Finances matter whether you want to be a stay at home wife or not. And you have to balance marrying for love, marrying for lifesty… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/19 03:52 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with insecurities.I recently got into fitness and eating healthy. I felt amazed by what I could push my body to do and set person records every week. By being healthier I just feel better. I also try to dress nicely as much as possible. When I dress nicely, I feel confident and why more organized than when I wear baggy sweats. I also got into skin care and taking better care of my hair. Lastly, I started saying positive affirmations to myself everyday and meditating. This helped me believe I was worthy of loving … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend’s hesitation about having SAHM: time to go?I just feel like I’m today’s economy if a woman wants to be a SAHM she needs to be strategically dating men of high income that can support her and her children without struggling. An average Joe (whether he supports his wife staying at home or not) simply can not afford this. If a woman happens to fall in love with the average Joe, she has to compromise. Because honestly what is the point of being a stay at home wife if the children grow up in financial struggle and uncertainty. A woman can hav… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend’s hesitation about having SAHM: time to go?Start networking and look into tech, data analytics, digital marketing. You can even pick up a side gig in freelance writing. I personally work in healthcare but it’s very uncommon to be able to (Work from home is such a blessing). Get creative and look on indeed/LinkedIn for remote or work from home positions in your field or a field you may like or pays well. Build a strong career network now before the kids come. The more well connected you are (and capable) the more unique opportunities are … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Boyfriend’s hesitation about having SAHM: time to go?In the day and age when work from home jobs are abundant I don’t understand why being a SAHM is a hill you are willing die on. I work from home 4 days a week and make a full salary. My colleagues who also work from home do so and are able to be around their children frequently. Technology has made things so flexible. Unless you don’t want to work at all. It’s up to you but he has every right to be financially worried. If he gets laid off, dies, or is injured your family is screwed. If you are se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend of 12years doesn't want to get married.I don’t understand why a couple would jump through all the legal hoops to replicate the legal protections and privileges of marriage but not just get married. If there is no “difference” why is it such a big for him to marry you. I don’t get it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/19 03:08 PM |
| 45 | Breaking point in 6yr LTRStart working on yourself until you are in the position (financially, mentally, emotionally) to cut your losses. Men will keep a woman around for years just out of convenience not love. Work on bettering yourself and then seek out what you really want. Life is way to short to spend time on dead end relationships. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/19 10:33 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend mad at me for not doing what i say i am, advice?While dating you are deciding the man you’re with is worth submitting to. Submission is a gift not an expectation. It shouldn’t just be given to give every single man you date. He needs to prove he can, protect, provide, and can lead (and whatever other standard you may personally have). Submitting to a man who hasn’t proven himself opens you up to being used. Again as a woman you are the prize not the other way around. For example, you seem to naturally like to clean and cook for those you love… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 09:58 PM |
| 23 | Boyfriend mad at me for not doing what i say i am, advice?The keyword here is boyfriend. You are acting like a wife to a man who hasn’t committed to you. STOP. Stop and reassess your relationship every step of the way. Do not stress yourself out, waste your potential, or your good years on a man who may not be a good potential husband (that is on you to decide). I’m from the school of thought that if a boyfriend or girlfriend does any household work that is an act of kindness not a duty. This includes cooking, cleaning, etc. Submission is a special gif… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Sad, crying everyday after the wedding45 minutes is not far at all. I live two hours from my parents in another state and I see them every single weekend. Breathe and relax. Get a car and things will be ok. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 06:30 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome fear of increasing NCOUNTI’ve never had a relationship where a man asked for my body count. A mature man won’t care so whatever your number is just keep it to yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 01:00 PM |
| 2 | How to STFU without feeling compromised?Is he addicted to porn? sex isn’t something you should STFU about because it’s an issue that can lead to divorce, infidelity, or overall resentment. Be very honest with yourself on if it’s a deal breaker or not before you walk down the aisle. The goal is to be happily married not married and divorced. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 12:53 PM |
| 9 | New RPW former EXTREME feminist SJWI do keto and intermittent fasting. I also got a personal trainer and weight lifting. I lost 35 pounds and gained a lot more male attention. Currently in a LTR with an amazing man who loves me. My health is better than ever and my skin is better. I started from 200+ pounds and still have a long way to go. Change your motivation. You have to do this for yourself and for your own health. The men will come as a positive side effect. You don’t want to be 40 years old with heart disease and diabetes.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 12:47 PM |
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