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| 2 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingI mean, it's hard to argue that it isn't taking place. It absolutely is, I agree. Though, I think it's warranted. I don't have any solutions, though. That's the crux of this whole situation. We only have 1 life until proven otherwise. To recognize you're an inferior lifeform and can't/won't have the experiences you want to have, but others can just for merely existing. As well as being told well duh, of course they can have it all, like it's some divine destiny. I've grown to sympathize with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingExactly. Why do you think the old saying goes "getting lucky"? It's means most men weren't fucking with any sort of predictable frequency casually. Same as today. Getting lucky also doesn't imply that you punched a few points above your looks class and scored either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingI wouldn't be surprised if it's been a slow burn conditioning to funnel up physical flesh and blood resources to the rich, powerful, hyper intelligent, and / or existing attractive. Beauty has always had the ability to be fluid in any society. They always rise to be adjacent to those with power, wealth, and intelligence (even if they lack all qualities besides beauty). Now, it's being forced to the top as large swaths of men can't compete to offer resources, experiences, and lifestyle. Of course… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 11 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'd definitely say there is some truth to this. Anecdotally from my experience, of course, but it's not the first time I've come across the idea online. I'm near a chad-lite level, and though I've had some wonky experiences dating (hypergamous behavior a couple of times), generally any women I've ever dated or had a casual fling with has been very pleasant and overall feminine energy throughout. People on this sub bemoan going outside and touching grass and average people are dating everywhere, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 04:35 AM |
| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think the darker irony in this story you told us is that she laid this foundation with you, specifically: "she grew up religious, had strict parents and just in general had a very cautious slow vibe in dating - as in over the past year of knowing her she would always say how she never kisses on the first date, is looking for something serious, and is very cautious with men, and values personality a ton over looks" Just to set the stage/precedent that you can look, but don't touch or pursue. In… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutNice, bro. Yeah, it's my money that's hindered me for sure, I won't deny that. It's a piece of the puzzle baked into the equation. I was in a hurry and left some bits out, but the landscape is 100% different. The lives people lived then, the average was most had access to a certain level of experiences. There is massive disparity on that now, and for some time. It's all about the experience you can provide and with the experiences the majority want at some base primal level being readily availab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutI agree on this soo hard, I'm 33 now. I look young still and have the same fit physique from those younger years. I've explained this in a few different ways, and it always comes out similar. Things have absolutely changed. I'm not by any means in the top %, hard stuck between above average and chad-lite. In high school, once I hit my stride after turning 16 (ugly duckling pre puberty story) I felt unstoppable with the number of girls I was talking to, dating, hooking up with. I lost a few of my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 08:19 PM |
| 11 | The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing MenI'm not here to attack your anecdotal experiences or say that they aren't reality, but every single quality you listed in your last paragraph is what all the friends I grew up with have had going on for years. They are chronically single, I'm the only dude out of that group of 7 guys that is above average in looks, and I have pretty consistent success. I'm 32 now. 3 out of those 7 guys haven't had a girlfriend since high-school or the beginning of their 20's. The ones that have dated, the relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.I think you left out the most important part. Depending on the provider (it's more common than not) the fee for your time together, let's say what most guys would default to, the hour long session. You get ONE nut for that money. If you bust too quick, then you're paying an additional fee on top to go again or straight up the cost of the hourly rate you just payed AGAIN. Some women do offer MSOG, multiple shots on goal, but it's rare. Maybe if you're a regular, but yeah. If you're inexperienced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Pro porn rant part 1: introI did agree with what you're saying, that the access is instantaneous, you don't have to leave your house to get some sleaze. I was just pointing out the other side of the coin. That what's in the content isn't new or an acceleration of hedonism, because the classics like missionary soley for the purpose of procreation isn't cutting it anymore. There have been many posts/speculation that modern porn contains all these acts as if it's pushing the envelope to keep dopamine spiking. When in fact po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Pro porn rant part 1: introThis is not accurate at all. Vintage erotica contains all the things we see today in porn today. I've seen DP, feet, facials, swallowing, role playing/costume play, group sex, ect, ect. Even hard-core fetish mags existed during those periods (scat, piss, rape fantasy). All in magazines and films going back to the 1960's. I'm 32 now, but growing up all my friends' dad's had collections going back from when they were teens including my own father. Plenty of vendors back then weren't carding you un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 06:33 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceI really do respect women when they deserve it and are well adjusted. I love women. I'm just black pilled on the nature of reality when it comes to genetics and how they affect the lives of others. I guess I do get flack for posting in these communities, but I find the paradigm shift fascinating in the most recent 10 years. Plus, data and statistics are my jam. People don't dig my empathy and sympathy in these spaces, but I genuinely do understand the struggles of others. I wish it wasn't this w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:23 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceI wonder if it's an inheritable genetic trait to have a reaction to body count? Cope? Envy/jealousy of experiences or feelings of inadequacy/performance anxiety? I only say this because I'm a chad-lite with a moderate body count and have never cared about promiscuous women or their notches on the bed post. I never even ask the question, because I genuinely don't care. Even with the women I date. I stay loyal and just assume the same, until there's a potential issue. Like, perhaps if a women said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:55 PM |
| 4 | How would you summarise the new social contract for average men to follow, for average dating success?I've been teasing around this idea. Yes, women have more access to men and money. The other talking points still stand in all the facets of the game that get discussed. The thing I was talking about is Late Stage Capitalism. Opportunity is shrinking, and only the best can compete. Giving those that are more intelligent and/or attractive even more of an edge to rise to the top and secure the highest percentile of income brackets. And if they aren't perusing a traditional career, many are using th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Dump your wife, Cancel Gen Y and Z Men. Marry young womenAll you're setting yourself up to be is an ATM. Nothing more, nothing less. You can rationalize being a savior all you want. These women want a lifestyle, not your subpar seed. That is the blackpill of reality. Late Stage Capitalism is creating this need for women to seek out easy money. Our societal structures, rules, concepts, and the idea/notion of money don't exist in nature. These are human constructs. If this was baseline human nature in the wild, you'd have ZERO bargaining power. While yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Dump your wife, Cancel Gen Y and Z Men. Marry young womenShut your fucking cock holster, man. I take it you're in the group that isn't making the cut, but wants to create power structures that would include you. So, you can finally have that taste of your fantasy. Take your geriatric ass out to pasture like a good old dog. Genetics. Always. Wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 04:24 PM |
| -2 | Dump your wife, Cancel Gen Y and Z Men. Marry young womenYou missed the most critical part. Be attractive lmao. These young babes aren't doing shit unless you meet the cut. I'm a chad-lite, age 32. My girlfriend literally just turned 23. You can't eek out age gap unless you look good or have significant cash flow. The higher financial status might get you some play for a while, but it won't last and it isn't genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Long term relationships fail a cost/benefit analysis for men outside the top 20%I'm a chad-lite. Age 32. I've slept with 35 women. It could've been much higher, but at age 24 I decided to try the relationship game. I've had three LTR's in that time span. Years go 3-3-2. The two 3 year relationships ended with cheating. Both were a hypergamous play on her end (more money, lifestyle, and better looking.) The 2 year relationship is my current one. So far, so good. She's 22 (almost 23). If this one turns south, I'm going back to strictly clapping cheeks casually. Wonky things c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 10:04 PM |
| 9 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.Chadlite here. Can confirm. I wish people would just open their eyes. I'm aging, but can still pull. I'm 32 and my girlfriend is 22. Every nature documentary and text book states "only the strongest/best males have access to sex & reproduction". Somehow we stop short on applying this to ourselves. We are an animal like any other, albeit higher functioning. All these mental gymnastics seem to be dodging the elephant in the room (not counting those with religious beliefs, other/similar values, sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMThis is factual. When I was 20, this girl I took to see a movie was approached by this guy while I'm standing in line with her. I'm not even average looking (chad-lite), but this dude was cream of the crop in the facial bone structure department. I'm 6'0", but lanky/cut. He was 6'5", lean but wiiide ass frame. I shit you not, I stood there for damn near 2 minutes of conversation before she even seemed to remember I was there. Wild. I should've dipped to the restroom to lace up my fucking clown s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 01:54 AM |
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