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| 2 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.your question just throws shade at women who want to date men significantly taller than they are. if you want an objective definition of "short" that's impossible to define because its a relative and subjective word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenthis is the second time you leave a comment attacking me after not bothering to even read my point, do you think that accusing me of the opposite of what i said is helping you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womeni've never complained about my sex life and i dont see how men not getting laid is related to an issue that happens to men who got laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenif a woman decides to sign a paper abortion and refuses a biological one the end result is either the man wanting it and getting full rights or using his rights to give the child for adoption, it's not different from what 2 unwilling parents can do right now just without the mother being able to stop the process between the paper abortion window and the adoption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Paper abortion means giving all remaining advantage to men without leaving any to womenthat should also be possible, there's so many situations where the man wants the child and the woman doesn't, convincing a woman to give birth and be mother to a kid she doesn't want isn't ethical and in most countries one parent can't just sign away her or his rights to the child even with permission from the other parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"because it's the reverse, men start out devalued and need to work to gain perceived value while women are already perceived as valuable when they start out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 12:54 AM |
| 2 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.i think sexuality has been seen as something negative for thousands of years, its just that female sexuality started to be seen in a positive light decades ago because of women's rights movements while male sexuality is still seen in the same way, at least in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetratorsame for me, most men have a similar story to mine and take it seriously even if they dont while many women give the exact type of response you'd expect a stereotypical man to give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetratoryeah, i see people making up detailed theoretical backstories for why a woman actually couldnt have been abusive in posts where they were the perpetrators while when the man is its very rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationNot sure how it works in most places but I’ve had a lot of female friends that lost a lot of their male friends after rejecting someone and I always went with it because I was too busy trying to cheer up the person who got rejected to get in contact with the person who rejected him same happened to me with the genders reversed too but she kept coming onto him after so I ended up siding with the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.I knew a woman who acts exactly like most men said they would if they could, I think she had over 40 different partners by 20 and used the social advantage she gets from being attracted to people often. She managed to build a very large social circle and no one around her from what I’ve seen criticises her for being unethical for making gains by having fun, maybe it’s a cultural things but no one I know lacks respect for her either. Not sure how many men would actually do pornography or demand c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 12:09 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differenceI think they say it because women usually have female friends they invite to social events but just being around women and seeing what behaviours they respond to helped me a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 11:35 PM |
| 2 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationMR2 SMT, looks like someone drew a porche cayman from memory. I saw it for the first time this morning and couldn’t see the name | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:41 PM |
| 2 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationUnrelated but thanks for making me check his history,I’ve been looking for the name of his convertible all morning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 03:46 PM |
| – | Napoleon complex would never slide if it was directed towards womenI hate how men always have to mention that they’re not undesirable for their points to not be dismissed, I do it all the time when talking about how women around me behave in the dating context, not just with height but also with money, status and types of behaviours that tend to work better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessNot sure what the solution to loneliness would be but men do meet and build healthy relationships with men, you talk about male friendships the way pick-me girls talk about women’s friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | A man’s desire to be promiscuous, but want a non-promiscuous woman isn’t “values.” It’s preference.Looks are the very high standards most men talk about, most of the men here aren’t poor enough to get rejected based on wealth but they don’t have a huge pecs and a 5% body fat percentage and that’s what I see people here complaining about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.It matters to a degree, if you do enough minor things eventually it’ll make a difference in how you’re. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Just because there are more important things doesn’t mean there aren’t less important things, both are noticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:26 PM |
| 2 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Just because someone might see you save a homeless puppy from a terrorist attack while doing a backflip and think “+300 social credit” doesn’t mean people don’t also look at minor things and think “+1 social credit” although in reality it’s not fully conscious and doesn’t really count in numbers like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:15 PM |
| – | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Most of my girlfriends paid for me far more than I paid for them and usually also before I spent a single cent on them, when a woman is interested she acts the same way most men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that men who are more awkward introverted non-charismatic types are more likely to be creeps and only want sex?I’ve seen and encouraged this behaviour before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Nice guys actually do talk to women as people, but women then treat them as "one of the girls"I’ve been treated as “one of the girls” before, the kind of guy you’re talking about isn’t treated with anywhere near that level of trust from what I’ve seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Nice guys naturally gravitate towards queen bee types. No, it's not a case of the girl leading them on. They CHOSE to like girls like that.Because those guys talked to me quite a lot and the women they were interested in often did too, I remember a few times when this type of dynamic caused issues for me because I suddenly had to choose between 2 people who want support but can’t stand each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Men doing the first move, chase, and men kneeling to propose, exposes the power trip.Isn’t he saying that it’s the other way around? That the partner that receives but doesn’t reciprocate the same has more power? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 11:55 PM |
| 15 | Nice guys naturally gravitate towards queen bee types. No, it's not a case of the girl leading them on. They CHOSE to like girls like that.Most of the times I’ve seen a nice guy with a woman who didnt want him it was a very normal guy with a nerdy or normal woman, the only ones I’ve seen around women with that personality type was the more socially active kind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badI remember when everyone was posting tinder stats last year, men who were as picky as the women still had the same matching rate as men who were willing to give everyone a chance, they just had a much lower number of matches because they only swiped right on like 200 profiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 10:07 AM |
| 3 | The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to comeNot reigning in on women’s sexuality but what you mean is intersexual selection, it’s a process that often opposes natural selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 10:40 PM |
| 3 | The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to comeMen rarely care about that stuff with each other, I’m sure the ultra rich do a lot with but with people I know everyone was always downplaying their wealth and showing off something expensive always got me weird looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 3 | The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to comethat’s a solid point, I had this exact struggle when I started getting more attention to women, without trying I started to act in ways that they responded well to that men view as being a bad person like being self cantered, attention seeking and a massive show off, which made me feel pretty conflicted. I’m not saying it’s all women that like that, just the people I was exposed to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosI read a bunch of them, a lot did use user data, unless you think they asked tens to hundreds of thousands of users what their first messages were and which words got them a message back more often for their first message analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosThat one was, a lot of their other blogs did use user data from what I understand but tinder deleted them from ok Cupid’s website years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosAbsolutely not, I think women are attracted to a very narrow range of socially acceptable things they believe to be masculine. But I do think that things can change their perception, high heels, yoga, pink clothing, skirts and corsets are all traditionally masculine things that are seen as feminine now so if enough influential men use it heavily enough they could drive a cultural change in a decade or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosOne very recent example is how certain things are perceived as slurs, most people are fine with others saying the “r word” but are saying it far less because a minority of people called it a slur enough times. There’s also bigger stuff like transgenders suddenly being a social taboo like never before because a small group of people are using them to win elections, the vast majority of people didn’t think about them before groups of politicians drove this social change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosTo be fair 2012 ok Cupid was the only dating app that actually published their data, every modern one keeps their user data secret to avoid people finding out how bad they are. We really need more modern mass data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosA loud minority is enough to make cultural changes, a lot of modern taboos came from loud minorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosSolution is for men to use makeup too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:37 PM |
| – | The controversial idea of therapeutic submission/masochism, and men's exclusion from it.do you think short men are unsuccessful just because they’re short? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 12:17 PM |
| – | The controversial idea of therapeutic submission/masochism, and men's exclusion from it.Weirdly defensive about something you’re so secure in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:48 AM |
| – | The controversial idea of therapeutic submission/masochism, and men's exclusion from it.I’m just saying it’s usually the insecure “men” that shoehorn these ideas into conversations, I’ve never seen a tall man telling someone who isn’t successful with women that it’s because he’s short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:27 AM |
| – | The controversial idea of therapeutic submission/masochism, and men's exclusion from it.Men who are secure with their dick size generally don’t use it to shame others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Instead of me or another posting stating what the average guy is, what do you think the average guy is, and what does he have to offer what you think the average girl isHonestly as a normal man I think the average guy is pretty attractive, the vast majority of men i see on the street have at least one thing worth mimicking be it something physical or mental like his walking style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Women actually don't like it when men judge other things than their looks.I agree about men often being treated like they’re incapable of negative feelings, its not uncommon for a man to be broken up with after opening up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Women actually don't like it when men judge other things than their looks.I don’t think ive ever asked a woman what she brings to the table honestly, directly or indirectly i never asked about things that benefit me, only about things like hobbies/talents which is only seen as insulting when she literally has none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 12:43 PM |
| 19 | Women actually don't like it when men judge other things than their looks.Being in a situation where you you got shamed for not being impressed with a mediocre woman or where you felt like you were being judged harshly for caring about a potential partner’s traits that weren’t looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:44 AM |
| 21 | Women actually don't like it when men judge other things than their looks.Can you give a more specific example of this? I don’t think this type of thing ever happened to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that male “pick me’s” (aka simps & white knights) on the Internet have caused dating to be much more difficult than it otherwise would be?I think the issue is far more complicated than that but they are a very loud minority that probably make a lot of women less likely to reply to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of chargeI wouldn’t trust the kind of woman who uses these services not to go after me with child support the moment it’s convenient | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:30 AM |
| 2 | The existence of a concept such as "Madonna/whore complex" shows that society demonizes male sexuality.yes because I don’t have to be afraid if one of them comes back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 11:19 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?"That only works if you’re attracted to both fish and fishermen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 11:15 PM |
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