Sledgehammered0 Archive

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1	Staying at my girlfriends house tonight to “Netflix and chill.” This will be my first time having sex and I’m clueless on how to initiate it without being creepy or awkward. There's a difference between "no, don't stop" and "no, I don't want to do this" -- the boundaries are clearly defined in both of those scenarios. Just sayin.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 10:19 PM
1	Did I miss a chance or was she just being nice and friendly? What can I do now? If you see her in school in the hallway, make eye contact and say "Hey! I remember you saying something really nice about my playing during our last concert/recital/exam and I really appreciated it. How have you been doing? How are your lessons? What are you currently studying?" And take it from there. If the conversation flows and you feel comfortable asking her out, go for it! If it feels more friend-like, ask her for a casual get together to see if the feelings grow.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 03:09 AM
1	Best way to approach on college campus It's still relatively new in the school year so you're still meeting new people! If you see someone on campus or leaving class, ask how they're liking classes/the class you both just came out of. Ask where they're originally from. Ask if they played sports in high school. Ask if they're doing any intramurals or other on-campus activities. If you've seen an amazing movie recently, ask if they saw it. This can lead into casual convo from there. "Oh, you're from XYZ? I've heard of it but never been…	/r/seduction	26/09/19 03:00 AM
1	Am I being a dense dummy? Give me your opinion. Gotta look at it like there's a possibility that she wants to catch up with a friend. Sounds lame but you need to consider it. However, I don't think that's the case. Don't feel dumb about it. Life happens (for both parties). What's important is how you guys take things moving forward. Keep it fun and flirty (if you're catching that vibe) at first until you can get a better sense of where she's coming from (friend or more than friends), and just take it from there! No need to feel dumb. Signs ar…	/r/seduction	26/09/19 02:45 AM
2	Help Be yourself - and also be kind, show respect to her AND her parents, and be friendly.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 02:40 AM
1	Second one night stand? Shoot her a message that says you had so much fun with her the last time you were together, you've been thinking about what you guys did together (use a few small details like how much you enjoyed kissing her neck), and ask her if she'd be up for another rendezvous. Worked for me in the past. (Granted I am a female who asked a man...)	/r/seduction	26/09/19 02:38 AM
1	What are some good conversation starters to open up with over text? :facepalm:	/r/seduction	26/09/19 02:34 AM
2	Guidance in a Swiping World Ugh, the apps are disheartening and disappointing. Agreed; losing interest happens in the blink of an eye. Who's to say there's no one more attractive/potentially more interesting with the next swipe? Personally, I've stopped using the apps because it genuinely feels like a distraction from the real world. By no longer using the apps, it's forced me try and meet people in real life at the dog park, going out to lunch alone, smiling at people on the street, etc. I guess my best advice would be to…	/r/seduction	26/09/19 02:33 AM
3	How to reply and still be open to saying no? Are you genuinely interested in getting to know this girl? Are you looking for a casual hookup? What do you want out of hanging out together? My gut says that since you're wanting to know what she's thinking about doing and if it's NOT what you want, you want to have the out..so it doesn't sound like you're looking for anything serious. I legit think you can straight up ask her what she has in mind and you can tell her whether or not you want to get together. If she's throwing herself at you bec…	/r/seduction	26/09/19 02:25 AM
22	Staying at my girlfriends house tonight to “Netflix and chill.” This will be my first time having sex and I’m clueless on how to initiate it without being creepy or awkward. As a 31 year old woman who’s first time was very memorable for different reasons, I love and respect both of the responses left on this post. Go with the flow and enjoy the time that leads up to the (potential) big moment. If it happens, it happens. But don’t put pressure on yourselves to do it because you’ve talked about. It’s a beautiful moment when it happens and all the good stuff leading up to it makes it that much more emotional - so do it if it feels right for both of you and don’t forget…	/r/seduction	25/09/19 02:01 PM