SleepingBearWalk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. That is what dropping them off at the firehouse is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 11:44 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Except once they are a mother, it is not something they can change. The list was supposed to indicate things women are judged by that they can change. Just trying to get some clarity. EtA: I thought you had removed it, saw you didn't, ADHD reading is fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 05:22 PM
3	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. How does a single mother, change being a mother? Once you got a kid that should be innate. Unless you drop them babies off at the firehouse as soon as the Tinder Match hits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 06:32 AM
3	PPD Demographics Survey Think they are looking for ENM and Poly options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 10:25 PM
–	What do women feel about the wives of famous athletes who exhibit narcissistic and attention seeking behavior? No, I stated a personal opinion regarding the topic. Posting children on social media. You're trying to spin it into something more, when the topic at hand was pretty straightforward, and I have no desire to go on this little adventure with you. Why do you feel entitled to expound on a personal opinion that doesn't harm anyone? Not posting your child's face on social media isn't that hard to do, and all it does is give the child some modicum of self when they enter an age in which they can decid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:17 PM
–	What do women feel about the wives of famous athletes who exhibit narcissistic and attention seeking behavior? I am, you're the one that needs to take it to a publisher. I'm trying to stay on topic, but regardless my original comment at no point differentiated between influencers and actors. Society does complain about child actors, we complain about their behaviors that are a direct result of being forced into the spotlight at a young age. Society belittles them and degrades them when they are struggling in the public eye, act out, dress as adults, and the like. When it's a symptom of their upbringing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:09 PM
–	What do women feel about the wives of famous athletes who exhibit narcissistic and attention seeking behavior? Did I say it was the pedophile's fault alone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:49 PM
–	What do women feel about the wives of famous athletes who exhibit narcissistic and attention seeking behavior? We were discussing parents posting their kids, not child actors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:30 PM
–	What do women feel about the wives of famous athletes who exhibit narcissistic and attention seeking behavior? I'm truly against anyone sharing any images of their child on social media, regardless of fame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:21 AM
1	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Yeah! Like if my partner told me upfront he'd like a paternity test if/when children enter the picture, totally fine with it! After a child enters the picture, I'm assuming there's a trust issue that needs to be addressed. One that goes beyond a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 09:07 PM
2	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? I think the upset comes from the assumption that the topic is only broached after the pregnancy occurs. Timing is everything, the beginning of the relationship means it's a standard the individual has for themself, while after the pregnancy occurs it appears more accusatory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:03 PM
6	If SA and 'grape' incidents by random strangers rose by 300%, would you own a gun? I already own one, mostly for safety from large predators. And safety while traveling, because I do that alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 12:17 AM
2	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? For me, it's always been a no. However, my current partner has warmed me up to the idea. He's a father and a great one at that. My reasons for no have been: 1. My mother was highly unstable, and emotionally abusive throughout my life. When I was less then a year old she informed the courts that she would hurt me if she was alone with me. They granted my father full custody in 1991, with court supervised visits for mother. She almost never showed. I eventually was adopted by my paternal grandpare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 04:15 PM
2	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends I do too. Except in situations like what another commenter said, where there's a possible medical concern, I really prefer not having conversations like OP described. I care about this person, it would feel awful to talk like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 02:42 PM
2	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends I think you are on to something. I've spent a good portion of my life in the Midwest, United States. Where religion, modesty, and politeness are very very much a part of the everyday. Sex is still often treated as taboo here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 11:21 PM
0	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends 10 4 Ghost Rider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 12:41 AM
0	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Sorry I'm just a big ignorant dumb dumb talking to someone who knows what I meant, but is just choosing to troll. Don't pick up strangers period. Also: I said I don't like generalizations, not that I don't generalize.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 11:32 PM
-9	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends I ain't talking about fucking bees dude, or the stove is hot. I'm talking about negative generalizations applied to both men and women for example all women are whores and all men are rapists. Those are the generalizations I don't like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 11:11 PM
-10	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Naw, I just forget that this is an echo chamber of a very small subgroup of the population. I don't like generalizations period, regardless of gender I've lived long enough to know better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 11:05 PM
7	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Yes, this I approve of! And wouldn't even consider it in line with what OP is stating. This is a healthy conversation to have with friends, and an important one too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 09:46 PM
2	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Like, this is a very small subsection of the general population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 09:44 PM
2	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Guess I'm just not big on generalizations, for either gender. Ah well, 'tis the nature of this sub and I just gotta keep reminding myself that this is just the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 09:28 PM
13	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends In my 35 years on this earth, never once have I or any of my friends gone into any detail about our sex life. At most it's oh yeah we slept together and that's it. Where are these people at?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 08:46 PM
1	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men This is just strictly anecdotal, but I found at 35(no kids) I was fetishized by younger guys. It wasn't a true attraction and off-putting for me, not my jam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 03:27 PM
2	For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women. It's interesting as the number of partners increases the % increases for men, and drops for women. The way this sub talks it should be the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 05:03 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. Actually I'd argue either man or woman, should not put themselves in the way of harm. In EMS it goes your safety, the safety of your crew, and then the patients safety. Notice how the patient isn't the 1st concern, because if you get hurt you can't help them anyway. Even if that means waiting for additional assistance. Make note of the perp's appearance, vehicle, or license, all those things can be safely done without putting yourself in harm's way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 02:15 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. Considering the most dangerous time for someone in an abusive relationship is after they leave, there's a genuine and legitimate fear of loss of life that can prevent them from leaving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 01:58 PM
1	Men need to normalize disappointing women Who doesn't agree setting healthy boundaries is good? Everyone should set boundaries for themselves regardless of gender. That's not news.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 05:42 PM
1	How does a bad mother effect a person when they reach adulthood ? Idk man, my mom told the judge during the custody hearing that if she was alone with me she would hurt me...I was less than a year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 06:11 AM
5	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points Most every chick I know swoons over babies, doesn't matter who the kid belongs to. Many of my friends and family knew from a young age they wanted kids. My childhood had a major influence on me. It's why I knew from about 10 that I didn't want kids. Would you rather I not have kids knowing I don't have any instinct for them, or would you prefer I gamble it on another life? Either it works out or it doesn't (which then leads to major impacts on the child's wellbeing and development?) And I dont l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 08:04 PM
9	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points I wouldn't know. I don't have children because I have no maternal instinct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:38 PM
9	CMV: The pronatalist movement is shooting itself in the foot with its talking points It takes a lot of work and self-reflection to determine you won't be a good parent. I'd argue they are the exact opposite of mentally weak when society still pressures people to have children, especially women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 07:23 PM
1	"Don't judge a book by his cover"? And I think that's what I try and do, I want to get to kind of know the person right off the bat. I mean I know I can look and sometimes even sound mean or disinterested when I'm neither, so I try and give the benefit of the doubt to others and learn more. But a lot of times my initial instinct was correct. I just don't like writing people off, especially when some of the nicest, coolest people I've met have often put me off initially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:20 PM
1	"Don't judge a book by his cover"? Not speaking for OP, but for me I have a bad habit of believing everyone to be good. I'm also not the best at social interaction and reading emotion, coupled with the overwhelming desire to be a people pleaser. I'll try and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. It's been a process to learn to go with my gut instinct, but it's the safest thing for me. I just don't like the feeling of writing people off based off a hunch. Seems mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:56 PM
8	Would you date someone who is bisexual? I don't like this statement. My ex would spew it out to guilt me into doing things I don't want. It made me feel broken because every woman is supposed to be bi or gay. When I'm straight, always have been.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 09:28 PM
8	Are We Trading Monogamy for Misery? How Feminism’s Sexual Freedom Is Failing Us I'd have to look for the article, but it's prevalence has reduced even more thanks to Covid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 01:38 AM
2	If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be? I've noticed that too. I'm probably wrong, but it appears to be a rather new growing phenomenon amongst men, whereas it's something women have dealt with for a bit longer (similar anyway) and therefore recognize it faster. Regardless it's not fair to men at all, and distressing to see. I can't think of a single guy in my life both past and present who I'd want to see debased like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 05:19 PM
2	If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be? Thank you! It's along the lines of " men will sleep with whoever they can". That's not a flex, it's degrading to men, usually by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 04:55 PM
1	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) Ah! Ok, that makes sense, I still kind of struggle to keep the acronyms straight! Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 10:43 PM
1	Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2) Hey, off topic what does LVM stand for? Genuine curiosity because I only understand it in the realm of Linux.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 08:55 PM
2	Do you believe circumcision is harming males? Should only be done for legitimate medical reasons on anyone not old enough to consent. When they can understand and consent to the procedure, if they want it done cosmetically then that's their decision. As a woman I kind of prefer uncircumcised, just is hotter to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 05:49 PM
–	The "Hawk Tuah" girl represents what most men want, and women are angry by this I didn't care, it was funny. What started to grate on my nerves was it was everywhere online, it was nothing but that meme. Overplayed memes of any kind grind my gears in general though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 01:42 AM
5	What is the most generous thing you have ever done for your boyfriend or husband I really appreciate the kind words. I feel I'm a better person because of him. I do at times struggle with feeling like I could have done more, but I know also that there was only so much I could do. I did it with love, and that's what matters, even when it hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:41 PM
7	What is the most generous thing you have ever done for your boyfriend or husband I'm better, I learned a lot about myself and what I am capable of. I'm a far better person now because of him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 04:54 AM
7	What is the most generous thing you have ever done for your boyfriend or husband It was awful. He wasn't the same person by the time we parted ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 04:45 AM
14	What is the most generous thing you have ever done for your boyfriend or husband My ex bf. Helped him go to the bathroom during his postictal state after his 3rd seizure in a row. Cleaned him up and changed him before the ambulance arrived. Drained my two retirements to make ends meet because he didn't work thru radiation, and when he did get back to work he barely brought in 600 a month. And to also assist in paying his medical bills during chemo and radiation. 4.cleaned shit out of the bed when cancer treatment took a heavy toll on his body. Took on the emotional load of a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 03:35 AM
1	Is this just a Southeast thing or do most women want to date a cowboy? Some essentially do, at least in Montana and Wyoming. But the little town I live in is pretty much nothing but Ranchers( cowboys ) and you'd never know it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 03:07 PM
1	What women say online/reddit vs. Reality is totally night/day and 180 degrees of difference. Breaking News: Reddit is an echo chamber.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 10:13 PM
1	Why exactly do you think dating is easy? Yes I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 03:27 AM
6	Why exactly do you think dating is easy? I find it pretty difficult. Not the attracting men part, it's the attracting the right person. I'm pretty modest in dress, but do have the dreaded piercings and tattoos. At 35 I'm either fetishized by young 20 year olds or infantilized by older men. When what I'm looking for is a long-term partner. It's hindered further by the fact that I live in an extremely rural part of the country, and I don't do Hookups, ONS or FWB. I don't need someone to share a life with, I want someone to share a life w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 10:20 PM
1	Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women. I think it's a great point for the simple fact that you should do those things for yourself, to better yourself. Otherwise it won't stick, kind of like forcing an addict to rehab, when it shows that rehab is far more successful when the addict wants to do it on their own for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 06:05 PM
-1	Women can be used for their bodies. Men cannot. It's a dated biblical reference, Old Testament I believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 04:43 PM
1	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? Isn't that just part of getting to know someone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 09:00 PM
1	If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist? I wasn't implying or trying to be rude, just looking for clarity. When you start as friends there's often a precedent set. That you are friends. Nothing more, nothing less. The friendship blossoming into a romance is more of a Hollywood trope than anything else. I really don't haven't anything to offer, honestly. I do empathize with the frustration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 07:48 PM
2	If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist? Do you fall for every female friend you have? Because this sounds more like a failure in reading social cues or tempering your own emotions, possibly an attachment issue? I'm not trying to be mean btws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:31 PM
4	Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves. I'm 34 now. But I remember my first relationship, which was when I was 19 in college. I didn't expect the guy to cook, clean, etc. Anymore than he expected it of me. We were in college, still figuring life out, having fun and enjoying life along while trying to make it thru school. Also cleaning would have been weird because we never lived together. But we would treat each other. We were young. I think expectations were tempered because of our age and maturity. I say all this bc I think it's rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 02:27 AM
5	Would you date a man who has slept with 100 women? I have dated someone with a BC at about 100, he was clean that's what mattered most to me. He was also 39 at the time. So that averages out if he started at 18 , to about 4 a year, which i don't consider outlandish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 02:20 AM
1	What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split? I always try and split the bill, I feel weird if we don't. I was made super uncomfortable by a partner who insisted on paying for everything all the time. I didn't feel it was right. And I don't even bat an eye if I'm asked to split it, because it's preferred.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 08:52 PM
3	Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming. Maybe I did, maybe I didn't. At the time I met this particular individual, I wasn't talking to or pursuing anyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 10:28 PM
1	Instagram, YouTube and any other form of social media mostly keeps showing content that either blames men or women. Also recommend going in to your recently viewed and deleting anything remotely associated to these topics. That helps a lot too. I've had the same issue when I've got snagged by click bait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:49 PM
2	Our generation's complete and total dependence on emotion based decision making early in the courtship process is killing good potential relationships from forming. This isn't a new thing, the trope of love at first sight has been around since before I was born (89). It's just been rebranded by the younger generations. The one, twin flame...Yada Yada has been perpetuated from Disney to Hallmark. It's also important to have that spark. I'll admit I've yet to feel it immediately with anyone I've dated, but I also struggle with trust and social settings so it takes me more time. However, I've also fallen into ignoring red flags in the search for that spark wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:38 PM
1	Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it? I’d say no, and not because of the gender. But because I don’t even want to be alive now, let alone come back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 06:11 PM
2	CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset" Where OP go?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 06:06 PM
5	Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes? Postpartum Depression is an illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 03:18 PM
2	Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal imply I was simply pointing out your argument that women would have to start doing all that. When we already are, to the apparent detriment of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 03:55 PM
2	Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal imply Women have been doing all that. Working, feeding themselves, paying taxes, housing ourselves. Women can even get pregnant if they want to, without sex. There’s procedures for that. The ability to do all this is actually seen as a problem in the dating world for men because they are considered providers. However, women are providing for themselves now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 03:22 PM
1	Is playing video games an ick be honest? I don’t think gaming is an ick. It’s one of my favorite pastimes, a way to relax & allow my brain to slow down. It’s far healthier then hitting the bar or even just the bottle. Gaming is also a great way to connect with friends and partners. I do enjoy watching others play, so I can see where if your partner plays a lot and you’d rather join there might be some conflict. I never made the connection between Gaming & Anime. But the Anime discussion I think is mixed bag’o pickles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 03:00 PM
10	Do you plan on having children? 33F. And no I do not want them. I knew I would never have children at roughly 10 years of age. The instinct and drive just isn’t there. I do believe my childhood played a heavy role in influencing this. And while I sought out therapy to work through what happened -my decision is already set in stone, it is not plastic. Physically, I broke my back 12 years ago and my lower back and right SI joint is fused. So I was also advised by doctors to not have children. A more then fair price to pay to wal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 09:49 PM
5	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them You lost me at “ tendies and play vidya”	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 04:25 AM
1	Valentine's day revolves around women because most relationships revolve around women. When’s Sweetest Day? I’ve never heard of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:05 PM
1	I ate a lot of edibles and have an idea about a new kind of sexual arrangement. Is this a good idea or am I just super baked? I saw this once, in a movie I think it was called..Pretty Woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 09:16 AM
1	Do women flirt with good looking men differently vs average or ugly looking guys? Good Looking: “ I like your face “ Average Looking: “ I also like your face”	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:52 AM
1	CMV: I don't fault married men for cheating in some circumstances So worried about your finances, but not at all concerned about losing your ass in divorce because you committed adultery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 02:31 AM
8	Which of these two men are more attractive to women? Zelenskyy both physically and mentally. His passion is palatable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 05:11 AM
3	Which sex provides more sexual satisfaction to the other? Did you read that and then just stop because it agrees with your view?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 12:35 PM
5	Which sex provides more sexual satisfaction to the other? The idea that only “drug using degens with daddy issues” only masturbate when it’s literally one of the best ways to relieve stress, pain and fall asleep, not to mention feels great is wild’n. Men be wild’n	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 04:23 AM
4	Which sex provides more sexual satisfaction to the other? Do women actually touch their no no square?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 04:19 AM
3	The unspoken rule about sex with women I have never once been comfortable enough to discuss sexual preferences with anyone on the first date. Im too busy just trying to get to know them, and the ONS I’ve had never started as dates to begin with. Your delivery makes it sound like you pulled hair, spanked and choked without first gaining consent? I really hope that isn’t true. Especially choking. It seems more like naiveté on the partners part then anything else. Telling them your preferences isn’t gaining consent. You need an enthusia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 03:47 PM
1	[Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count? 33F, Straight, 14=6 relationships , 3 FWB, and 4 ONS I don’t consider it high, not even in the realm of losing my V card at 20. I don’t honestly care about where it’s at. Never given it any thought, anymore then I’ve given my partners (at the time) body count any thought- which is to say no thought all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 12:28 AM
1	If you want to marry someone, what n-count would you tell them you have? I’d change mine to -1 (from 14). I want the genie to reverse the clock so far back that the sex that was required to make me- never happened. And I wouldn’t care what they picked, because I don’t honestly care about n-Count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:17 PM
3	LADIES LADIES do u like having nice things? do u like voting? do u like being able to pick who u marry? yeah ok then WAKE THE FUCK UP DARLING cuz ur not gonna keep being able to do those things if u cant handle it and so far it seems as if u cant handle it. Fuck me or you don’t get to vote in the next election …yep, nope, Mojave has never been this dry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 11:00 PM
1	LADIES LADIES do u like having nice things? do u like voting? do u like being able to pick who u marry? yeah ok then WAKE THE FUCK UP DARLING cuz ur not gonna keep being able to do those things if u cant handle it and so far it seems as if u cant handle it. Ight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 10:21 PM
1	[Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count? Blazing Giggidy	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 09:42 PM
2	Female erotic plasticity Oh man, there was like a solid 5 years where that’s the only nature doc they were cranking out. And Bonobos very much use sex as a tool to just chill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 02:46 PM
1	Female erotic plasticity This is a great way of looking at it, we tend to forget ancestral experiences still influence us today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 03:14 AM
1	Female erotic plasticity This brings up a great point when there are current living examples of bachelor groups in species that engage in sex, not as an act of dominance, but as a means to bond and live cohesively during the non-breeding seasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 03:10 AM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. And regardless of if the free data was gather or not into any sort of published report it would all come back to meaning absolutely nothing. Sample size and Demographic do not support the claim. It cannot be applied to entire the female population. I think we are essentially agreeing to the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 06:28 AM
-1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. Nice snark. You do know what amounts to roughly 495,000 (paid) and 1.5 million (unpaid) women- isn’t the vast majority of women in a country of 167 million women. Edit: Added gender information	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 06:23 AM
2	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. And to have a good sample size it should represent the population you wish to study. It’s a numbers game. Even if you were to say 1.5 million individuals out of 167 million individuals preferred X over Y the percentages alone would not be of a statistical significance. It’s .89%. 1.5 million in this case isn’t even broken down to male vs female paid members. Let’s say it mirrors their overall user base which is heavily skewed to the male population. So if we were to go that route then that’s 495…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 06:16 AM
0	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. It’s actually all really interesting look at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 05:45 AM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. And no I did not, I’ll admit I don’t use Bumble. Closest decently populated town to me is 2 hrs away via 2 lane Highway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 05:37 AM
0	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. Not when you compare to the 167.5 million women in America. EDIT: Only 33% of the users we’re female in 2021, that’s 14.8 million users out of the 45 million.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 05:36 AM
-2	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. You do realize that the only ones who can filter by height are premium members right? Which completely negates the point of that chart. There are 45 million active users and only 1.5 million paying users.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 04:02 AM
2	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives She’s describing a NiceGuy not an actual nice guy. Most NiceGuys will say they are nice guys, and as soon as they are turned down will go from polite/ kind like she said to “I didn’t want to fuck you anyway. Ugly Whore.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 11:12 PM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women No worries about not knowing the gender, I tend to travel genderless through the internet. Though the right wrong people would be able to figure out who I am. But are you approaching women who solely look for LTR? Because that’s really not fair to them. The standards off the bat are different. Hell having jumped back in to the dating pool I’ve seen it first hand, I’ve been led on by dudes open to anything who in the end just decided I was more of a lay. So I’m left feeling empty, and they got th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 04:38 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women No I was stating your green flags for a girlfriend. We aren’t talking about different things. So let’s do this, in your post you say women self select for LTR because men are exercising their options ( apparently as women we don’t do that ) How about, be upfront tell her in let’s say the tinder chat, this is what I’m looking for/doing ( be honest ), especially if you know she’s looking for a LTR. Chat, get to know each other and see if it’s even worth the time let alone a date. Because now it’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 04:08 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women I mean do you not see how wildly restrictive that is. Yet you are the one stating men have it harder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 03:57 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women You want her to offer, but she can’t offer to pay the whole thing. She can offer to pay half. But she better offer. Period. You want her to be willing to have sex, but not too willing, she can’t be easy. But she still has to be willing. Do you approach a date with “ idk just looking for whatever?” I guess my original statement stands, men think women are the complicated ones…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 03:55 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women And if she doesn’t offer at all, then it’s a problem. I’m well aware of what we are actually focusing on LTR or as you put it Longer Short Term. Have you thought about just easing up. Like if she offers to pay, politely decline, and say no I’ve got it. It could honestly mean nothing. The way to go from there would be, how about drinks at such and such a place. Are you aware that many women will often pick up the bill so that men don’t hold it over their heads for sex later? “I bought you food, n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 03:40 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women Go back and read this entire little thread, you make it sound like you do nothing but drop hints and expect the other person to pick them up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 03:31 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women Also, piss on body count. It isn’t applied fairly across the board.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 03:24 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women Ok that’s a hookup that you described. Which is just as common with men. What about the ones that grabs dinner with you and sleeps with you that first night because of that Attraction and Chemistry- then that’s it. Can you tell the difference there?Do you ever just outright tell women what you expect? Instead of just dropping your hints? People aren’t mind readers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 03:20 AM
1	Why online dating is difficult for women Do you think women are complicated too, because you don’t understand them? Because honestly- I wouldn’t even know where to begin with you. Do you think women who, as you say “ throw pussy around “ aren’t attracted to the individual they are sleeping with? How would you be able to differentiate it? Because someone looking for a one night stand and someone wanting to date, but also sleep with you on the first date would presumably be doing it for the same reason. Attraction and chemistry. The only…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 02:45 AM