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Oh I know all about the "Oppression Olympics" my friend; too much time spent debating White College "Educated" Progressives. There is always someone higher on the "Oppression Hierarchy" than you and even if you're dark skinned/gay/disabled or any other Minority Category the "Progressives" claim to be fighting for; having any sort of dissenting view from their monolithic mainstream viewpoints means you are "Oppressing them".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:13 AM
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Women choose to get offended by everything because it helps them leverage more victimhood and thus get more resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:52 PM
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To easy to get "Metoo'ed"; better to avoid. In fact; while you can't legally get away with NOT hiring Women (unfortunately); you CAN minimize your contact with them/always have a door open/make sure cameras are in any coed space etc. I've heard some pretty fucked up stories with false accusations; and not just from folks online but a fair few that I knew in real life. Sometimes those Men managed to acquire proof refuting the false accusation; but even then the damage to his reputation was genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:40 AM
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I don't deal with them personally because I find them toxic; but I'd imagine it has the same basic benefits/teachings as redpill for Men. The problem isn't the self improvement or learning how to "not be manipulated/finessed"; it's where you get locked into an echo chamber and then radicalized (and lots of folks never see it coming). Not just a Gender thing either; this happens in all sorts of groups/forums/philosophies/movements that preach to know "something that society at large doesn't".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:07 AM
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yep. one of my best friends was an absolute chad; also took insanely good care of himself and was 6'6. SUPER nice guy too; not a jerk/player/fuckboy whatsoever. he was a virgin well into his 20's; just had a lot of shyness/awkwardness he had to work out. used to ask for my advice all the time which was ironically hilarious considering our... "appearance disparity". he's doing great now though; just needed a bit more experience to get over his shyness. another guy who was my coworker was very sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:30 AM
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not true; my friend groups were pretty varied. you had extremely promiscuous people as well as folks who were in long term relationships. nobody really cared one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:13 AM
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Yes, it's one of my favorite phrases nowadays. So many Men looking for clout and doing whatever they can to get it; only to be taken down by nothing more than an accusation on Twitter (with no proof whatsoever). Smart play is to be as anonymous and under the radar as possible. Make quiet money, make quiet friends. Also there's not really such a thing as "fuck you" money anymore; even at the highest levels it's still generally important to have passive income streams and crossing a certain politi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:09 AM
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it's pretty common actually; and it's a popular tactic used by a certain political faction that I've seen used personally. while the "statistics" may not agree with my assessment; I know very well how Feminist "Scholars" and "Academics" have fudged the numbers and used misleading questions/framing to get the responses/data that they wanted. if you have faith in feminist studies/statistics I highly encourage you to read up on the "Peer Review Hoax" that happened back in 2018; it's actually quite …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:02 AM
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Progressives in Western Society are some of the most hypocritical/insane/violent people I've ever had the misfortune of dealing with. This isn't a political sub though; plus it would take an essay to answer your question properly. So if you don't know; I'd simply encourage you to do your research on how "Progressives" generally operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:54 AM
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that's fair; i guess it doesn't matter much to me anymore since i already did the sleeping around/hooking up thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:51 AM
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"loss"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:48 AM
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true, but we warn our friends no? they don't usually listen; but we do warn them (at least I do). I have friends who still choose to get married or cohabitate and I don't begrudge them if that's what makes them happy. Life is about choices; I just make sure they have the facts/stats before they tie the knot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:43 AM
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Might not be a conscious thing necessarily; when you're constantly told "mEn bAd" by every major facet of society (Culture, Political, Social, Academia etc) with no recourse whatsoever (as in if you argue with them publicly you're socially shamed as a "misogynist"; you may be fired from your job/kicked out of school or harassed and even assaulted (check out videos online of feminists attacking pro life students at universities or antifa assaulting anyone who even slightly disagrees with the new …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:38 AM
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Comes down to resources and time my man; they don't care (and society doesn't care), because we don't matter to them. We're inherently disposable UNLESS there is a political/economical play. It's why they always turn the conversation to how "Women are the Victims and need more resources". I used to have a lot of debates with Feminists/Liberal "Woke" people and they always ended the same; they'd see the rationality in my arguments, agree on the logical concerns; and then immediately go back to "m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:36 AM
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Weird how it all almost exclusively comes from one side too; almost like they're all connected and working towards the same "Progressive" Society. And they'll lie, cheat and manipulate whoever they need to in order to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:26 AM
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Most of us understand this; Women are a protected class and we are not. We either adapt to our current circumstances; or we wallow in despair. And it's why I think MGTOW is a better option than Redpill/being an MRA. Why fight for a society or even bother contributing when all we get is hatred and vitriol? Even rising to a level of competence in the hierarchy as a male simply puts a target on your back; think about it. You get your career going or start a business and say it takes off; you start …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:24 AM
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That's insane; you're so bought into this system of Feminism that you'll leash yourself to a cross just to be able to "bEliEve wOmen". It's amusing how that phrase only works/matters when it's politically or economically useful to Feminists. There's a reason the accusations against Cuomo didn't see much movement until after the elections; there's a reason Tara Reade's accusations against Biden didn't see ANY movement. And there's a reason that the accusations against Clarence Thomas and Kavanaug…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:01 AM
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This; if you make sure to come on fairly obvious with the flirting (not in a creepy way; just simple and direct); in my experience the vast majority of Women will indeed have to answer one way or the other as far as being interested. If you try to play coy and run indirect; it usually just leads to her thinking you were actually interested in being platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:53 PM
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Well said; in my experience most Men do not operate like this and it's one of the reasons the mythical "friend zone" exists. It's why my advice is generally just to not do "Platonic relationships" with Women; it takes a very high level of emotional maturity and most (including myself) do not have this capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:49 PM
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A common misconception; Women aren't stupid and a low tier Man will be "introduced" to other low tier Women (the "fat friend"). If that of course; even happens at all. Female "Friends" generally have zero interest in setting up their guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:46 PM
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No lol While having a bunch of female acquaintances can be useful (the people you invite when you throw a house party/event but leave them on read whenever they hit you up outside of the nightlife); dudes who actually do the "Friend Zone" with Women have exactly zero success. While I have guy friends (who are super good looking and take VERY good physical care of themselves); who just kind of meander around with girls "falling on their dicks"; these guys will tell you being friends with women is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:42 PM
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based. it's why I've never done platonic relationships with Women and never will; what a useless concept lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:31 PM
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Yep. I've never seen a faster 180 Political/Cultural Shift than a dude who was falsely accused and had all his "Woke" friends/family turn on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:28 PM
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The absolute mad lads in France quite literally banned paternity testing (although that doesn't stop French Men from doing it anyway lol); something something societal stability. Yeah I think Paternity Fraud is objectively bad; and I would probably go scorched earth if it happened to me. First I would never, EVER sign any sort of birth certificate without a paternity test. I don't care if a gun is pointed at my head; still not doing it. Western Laws regarding child support/paternity fraud/divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:20 PM
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It really just comes down to how much manipulation you're willing to tolerate; I don't mind introducing a girl I'm sleeping with to a friend that can help her career or whatever. I don't mind swooping to take them out to a club/event. Because I'm getting what I want out of them. When some chick I'm NOT sleeping with asks for a favor; I usually just don't respond because it's illogical. It's very hard to manipulate someone that knows exactly what they want from a situation/relationship and has no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:01 PM
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lol what insight could they give me? Male dating advice was objectively FAR more useful; outside of that unless you're talking about a business/specialist context (like Law/Medical/Business/Tech) that they went to school for; I'm not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:47 PM
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But I don't. Having female acquaintances is cool and reasonable; being on good terms with everyone around you keeps life simple and drama free. But actually having them as friends? nah Besides; in my experience (and this is anecdotal of course; not objective); Women are far more apt to turn on you if the situation is turning unfavorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:43 PM
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Most Men are silly then; why would you do anything for a Woman you're no longer sleeping with? The transaction has concluded; some people might say it's a shitty way of looking at life/interpersonal relationships but from what I've seen it works pretty well. If a Girl calls you and asks for a favor; tell her to ask her boyfriend/husband/father. Not my business unless I'm smashing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:13 PM
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Why would you want to be platonic friends with a female lol What benefit will I get there that I couldn't get from a Male friendship/allyship? Time/Effort better served on Women I want to sleep with and who want to sleep with me. A philosophy that's served me very well in life tbh; when guy friends complain to me about the "fRiEnd zOne" I simply ask them why they were pretending to be the girls friend in the first place since it's clear from the beginning they had a romantic interest. Just be st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:06 PM
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Marriage is a horrible deal for Men in Western Society lol With the way Alimony/Spousal Support works + Child Support/Family Court/Custodial Issues + how Domestic Violence Laws work.......... (she makes an accusation, is automatically believed by everyone and Law Enforcement HAS to arrest someone and they almost always take the Male; even if he's the one being abused). Ya I think I'm good. There's no real benefit to getting married if you're Male in Western Society; and a whole bunch of pitfalls…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:59 AM
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I'm still not understanding the problem? Because the way I see it; all of these ideas are interconnected and stem from the same systemic issues. So you either need to be more specific about what the issue is or we're just going in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:53 AM
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the dick pic thing was cringe to me; more importantly his style is just asking for a #Metoo Accusation. Anyone can be accused for any reason these days (and believed by Liberal/Feminist "journos" and "activists", unless you're accusing a Left Wing Politician like Biden/Cuomo ofc). But that guy....... The way he does things is aggressive to the point where he's just asking for an accusation. And what grinds my gears is some of the really emotionally/socially intelligent guys MIGHT be able to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:50 AM

I have zero interest in having any platonic female friends; I have plenty of female acquaintances but if I'm not sleeping with them they just don't really matter to me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:41 AM

Personally I don't "need" sex to feel validated; but I don't want to waste time on Women who I'm not sleeping with or heading in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:38 AM
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Depends on age but also a million other variables lol I guess if I had to make a sweeping generalization; girls in their late teens/20's like exciting guys who are good looking and may or may not have any actual resources. But Women in their 30's (while still enjoying some exciting guys); prefer a longer term/stable partner. But the folks who said it's all varied are correct; there just isn't a one size fits all for either Gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:10 PM
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Was the original post about being attractive or about Men not being able to complain/vent the way Women do without being shamed for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:41 PM
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Because it builds off the idea that Men are not "allowed" to complain in Western Society without getting roasted for it? I mean if the mods agree that it's not relevant they can remove ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:43 AM
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I don't understand this; I usually just wear a black tshirt and jeans, maybe some black slacks if I need to for business or a jacket if it's cold. Never had a Woman I was dating try and change my style; that just sounds weird and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:12 AM
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Lot of these dudes can't even follow their own advice lol.......... One of the fresh and fit dudes (the shorter one) told such a ridiculously unbelievable story that random youtubers outside of the Gender/Culture War were clowning on him. Then DJ AKADEMIKS was basically roasting him because he was literally acting like a simp for a chick he knew for a month and he was getting into his feels about it (very "not redpill"). The other one challenged Preach from "Aba and Preach" to a boxing match and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:10 AM
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I mean I don't disagree; Men (ESPECIALLY in "Liberal" Western Society; which is extremely ironic lol); are treated like genetic garbage if they can't attract women. And it literally comes from every faction (both Right Leaning and Left Leaning sources blast "loser" Men all day everyday). But this is also true in every context (not just dating); "Women are the primary victims of war" - Hilary Clinton. When they talk about homelessness it's "1 in 4 Women are homeless" (what about the other 3 lmao)…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:56 AM
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eh I'm not worried about it; the ones who get it, get it. the ones who don't and want to be outraged on twitter/kotaku/left leaning media are gonna do what they do. is what it is lol ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:43 AM
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I don't have any preferences that immediately "disqualify" Women. I am a bit picky though; but the way I always looked at it was; "What if you meet a super tall chick that you're really into?" or "if you prefer White/Black/Arab/Asian; but then meet a great girl of some other race that you're generally not attracted too?". I like to keep an open mind; but still be picky. Works better and creates a better (larger) net.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:54 PM
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I don't mind buying a girl a cup of coffee (or one of those fruity drinks at starbucks); because that tiny amount of investment has lead to far greater results than trying to maneuver the girl into paying or asking to go dutch. I think the Societal way of looking at it is "You asked her out; so you pay". It's like a 10$ investment; so even as a working class dude with not a lot of resources I don't see it as a problem. She ghosts and I never see her again? okay lol but most of the time (in my ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:49 PM
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yeah it's a thing; became popular with the advent of dating apps (at least I never saw it beforehand). it's not just a thing that you hear online either; I remember when I was in college a few years ago and this absolute simp boomer would come deliver free food to this chick that I kicked it with at school. she had him listed in her phone as "free food" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:37 PM
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You might have not done anything wrong bro; people are weird AF in high school. I was literally invisible to women in high school; then suddenly i graduated and did a little self improvement and everything changed. I know that sounds cheesy but it happened ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:49 AM
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But plenty of Women in their late teens or 20's have sex with random dudes who AREN'T Chad (and I know this because I was one of them). I had nothing (by redpill standards); no car, no 6 pack, no place to fuck, no money; I was a lil chubby and the list goes on. And these weren't all "fatties" or ugly chicks either; some of them were quite attractive. All I had was basically "my charm" lol Look I kind of agreed with this when I was a teenager; long before I found redpill or MGTOW I used to have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:44 AM
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Being wanted by Women and the dopamine release from sex probably does contribute a bit to happiness levels though. And because of the way society treats Men who DON'T get Women (basically as incompetent/weak/ugly/genetic garbage); it DOES contribute. I don't care when some chick online calls me an Incel; I think it's hilarious. But I already did my sleeping around; so it's similar to some random White Social Justice type calling me a "Racist" even though I'm darker than they are. To a dude who H…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:26 AM
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lol I've heard to many stories of dudes being listed in a girl's phone as "free food".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:10 AM
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Why would you take anything those psychos say seriously lol Therapy is good (although I don't want to echo the usual Reddit sentiment of "Therapy is the end all solution to all problems). Your Mental Health is YOUR responsibility; if some chick can't get behind that; ditch her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:47 AM
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Even WITH a physical disability it's pretty important to workout (obviously you'll have to factor that into what you do and understand your limits); I have a physical disability that sometimes severely limits me, but I feel awful when I don't get in a certain amount of physical activity per week. It's literally good for your mental/physical and emotional health; even outside of aesthetics/dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:44 AM
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Personally I've only seen people who have a problem with it if you're running around posting it everywhere online or saying it publicly. I mean I've certainly seen videos where some Onlyfans chick or "Escort" is crying on ticktock because some Alpha dude (or really any dude who has his shit together); broke up with them or wouldn't date them because they have a high body count (lol); but other than "Woke" journos people generally understand having standards. If people DO shame you just block/mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:53 PM
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You're telling me; the number of awkward situations that I've been dropped into because someone from our background just assumed I spoke the language... lol Yeah that's why I'm considering Tech/Cybersecurity; to be honest I have zero interest in it; but it's one of the few careers that allows you to pretty much have your pick of anywhere you want to work in the world and companies still having to fight over you (assuming you're reasonably good at what you do). Dunno if I have much of a future th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:46 PM
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Probably because they get annoyed with constantly being hit on while trying to hang with their friends......... I'm a dude and I'm far more on the redpill/MGTOW side; but we can be reasonable here. Would you enjoy a night where a bunch of girls you aren't attracted too (i.e. for redpillers, fat chicks); keep constantly hounding you? Probably not right? I'd also disagree on this topic anyway; nightclubs were generally sausagefests when I was coming up; but raves/festivals and house parties always…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:38 PM
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Yeah learning the native language is going to be important to do beforehand; my parents both speak 5+ languages and never thought to teach me any of them -_- I was thinking Indonesia/Malaysia seem nice; Pakistanis and Indians get along in the West just fine but I hear things are quite different back home. In the Gulf Countries you've gotta be a millionaire lol; otherwise they just treat you like a slave (from what I hear anyway). Although I do have some family over there that might be able to he…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:16 PM
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I mean.... I will not have a relationship with someone who is dumb. Even if she's a perfect 10 looks wise/sweet I just can't do it. Did it before; was not a fun experience and I constantly had that expression Jim from the office makes when someone says some dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:59 PM
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Ya I agree tbh; while loneliness and intimacy are a constant struggle in the modern west; comparative to the past? Where you actually had to marry a chick in order to bang her? Pffffft; nah just go to a few house parties/raves and you'll hookup at some point. And I say this as someone that's preeeeetty far away from the "Chad" archetype. I enjoyed the Western Culture of hooking up in my teens/20's and if I ever decide I need an actual long term relationship/marriage I'll just head over to the Mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:09 PM
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I don't understand why there is this view that in order to be tough/bad boy you have to be a criminal; otherwise you are regulated to the "friendzoned nice guy". I'm not a gangbanger or drug dealer; but I have zero problem being direct/confrontational if the situation demands it or standing my ground against some asswipe who's trying to push me/my girl/my family around. I also go for what I want in terms of romance; simple and direct. Meet a girl I like? Flirt then ask her out; if she says no th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:57 PM
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This. I'm amazed that entire genre hasn't been banned; it's basically just roleplaying pedophilia. Fucking nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:52 PM
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No lol Imagine being willing to ruin your future over something that MAY help you a tiny bit with dating. This might apply to some gorgeous dude like that light skinned guy who's mugshot went viral; or some of those overly charismatic mass murderers who get fan cults of women in prison. But in my experience it doesn't apply to the vast majority of incarcerated Men. I was involved in some... lightly questionable activities in college; nothing crazy mind you. I would say there was some attraction …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:49 PM
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Doesn't the 80/20 rule only apply to dating apps? I mean I don't disagree on ideas like "Female Hypergamy" and the vast majority of Women pursuing the top 10 - 20% of Men; but I don't think it's the "end all" of Gender Relationships. Met plenty of Women that I've dated that don't have tinder and have never used it or any other dating apps (because they don't need to lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:34 PM
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No I understand what you mean; like I said I've certainly experienced it myself. Now that I'm approaching my 30's I am thinking of leaving the West to go to the Muslim World. Were you born in the West or did you immigrate? Wondering how easy it is to integrate into a Muslim country like Pakistan if you're Western Born but still Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:30 PM
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The Wall is overblown; while it's incredibly amusing to see true carousel riders (you know the ones; ran through by every "Chad" and getting her heart broken every week for 10 years straight with no self reflection); Women in their 30's and 40's can and do still date/sleep around. But it IS different; very different list of options since most of the high tier Men go for Women in their 20's. Just remember; for every "Chad" that only wants to bang 20 year olds; there are 3 "Brads" that are absolut…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:04 PM
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Yeaaaaah idk about that my dude; generally posting about wanting to "play the field" when you have a good/loving partner is disliked by both sexes (at least publicly). Granted Women in this simp/feminist culture get a bit more leeway (i.e. "yOu gO giRL"); but I think in this case if the genders were flipped the response would be the same. And the "Don't come crawling back if it doesn't work out" is ABSOLUTELY used consistently against women that break things off with a guy to go "ride the carous…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:57 PM
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based. I like the flavored coffee but I have plenty of fond memories of taking a giant gas station coffee cup to a house party while everyone else got tanked. did it so often it became an inside joke in the party scene for my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:51 PM
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You don't HAVE to drink if you go to parties/events. I quite literally used to throw events for a living and never drank at them (99% of the time anyway lol). While it's 9999999x easier to meet the opposite sex and hookup at "Nightlife" (from personal experience anyway); you absolutely can just randomly meet girls outside of that. College Campus is easiest imo; but a beach/mall/random city street/church/sober social gatherings can absolutely work. In fact my actual relationships tended to come f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:48 PM
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I think one part of this (that may or may not have an effect); is that delusional views by Women are enabled by mainstream society/media/social media. If you're a Man and you post misogynistic shit all over facebook/twitter; not only will you get banned but more importantly your reputation will be shot. Forget getting a date (most girls will send their friends screenies while they're laughing at you); but you'll be a pariah in whatever field you've chosen to go into + your greater social communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:38 PM
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I don't think this is necessarily true my friend; I am East Indian and statistically (online dating anyway) we do the "worst" with Western Women. Like literally bottom of the pack lol (for Women it's Black Women). Def had situations where I've been called "creepy" just for literally existing (not staring at the girl, talking to her or interacting with her whatsoever); and while you see plenty of Girls who say they're into White guys, Black guys, Hispanic guys and now with the rising popularity o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:35 PM
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