Sleepisannoying Archive

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1	Big Brother versus Partner - what would you do? It's your choice and your life, so be kind but let everyones opinions roll off. Keep your class, they may see things differently in the future and you don't want to have lowered yourself by reacting bad. But do have self respect, and I think you showed that well. Well done! And relationship dynamics are different for everyone, no one can predict another's level of comfort or pleasure. So aside from abuse, your brother doesn't get a vote. As for the social media question, at your ages I'm surpris…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/18 12:39 PM
2	The default male setting is beta. Aww thank you!! :) :)	/r/RedPillWomen	11/04/18 02:26 PM
4	The default male setting is beta. I found men want to be needed. Like in a physical task sense, sometimes it's that simple. I found it's hard to do when you don't really need those things done, like when you can just do them yourself or learn how. I'm not a feminist, I just get stuff done. But then I want him to be the man too. I've certainly learned alot about myself and when to ask for help is sometimes when I don't really need it. :). Just like he can feed himself sure, but he appreciates every dinner I cook. It's about shari…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/18 01:10 PM
3	The default male setting is beta. This is spot on! From a woman married over 15 years, we are still growing together still finding our balance but still deeply in love with great passion. Those first years of headbutting the differences (me a strong independent woman, not bossy just very self sufficient, he a giving, loyal, sensitive, calm man) well what you described is exactly what went on. We have both changed over the years to be better version of ourselves, better for our partner, refined, appreciating each others strengths…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/18 12:34 PM
2	What have you found helps when you’re heartbroken or just going through a tough time? Volunteering. Helping less fortunate.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/18 03:01 PM
1	Alpha widowed? What if you tried seeing him in a different light? He likes being on the pedestal you created... It strokes his ego. You've asked for limited contact, he refuses and claims he wants to stay friends... he is discounting you and your situation and your pain, for his own needs of wanting to be admired. If he were really all that and a bag of chips he would respect your request and not "act really hurt". He likes the spotlight you've given him, it inflates his ego even is he's really good at not let…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/18 02:59 PM
2	First time posting on RPW, looking for advice to keep my relationship afloat You're trying to go from having only seen each other once in person.. to moving in together. Girrrll. Just not the best plan imo. And y'all are both 27 still living at home. ?? Don't depend on him to get you to grow up, maybe you need to do a little of that on your own.. emotionally too. You want to need him and appreciate him but not like this.. you need will power for the other things you mention. At 27.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/03/18 12:21 PM
0	Having to fire your husband I sure hope you told your husband on Saturday. You are a wife before you are a boss and you should have trust and commitment with your husband, a trust so deep you should know he wouldnt say a word to anyone, and he'd know his wife is on his team and can trust her. I can't imagine how he's feeling inside if he knew you knew for two days without telling him, while sleeping with him and spending all day with him. Wow. I just hope you aren't saying it here because of the risk if people at work foun…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/03/18 10:32 AM
1	Did I just become a dick? Adding, not to mention that maybe she helped pick this house out with you? So the increased equity is definitely her value too. Did she love the yard or porch or something... Maybe, if not for her you may have choosen a different house, or maybe not bought at that particular time....she was a part of the picture, the equity was her gamble too, not just yours cuz you put money down. Just be fair ok.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/18 02:24 PM
1	Did I just become a dick? Yeah that's pretty raw. Y'all both contributed to the home life somehow, be it support, chores, relationship. If y'all weren't together, she could possibly be in a different place right now, but for four years she planned on forever with you. Kinda sucks to walk away, but to walk away starting from scratch with nothing because you signed a paper you never expected sucks too. Youre are probably seeing her scared emotions at how to start over, and why because y'all mutually didn't work does she ge…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/18 02:20 PM