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| 245 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more… | LIES MEN TELL | SleepyLibraryScorpio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:52 AM |
| 108 | FDS Fiction - What Are You Reading? | BOOK REPORT | SleepyLibraryScorpio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Stop the lie that raising children as a single woman is hard. It isn’t any harder than raising them with a LVM who doesn’t even know his kid’s birthdays. 🤦♀️ | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | SleepyLibraryScorpio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 04:59 PM |
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| 73 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)Agree. If Elle returns I’m done. I don’t need a “both sides” argument as if conservative views don’t already drive this country and monopolize the media. I don’t want to pull my Patreon either but if they keep this kind of content, I’m out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:57 PM |
| 3 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndYay! Thank you for all the work you do!! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 05:04 AM |
| 2 | I thought this belongs here...That’s literally what happened to me. I became my LVX therapist and suddenly keeper of all these horrific secrets. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Yaaas!! More members!! 👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 153 | What’s your best FDS quote?“Love shouldn’t hurt.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 03:45 AM |
| 6 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.t h i s 👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:44 PM |
| 27 | Why is it the most hideous men that are Ethically Non Monogamous (ENM)?Question: does he have a One Penis Policy? Like can the women he’s dating ONLY date him, but he’s allowed to date multiple women? If so, he’s gross. If not, why not just say he’s dating and not committed? What about it makes it polyamory? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 113 | The Devil’s Advocate! I wish we could delete and block these men in real life situations…Oof. I worked with one of these. The only difference was he wasn’t very good at hiding his thirst for violence, his racism, and his belief that women are the “weaker” sex. He positioned these views as “logical” on the problematic philosophy that “might is right,” and absolutely talked about people as pawns and playthings, creating hypotheticals for himself that are realities for many people not born straight, white, cis-gendered, and into money. The man literally experienced life in easy mode bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:08 PM |
| 22 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!I am deeply worried about this. I will give it one good listen, but if comes down to “discussions” about a woman’s bodily autonomy (pro-life bullshit), the legitimacy of LGBT+ rights, or racism cloaked as “economic interests” then I’m out. Tbh, I feel you’re making a huge mistake here. We don’t have to give a seat at the table to obvious evil, and that’s what anyone right of center is (yes, I stand by that). The left has HUGE issues, but I don’t believe the answer is trying to find common ground… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-I’mMaybe a concentrated weekly thread? Or even just one day a week where people can post their horror stories so it’s all in one place? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 06:22 PM |
| 53 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?Holy shit! You jusT described the relationship my friend has with her fiancé. Yes she marrying him. No he’s not in school. No he doesn’t have a job. Yes he sits at home and plays video games all day. She supports him with her career. And he can’t even be bothered to clean up after himself. Honestly the arrangement is mind boggling to me. Maybe there’s something I’m missing. He’s not mean. He’s interesting to talk to. But is that the bar? Not an asshole? Apparently it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 10:14 PM |
| 3 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…Yessss. The mythical “wall” women seem to leap over and men always crash headfirst into. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 10:11 PM |
| 4 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…Yes this. That pink tax is terrible. I started buying “men’s” razors because they’re cheaper and work just as well. Who cares if they’re “gun-steel” gray? My leg hair sure doesn’t. 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 7 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…Motherhood is the worlds most thankless job, I swear. If I hear one more person say “my husband is babysitting the kids” I might scream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 4 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…Y E S. She literally just talked about planning a birthday dinner FOR HIS MOTHER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 09:27 PM |
| 6 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…Hahahaha I agree. The only time I ever see men looking at greeting cards in on Valentines Day at Walgreens as they all rush to buy cheap drugstore chocolates so they can demand sex for being “romantic” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 09:26 PM |
| 6 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…I didn’t even consider this, and I 100% should have because I paid over $1000 in medical bills to get my IUD in and then checked via ultrasound to make sure it was in place!!! But my IUD benefits any male partners I have. Such a great point. My friend currently is on the pill. I bet he’s not paying 50% of that copay each month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 09:24 PM |
| 7 | 50/50 is BS because women are already giving 100% more…Y u p This was my personal experience and now my personal horror as I watch all my friends settle for adult children who nickel-and-dime Taco Bell drivethru dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 09:22 PM |
| 92 | Shame dumping and blame-shiftingWhenever I explained to my ex that a behavior was hurtful, inconsiderate, unsafe, or downright cruel he shifted the blame and the attention onto me by making it about “how I said it.” “I don’t like the way you say things.” “You sound so cold when you talk to me.” “You’re tone is really hurtful.” So then the focus became how my “tone” was hurtful and not about the hurtful thing he’d actually done because heaven forbid I show any anger or pain and he’s forced to reconcile with his choices. For yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 50 | As a married woman, FDS Principles have measurably alleviated my anxietySo glad you’re finding this inner peace. Living two lives will age you twice as fast. I know because I did this too, and like you a light bulb went off (it was after reading the book FED UP) and I gave my ex an ultimatum. He put in a good faith effort in for a few weeks (including the therapist), and I thought things were changing. Then he fell right back into his old habits (and stopped therapy). I did too, until I broke down again and had another ultimatum talk. You can see where this is going… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 21 | How to Spot a PAWhere was this list when I was with my PA ex??? Maybe it would have saved me some valuable years of my life. 😓 I can add: Unexplained viruses on the shared/desktop/family computer Complete disinterest in pleasuring you; expects you to suddenly be an acrobatic sex machine in bed that does all the “work” Makes comments every time you eat a food even vaguely phallic Stops cuddling after sex and “doesn’t want to talk about it” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?Tall; 5’10 minimum Big girthy dick; 7 inches minimum Full head of hair, trimmed and styled Clean shaven; no beard Well-dressed; does not wear gym shorts and graphic tees unless he’s mowing the lawn Fit; no beer belly, healthy BMI Good teeth Washes his fucking ass Those are my must-haves, but I’ll swoon specifically for: Green or blue eyes Full lips Brown or black hair Freckles Square jaw Long fingers Wears (chooses, buys, puts on) cologne Knows how to wear and properly apply minor makeup (concea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:50 PM |
| 24 | It's just a myth that attractive people have terrible personalitiesA wiser woman than me brushed away my tears and said, “Honey, pick yourself up and move on because men always cheat d o w n.” I won’t bash the woman he cheated on me with. I hope he didn’t hurt her the way he hurt me. But those words stuck with me. When a man cheats, it often has nothing to do with sexual need or opportunity and everything to do with a LVM’s need to feel superior and hurt women, and so they’ll choose vulnerable women with low self-esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:43 PM |
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