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| 1 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Sweet! I’ll enjoy my bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Do most men consider 30 year old women to be too old?Not for me. If we have good chemistry and our energies match, I forget about age. I’m just speaking for myself though. Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | After 15 years of being in the dating pool, I'm finally calling it quits.Poster has a point. Nobody is guaranteed anything. I’m always trying to keep that in mind when things don’t go the way I want them to in my mind. Life is as it is. There is deep peace in that. I do wish you the best and blessings to find someone who fits you. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?I agree! I have been in the gym my whole life along with now transitioning into a long distance endurance athlete. It for sure keeps my face looking young. I felt great for my age. Sober as well. For anyone thinking of changing to healthier habits, please strongly consider. It’s never too late and always worth the change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:50 AM |
| 2 | It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourselfI see it at my gym all the time. Sometimes I scratch my head but hey who knows | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??Thank god we came up with the idea of tree stands lol. Saddles in my personal experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableYou won that argument no doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men.Community single mingle events sounds awesome! I would for sure try it out if the male female ratio was balanced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 21 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyI highly agree with the social circle and who you are surrounding yourself with. What I see below and above is just their personal experience thinking it relates with everyone. I know plenty of average and below average women/men that find themselves in healthy relationships and marriages. Who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 6 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?100% in my personal experience as well. I’ll turn the other way and fish in my own hole then ✌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective?I have a positive outlook on women for sure. I come from a very supportive and loving home life. Almost all of that is because of my mother. Because I grew up with so much unconditional love, it’s hard for me to hold grudges among anyone even if it caused a lot of pain. Humans are going to be humans. For that, I’ll do my best to experience what’s in front of me and keep my heart open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop?I’ll pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?I’m just going to say.. that can be a serious turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl taking days to reply and now not respondingThis is solid advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 5 | My take on the "average man"Or his mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 01:59 AM |
| 6 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveI think so. I’m very short for a man but I assume my face is decent since I have had an consistent active sex/relationship life since I was very young. Height and frame absolutely matter but your face really goes a long way. This is just from my personal experience. Some people might disagree with me here but a solid skin care routine goes a LONG way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 04:50 AM |
| 2 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Absolutely! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | A lot of people are so busy “keeping the score” that they’re forgetting to enjoy their life.Good post OP. I am guilty of this but it’s important to bring myself back to reality. It’s easy to get lost in this life. Gratitude and appreciation brings me right back to the moment. I just ended a casual relationship but I’m thankful I was presented with the opportunity. Anyways, great point. Thanks for the reminder to enjoy reality as it is instead of having to make it certain way to be ok with myself inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 12:48 AM |
| 0 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Fashion for sure. Man does figuring out what clothes fit your body type go along way with people in general. Not just women. Nothing better than feeling fresh 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t care if you’re sensitive, women don’t like or appreciate men expressing their emotions or showing any vulnerability when it comes to relationshipsNo dating experience? Blessings to you man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?Never mind. Thanks 🤟🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?What do you consider a regular guy? Just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?Damn lol solid point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenLmfao man oh man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:48 PM |
| – | What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ?I’m right there with ya buddy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Sex is higher pressure for menI’m thankful to have a head full of thick ass hair at 31. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyName checks out | /r/seduction | 17/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Financial stability is about to become the biggest obstacle in an already chaotic dating market, particularly for young adults.Lol it is exactly that. A touch of asshole. Funny what a small touch does 🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 7 | What is your hobby?I enjoy lifting weights, running, hiking. I also enjoy to garden and game! I also really enjoy to fish and be on the water whenever possible. | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | i rejected a girl this weekend and could possibly have gotten laidSmart thinking here | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 4 | If men and women can just be friends, Then why do a lot of women stop talking to their male counterpart once they are in a relationship?I feel this. You putting all your time into me and our relationship even for the first couple of months is a red flag for me. Everyone is different and I respect the feelings of others but if the vibe isn’t right, it isn’t right for me. My opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Is Hitting The Wall at 30 a American Phenomena?lol wow we are just the opposite. I love me some olive skin. Probably because I grew up by the beach. Nothing better that some sun kissed hair and skin. Ah god don’t forget the beautiful eyes!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyGreat answer. Straight to the point. Deserves to be at the top 👍🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 12:08 AM |
| 6 | The game is simple.. try to get rejectedStill existing | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadHomie I think you need some exercise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadEh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadThat’s your truth. I love working out. Nothing better than a run under the sun to get those endorphins going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | If men want more opportunities for sex, why don’t they put the same amount of effort into grooming, self care and “glowing up” as most women do?Homie I feel you! I’m your height and I wouldn’t wear those shoes. I just own who I am. Yes, I am short and it’s hurt my dating game. It hurts sometimes but I just accepted it. Good for you for owning yourself! That takes a ton of courage. I found some passions in life and just putting my time there. Dogs help too 👍🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Just how successful are your close friends in dating/romance?Lol let him enjoy it in this life 🙂 no one leaves this planet without paying some kind of debt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you want to be the “ pretty “one in your relationships ?🎈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 02:06 AM |
| 5 | The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complainHaha this cracked me up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 01:35 AM |
| 2 | 6 Signs Someone is Attracted To YouLmao for sure next level | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 5 | 6 Signs Someone is Attracted To YouHere is one that goes into favors. One consistent sign is if the she/he makes food for you. Homemade food. Brings you snacks, dinners, or even sweets. That to me is almost a 100% oh ya.. she feeling me lol but that’s just my experience. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 0 | The Blackpill is nothing more than philosophy created by have nots to excuse themselves for what they dont haveOh boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control?Lmao this is great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 9 | What are some dealbreakers you’ve acquired with life experience?Spot on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?I’m a short man and I love taller women lol if I like you then I like you. Women make it a bigger deal but you know what really gets me going? A women with a open heart space 🌱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Men's Flirting Privileges Depend On Their AttractivenessVery true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 02:08 AM |
| 0 | If you're not creepy or fragile, you shouldn't be terrified to express interest in women or flirt whatsoever because of MeToo and mainstream media/feminism telling you that your masculinity is toxic.Spot on lol height matters but damn a good looking face can seriously take you a long way 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Being the best you can be is the best thing you can do for yourselfAs a short man, I agree with this! What’s odd for me is almost all of my girlfriends have been taller than me. Casual hook ups have been same height or shorter. I prefer taller women. Maybe women are thinking the same? I would prefer taller kids so I’ll go for taller women. Who knows man. I just have fun and enjoy what’s presented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do European men care more about their appearance than American men?Many reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change.Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Being unable to get commitment is not comparable to being unable to get sex.IF it ends in mutual understanding of non compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | TRP was meant for Average Frustrated Chumps not Bottom Tier OmegasAgree with this. Height absolutely matters but man does a good looking proportional face help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 10:11 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more.Similar situation to you man. I learned how to hold my own. I practice jujitsu and it really opened my eyes. Humbled me as well. Glad to see you did your thing man. You got my respect. Blessing brother! 🤙🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men have such a hard time relating to what women find attractive, because the traits that make a man atrractive to women are not the same traits that make him respectable to other men.Wise words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 08:51 PM |
| 4 | What do you believe the female equivalent of a short man is?I guess it depends. I do. I usually Date women taller than me but I’m shorter than average. 🤙🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is ageism considered to be less shallow than height-ism?Wow. I give you credit for this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 02:57 AM |
| 3 | "Get out there and meet women" - what do people have in mind when they say stuff like this?I really appreciate this advice. Wonderful way of explaining! Thanks man. I’ll for sure keep this in mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Do men overhype muscles?On point! Just lift! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.I love me a nice, chill, low maintenance girl.. that can keep me in check when I slip lol the sass keeps it fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 03:00 AM |
| 3 | It gets harder to date after high schoolI give you credit my man! Takes pure confidence to cold approach and be present in the moment. Kudos to you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Women find negative feminine traits unattractive.From my perspective, whining and complaining about life is the most unattractive trait there is. Blessings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Are relationships just suffering and a constant battle for power?Seems so. Relationships feel a lot easier when both parties are taking responsibility for their internal state. If no awareness is present, it usually turns into a power struggle or a constant want from the other person. Finding happiness within is my responsibility. Not yours. Speaking from my personal experience and not saying this applies to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Short guys should wear lifts.Sw33t username | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to learn to have Self-respect and self-empowerment just like women are doing. Step one? Saying NO when you realize you are merely a "backup plan" in a relationship.Wise words my man! If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What percentage of men do you actually find attractive?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Why is she ignoring my texts?Spot on 👍🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid branch swingingThank you for the insight 🙂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Why do men not select for height in mates?I agree with your second paragraph. I am short for a man and my ex was at least 3 inches taller than me. I never made it a deal but I always loved when she would wear heels. So damn sexy. She loved that I didn’t give a shit. If you are a man but act like a child when a girl is taller than you.. then yes it will bother her. This is all from personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Does your mans sexual history ever bother you?Makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to approach women at the gym?I keep to myself unless I make hard eye contact with one. At that point, the next time I just casually say hey and that’s it. Might see her again in a couple days or so and usually can open up some convo next time. Not sure, just gotta read the situation and vibe. Some are open but I would wait for choosing signals first if that is your focus. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Are you equally turned off by women who have had tons of BF?Huge red flag if they monkey branch from one to another in terms of LTR for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/19 12:46 PM |
| 10 | Tinder in Utah be like...Lmao this cracked me up | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/19 11:54 AM |
| 2 | How do "beta" men date/marry in the first place?The last paragraph was touching my friend. Thank you for that. You really do only live once. I sure as hell don’t want to live someone else’s life. I am extremely thankful to live my own. Thank you for giving me some perspective. Peace be with you my friend 🙌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.That’s my way of communicating I have interest in you but hey different strokes for different folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?It feels he is projecting his height insecurities into others. Sucks man. As a shorter guy, I can relate but sometimes.. you just gotta let go and enjoy what you were given in this random biological lottery. Ayyy ooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 01:17 PM |
| 2 | [22M] Started med school in big city. Didn't date/have sex much in college. Tinder doesn't work for me, either.I'm in the same boat as you expect my mind is programmed a little differently. Maybe instead of approaching.. Just go out and have fun. Women love to have fun man. They do judge by appearance but I think stimulating emotions can help override that a lot of the times. I would also put yourself out there and be open while having fun and trying not to attach. I'm your height and have been successful with tinder. Maybe make your profile fun.. You like to have fun and you like to have a good time wit… | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | should you call girls out on initial resistance?Maybe change your intentions a little bit? I believe most women are highly intuitive. They pick up on your intentions QUICK so that could be why the response. I say just have fun but we all have our ways :) | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 02:08 AM |
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