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| 1 | BasedActually based | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/05/21 02:09 AM |
| 71 | And this is why we pay attention to when men text us. Block and delete!The last guy that tried to do this to me on FB was unfriended instantly. Then he sent a bunch of his buddies to try and friend me (I guess I pissed him off) and I ignored all the friend requests. There’s nothing about a late night message from some rando that I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 9 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?And I’m sure he’s thinking it will be great to have someone to mooch off of when it comes time to cook a meal or have a shower. Men seriously don’t get the whole “I need to think about more than myself” part of relationships. This is self centered to the point of pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 143 | Homeless men: an example of how men twist the narrativeThis is definitely true. Men have a greater sense of freedom in the world and find it easier to live as a homeless person. Imagine not having periods or worrying about rape. It’s just easier to live as a hobo when you’re a man and they know this... so they make shitty choices like ruining the career to “relive their childhood” (something my daughters father did, who is now homeless). They are victims of themselves and that’s about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:38 PM |
| -1 | So.... it worked?So due to the fact that the program downgraded “women’s colleges” or “women’s chess clubs” - that makes men superior? Lmao... Remember women make better leaders before we start trying to banish women back into the kitchen. And if you hate women using Onlyfans- stop watching so much porn. You all make yourselves miserable with that shit and then blame us for it. Not a good look... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 10 | What do you ladies think?I get the annoyance with capitalism and income inequality but.. you know that exactly none of the European Nordic countries that have the happiest quality of life are socialist right? They’re all capitalist. This seems to be something that Gen Z cannot accept. Just saying... I don’t expect FDS to be objective but there seems to be a lot of confusion about what socialism is. Cuban people can tell you all about it. They often flee from Cuba to come here. I think social democracy is a good thing bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeThank you !😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 10 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeI apologize and have edited my comment. I will avoid doing that in the future. Sorry about that. I’m thrilled to hear there is some kind of plan in the works! If any help is needed, please let me know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:21 PM |
| 47 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeWe need a contingency plan for if this sub gets banned... beyond just the FDS website. Reddit some of the most degrading porn imaginable-(and don’t forget many porn subs specify cis women degradation only!). If FDS gets banned , Reddit needs to be exposed for misogynistic cesspool it is. If subs like degradingholes is allowed, this sub damn well better be allowed. It’s obvious that Reddit’s anti-woman agenda is alive and kicking... it absolutely needs to be exposed if and when that ban hammer co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | What is a HVM?If a woman wants to be a tradwife, she can do so and there’s no judgment from me. But I don’t think women should be expected to clean and care for children any more than men should be expected to pay the bills. I would prefer to demolish those expectations because they just don’t work for all of us. I prefer being in the working world and having a great job to being a SAHM. But it’s all about personal choice. All that really matters is that the labor is divided equally. I’m a working mom with on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:18 AM |
| 4 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.Oh I know! It’s so disgusting ..”conversion is possible!” Translation: get her attached to you and then guilt her into being your mommy and “changing” you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:06 PM |
| 49 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.Haha.. fair enough. A lot of these dudes with this kind of fetish still expect relationships though... they want women to be like mommies and such and to be all supportive of their fetish while having no desires of their own. I actually googled this (I know - glutton for punishment) and found a slew of stories from women trying to deal with their partners new hobby 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 107 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.I was shamed for doing this exact thing... got into a whole debate with this woman on Reddit desperately defending this dude with an adult diaper fetish and his “Adult Diaper Superstore”. She’s all “pruuude.. it’s not hurting anyone!” Sure Jan. This is great for the environment, exactly what the world needs now... adult men jacking off in their diapers and ostracizing anyone who dares to point how sick and fucked up that is. Tell me more about how porn and fetish normalization is helping society… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 01:10 AM |
| 23 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEThis should be pinned. Women really need to be more careful... we are socialized to be nice and often the result is a situation like one of these. Say what you will about FDS, every young woman needs to hear these words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:47 AM |
| 13 | Sigh... he’s short and maybe 6 out of 10, luckily only 2 dates in for the truth to come out. I’m a size 8 and too fat apparently...Love the “respect your body” gaslighting. Respecting yourself means loving yourself and this asshole definitely doesn’t want you loving yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 118 | This almost makes me want to redownload dating apps to do the same!For real! And Bumble was supposed to be the pro-female one.. wow that’s depressing. So glad I don’t use dating apps anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 14 | The Energy We’re Taking into 2021Men are pretty boring as well... life without them is actually better because women can be free to seek their own happiness instead of having to please manchildren all day. That’s why single women are the happiest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 10 | The Energy We’re Taking into 2021That’s absolutely disgusting. Imagine the entitlement and delusion required to say that to someone... these dudes think they’re all little sex gods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:49 PM |
| 23 | The Energy We’re Taking into 2021Damn ...men are seriously fucked up... Literally everyone knows how most of them have limp dick now, as well as brain damage and reduced impulse control. It’s just common knowledge - they’re trying to blame it on you? Lmfao... Yeah bro, that’s what happens when you spend your whole life in depraved mode. You become a total price of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 5 | "ONCE YOU HIT THE WALL, YOULL BE ALONE FOREVER! TEeHeeHeHeE" 🙄What’s funny is that it’s men who are about to hit a huge wall... men as a whole. They still don’t get how useless they are compared to women as a result of being spoiled and rewarded for mediocrity. Meanwhile, they’re only getting more lazy and spoiled with porn etc... while women need them less than ever. I’m 43 years old and learning what life is really like as a middle aged woman who values herself. I’ve finally got a very HVM I’ve been friends with for decades, and now we’re partners. I hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:54 PM |
| 21 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.I think it might time to date only women from now on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 06:07 AM |
| 80 | Imagine carrying a pregnancy to term for this piece of shit LVMThey do hate us. We need to finally acknowledge it for what it is and go our own way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:06 AM |
| 16 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Yep- they don’t want to have to work for it or put in any effort at all, basically. They feel entitled to women... all women, all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:12 AM |
| 13 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Exactly. I learned this the hard way. Learn from my mistakes... it’s not shallow, it’s just the way it is. They tend to be more toxic than any others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:46 AM |
| 95 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.This is sooo true. They are the most misogynistic of them all! If you’re ever tempted to think an ugly man will treat you better ...DONT. They are the worst of the lot. They cling to misogynistic beliefs because they have nothing else. Also, because society encourages ugly men to chase after hot women, they get burned by all the rejection. Meanwhile women in their league continue to be ignored by them while they get angrier and angrier. Stay away... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 16 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.This is disgusting. This is pure hatred for women right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:59 PM |
| 71 | On the ground outside...For real- wtf is she doing paying for Wendy’s ? Drop him at a landfill and move the fuck on lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:29 AM |
| 5 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.This is beyond inappropriate and frankly, selfish as hell. Now you feel weird in your own home. What a massive gaping asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:37 AM |
| 39 | Your body, mind and spirit deserve better.It is truly a sad sad world for women and young girls right now. A lot of the young ones doing it now will likely regret it... a whole lot. It’s always the young women in demand, the younger the better. And society has basically embraced this new dehumanization of women entirely. It’s one of the most disgusting and depressing time periods ever to be a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:08 PM |
| 20 | Who told old men young women want them?Seriously... old men need to STOP messenging me on social media. Move on gramps... I’m not about to be your unpaid caretaker. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:30 PM |
| 9 | I love you all💖This sub is always an oasis of sanity and deprogramming 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:06 AM |
| 10 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.(Facepalm).. this is why we can’t have nice men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:59 AM |
| 9 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.Fuck this and fuck whoever made this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:55 AM |
| 14 | I can't read relationship subreddits anymore...I read the anime one.. this guy can only enjoy sex with her using an anime filter and everyone in the comments is mostly concerned about kink shaming... what the fuck is wrong with these women?? I knew better than to comment.. I would gotten all kinds of hate for pointing out how fucked up that is. It’s seriously sad what women are conditioned to accept from men and how eager they are to accept it, as if expecting to be treated with humanity is just a lost cause at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:51 AM |
| 58 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂The part where the friend was like , “I wouldn’t put up with that” Excuse me? You wouldn’t “put up” with affection? So a girlfriend is supposed to just be a fucktoy I guess and be grateful she gets shitty dick but shamed for trying to show affection? How disgustingly toxic can it get? So glad she left. A happy ending after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 65 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂I can’t stand that sub... the gaslighting of women that goes on there is beyond ridiculous. And watching pickmes gratefully eat it up makes me want to puke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 14 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...Seriously... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 38 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"It took me decades to understand this. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.. the way women are socialized to be weak and put everyone else first so men get to be endlessly selfish. At 43 , I’m still having “aha” moments about this. I’m so glad women and girls are waking up to the reality of their own submission and exploitation. This needs to stop; you can easily see the way it has lead to stunted growth and spoiled behavior from men in many cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:52 PM |
| -7 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻Thank you for sharing this. I’m no republican and the US has a lot of problems but the hard lefts love of socialism in the US is pure ignorance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:13 PM |
| 4 | NVM begging for nudes even though we lived 15 minutes away from each other 🤡Fuck these assholes. Demanding nudes is the reddest of all flags. You know they just want to trade them with friends like baseball cards. They want a souvenir before they ghost you or worse. This man is pure trash. And I hate normalized the whole “send nudes” thing is...why do so many women go along with this shit?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 9 | May Every Woman Find Her Marty Ginsburg (Vogue)That was eye opening. I still like him but I see what you mean! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | While this advice is well intentioned, it misses how women have to vet men ruthlessly because they are users and abusers. This is what pickmes think when they are chasing a man and being “equal” in the relationship. Don’t fall for it ladies.Wow... so does that mean I don’t belong here as a 40 something? I love tiktok for exactly what you described. I’ve seen women of all ages on there living their best lives. You’re going to be older one day too and you’re going to realize that trying to make women invisible after a certain age is one of the most misogynistic things you can do. The fact that young women hate older women as much as men do is one of the most depressing things about our culture. Fuck off with your ageist bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 6 | So I’m bored left swiping (99%+ tbh) and I’m trying to make Sense of what I’m seeing. These men MUST be lyingI can’t wait for this to happen. It’s no wonder female reproductive rights are under attack... men know things are changing and they hate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Self Care DaySounds like your ex must miss you a lot for her to be doing this. Why else would you be on their minds all the time , to such an extent? You dodged a bullet for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 6 | I just had my first internet wake up callI’m sorry that happened to you. That’s the bitterness of a man who feels entitled to things he never should have felt entitled to to begin with. Men are very angry right now as women realize more and more that we really don’t need them as much as they need us. It’s a hard pill for them to swallow and they get enraged when they see women online who are making their own choices and living their best lives. FWIW: after a while of being on Reddit, these types won’t get to you anymore. They have no p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 14 | Why don't LVM/NVM just choose pickmes and leave us tf alone?They really are threatened by FDS. They can’t stand us talking to each other and having opinions they can’t control. It’s disgusting. I see so much hate for this sub elsewhere on Reddit and it’s obvious why. Like you said: they don’t want the pickmes to wake up and realize they are living in a male-centered reality that does not have their well-being in mind whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 13 | Males obsession with sex makes them fundamentally untrustworthy and malevolent. NEVER FORGET THATThen they desperately try to gaslight you to believe you need them more than they need you. I just got into it with a bunch of morons from the Purple Pill debate sub who were trying to say that women are desperate for relationships and can’t even function without one. I laid out the truth and now I’m banned 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:56 PM |
| 4 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?I’ve accomplished financial security, raised an awesome daughter on my own and have an amazing network of family and friends. I love the freedom of not worrying about pleasing a man every five minutes too. I am dating but the man I’m dating is someone who would be every bit as disgusted with the misogyny of this thread as I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 12:22 PM |
| 4 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?No I don’t think my value is what a man decides regardless of whether I’m in a relationship or not. I decide my value and he can take it or leave it. Especially because men value looks over all, their value system means nothing to me. It’s never been about the things that matter. Men are grossly degrading when evaluating women in a way that most women are not. Sorry but women don’t need to cater to men or play these dumb relationship games to be good people. And women are indeed happiest when si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 12:00 PM |
| 8 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?This is true and supported by research. I’ve been reading all through this nasty thread about how older single women are “losers” and “not good people” ... uhhh women are happiest when single. The problem is the programming we’ve been taught that being alone= failure. That’s going to change. It’s nothing more than misogyny 101. To be happiest as a woman, stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 11:44 AM |
| 5 | If he negs other women...I wish we could make some of the things in this sub required learning for girls , it would save so many women from terrible experiences with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 26 | I “ built a man up” and now I know why a lot of women refuse to do so anymore.Wow, sounds like he’s finally being forced to face the fact that he’s a total POS. Sometimes life has a way of giving people what they deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:43 PM |
| 64 | YesAmen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 12 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...Men are so delusional. And I love how the ugliest ones always think their dick is a hot commodity and a FWB situation would be even remotely worth it for the woman. Seems like the uglier they are, the more delusional they get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:39 PM |
| 27 | Gaslit on TwoX about my own experiences with ridesharesAgreed. It’s especially disgusting as an online mod, controlling discussions about women’s issues. If you say anything about it you’re a bigot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:27 PM |
| 48 | Gaslit on TwoX about my own experiences with ridesharesFor real... the difference between this sub and that one is so obvious. You can easily tell that this sub is actual women relating the experience of being a woman of this world. The other sub is for pandering and not-all-men bs, mixed with hatred toward any cis/het person. It’s not really about women over there anymore, if it ever was. They can keep pretending it is but it’s pretty obviously not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 47 | When i saw people calling this a sub for "nasty/evil/crazy/scary" women i immediately got hopeful and wanted to see whats up, not despite of the reputation but BECAUSE of it. Because every time women are doing something RIGHT it's rebranded by men as "nasty/evil/etc"Take my poorwoman’s gold🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 11 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Same. It’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Preach!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 12 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Yes x 1000 So many mods on these subs are not even women and it shows. I remember when I first learned that female Reddit subs are modded by men and i wanted to vomit. They have to have literally everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | All cultures are misogynist in one way or anotherIt didn’t used to be this bad but western women got tired of being the sexual gatekeepers and decided that women should be as sexual as they want to be. That alone is fine, but men decided to use that to their advantage and incorporate that into sexual harassment and the excuses to watch porn all day, which has caused women to feel like they need to be more sexual than natural in order to complete. It’s disgusting. If you’re not a nympho, you’re alone basically.. few men will put up with a woman… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Welcome back FDS !They literally say that about every woman who loves herself too much to be used. It’s like junior high never ends for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:05 PM |
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