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| 1 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?I havent used it since summer 2023 but honestly the difference was like night and day back then. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:37 PM |
| 6 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Who tells you Platinum is not worth it is just ugly, sorry but that's the truth. It's definitely worth it if you just want to screw around as much as possible. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 10:49 AM |
| 13 | Texting in between Dates.First of all she ended a 7 years relationship recently (yes 10 months for that kind of time qualifies as recent), so she might be super hot one moment and super cold another. Having said that, especially with your dyslexia, I'd suggest keeping the texting to a bare minimum to set up dates and leaving it at that. Don't text her to comment on stuff, tell her in person when you see her, that how rapport is created. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 11:29 AM |
| 7 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsUS is not the center of the world you know | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 09:04 AM |
| – | Thoughts on smoking weed day/days before a date and if any effects on selfNot smoking weed will get you better results in every aspect of your life compared to smoking weed, period. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Seriously how do i keep my libido up with a virgin girl?Try to pull away, see her less, text less, dont ask her out ecc.. She will come to you. When you eventually get to the "handjob point" use last minute resistance blasting techs. Stop what you are doing with her, not butthurt, with nonchhalance, turn the lights on, put on a movie or something like that. She will crawl back on your lap and she might want to fuck just to win you over. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | After a 2 year relationship i M25 am about to get back on dating apps. Does anyone have any tips for me?Don't | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you pull a feminist/SJW kind of woman?Why would you ever waste your time on someone like that? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Throwing a little party and inviting your FWB?Invite both Double injection massage tech from Style ??? profit | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She asked you out, she places next to you in class and she "accidentally" touches you. All indicators of interests. Go for it dude | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 09:27 AM |
| 33 | [deleted by user]She's not interested, on to the next one | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Why is ignoring/not showing interest so powerful?Because scarcity creates value | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Why was this wing so rudeGo complain somewhere else, its the wrong sub | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 10:05 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Watch what she does not what she says. This girl was clearly dtf, good job op | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 10:33 AM |
| – | I have a date in one hour(7.30PM). She is going back to her city tomorrow, yet agreed to go for drinks with me. Is there a fool-proof(or at least most probable) way to convert this into a One-night stand?We want an update dude | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 03:21 PM |
| – | How to proceed when she thinks we should be friends?Maybe it’s because I didn’t take my opportunities and she assumed I was uninterested. Definitely what happened here. Don't contact her again. If she messages you, ask her out. If she says stuff like " I think it'd be inappropriate to go on a date as we've discussed haha" just tell her that being friends doesnt float your boat, that you are attracted to her and you want to take her out on your terms. If she doesnt want to go out, tell her to call you/message you if she ever changes her mind (don'… | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 12:26 PM |
| 4 | Is the Mystery Method Obsolete?The book is a good read for beginners that need a road map and a battle plan before diving deep in the game. As for the routines, they might work or not, like everything else people use to scream around like Bible scriptures in this community. I think every beginner should read The Mystery Method, its full of concepts and foundamentals that are still valid today. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Got flaked on twice this weekend. Pretty down about itBecause if you message the girl saying "hey are we still up for today?" It shows that you are not sure of yourself. Its like saying "I dont really believe that you are going to show up so pls give me a confirmation". Also, you give her the chance to say "no" because you are asking her out a second time basically. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This is the biggest part of your problem, mindset. You should play to win, not to avoid loosing. You NEED to practice, you cant expect to do everything right the first time around. Go and practice with this girl, its not going to be worse than what you are already doing (or not doing). | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 02:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Watch this and this series Aside from the click clickbait title it gives you good information on kino escalation. The second one from Lovedrop is a bit convoluted and a bit strange but is a good watch. They are obv made for a club enviroment but the general tips and cues are always valid. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You need to practice kino. Third date and you cant even touch her without feeling awkward when you should be having sex by that time. You cant expect to be able to kiss her (or for her to kiss you) when she isnt comfortable with your touch. When she touches you slightly, even when she seems to touch you by mistake, thats an invitation. She is telling you that touching her is ok. When she does that, reciprocate touch, when she pulls back, pull back slightly. Its like a dance. Also, you should not… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | If she keeps cancelling plans but reassuring in ft and text she wants to hang what time do?Always look what she does not what she says | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Got flaked on twice this weekend. Pretty down about itI mean you need what, 30 seconds to write a message? In 3 days she didnt have 30 seconds to text "Im sorry for the other day, I will call you asap" or something like that? Not a nice girl imo | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 01:20 PM |
| 28 | [deleted by user]You have no game experience. Flaunting your salary is try hard and will destroy any chances you might had with the decents girl. You will only attract gold diggers that will use you for your money while they fuck some other dude that has game. LEARN GAME | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Got flaked on twice this weekend. Pretty down about itThis sucks, and I wish I had solution to your problem. If you want, keep me updated. Id like to know how the situation with this girl evolves. Cheers | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]At the end of the day you cant change your height. Just be cool with it, if someone doesnt like you because you are short, on to the next one. You should work to maximize every other aspect of your life/game/appearence. Dont trip on things you cant change. Also try to find some playful responses for the girls that try to give you shit about your height and dont get butthurt. Good luck | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Got flaked on twice this weekend. Pretty down about itDont contact her and wait. If she does, tell her she was rude and that you dont tolerate this kind of behaviour, but you would be happy to see her. If she says yes, make a definite date, with a set place (close to your place if possible, so if she flakes again you dont waste any time and if the date goes well, you can try to get her back to your place) and time. I think you can handle a date on your own from this point. If she says she doesnt know, shes not sure, she is very busy or if she wont … | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There are plenty beautiful short girls around, as there are a lot of ugly tall chicks. Height doesnt make anyone hot/not hot | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Got flaked on twice this weekend. Pretty down about itYou would never know what I have in my life because even if I told you the truth, you could still not believe me. I dont have a girlfriend at the moment, I had multiple serious relationships, fwb relationships and ons. I learned the hard way, fucking up a ton and then fucking up some more. Now there is a lot of good material around to have an easier life with dating, like some of the tips you find in this sub (not many unfortunately). You might be tired of all the games, but in the end this is s… | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 10:40 AM |
| 0 | Got flaked on twice this weekend. Pretty down about itI don’t see how I scared her off by going too fast when I haven’t brought up anything about being bf/gf Dude you literally said " I'd want someone and something consistent". That telegraphs relationship vibes even if you didnt meant it. Why would I not confirm dates? If I don’t confirm it, she’s going to think it’s not happening Why would she think that? As a man, if you make a date, you keep it, because your word means something. If anything comes up you can always contact each other to resched… | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 10:08 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Wanting sex doesnt make you needy. Needing sex makes you needy. You have to act like you want the girl, but you dont need her because you know if she's not in, another one is right around the corner. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 09:05 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Watch what she does not what she says. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Find shorter girls | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 09:02 AM |
| 9 | Got flaked on twice this weekend. Pretty down about itShe told me she wasn't looking for a hookup and I reassured her that I wasn't either and I'd want someone and something consistent This was your first mistake, telling her you want something consistent. The proper response for this kind of situations is always "hey, let's have fun together and see where it goes". I set up a date with her 6 days later Second mistake, you don't set up the next date right on the spot. You want to wait and let her contact you, you want her to wonder about you. If sh… | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 08:42 AM |
| 2 | How do you effectively "apply pressure" after a 1st date without coming off as desperate?If you keep doing the same thing (texting the girl after the date) and you keep getting the same results (being flaked on the second date), maybe you should change pattern. Wait 4/5 days before asking for another date. If in the meantime she contacts you, ask her out. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Trouble getting second dates after really good first date with her.If you dont get a second date, the first one probably wasnt "really good". Anyway, you should not text them after the date to tell you had a good time, and you should not ask for another date 1 or 2 days after the first one. Wait 4/5 days, hopefully she will contact you. If she does, set another date. If she doesnt contact you in the following days, you can contact her to ask her out (ex. If you went out on a Saturday night, you should wait untill Wednesday/Thursday to ask her out again). | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 10:37 AM |
| 6 | Did I Fuck Up For Good?She lives in Cali and you live in Florida. Just get over it. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Any of you guys notice a weight or physique where you receive the most attention from women?V shape (big lats), big shoulder girtle (proportionate to your body) big arms and forearms, and have a low body fat like 15% or less. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Good videos to watch with a girl?So fucking true | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | I have no game - where do I start?As always start with the basics, read a couple of books "Models", "How to be a 3% man" and "The Mystery Method". Those are not bibles and you should not follow them as a manual, but you can extrapolate good foundamentals and learn a lot to build your own game. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 4 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?"Do you have a girlfriend?" -> "I have always room for one more" "Are you seeing other girls?" -> "I don't kiss and tell" or "You are my favourite anyway" Just a couple examples | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:29 AM |
| 4 | What do I doDude you need help | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 10:59 AM |
| 25 | r/relationships says cold approaching in college doesn’t work out 99% of the time and is creepy… what y’all think?Dont listen to r/relationships | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] Out-gamed a taller guy and got pinned against the wall by a bigger girl #MeTooLike decades? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You should've messaged her the next time you were there yes, or maybe you could've called her 3/4 days after your first meetup to setup a date outside your workplace. If you break the no contact rule because she messages you or she asks you to do so, do it only to set up a date. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You caught her attention again after following the no contact rule, then when she gave you the opportunity you fucked it up by being insecure (no contact first, then messaging her without setting up a definite date) and needy (kept messaging her even tho she sent you a clear message). This one is lost, just play it cool and dont contact her again, no shame in fucking up as long as you learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:51 PM |
| 8 | [FIELD REPORT] Out-gamed a taller guy and got pinned against the wall by a bigger girl #MeTooI think you need to work more on the comfort building phase of the interactions. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Had a “date” + went back to dorm but couldn’t escalate?Logistic wasnt the problem, but we need more context. Did you go kino? Kissing? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:38 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Ignore this, dont mention it. Hang out with other girls and hook up. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | So I’m interested in this guy…Just ask him out with a message on IG or FB, nothing that will scare/creep him. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Am I the asshole here?Huge red flag, dont contact her ever again | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:44 AM |
| 10 | So I’m interested in this guy…Long distance never works in the long run. You're welcome. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching considered creepy by mainstream society?Ugly people have an hard life, we know, been there done that. Fix what you can fix and stop crying over things you have no control over. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching considered creepy by mainstream society?A 7/10 is an average face, a 4/10 is a ugly ass mf, of course a prettier guy will do better than an ugly looking one, whats your point? I'm saying you have to take care of the things you can change and dont worry about the unchangeable, because you cant do anything about it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How do yall fuck girls that live anywhere from 30 minutes drive to an hour away?First of all remember that fucking on the first date is fool's mate and you should not expect it unless her level of attraction in super high or if she's out just to get laid. Second, plan all your dates as close as possbile to your apartament. Even if the place where you meet up at the start is not very close (it should be at least in the middle between you and her), when you change venue (because you are supposed to change at least 2 venues when you are on a date, especially the first one), yo… | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching considered creepy by mainstream society?Most of the times "fix your looks" just mean "take better care of yourself ". Obviously you cant do anything about the shape of your face, what you can do is work out, have a good haircut (that fits the shape of your face), a good beard/clean shaven face, proper skincare, pretty clothes thats fits you properly, washing yourself regularly, nice cologne ecc.. Just look at 90% of the guys out there and youll see that they dont take care of themselves and are therefore unattractive. An average looki… | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 0 | In a unique situation, would appreciate some insight/adviceYou need to start from the basics, pick up "Models" by Mark Manson and "How to be a 3% Man" by Corey Wayne. Its basic stuff but they build a very good base. After those two books you might jump into the PUA material, but my advice wuold be to stick to the basics for a while, see what works for you and what not. Just go out of your comfort zone and try shit out. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 09:31 AM |
| 40 | Setup a friend's with benefits, should I tell her I'm a 24 year old virgin?So you went on a first date, you didnt hook up, and you setup a FWB relationship? That doesnt make any sense. A bit more insight on the date could be useful, but anyway dont tell her you are a virgin, you could turn her off and fuck things up. Just hook up, pop your cherry and see where things go from there. | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Then we spent the previous 2 months dating (mid June-mid August), texting everyday, and planning trips, hanging out as often as we could, etc. This is the part where you were needy and insecure. You dont text her everyday, you dont hang out as often as you can. You need to have a life outside of her. Stay busy, stay interesting. Your post is not that detailed on your background and your previous relationship with this girl, so more insight could help, but usually when a girl pulls back like this… | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 09:01 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Dont lie to yourself, you dont want to be "just friends". If she ever respond to your text be clear and tell her what you really want. If she says "I'm not sure right now, I need time ecc.." just tell her to contact you when she feels like it. After this NO TEXT, NO CALLS, NO LIKES ON INSTA or other bullshit, she is dead to you. Just wait it out, if she likes you enough she will eventually contact you. If she does, set up a date and try to not fuck it up by being too needy and insecure like you … | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 04:04 PM |
| – | First night out, first time cold approaching, flying soloRead The Mystery Method | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 10:27 AM |
| 12 | 2 Second Dates in one night? Need helpNever plan two dates on the same day even if they are hours apart, you never know where the first one could go. Don't be afraid on rescheduling, remember that as a male you always lead. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 02:33 PM |
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