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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Reduce net worth | Sliced_tomato | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 02:28 AM |
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| 2 | Why is she making it harder than it has to be?I agree, move back in and be super involved with the kids. Be respectful but make it clear that the living arrangements will be decided legally. The more time you are out of the loop the worse it is for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Divorce can be the best thing to ever happen to you or the worst. Which category do you fall under?It’s pretty complicated to say it’s the best thing. Everyone will have their own situation. Guess I’m with you in that we can move forward, learn from our mistakes, and have a better understanding of our own strengths and weaknesses. I can’t wait for my divorce to be finalized and the legal shit is over. My new partner wants to get married. I’m not sure I can overcome so many failed relationships. My heart says go for it, head says steer clear at all costs. I kind of like the simplicity of self … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/26 03:15 AM |
| 12 | Still goes on…There definitely should be education on it. I had to take courses to get married to a catholic, years of education on how to work and earn a living, decades of learning to reach the top of my game. Zero seconds of education on how a highly educated woman who worked equally can use the legal system to turn you into a wage slave for the rest of your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 02:33 AM |
| 2 | The Down & Dirty Truth About Becoming a Divorced DadI love being a single dad to my daughter. It’s not always easy, she’s super messy, I am a partner in a consulting firm but we make it work. We have great chats to and from school, and her job which I believe is super important for her self worth. I definitely sacrifice work meetings for her, I am just upfront about it and call in from the car. She will be off to uni in a few months, I will miss her for sure, just like I miss my son who is at UBC. Ive stuck to my guns and been there for my kids, | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 02:22 AM |
| 1 | My wife just leftKudos to you for sharing your story. It will be familiar to many. All I can offer is sacrifice whatever it takes to part of your kids life. You sound like a solid guy, we males have all had our moments where we lash out. No excuse, but that’s a fact. We are not taught how to be perfect fathers so it’s inevitable there will be trigger points but sadly we are often not given the benefit of the doubt or allowed to mature on a reasonable learning curve. Expecting perfection under any circumstances i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/26 04:07 AM |
| 11 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?Hardest part is thinking all is done after 9 years of separation and then getting an out of the blue lawsuit asking for everything under the sun for no reason while she refuses to work. And realizing the court system is completely fucked and every law is “debatable” and means nothing. Destroying my faith in fairness.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Marriage is the biggest dice roll everI agree it’s a dice roll. Once kids are involved it’s a completely different relationship in many cases. So many unknowns ahead of time by both parties. In some times, works out just fine. But for many the biggest gamble of their lives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Assets and Income, grey divorceIt’s worse in Canada. We both worked for the duration of the marriage, earned the same, contributed the same to the kids. 9 years after we separated she sought spousal support after my daughter decided she wanted to live with me full time. 2 years later courts are still trying to decide if I should support her indefinitely even though I paid for more than my fair share for the kids- including all uni fees so they graduate with zero debt. I feel totally let down by the legal system. As some else … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Is this normal? Letting go of everything post divorceIt’s normal to adjust and manage the emotions. My ex asked if I wanted to buy some antique furniture from her which was a wedding gift from my mum at our wedding. I am so happy to have it back as I don’t think she cared for it but I certainly do. I always missed it after the separation. Other items couldn’t care less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 03:41 AM |
| 5 | Any dad's get majority of parenting time?Yes, I was 50/50 since we separated in 2017. My daughter has been living with me for the last 18 months, my son is in uni which I pay for . My ex is still gunning for me. Claims all sort of bullsit that the courts lap up. Expects me to fund her lazy lifestyle indefinitely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/25 03:53 AM |
| 4 | I don’t know brothersYou are doing great, taking care of yourself and the kids. All anyone can ask. Been in your shoes but there is light at the end of the tunnel.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Stuck at home and losing my mind.Good luck mate. Feel glad she hasn’t filed a Supreme Court application 8 years later to extend the statute for spousal support. And made up lies and accusations to make you look bad with the kids even when they want and do live with you. Still, that could be to come along with the legal shitstorm. Cut her loose and get out while the going is good. Count yourself lucky… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 04:42 AM |
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