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| 4 | CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as averageImo the scale is just broken in fat America. Ranking yourself 7 or 8/10 just because you're a healthy weight seems off, especially if you live in wealthier areas of the US. Then again, numbers don't lie and Americans really are that fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) WorksIf you're attractive enough women will give you plenty of leeway. We're not all that different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourOLD was inevitably going to be taken over by bad actors. You get to interact with shitty people that you'd never meet in real life. It really is wading in a sea of trash for treasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourI think that specific complaint was more from the old dating site days, where anyone could send a msg to your inbox. I agree you shouldn't complain if you matched all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:53 PM |
| 2 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourTbf, all the fuckbois have migrated to Hinge/Bumble/cmb too as the mainstream apps. And yes, they're lying in their profiles about what they're looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:56 PM |
| 6 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourMy girl friends that are successful with OLD control themselves and had a thorough vetting process. But the answer is it feels good. The ego loves it when you get attention from so many people. Guys would do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"When you go out to movies and resteraunts, you see a lot of couples because those are date spots. Single guys are more likely watching Netflix at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Irl dating online dating, in your experience which one is more optimal and why?I think he is correct in saying that connection is the most important thing you should be looking for in a date. Someone asking you out for coffee instead of dinner doesn't necessarily mean he's putting in low effort or broke. Vetting out men for this isn't effective and outside looking in, seems very superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Do too many “unpaired” men cause societal instability?Adapt or die has always been the solution. The vast majority of loser men will be placated by unsatisfying relationships, porn, and videogames. As for the fringe cases, society "kinda" deals with them but you never know when a shooting/assault will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:02 PM |
| 3 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?The gender discrepancy in college doesn't mean anything anymore. Girls just meet guys on the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 05:37 PM |
| 2 | I’ve never experienced a woman initiating a romantic interaction in my life. How long can this continue?This right here. Why should some schmuck have my level of success when he hasn't put in the same hours as I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingOnline dating actually teaches you a lot on how to be a good conversationalist, at least over text. This doesn't necessarily lead to more dates though. In fact, it will make the time wasters lead you on because you're entertaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itIf that's the case, my apologies. I've had acquaintances make that excuse when they had plenty of opportunities to meet girls in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itWere you not aware of the plethora of extracurricular activities in college? Being in stem is not an excuse lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itIf the only way you're meeting women is on the apps then yes. She gains 2-3 points on the scale while you lose them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIncompatibility. Different hobbies, lifestyles, goals, etc. Obviously I'm not sure how honest they were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYup. Only short term flings/relationships with them so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can only consistently get with girls at a... lower caliber. I'm single for long periods of time because of my standards. You can still swing out of your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've slept with and dated girls above my league and can't see myself settling for less in the future. Happens to men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How are women finding dates in 2022?I thought my exes were attractive and we met through OLD because guys weren't approaching them irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 3 | How are women finding dates in 2022?Why does there have be something wrong with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What types of women are on online dating sites?My girl friends do well in OLD as well, which runs contrary to the experiences of women here. What advice would you give to women who struggle with online dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | If a maidenless man is a bad relationship choice because "there must be something wrong with him", then so is a woman who's had a string of failed relationships.Not every relationship has the goal of together forever. Plenty of hs/college relationships have an understanding that there is an expiration date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:32 PM |
| 0 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagementFor relationships? hell yeah they are. However, there's no rule that says the gamer dude can't also be tall, good looking, and rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:29 AM |
| 11 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagementPeople here unironically believe this tho. The introverted homebody girls are looking for guys like them, not Chad. Unfortunately for the guys, they're outnumbered like 10:1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking"Looks only get you through the door" is not a comforting statement. You can't even play the damn game yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:00 AM |
| 5 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.I agree that a lot of men have no idea how to construct a profile. I've went from 0 matches to weekly dates in my OLD journey. That said, you can't ignore the gender discrepancy on the apps. I believe that an avg dude can optimize his profile and still not find success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?I find this spouted by a lot of folks in the honeymoon phase. Their SO will gas them up by shitting on their ex (hint: red flag) until one day you find your ass on the other end of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Women have very high standards for romantic interaction but very low standards on treatment while in the relationshipNo, that's actually false. The MC is often portrayed as average, or even a social outcast who is able to win the LI's heart through a series of events. It plays into the average joe/jane's desire to nab someone way out of their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Women have very high standards for romantic interaction but very low standards on treatment while in the relationship99% of LI's in romance novels/media are attractive. Even the Beast was a handsome prince in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Women have very high standards for romantic interaction but very low standards on treatment while in the relationshipKinda telling isn't it. No one's putting in that effort in the first place is the love interest wasn't good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men.My girl friends that do well in online dating put in a good amount of work to vet and curate their profile to find the guy they are looking for. They also don't play games or have a crippling anxiety of assault (with reasonable precautions). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men.OLD has changed the game. Out of necessity, more men than women have learned how to play. But to get the most out of OLD, women absolutely need to learn how to play too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI do feel bad for my girl friends, partly because I've experienced something similar. Dating someone or even just having sex with someone way out of your league is incredibly damaging. The experience and comparison will always be there, whether we like it or not. Some of my friends (men and women) are quite frankly, dating people out of their league. I've seen many relationships end because there is too much disparity within the couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 7 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?Honestly, if I'm in a social setting and asked about preferences I would say I'm a personality guy too. There's no benefit to going off about my preferred hair length and waist size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps make misogynist menSorry, I meant to edit my deleted comment. For the most part, I think men and women in our generation are fairly open to dating out, but there is still a preference for dating within your race. That preference doesn't mean as much for women who already have an advantage in the OLD market but inversely, means a lot more for men. As mentioned before, women can simply filter for men of their ethnicity and will still get a sufficient amount of matches. There is also a racial bias that favors white m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 9 | Dating apps make misogynist menYou can filter by ethnicity on the main apps. Minority women also tend to be more open to dating out (cough, white). So most of the niche apps are dead. Only a sizable niche like the gay, bdsm, or Christian community has enough of a population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps make misogynist menThey won't admit it but a lot of people have that one ex/crush they still think about. So yes, one experience is all it takes to make a comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | If you're not supposed to expect relationships to make you happy, then what's the point of being in them?I think if people aren't happy alone they should just accept it. If happiness lies within a relationship for you then you should pursue it with all your might. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 12:01 AM |
| 7 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Erectile dysfunction due to overstimulation of porn is a relatively new phenomenon and an increasing issue. People on IG/social media are bombarded with curated snippets of a top percentile lifestyle. That includes life with the perfect boyfriend/husband. OLD provides greater access to top percentile men than ever before. Could you imagine the impact of going back to an average ass dude after being with a model CEO? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 04:32 PM |
| 10 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?The same way it's a man's fault if he can only get hard from pornstars/2d girls/IG baddies. It happens to women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedPorn and videogames are quite effective and it will only get worse( better?) with advances in VR tech and sex bots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Unattractive women are more likely to be actively interestedTbf, their male peers are doing the same thing with a side dish of casual sex. Both groups are making the OLD experience worse for the average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menReal life IS significantly better for the average dude. OLD provides the illusion of convenience for both men and women. Women are still going to have to deal with harassment and put in the work to vet guys. And no, the top percentile of men won't commit to you online if they aren't doing so in real life. Men know the harsh gender ratio yet so still choose to bang their heads against a brick wall. If there are 20 girls and 100 guys on these apps guess what there's gonna be 80 or more lonely guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?Doesn't have to be said that there are plenty of self hating members in the Asian American community. It's also quite ironic a supposed black woman is perpetuating these stereotypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:13 AM |
| 3 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.These type of outlets might very well be preventing some individuals from committing crime. Not everyone can or will uplift themselves in a positive manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 10:30 PM |
| 2 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.I think porn and videogames are working for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 3 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.Exactly. The demand is there but the supply is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:29 PM |
| 7 | Unattractive women are more likely to be actively interestedThe socially adept men and women typically aren't struggling with dating and don't need to get on the apps. OLD is very much a boon for more introverted/homebody women who don't have a thriving social life. Contrary to popular belief here, these women aren't picking the extroverted "Chads" but men more similar to them. Unfortunately though, these men are a dime a dozen on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | The "80-20" rule claim is incorrectNot saying I know your friends, but most of the women in my social group are serial daters. They are rarely single longer than a couple of weeks due to how much easier the process of OLD is for them. So while they may be only having sex in the context of a relationship, they are still having a lot more sex than their male peers. Also, women are just as capable of initiating breakups after having sex. Men form emotional bonds too. If anything, sex is less special to the more experienced individua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGuess I'm scoring higher then due to my charming personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao how exactly do statistics measure looks? There a reason I put quantifiable benchmarks in my OP but I guess it doesn't fit your narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am not tall and am average looking. It's actually irrelevant whether I'm a 6 ft bodybuilder or an obese slob. My point is in my age group, most guys have to shoot lower wherever you fall on the scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you serious? The amount of time one spends on self-improvement is completely different than the outcome of people willing to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNerdy girls think I'm hot shit but I suspect I'm just another guy at the gym for athletic girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've never been able to date a girl at my level. If she earned as much money, ate as healthy as I did, and worked as hard in the gym as me.. hell she's out of my league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodAre you talking about OLD or are you in a social circle of successful, attractive people? Because people aren't going to take the former seriously and "many" women do not have the options that you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Wanting men to pay for a dinner date is a good vetting stategieI agree, but one of the core tenets of feminism or activism in general is putting a spotlight on subconscious biases. Although we don't want to say it out loud, there is incentive for certain demographics of people (all races and genders included) to resist change. That is why I don't think I'm wrong in calling out this particular imbalance when it comes to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 11:52 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHoly shit the truth bombs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Wanting men to pay for a dinner date is a good vetting stategieOk, so you didn't understand that waiting for women to ask you out isn't an option for the vast majority of men. Guys pay to avoid the negative perception that still exists today from splitting the bill. Society expects men to ask women out so they'll end up also paying the bill most of the time since after all, he's the one who asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Wanting men to pay for a dinner date is a good vetting stategieSo you recognize your advice isn't applicable in reality. It's not about rights it's about societal expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Wanting men to pay for a dinner date is a good vetting stategieLmao that's like setting a standard where I only let girls ask me out. How hot do you think I am? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Wanting men to pay for a dinner date is a good vetting stategieI'm trying to give the feminist frame a shot. Do women not also have jobs and care more about thoughtfulness/intent? Hell, why can't she plan the date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 08:31 AM |
| 0 | Wanting men to pay for a dinner date is a good vetting stategiePlenty of women say they get nasty replies from men after they reject them or aren't obligated to respond prior to spending a certain amount of time together. I think ghosting is shitty but the outcome is still the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Wanting men to pay for a dinner date is a good vetting stategieIt's not a good "vetting" strategy it's entirely irrelevant when you take into account people's different circumstances. A working class dude with two jobs giving you 2 hours of his day means a hell of a lot more than a rich guy paying $10 more for his lunch. But I'm sure FDS attempts to rationalize this in a way that doesn't make them seem incredibly shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 6 | FDS in mainstream media (The Guardian article)That's not always the case. Attractive men need to weed out and unattractive women don't have much to choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | A Friend I’m Mentoring Just Lost His Virginity!What's his body like? Were you his gym partner? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 09:56 AM |
| 13 | My Insane 3 Year Journey - From Short Hardcase Asian to SlayerThis is why i cant agree with incels. Even if you never get laid, keep trying until you die. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/19 05:03 PM |
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