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Imo the scale is just broken in fat America. Ranking yourself 7 or 8/10 just because you're a healthy weight seems off, especially if you live in wealthier areas of the US. Then again, numbers don't lie and Americans really are that fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:41 PM
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If you're attractive enough women will give you plenty of leeway. We're not all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:03 AM
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OLD was inevitably going to be taken over by bad actors. You get to interact with shitty people that you'd never meet in real life. It really is wading in a sea of trash for treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:24 AM
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I think that specific complaint was more from the old dating site days, where anyone could send a msg to your inbox. I agree you shouldn't complain if you matched all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:53 PM
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Tbf, all the fuckbois have migrated to Hinge/Bumble/cmb too as the mainstream apps. And yes, they're lying in their profiles about what they're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:56 PM
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My girl friends that are successful with OLD control themselves and had a thorough vetting process. But the answer is it feels good. The ego loves it when you get attention from so many people. Guys would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:47 PM
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When you go out to movies and resteraunts, you see a lot of couples because those are date spots. Single guys are more likely watching Netflix at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:06 AM
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I think he is correct in saying that connection is the most important thing you should be looking for in a date. Someone asking you out for coffee instead of dinner doesn't necessarily mean he's putting in low effort or broke. Vetting out men for this isn't effective and outside looking in, seems very superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:18 PM
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Adapt or die has always been the solution. The vast majority of loser men will be placated by unsatisfying relationships, porn, and videogames. As for the fringe cases, society "kinda" deals with them but you never know when a shooting/assault will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:02 PM
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The gender discrepancy in college doesn't mean anything anymore. Girls just meet guys on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:37 PM
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This right here. Why should some schmuck have my level of success when he hasn't put in the same hours as I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:47 PM
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Online dating actually teaches you a lot on how to be a good conversationalist, at least over text. This doesn't necessarily lead to more dates though. In fact, it will make the time wasters lead you on because you're entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:57 PM
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If that's the case, my apologies. I've had acquaintances make that excuse when they had plenty of opportunities to meet girls in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:51 PM
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Were you not aware of the plethora of extracurricular activities in college? Being in stem is not an excuse lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:01 PM
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If the only way you're meeting women is on the apps then yes. She gains 2-3 points on the scale while you lose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:56 PM
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Incompatibility. Different hobbies, lifestyles, goals, etc. Obviously I'm not sure how honest they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:00 PM
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Yup. Only short term flings/relationships with them so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:24 PM
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I can only consistently get with girls at a... lower caliber. I'm single for long periods of time because of my standards. You can still swing out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:10 PM
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I've slept with and dated girls above my league and can't see myself settling for less in the future. Happens to men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:45 PM
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I thought my exes were attractive and we met through OLD because guys weren't approaching them irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:33 PM
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Why does there have be something wrong with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:14 PM
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My girl friends do well in OLD as well, which runs contrary to the experiences of women here. What advice would you give to women who struggle with online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:05 PM
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Not every relationship has the goal of together forever. Plenty of hs/college relationships have an understanding that there is an expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:32 PM
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For relationships? hell yeah they are. However, there's no rule that says the gamer dude can't also be tall, good looking, and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:29 AM
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People here unironically believe this tho. The introverted homebody girls are looking for guys like them, not Chad. Unfortunately for the guys, they're outnumbered like 10:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:41 PM
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"Looks only get you through the door" is not a comforting statement. You can't even play the damn game yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:00 AM
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I agree that a lot of men have no idea how to construct a profile. I've went from 0 matches to weekly dates in my OLD journey. That said, you can't ignore the gender discrepancy on the apps. I believe that an avg dude can optimize his profile and still not find success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:05 AM
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I find this spouted by a lot of folks in the honeymoon phase. Their SO will gas them up by shitting on their ex (hint: red flag) until one day you find your ass on the other end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:33 AM
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No, that's actually false. The MC is often portrayed as average, or even a social outcast who is able to win the LI's heart through a series of events. It plays into the average joe/jane's desire to nab someone way out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:27 PM
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99% of LI's in romance novels/media are attractive. Even the Beast was a handsome prince in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:36 PM
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Kinda telling isn't it. No one's putting in that effort in the first place is the love interest wasn't good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:09 AM
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My girl friends that do well in online dating put in a good amount of work to vet and curate their profile to find the guy they are looking for. They also don't play games or have a crippling anxiety of assault (with reasonable precautions).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:37 PM
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OLD has changed the game. Out of necessity, more men than women have learned how to play. But to get the most out of OLD, women absolutely need to learn how to play too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:52 PM
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I do feel bad for my girl friends, partly because I've experienced something similar. Dating someone or even just having sex with someone way out of your league is incredibly damaging. The experience and comparison will always be there, whether we like it or not. Some of my friends (men and women) are quite frankly, dating people out of their league. I've seen many relationships end because there is too much disparity within the couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:23 PM
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Honestly, if I'm in a social setting and asked about preferences I would say I'm a personality guy too. There's no benefit to going off about my preferred hair length and waist size.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:46 PM
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Sorry, I meant to edit my deleted comment. For the most part, I think men and women in our generation are fairly open to dating out, but there is still a preference for dating within your race. That preference doesn't mean as much for women who already have an advantage in the OLD market but inversely, means a lot more for men. As mentioned before, women can simply filter for men of their ethnicity and will still get a sufficient amount of matches. There is also a racial bias that favors white m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:58 AM
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You can filter by ethnicity on the main apps. Minority women also tend to be more open to dating out (cough, white). So most of the niche apps are dead. Only a sizable niche like the gay, bdsm, or Christian community has enough of a population.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:31 AM
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They won't admit it but a lot of people have that one ex/crush they still think about. So yes, one experience is all it takes to make a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:12 AM
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I think if people aren't happy alone they should just accept it. If happiness lies within a relationship for you then you should pursue it with all your might.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:01 AM
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Erectile dysfunction due to overstimulation of porn is a relatively new phenomenon and an increasing issue. People on IG/social media are bombarded with curated snippets of a top percentile lifestyle. That includes life with the perfect boyfriend/husband. OLD provides greater access to top percentile men than ever before. Could you imagine the impact of going back to an average ass dude after being with a model CEO?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:32 PM
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The same way it's a man's fault if he can only get hard from pornstars/2d girls/IG baddies. It happens to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:00 PM
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Porn and videogames are quite effective and it will only get worse( better?) with advances in VR tech and sex bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:48 AM
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Tbf, their male peers are doing the same thing with a side dish of casual sex. Both groups are making the OLD experience worse for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:52 PM
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Real life IS significantly better for the average dude. OLD provides the illusion of convenience for both men and women. Women are still going to have to deal with harassment and put in the work to vet guys. And no, the top percentile of men won't commit to you online if they aren't doing so in real life. Men know the harsh gender ratio yet so still choose to bang their heads against a brick wall. If there are 20 girls and 100 guys on these apps guess what there's gonna be 80 or more lonely guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:48 PM
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Doesn't have to be said that there are plenty of self hating members in the Asian American community. It's also quite ironic a supposed black woman is perpetuating these stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:13 AM
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These type of outlets might very well be preventing some individuals from committing crime. Not everyone can or will uplift themselves in a positive manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:30 PM
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I think porn and videogames are working for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:38 PM
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Exactly. The demand is there but the supply is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:29 PM
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The socially adept men and women typically aren't struggling with dating and don't need to get on the apps. OLD is very much a boon for more introverted/homebody women who don't have a thriving social life. Contrary to popular belief here, these women aren't picking the extroverted "Chads" but men more similar to them. Unfortunately though, these men are a dime a dozen on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:31 PM
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Not saying I know your friends, but most of the women in my social group are serial daters. They are rarely single longer than a couple of weeks due to how much easier the process of OLD is for them. So while they may be only having sex in the context of a relationship, they are still having a lot more sex than their male peers. Also, women are just as capable of initiating breakups after having sex. Men form emotional bonds too. If anything, sex is less special to the more experienced individua…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:01 PM
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Guess I'm scoring higher then due to my charming personality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:22 AM
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Lmao how exactly do statistics measure looks? There a reason I put quantifiable benchmarks in my OP but I guess it doesn't fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:23 AM
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I am not tall and am average looking. It's actually irrelevant whether I'm a 6 ft bodybuilder or an obese slob. My point is in my age group, most guys have to shoot lower wherever you fall on the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:20 AM
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Are you serious? The amount of time one spends on self-improvement is completely different than the outcome of people willing to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:12 AM
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Nerdy girls think I'm hot shit but I suspect I'm just another guy at the gym for athletic girls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:51 AM
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I've never been able to date a girl at my level. If she earned as much money, ate as healthy as I did, and worked as hard in the gym as me.. hell she's out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:06 AM
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Are you talking about OLD or are you in a social circle of successful, attractive people? Because people aren't going to take the former seriously and "many" women do not have the options that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:51 PM
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I agree, but one of the core tenets of feminism or activism in general is putting a spotlight on subconscious biases. Although we don't want to say it out loud, there is incentive for certain demographics of people (all races and genders included) to resist change. That is why I don't think I'm wrong in calling out this particular imbalance when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:52 PM

Holy shit the truth bombs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:14 PM
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Ok, so you didn't understand that waiting for women to ask you out isn't an option for the vast majority of men. Guys pay to avoid the negative perception that still exists today from splitting the bill. Society expects men to ask women out so they'll end up also paying the bill most of the time since after all, he's the one who asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:50 PM
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So you recognize your advice isn't applicable in reality. It's not about rights it's about societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:37 PM
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Lmao that's like setting a standard where I only let girls ask me out. How hot do you think I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:19 AM
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I'm trying to give the feminist frame a shot. Do women not also have jobs and care more about thoughtfulness/intent? Hell, why can't she plan the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:31 AM
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Plenty of women say they get nasty replies from men after they reject them or aren't obligated to respond prior to spending a certain amount of time together. I think ghosting is shitty but the outcome is still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:11 AM
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It's not a good "vetting" strategy it's entirely irrelevant when you take into account people's different circumstances. A working class dude with two jobs giving you 2 hours of his day means a hell of a lot more than a rich guy paying $10 more for his lunch. But I'm sure FDS attempts to rationalize this in a way that doesn't make them seem incredibly shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:04 AM
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That's not always the case. Attractive men need to weed out and unattractive women don't have much to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:50 AM
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What's his body like? Were you his gym partner?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 09:56 AM
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This is why i cant agree with incels. Even if you never get laid, keep trying until you die.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 05:03 PM
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