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| 4 | Homophobia is just gynocentrism on steriods.“Heterophilia”? don’t think you understand what a philia is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:44 PM |
| -3 | Homophobia is just gynocentrism on steriods.There’s no evidence that widespread social acceptance of every sexual fetish and philia is “progress”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:04 PM |
| 12 | The hypocrisy in asking men to be confident.A lot of red pill gurus in particular do a terrible job of explaining the difference between laid back, FUNNY-cocky, stoic confidence and being an arrogant, obnoxious, unpleasant douche. I think this is where the confusion comes from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:10 PM |
| – | Being single and paying for it is far better than being a simp these days.Giving up cash to go share a hole with all the nastiest men in your community is better than being a simp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 02:01 PM |
| – | From here on, the only occasion men should be giving women money is when they're availing of a hooker's service.Simps need to be completely rejected by and cast out of society. We should probably put them in isolated camps and take away their internet access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 12:49 PM |
| – | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeBack in the late 90’s and early 00’s, you would’ve had a unique advantage if you knew how to navigate the online world of chat rooms, instant messaging etc. I feel like this has now completely inverted and you’ll have a unique advantage if you know how to navigate the offline, face-to-face real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Can we figure out something to differentiate between old redpill and new redpill?A lot of “red pillers” in this sub are just black pillers in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 03:58 PM |
| 3 | It seems the "I Hate Men" Era of dating is OverWeird self-congratulatory post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesI liked where you were going with this until “I guess I’ll just become a hoe then”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:55 AM |
| – | "Passport bros is just about money" is a fable Western women tell themselves to sleep better at night.Do you realize that on your on a sub for discussing dating strategies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:48 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most young men would benefit greatly from going on as many dates as possible.A lot of younger adult guys in my day-to-day life tell me things like “I’ll just worry about finding a girl and settling down when I’m older”. But they don’t date at all. They spend all their time playing video games and obsessively following sports. I think they’re find it hard when they get there. They’re going to realize that they missed an important step by not getting any experience when they should have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Do men need variety?Is it really that much different from one woman to another? So much that it’s worth sabotaging a good situation that you already have? Part of growing up is finding ways other than sexual adventures to make your life interesting and exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:12 AM |
| 6 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.I don’t think it’s good to call anyone that and I don’t think there’s a specific magic number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:37 PM |
| – | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Right. Responsibly* exposing yourself to STD’s, unwanted pregnancies, violence, psychological issues etc. This a cope and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:23 PM |
| 10 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Are you just pretending to not know the difference between having sex and being promiscuous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:09 PM |
| 18 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You mean having a history of reckless, irresponsible behaviour is seen as a sign of low value? Who would’ve thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 09:56 PM |
| 8 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?The overwhelming majority of people aren’t perpetually online dwellers The fuck they aren’t. This isn’t the 90’s anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Sure. This would be a good way to tell if most women were interested in or open to casual sex, but that’s not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for itIf you thought celebrity gossip and reality TV were dumb, wait until you see the right wing influencer scene of 2026. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 07:05 PM |
| -2 | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessThe red pill is just men participating in sex positive feminism. Pickup artists would’ve never been a thing without women’s sexual liberation. And Andrew Tate would just be some average dude driving a Toyota without feminism telling women that sex work is perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:33 PM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Are you genuinely asking, or is this some kind of weird witch hunt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:14 PM |
| 15 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.This just isn’t how it works in reality. A lot of guys seem to think that going around having casual sex is “getting it out of their system”. But what it’s actually doing is putting it into their system. It’s never as satiating as that voice in your head tells you it’s going to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 01:38 PM |
| 2 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.I think this is only half true. The guys are more conservative than millennials were but the women are as liberal as ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 08:20 PM |
| – | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardFor sure. Conflicts of interest in a professional setting are a different thing entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 10:58 PM |
| – | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardThe passport bro fails to consider that the women they meet elsewhere that are interested in them are the most Westernized and feminist women from their culture. This is way off. And I also want nothing to do with the passport bro label or movement. Do you make these kind of stereotypes and generalizations about other types of marriages and relationships? Same sex unions? Mixed family households? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 10:32 PM |
| – | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardI’d argue that western feminists betrayed their own culture and that it’s a big part of why men look elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 10:09 PM |
| – | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardSo much cope from bitter older women in here that I don’t even know where to start. I find it very hypocritical how so many self-described feminists deny the agency of other women just because they’re younger. And I see the same kind of thing in their response to men dating foreign women. Not a good look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't desperate for sex/relationship, their issue is that they want to find someone who accepts the lowest possible effort.The only people I ever see talking about this so called epidemic are terminally online women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 03:28 PM |
| – | Most men aren't desperate for sex/relationship, their issue is that they want to find someone who accepts the lowest possible effort.Hard truth for The OP is that men probably just don’t see her as being worth the effort. I can almost guarantee that they’ll summon the time and energy for a woman that they think has more to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Which relationships have you preferred throughout your life: the men you developed feelings for via them being “popular”, or those who hanged out alone with you for sufficient time?Women are never going to actually say that they’re attracted to a man because of his status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | The red pill doesn't want to change societyEasy there big guy. You could argue that a successful sexual strategy would be one that leads to healthy families and societies, rather than the opposite. There’s more to life satisfying your lowest animal urges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 04:24 PM |
| 2 | The red pill doesn't want to change societyThis perfectly summarizes why I don’t like or respect the red pill. There’s nothing alpha about sitting back and letting women and “blue pillers” dictate the world and it’s rules to you. Masculinity is about embodying yourself the changes that you want to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 12:58 PM |
| 7 | What do you actually want women to do?This is just total nonsense. Men aren’t some collective hivemind. You can’t take all these different complaints made by different guys, in different context, and then conclude that all men as a whole aren’t consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:25 AM |
| – | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadI don’t know why any self-respecting guy in his right mind would date a woman who uses TikTok slop terminology like mankeeping or emotional labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:07 AM |
| – | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.I liked where you were going with this but then you started talking about porn and flesh lights. Intimate experiences with electronic devices and plastic toys aren’t a healthy expression of male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 01:22 PM |
| – | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themThe finger wagging only ever goes one way on here. The red pill, mgtow and incel subs are banned for hate or whatever, while we still get to have “incel tears”, “female dating strategy” and “against men’s rights”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:26 PM |
| 3 | I think left-wingers sometimes "grift" on dating difficulties too.Men haven’t drifted right. The Overton Window has just moved far to the left that centrists, moderates and old school liberals are now “far right” by comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Heterosexuality is not fit for most women, and that’s okay.Follow-up analyses explored whether implicit gynephilia might reflect an appreciation of female aesthetic beauty rather than sexual attraction. When asked to rate images of men and women on aesthetic attractiveness and potential as sexual partners, participants rated women higher for aesthetic appeal but men higher as potential sexual partners. This pattern suggests that implicit measures of gynephilia may capture broader dimensions of attraction beyond sexual interest. In contrast, for males, g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:15 AM |
| 13 | As a masculine man and men's rights activist, I find the whole "women's body count" argument creepy“As a masculine man” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 11:24 AM |
| 13 | A lot of women talk about their dating experiences in very casual ways if the context isn't arguing with men, which makes it look like they indeed have it pretty good.You can see that a lot of the women here are poly or have casual sex or frequent sex-clubs or organise BDSM events, have tinder stories, actively use apps, have been dating since high school, dated both men and women, had hookups and fbws, sure maybe with a nerdy guy even, so on and so on. These sex-addicted women aren’t the hot, young thin ones you think they are. Real life isn’t like pornhub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 11:45 PM |
| – | From a woman’s POV the disparity isn’t that “more men get murdered than women,” it’s that more men kill women than women kill men.It’s the definition of a gotcha. We’re allowed to talk about male-on-female violence so openly that we’re even adopting new terms like “femicide” to highlight it. But a lot of these same feminists and liberals will call you a racist or xenophobe if you talk about non-white on white violence etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 08:04 PM |
| – | From a woman’s POV the disparity isn’t that “more men get murdered than women,” it’s that more men kill women than women kill men.If everyone knows this, why do dudes on this forum act as if it’s a controversial observation? Would you feel comfortable having this same conversation around racial statistics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 02:20 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Did you post here to have a discussion about it or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:01 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.What are your standards OP? Kind of hard to comment if we don’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:49 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menA lot of younger women’s brain circuitry is just so fried from all the quick-hit dopamine that social media and dating apps provide. They can’t seem to get interested in or excited about much of anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?No. It’s a red flag if somebody judges you for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Rejection is hotI think that the women who want to normalize men approaching again would disappointed if their wish. They’d realize it’s mostly the men they don’t want and find it annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:08 AM |
| 2 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?Sure. I just think it’s to their own detriment. The women I’ve known who operate this way are chronically single and unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:13 PM |
| 2 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?Re-frame your thinking. Look for somebody to build and grow with rather than some “finished product” that doesn’t exist. Focus on how they respond to their mistakes rather than the mistakes themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:59 PM |
| -1 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?Yes. Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:45 PM |
| 7 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?You move on and dismiss otherwise perfectly fine guys a little too quickly and easily for dumb reasons. Not everything is a “red flag”. Men are human and sometimes their wording or timing is off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:35 PM |
| 1 | The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make SenseWe know that women are significantly more picky than men. There’s been all kinds of stuff out there in recent years confirming this. Men swiping right at 80% vs. Women swiping at 30% etc. Yes, I’m sure there are exceptions. But we can’t deny this massive imbalance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 12:37 AM |
| -1 | The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make SenseWho’s arguing that it would help men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 11:25 PM |
| -1 | The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make SenseIt’s pretty sad but I guess then you permanently miss the boat on marriage, creating a family and beginning the next stage of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 11:09 PM |
| 2 | The Concept of “Leagues” in Dating Doesn’t Make SenseBut isn’t the very act of men begging women to date “down” an indication that the men they DON’T date are just… below their league? I think they’re just asking these women to return somewhat to reality. Because of simping, social media and dating apps, some slightly above-average women think that they’re in a tier with A-list celebrities. It’s not sustainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Sought after men's behaviour is making it hard for normal women to get an LTRWow. Some of you guys just gobble up the bait, hook, line and sinker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 12:44 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameI don’t think men should expect their girlfriends or wives to be their maids but everything else on the list is pretty reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 01:55 PM |
| – | When Casual Turns Romantic. Are Different Dating Styles Being MisreadWhen you say that you “hold back”, that sort of implies that you’re disrupting the natural flow of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 01:22 AM |
| – | When Casual Turns Romantic. Are Different Dating Styles Being MisreadFrom a red pill perspective, this fluidity may feel natural. Attraction, sex, emotional connection, and commitment are seen as stages that can blend into one another rather than separate tracks. This isn’t a red pill perspective. It’s nature. You’re engaging in an act that can potentially result in a new human being that will require years of care. You can tell yourself all you want that it’s just a fun recreational game, sport or hobby, but that’s not the signal being sent to the body. Catching… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 01:03 AM |
| 18 | "Manslamming" is just more gendering a non-gendered issue.TikTok needs to be stopped before it’s too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenI mean like an example of the contrary that you’re arguing for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenCan you give an example of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:09 PM |
| – | Being seen as only hookup material is not a good thingI don’t believe that you’re Catholic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.I don’t understand how women like this actually date, or even just leave their house in general. It’s too uncomfortable of a world out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kids“Dear Diary” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?I would actually argue that it’s the other way around. Wisdom usually means something along the lines of “being able to see the bigger picture”. It comes from hardship and exposure to the world. It’s often lacking in people who live in a sheltered bubble. At the very least, women from poorer countries have more realistic expectations from relationships and marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Misogyny and misogyny denialSome women tend to hurt their own cause by calling everything under the sun misogyny. The same thing’s happened with racism, antisemitism etc. Daring to question any aspect of feminist dogma is not misogyny. They need to pick their battles better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 01:57 PM |
| – | Why is acknowledging misogyny on here so hard?No living woman in western society has ever been oppressed for being a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:11 AM |
| 0 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsYou could argue that society is the way it is because people see other people as just worthless objects. So acting like this would only be contributing to the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:52 PM |
| – | Chasing women is actually a waste of time.Chasing women had its place at some point in history but any guy who’s doing it currently is just participating in a humiliation ritual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity is shamed while femininity is celebratedlol’d at Dan Bilzerian and Joe Rogan being peak masculinity and positive role models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 01:58 PM |
| 0 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?We really have to break out of this cycle of punishing people because other people who were the same sex as them had advantages before they were even alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:24 AM |
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