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| 7 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Well it's probably true that 90% of women would have no chance in a fight against 90% of men. But being scared of a particular individual without good reason sounds like a divorce tactic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:29 PM |
| 11 | I spent 7k on ex wife’s titsAre you hoping for a 50/50 settlement? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Anybody find a good AI tool (more specialized than Chat) for intensive ex-wife management? (High conflict, parental alienation, etc…)Sounds like a job for notebook LLM. I think that's the closest one to what you need. It lets you upload all the past interactions. However, don't think it can currently act in a fully autonomous manner. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Giving up on my kids for everyone's peace?I think there are some ex's who just want to battle and keep control. Once you stop fighting (if you do) who knows what her reaction will be. I've seen mums start moaning about all the childcare they have to do now, having tried to exclude the father before. The kids have decades to meet you and live, and (if you wish) to see the court documents. They also need, longer-term, a mentally well father ideally in decent financial shape. So, I wouldn't at all disagree this might be the best thing to d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Filed taxes separately and claimed the kids, STBX is fumingWow your systems are really that bad? (UK here, no income tax reliefs relating to children so it doesn't apply). | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 10:00 AM |
| 31 | MenopauseNo sex but getting an IUD? Nothing suspicious there then. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 05:13 PM |
| -1 | Is there a union for divorced men?MGTOW? And subtract the high proportion who get married quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/26 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Need advice, 3 yrs of marriage, no kids, no joint property, finances have always been separate, but I earn more than her and have more savings than her , she has been reckless with her spending, will I have to split my savings, I am in Georgia US.Will depend on what Georgia does, but often the pre-marital assets are not divided equally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/26 03:05 PM |
| 6 | 5 months out and AI hits me with a new word. "Contempt".I'm fairly sure that "contempt" is a sure fire route to separation/divorce. And should be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/26 09:54 AM |
| 12 | Ex spreading false sexual rumoursTime to stand on the moral high ground. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/26 06:23 PM |
| 7 | Am I needlessly escalating thingsDoes it have any bearing on the divorce outcome? In some places/states it does (e.g. alimoney) but in many places it's no fault. So, if it makes no differences, it's probably a waste of time. If it does make a difference, then consider but often standards of proof are really high (have to actually admit or been observed having sex) | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Seeing the Childrenbodycam | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 02:13 PM |
| 13 | Ex wife invited me to Christmas day activities.Go. Enjoy. Stop over-thinking. Don't overstay your welcome. Stay off any alcohol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Ladies be trippingMaybe you need to give off vibes like, maybe the right woman can turn me back. A challenge for those female friends of the ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/25 06:15 PM |
| 7 | She would have gotten half of the money, so she should also get half of the debt.Generally yes. Debt incurred on drugs and hookers, maybe not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/25 10:04 AM |
| -6 | Have to meet the "new man", how to approach this?Go to a bar, have a drink, shoot some pool, shake hands, be a man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/25 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Separated Wife Jealous?"She then started saying that she doesn't want me having anyone around our kids when it's my turns to have the kids. " Whilst she doesn't get to dictate that, I think most people would still advise waiting a while before introducing a new girlfriend to kids. "A while" depending on age of kids, strength of relationship, etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/25 09:10 AM |
| 10 | Why is “work on yourself and maybe she’ll notice” always the advice when a wife wants a divorce?Well if it doesn't work with the current relationship, it sets a good platform for the next one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/25 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Divorce survivor guiltThis is the right answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | New user from UKIt's mixed, but there is also https://www.reddit.com/r/divorceuk/ | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so easy?Good luck getting child support from a mother. The stats are not good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/25 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Wife (41) dropped the news on me (40) today. Trying to make sense of it.Ask her when she started reaching out to lawyers ... how long was it before dropping the news on you? Maybe explain you'll need a similar amount of time to process the news and get your own representation. Maybe suggest counselling. Even if you don't want it, it will give you insights into her thinking about the future and how far along it has reached. Hey, it might also help - it sometimes works! You're playing catch-up, you need to try to find a way to introduce a 'time out'. If it's proceedin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/25 11:38 AM |
| 5 | It's my fault. I'm lost and spiraling. I'll take anything I can get.Very curious. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/25 11:09 AM |
| 13 | 20 year marriage = magic number for divorce?"We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we only have one." Maybe relates to children becoming more independent, for many couples? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/25 09:23 AM |
| 3 | At a lossI think my view was something like, "all or nothing at all". i.e. walking away if things are too far from your desired outcome. Harsh but may be true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:25 PM |
| 5 | A different perspective on why women initiate divorce more often and monkeybranchI needed this def: "Monkey branching is when someone in a committed monogamous relationship begins dating other people while still in their current relationship." | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/25 02:23 PM |
| 10 | What does leads to divorce?Lack of respect (contempt) for the other person. Divorce can be based on either a 'bolt from the blue' (like an affair) or a 'slow drift apart'. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 09:57 PM |
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