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In fact every time I've known an age-gap couple (10+ years), it's always been a more attractive older guy with an uglier young girl. I haven't seen this personally. I've noticed the opposite even- good looking women in their early 20s get so much attention from everyone that they're able to get that older wealthier man. Meanwhile a more plain looking girl won't have a social circle extending past her school and family and whatnot. Young women lose social standing when they date older men. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 11:30 PM
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I haven't noticed what you're saying at all. I'd assume those men are just putting up with nagging for all the other benefits of a relationship- companionship, sex and anything else he gets out of it. Even those who don't actually want a relationship but do it out of some societal obligation. You think men would dump their girlfriends/wives if they stopped nagging them? I really doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 11:22 PM
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Now, do I believe women are choosier in online dating? Yes I mean yeah that's exactly what the OKCupid blog says. You get similar things going on in tinder as well, with women swiping right far less than men. It's not limited to one online dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 06:20 PM
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Instead what men care about is how their friends will see them for dating one or bringing them home. They would be shamed and laughed at by many for doing this This is pretty true, and it's not talked much about PPD. Anyway I think OP's point makes sense if he's talking about chubby girls, not the landwhales everyone in this thread is picturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 08:19 AM
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idk if you misunderstood me but I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:26 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:25 PM
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In your 30s you might have the resources to actually do that. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 08:21 AM
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When you're 30 you have: 15 years of time to build muscles 15 years of interesting stories to tell and the time to develop confidence A large age group of women you can date, something like 20-35 year old women, a 20 year old man can only date like 17-21 year olds realistically A well paying job that allows you to buy nice clothes, your own place, more interesting dates and so on Getting a few wrinkles isn't as bad for a man as it is a woman. And you're 30 so it won't be too much anyway. Getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 08:17 AM
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You won't get the same results now doing the same thing and you'll be much more prone to injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 08:07 AM
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That's them teenage hormones at play, not really relevant to a 20s vs 30s discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:49 AM
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Once you get into that mindset you can just act weird as hell and not care. But acting weird isn't all there is to life, is it? Most of use have a pretty strong desire for some sort of sexual/romantic companionship. How would one deal with the fact that attaining such is so much harder for them than the rest of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:35 AM
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I agree with most of these responses but there's also another dimension to it- I think abuse has become a bit of a meaningless buzzword these days. Any shitty, negative, dickish behaviour from an SO is classified as 'abuse' on reddit relationship threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:32 AM
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Inner character is often a projection of outer physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:29 AM
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People don't recognize that they're attractive? The word 'attractive' is basically the opposite of invisible in the context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 07:07 AM
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There are but they tend to be fat and it's hard to feel sympathy for someone who can't accomplish the incredibly easy task of not being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:30 PM
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How in the world would there be invisible attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:27 PM
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Putting a list of deal breakers on your profile doesn't come off as refreshingly honest, it comes off as entitled and pointlessly negative. Not writing anything just comes across as entitled. I don't expect people to be Oscar Wilde's online though. As long as a woman writes something about herself, I'm content. Easier to make conversation and if we do have something in common it's a big plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 06:29 PM
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They won't have the good relationships with family and friends I don't see any reason to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 10:02 AM
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Do you really think Arnold Schwarzenegger wasn't/isn't incredibly successful with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 04:46 AM
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I mean yeah, that money goes to rent or tuition or more bang for your buck entertainment. Why go to a bar when you can get drunk for 1/5 the cost at a house party?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 04:11 AM
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Kids don't have enough money to piss away at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:32 AM
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The thing is, even being 'toned' requires a somewhat dedicated gym habit. It's why advice telling men to not get too big is useless. Getting brawny takes years of working out, it won't happen accidentally and it won't happen to 90% of gymrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:27 PM
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I think this thread is just more evidence that men shouldn't worry about seen as creepy. Because what is and isn't a creep as determined by women just doesn't follow any rational criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:03 PM
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Except she wasn't upset at being asked out, she was upset because she thinks being asked about her boyfriend is sexism. It's entirely about feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:59 PM
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Relationships don't grow on trees
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:54 PM
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Ah, gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:55 AM
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but why don't you like us how we are? What do you mean by this? Like, either you get treated as special or you get treated as indifferently as the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 03:20 PM
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Those are all really tiny segments of society. Monks and nuns have to abide by an entire philosophical delusion and strict lifestyle to get by, and asexuals don't have to deal with desire at all. Terrible examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:35 AM
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Second one for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:28 AM
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Be really attractive I guess. As soon as you start giving advice on what women want with any kind of specificity (or learning it), you're generalizing women, and hence a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 07:40 AM
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they don't want to be treated like a sports opponent or competing business They would still want the men to keep his job if they were in a relationship with him, it's completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 08:47 PM
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Your comparison isn't analogous to OP's. Women are attracted to high status men because they're high status, unlike with men and cam girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 08:42 PM
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Men aren't attracted to them because they're cam girls though, for them it's just a means of getting a whiff of female sexuality. If under some bizarre scenario a cam girl ends up in a relationship with one of her viewers, he's probably going to be happier if she chose a different profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 08:31 PM
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I had a similar thing happen to me- an older guy at a party kept grabbing my dick. It was uncomfortable, for sure. I told my friend (who invited him) that I didn't want to be at a party with him again. But it wasn't some traumatic experience either and I forgot about it pretty fast (till now). I guess I just don't get where Terry Crews is coming from with regards to PTSD and the like. It's great that he said something, and it sucks how he's being treated, but I can't bring myself to care too muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 09:13 AM
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If she does turn out to be unsufferably dull then you can say exactly what someone just said to you It's a bit more complicated than that. She and I are part of the same friend circle, one that she's been in for years but I've only joined recently. (And I'm there in part thanks to her) It's the main reason why I haven't ignored her texts and shut down the orbiting yet. And I can completely imagine myself just not getting invited to outings if there's bad blood between us. She's not just a strang…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 10:33 PM
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This is your chance to teach her to be less boring. That's something I've never thought about. No idea if it's even possible though. Or worth the extraordinary amount of effort that would probably take. Plus, if someone attractive is interested in you then you have to go out with her for moral reasons. Shouldn't it be the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:53 PM
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She actually is, yeah. More than I am, tbh, I was surprised when I started getting attention from her. She's also the single more boring person I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 05:14 PM
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Went on a second date with a really great girl on Friday and I guess I invested too much in it. Because I was fucking wrecked when I got the next day 'this isn't working out' text. I really just want to get cuffed already. Ironically enough I've got a female orbiter of my own. Probably a bad idea for everyone involved but I'm strongly considered just going for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 09:03 AM
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No, you can't talk to your girlfriends about sex tips ahead of your losing your virginity. Its oversharing. No, you can't seek comfort after your boyfriend cheated on you. Its rude to your bf. No, you can't talk to your friends about the pains of motherhood when your husband refuses to help you out. Its airing your dirty laundry. I'm confused. Are you being discouraged to do these things by men or by your female friends? It sounds like the latter. In any case I'm sorry you're feeling alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 08:18 AM
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I don't even have social media You're on reddit m8
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:30 AM
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I wouldn't call myself shy but I don't like conflict or escalation so it's hard for me to ask someone out or be sexually aggressive. Of course I have to do it anyway but it's not 'me'. I'm bisexual and I hide it from women. I don't know if being the cocky dickhead alpha male TRP says to be will actually make me attractive to more women but I don't really want to do that. In any case I'm a bit short with a babyface, I probably couldn't convincingly pull if off anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 08:17 AM
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if every man went to the gym for an hour everyday, then I think the beauty gap would shrink considerably. Well, duh. But that's only because most women aren't going to the gym either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 12:29 AM
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I see it happening all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:47 AM
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being friends with someone specifically because you want to get in their pants is pretty rotten tho. " That's ridiculous, fucking everybody does this. Women and men. Not just because being friends is a good way to see if you're compatible, but because flat out asking someone out the first time you meet them is seen as skeevy in many contexts. like "oh huh, guess he didnt really want to be my friend, he just wanted to see me naked It's always strange to see the concept of 'sex devalues women' com…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:34 AM
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Why is Toronto the worst dating market in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:24 AM
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You'll likely never be in that 20% I don't think that's necessarily true, but also talking about it online doesn't mean I'm not trying to be my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:02 PM
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Let's say your claim is correct - why does it matter? The vast majority of men have sex. Who cares if someone isn't attracted to you if they're still fucking you? What is the practical difference? I'm pretty sure anyone can agree that sex with an enthusiastic horny partner is better than with someone who does it as a chore. Unless you know, you have some weird fetish. But not just that it just creates a skewed power dynamic in the relationship. He's going to have to make up for her lack of attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 04:42 PM
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They're a larger component but men also have lower standards for it than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 06:41 AM
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Girl I asked out in high school years later said she had a huge crush on me...during the very period I asked her out. I was an idiot back then but that takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:33 AM
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especially given that the people most under fire come from the left (Weinstein, Franken, Bill Clinton etc.) It's pretty bipartisan, you've got Donald Trump, Roger Ailes, Bill O'reilly, Roy Moore on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 11:23 PM
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but my first example got that strong from the rings Does that matter though? He looks like has large muscles, getting which is why TRP tells men to lift. second is just wearing jeans and a t-shirt, blue on blue, and doesn't even have a damn belt Would you really wear a belt with just a t-shirt on? He has well fitting clothes, he's certainly not unfashionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 09:45 PM
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Imagine there was a third man, interested in Lisa, who is too poor to afford an Armani suit. There you have it, Johnny and Mark both increased their relative status. Also all of those things will help you out in your professional and inter-personal life as well. Being more attractive means people are nicer to you. Lifting with a few exceptions, will help in any sport you do play. Learning to approach women will make you more confident in job interviews. Of course if everyone does this then there…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 09:20 PM
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2 definitely looks like she's on roids to me and 1,5 and 8 look like they might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 09:16 PM
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There are men here saying that they count it as a rejection Well I think that's pretty unreasonable. Male or female, if you're not explicit about your interest you can't call yourself rejected. And I wouldn't agree with the latter. For example I've been flirting with a good friend of my ex recently. But I definitely can't ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 09:09 PM
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What's her username?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 08:45 PM
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If it's a longtime friend that I have a firmly established platonic relationship with, then yeah I wouldn't take it as a signal. Anything less and I would. Plus if I'm wrong there's not that much to lose anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 08:44 PM
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Men aren't counting those women as having rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 08:34 PM
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I wouldn't say it's functionally the same either. You always have the option of being more direct to actually find out if you've been rejected or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 08:15 PM
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I would definitely take that as a signal. It depends on how our relationship is beforehand of course, I'm assuming that's not the only flirty thing she's said to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 08:13 PM
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Your first example looks like he lifts, the second looks fashionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 05:54 PM
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She seems more garden variety conservative than Red Pill. Just going by her video titles here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 09:12 AM
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He's married isn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 03:41 AM
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I have no idea what you're talking about. Reddit has been extremely quick to condemn any of the celebrities involved in any of the sexual assault allegations. If you're talking about threads about say- Emma Sulkowicz, then yeah, we can reasonably assume she's lying without it being some illogical 'man defense'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 04:55 AM
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SJW's are usually pretty outspoken about their beliefs. In fact it's practically in the definition- someone who is overly confrontational about social justice issues. So the 'secret SJW' doesn't really exist. Unless you just mean feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 05:11 PM
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Women aren't going to get jacked from going to the weight room unless they're taking steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 11:01 AM
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Radical feminism isn't mainstream feminism. Louis C.K doesn't have to be a radfem to be a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 10:06 AM
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I know. You're missing the point. No one used Cosby to say "all black men are secretly evil abusers whenever they get the chance." That was already a stereotype. In fact until recently, people took black celebrity sexual assault seriously and not white. The US has a long history of false rape claims against black people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 04:12 PM
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That makes sense, and not in the RP way of women not respecting their equal status husbands. Rather, the woman isn't tired from an exhausting day at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 04:07 PM
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Ah, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 04:03 PM
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Hell, yea. If by "Nice Guys" you mean the type that is only nice for the sake of getting laid and acts like an entitled kid when they get rejected, then give me a bad boy any time. Strawman. The cherrypicked facebook posts of men shared on the internet don't represent the majority of socially affable but unsuccessful men irl (i.e actual nice guys). It's like the outspoken feminist, university aged women who manosphere people use to discredit young women as a whole. Despite that being a small min…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 03:59 PM
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The same thing happens to basically any other type of minority. Like if you audibly have some non-North American accent for example, you'll get called all sorts of names. Or if you have a lisp or sound really young. Not that that's acceptable, of course. It's terrible. But it doesn't explain why women aren't playing these games- men suck it up don't they? Rather, women simply don't like online, competitive, violent games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 05:23 AM
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Pretty sure men have women beat in terms of cooking up depraved porn about video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 05:16 AM
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You haven't missed out on marriage just because you didn't get married to your university boyfriend/girlfriend, what a load of nonsense. I read stuff like that weirdly often on PPD. I'm pretty sure that just comes from university aged people or recent grads here who are convinced their partner is one for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:02 AM
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A male radical feminist would be like a female MGTOW. It doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 06:01 PM
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Sex and relationships are pretty nice, but they're not the be-all and end-all of life You're being too reductionist here. 'Not the be-all and end-all" doesn't mean it's not an incredibly important part of it. You might as well be saying your health or your material conditions are not the "be-all and end-all of life".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 09:09 AM
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I find it's mostly the opposite. For example men are strongly attracted to kind, caring, sensitive women. And I think most men assume it works the same way for women, but TRP tells us they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 03:51 AM
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What else do you expect, other than to be sexually objectified, if you walk around in public dressing sexy? Strangers don't have some x-ray vision that lets them see your inner beauty, they only know you by how you visually present yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 03:43 AM
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When I worked in fast food the customers were never the problem. It was just the shit pay for the back-breaking amount of work you had to do. Maybe the stereotype of Canada is true, but we really don't treat strangers poorly here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 03:36 AM
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I don't agree with that at all. In fact a lot of male attractiveness comes from immutable characteristics, like height and jawlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 05:11 AM
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That article- I don't buy it. Those women probably have some serious personality problems if they keep losing friends. "I'm so attractive people are too jealous!" sounds like a humble-brag deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:05 AM
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I mean most men would look pretty shitty without a good haircut or facial grooming. Clothes have a pretty massive effect on how you look too, almost no one looks good in ill-fitting stuff. I don't see how makeup is any difference. If a women makes a point to wear makeup every day then yeah, that's her SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:02 AM
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A world where women found more that 1/10 men attractive would be just shit. Nope, that's not obvious at all. It would help if you could explain instead of pointless condescension.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 04:00 AM
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Are the message rates of women even relevant? I mean they rarely ever message first (and I'm assuming these are first messages).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 03:58 AM
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That still begs the question of why more women didn't want to send a notification, but men didn't mind. The reason seems pretty clear to me- men are more attracted to women in general than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 03:57 AM
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I mean the same things holds for tinder- men are much more likely to swipe right than women. I'd wager the ratio of attractive men to unattractive men would actually go down if you only got to see pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 03:55 AM
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Well yeah but those are all inter-twined, aren't they? It's also that you now have a slightly different relationship with whoever you asked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:46 AM
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The audience of this sub isn't straight men like it is on TRP. Neither is this thread a dating advice thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:44 AM
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If a boy could theoretically know just by looking at a girl if she liked him or not he’d do it. That would be rejection. Except in that case you wouldn't have made your affections known to the object of them, so it's not the same at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:24 AM
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Being afraid of being seen as a 'rapey Weinstein' is an exaggeration. They're just being overly nice, they think that hitting on women is annoying and they want to be considerate. Low self-esteem and fear of rejection intersects with the above and reinforces it. It's all part of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:20 AM
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This isn't /r/theredpill there's no assumption that he's giving dating advice to straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:16 AM
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What's the point of saying 'women are bad judges of character' when men are as well? You would just say people are bad judges. His implication is definitely that women are worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 12:10 AM
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You don't seem to understand how evolution works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 09:47 AM
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You're repeating yourself, I understood your first analogy. And yeah, we shouldn't feel any empathy in this instance for women, because they don't feel any for us, and their problems are much smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 11:07 PM
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Women look at what guys in general are doing and see forest. Point is the forest is not a big deal, relatively. It's a wealthy person complaining about how life sucks having to look at all the poor people sleeping on the sidewalk outside their million dollar condo. The poor can show more concern for the wealthy by sleeping somewhere else but fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 10:16 PM
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It's still much better than being poor though, that's my point. If you're only choices were being poor and being a rich person being bothered by poor people, anyone would pick the second option. And why should the poor be concerned with the wealthy's problems? Who are the wealthy to tell the poor that they should stop trying not to be poor? experiencing the start of actual break in attempts often enough to keep you freaked out I never said women should accept catcalling or actual harassment/phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 09:19 PM
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I'm in school for computer science at the moment. I don't think any of the women in my program are stupid or coasting off the efforts of men, they're all smart people. At least at this point, when all the less intelligent people have been weeded out. But I have noticed that all the truly brilliant people are men. Not that they're necessarily smarter than everyone else, but in that they have a genuine interest in programming and it shows in their schoolwork. Guys who have been programming since t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 09:12 PM
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It really depends on how you're defining 'high-value' and 'low-value'. Wealthier people, politicians, had an easier time avoiding the war. Either that or they got put into command positions where they were less likely to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:46 PM
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So you've constructed a tautology then. Yes, people who breed are the best at breeding, you've told me nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:28 PM
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I mean catcalling isn't really what I was talking about. That's a genuinely shit thing to do. That's not all women complain about though, they complain about people hitting on them in general, friends crushing on them and confessing, receiving sexually forward messages on dating sites, etc. With zero self-awareness about how it would be like on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:19 PM
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If those men had to daily face a barrage of men exactly like them wanting to attain sexual penetration of them Gay men literally do face this, and we don't complain as hard, because ultimately the benefits of receiving so much attention outweigh the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:16 PM
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That's not an argument, and even then- it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:11 PM
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Those wealthy people are the ones best at adapting to their environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 11:21 PM
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There's no point dating someone you aren't attracted to. I never claimed otherwise? Do you weed out women based on how fat they are? I bet you do, which means you have options too. I have options but not to the same extent as a woman. I have criteria, but again, my parameters are much lower in number than that of a woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 10:56 PM
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Well yeah, confidence is a trait you can use to weed out men since you have so many options. It doesn't negate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 10:47 PM
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Those who aren't able to adapt to the environment will fail to spread their genes. You do know that wealthy people have on average less children than poor people right? Natural selection doesn't work the way it used to, not with birth control and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 10:46 PM
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I think women should just acknowledge how hard men have it in the SMP and be aware of their privilege in this area of life. Like...don't start bitching about how many men you have to reject every day because those men have it worse. I'm not asking you to sleep with them, just cut the crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:30 PM
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I agree it's an unhealthy dynamic, but it's never going to change when men do all of the heavy lifting in the early stages of a relationship. they shouldn't have set it so high in the first place They don't want it set so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:24 PM
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Well 'you're not entitled to sex' is often a feminist argument against TRP. Like, if we accept that RP principles will you grant you dating success, men still shouldn't use them. They don't have any right to sex, whereas women do have a right not to be uncomfortable. And having a sexless life isn't a big deal anyway, so it's better to just respect women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 03:18 PM
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Participants who reported no physical or sexual attraction to their friend were in significantly longer friendships compared to those who felt an attraction. It's pretty intuitive that friendships in which romantic feelings developed are more volatile than completely platonic ones. That doesn't really say anything about lust vs. love. The article does say this as well: The attraction men and women develop in cross-sex relationships may also be due to the repeated exposure effect. In psychology, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:51 PM
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They could be asking for sex. Whether it's for sex or a relationship, it doesn't matter- men are asking. And I do think men want a relationship more, yes. In my (18-30) dating age group at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:42 PM
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You implied that the level of inequality within a society has no relevance to its standards of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:32 PM
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It also says men "reported more attraction and a stronger desire to date". Anyway, you don't need a friendship with someone to lust for them. Developing feelings for a friend is much more akin to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:24 PM
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When it comes to relationships, men and women want them about as much If this were true, women would ask men out as much as men ask women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:21 PM
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Inequality is even worse in poorer countries
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 02:19 PM
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Where are you even getting that from? Men develop romantic feelings for female friends more than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 07:34 AM
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Well it's hard to compare exactly because the cost of living is different between Germany and Canada. Those independent workers' prices sound exactly like the prices here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 06:11 AM
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Pimps and madams are outdated in today's age of social media. The legal and social consequences of whoring are limiting the amount of women who go into prostitution. More women joining the business would surely decrease prices enough to offset taxes and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 01:05 AM
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In fact, in cases where parents walk off on their children, it's nearly always the male Aren't the women selecting those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:59 AM
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As far as I can tell, female attraction is much more binary than male's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:56 AM
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It's not really meant to be a precise, accurately calculated statistic. It's just meant as a way to express how hot you think a woman is. You're right though that most guys don't do it. It's very much an online only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:56 AM
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Yes, I agree that wanting a pretty girl you can show off to your friends is a huge motivator for men. It's one of the first things I think about and it's an awful self-sabotaging impulse. This is why some men will move mountains to get a girl, but won't move a molehill every once in a while to keep her. Can you blame them? He's moving mountains to get the girl- the girl certainly isn't doing the same to get him. It would be exhausting if that's the status quo for his entire relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:53 AM
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Once. Before that was just stupid teenage idealization I think. That was 6 years ago and I haven't been since.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:46 AM
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But men resent the fact that women find them attractive in their 30's, because they still feel like they missed out on fucking her in her prime It's not only about that. Our sex drives are highest when we're 20 as well. And it's not like we can have the exact same kinda fun in our thirties- we'll be expected to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:37 AM
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I would say men want something similar. At least, I do. Though I could care less about protected and leaded of course, I do want someone I can trust to be devoted to me exclusively. I would guess that Lust is the limiting factor in acquiring all 3 in a partner, for women. Because only some top percentage of men are worth this lust. Great song btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:30 AM
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Women have it easy because they inspire greater lust from men than vice versa. After that it's your job to turn it in to love of course, I don't think you can be completely passive. But it's a massive starting advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:27 AM
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fetal alcohol syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:23 AM
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I'm willing to pay $5 for his coffee if he wanted me to, because I think that the potential of us becoming a couple is worth more than $5 - that's why I'm dating him. That's completely fair but...most women wouldn't pay for this coffee. A huge amount would be offended that he didn't pay for her's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:04 AM
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Again...why is it a big deal for women? I don't really care either way- but you can't say a man has a bug up the ass for paying $5 when the same applies to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 04:32 PM
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Get them to stop viewing it as a precious commodity and to do it responsibly at a point in their lives when they're ready for it on their own terms This is just an odd way to think about it, honestly. Men get horny. Starting from like age 11 or 12. When I was 13 during summer vacations when I had nothing to do, I was jerking it like 3 times a day. And if I didn't, I'd just end up having a wet dream anyway. Sex isn't just about social expectations, it's a biological need. And I know just about fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 04:30 PM
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Lets say I leave all my windows open and doors open with expensive shit visible from the street, leave my house, and when I come back, it turns out someone broke in and stole my shit. Theft is a bad comparison because it's not a violent crime. We routinely 'victim-blame' people for falling victim to these kinds of crimes as a result of stupidity. For violent crimes like murder, vehicular assault, muggings, and so on, no one really victim blames. "It's your fault you were driving at 3am on New Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:37 AM
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I don't think you're ever going to do that. Even the AIDS epidemic didn't stop gay men from fucking like rabbits, and their self-worth in society's eyes was/is diminished by sex. The most efficient way to get rid of toxic masculinity is for women to stop rewarding men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:28 AM
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Hiking isn't a good first date, maybe if you live in Vancouver or something that's normal, certainly not where I do. First because it's a bit of a time investment- driving to a place to hike and then actually hiking, that's a couple hours. If you meet for drinks or coffee you can cut it short much more easily. Second because not everyone is an outdoorsey person, certainly many less women than men. Coffee is universally accepted, you don't even have to drink it to just sit down and talk. Third is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:06 AM
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I mean that can easily be turned around. Why are women so upset that their $5 coffee isn't paid for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:02 AM
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Plenty of restaurants force those that get tipped to tip out the back of the house from the communal pot. Sounds like simply paying the people in the back and front a fair wage would be more efficient. But of course then they'd have to advertise the actual cost of their food, so it's better to just put that on the customer. that's not the reality we live in Well yeah, this reality is entirely enforced by customers who tip. I tip at restaurants because there's such a strong social expectation the…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/10/17 08:22 PM
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You're leaving out the employee here, the one who makes a wage much greater than others in the service industry because of tips. I don't blame the clients because they're the ones who lose out. In any case, uber drivers are not cabbies. Part of the reason people started using uber is not just because of price, but because you didn't have to deal with all the flawed social conventions of taking a cab.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/10/17 07:16 PM
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Just because the waitressing situation is fucked doesn't mean we have to introduce tipping culture into other industries. If you don't tip, you're only hurting the individual in front of you, not the company, or the system. If your client doesn't tip, don't blame them, blame the company that makes you dependent on tips.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/10/17 06:40 PM
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I see red pill type stuff in the wild all the time. I was watching some BBC reality dating show the other day and it brought up the dual mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 05:42 PM
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The problem with incel guys is that they're shy anxious men who are afraid to play the field. Still fixable but an understandable impediment given what their lives are like. 'FA' women have the luxury of just letting things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 05:19 PM
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Yeah he's definitely pulling above his league. Although that unkept facial hair certainly doesn't help
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 05:12 PM
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This idea that men need to be passive and never initiate is not a common feminist idea. It's not plainly stated but it's pretty obvious subtext that any man wanting to be a good feminist will pick up on. You can't seriously claim ignorance of such a phenomena Also, part of being a good person is standing up for what's right, so being a good person is anathema to being a "pushover." A pushover is someone who lets people take advantage of his/her kindness. It's not someone who sees someone else ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 09:25 AM
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First of all, being a good person entails a ton of work You and I have different definitions of a good person then. To me a good person is simply a polite person who treats others like they wish to be treated and never intentionally harms people. Most people are good people. To put your body on the line and have the moral courage to stand up for what's right- that's approaching extraordinarily good person status. ALL I'M ASKING, is that you don't try to make the world a worse place. You don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 09:01 AM
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What I'm asking is the base minimum for being a decent person, and it's actually not that difficult. I'm not sure if you've asked anything specifically of anybody. Regardless, I certainly agree that being a 'decent person' is not difficult. In fact, it's the opposite of difficult- it's the past of least resistance and part of the reason there are so many lonely guys out here- they're too nice. Men on PPD are constantly complaining that the media has lied to them that being nice can earn them wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 08:33 AM
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And finally, I don't accept that first premise, so this is all a moot point. The vast majority of the time, being a good person will NOT actively harm your quality of life. That's irrelevant- your whole post was on the assumption that even if the premise were true, you would still reject red pill practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:25 AM
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If you accept the premise that being a good person will actively harm your quality of life and you continue being a good person- that's an extraordinary thing to do. I certainly wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 02:03 AM
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TRP is essentially a philosophy on how to live your life and how inter-personal relationships work. In it it makes implicit assumptions on the character of women, the 'degenerate' state of modern society, and what a successful man's life is like. The idea that such an all-encompassing beliefs system is 'amoral' is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 01:24 AM
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If people thought that being caring, generous, empathetic and kind wasn't rewarded, no one would be those things. Maybe you're Gandhi's reincarnation, most people aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 01:15 AM
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It can still be a waste of money without taking up most of a government's budget. My mayor can install a solid gold toilet in his office and it will be a tiny part of the overall city budget but we'd still be perfectly justified in complaining about it. I'm not against welfare either, you're just making a bad argument. I do think that unwed mothers should be strongly encouraged by the government to abort though. Through free abortions and government ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 05:00 PM
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I have no idea what you've started babbling about no. But if you think women play video games just as much as men you're free to disagree. No need to assign fake motivations as to why I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 10:41 PM
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This is similar to when males say they enjoy "intelligent conversation", it actually translates into "I want you to listen to me talk and marvel at my intelligence". When males say "gamer girl", what they want is a female who can listen to them talk about video games. I agree with the former but not the latter. Because I'm quite sure most men would rather have someone to play video games with than to just talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 08:14 PM
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Yeah I don't believe that- sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy to me. Like yelling 'calm down' over and over to a calm person. If you believe that short dudes are insecure, you're going to attribute every negative action of a short dude to said insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 08:08 PM
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Thy might judge themselves hard relative to other women. But I think the attention they receive makes them judge themselves extremely favourably against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 08:05 PM
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If she wears makeup everyday I don't see why she shouldn't think of herself as a 7. I look like shit if I don't comb and gel my hair, it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 08:03 PM
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It's not just about individual belief here- if a critical mass of people believe the alleged victim then there are negative social consequences for the alleged rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:59 PM
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Why in the world would I want that to be true? It'd be great if more women were into video games, they just aren't. Rather it's the opposite- you're desperate to believe that they are. Now you can go and bring up those stats that say men and women play video games in equal amounts (despite the latter being heavily skewed towards facebook and phone games). But then you'd just be ignoring the context of this conversation. Because a man who spends his days playing CS:GO is realistically partaking i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:50 PM
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No one is saying your girlfriend is a fake gamer, or that Pokemon, RPGs or Zelda are 'fake gamer' interests. It's nothing but a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:35 PM
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I'm guessing you wouldnt be a fan of a woman posing for an instagram photo with a controller in her mouth, calling herself a gamer. I'm not invested enough in a gamer identity that I really care about that stuff. In any case, those women are pretty rare. I also guess you wouldnt find it very fun to play games with a """gamer girl""" who doesnt know wtf she's doing. Similarly I'm not so competitive that I care so much about playing with someone who sucks at it. I've played games with a girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:18 PM
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I meant it in the sense that men say they like a thing, and some women put on a facade to pretend to like that thing, to be liked by others (specifically the guy). I hear you, but I've never heard men complain about this. It's pretty cool, and flattering, when women pretend to like the shit we do. Also I don't think 'fake gamer girls' are a thing outside of twitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 08:00 AM
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I don't think men have the luxury of being quite so demanding in the first place really. Like, women who play video games are one in a thousand, most men would be more than happy to have a girl who wouldn't game otherwise, but tries for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:52 AM
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Let' say for example a woman with a boyfriend is flirting with a work colleague, and then breaks off her relationship to be with said work colleague. That woman has been on the SMP the whole time. Or a man starts cheating on his wife. He's still in an LTR, but he is also on the SMP regardless. Anyway if you have a group of committed people mixed with a group of single people- aspects about the committed will still affect SMP dynamics. How attractive they are, what groups they belong to, their fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 06:49 PM
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Wtf? Every relationship I've had has had a discussion about past relationships. Who doesn't talk about it? You guys are all weird af. I'm not saying bring it up on the first date..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 06:42 PM
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That's pretty average for university students
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 06:35 PM
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Meh, people are constantly breaking up and getting into new relationships in the world we live in, and a woman with a boyfriend isn't necessarily out of the SMP because of that. And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 06:33 PM
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Youtube videos are the worst methods of transmitting information like this. 18 minutes for what I could read in 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 06:30 PM
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Honestly I don't think women are okay with pornography at all. It's just been around for so long and it's harder to fight against the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 07:14 PM
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they want to replace women with sex bots That's not because women are bad at sex, they just don't provide enough of it compared to male desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 12:18 AM
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What would make such a lie malicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 12:17 AM
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I don't think men and women are as different as TRP suggests, but I do think that the rift between them is the largest of any kind of social/biological groupings in humanity. Much more than race, class, sexuality or ethnicity. Still, the women in my life definitely do exhibit a wide variety of masculine and feminine behaviours. I don't know if I'd wish women were more like women in a different time period. I think I'd be able to relate to them much less, and I'm not in love with conservative wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 06:04 PM
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Yeah, this. Although with two exceptions- I'm not sure men and women are all that different in 'emotionality'. It's a stereotype that women are emotional but I've seen men get just as insecure, jealous, angry, upset, sad in all the same contexts as women. They just don't visibly show it as much. Another is that women are definitely worse friends than men. They're far more flaky, they value having a wide circle of friends more than they do a close knit group which they see often, they don't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 05:56 PM
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Said website should use pictures of people like Louis CK as well and categorize them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 05:19 PM
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Said website should use pictures of people like Louis CK as well and categorize them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 05:19 PM
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It's kinda useless that they just have models in their pictures rather than men of all types.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 04:51 AM
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Your average male example looks younger and better looking than your average female example
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 04:00 AM
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The prairie provinces bring us up in fatness. Western Separatism when?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 03:56 AM
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Most of this article sounds exactly like what men complain about. It's like a bizzarro world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 05:03 PM
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This really isn't that unreasonable. That said: When there's an issue and you're going to share an article about it- especially if it's a gender issue- take a minute and try to find one written by a woman If it's a gender issue specifically, then yes, you have to find female voices to get a full view of it. But I don't think giving women extra deference otherwise is necessary. Seek enthusiastic consent in your sexual encounters. People shouldn't have to explicitly say no This whole 'enthusiastic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 04:55 PM
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Trump's rise to power came about because the US has a terrible electoral system. It's actually entirely opposite of what you're talking about- low population areas in this instance have had more voting power than high population areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 04:25 PM
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I mean whatever you want to call it. A society in which women desire men on a physical level just as much as men do women. I find it hard to believe women would just start slutting it up like crazy with men of all stripes, if social mores were removed. But gay men, even when driven underground, were able to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 04:18 AM
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Regardless, the male sexual utopia didn't happen, and won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 03:46 AM
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Well I certainly most women can, not that they do in fact do it. Social standards, moral beliefs, security concerns and lack of interest would prevent some, not all, women from doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 11:22 PM
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That usually happens over a more prolonged period of time where the other party can guess what's about to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 10:22 AM
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Liberals are actually denouncing Harvey Weinstein. Where the fuck were American conservatives when Bill O'reilly got exposed, or Trump ran in the Republican primary?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 05:35 AM
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It was only with regard to other men though, right? Like don't get me wrong that's absolutely a positive step, but sexual abuse of a man at the hands of a woman is still a hard sell for most people in America. The lecherous gay pervert though, that's an easy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 05:34 AM
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They might want security that the relationship won't dissapear overnight. They might want a promise of exclusivity. They might want something long term involving marriage or kids. They might just want a description to tell their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 02:28 AM
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I'd also point out that civilizations always fail. All of the major civilizations in history have fallen. Human civilization hasn't, so I'm not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 01:29 AM
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Men don't want sex just for validation, they also want intimacy and to get their nut. A good prostitute can help with the former and a worse one can at least take care of the latter. Anything that's desirable and difficult to get will be used for validation. It's a losing battle. But increasing access to sex for men will certainly make it less important for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 09:11 PM
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I wouldn't judge her but I wouldn't date her either. I might, were it not for the 'saving sex for marriage' bit. But I've dated a few 20-something virgins over the past year and it's an exercise in frustration, every time. They're conservative about sex, they have these ridiculous expectations of what a boyfriend should be, built up over the years. They've most likely devoted their lives to school or work without room for many friends or boyfriends, so they're unwilling to make much time for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 05:24 PM
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Go drive a cab then. Unionize with your fellow uber drivers to get better pay. Lobby the government to regulate the industry more. Don't bitch at the customers for paying the stated value of their service.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/17 06:21 AM
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I don't usually have much sympathy when unsuccessful men can't find instant gratification sex These men should just be getting prostitutes. And we shouldn't be shaming them for getting prostitutes either. Victorian prudishness was truly a scourge on humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 04:16 AM
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There's gotta be something more to it than just "fun." Nope. Might as well shut down all of reddit if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 04:29 PM
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Go to a high school/college party and you'll see it happen often It really doesn't They aren't fucking a tiny propotion of men. Well we started this discussion with the premise that women are very selective. You're now claiming they're not. But we've all seen all the studies that show how women don't in fact rate male attractiveness on a bell curve, how women swipe something like 16% of the time on tinder. Again I'm bisexual, I know exactly what a culture that truly likes casual sex looks like. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 04:26 PM
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Lots and lots of fucking Sounds great STDs Fair, but not a huge deal. weak pair-bonding Well if you're gonna jump into TRP's nonsense than women are already fucking around a lot, they're just doing it with a tiny proportion of men. So this changes nothing. I'm a bisexual and yes, the gay dating scene is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 06:09 AM
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Sex isn't about having children anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 06:04 AM
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I don't see how that would be any improvement at all on the current system Well it would be better for men than it currently is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 01:52 AM
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What if you wear little shorts and ask him? Surely that would be more effective than ignoring him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:27 PM
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I've never seen any woman ever get mad at the prospect of men going their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 05:41 PM
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queer / young lesbian lingo What is that even, I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 02:54 AM
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Incels might be funny on 4chan or on the internet in general. They're much more likely to be spergs in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 09:42 AM
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Rappers are more difficult targets. Most of them in their lyrics portray hedonist and often criminal lifestyles, they don't care as much about feminist criticisms because it likely won't affect their reputations. In fact it might be the opposite sometimes. This is very much unlike say a CEO who would like to have a respectable public image. Second is that they're cool and attractive to women. Pasty white nerds are much better targets because they're easy to hate by said women. Now obviously, fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 09:39 AM
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There are definitely some shorter men in movies but it's also beyond ridiculous that anyone 5'8-5'10 and above would be considered a midget. And it kinda just illustrates the OP's point. Like that's exactly the average height range
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:12 PM
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It says a lot that Tom Cruise is a magnet for short jokes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:09 PM
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Gwendolyn Christie Well Gwendolyn Christie is abnormally tall. She's in like the 99.99th percentile of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:07 PM
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The woman also had complete control over her pregnancy when she decided to have sex. That's not a valid argument against abortion though, why should it be one against financial abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:52 AM
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A shy man might have no problem communicating one-on-one with his girlfriend, but he's going to have to approach and talk to many different women to find that girlfriend in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:36 AM
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Don't know what's worse. White nationalism or white hate... White nationalism. 'White hate' barely even exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:25 AM
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other is about deceiving another individual about the true nature of the relationship. Well for one it sounds like you don't understand how attraction works- it can develop in different contexts and on different timelines. You can be friendly with someone and develop attraction over time, for example. And FFS, all relationships have some kind of 'deception' if you characterize it like that. If you want to fuck someone at a bar you don't say it outright instead of a hello, you talk or dance with …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:23 AM
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And yes, it is viewed as sinister Yes, which is stupid. "Men only go to the gym so they can get a sexual reward". "Women only wear makeup so they can get a romantic reward". Do these statements sound sinister acts to you? Some people just believe it's good to be nice to people Why do you think it's good to be nice to people? I'm nice to people because I think we're all better off in a society where people are nice to each other. Being nice might might improve my social perception, I might be pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 05:48 AM
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White nationalism is believing that's real in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 05:17 AM
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whites losing their countries in europe and him disagreeing with it is to you Sounds like you don't know what white nationalism is then. That's like, their entire raison d'etre.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 05:08 AM
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only being nice to get sexual/romantic reward. Nice guys are usually nice to everybody. Being nice to the subject of your desires, even if you don't have the balls to make your feelings explicit, is also perfectly understandable and normal behaviour. Your phrasing it to seem like this sinister transactional thing but the reality is people are only nice in almost all social contexts for some sort of social reward. No one is unconditionally kind except a parent to their child. That's my main probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 04:56 AM
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That's a gigantic stretch. Is he being accused of being part of the KKK?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 04:42 AM
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Airing your shit out for the world to see just doesn't seem smart but whatevs It can be anonymous or not, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if it's smart or not either. But it isn't (necessarily) misogynist. Which is my point. huh? In general, why is there so much vitriol towards the concept of a 'nice guy'? Is it because men are bad at dealing with rejection? Or is it because feminists don't think women should have to be aware of the uncomfortable reality that men who they aren't attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 04:32 AM
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It's the difference between expectation and hope. A guy can hope all he likes, but as soon as he starts to expect it, he becomes entitled fuck. Precisely. I don't know why feminists are always misinterpreting it as expectation. I mean it's not. Of course it is. Like with all things context matters. Sometimes it's justified, other times it's dickheads that wanna get cheered on at the expense of another's pain. There's levels. I'm talking about in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 04:22 AM
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Being a people-person is different from wanting a people-person. I agree, it's hard work. I don't know where to even being to argue with you that most women want a fun, extroverted man. It seems to be a basic axiom on this forum, I've never seen red or blue say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 02:10 AM
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PURSUE WOMEN THAT SHARE YOUR VALUES - not the values that you wish you had (this mostly goes to guys who wish they were the outgoing extroverted fun guy while being shy and introverted). Nonsense. The vast majority of women like the extroverted fun guy, even the shy and introverted women. A shy man really has to weigh the unhappiness/effort about changing himself against his current lack of romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 02:00 AM
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expecting their friendship and human decency to result in attractiveness they believe that apparent goodness of character confers attractiveness Why is this entitlement, rather than simply being misinformed? Gentleness and kindness generate a lot of attraction going the other way. So it's not unreasonable that men think it works the same for women. They're wrong, but it's not malicious. rather than for their failure to deal with rejection gracefully Rejection after putting yourself out there hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 01:48 AM
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Women literally mature faster than men, on a biological level. They go through puberty sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:32 AM
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