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Your game is shit. She has to rely on soaps to get the tingles. Count your lucky stars it’s not Chad. Quit being a boring fuck.
/r/askMRP05/10/19 04:11 AM
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That title alone.. Dude are you fucking kidding me? Not even a week after posting about crying, moping, feeling “despondent” after getting rejected the very thing you are obsessed with (maintaining a d/s, but in your case. Not for better sex, rather the purpose of validation and seeking approval from your wife), and running to the bathroom to jerk off and cry - but wait, I’m still Daddy Dom, Owner of your Pussy though, right hun?? Answer this: If one operates in their own frame, and not that of …
/r/askMRP04/10/19 12:15 AM
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Hair pull, ass slapping, choking, face fucking, throwing her around/ manipulating her during transitions/ between positions, holding her down with eye contact (she better be into you or this will probably end badly), approaching her around the house from behind, risky fucks (high risk of getting “caught”, etc). And for god’s sake do not ask a girl what gets her off. She understands this as much as she can internalize the concept of spatial sense and awareness (throw a baseball at her and see how…
/r/askMRP03/10/19 11:33 PM
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6’6”; Weight:200 lbs; SQ: 100; OH 60; DL 150; BP 77; BR Listen man, You need to gain weight. At 6’6”, you could EASILY be 240+ and still be lean. You’re Lifts are on the low side. But with some weight gain those will skyrocket. I am assuming there may also be some issues in form/ technique while lifting because those numbers are very low relative to your body weight and size. I would suggest following a program, SL 5x5 is a great place to start, up your calories with some healthy fats, consisten…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 09:23 PM
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“The benefit of the Monk mode is that there is no pressure. My question to myself was: am I doing it every month expecting anything in return, or just because I want to give.” Dude, what? Your hamster is on Tren. The point of monk mode is doing things FOR YOU. Why are you regularly giving gifts, specifically timed according to some woman’s menstrual cycle - whom you aren’t even fucking? That sounds like some next-level beta shit, with a hearty side dish of Oneitis right there. Cut the shit; if y…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 08:31 PM
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So you were unhappy when you were a faggot (preMRP), unhappy while improving, unhappy when your marriage operated in your frame, and you’re still behind the wheel guiding the ship? You never wanted that ship, you just patched holes in a ship you never wanted, and you never took the time to realize maybe all along you wanted another ship from day one? (Why are you still with her??)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 07:29 PM
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Noticed the edit, really got under your skin, huh? After all, it’s just a joke - It obv would never happen. No need to take it sooo serious! No need to fire “the nukes”. Lighten up, relax!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 07:26 PM
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you’ve got quite the ego on you, for being a guy who preaches BJJ and the value of martial arts. Let me take you on a journey to hell (totally fictitious, though, of course): In an alternate universe: your wife is on the phone with the neighbour’s husband, and when you ask her what they are talking about, she fogs by soothing your out-of-control ego by saying “nothing honey, we were just talking about how much a a big, manly bad-ass you are!”..... “how nice”, your ego says. You buy it hook-line-…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 07:05 PM
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Age: 28 Height: 5’11’’ Weight: 185lbs. BF%: 13% Lifts: Squat: 365x5 Deadlift: 405x5 Bench: 225x5 OHD Press: 135x5 To start, everything g has improved since I last posted in OYS Weekly, with the exception of a minor road bump in the finances/job area. Lifting: In the last four months, my lifts have gone through the roof as I have focused on strength training mixed with low-level endurance training to improve recovery which allows me to lift with higher frequency throughout the week. Genetically, …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 01:11 AM
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Changes: Old Betsy (2003 Chevy Tracker 4x4) died on New Years Eve. Got it towed to my parents and I got an Uber to a University dorm party. Smashed the plate, watched the ball drop, the traditional NYE festivities people take part in. Called insurance in the morning, ended up getting enough to get a new whip (2012 Kia Optima) which is the nicest thing I’ve ever owned. Still getting used to heated seats and aux plug in which are nice perks to have as a 27 y/o dude who has music playing 24/7 and l…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 12:04 AM
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You essentially never want to have that moment when you don’t know what to do, and have it be so obvious that your girl notices (ie. can’t change a flat tire, can’t be strong when she is emotionally weak, struggle with your own interpersonal relationships). She will pick up on that, will feel like your mother, and will dry up like the Sahara desert and you will no longer be the “best option”. By lack of incompetence, you want to create a vacuum that leaves no room for weakness or incompetence. I…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:24 AM
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Competence and lack of incompetence. (Social, Emotional, Financial, Mechanically-Inclined, Physical, relationship ability, etc.). Also, just “getting it” helps, but also goes along with the concept of being competent with relationships with women.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:17 AM
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Stats: Height: 5’11’’ Age: 27 Weight: 187 BF%: 12% Squat: 275 Deadlift: 345 Bench: 225 Family: With Christmas passing, it was interesting to see and get caught up with those you only see once a year. I have mastered the art of playing the 3/5/7th wheel at family gatherings, although my family probably have put two-and-two together by now, and figured “hey, he’s 27, dresses sharp, works out, has game.. he’s not an incel.. he must be out there “testing the market” good on him”. Just a simple obser…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/18 07:58 PM
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Mention the things you are doing. Because if you are desirable man with frame, who is constantly seeking excellence in all areas, women will find what you are actually doing to be interesting to the point of wanting to be a part of your life. It is how you frame your description of your activities and life that will compel her (don’t be self deprecating or humble.. just say it as it is and let her show interest in what you got going on).
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:41 PM
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Agree and amplify. Tell them “hold on, let me just finish setting up this lay with a Tinder date.” Give them a shit eating grin. Treat it like a shit test from a girl who’s being ridiculous, because they are being ridiculous.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:43 AM
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Why not do both? In fact, why not do mma? By training the four major disciplines (boxing , Muay Thai, BJJ, wrestling), you would be more well-rounded in the case of a self-defence scenario. If you want to narrow it down to two arts, Muay Thai and BJJ would be the best combo if you could only train two. Ideally you would train everything.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:38 AM
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I use Tinder to set up “passive lays”. Meaning, it’s so simple I can set up dates with new women while doing other more important tasks (kind of like passive income). When I have more free time, I study game and practice cold approaching women more. Either way, Tinder (and Bumble IMO) are worth using for passive lays.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:34 AM
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I found martial arts, in combination to getting out and approaching new people, to be the ideal combination. More or less anything that raises your self confidence in combination with developing social momentum will reverse that.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:11 PM
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Do not be more comforting. There are men out there who would kill to have their woman fear their abundance and masculine ways in the same manner your LTR has towards you. Don’t change that. I would continue doing what you’re doing, because she’s insecure about whether you will act on your biological instincts (to fuck as many women as possible and spread your seed), and is aware that you potentially could get with other women if you wanted (abundance mentality and having other options). I would …
/r/askTRP21/12/18 10:27 PM
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If you have already set up the date, agreed upon a date, time and place, tell her you’ll meet her there. If you have not actually made concrete plans yet, ask her if she wants to go for drinks, she’ll say y/n, and ask her what her availability is? She’ll give you a day. You then send “great, so we’ll meet up on (day) at (location), at say.. (time).” And that’s it. She’ll be turned on that you took control of the situation, without putting in unnecessary time and energy into creating the first me…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:07 PM
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Listen man, those “lower value girls” still follow the same AWALT spectrum as those “higher value girls”. Therefore, because AWALT exists as rule, NO EXCEPTIONS, the probability of a “unicorn” existing are as slim as a BP man leading a successful 50-year long marriage in today’s society. Don’t think for a second, that just because you are higher value than her, that if she, for whatever reason, views you as beta (fall into her frame, get unemployed, stop going to the gym and chasing excellence) …
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:12 PM
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Never cohabit-ate unless you are certain, without a shadow of a doubt, you will marry that girl. That “convenience” will be the very thing that creates the dead bedroom in your relationship because once she moves in, there is no longer any mystery as to whether you have options. She sees when you come and when you go. She can find out where you’re going, who you’re going with, what your doing. You have not only less mystery, but also less ability/ ways to create polarity because now you live tog…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:37 PM
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Stoicism, with healthy outlets to express emotions (Working out, etc). Also, gradual exposure to stress inoculation helps to increase emotional resiliency to allow you to have the capacity to handle more stress at any one point in time, without ever “taking on too much” at any one point in time (avoiding burn out).
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:28 PM
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She is comfort testing you. By her asking for sexual frequency to decrease, she is testing you to see how you react. If you agree, you convey that you are willing to sacrifice your own needs to satisfy hers. She would automatically lump you in to the beta bux side of her Hypergamy. Now, you only verbally agreed (which sounds like you may have pacified). This is good, because it is not until you actually start physically not having sex as frequently that you have non-verbally communicated that yo…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:13 PM
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You are at a pivotal moment in deciding the dynamic of that relationship (beginning post-fuck). Even though she isn’t even a plate yet, at this stage, if you fuck, and message her first, you are conveying a scarcity mindset. This is because if you had options and abundance, you would be so busy with those pre-existing plates that you simply wouldn’t have time to jump through the hoops of guiding this relationship forth. The act of being the first one to reach out and do the work, sets the tone i…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:48 PM
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Single motherhood presents a dichotomy, a balance between raising your son to be a productive member of society and to “win” at life, but this also triggers her biggest insecurity: the fear of losing a child, or that child moving out of her grasp. Competent Single-mothers try to do the latter to the most degree possible, without developing the child so much so that they exit her sphere of control. The fact that that is what COMPETENT single-mothers can achieve says enough. The majority of single…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:32 PM
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That’s a shit test. She’s trying to find if your alpha, AF/BB, or beta. If you’re having a lot of sex, she views you as satisfying her AF side of Hypergamy. That’s a good thing, and her tests are her double-checking to make sure you are what you appear to be. That’s a shit test. If she was comfort testing you, the sex would grind to a screeching halt and she would test you for comfort to see if you cave and supplicate. If you do that, she will see that you are willing to compromise on your needs…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:33 PM
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For one: why are you going back to an ex? You have nothing to gain except sex; which you could easily get with a new girl with a fraction of the bs that comes with getting back with/plating an ex. Two: why are you so willing to fall back to BP ideals? By giving your ex another shot, you are either setting yourself up to get pigeon-holed into a spot where she can get her revenge on you for ghosting her ass (which displays higher value and crushes her confidence so now she gets her shot to seek re…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:20 PM
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Don’t shit where you eat! Don’t fuck coworkers/bosses, or friends. Keep your sex life detached from other areas of your life.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:08 PM
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I work in construction - so 10-12 hours/day. My job is very physical and most guys have decent fitness levels and don’t go to the gym, when in comparison to the average person who is inactive altogether. The reason I go to the gym is because I love it, it’s something to do that is directly contributing to living a longer better-quality life, and because if I lift weights my SMV is higher than if I don’t. Construction is mostly steady-state low intensity cardio with odd-object manipulation/ lifti…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:31 PM
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BPD women live in chaos. Every area of their life (financials, sexual relationships, friendships, relationships with family, work history, emotions, self-care, etc.) are like an episode of Hoarder’s but if gasoline was dumped on the pile of rubbish and someone was smoking in the room. That’s if they’re in a state of “remission”. If they’re going through a BPD episode, that pile of rubbish is down to ash and they’re looking for another house to burn. Also, picture AWALT except if AWALT was on 11/…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:15 PM
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I used to pay for first dates and they were hit-or-miss, to whether I would maintain my stance as the alpha. Some times they would see past the fact I paid, and it wouldn’t trigger a Hypergamous reaction to instinctually place me into the Beta Bux category. Sometimes it would, and even though I would carry myself as alpha, I would “shoot myself in the foot” unknowingly every time I would pull out the card to cover the date -no questions asked (clear example of Chivalry aka BP conditioning). Once…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:35 PM
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It is. I’m more focused on remaining consistent with diet, sleep, and training quality, and holding that consistently over the long term which is what brings that beautiful progress to life. Devil’s in the details. I’d like to see 295 or potentially 305-315 in the approaching months
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 04:22 PM
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Stats: Age: 27 Relationship Status: Single, Never Married Height: 5’11’’ Weight: 190 lbs Body fat%: 12% Squat: 275 lbs Deadlift: 345 lbs Bench: 225 lbs Background: Still exiting the anger phase. Staying diligent to ensure I do not fall back in to my Blue Pill ways (also to prevent recurring anger phases by going BP then getting burnt again). Why am I doing? I am reading the Red Pill sidebar including Rollo’s blog like it’s my bible, and manually resetting my brain to correct my default perspecti…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 03:58 PM
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Thanks. Noted and edited.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 03:16 PM
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Calling her out on her bs and maintaining impermeable frame in the process displays high SMV but it also takes her through a rollercoaster of emotions which is critical to turning her on. By arguing with a woman, the goal is not to win (because winning is impossible), rather the goal is to play her emotions like a fiddle and in the process flex your higher SMV as you remain stoic and strategic at all times. The argument doesn’t even matter (as a redpilled man who may other wise not engage and ig…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 11:55 PM
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Don’t think of it as arguing, think of it as playing the game. When you argue with women, that’s exactly what you’re playing; a game that is impossible to win. However, women know when they are in the wrong (most of the time) and are avoiding being held accountable to their actions/behaviour. This makes them extremely uncomfortable, and if you have your game tight and don’t fall for the random pieces of information she throws at you to barricade herself from your holding her accountable, she beg…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 11:15 PM
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Stats: Age: 27 Relationship Status: Single, Never Married Height: 5’11’’ Weight: 190 lbs Body fat%: 12% Squat: 275 lbs Deadlift: 345 lbs Bench: 225 lbs Just coming out of anger/depression phase. Reading TRP subreddit and Rollo’s blog like its the bible. Careful not to fall back into BP ways. Career First week employment in over a year. On track to fixing my financial position. Getting confidence being around people again thanks to work. Relationships Saw my grandmother for the first time in 3 ye…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 12:23 AM
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Part of my anger/depression phase was centred around this concept. I remember that morning waking up after another month of being unemployed, dryspell, no friends or connections, haven’t been to the gym in weeks. I remember realizing if I don’t get out of bed, the world will just continue going on as it would, regardless of whether you choose to go out there and make a better life for yourself or not. That realization actually scared me more than any thing in my entire life. Even more than the f…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 11:39 PM
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Honest question here: it appears that companies like Reddit want to filter their platform in order to seem more attractive and safe of investment for investors such a Google. However, what is their ultimate agenda? It seems companies like Google have an agenda that parallels the Feminine Imperative , but Feminism as an ideology is obviously doomed to fail in the long term? Which leads me to ask: is Google aware of this concept - that the ship they are deciding to jump on to (taking platforms lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 11:20 PM
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