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Slimplera/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 04:02 AM
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Slimplera/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 11:49 PM
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No, that's how you confuse issues. Ethics gets confusing, welcome to reality. If you get easily confused applying ethical principles to different situations and analyzing them perhaps these conversations aren't meant for you. Abortion and death penalty are two different issues, and the subject of killing a person is only a surface similarity. Killing a person is an ethical issue. If it's right in some scenarios but wrong in others you have an ethical dilemma. That doesn't mean the dilemma can't …
/r/MensRights11/01/17 07:04 PM
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Moral dilemmas don't stem from trying to apply one ethical ideal to unequal situations. That's exactly how moral dilemmas stem. If you only apply ethics to uniform situations you are not challenging those ethics. Again, someone can be pro-life and in favour of the death penalty, which are two contrasting views about the same general topic; state-sponsored killings. Yea, as in state sponsored "killings" aren't wrong by default. Just like majority prevails isn't right by default. You literally app…
/r/MensRights11/01/17 02:41 PM
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Actually, all you're proving is that moral codes don't universally apply to all situations and that people will have conflicting or contrasting views Moral codes like majority prevails? Yea way to restate what I said. Look I got this example from a Harvard philosophy lecture. A lot of these basic ethic thought experiments don't perfectly mirror reality, they are meant to be simple so the attention can be focused on the moral dilemma. If you want a more realistic example you could simply think of…
/r/MensRights11/01/17 07:03 AM
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That is an extremely poor analogy. Like, it literally Swiss-cheeses itself. It's an entry level analogy that stems from the trolley thought experiment. It's about questioning the ethics of the situation. You go on a list for a transplant because they use the organs of dead people, not living people. Exactly, probably because taking organs from living people is wrong regardless of how many people it saves. The odds of having 4 patients with the same blood type all having the same doctor who all n…
/r/MensRights11/01/17 04:40 AM
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What I'm saying is, if you knock up somebody because you had sex without safe precautions like using your own rubbers (she can't pop holes in them if you're the one who brings them), you can't pigeonhole someone into having an expensive and painful abortion just because you don't feel ready. The woman pigeonholes herself into those 2 options (abortion or child birth) when she agreed to unsafe sex. The idea that the man pigeonholes the woman into abortion because he decides not to pay implies tha…
/r/MensRights11/01/17 03:45 AM
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I still think beforehand is the time you should be deciding that. If you haven't figured out whether you want to be a parent and you're balls-deep in someone, you've got your priorities out of whack. I actually agree. The decision should be made beforehand. The thing is, you think deciding not to have kids beforehand means not having sex. Where as I think the decision means being safe and informing your partner you have no interest in kids. However, parental surrender isn't about whether men beh…
/r/MensRights10/01/17 06:33 AM
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Parental surrender ideas in their current form are so badly flawed, because it literally reverses the flow from dads getting the shit end of the stick to mothers and children getting shit all over (y'know, the way it used to be). Most current forms involve a relatively small period of time, in comparison to the women's time frame of being able to choose. Personally I think up to 6 weeks in, or two weeks upon notification (whichever one is later) should be ample enough time for men to decide they…
/r/MensRights09/01/17 10:55 AM
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The fact of the matter is, in nearly all instances, the time to say "Naw, I don't want to be a daddy" is before you put the dick in the vagina You're right. People like me who support parental surrender wish to change this. But that's where the fight ought to start. Women getting the right to vote was also made in small victories. That doesn't mean they just shut up about fighting for their right to vote until the timing was right. The fight starts where it is intended to end, and the struggle a…
/r/MensRights09/01/17 04:44 AM
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I never understood the whole "abortion is about body autonomy" in response to legal parental surrender. Like okay? If an issue isn't about body autonomy it isn't an issue? Is that the point? It's fucking stupid.
/r/MensRights09/01/17 01:40 AM
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I think I misunderstood what you wrote. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:43 PM
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We are talking about red flags, not generalities about the sexes. Are you attracted to men? Would you find men who do this are red flags? Because that's fine if you do, no one would argue with you A woman "openly criticizing" a man "embracing his own flaws": A. Is not "turning around and criticizing in the exact same way." I said hint of criticism not openly criticize. B. Would not be called names anyways considering no one likes men who embrace their flaws. Like have you met a guy who was like …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 07:21 PM
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Women who embrace their flaws and think they should be accepted for who they are, while any hint of criticism gets perceived as "controlling", "insecure", or my personal favorite "sexist" behavior. Women who expect men to pay on first dates. Women who want a Prince Charming. Women who "need space" when they are upset yet want "communication" if I am upset. Women who habitually keep you away from their male "friends". Or any friends really. If my presence is unwanted in your social circle I won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 10:45 AM
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I think this situation is only part of the narrative. A girl's night at a bar is just one part of her hypergamous plan. Women will always want to know what their options are, they are testing the waters, looking for new branches to swing. The only way to prevent this is to always be the better branch. And even then, the hamster is capable of many things, she might cheat anyways. All you can do is next her. But to be honest, I don't entirely agree with some TRPers who think men should "put a stop…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 07:25 AM
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Its rational from a red pill perspective, but if you are a fat woman who values her-self and gender equal to that of men, then the one sided expectations do make her a hypocrite.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:33 PM
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Hahahaha, my brother is going to be that thirteen year old kid in 2 years. It still amazes me how pissed feminists get. Its one thing to get mad at OP for encouraging Jared to cat call (albeit unintentionally). But holy shit, refer to breasts using any word(s) besides breasts and you are "objectifying women". A little off topic but I asked a female friend the other day what she would think if a guy told her she looked "healthy". A perfectly positive, non objectifying statement. Something a Docto…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:48 AM
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Personally, I find arguing entertaining as hell. It's easier over the internet where you can read exactly what they said and back pedaling is nearly impossible. I have debates about different things with friends. Sometimes in person, sometimes over internet chat. It's so much easier to drive a point home via text. I find in person the guy that "wins" isn't necessarily the one that argued best with solid points but argued with the right mannerisms. More dominant voice, more time to speak, more re…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:23 PM
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As someone currently studying psychology, rationalizing is something that is done after the fact. regardless of whether or not it makes logical sense. So for example, you are getting it on with this chick. Half way between getting undressed and you sucking her tits she blurts out "I'm married." In this situation it is very easy to use this line of logic as a way to rationalize the continuation of sexing this nice titted woman. The key is cognitive dissonance. Does the newly found information tha…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 08:47 PM
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I can't answer for the whole of the community, but I can say this, most people only see what they want to see. If you have a social construct that says women want sex more than men, most people apart of that construct will dismiss occurrences of the contrary as either lies or exceptions. Think about the men who say they have low sex drives or a disinterest in sex, and then all the jokes that follow. ex "Every man has a low sex drive after a quick fap" or "90% of men masturbate, the other 10 are …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 05:42 AM
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It is a VERY conscious effort for me. Whenever I get rejected, the bp hurtz is present and I sort of have to remind myself that that is life, I need to improve game and appearance, sometimes it takes too long. As in I might actually be butt hurt for longer than I should be. A few weeks ago on tinder I literally stole that line "why haven't we had sex yet" and she agreed to a one night stand. I suggest we meet before hand during the day, and after the meeting I lean in and try to kiss her. Litera…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:01 AM
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He actually has a point. There have been few posts about how you can't really open up completely towards your SO, and only your closest friends and family members will tolerate your insecurity. I agree with you about the risk vs reward and cheating dialogue, but I mean if a bunch of close guy friends need to talk about feelings or the way they think every once in a while, I don't see how that would make them girls. Everyone needs to vent what they think sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 03:08 AM
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You don't have to cheat to let a woman know that you aren't going to play her little games. For the men who do play their games and still have happy marriages, they probably make up for it in other areas.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:10 PM
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Quick right him in the notebook. edit: fixed
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:14 AM
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I do agree that our emotions don't have to come into conflict with logic. But let's be honest sometimes they do. Especially when it comes to desire. I want both to have a nice ripped body but also be able to play sc2 all day. Obviously I have to choose, and just because I have more fun playing sc2 than working out doesn't mean I don't way it out. I think it's the same with these 2 people. They want to be the man in their relationships but they also have oneitis (if that wasn't clear already) and…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 12:39 AM
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I was trying to lay it on them lightly. My fault perhaps. They believe in true love, failing in love. All that garbage. I figured just straight out telling them they are wrong would turn them off and there wouldn't be a discussion in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 12:14 AM
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Make no mistake that just because most redpillers might be libertarian that doesn't necessitate most libertarians are redpillers.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:00 AM
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If your kind of a pussy lift weights and box for a couple of years. Made this exact decision 8 months ago. Best decision ever made.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:26 PM
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Here is the link
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 03:18 AM
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This is what I was implying^ ^
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 04:43 PM
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"However, that is not what the data shows and you would be wrong! The majority of women betray their spouses to fill an emotional void or to feel a deep connection with another. " Well I guess technically this is RP-ish as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:36 AM
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This guy is also an author of a book titled "Men Are Better Than Women". It is a very funny read, although sort of over the top. Edit: Oh I guess that is the name of his website as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:47 PM
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To actual alphas, this shit comes naturally So you do agree with TRP, just don't like the people in the sub? That's fair enough I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:44 AM
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This comment though... We always gave 50/50 to each other, now he is just a prick. Typical hamstering. To HER its 50/50. But what about him? Why would a man happily apart of a LTR start adopting the cult-like behavior of TheRedPill. I mean we all know people who join cults are completely satisfied with their current status. There is absolutely no possible way he might have felt unhappy about the relationship. I mean they gave each other 50/50. This has to be true because she rationalized it a lo…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:38 AM
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Projection is a defense mechanism where the subject attributes his own perceived faults and/or shortcomings onto someone else. An example would be a creationist telling people evolution is a bunch of bullshit that doesn't have the empirical evidence to back it up. So in your situation, the projection would be your girlfriend's concern for you talking to other women (jealousy). She knows she has other options when talking to other guys and at some level when she finds someone better who she can g…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:18 AM
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I disagree. I think overt actions of jealousy depends on how real the threat of cheating is perceived and how much you want it not to happen. I don't see why a woman who has more options would act any more jealous than a woman who has little to none.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:24 PM
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Well a lot of married couples change priorities. We're entering the next stage of our life, why do you keep harping about sex? We still have sex. Stop acting like a horny teenager and start acting like a married man with responsibilities other than getting his dick wet. Maybe if her priorities are switching from sex to sandwich making I would keep her around. But only so long as she was really putting effort into the sandwiches. If those become as bland as the sex she clearly is incapable of sat…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 08:42 AM
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Keep in mind tinder isn't real life. Although no one is arguing whether most women have inflated egos, it is much more inflated on the internet where instead of maybe 3 or 4 guys approaching an average looking woman at a bar, 300-400 guys are approaching them. Okay maybe like 50 or 60 guys if she is average but you get the point. A funny thing about being a beta is that he feels bad because he sees the number of guys a woman has slept with and tells himself "she must now be settling for me." You…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:51 AM
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Like others have said being calm and confident are more important than what you actually say. Another thing to note is that a woman who is attracted to you is more likely to keep the conversation going. So if you find yourself running out of things to say it might just be she isn't into you or you lack the social skills needed to play off what she is saying. My friend calls it the "association game." If you have a problem figuring out what to say, try associating something about what she said wi…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 03:50 AM
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