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This would be an okay idea if today's girls and women did not think two months of dating was a LTR and have sex. Then break up two months later and be off to the next "LTR". This is how you end up with women who have a high N count by twenty-five. The OP is naive and young and seeking help navigating her way with men. She deserves better advice than what is mostly given on this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 08:05 PM
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But here is my question and what determines whether this is a RP marriage or a repackaged BP marriage is this: "If you trust your CEO and can be confident in their decision then you go with the CEOs decisions." Then are you saying that the CEO gets to make his decision only if you are confident he is making the right one? What happens when you are confident that the CEO is making a wrong decision. To me the answers to the questions help determine if your analogy is RP or BP with a red tint.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 04:48 PM
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Then those men are not worth pursuing. I gave a compromise to OP, oral sex or hand play if relationship is engagement level. A RP man of value will respect a RP woman of value. Once again, and I will say this until I am blue in the face, I will never recommend a virgin give it up easily. RP and MRP (many not all) cannot have it both ways. They can't condemn a woman for riding the CC and also condemn her for saving her virginity for her husband. You are giving OP fear based advice. Basically you …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 04:15 PM
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But the question becomes, how will the BOD react when the CEO says "I've heard your input, but I have decided that it is best to not (buy a larger house, upgrade your car, take a trip, send you back to school, hang out with so and so)?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 03:31 PM
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I don't think anyone is shaming. My understanding is that many RP men prefer a woman with a low sex count so we are just giving her a heads up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 01:29 AM
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Put a cap on your sexual partners. You are at three. If you are religious rejoin your religious community and look for other singles. Take up an outdoor hobby like hiking, rock climbing, sky diving if you dare, cycling, water sports, etc. Find one you guinely enjoy and join a meet-up group that brings people together for the love of the sport/hobby. Look into volunteer work that puts you in direct contact with others your age. Join a gym and practice talking to men. Join their running club. Find…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 08:49 PM
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Yes she should be talking about sex and its frequency. I thought that was a given which did not need explaination. She also needs to address how she will satisfy him when she is not in the mood. If his libido is lower than hers he should be willing to satisfy her in other ways if cannot obtain an erection. This to should be discussed. So basically many of the MRP guys want a low sex count woman and you guys are encouraging a virgin to give it up very easily. Do you not realize that the CC starts…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 08:09 PM
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Not really. If you are a woman who truly desires to please your man then you will graciously spread those legs and take him deep. If you read deadbedrooms then you would know lots of guys has great BF sex that didn't translate to great husband sex. So premarital sex is not a reliable indicator of married sex life. So encouraging a woman to have premarital sex so her sexuak marriage material will be vetted is not in the best interest of a woman or a man who desires a female with a low count.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 05:16 PM
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No. Save your virginity for marriage. If you become engaged and must have sexual release, then fingering or oral may be an acceptable release. Save something special for your husband. Once your virginity is gone, it's gone. This is advice I wish I would have taken. A BF is only entitled to a preview. The husband gets the whole show, anal, vaginal, oral with swallowing, BDSM, and all of you. If you want to attract a high quality man then be a high quality woman.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 04:03 PM
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No you have not vetted him after a few weeks of dating, maybe after a year or two of dating but not a few weeks. Don't be so naive. You can't vet ambition by itself because ambition is a result of actions. It is a motivator that propels one forward with personal and professional goals. What kind of ambition can he have shown to you in such a short time? You have known him for such a little time but yet you are certain of his hobbies and you have vetted his friends. Unless you knew his friends pr…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 03:41 PM
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Example: A few years ago I met my sister and her friends at a restaurant to celebrate her birthday. My husband knew of my plans and I told him I would be home be 9:00 p.m. Dinner with sister and her friends end, but the group wanted to go to a local singles type bar to drink and my sister wanted me to be her designated driver just in case. Since I am married I had to call my husband to make sure he was okay with me going to a crap dive bar. If he said no then I would not go. If I were single, th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 02:57 PM
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To me marriage is a hierarchy. A woman does lose some of herself in a male-led marriage. Her captain directs and leads and she assists and follows. The woman acts under the authority of the Captain and not vice versa.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 03:04 AM
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If MRP is Captain/FO then there is a hierarchy. Unless you are saying Captain equals FO. Then, wouldn't captain be redundant. That would make RP a captain/co-captain set up. Care to explain why the above is wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 02:22 AM
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A business merger suggests equality in marriage or LTRs. From my understanding many RP men prefer a more traditional style marriage/LTR wherein he is Captain and you are First Mate/First Officer. So there is never a merger of two companies but an acquisition of smaller company (wife/GF) by the larger company (husband/BF). So a new company is never formed. The woman has just merged into the male's sphere.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 01:15 AM
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You have not been dating him long enough to his traits. Don't fool yourself. You are acting like a cheap low value woman, aka a plate. Your health is important to you. Really? You are passing out pussy like it is a free chicken teriyaki sample from the mall food court. If he wanted to be exclusive with you he would have done so. Take a hint and don't debase yourself further by begging for a commitment. Next time, keep your legs together until you have a real commitment first.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 01:06 AM
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https://husdom.com/ It is a married D/s site and has a forum for its members. If you are looking for a BDSM marriage, both you and your wife need to be on board. Since she is your sub, you will need to make sure she is psychologically processing the lifestyle correctly. Caveman sex with some spanky, spanky is more kink than BDSM.
/r/askMRP27/10/17 04:18 AM
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"I'm guessing you would be OK with your wife making this kind of sacrifice; it's only wrong when men are asked to do it, right? chuckling just a little." No, neither partner should sacrifice their identities or their own personhood. But, this is a RP Christian sub where the idea if marriage will be one wherein the wife takes a supportive role to her husband. That was part of the Adam and Eve analogy I was going for earlier. I think you make some valid points. However, what marriage should be and…
/r/RPChristians25/10/17 06:01 PM
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If there was harshness in my reply, it was not intended. The whole "our frame" did not blow my mind. The whole two becomes one is an ideal and sounds very romantic from a secular standpoint but if you look at the divorce rate and the rate of marital satisfaction for those who remain married, it is not achieved easily. And when achieved it may just be an illusion because one spouse lost his/herself to the marriage and sacrificed their purpose and individuality for the sake of obtaining this ideal…
/r/RPChristians25/10/17 02:56 PM
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If you don't accept the Adam and Eve story in some fashion, whether it be literal or as an archetype, then why are you on a Christian sub? All of what I said or implied can be found in the Bible. This is a religious sub whose holy Book instructs husbands to lead and wives to follow. Not judging, but what do you hope to accomplish by getting on a RP sub to talk about "our frame", a phrase I've yet to hear in RP terminology? I can understand questioning RP in terms of seeking to understand but you…
/r/RPChristians25/10/17 03:26 AM
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I understand what you are saying. I just don't like the one-sided view that each side presents. The finger pointing. Men are polygamous and women participate in hypergamy and branch swinging. These behaviors seem to be different sides of the same coin. Most people, men and women, would mate with multiple partners were it not for cultural and religious influence. But I think we are on the same page with understanding the depravity of the human condition.
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 06:50 PM
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Women are taught over-generalizations of men with just as much disdain as Vilar shows for women. Feminist women have their own version of AMALT. Examples: Never trust a man. Mr. Smith left his wife and children in poverty for a another women. All men are like this. You can never please a man. He likes blond hair so you become blonde. Now he is tired of blond and wants red, etc. You can never satisfy him. A man will use you and toss you aside for the next women. He cannot commit. Men are controll…
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 05:39 PM
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I don't view RP as just unplugging from the wife. It carries over into many areas so that the man becomes the fully realized version of himself which was supressed by cultural conditioning. I did like your pair bonding explaination but I'm not sure about OI incompatibility with pair bonding. This is where Captain and First Officer dynamics fail in a Christian marriage. In the Adam and Eve story, Adam gives part of himself for the creation of Eve, but not all of himself. (He didn't have a choice …
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 03:51 PM
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I like figures and my suggesting that was more out of my own curiousity. I want to see the proof. Vilar was a doctor and I expected a higher level read that didn't sound like a rant. I know she is a RP favorite but she seems to be angry with women for not being men, IMO. For example, I like everyone else, have seen or read about the feminist bra burning. Apparently it was a big deal back in the day. My mom didn't participate. She was not raised that way. But if you were to imagine yourself being…
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 06:22 AM
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Isn't the above Vilar quote basically saying that wives are no more than prostitutes? How can this be "well said"? This book was published in the early 1970s at a time when many women were getting that "liberal arts" degree to attract a higher educated man with no intention of actually working, but it applies less today. Today's women are advised to get an education so they will not be trapped in marriage because men can't be trusted. It is the AMALT theory. I find it hard to believe that a man …
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 04:53 AM
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https://www.biblegateway.com/resources/all-women-bible/Michal I don't think scripture interpretation by the layperson is necessarily a result of the church's beta-ness but a result of laziness. The attached link can easily be found. I could be wrong but it seems that David punished his wife by refusing marital relations and kept her as a symbolic wife with no heirs. The Bible says that she loved him at first but in this last episode she detested him. Her punishment was given by David, her line e…
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 03:21 AM
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"The next we hear of David with a woman is with Bathsheba, who becomes his wife and the mother of Solomon, his true heir (2 Samuel 11)." You might want to rework this. It reads like Bathsheba is the wife replacement reward. Not all of your readers will be aware that David cheated with Bathsheba and got her pregnant while her husband was away and then arranged the husband's murder.
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 02:46 AM
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"That's part of the foundation of my 107 post on why (most) women actually want to feel dread in a relationship." RC Please address the issue of the minority of women who only need very low level dread. I believe their personality traits, parental influence, and temperment will cause the opposite intended effect of dread. I believe the aforedescribed women are true submissives and may act adversely to dread. If I am correct this small group of women will experience dread as an issue of trust and…
/r/RPChristians20/10/17 04:51 AM
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"I'm not the type of guy to just lay low and hope the problem goes away, so I stood up and called him out on his crap. I did to him the exact same things he was doing to everyone else..." You basically mirrored his actions. "The response from the rest of my party was great: "That was totally awesome!" and "I wish I had the nerve to do that!" " So you took a fun night out and made it about you from her perspective.
/r/RPChristians19/10/17 06:09 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. I had an episode of Cops playing in my mind as I read your reply but thought there might have been some sarcasm. You can't tell because the written word does not convey the inflection in one's voice that would indicate sarcasm.
/r/RPChristians18/10/17 04:53 PM
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If your definition of wife is one who submits, you are probably never going to get submission from her while the police are being called in for your anger issues (unless you were sarcastically kidding). Anger and losing your crap says instability to a female. Unfortunately stories such as your anger issues serve as cautionary tales to many women. Women will perceive your anger as a tendency for abuse and advise other women against entering into a male led marriage. Stay away because he will turn…
/r/RPChristians17/10/17 07:00 PM
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Well if you fail to follow Scripture but think she should, how is that effective leadership on your part? Although two wrongs do not make a right so your wife needs to step up. (And I don't know if your wife is nit-picking your every fault to come to her conclusion. If so disregard the first sentence.) So where does this leave a Christian man? What realistically can this sub do?
/r/RPChristians17/10/17 02:25 AM
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If you have never brought up this verse about each partner's body belonging to the other, then how do you know she would react negatively? Maybe she is not aware that denying sex is not scriptural. I understand your point about submission and how that could be viewed objectively. But I wasn't talking about general submission but sexual rights, although the two are tied together.
/r/RPChristians16/10/17 03:29 PM
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What does she say when confronted with the verse in the NT about partners sharing their bodies for sexual activities unless mutually abstaining for prayer? What is her rationale for ignoring this teaching?
/r/RPChristians15/10/17 07:23 PM
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So, is your wife getting into heaven? This sounds very Muslim regarding the wife's behavior. Also, your last part is like saying a repentant murderer won't be allowed in heaven if his victim is also there. Gotta leave room for forgiveness.
/r/RPChristians15/10/17 03:16 PM
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If you think alcoholism is not a big deal then you really don't understand it. It may take longer to get you than heroin but it can and will destroy lives just the same. If you wanna go RP go. But when you start criticizing women for living their lives based on their feelz (and RP does this), re-read this post and let it sink in that you could not even handle one quasi-rejection without going all RP because of your feelz. So you are acting like the women you will soon be criticizing. So what mak…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/17 01:59 AM
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It's called being human. Do you really expect an alcoholic to make good decisions? It has nothing to do with gender. So you are hurt because she.chose a junkie over you. Sometimes like attract like. You could just as easily wonder why the boyfriend addict chose another addict as his GF. I fail to understand the gender implications here. Two addicts hooked up. She did you a favor by not showing interest in you. Stop being hurt and find a GF without this baggage.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/17 12:56 AM
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Take an opportunity to play wrestle with her dominating you on top. Get outside and exercise in the park. Play chase. Adult couples do not play enough. I only see teenagers engaging in this behavior in public. Have days in which the first priority is having fun. Re-tell the story of how you met to each other.
/r/RPChristians14/10/17 09:56 PM
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You are just pissed because this woman doesn't like you and you feel that the guy she chose is better looking than you. So what? She owes you nothing. Did you ever think that there is another woman out there looking at you but you refuse to acknowledge her because she is not hawt enough. It would be very easy for her to think AMALT. What you are experiencing is rejection. It happens to every single person who has entered the dating game. You just put yourself out there until you find the one who…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/17 09:47 PM
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You did a really good job of filtering RP through a Christian lens. Too many times people think of making disciples as just being the initial conversion stage with no guidance or follow-up to make sure the new believer is on solid footing to growth. I'm in a pessimistic mood today, but I don't see Christianity remaining the dominant western religion unless the church comes up with a serious mission plan besides getting people to repeat the Sinners Prayer. I am alluding to the rise of Islam with …
/r/RPChristians11/10/17 11:53 AM
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I'm not trying to judge you but am only commenting on the problems I see with RP and MRP. I actually don't have a problem with you. You seem to be a young single guy who dates multiple women. There is nothing wrong with that since you are not offering an exclusive relationship based on sexual fidelity. However, I don't consider you a RP guy because you still have a conscious when it comes to your dealings with women. Some RP guys have women placed on a subhuman level and I don't think that is yo…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/17 05:24 AM
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Your caption reads " Explain to me the problems of red pill." Your branch swinging mention in a previous comment is a part of red pill teachings and it was that idea I was countering, not you as an individual. While you never said men don't do bad things, RP and MRP certainly overlook this and focus on things women do wrong. I am answering your initial post. You brought up branch swinging and I countered with husbands who basically do the same thing but don't get called out for it like the women…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/17 04:52 AM
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http://scienceillustrated.com.au/blog/culture/the-origin-of-monogamy/ I don't think RP can totally say FI produced monogamy. That would be an over-simplistic view. The lower status male benefited and there is the possibility that monogamy prevented infanticide. I know RP loves the idea of harems, but let's remember harems and multiple wives were for the wealthy, not the common field hand of the day.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 09:23 PM
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Well you have seen branch swinging in females and I have seen men leave their wives and children in poverty for another woman and start a brand new family. Instead of calling out women for doing this and ignore the husbands who do the same, why not change RP to SP. Shitty People doing shitty things. Very appropriate and inclusive.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 09:00 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I always find the reference to biology interesting, especially when it comes to sex. I guess from my view of MRP and based on your response I would would reply: If evolutionary biology dictates that both sexes are prone to non-monogamous mating patterns then why single out the female. Just say it's no fault since it's in our (male and female) nature to cheat. The problem with this is that a large portion of people do not cheat. So biological urges can be overcome when combi…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 08:44 PM
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Gotta say I've got a problem with MRP too. Endorsing plate spinning while married but yet saying women are incapable of loving a man the way he wishes to be loved and being faithful (not branch swinging) is contradictory, especially when its (MRP) proponents engage in similar behavior but find no fault in themselves for doing what they accuse women of. MRP is supposed to be men helping men but does not call out its members who cheat with women who are married or in a LTR. That is just men helpin…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 06:23 PM
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Fight Club isn't all that secret. I found it pretty easy.
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 04:37 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covenant_marriage RedC, what do you think about covenant marriages?
/r/RPChristians03/10/17 09:47 PM
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Did you go through the RCIA classes?
/r/RPChristians03/10/17 04:05 PM
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Have you talked to this girl about marriage and what type of marriage you desire? How are you leading this girl? Is this girl compassionate, capable of showing empathy? Is she quick to judge or gossip excessively? What type of child was she? Does she live with her parents, and if so, why is she dating you against their wishes? You need to worry about the character of your female just as much as civil marriage downfalls.
/r/RPChristians02/10/17 11:40 PM
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I especially liked Dalrock's section called "Perspective".
/r/RPChristians25/09/17 02:34 PM
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Very late to comment on this but I've spent a good amount of time on the marriage sub and have finally figured out why I get so many down votes on this issue. Mistake 1: I thought SAHM was just new terminology for housewife/homemaker. Wrong. A SAHM is basically watching the kid without a strong focus on cleaning and cooking. The housewife used to function as SAHM and homemaker. Now the SAHM's duties have been slashed in half. The husband is now expected to take on the role of housewife and husba…
/r/RPChristians24/09/17 05:12 AM
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No don't give her the reigns. She has proven that she can't find the gas pedal on her own. However, I disagree with the man always having to initiate. If women never had a desire to have sex, then why do so many have dildos in that secret drawer? Some of the sexual desire is spontaneous and some is responsive. I have engaged in masterbation based on both. I also have engaged in sex with my husband based on both. This is an area where I don't think it is cut and dry.
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 10:38 PM
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Why would giving her a link and letting her choose a position be non-RP? If this leads to better sex I'd call it a win-win.
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 08:46 PM
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There's no shame in using some K-Y. In fact your wife may enjoy flavored lube. Lube works great for every sex act, hand jobs, oral, vag, and mandatory for anal. You can also purchase edible body creams for whole body enjoyment. There are flavored body gel markers that are fun. Throwing out ideas that your wife might enjoy and hopefully help her loosen up.
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 06:30 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cock_ring It is a device that is supposed to help keep an erection harder and longer. Oh, be careful with some of the sexual advice on MRP, and mine included. Always double check and take into consideration that what woman A responds to will not be the same as woman B. You posted on MRP a while back and made reference to pre-ejaculate as a man's form of lube and some of the guys had to "correct" you and say that it was not a form of male lubricant. It is. I even l…
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 05:38 PM
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There are many reasons for BDSM. Mine was just one personal theory. Personally, to me, secular BDSM is just dress up game play (not all of course). In the religious context of a religion that teaches female submission it can take on a spiritual/psychological (for lack of better terms) for both partners in addition to the game play.
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 01:28 PM
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Hmm. If your wife enjoys being restrained by you and being made immobile during missionary sex then she probably would not move in this scenario and starfish would be appropriate for this type of sex. The ropes may just be a personal preference. Please take this the correct way. In this scenario your wife may be acting out a mild bondage fantasy. Being immobile can also be an aspect of the rape fantasy. When I say correct way, realize that a rape fantasy is never about rape but the freedom from …
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 06:04 AM
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Yeah I didn't include that this is an add-on to your current sex which sounds starfish. The idea is that there will be eight weeks of weekly sessions that do not include sex. The overall purpose is for you to slowly desensitize her so she begins to view bodily secretions as natural and get her to use the proper names or desired alternatives for body parts. Once again, keep having sex but set aside training and teaching days. But, all the above only works if she is willing to accept your sexual a…
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 05:07 AM
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"if it frees them to experience sex without guilt, because a submissive surrenders her agency, and thus can't be 'blamed' for enjoying whatever is done to her?" That is very close to what I was trying to get across. The RP Christian husband whose wife has submitted can lead his wife and teach her. If she cannot open herself on her own, her husband can carefully guide and help her. But, this only works if she is actively submitting.
/r/RPChristians22/09/17 04:24 AM
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You are in a tough situation. I was under the impression that your wife actually submits to your authority (actual "walks the walk" and not just "talk the talk"). Unfortunately my ideas will probably only help if your wife is a submitted wife. But I'll give you an outline. And forgive me, but my view of a biblical Christian marriage is basically that of Dom/sub and the truest form resembles BDSM (bondage via the vows and marriage; dominance by husband being the head of wife; submission by wife w…
/r/RPChristians21/09/17 07:02 PM
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I'm following your post on MRP about spontaneous desire and responsive desire. I'm not allowed to post on MRP and I don't PM men so this is why my questions/comments are here. I do believe some of the awesome sex tales are exaggerated, similar to locker room talk. Before you basically tell your wife, after three months, that she either gets with the program or else, talk to her and tell her in clear terms that your are not happy with your sex life and that as her husband your are giving her the …
/r/RPChristians21/09/17 04:02 PM
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I see it more as a group of guys who happen to be Christian just hanging out. Sometimes "good Christian fellowship" is just another coded term (like "fun for the whole family") for a rated G atmosphere. For it to be a Christian fellowship, IMO there should be a goal in mind. This goal could be scripture studies or discussion of relative issues and how to address them as Christians. There should be a spiritual component.
/r/RPChristians20/09/17 05:03 PM
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The thing that gets me is the double standard. I am referring to Married Red Pill (MRP) which condemns women for hypergamy but green lights men cheating on their wives and spinning multiple plates. TRP goes on to say that men are the true romantics and more capable of love than a woman. I guess they redefined romance and marriage because these ideas don't mesh.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/17 01:16 AM
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We will have to agree to disagree on this. Still don't get it and I've read it twice.
/r/RedPillWives13/09/17 07:09 PM
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Can you explain to me what was so brilliant? I have missed something. He wanted a truck and wound up with a luxury car. I am very confused. Why is this being celebrated? Did he really want that car over the truck or did he just give in. Why the car and not a SUV-type compromise? I'm in the country so I understand the man-truck bond.
/r/RedPillWives12/09/17 11:58 PM
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Did you actually tell your husband you felt that he didn't respect you or did you just go by book advice?
/r/RPChristians12/09/17 11:20 PM
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So what is honor then? You do realize that heroes save men and boys too. Thinking of 9/11 here. War in the past was about the acquisition of lands and wealth. Wars had to be fought to stabilize territory. That is why Spain is no longer under Islamic control. Women were not behind this. Here in the US if the Revolutionary War was not fought we would be under the care of England. What about the Civil War when brother was pitted against brother? Women were not behind this either and they had no vot…
/r/RPChristians12/09/17 12:30 AM
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Bad analogy time here. If you were home and a burglar broke in what would you do? Sit back and do nothing (yeah take my property), help him because you have been enlisted (enslaved) or fight? The women and children are the collective property of the tribe and they are all located within the tribal land (house). The tribe will not willingly hand over their possessions (women and kids and livestock) unless they are forced to turn against their own tribe by being captives (enslaved) themselves. The…
/r/RPChristians11/09/17 11:39 PM
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You may want to invest in a good Bible commentary that explains the verses in their cultural context.
/r/RPChristians11/09/17 05:52 PM
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The verse you referenced has always puzzled me. But women obtain salvation outside of marriage as single, widowed and divorced. So marriage is not necessary for salvation. As far as marriage most people just mimic the words spoken at the marriage ceremony. But, what really happens when a Christian woman marries? Her and her husband make a vow before God to enter into a covenant with each other based upon the vision of Christ and His Church and exhange the terms of their marital agreement before …
/r/RPChristians11/09/17 05:32 PM
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That hadith was referring to the ingratitude of women towards their husbands. It is not one of my favorite hadiths but it makes a valid point. In Islam men are the maintainers of women and spend from their wealth for their upkeep.
/r/RPChristians11/09/17 05:06 PM
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I could be mistaken but there were different classes of slaves. Some slaves were fellow Israelites who sold themselves into slavery out of poverty, some were gifted slaves, and some were slaves from war bounty. If I had to guess the male children born of fellow Israeli slaves, and their wives, in captivity, would be circumcised. Some of the slaves were fellow brethren. I am unclear if the pagan male slaves were allowed to participate in Jewish religious life even if they pledged their allegiance…
/r/RPChristians11/09/17 03:50 PM
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Numbers 30: 2 -17 The above discusses that a father and husband can override a vow his daughter and wife made to God. So a woman in her father's or husband'a care cannot make a vow unless they approve. Children are in the custody and guardianship of their parents. The male had more freedom but still had to live within the confines of Jewish law. The female was, from my understanding, basically treated as a minor with understanding but never too far removed from a male guardian. About the mitzvah…
/r/RPChristians11/09/17 02:49 PM
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I think because men were the keepers of women. A woman did not have an independent status apart from her father's house and his tribe and religion. Then upon marriage she was transferred to her husband's house and incorporated into his tribe and religion, which is why interfaith marriages were discouraged because the female would sometimes influence the Israelite man away from God. Since a woman was not an independent entity apart from her father and then husband she could not fully make a coven…
/r/RPChristians11/09/17 12:48 PM
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https://bible.org/seriespage/14-morality-biblical-polygyny Interesting read.
/r/RPChristians07/09/17 04:49 AM
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If you don't mind me asking, have you forgiven your wife for sexually denying you? In all seriousness when a women denies a man does he suffer a sexual PTSD and every time he tries to forgive she does something that causes him to think "here we go again"?
/r/RPChristians07/09/17 04:46 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6wqy02/dreadgame_may_be_the_most_important_aspect_of_a/ What happened to all that dread eight days ago? You now have to "tell her" when to give you head.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:21 PM
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There are three "I"s in your response and one "me". Nowhere is there a mention of the One who keeps your from falling.
/r/RPChristians05/09/17 08:30 PM
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Asking a cute girl a question is not flirting. I'm talking about flirting, not being found interesting or talking to persons of the opposite sex. Flirting means many things, one of which is the verbal and/on non-verbal communication of sexual interest. Anytime a woman gives you her number, you either gave her signas of interest or she is just overt. "I know I'm not going to succumb to temptation." Pride comment before the fall.
/r/RPChristians05/09/17 07:55 PM
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So, it is okay as long as it causes only minor spiritual problems? Are you suggesting flirting is okay as long as you don't get a number? That's like offering a kid a cookie without expecting him to ever take a bite. A bite will be taken eventually.
/r/RPChristians05/09/17 07:15 PM
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http://www.gnc.com/protein/TheNoCowBarBoxes.html?cgid=protein Good vegetarian bar. 170 calories, 20g protein.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 04:02 PM
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I'm just basing my understanding on Jewish tradition regarding the story. Unless I misundersood, the seduction was for marriage to entice Boaz to be the redeemer and sex would be a given upon marriage (unlike today where some women do the reverse, sex prior than no sex after marriage). From her character I don't think she offered a glimpse and Boaz didn't take advantage because of his character. Boaz had been protecting her all along (providing her protection in the fields) but this was her bold…
/r/RPChristians28/08/17 08:11 PM
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Ruth and Boaz are my favorite couple in the Bible. I don't think Ruth seduced him in the traditional sense. She was forty and he was eighty (or eighty-ish). Boaz noticed her character and piety first. She was an anomaly. The talk of the town so to speak. I always thought she did seduce him and the scene implied sex but after studying I came to the conclusion that she was asking him to be her redeemer by asking him to cover her. Nonetheless, it was a bold move.
/r/RPChristians28/08/17 05:29 PM
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http://nypost.com/2017/07/21/parents-are-freaking-out-over-teen-vogues-anal-sex-guide/ You are going to have an uphill battle. Your daughter will more than likely lose her virginity to her first real boyfriend and not a random "Chad". So, watch out for that first serious crush. I posted the article above to show you how society in general is normalizing the over-sexuality of teens and pushing them to engage in adult acts well before they are mentally ready. While you and your wife may try to tal…
/r/RPChristians21/08/17 04:00 PM
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There is not too much time to discuss anything in the confessional. You are there to get absolution for the sins you confess. Depending on where you go, there may be a line for this sacrament. It is more like an in and out type of thing.
/r/RPChristians18/08/17 04:35 AM
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Yes there are hurdles. But nothing beats the sacrament of reconciliation (confession). My husband is not a fan of protestant churches, except for Episcopalian, so if we attend it is RC. He was baptized as an adult in the RC church but was raised pentecostal holiness.
/r/RPChristians18/08/17 03:11 AM
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http://www.catholicanswersconference.com/ https://www.crossroadsinitiative.com/media/articles/mary-as-the-new-eve-st-irenaeus/ I believe this will answer the New Eve concept from Roman Catholicism. And yes, I became catholic in the late 1990s. I've been all through Christianity. Southern Baptist raised, Jehovah's Witness attendee for one year, Wesleyan school for 7th grade, and non-Christian for most of my adult life. I provided this background so you wouldn't be confused when I reference other …
/r/RPChristians18/08/17 01:52 AM
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Screwing up sexual terminology by asking to be slapped when you really meant spanked. Oops! The two get very different results.
/r/RPChristians16/08/17 07:07 PM
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I also think the church missed a good opportunity to discuss Christian sexuality when Fifty Shades of Grey came out. I monitored some of the blogs etc and it was just painful how safe and PC most tried to keep it. And, IMO, Christian sexuality can incorporate BDSM safely. This movie could have prompted a good discussion about the married couple sex life and how the Dom/Sub roles can be a reflection of the husband'a leadership.
/r/RPChristians11/08/17 11:58 AM
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I don't think I will fit in there. I am really against pre-marital sex and it looks like they are going to include LTR issues. While I don't "preach" against pre-marital sex, I have a firm belief that any women attempting to find a RP male should consider a Christian man and stop engaging in pre-marital sex. I don't think that view will go over to well.
/r/RPChristians11/08/17 03:46 AM
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BPP, I was the one a few month's back who specifically asked you a question on MRP about the Bible's teaching regarding the spouses sharing their bodies for sex and the implications of that teaching as a prevention and protection against a DB in a Christian marriage. I got temporarily banned. So you PM'd and wanted to know what my question was. I didn't answer because I don't talk via private text with men so I didn't get back. I think I've learned about all I can regarding that issue. My whole …
/r/RPChristians10/08/17 06:26 PM
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I grew up with a very rigid father. It was his way or no way. No one, wife or kids, ever wanted to get on the wrong side of him. He had a temper and the least little thing would set him off. I viewed his approach towards his family as being too strong. He retained leadership and compliance but it was out of mild fear, not love and respect. Reading some MRP reminded me of him. He looked very alpha. Mom and me did the house chores, mom cooked and I helped with cleaning. I mentioned there being kid…
/r/RPChristians10/08/17 05:58 PM
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"They want low nCount women but they want to increase the nCount of every women they see/covet." It used to be called hypocrisy. But, what do I know because you know the deal...AWALT. Just for fun my count is 2. If only I would have known about hypergamy. I could have traded up and having multiple Chad's alpha me up sounds like so much fun. Gotta go..the hamster wheel is squeaking too much. Edit: Don't take offense to the above, I have a sarcastic sense of humor.
/r/RPChristians10/08/17 05:40 AM
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Asking the BF/husband what role he wanted in the relationship was geared towards the secular marriage (which I should have clarified). The secular marriages have multiple variations, open, poly, equal, and on and on. Yeah, I screwed up on the image of God sentence, thanks for the clarification. You gave good examples of submission. That was what I was looking for. I wanted to see examples in action and not just theory. Many men come to the RP due to lack of sex. How would you propose to solve th…
/r/RPChristians10/08/17 02:31 AM
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I would like to see what real life submission would look like from your perspective. If the man is king of his house, but rules with a soft touch how would other RP men view him within the church? In other words, a man is made in God's image and his ultimate authority lies in his being in God's image. If the husband has an artistic or poet style personality and chooses a softer approach to leadership in his marriage, will his decision be respected by his RP peers or will he be ostracized for not…
/r/RPChristians10/08/17 12:24 AM
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I've got to say that I don't go for the ripped look. If you desire the six-pack and all that is great. But plenty of women like the "dad bod." I know I do. I find this body to be very comforting for post-sex relaxation.
/r/RPChristians09/08/17 06:54 PM
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My reply just got lost in the nether. So here is my very short version. You are describing skinny-fat. Women starting in their 30s need HIIT and heavy weight lifting to retain muscle and I think it preserves bone density. You wife is really wasting her time by only doing cardio. If she is training for a race then bring in the cardio. But muscle tone is all about HIIT and weight lifting. I would look into a diet plan and book that contained a lower carb diet, HIIT and weight lifting. In my case, …
/r/RPChristians09/08/17 06:47 PM
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Just lost my whole detailed reply. But yes, I am a woman. Married for approximately twenty-nine years, since age eighteen. My marriage weight was 132. Presently I'm 137 (too heavy). I was up to 198 back in 2007. In 2007 I started exercising and became a cardio queen and used those 5 lb dumbells. Fast forward to 2011 and I weighed 135, but no muscle definition and really no strength. Got on to bodybuilding.com and read it was a myth that women who lift heavy will bulk up. So I went full force. I …
/r/RPChristians09/08/17 05:19 PM
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For cardio, incorporate a rower. Concept 2 indoor rower is really good. Google how to use it because most people mistakenly think the rower mainly works out the arms. It is a fully body workout with emphasis on the legs. Think about adding some eccentric weight exercises in your rotation. https://www.bodybuilding.com/ I used the above site to change up routines when they got a little stale. I always separate cardio day from weights day. Do the weights, then very light cardio afterwards if you re…
/r/RPChristians09/08/17 12:17 PM
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"AWALT bro." Nah, I'm a female but I've seen this behavior by males and females. There are some women who don't play games. Unfortunately, most people can't stop. Life is too short.
/r/RPChristians05/08/17 04:40 PM
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I'm sorry but it takes two to be actively used. Your friend, now that he is aware this girl is a user, must take responsibility for his willingness to be a passive, kind shoulder to lean on. This is not AWALT. This is your friend not flowing biblical principles for finding a mate. He was, like so many man and women, blinded by the outside packaging. I've seen this happen to both sexes so many times. There is the woman who always goes for the "bad boy" and the guy who aways goes for the hot damse…
/r/RPChristians05/08/17 01:10 PM
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https://www.babycenter.com/101_what-cervical-mucus-looks-like-through-your-cycle_10351429.bc This has pictures of various discharge stages .
/r/askMRP01/08/17 12:40 AM
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Yeah, the first paragraph has been reduced. Your original jumbled first opening paragraph was what prompted my deleted reply. Your original opening paragraph was longer and inadvertently implied that you had agreed to a longer timeframe but did not specify the months. In the body of the text "Wait until she's 6 months and the risk of SIDS goes down." has been added. My initial deleted reply stating that your child is a month old, was a guess I made from remembering info from your other posts or …
/r/RPChristians22/07/17 07:01 AM
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"ME: I can see now that you don't understand or agree [fogging]. But I don't need you to understand or agree [self-disclosure], I need you to accept that I am going to get the procedure done [broken record]. I then kissed her on the forehead, gave her an empathetic hug and left for work while she was still crying a little." IMO you should have placed empathy on helping her understand. Your child is only a month old, her horomones are still out of whack. Acknowledging to her that you are aware sh…
/r/RPChristians22/07/17 03:31 AM
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This is the type of information churches should be teaching. Very informative and you tied in the ideas beautifully.
/r/RPChristians14/07/17 07:08 PM
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