TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Slolum Archive

View 2 posts and 48 comments by Slolum on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
7

Slolum/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:04 PM
3

Slolum/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:41 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

This is just talking about romance without all the lies. There’s a female red pill too. You should leave us alone and go there.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:28 PM
28

You’re ready for the Man stage of Red Pill. That means finding a high quality LTR who will suck dick, clean house, is low maintenance, and is open to porn and threesomes. They’re rare, and you’ve gotta take the bad with the good —mine has random mood swing blow ups about once every 3 months—but you can find one. Just be careful. Girls will trick you into thinking they’re cool, and then flip. You need to find a good one not try to fix one. Look at her relationship with her father. If that’s good,…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:26 PM
1

I was being a bit over the top, but you can do it subtly. And you should. Her anti-slut instinct is one of her strongest, use it.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:36 AM
1

I don’t agree with number 2. I slut shame my LTR pretty regularly. It’s a strategy. She’s only allowed to be a slut with me and I want to drive that home.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:10 PM
3

I’m already there. Me and my girlfriend have an “on going consent” policy. Basically means I can do whatever I want to her at any time as long as she doesn’t use the safe word. That means I fuck her when she’s sleeping, slap her, choke her, all the normal stuff. But I also use it in a way I think it pretty novel. If she gets upset and starts yelling at me or whatever, I just stand up and grab her throat, strip her, and rape her. So far no fight has been serious enough for her to interrupt me wit…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 08:08 PM
1

“That’s a chance you’ll just have to take.”
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:49 PM
3

Stay the fuck away from her, obviously.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:52 PM
10

Fuck the sociopaths on here telling you that you did something wrong. You were being chivalrous and a good friend.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:01 PM
2

Oh ya definitely. If you’ve ever seen blue mountain state, the running backs GF in the first season is the perfect parody.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:14 AM
3

There are a lot of girls who think not giving it up early is the key to commitment. Sounds like she’s one of those.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:11 AM
1

Get your shit together and move out. Your post doesn’t mention how old you are, but a financially secure man is going to attract a lot more women than someone living with his parents.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:12 AM
9

Well, fuck, aren’t I an asshole...
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:52 PM
3

Start by working on your spelling. This post is so full of typos it’s painful.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:29 PM
3

You’re over valuing the pussy. Your first time doesn’t need to be with a super model or the love of your life. I would say fuck whatever the easiest target is that also meets your minimum standard. Find a fat chick with big tits to practice on or something. Go out with your friends, approach women and talk to them. You will almost definitely be rejected a few times. Depending on your personality and aptitude you might even get rejected a shit ton. So what. Who cares. If it takes you 1,000 approa…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 02:12 PM
2

And if you want to, you should. I don’t know when I said I wouldn’t. The point is your income is unrelated to how much it takes to “support” a child. The government shouldn’t be mandating a set percentage of your income. If it takes $1,500 to raise a kid that’s how much it take whether you make $20,000 a year or $1,000,000 a year. And you know the money above the line is going to fund the mom right? Not the kid. I’d prefer dads keep the money in their own pocket to spend on their kids as they wi…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:07 PM
13

25% of your income is insane and not fair at all. Child support should be based on the cost of living in an area and what it takes to raise a child. Say it’s $1500 per month. Both should pay half by law unless otherwise agreed to mutually. Any system that bases it on your income is horse shit. The fact that I make more money than I did last year doesn’t make it more expensive to pay for my kid than it was last year. In the US the only reason they do it this way is because state and local governm…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:42 PM
1

In my early days I fucked this up so bad with the hottest girl I’ve ever been in bed with. Moments earlier I had lifted her up against the wall in my kitchen, where we made out and felt each other up. I carried her to my bedroom, threw her on the bed, and we continued making out. Then she comes up for air to say “just so you know we’re not having sex” and fucking stupidly ”respected her wishes.”
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 04:21 PM
29

As someone currently going through a custody battle, I agree wholeheartedly.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 08:07 PM
1

We did some couples boxing tonight. I still can’t really run due to the knee surgery.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:18 AM
1

Based on the comments here I’m going to try to step up the dread game a little. Maybe light flirting with her friends that gives me plausible deniability. She is really eager to please me and responsive to my needs. If I don’t cum during sex one time (maybe I was sick, idk) she goes crazy asking me what new thing she can do to make me happy.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:33 PM
1

Ya that’s the thing, she does check all the other boxes. We’re already pretty kinky in bed. And idk if the jealously/dread angle will work either. We sometimes watch lesbian porn together while we fuck, so she’s comfortable with me checking out other women. My only other thought is to try to make some of our exercise a “fun couples activity” but I’ve always preferred working out alone.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:26 PM
1

Re: fixing the diet we had also been drinking a lot more lately. I got her to agree to ease back within some specific parameters.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:48 PM
1

Jordan Peterson is great. I’ll definitely use positive rewards when I can. But how do I get the rat to put its hand on the ladder to begin with?
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:47 PM
1

We do live together. I know it comes down to positive reinforcement of good behavior and withdrawing time, resources, and attention for bad behavior. Just looking for details and examples of when that’s worked for others.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:47 PM
3

This isn’t good advice and doesn’t answer the question. Not everyone on TRP is looking to bounce around constantly. Dating can be exhausting and a lot of work. It takes away from other aspects of your life you could be putting time and energy into. My current LTR is a high value woman. Attractive. Cleans. Cooks. Eager to please in bed. Respectful. Fun to be around. The weight gain is one negative aspect that I want to fix.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:45 PM
1

Before taking the pill I made a similar smaller mistake. I failed a Last Minute Resistance shit test. I took home a HB8 (fitness model and personal trainer). Had a great date. Got her back home. Had a hot make out session including her hanging on me and me pressing her against the wall. Sex seemed assured. I get her in my bed. Groping and making out continues on both sides. I slide my hand down her pants and she stops me, “I need to let you know I never have sex on the first date.” I responded t…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:29 PM
12

They’re trying to publicly assert themselves over you. You need to be confident and ignore or make a joke about it. Mock their attempts to emasculate you without caring too much.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:25 PM
1

Auto correct. Supposed to be post HOC rationalization.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:27 PM
1

This is where TRP commenters lose their minds. She's a victim. She didn't want it, she was scared to tell you because of exactly that type of reaction. Tell her if she wants to contact the cops you'll support her. Otherwise confront this asshole in private and tell him not to do it again.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:02 PM
2

She probably wanted to meet up that night. Maybe she was even at the bar looking for you? Hard to tell from your story. Just ignore her and see if she contacts you.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:51 PM
1

You should have punished him. Don't throw the first punch. Challenge him. Call him a pussy. Let him lose his cool, lose his frame. Then if he comes at you, smash him. If he bitches out you won either way.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:47 PM
1

I've done martial arts my whole life and fought amateur MMA a few times. I'm actually really fucking good. Someone I beat just got a UFC contract (though he lost his first fight). So I have options others may not. But ya, I refuse to be disrespected. If someone disrespects me, I challenge them, directly. 99% of males will bitch out at this point because they're actually scared of physical confrontation. If they don't, you'd better be physically able to back up your challenge. Never pick a fight …
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:45 PM
2

There's a concept in psychology called "post box rationalization." Basically the idea is we make decisions based on heuristics or instinct, and then later add rationality to explain our behavior and comfort our selves if needed. https://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=post+hoc+rationalization&hl=en&as_sdt=0&as_vis=1&oi=scholart&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiS24rDmsjWAhVLzFQKHcRmCqEQgQMIJDAA
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:36 PM
1

This account is for two things: 1) The red pill 2) porn Both are equally socially unacceptable.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:32 PM
1

Totally disagree. Being intelligent about these subjects is a status symbol. Just as important as having muscles or driving a nice car. I treat women like I'm way smarter than them (I am) and condescend like they're children. They love it.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:28 PM
3

Please ignore the above advice. Reading philosophy and learning about politics/economics is just as important and empowering as lifting. Not beta at all. My woman knows I know more than her about this shit. It elevates me above her and enables me to control her opinions (FRAME).
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:26 PM
-1

It's not being a white knight you stupid piece of shit. It's being Morpheus. Your beta ass that scared of competition that you don't want to free other minds? Or do you just enjoy being cucked when your bitches fuck other men so you can't understand why this guy deserves a way out?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:54 PM
13

Focus on self improvement. Lift weights. Pay attention to you style. Practice your conversation skills. But the single most important factor is DON'T give a fuck what they think about you. You see a hot bitch you wanna fuck, fine, go talk to her. But do it with the mindset that it doesn't matter what she thinks of you and it doesn't matter whether your successful. There are many other meat sacks to stick your dick in. The mindset is crucial to game. Don't let them believe you care about them, th…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:51 PM
-1

Absolutely tell him and fuck anyone here who says otherwise. Would you want him to tell you? Obviously (unless you're a blue pill beta mother fucker.) He at least deserves a chance to take the red pill. If he refuses to see reality then that's on him, but you've done your job.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:17 PM
2

If she offered to go with you in your car and you said no, that was 100% the mistake. She doesn't want to be a slut, but she wanted to get fucked. Going home with you in your car would have given her an "excuse" to stay at your place.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:11 PM
4

I'm torn on this. I definitely believe girls have wide range of body preferences and there are studies that show the male ideal of a "perfect male body" is significantly more muscular than the female ideal. I'm probably in the top 5-10% in terms of muscle and low body fat though and I've never personally had a girl reject me with the excuse that I'm too in shape. Most of the time you hear this it's from a relatively low SMV female who's in a LTR. My guess is they say they don't want a super musc…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 08:56 PM
2

I fucked up two excellent dates myself. You're missing something. Go back and think about what happened at the Arcade before you drove home. One of them was a HB8 that I'd been crushing since high school. I kept it cool most of the night. We ended up making out. On the way back to my place I drunkenly mentioned that I'd had a crush on her since high school. I placed too much value on her and she last minute decided it wasn't a good idea for us to drunkenly hook up. The next morning she decided t…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 08:50 PM
3

I personally enjoy LTRs. The hunt is definitely fun and I enjoyed it for a while, but it also takes time and eventually feels like work. I fucked 12 girls in a six month time period, 3 of them were steady over the same one month time period. One badly wanted to LTR me and was a steady plate, very hot and great in bed but kind of a bitch. She eventually "broke" when I showed up to a session with bite marks from another girl (who had a boyfriend.) It was stressful for me to keep them from each oth…
/r/askTRP21/09/17 07:23 PM
4

I mean your other option is to pull back and introduce dred. Make her feel jealous. If she confronts you about any of it deny, or better yet ignore. Don't engage in serious relationship talk, make her worry about you leaving. This will have one of two results. She'll start to increase SMV (work out, suck your dick more, cook for you) or she'll look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:36 PM
3

That seems ridiculously high to me and I think it'd be a problem way before then. I don't want a to LTR a slut.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:53 PM
5

You're saying this is what's expected? Or this is when it becomes a problem? This girl is 25 had one 2 year LTR. Lost virginity at 21. She says her number is 12.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:49 PM
18

It's a scarcity mindset. You're worried you won't find someone else to fuck. Keep the LTR going and try to find new prospects (Tinder, work, whatever.) Then either fuck someone else or break up with her when you're reasonably sure you'd be able to fuck someone else, depending on how you feel about cheating.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:37 PM
23

I can tell you my personal experience because I've seen most of these signs. I was in a LTR. We had a kid too young (accident). She put off finishing college to take care of the kid. I got a job and provided. Relationship went through ups and downs but always seemed solid to me (this was before I took the red pill.) She finishes college and at first is working part time. She keeps talking about marriage and how much she loved me and what a great dad I was. Then she gets her first full time job a…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:32 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter