Sloppyandsatisfying Archive

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1	Dating so-called spiritual women seems to always be a losing proposition. Unfortunately haveing gone through the same experience doesn't stop somebody from recreating the same experience again. I thought my ex-wife wouldn't abuse me because she had gone through that as a kid but that's exactly what she did to me. She did it almost exactly the same thing that her family did to her to me. People can change and course correct and stop generational trauma but they have to make the effort. Being aware of something isn't enough to make it change. It comes back to that accou…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/24 02:16 AM
3	I never want to do this again. I don't know if I'll ever marry again. Now that I see the downside, I don't know if I see a strong enough upside. My parents are not perfect, but are happily married for 50 years. I think what you're feeling is normal. You just want to be careful you don't become bitter. Being bitter won't help you. The truth can still be the truth without anger or bitterness. Bitterness will just rob you of your joy	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/24 02:43 AM