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Question for RedPillSlow-Narwhal486/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:50 AM
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No, but I’ll keep the magic wand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:34 AM
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The extravagant social media lifestyles are often lies. No use comparing yourself to some fabricated story. The ig models you’re referencing don’t show what they had to do to get those shopping sprees in Dubai. Yes, there are women that just wanna be alone. I’m 25 and most of the time, I don’t really want to date either. And I’m not sure what the age for the wall is this time, but women still get approached by plenty of attractive men when they’re 30+. It’s also fairly natural to stop comparing …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:16 AM
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Yeah I mean I don’t use dating apps for hookups, so it’s a little different because I always meet them in a public place the first few times
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:53 AM
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Not sure what app you’re talking about, but you sometimes can on instagram. If you have any DMs with them, or see another user @ them in comments on another post, click on that link to their profile, click on the three dots in the upper right hand corner of the screen, and press block. You could also type their @ in a comment (don’t post the comment) and when the link to their account appears, click on it. This will only work if you know their full username though And you shouldn’t be able to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:42 AM
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That sounds like a lot of work…probably not. If I was that unsure about whether or not someone was worth dating, I just wouldn’t date them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:28 AM
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I’ve got a lot more “filters” on just to weed out the weirdos and the liars when using dating apps. I’m just generally a lot more cautious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:21 AM
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100% sounds like a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:24 PM
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I like to take a break every once in a while. PPD isn’t going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:02 PM
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<image> May the lord protect you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:33 PM
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How dare you have such high standards 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:15 AM
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This might just be me, but I personally wouldn’t reveal details about something as personal as details about why I’m in therapy to people from dating apps that I haven’t met in person. That’s something I’d wait to reveal after I’ve gone on several dates with someone, and have gotten to know someone better. Assuming you have done work to change and no longer take your stress out on others, I think it would be wise to get to know a woman more first (so she has a chance to see that you have strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:03 PM
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Some women do get like that when they’re in love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:15 PM
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Go to a good surgeon, get a natural look, and no one will know you got work done. It doesn’t have to be “socially acceptable,” just do it if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:09 PM
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Aw man I thought this was gonna be a short story…or at least a ~star wars~ I mean gender wars intro. The title is deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:59 PM
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— 1 ✅ Em dashes — 2 ✅ Obscure emojis 🕷️🕯️🍷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:59 AM
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I mean…Bonnie Blue is pretty famous even outside of her subscribers. Pretty sure she set a world record
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:05 AM
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But then when you get sweaty, you sweat more and get stinkier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:16 AM
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I wouldn’t marry someone I didn’t trust, so I wouldn’t care. People are still allowed to have friends when they’re married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:20 PM
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Less stinky too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:17 PM
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You clearly need more cats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:57 AM
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3- Alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:51 AM
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Sorry you waited too long. Now it’s 300
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:20 PM
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Ooooh you just hit the wallllll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:00 AM
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No five minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:57 AM
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Tall =/= big dick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:50 AM
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How would that automatically change your personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:47 AM
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They’ll have to do it until they’re successful. And realistically, most women aren’t very successful on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:46 AM
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Ok done where’s my ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:45 AM
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She could just have been single for most of her life. Maybe she just wanted casual relationships, but now wants something more serious. Or maybe she had a few open relationships during that time, and wants something monogamous now. Or maybe she’s had a few monogamous relationships, but has a lot of casual sex when single
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:13 PM
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“N count is just a number” 😂 But that makes sense. I probably should’ve mentioned that the woman with the high n count has no STIs since that would immediately rule her out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:33 PM
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Assume she wasn’t a sex worker. Since both of them would have personalities compatible with yours, they also probably wouldn’t have severe mental health problems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:19 PM
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lol you didn’t get the sarcasm, huh? And no, I’m not going to take accountability for the lies that men tell. I’ll take accountability for believing them- which I used to do when I was younger. Now I don’t. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:16 PM
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They also sext men for money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:11 PM
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If you had to choose, would you rather marry a virgin only fans model, marry a woman with a body count of 200, or die a virgin? What’s the reasoning behind your choice? Assume that both women are equally attractive to you, and both have compatible personalities. Assume that these two women would be your only opportunity to have a long term relationship in your lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:22 AM
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Everyone has a right to their own (legal) preferences. I typically don’t have an opinion about that unless I believe their preferences are unethical. I don’t think preferring promiscuous women is unethical. While I do have my qualms with the porn industry, I don’t think a romantic attraction to porn stars is unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:11 AM
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Ew no Mostly friends of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:17 AM
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Well thank you for the dating advice, that’s so nice. But don’t worry about me! I haven’t fallen for the lying bs in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:10 AM
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Then they should stop trying to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:35 PM
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Did it not show his age on his profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:23 PM
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I was young and naive once, and actually believed men when they said they were looking for something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:21 PM
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I wanted to know what the red pill was, then I realized how entertaining this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:18 PM
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Mother hen?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:55 AM
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Yeah. If I’m with one of my friends, I’m not gonna leave them to go off and get a drink with a guy. He’ll either buy us all drinks, or leave. Usually when that happens, the guy will come up and compliment one of us, then talk to both of us for a little, get us drinks, get the number, and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:23 AM
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Secret wife and/or kids, possibly paranoid- especially if they only use anonymous sites, potentially a mild to moderate superiority complex, secretive. Of course, these won’t apply to everyone who doesn’t have a digital footprint, but I’d look for signs of those traits if I was dating someone with no digital footprint
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:10 AM
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Yeah! I just feel like having something for self defense offers peace of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:48 PM
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That’s kinda wild. Is there just a really low crime rate? At the very least, you could get one of those personal safety alarms, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:58 PM
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From my understanding, red pill women typically try to avoid red pill men. They tend to put an emphasis on vetting well- weeding out the type of men who would leave them for a younger woman if given the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:06 PM
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Even most fathers think like you, not all do. These laws don’t exist for the men that love their kids and are willing to work hard to support them. They exist for the men who are intentionally withholding support for their child, and don’t give a fuck about their child’s wellbeing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:53 AM
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Done
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:47 AM
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Lmao I would roast the shit outta my brother if I ever heard that word come out of his mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:28 AM
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That explains so much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:25 AM
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Do any of you ever use words like “hypergamy” or “(insert word here)maxxing” outside of the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:59 AM
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What???? What do people usually carry for self defense then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:36 AM
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Oh they may not be legal in your country then…pepper spray?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:13 AM
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Huh that actually sounds pretty healthy. I mean women have all women retreats. It makes sense for men to have that too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:11 AM
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Decent strategy, but still, you’d be surprised by how many non-sociopaths can lie effortlessly. All they need to do is find a way to rationalize their lie- which isn’t too difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:01 AM
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Fr because I’m still not fully deprogrammed from my “premarital sex = eternal damnation” brainwashing…and it’s been almost 7 years since I lost my virginity 💀 It takes a lot of work to have a healthy view of sex after believing that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:58 AM
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Get a stun gun. That always makes me feel better if I start to get anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:52 AM
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I was gonna say… Have you seen the movie Hitch? You sound like that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:49 AM
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Do you…sell online courses?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:44 AM
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I mean chocolate is good, but I wouldn’t rate it above good sex. I don’t know your wife, but that sounds like the kind of comment someone might make if they’re trying to be passive aggressive (unless it was just a joke). Is she upset with you about something? I suppose she could also just have a low sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:57 PM
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Do you think if you eventually had your fun, and then decided to get into a relationship, would you still care about n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:09 PM
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Wow I’m sorry you experienced that. I hope your brother is okay. I suppose a lot of my struggles also involve mostly constant mental health issues, so I understand the difficulty of having something wear you down each day. I still just don’t personally view romantic loneliness as that distressing. I think if a person has no emotionally intimate friendships, then being single can feel harder though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:07 PM
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That would be the greatest tragedy of all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:55 PM
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Then why do you care if someone has low n count? Is the issue just that it would make you insecure to know that your partner has slept with a lot of other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:54 PM
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Which one of those options sounds worse for you, just out of curiosity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:50 PM
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Genuine question for those that care about n count in a potential partner: do you ever worry that someone could easily lie about their n count? If you’re dating someone completely outside of your social circle, how could you know if the person’s telling the truth? What’s the point in asking if someone could easily lie, and you’d have no idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:28 AM
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Well I appreciate you not calling me a liar. I would’ve expected some to question how long I’ve been single, or demand to know the number of dates I’ve been on- to give a couple of examples. I mean I was technically a virgin in my last relationship, so I guess I kind of relate in that regard? There have also been a few periods of time where I was single, and had no platonic relationships…that level of loneliness is really tough, and I do feel for the men who are experiencing that kind of isolati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:45 AM
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How many relationships did you have, are you currently in a relationship, what was the longest time you were single in adulthood, at what age did you have your first kiss? Oh, and are you asexual or something along those lines? 2, no, 6.5 years, 16, definitely not…I think being single occasionally sucks, but is mostly not a big deal. In fact, I enjoy most aspects of it. Now those who disagree with me would probably have a list of follow-up questions that they’d want me to answer until I say some…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:03 PM
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Yeah whenever I don’t validate someone’s beliefs, it’s “you’re full of shit” or “virtue signaling” or “LIAR”…whatever other bs they can come up with to make themselves feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:48 PM
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Oh wow I forgot about the friends who were just tryna hit category. My list just doubled 🤦🏽‍♀️ Edit: Read the rest of the story…I’m so sorry you went through that. His behavior is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:11 PM
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Personally, I label the guys that used me as the ones that lie about their intent when dating. I’ve had men take me out on dates, act interested, say they were interested in something serious, and then go back on it and say they don’t want anything serious once I have the “define the relationship” convo with them. Had one guy even say “actually, we’re just friends 😂 If we’re only talking about committed relationships, I’d say a man is using me if he expects some kind of behavior or a certain amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:58 PM
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I don’t think they’d have to be the best, but if I don’t enjoy the sex, it’s not gonna work for me. I think if a guy was perfect in all aspects except for sexual compatibility, I’d see if he’s willing to accept feedback. If he’s open to trying new things, I’d probably give it a shot. Otherwise, it’s a no for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:08 PM
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I knew a guy that did it lmao If he’s really hot and doesn’t gaf about loyalty, it’s definitely possible. Never knew a woman that did it, but I’m sure it’s equally likely if she’s hot and wants to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:45 PM
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You should probably still take a test
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:39 PM
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🤰🏽?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:58 PM
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Fr I love being mean to men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:57 PM
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Right…I’m full of shit because I don’t validate your beliefs. Makes perfect sense I’ll make the first move with men that I already know as a person- not a random hot man. A super attractive guy could easily be an insufferable human being. Why would I want some rando who I don’t even know to ask me out just because they’re hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:55 PM
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How so? It’s not uncommon to value personality as well as looks, and it’s impossible to know someone’s personality by just looking at them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:01 PM
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That is so messy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:17 AM
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Like…first cousins??? 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:59 AM
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I’ve literally never seen a random man and thought “wow, I wish I could go on a date with him.” Looks alone have never been enough to make me want to go out with someone. Approaching isn’t empowering if I don’t want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:10 AM
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Wow where were you when I was an anxious, insecure lil 15 year old 😂 Beautifully said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:30 AM
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It’s okay just say the word patriarchy and they’ll throw a fit with their “logical brains”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:15 AM
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the rizz
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:00 AM
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Freaks recognize fellow freaks. Don’t worry, the sex gods are doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:24 AM
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I’ve never been told I needed to lower my standards…if we’re talking about general advice about men specifically, I actually tend to value advice from men more. I’ve never had some random man give me advice about my dating life. If they did, I probably wouldn’t listen. I only listen to people I’m close to- who I know have my best interest at heart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:22 AM
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Do you actually improve your game by going on the dates? I mean, I can’t imagine that boosts your confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:19 AM
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I’m sure, but doesn’t it feel worse to have someone disappointed by your height after meeting in person? Like if that happens every time, wouldn’t it just feel less shitty to not experience that in-person rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:18 PM
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If you’re using dating apps, it seems like you should probably just put your height on your profile. I think most apps have that now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:04 PM
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Kind of? Dating is emotionally tiring for me (dating apps), so I only really actively peruse it in short bursts. I guess my desire for a relationship is much smaller than my desire to avoid annoying bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:00 PM
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No. All victims of DV and human trafficking should have access to care In fact, given that most DV is reciprocal and in the cases when it's uni-directional it is women who are the majority of perpetrators, the deal should also include a 50% explicit and permanent reduction of funding for female domestic violence victims. Do you have any evidence of any of these claims? It’s honestly quite appalling that you really think any victim should receive less access to care just because they’re women. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:08 PM
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You think an average woman has more options than a 10/10 woman? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:21 AM
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I’ve only ever seen it happen in comment sections. I’d assume the types of men that insult beautiful women would be too cowardly to say it to a woman’s face
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:18 AM
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The same reason insecure women sometimes try to tear down other women: Jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:12 AM
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I wouldn’t necessarily say an average girl has more options, but a 10 gets hit on incessantly. The attention becomes pretty meaningless when it’s constant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:07 AM
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I vote for a rent-a-sex-bot program. Seems like the most diplomatic solution here And 15% of the profit can go towards victims of domestic violence, or trafficking victims or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:30 AM
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Wait it’s not normal to have revenge lists?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:23 AM
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Yeah the old guys hitting on me started at 13 for me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:45 AM
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Avoidance…that would eliminate 15 other bad habits at once
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:38 AM
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This. It’s not hard to tell when a man is just projecting his fantasies onto a woman. All this typically does is push the women who are actually interested in genuine connections away because they aren’t being seen as a whole person, and attract the women who just want attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:35 PM
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I clearly stated that the patriarchy is oppressive to men. Do you not understand the ways in which the patriarchy oppresses men? Would you like me to explain that? I’m not going to argue with you about “who is more oppressed”- that would be a fruitless endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:25 AM
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Yeah I only really saw those types of men in my cs classes. Even then, that number got way smaller in my upper level cs classes. I suppose some of the ones who struggled just learned some social skills and general hygiene eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:57 AM
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“Can you explain how you use your crypto card to buy things? I just don’t get it…like use this purse as an example! How would you buy this bag with a crypto card???”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:49 AM
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Op argued that it’s either “women are wearing makeup for themselves,” or “women are wearing makeup to align with beauty standards perpetuated by the patriarchy (aka men).” I explained in my comment how women can both wear makeup for themselves, and to align with socially dictated beauty standards: People enjoy things while still being shaped by cultural norms- men included. A guy can lift weights for himself and still be influenced by male beauty standards. A woman can like makeup and still reco…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:38 AM
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I mean yes, the patriarchy is very oppressive to men as well. It only really benefits a small group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:32 AM
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Who knew my quarter life crisis buy would just be 10 cheap, young, attractive pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:47 AM
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You’re treating “doing something for yourself” and “being influenced by a system” like they can’t happen at the same time…they can. People enjoy things while still being shaped by cultural norms- men included. A guy can lift weights for himself and still be influenced by male beauty standards. A woman can like makeup and still recognize that beauty standards, reinforced by both men and women, exist. That isn’t hypocrisy…it’s just how social influence works. Patriarchy wasn’t created by “all men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:19 AM
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Calling age gap relationships gross isn’t moralizing it…it’s saying the idea of an age gap relationship is repulsive to think about- a sentiment which many young women share.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:38 PM
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I don’t see an issue here…I love a good spa day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:45 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:39 PM
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Awww he looks like mine! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:42 PM
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Veiny dick arms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:01 AM
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Right? C- rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:41 PM
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Thank you, thank you…Buy my online courses @ChadasaurusSexFucksAndYouCanToo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:36 PM
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Absolutely not. I don’t even know if I want kids in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:55 AM
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You don’t owe anyone a chance. If you see a red flag and don’t wanna waste your time, then don’t. There’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:18 AM
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I’d just need 1 post (not a story, but an actual post). Beyond that, I don’t care. I don’t post much on social media either. I think if they were one of those people that really didn’t use social media at all, I’d be okay with not being posted. I’d still do it though. It would probably lessen the number of dms or texts I get from dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:03 AM
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I’ve never gone out with anyone that approached me on the street…or anywhere outside of a bar. A lot of the time it’s a creepy old guy, or a creepy young guy. Sometimes the guys aren’t creeps, but usually it’s not attractive men my age. I did go out a few times with guys who approached me at bars, but that never really ended too well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:38 AM
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You get a participation trophy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:13 AM
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If witnessing a Chad exist was the extent of my PTSD, I’d be thriving
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:21 AM
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You don’t have to have a roster…idk where you got the gay loser idea from, but there’s really nothing wrong with dating one person at a time if that’s what you prefer And since you’re looking for something serious, I don’t see why you’d have to put on a fuckboy front. I can imagine that would actually be a turnoff to women who are looking for something serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:40 PM
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Men caring about body count (outside of religious reasons). I’ve never encountered or heard of a non-religious man (in real life) who cared about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:22 PM
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For real…my dad’s mom still blamed my mom when he doesn’t call her. Could be a cultural issue, but I get what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:13 PM
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WIFEY That sounds delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:53 AM
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❄️?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:51 AM
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But can you come up with 4 S’s to describe the average PPD woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:56 AM
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Average PPD Man: Single, sexless, selective statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:13 PM
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Debit card?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:07 PM
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Purposeless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:06 PM
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Does he think 50/50 is gonna get him a virgin trad wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:11 AM
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It’s only 10% cashmere…hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:47 PM
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Should I start swiping right on “nice guys” just to roast them and call them an incel? Should I give them your info too so you can draft them for the gender war?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:36 PM
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Ah I already had my crisis a year and a half ago…I guess it’s time for another crash out 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:23 PM
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Nope I’ll take the cats and an overpriced handbag for the quarter life crisis. Too many fish in the sea for me to ever justify going back to an ex But postponing the wall…now there’s an idea. How do I do that? I thought I was gonna magically turn into a granny at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:29 PM
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Guys I met? I care about how much attention a random guy gets from women. If I was dating them, I’d only care if he was flirting with other women. If I was in a relationship with him, it wouldn’t matter because I only get into relationships with people I trust
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:44 AM
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I think men are more frequently violent than women are. But if violence was taken out of the equation, I’d say men and women are equally unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:38 AM
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I missed your wholesome cat content
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:31 AM
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Thank you 🥹 cat gifs are the only thing that soothe the impending loneliness of the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:06 AM
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Idk what to do guys…I’m gonna hit the wall and have my quarter life crisis in 1 month 😭 Does anyone know where to adopt a family of 8 cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:53 AM
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So you have no evidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:56 AM
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Do you have a study to support your first point? It is intense…which is why it doesn’t happen frequently for most women. Some may not enjoy the intensity, some do. Doesn’t mean it’s impossible You haven’t provided any evidence that the ability to have multiple, consecutive orgasms in a shorter amount of time indicates “less intense” orgasms. And I haven’t claimed that the female orgasm is more intense…I said it lasts longer, on average, than the male orgasm Why is it so important to women to cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:21 AM
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It kind of builds off of nihilism. Your mind won’t necessarily be changed, it just offers a different, and less depressing, perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:06 AM
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You sound like a nihilist, so I was just gonna recommend that you try reading some Camus. That helped me get out of the “everything is meaningless and dull” nihilistic depression spiral
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:57 AM
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“Feeling good” isn’t an orgasm. I’ve never met a woman who’s had an orgasm, and doesn’t know what it feels like…perhaps there are some who don’t know, but it’s definitely not a common issue. And 45 seconds isn’t mild for women… I honestly have no idea where you’re getting your information from, but just because men have to biologically stop having sex for several minutes after an orgasm, doesn’t mean the male orgasm is “more intense” than the female orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:53 AM
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Do you enjoy reading philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 AM
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Yes…there’s a pretty obvious answer to the “why”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 AM
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She probably just didn’t come…women can have 45 sec+ orgasms. From my understanding, that’s not really a thing for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:33 AM
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Mmmm that’s how yk it was a good session
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:29 AM
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Do you like philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:20 AM
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Do you really expect a child to call out their parents’ shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:38 AM
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Oooh girl this is so toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:07 PM
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Ummm it’s so sexist to call yourself a man-whore…just call yourself a whore. Own your slut life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:00 PM
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Average PPD man <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:58 AM
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Skinny Skinny A working one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:54 AM
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I feel like once I discovered the freak in me, I learned how to spot the freak in others. Idk it’s kinda like gaydar…freakdar
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:19 AM
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Those are gorgeous 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:15 PM
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Me slapping the delulu outta you bc garlic bread don’t want you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:08 PM
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Rockophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:07 PM
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If we’re counting pretty privilege as a part of this then: -free stuff without really trying -assistance (men doing things to help me in some way) -compliments and attention (I don’t typically enjoy this, but I suppose it’s considered a privilege to some) -people try to do things to get my attention (usually a curse, sometimes nice) -people are extra impressed when I do something mildly intelligent -men will do a lotta bs if they think they have a shot at sleeping with me -it doesn’t really matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:47 AM
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Me stopid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:22 AM
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That’s an incredibly transactional view of relationships. Normal healthy relationships aren’t quite so transactional. This hypothetical guy in a relationship with a single mother isn’t doing her any favors by being with her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:21 AM
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Fuck the 2 party system
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:19 AM
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Most men who have shot their shot with me only wanted sex (yes, that includes the church boys too). When a guy approaches me, I tend to assume sex is the goal because that’s usually the case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:50 AM
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I don’t see how men suffer from only being valued for their appearance more than women lol Anyway, to answer your question, if she doesn’t really like talking to you, or doesn’t really ask you about yourself, she’s probably just attracted to your appearance. If she acts like you’re perfect super early on in the relationship (before she really knows anything about you) she may be projecting her fantasies onto you because she’s only attracted to your appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:49 PM
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Your skin won’t be the defining factor that’ll determine whether women do or don’t date you. There are plenty of women who like dark skinned men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:01 PM
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Don’t bleach your skin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:20 PM
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Awww poor baby 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:17 PM
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not wanting to date a single mother. I wouldn’t date a single father either. I also think it’s healthy to have hobbies and interests outside of your partner. I wouldn’t really want to date someone that had no interests outside of spending time with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:16 PM
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I wouldn’t have an issue with it as long as they keep themselves busy with hobbies or other projects. They’d need to be passionate about something- it doesn’t necessarily have to be their job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:13 PM
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No. I’m not asexual and also not down for open relationships, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:27 PM
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I really hate dating, and my desire for a relationship usually doesn’t outweigh my hatred of dating. I’ll date for a little bit, and when something doesn’t work out, I’ll use it as an excuse to stop for a while. None of my preferences have been unreasonable or rare, I think I just have really bad trust issues, and a low desire for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:26 PM
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Pity sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:09 PM
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Just added “Looking for a narwhal” to my bio because unicorn has already been claimed 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:44 PM
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🚨LOGIC ALERT🚨 Dispatching the female anti-logic squad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:41 PM
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Networking at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:11 PM
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That’s literally deviant behavior 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:15 PM
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Laugh at the sign, and keep walking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:52 AM
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Who told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:02 AM
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I get so irritated when people don’t hold doors open for others. It’s so easy to do, and honestly just a matter of basic human decency
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:56 AM
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I tend to use the apps for a few days to 1 week when I just have the urge to date again, then I get overwhelmed and delete them. I’ve found that being very selective with who I swipe right on delays when I start feeling overwhelmed. I don’t particularly enjoy the process of swiping and texting in the first place, and then dealing with the games is even more annoying. I’m also not very good at texting multiple guys at once, so it inevitably gets overwhelming- especially when some of the guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:44 AM
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Totally dreamed of my wedding with Prince Charming “alpha criminal,” who just go outta prison, as a kid 🥲 How did you know???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:06 AM
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Hmmm I bet it’s a bunch of TikToks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:12 PM
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Came here to say this 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:35 AM
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If he ever asks you out, you could just say you don’t want to date right now. It’s like the slightly more subtle version of “It’s not you, it’s me” That should preserve his ego enough that he won’t cause problems for you at work In the meantime though, I wouldn’t talk to him outside of work related topics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:19 PM
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I don’t care. As long as he’s not a homophobe…but there’s nothing inherently wrong with only being attracted to cis women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:15 PM
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I’d look at the lambo and maybe want the lambo- not the driver of it 😂 There will always be richer guys. If I’m maintaining the lifestyle I currently have, or improving it, I wouldn’t care about being with someone more wealthy just because wealthier men exist. Also, the rich guys I’ve dated or that have dated my friends have been pretty controlling. I personally can’t tolerate relationships with controlling men…I don’t care how many lambos they have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:17 PM
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Girl I’m in cs too…it was a joke 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:12 PM
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Damn no one got the sarcasm huh Yeah I do know that, that’s why I made the joke 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:09 PM
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No, but women don’t think logically enough for coding… Edit: It’s a joke guys…I am also a woman who codes 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:58 AM
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I’ve found that the hot and cold, and dread bs works on men as much as it does women. It’s just a certain kind of man/woman…typically the anxious ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:46 AM
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But it’s just a fantasy. Most single people have fantasies of what their ideal partner is, and many people end up projecting that fantasy onto someone. If the relationship ends before that person realizes they were just projecting their fantasy, they end up feeling like their “dream partner” left them…keyword here is “dream” I think once a person can separate that fantasy from the past memory, they may realize they were just grieving a potential relationship that would likely never have happened…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:56 AM
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I think people sometimes get attached to the fantasy of what could have been. If they eventually realize it was just a fantasy of an uncertain future, they get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:22 AM
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The pettiness is real 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:42 PM
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The government isn’t gonna pay for men to sext a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:12 AM
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I thought the “male loneliness epidemic” had to do with the higher rates of addiction and suicide among men. PPD taught me that while that might be the root issue for some, there are men who see the male loneliness epidemic as an issue of women having standards that are too high because there are too many single and virgin men. I also saw how significantly social media can impact a person’s perception of others and the world as a whole. I did learn how to better spot a red pill dude and their ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:35 AM
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Of course that’s fine too. Men and women both have the right to reject whoever they want for whatever reason they want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:06 AM
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I’m sure they put those eyes to good use by reading reputable studies about female nature! Extra points if they use their ears to listen to podcasts about such a topic too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:02 AM
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Ooh did Tinder come out with a study for that now? I heard they’re basically the most reputable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:23 AM
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Weird. I thought it was the top 20% of men…did OkCupid come out with a new “study”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:17 AM
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Oooh beautiful! If you’ve got warm undertones, copper shades and rose gold would look stunning. I like the urban decay naked heat palette for copper looks, and naked 3 for rose gold. If you’ve got cool undertones, then cool browns, mauve, and pink would all look beautiful, you’d just need to stick to cool undertones in any of those shades. You could also try a silvery pink metallic look if you’ve got cool undertones (and want something fun and sparkly)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:21 AM
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Chadasaurus doesn’t joke
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:02 AM
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What’s your eye color?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:59 AM
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Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:53 AM
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That’s Chadasaurus Sex LXIX to you. Show some respect when you address the great lineage of Chadasaurus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:52 AM
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I’m talking about guys who are actually nice, not the perpetually sulking bitter ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:41 AM
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So…forgettable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:28 AM
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Inconvenience? Are you fucking serious? How out of touch with reality are you? Rape isn’t an inconvenience…it’s devastating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:11 AM
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Huh yeah I guess sometimes being slightly tolerable gets you a little something, but I wouldn’t be out here aiming for mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:39 AM
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We’re not shielded from rape. It harms us all in different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:36 AM
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Nice guys don't finish last, they finish twice. Sometimes thrice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:46 AM
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Don't crease them 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:43 AM
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No, it doesn't benefit "females," or women, as we often like to be called. It harms everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:34 AM
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Well, I am a feminist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:37 PM
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What you described doesn’t seem consistent with the red pill views I’ve seen on here and social media. Do you believe in all the female nature things red pill preaches? If so, what exactly do you believe about female nature? There’s nothing wrong with having preferences and engaging in respectful casual sex. That doesn’t make you any less of a feminist or ally in my opinion. Based purely on what you described, you may be a feminist, but I’d need more information about your beliefs about female n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:15 PM
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I had commented on it earlier, and when I click on my comment, it takes me to the original post with a message saying: "Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:46 AM
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I think that's definitely sexual assault, and I'm sorry you had to experience that. I also think going to the cops (like someone mentioned earlier) could be helpful protection for you if you're comfortable doing that, this coworker sounds like a predator. If you're struggling to process what happened, it might help to talk to a therapist about it. In my experience, therapists who have some kind of specialization in trauma tend to be well equipped to process things like sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:42 AM
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Yeah I know. I was saying this example I gave is pretty much sugar babying: legitimately broke women who don't want to lift a finger are demanding a millionaire man and a marriage where there's no equal partnership, and she just sits around and drinks wine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:08 AM
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I was creeped on by a lot of older men from as young as 13, and I know this is a pretty common experience for a lot of girls. When I turned 18, it got worse. There'd be this weird fixation on my age, almost like this was as young as they could go legally, but if they could, they'd go younger. It was pervy and gross, and I hated having men, that were literally closer in age to my father than me, trying to sleep with me. So yeah, I'm going to judge the hell out of men who do that because they made…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:02 AM
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Yeah I mean I think everyone should set whatever standards they want to set, and just accept the consequences if they don't get what they want. It's really none of my business. I think some of them have this weird narrative in their head that legitimately broke women who don't want to lift a finger are demanding a millionaire man and a marriage where there's no equal partnership, and she just sits around and drinks wine. The reality is...most women aren't sugar babies like that. I think they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:34 AM
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It definitely does, idk I'd always manage to find some crackhead way to rationalize it in the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:28 AM
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I'm not gonna lie, I used to just have "little" pick me ups throughout the day, and delay the comedown to Tuesday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:18 AM
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Lol I do like snow days in both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:59 AM
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Yeahhh I try not to think about the crash outs I've had after 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:58 AM
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No...I definitely never said or implied that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:55 AM
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<image> This gender war shit is dumb. No it's not. It's very real, as you can see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:23 AM
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I knew about the ketamine, but I didn't know about the rest...that would make sense though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:18 AM
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⛷️ I've always loved snow days ⛷️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:15 AM
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Yeah that's always been something I don't understand. Like I can see why some men would be frustrated by a broke woman demanding a rich guy, but how is it unreasonable to want someone to match our lifestyle? I would never want to lower my standard of living and quality of life just to date someone who "might have potential."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:12 AM
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I second saying the offensive thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:02 AM
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I love the drama 🤣 I feel like I'm watching mean girls politician edition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:00 AM
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I think it would definitely be cheating. Though those aren't "real" relationships, I think people can absolutely form strong enough attachments to ai girlfriends that it feels real to the person- especially if there's sexting or actual sex with a robot (though I'm not sure an ai girlfriend in a robot body exists now). Ultimately, people define cheating in different ways, so it would be dependent on the couple. I would consider it cheating though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:32 PM
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My passion is pursuing various passions and then finding new passions and cycling through them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:59 PM
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I understand you may not have intended to invalidate the experience of women with ADHD, but brushing it off by saying most girls can cope with it and still actually learn is kind of invalidating the experiences of the many girls who seriously struggle and don't learn in school. Women can absolutely still be hyperactive as well. There are some girls who can manage to get by in school if they're not hyperactive, and simply learn the skills to get through elementary and even high school. But many w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:39 PM
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I think men and women who are unhappily single need to either set more realistic standards (settle) or accept that they're going to likely stay unhappily single. Those are the options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:32 PM
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You stipulate that "the patriarchy" means "everything that goes wrong in the world" and suddenly everything wrong in the world is patriarchy's fault That's some very circular logic. The patriarchy isn't "everything that goes wrong in the world." Some people may define it that way, but that's not actually what the patriarchy is. The patriarchy is just the system of beliefs that men need to hold power and dominance over women, and the enforcement of very traditional gender roles. I don't really li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:30 PM
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That's incorrect. It is still very possible to retrain your mind in adulthood, it's just more difficult to do compared to when we were kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:21 PM
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Except of course that the 'systemic' nature of the Patriarchy as described... is just saying 'men did this to themselves' but with extra steps. I hear you, and I think there are definitely people who use the word "Patriarchy" in that way. However, I don't think the patriarchy is some code for "all men." It's a concept used to describe how a select few men hold all of the power, and those men are pushing this expectation on all other men that they must hold power and dominance over women in order…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:19 PM
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I also have adhd. It’s kind of ridiculous to hear that you have it and know what it’s like, yet still think that boys without learning disabilities have a harder time learning than girls with learning disabilities. In the future, you shouldn’t invalidate the experiences of other people with the same disorder that you have based off of some TikTok or YouTube videos
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:25 PM
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Guess what, girls with adhd are still better at learning than men are in schools. That’s an incredibly ignorant thing to say. Do you know what it’s like to have ADHD? It’s a learning disability. Do you really think that girls with learning disabilities have an easier time learning than boys who don’t have learning disabilities? Just think about that for a second. Proper behavior in class isn’t equivalent to learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:15 AM
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A science isn’t invalidated by its history. Every scientific field has made decisions influenced by the culture of its time, astronomy once placed Earth at the center of the universe. That doesn’t mean astronomy isn’t a science. Psychiatry, like all sciences, evolves through evidence, experiments, and revision. The classification of homosexuality as a mental illness was a reflection of outdated societal norms, not the foundation of the field. What makes psychiatry a science is its use of testabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:03 AM
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Not necessarily, just a girlfriend. Ratings like that aren't really universal. There are many people who think that they're a 5/10, but they're actually lower or higher in the eyes of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:43 AM
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As I said in a previous comment: ADHD is often overlooked in girls because of the fact that it can look different in young girls vs boys. I felt like it was an important consideration especially since OP mentioned attributes like being misbehaved, and noisy (which can also happen with those who have adhd)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:12 AM
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No, psychiatry is actually a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:10 AM
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Even if they're not going for supermodels, they may need to realistically lower their standards or accept being single if they can't get dates with the types of women they want. Men and women choose who they want to date, controlling this violates autonomy. People just have to lower their standards if they're not getting dates (and they still want a relationship), accept being single, or keep trying to improve themselves. It sucks, but there's no other viable solutions (until realistic humanoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:01 AM
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Confidence improves the social skills. I think those two things can compensate for looks. Like I said in previous comments, it's not going to compensate enough to pull a 10/10, but it'll be enough to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:57 AM
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No. The patriarchy negatively affects men in precisely those ways. It's a shame you haven't heard that before, but it's true. The patriarchy is to blame for things like the draft as well. Men are expected to lead, be strong, aggressive, dominant and protect women because women are seen as weak and incapable. Thus, men, whose job according to patriarchal standards, is to lead and protect the weak (among other jobs), are used to fight in wars. As I said, it also causes men to avoid seeking mental …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:52 AM
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My cat just killed a mosquito in my room. I'm so proud of her 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:18 AM
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Yes that’s also true. Some girls don’t have the symptoms of hyperactivity, or the symptoms present differently from boys. My brother definitely got in trouble more for talking and being disruptive. I was just usually put in the “slow” groups for spelling and math (any subject where they grouped kids). I honestly think the only way I got through elementary and high school was because my parents would always remind me to do my homework and check it. I just had to get on meds to get through college…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:10 AM
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Thanks for linking that! I’ve also lived it, but it’s nice to see people talking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:47 AM
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Yeah online dating is a different beast, luckily it’s not the only way to date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:31 AM
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ADHD is often overlooked in girls because of the fact that it can look different in young girls vs boys. I felt like it was an important consideration especially since OP mentioned attributes like being misbehaved, and noisy (which can also happen with those who have adhd)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:29 AM
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Yes. If people want to have a shot at achieving their goal, they should make it a realistic one. If they’re okay with perpetual dissatisfaction, they should continue to have an unrealistic one. To use the billionaire example again, I could probably reach a million or maybe even tens of millions depending on how much effort I’m willing to put in, and what kind of sacrifices I’m willing to make. That would be a much more realistic goal to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:25 AM
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Lmao ok, if that’s how you feel then great. It’s unlikely that you’re gonna hear many feminists agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:19 AM
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I think confidence and social skills can compensate for looks. It’s not going to get someone a supermodel, but it can get them a girlfriend for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:16 AM
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No…I never said that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:13 AM
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Yeah obviously. OP said “girls do well in school…” I was correcting it to “girls who don’t have adhd do well in school…”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:13 AM
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Goals can be unrealistic. I want to be a billionaire, but that’s pretty unrealistic. Should I sit here and whine about not being a rich Texan man with oil money who’d have a better shot at being a billionaire? No. I should either keep working towards my goal, or work towards a more realistic one. Many men just aren’t going to get a 10/10 supermodel. If their goals are unrealistic, they ought to get some realistic goals. This is similar to women who have standards that are so high that they’re un…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:11 AM
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*girls who don’t have adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:53 AM
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I’m a firm believer in controlling what you can and accepting what you can’t, and you can only really control yourself (in matters pertaining to your own personal life). If I want something, I should do everything in my power to get that thing. That attitude is much more productive and beneficial to me putting all the blame on everyone else, and doing nothing to get me closer to my goal. If you’re referencing appearance here, they can blame their genetics and do nothing, or they can put effort i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:50 AM
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Oh yeah I suppose. Although I’ve known some attractive people who couldn’t pull because of severe social anxiety. I tend to think confidence and social skills are the deciding factors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:36 AM
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Yeah that occasionally happens, but more so if they’re super stinky and visibly dirty. I find myself viscerally repulsed by certain behaviors more than appearances
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:32 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:29 AM
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Lack of sexual and romantic success is due to the fact that men and women have free will to choose who they do and don’t want to date, and how much effort the man or woman is willing to put into dating. If a guy wants to put all of the blame on the fact that women don’t choose him, and refuse to acknowledge that they do play a part in things, that’s a part of my loser definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:24 AM
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I’ve heard from many feminists that issues like increased homelessness, suicide rates/poor mental health, addiction and imprisonment among men are due to the patriarchy (aka. It’s systemic). I think it’s also fairly accepted among most feminists that traditional gender stereotypes don’t make room for men to express their emotions, and get mental health care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:07 AM
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There are laws that state that you cannot steal from, or physically harm another human being. People in a civilized society are tasked with not physically harming each other- thus ensuring each other’s safety. As a standard, many countries use terms like life and liberty- stating that each person has a right to life and liberty, among other things. Again, what country do you live in? I can find laws that indicate this (if you live in the west). If you don’t want to share that, I’d be more than h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:55 AM
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No. I’d think they probably lack confidence and social skills, but the inability to attract women alone isn’t indicative of being a loser, in my opinion. To me, losers have issues with their mentality and work ethic. If someone couldn’t attract women, and they were blaming women for it, expecting everyone to cater to them, and refusing to get up and work on themselves to try to improve their situation…that would be a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:48 AM
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Ok, what country do you live in? If you’re in a western country, it shouldn’t be hard to find a document that indicates this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:41 AM
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Yeah I’m 3rd gen in the US so it took me visiting the motherland to gain that perspective. It got a lot harder to feel bad for myself when I was around people sleeping on dirt with no electricity or food who were more optimistic than me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:39 AM
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Ugh that’s disgusting. But yeah there are some states where it’s still legal. It’s honestly shocking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:34 AM
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The Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Article 3 states: Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person. So yes, all humans are “owed” safety and security as a fundamental human right. It’s pretty straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:25 AM
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Facts. At least we have AC and hot showers now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:10 AM
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It helped me to see how the other side of the world lives. And by other side of the world, I mean impoverished people in 3rd world countries. Even doing some volunteer work with impoverished people close to home can help. It became easier to be grateful for what I have after seeing just how good I had it- comparatively. Ultimately, I just had to identify some greater purpose, and work towards that. It’s all I could really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:09 AM
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Was someone seriously trying to defend child marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:55 AM
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Yeah I personally lean more on the antinatalist side. But not quite so extreme…I think there are ways to set a child’s life up for success, but I don’t think that’s something most people reach, and I don’t even know if I’ll ever reach that point. I don’t see myself having kids until I reach that point (if I ever do). Antinatalism just really isn’t a popular opinion. I think that most people want to have kids, and no one wants to view themselves as selfish. There are also just some optimistic peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:52 AM
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Not everyone is an antinatalist. Typically, non-antinatalists believe the joys in life outweigh the suffering, and others simply may not consider the child’s future when they decide to have one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:33 AM
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Confidence is a bit easier to define, imo. To me, confidence has more to do with feeling comfortable in one's own skin and having a high self esteem. Arrogance and grandiosity falls into the overly inflated ego/narcissistic/likely insecure territory. In my opinion, when people start saying things like "I want a dominant man," that's when things can get confusing, as dominance can be colloquially defined in positive or negative lights, depending on context. From my understanding, at least in red …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:07 AM
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Oh no, I fear that’s much too hysterical a demand for my liking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:37 PM
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You’re gonna have to be the sole bringer of dickpocalypse. You’ll have to be away from your basement for days at a time though. Do you think you’re prepared for such a daunting task?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:25 PM
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So she didn’t leave because you basically called her a non-baddie? Personally, I wouldn’t take that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:23 PM
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Yes, 2. Maybe, 3. Maybe, 4. No, 5. No, 6. No, 7. No, 8. No, 9. Absolutely, 10. Maybe, 11. Maybe, 12. Yes, 13. Yes, 14. Maybe, 15. Maybe, 16. Yes, 17. Maybe, 18. No, 19. Yes (in 3 years), 20. No, 21. Maybe, 22. No, 23. No, 24. Probably, 25. No, 26. No, 27. Yes, 28. Yes, 29. Yes, 30. Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:09 PM
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It would require all the angry incels to leave their basements for extended periods of time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:41 PM
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I’m sorry that you experienced that. That’s very violating. However, that does not at all prove that women withhold information about their STI status more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:38 PM
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Do you have any proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:02 AM
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If you’re lying about something that would make a person change their mind about whether or not they’d want to sleep with you, I think that’s considered a form of coercion. However, there are varying degrees to this. Lying about an STI would be much worse than lying about a body count, in my opinion. Regardless, I think lying to get someone to do something they otherwise wouldn’t do is unethical, but people still do it, and there’s not much anyone can do to stop that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:16 AM
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I usually think the person who asks the other person out on a date is the one that pays. I always offer, but in my experience, the one that asks is the one that usually pays. I also would never be offended if someone insisted on paying. I think that’s a very kind and generous gesture. I would never think that’s a red flag- coming from a man or a woman. I suppose everyone is different though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:11 AM
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Holding grudges isn’t exclusive to men. Plenty of women hold grudges too. They may not kill or rape people over them as frequently, but that doesn’t mean women hold grudges any less
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:56 AM
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To me, a good person is an ethical person. I believe in moral neutrality, and physical appearance would fall under that category in most cases. It seems like your definition of a good man or woman is in the context of being a good partner. Even then, I still think a good man/woman is an ethical one. If by good man, you mean a romantically compatible one, you can’t really create a universal definition for this. Everyone is romantically compatible with different types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:24 PM
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Yeah, I mean it’s hard to know what you’d do in a situation that you’ve never been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:09 PM
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Leaving someone able to be happy isn’t doing a good deed for them, it’s just leaving them be. But like I said, this isn’t a question of dictionary definition, this is an entire field of people philosophy. Philosophy defines terms differently than dictionaries, at times. And even within ethics, there are varying definitions and theories. If you’re interested in ethics, you should definitely do some reading into it, it’s a fascinating subject, in my opinion. It’s not about doing vs not doing when …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:04 PM
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Hmm most women will choose an attractive man over a good man and a young man who as it is has very less free time should always focus on the first cause if he is hot then even if he becomes shitty , misogynistic and hurt women they will always fall in love with him. Here’s the thing, you don’t actually know that to be true. There are probably some women like that, but it’s impossible to say that most women do this. This is simply a perception of the world pushed by social media. A man like that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:50 PM
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First of all, that’s not true. Different women are attracted to different things. Second of all, you shouldn’t dictate your behavior based on what you think women like. You shouldn’t dictate, you know, live your life for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:57 AM
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I didn’t relate it to wanting men they dated to make a certain amount. I simply said that women have a “biological need” to provide for their offspring, and saying men who “go against their biological need to have sex” by not manipulating women for sex are good men, is just like saying women who go against their biological need to provide for their children by not manipulating men for money are good women. I never once brought up anything about financial requirements when dating. People can set …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:27 AM
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Well, women biologically have a need to provide for their current or future children. Obtaining resources, no matter the cost, would be feeding this biological need. Fortunately, we humans are intelligent beings who are capable of denying biological needs in certain cases for the sake of being ethical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:01 PM
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This is a philosophical question that has been debated for centuries. It’s not necessarily quite so binary. This also depends on how you define good and evil- which also varies among ethical theories If we’re operating under the definition of good = promoting happiness and wellbeing, and evil = causing harm or suffering, then the actions of another person could impact me in 3 different ways. It could either promote goodness, have no impact, or promote evil. The way I see it, if someone chooses n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:56 PM
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I mean, I could easily manipulate men for money, but I choose not to because I believe that’s unethical, does that make me a good woman? Mind you, I could still be an absolute asshole in other areas of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:39 PM
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That depends on how you define what is good. I think that “good” and “evil” are a spectrum, and that many actions could simply be neutral. For example, choosing between lettuce and spinach in a salad is a pretty neutral action. Choosing not to scream at or hit someone when they piss you off isn’t being good, it’s just not being evil. Showing kindness and empathy towards someone, even when they’re making you angry, is an example of being good. Ultimately, this depends on what ethical theories you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:35 PM
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For real, what happened to being a legitimately decent person? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:26 PM
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You can watch a YouTube video to change a tire or your oil. You can’t watch a YouTube video to fix your relationships, though they may try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:17 PM
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I think it’s important to be honest with her. Maybe be clear about how you recently developed feelings for her, so she doesn’t end up feeling like you were just pretending to be her friend. Reiterate that you value your friendship with her, and would want to stay friends regardless of what she chooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:56 AM
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Ah ok that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:47 AM
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Oooh have you created any yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:45 AM
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Really? I feel like I’d definitely measure my dick if I had one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:42 AM
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Base of my palm to the top of my middle finger is 7.5 inches, and both hands in a fist stacked on top of each other is 6.5, so it’s pretty easy to estimate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:40 AM
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I don't think I'd care unless they acted like they were homeschooled as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:45 AM
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Oh yeah you should get a ton then. I didn't get much until my party
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:43 AM
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You should beg your family for a grad party. I told my parents it was totally fine if they invited their friends, and got hella $$$ just from that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:33 AM
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Now there's an idea. What ever happened to good old diplomacy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:03 AM
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I don't think so, personally. I think it's a shitty thing to do if you're in a monogamous relationship, but I wouldn't call it cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:43 AM
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How do you know it's because they're emotionally hurt? People have lives and aren't on Reddit all day, every day. People miss notifications, and get bored of conversations. Personally criticizing a woman while debating is known as an ad hominem attack. Why would someone want to continue to debate with someone who can't even debate properly? And if they're just criticizing most of, or an entire gender based on some experiences they've had with a few people, or, even worse, seen on social media...…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:02 AM
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I'm not the kind of person that feels super attracted (outside of physical attraction) or connected to people I barely know. I need at least one date to figure out if I even like the person. Then, a couple more to figure out if there's a genuine connection that's worth legitimately pursuing. I also just feel like it's very hard to get an accurate read on people over text and phone calls, it's so easy to be fake when you're not in-person. I need the in-person interactions to really have a good un…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:48 PM
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I’m guessing they find it addicting, and just continue to have facial dysmorphia, so they don’t know when to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:46 PM
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Yeah that’s a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:02 PM
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I’m not really a fan of the sleeves or the neckline, personally. But I also tend to prefer dresses that are more structured. If you can return it, I’d suggest that, but the color does pair well with your undertones! A mauve in a different cut would look wonderful on you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:37 PM
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You do realize that not all women are the same right? Just like not all men are the same? Every human has flaws. Men are not more mentally capable than women. This idea is completely ridiculous. Some women choosing to no longer debate a topic, or not liking criticism is in no way indicative of women being less “mentally capable.” If by mentally capable, you mean intelligent and logical thinkers, I suggest you do some research into what logic actually is and means. Logic is essentially the proces…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:24 PM
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I can’t say I’ve given up on dating completely, I just really don’t feel like doing it. Going on a bunch of first dates, most of which will be boring and a waste of time, sounds really unappealing. I’m also just not at a point in my life where I want a relationship. Maybe that’ll change in the future, but as of right now, I don’t want anyone tying me to any particular place. I want to be open to any and all opportunities now. I enjoy focusing more on friendships and hobbies now, but maybe one da…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:50 PM
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Of course! It felt so freeing figuring out what I enjoyed after my last bad relationship, enjoy the journey 🫶🏽 But yeah I hope those men eventually realize that behavior isn’t conducive to healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:42 PM
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Shit girl I am sorry that happened to you. That behavior is so repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:04 PM
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Oh fs I sell some custom resin orgasm button covers on Etsy. I can send you one if you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:54 PM
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If you press and hold the button for 5 seconds it lights up! I think it’s called party mode
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:48 PM
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For real...it was the "in these streets" bit that really got me 🤣 And judging by his previous post here, he really seems fixated on women's views about sex bots 💀 Like of course! Women won't admit that we all secretly want to fuck a creepy looking robot sex doll, so we must all be social outcasts!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:20 AM
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Common mistake...right ear is where the "Fake an orgasm :(" button is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:01 AM
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LMFAO this title made me laugh, thank you They didn't tell you? Women have a big red button behind our left ear that says "PRESS FOR ORGASM." It's pretty hard to miss
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:08 AM
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I think if someone is saving up to buy a house in an expensive city, it's perfectly reasonable to live at home. I find it more of a turnoff if they're living at home with no real plan for when and how they plan to move out by late 20s. At my age, I wouldn't think it's weird for someone to live at home. Rent and mortgages are pretty expensive where I live, so it's not uncommon for people to live at home for the first year or two out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:58 AM
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This post is all over the place They say women won't buy sex bots women wont pay for prostitutes women aren't perverted women dont watch porn women don't like bad boys Every woman is different. Some may buy sex bots in the future, some may pay for sex, some watch porn, and some like bad boys. women on reddit in general are introverts they aren't the ones out in these streets doing lines in the clubs getting peed on at Diddy parties, filming their 100th porno. Visiting the serial killer they marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:18 AM
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You're absolutely right. It's fairly normal for a person to believe that other people think and behave in the way that they do. Yet, red pill men often act like men and women are different species. They'll apply their how-to-impress-men attitudes to women, while preaching that men and women have completely different natures. It's completely absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:45 AM
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I find irrationally inflated ego to be a bit amusing, but it's such a turn off. And aggressiveness? Domineering traits? Really? An aggressive personality and incessant need to assert control and dominance, in my opinion, shows a complete lack of: emotional regulation, maturity, and social awareness. That behavior is fucking repulsive to me. I avoid those men like the plague. There may be some women who are attracted to that shit, but it's certainly not all of us. Everyone is attracted to differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:39 AM
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I’m surprised she didn’t throw in an ad for one of those water filtering shower heads, she set it up so perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:59 PM
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Idk man when you’re that religious, you get pretty good at compartmentalizing and shaming yourself into suppression. It’s gonna be hard to find an adult woman who hasn’t learned how to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:53 PM
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Real. My first year in CS, it was maybe a 60/40 split between men and women, as the semesters passed, it got down to around 80/20. STEM fields just felt like jobs for men, I didn’t even realize I enjoyed coding until I was 20 💀 I hope one day it’ll be a 50/50 split between men and women, but I think it’s gonna take longer than 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:37 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:53 AM
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I don’t have a problem with AI girlfriends. I think it’ll result in lonely men getting exploited by tech companies, but it’ll eventually happen. I really don’t think it’ll effect the lives of most women or men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:50 AM
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That’s quite dramatic. They probably don’t know/care much about the topic…this isn’t exactly a common interest among most people. I’m also not sure why you made this an ask women post. There are a lot more men than women in tech, and they could answer this question as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:36 AM
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Yeah honestly I think it’ll be great. Ai relationship aren’t a replacement for human connection, but it’s much better than nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:20 AM
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You sound really unhinged, but I’m gonna answer anyway… To address point b, you can actually sext ChatGPT fairly easily now. No jailbreaking required, you just need to be a half decent prompt writer. I’m quite surprised you don’t know this, considering you seem so interested in the topic. OpenAI loosened their restrictions with NSFW content a few months ago. I don’t think it’ll be very long before companies start to ease up on the restrictions on user prompts. I think audio will have an accurate…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:18 AM
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I guess I’d call that a quarter life crisis, but yes, absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:50 PM
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Do you know what unconditional love means? Do you know what love means? What you just said has nothing to do with whether or not women are collectively loved unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:02 PM
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ChatGPT just agrees with everything you say, and that’s not really conducive to a connection that feels genuine. Also most of the things I listed require a robot body…which ChatGPT doesn’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:00 PM
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Personally, I’m not going near a humanoid robot until we’ve passed the uncanny valley, and I don’t think I’m alone in this sentiment, considering there aren’t many women who use life size sex dolls… because they look pretty creepy. Once we’ve passed the uncanny valley, and humanoid robots are indistinguishable from humans, I’m sure men will be satisfied with the ego boost they get from a robot that can simulate being human that well. Once these sex bots are created, they’ll primarily be created …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:14 AM
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I have no idea how the legal prostitution industry works in countries where it exists. I’m generally just speaking about places where it’s illegal because that’s what I’m familiar with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:37 AM
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Same goes for prostitution. Men who go to escorts are labeled creepy or pathetic. I have a hard time believing that most men who pay for prostitutes are vetting them enough to verify that they’re at least 18, and not trafficked…especially since it’s quite difficult to actually know for certain if a prostitute was trafficked or not (prostitution is illegal in the US). These men could be easily directly supporting human trafficking, and they “wouldn’t know it,” and don’t care enough to stop their …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:08 AM
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“Karma is a bitch, well just make sure that bitch is beautiful” 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:25 PM
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I mean this kind of behavior is indicative of an inability to reflect and take accountability for ones actions. It’s very immature, but it’s also not limited to women. Aside from cases of physical or emotional abuse and cheating (or addiction/mental illness, I might be missing a few), there’s usually at least one mistake that a person can reflect on in a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:19 PM
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You’re right, it’s not misogynistic, but it is controlling to literally try to control what your gf wears and where she goes. And saying that telling your girlfriend what she can and can’t wear and where she can and can’t go isn’t setting boundaries. Setting boundaries is creating guidelines about what YOU are are okay vs not okay with doing- not trying to control/ change someone else’s behavior. Setting a boundary would be to not date women who go to the club in the first place, not getting int…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:15 PM
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Yeah I didn’t learn about shit until I turned 12 and my mom took me on a weekend trip where we listened to this Christian purity pledge CD set describing puberty and sex. She filled up a water balloon and started poking holes in it saying “this is what happens each time you have sex before marriage.” Eventually the whole thing burst open and the dude on the CD was like “if you keep having sex before marriage, you’ll be empty and you won’t have anything to give your husband” 💀😭 I straight up had …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:04 PM
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I’m not sure if you actually understood what I meant when I said it’s disheartening. It’s disheartening that most male friends I’ve had stopped speaking to me when they make a move and I say no, or when they get into a relationship. It shows me that they didn’t really value the friendship- that they were just pretending to care about our friendship so they could get with me, or use me as some kind of girlfriend placeholder. Losing friends like that is sad…I hope that makes sense. you already hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:58 PM
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That doesn’t mean that the biases we have due to our life experiences are any less damaging. There are a few differences between the behavior of men and women, but there are way more similarities. Fixating on the differences and allowing biases to dictate opinions breeds racism and sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:43 PM
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Yeah all the time. I get super extroverted when I’m tipsy/drunk so it was always pretty easy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:38 PM
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If you have legitimate statistics on this, I would be interested to see the actual average weight difference. Gaining 5-10 pounds isn’t “getting fat,” so I’m curious what that number is. But, my entire point is that grown adult men and women should be capable of self improvement because they have the desire to be the best version of themselves- not simply to get sex (or money or whatever material reward). Parents teach toddlers to do things by giving them some reward when they clean their room, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:37 PM
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I think you’re right. I mean I haven’t been in very many LTRs, but this shit is even easy to learn through friends and real-world observation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:04 PM
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I’m not even talking about setting men up with other friends. I’m just talking about going out to bars and helping them approach women. Women are a lot more receptive and at ease when another woman is present- especially a hot one. I used to do that shit for my guy friends all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:54 PM
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That’s counterintuitive. People who cheat are often very insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:48 PM
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Lmao don’t give me ideas 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:43 AM
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You’re completely missing the point. A grown ass adult man should be capable of practicing self improvement because he wants to be the best version of himself. People can technically do all kinds of things. But to use sex as the sole reason for self improvement is incredibly immature. Also, I’m not sure why someone would get into a long term relationship with someone they don’t trust. If they have trust, a man won’t need to control his partner to make sure she doesn’t cheat- he should be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:39 AM
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There are plenty of emotionally stupid women in the world. The reality is, it takes time and effort to develop emotional intelligence. It’s typically not a skill set that people are just naturally born with, it takes work. It’s possible that women are able to do so a bit faster than men because it’s not quite as socially acceptable for men to express emotions. However, if there really is a difference of average EQ between the genders, it likely wouldn’t be a big difference. I think women may pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:33 AM
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I’m just gonna assume you’re a man here…do you loathe your own gender? Your entire post assumes that men are overgrown toddlers who are incapable of behaving without some clear extrinsic reward. I’m not a man myself, but I believe there are lots of men who are capable of self improvement because they simply want to be the best version of themselves. I suppose you got one thing kind of right. Men who require sex as a reward for self improvement really shouldn’t be in long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:16 AM
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I don’t think we can blame this one on bot stupidity 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:59 AM
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An attractive and charismatic wingwoman is much more effective than an attractive and charismatic wingman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:24 AM
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I typically feel just as protected with female friends, and often more listened to with female friends as well. I actually get way more “monetary support” from my female friends, and I’ve never had male or female friends help me with physical labor…my dad and brother have, but no male friends have done that. Nearly every male friend I’ve had has either stopped talking to me when they make a move and I say no, or stopped talking to me when they get into a relationship…it’s quite disheartening. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:22 AM
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I’m not a man, but I’m bi…I don’t really care about size when it comes to boobs. I think boobs that are proportionate to a woman’s frame are the most attractive. If a woman has a tiny frame, DDs wouldn’t look right on her, but a B/C would look fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:04 AM
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I’m 24. I grew up with all kinds of conservative crap about how I needed to be nice and accommodating for boys and men. I always had to dress modestly so I wouldn’t temp men. Stay quiet and “meek” no matter what they say or do, stay pure so your future husband will be happy…it was always about accommodating and pleasing men. I used to constantly worry about making men I interacted with happy, I legitimately didn’t even know how to say no to them. Now, I treat men like I treat everyone else- like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:51 AM
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Wasn’t catholic, but I pretty much had the same lectures. I didn’t even know women could enjoy sex till I was like 15 💀 I grew up thinking it was something we had to do so our husbands wouldn’t leave us 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:29 AM
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The thirst on here really is diabolical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:15 AM
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People are allowed to determine what they want to do in their own personal dating lives. If those choices eventually lead them to dying alone or whatever dramatic ending you can come up with, well, that was their choice 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:51 PM
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Nah fr I wasn’t ready for that fanfic bit at the end 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:46 PM
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Context really matters for this. Emotional intimacy is generally not desired in casual relationships because it’s supposed to be casual. In the context of romantic relationships, emotional intimacy is desired by emotionally available men and women. There are many people who date, but are neither emotionally available nor emotionally mature. Those people will likely feel uncomfortable with any intense emotional expression. They, however, are not representative of the norm. I do agree with you tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:43 PM
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There will always be people that praise racist/sexist/discriminatory rhetoric because there will always be someone that agrees with it. Misogynistic men are also praised and validated by other misogynistic men. This is a pretty common phenomenon- especially on the internet. Just because a bunch of people on the internet do something, doesn’t mean it’s the ethical or intelligent thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:34 PM
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Given the number of men on here who blame most, if not all, of their problems on women, I suppose I do feel vilified. I don’t really take it personally though, it’s a pretty expected side effect of angry/hurt people debating dating and gender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:30 PM
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That’s no different than believing a certain racial group is the source of many of your problems, and being racist towards that race. Is that ethical or wise? Absolutely not. Do people still do it? All the time. Humans tend to have a flawed perception of reality. Our interpretation of reality is dictated by our past experiences, and inherently skewed. Drawing conclusions about entire groups of people based solely on your experience with them is…unwise, to put it nicely. There’s a difference betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:06 PM
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Came here to say this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:15 PM
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I’m not sure what the percentage of single women is, but just bc a woman is single doesn’t mean she’s gonna want to be randomly assigned to a bf by the government. Many women are intentionally single. I thought you were joking about this originally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:59 AM
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Ah you’re gonna have a hard time finding women that want to opt in to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:41 AM
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No. Government issued girlfriends would be forced to be girlfriends by the government. They would be sex slaves. Women consenting to be in relationships are obviously not sex slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:30 AM
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It’s gonna have to be a sex bot if you want to avoid what would essentially be sexual slavery :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:09 AM
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Acting nonchalant and saying hi is always a power move. Don’t linger though. If you want to make her feel guilty, you could sulk in a corner and avoid her, but that’s definitely not a power move
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:08 AM
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lol skipping class will definitely cut out a good chunk of time. I was a CS major. I switched to that from marketing, and I probably spent like 7 hours a week on hw when I was a marketing major. I didn’t get to junior level business classes, but there was definitely a big difference in workload. I’d say I spent like 3-6 hours on hw a week for each class as a cs major though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:04 AM
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🤣🤣 rent-a-sexbot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:53 AM
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I think it depends on a person’s major… on average I spent at least 20-25 hours a week on studying/homework. Then there’s the roughly 12-18 hours a week of class time (for full time students).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:50 AM
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Just because some women have said that they can tell doesn’t mean all women can…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:27 PM
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Lol calling a woman hysterical? If you can’t come up with an intelligent reply, at least be original. You clearly have no idea what women experience when being stared at and subsequently approached. I kindly enlightened you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:23 AM
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Advice for women: be attractive enough for men to use you for your body
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:15 AM
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Men are capable of love, just like most other humans. But, they don’t love unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:04 AM
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I don’t think I’d care. Extra points if there’s a funny story behind it though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:00 AM
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It’s not “childish” to avoid encounters with random men who may or may not be literally psychotic. For those who are interested in reading a quote that isn’t taken out of context. I didn’t mix any situations up. For those who are oblivious to the female experience: Random man stares at woman. Woman is uncomfortable by this, and uninterested in man. Woman has experienced this many times before. Woman knows that man is likely going to try to approach, or just stand there and gawk (50/50). Woman kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:58 AM
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Ah yes. Be an adult by approaching a random man who is staring at me and rejecting him. Super safe and adult like! It’s not “childish” to avoid encounters with random men who may or may not be literally psychotic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:21 AM
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Oh, now I’m delusional for asking you to provide an actual example to support your claim? That’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:21 AM
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I’m surprised to see you insinuate that violent rhetoric isn’t “something to actually care about.” Does it really not concern you that there are so many people who support and wish for violence against a group of people? And yes, I’m sure many violent criminals have mental health issues. That doesn’t make support, encouragement and threats of violence unconcerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:20 AM
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Are you a femcel? Otherwise, that’s not an example of a femcel speaking violently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:12 AM
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? Is this your opinion or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:07 AM
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My little brother wouldn’t have even posted support of violence against women online if he was an incel, he’s not that kind of person. What you described is an explanation for why certain incels use very violent rhetoric. This explanation is not an excuse. There is no excuse for this kind of violent rhetoric. I’m surprised more incels aren’t enraged by the fact that there are so many incels who act like this, given the fact that those violent ones give all incels a bad name. And as u/Realistic-A…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:06 AM
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I think that’s a fair compromise! The AI generated vids will save the day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:52 AM
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Perfect my account number is 8008569. Take it all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:50 AM
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I’ve seen many incels speak violently about women. I’ve personally never seen femcels speak violently about men. I wouldn’t call a femcel violent because I haven’t seen them speak violently. I also can’t think of a time where I have personally encountered a femcel online in the first place. To address your second question, I don’t look down on anyone for being a virgin…l have a problem with people who threaten and speak violently about others. I don’t have an issue with all incels- just the ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:58 AM
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But self employed actresses could be doing it for show at any time…you’d never know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:09 AM
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You might have to go back to reading the original books :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:07 AM
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What if all lesbian women labeled themselves as self employed actresses?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:00 AM
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Chilled jade roller helps with puffiness too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:50 AM
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At least pansexuals are still okay 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:41 AM
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That would be great! Could you send me you SSN and/or passport # so I can verify your identity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:18 AM
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Marriage is a risk for all parties involved. I don’t particularly want to get married either because of the risks, and the fact that I enjoy independence. If you also don’t want to get married, that’s fine. There are still plenty of men and women who do, and they can just marry each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:13 AM
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Oh shit you’re right, smart investing man, is it too late for me to sell all my buttcoin, buy 20,000 FTC (fartcoin), and still make a profit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:54 PM
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Wow I am so sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing this. It’s hard to speak about the dehumanizing experience of having most people treat you like your only value lies in your appearance, and the constant using… It can often come off as insensitive towards less attractive people to speak about these issues (like the size 0 person speaking about how hard it is to find clothes that actually fit). So, thank you for touching on this. I think it’s important to recognize that the grass isn’t a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:49 PM
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Literally…when the avoiding eye contact fails, and they approach anyway, I get so anxious trying to figure out a way to reject them while making them think it was their idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:16 PM
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Noooo why didn’t you invest in buttcoin??? Major L
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:00 PM
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Those would be the men of pseudoscience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:22 PM
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I wouldn’t say “love” is the right word there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:15 PM
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Convince or compel. Depends on who you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:25 AM
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Who told you about the brain chip…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:08 AM
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Idc if it was on sale, as long as it’s something I’d like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:07 AM
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I had a plan for my life when I was a teenager. I found that setting age deadlines for when I should achieve certain things is useless. I just want to have a successful career that I also somewhat enjoy, I want to travel as much as I can, I want to have fulfilling friendships, maybe get married, maybe not- I see myself being happy in either scenario. That’s pretty much it. I’m not gonna detail my 5 year career plan, or detail my entire bucket list, so that’s pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:04 AM
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"well I can only speak for my own opinion, and all that is bad to expect and blah blah blah" - you chose a flair, you align with a thought space, and you represent that thought space. Let's try to not skirt the answer. I’m flared as blue pill. Blue pill is simply “not red pill.” That’s the extent of our universal beliefs. There are tons of beliefs, that aren’t at all red pill, that any blue pill person can have. I can literally only speak for my own opinion. We’re not actually a hive mind, contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:57 AM
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Seeing as the previous comment was about mental health, I assumed you were staying on topic. I wasn’t talking about men’s or women’s responsibilities to society as a whole. However, I don’t think that men and women have different responsibilities to society as a whole. Without getting into a rant about ethics, I think men and women are tasked with the same moral duty as members of a community. Does that make sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:23 PM
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Honestly I’d love to know too. The idea of anyone loving some group of people unconditionally is so bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:30 AM
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I heard one interpretation that went along the lines of “in the afterlife, we seek what we sought in life.” Basically, we’d be able to choose between the light, which exposes all, or the dark- which hides it. It’s certainly not a mainstream interpretation, but I found that to be the most satisfactory explanation of heaven/hell. Still ended up leaving the church, but I did find that particular interpretation quite interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:29 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:17 AM
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Wow I feel like such an art snob now 💀. But I like it! What’s the original called?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:55 AM
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Fr it’s always the dudes 😂 petty asf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:47 AM
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No…I’ve graduated high school and college…if he dropped out of hs but still went to college, I guess it wouldn’t matter. Otherwise, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:47 AM
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Depends on how rich I am in the future. Probably no more than 2, and then 2 dogs and 5 cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:40 AM
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This looks like a Georgia O’keeffe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:38 AM
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I can’t say I really pay attention to random couples much. I only really see attractive men around unattractive women at bars and I just assume they’re drunk and can’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:36 AM
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I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:16 AM
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Casual sex is no strings attached. Not “I’m pretending I don’t care, but I’m actually looking for my future wife”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:37 AM
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It was an actual answer to the question, you just don’t like it. Adults are responsible for their own mental and physical health…there’s nothing privileged or entitled about reiterating that. In fact, it’s ridiculously entitled to expect other people to fix your mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:36 AM
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If I had a thousand lives I think I’d just keep getting PHDs. Not marry a Homer Simpson 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:35 AM
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It’s strange that you’re acting like intentional casual sex isn’t a thing. Not every single person is looking for a relationship all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:28 AM
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I can’t really think of insecurities specific to men that I’ve dealt with. But the ones that put a strain on past relationships were jealousy and trust issues. Insecurities are fairly normal, but if a man’s insecurities are so out of control that they’re constantly questioning everything I do, and acting controlling, that’s not a relationship I can continue. I learned that the hard way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:23 AM
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Real. It’s actually kind of funny to me. I mean, when I was like 19 and unaware of the bs some men pull just to get laid, it definitely hurt. But now, it’s kind of comical
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:50 AM
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Your comment added absolutely nothing to this… I replied to another person’s comment. Not the original post. I didn’t spread negativity. I said it’s ridiculous that SOME people think women are supposed to fix their mental health issues. I think that the majority of men are intelligent beings who maintain responsibility of their own mental health, but there are some who don’t. Not sure what’s so difficult for you to understand about that. It was a simple commentary about the dangerously low emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:19 AM
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Hmmm idk, probably to maintain their own mental health as well. You know, so they’re not burdening the rest of the world with the impossible task of fixing their mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:13 AM
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I said SOME PEOPLE, not OP. I didn’t reply to the OP, I replied to a comment. I never said all men, or even most men. In fact, I never said the word man in my comment. I’d suggest reading a comment fully before replying with irrelevance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:09 AM
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Yeah it’s always amazed me how some people think that it’s a woman’s job to fix their mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:07 PM
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That’s scientifically untrue lol. I’m definitely not the one spreading misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:03 PM
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Computer science
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:59 PM
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It's just a good assistant right now. I still have time to upgrade my brain before it replaces me...or make a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:11 AM
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Only 1? Shit. I mean that makes sense. I get significantly less stressed during summer classes when it's just 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:56 AM
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Shitting on efficiency is crazyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:54 AM
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I feel like such an idiot for not thinking of this sooner, but I just uploaded all my lecture slides and everything for a final to chat gpt, and had it do deep research through all of it (+ the internet when needed), and HOLY SHIT it gave me the best study guide I've ever seen. If any of you are still taking finals, you should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:18 AM
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Omg how did you know 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:48 AM
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I didn't report you. I actually never got to read what you said before reddit removed it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:43 AM
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That is an odd thing to do. I’m just rude to rude people lol. Idgaf what they look like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:43 PM
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🙋🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:42 PM
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Same. I love giving them the most nasty stank eye. Or laughing at them, that’s always fun too. If it’s not in a very public area tho, I’ll just speed walk away lol. I just really wish there was something I could do to make them just as uncomfortable as they make me…without risking them hurting me ofc. Ugh a girl can dream I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:41 PM
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Huh yeah I don't think I've ever been to a bar for an alternative subculture, so I'm not sure what that's like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:24 PM
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Lol I know. And even with the disregard for privacy that currently exists, this idea would be laughed at in any court
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:01 PM
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I'm honestly not sure how that woman got 100 matches a day because I can't even imagine swiping right on 25 men in a day. She's either boosting, or not paying much attention to these men's profiles while swiping. Anyway, yeah men don't have many standards when it comes to who they hit on for casual sex. No real effort is required from women to have casual sex. However, these men at bars aren't typically asking women out on dates. Some do, but I'd say most of the time, it's just for sex...it's re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:58 PM
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No, it’s not. You clearly don’t know anything about S&M- which are acronyms for sadism and masochism. Sadism is gaining pleasure from inflicting emotional and/or physical pain, masochism is gaining pleasure from experiencing emotional and/or physical pain. You can’t logically equate that to simulated rape. Some people may have rape fantasies, but “simulated rape” is not what S&M is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:41 PM
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Well said. Not to mention that marriage is a civil contract in the US- not a legal one. If cheating was a crime, we’d also be facing a slew of unconstitutional breaches of privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:36 PM
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Just to be clear, I live in the US, so I’m speaking from the perspective of US law here. Cheating is obviously a shitry thing to do, but it’s not- and shouldn’t be- a criminal offense. In the US, marriage is treated as a civil contract, not a criminally enforceable one. That means if one person breaks the agreement (like by cheating), the consequences happen through civil courts- divorce, custody arrangements, financial settlements- not through the criminal justice system. It’s not like breaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:32 PM
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I mean…he’s good looking for a murderer. He’s also very obviously mentally ill, and was inspired by the unabomber so I can’t say I ever simped over that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:11 PM
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Real I thought it was kinda funny. Obviously fucked up, but funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:06 PM
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You do you I guess🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:30 PM
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What the hell? I’m not talking about rape at all. I was talking about S&M…not rape. I have no idea why you felt the need to mention that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:28 PM
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OOOOH I'm hitting the wall in a few months then! We should go adopt some cats together
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:51 AM
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yeah I didn't think red pill dudes were married with kids. I thought they were all actual incels who were angry they couldn't get women, and would get more angry when their TikTok learned manipulation tactics failed. I just didn't realize there was a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:48 AM
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*fake dead ex 💀lol I'll be dropping it in 2-3 business days. I just need to figure out how I can hunt down some Star Wars parody royalty free music, and finish up the story
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:43 AM
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I wasn't talking about rape. Race is pretty irrelevant with rape. I was referencing the fact that men of color are sometimes afraid of walking alone at night in certain areas because of the way certain cops would view them in that situation. I know a few men who have had the cops called on them for simply walking or standing somewhere by themselves. It's a legitimate fear that many men have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:35 AM
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Yeah that's true. I'm sure it's different outside of big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:30 AM
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Yeah I'm personally not a fan of saran wrapping someone's head, or anything else that has such a high risk of death. S&M isn't always that extreme. The sexual aspect of S&M produces parallels between it and drug usage, where people keep chasing more extremes for a better high. Yes, it can trigger addictive behavior in some masochists. That doesn't mean that masochism is a death sentence. There are plenty of people who are masochists and don't exhibit this behavior. Here's a good article that hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:26 AM
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Mhm wow, how enlightening. I prefer men who understand the nuances of human behavior and don't resort to incessant generalizations anyways. Not to mention the fact that greek life affiliation is extremely irrelevant outside of college. What's a GDI? I've never heard that acronym before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:52 AM
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lol I am a sorority girl too. I don't have daddy issues...but yes, there are some who do have daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:25 AM
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I'm gonna credit you in my gender wars: dickpocalypse theme as chief muse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:57 AM
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It's still Saturday in Oahu
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:53 AM
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Yeah when I first came on here and didn't know anything, I thought red pill and incel were interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:51 AM
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I think there are ways to practice s&m without harming people. Enthusiastic consent is pretty much the key. There are people who don't give a fuck about consent, and I'd agree that's depraved. However, I don't think that's the case with people who practice kink safely. Sadists don't always derive pleasure from inflicting pain on people who aren't enjoying it. There are many who only enjoy inflicting pain on masochists (because masochists enjoy it). I understand that s&m is probably difficult for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:49 AM
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I'm just here for the jokes and red pill hate. I've been told that red pill has become a lot more black pill now too. I definitely believe in self improvement, think that personality can compensate for appearance-based shortcomings, and I suppose a variation of "there's someone for everyone."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:22 AM
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I think that means you'd technically be purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:53 AM
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It means you really got in their head 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:52 AM
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Huh that's interesting. I've seen that flair too and wondered what it meant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:48 AM
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Back when I used to go to church, I'd get so upset that women couldn't be priests or deacons. I'm here for the poppette
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:46 AM
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Yeah...I always seem to get downvoted when I talk about the satire and lack of governing beliefs in blue pill. I just assumed I was getting it wrong or something. you can go as far as to say blackpill falls under bluepill That's gotta be a different category of pill...unless it's mainly satire for you guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:42 AM
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I think the main benefit of red pill is the concept of looksmaxxing. I would like to add the amendment of personalitymaxxing, but looksmaxxing is a decent start. I think the female nature and male nature thing is absolute bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:40 AM
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I'm talking about casual relationships. Not people you date. And yeah, some young women like to trauma dump early on in romantic relationships and friendships. It quickly builds a false sense of intimacy. I wouldn't say it's usually done with mal-intent, but it happened a lot in my 16-22 friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:22 AM
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Well men could just pack up their things and leave if they're getting abused. Its not like the women's going to be able to outrun them or out muscle them. Come on...don't resort to victim blaming. Women also find a way to leave when they're being abused, but the self esteem of a victim is destroyed by the abuser. Leaving seems like an impossible option because they believe their self worth is nonexistent, and operate under the belief that their abuser will change. This is the case for men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:16 AM
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Yeah I'd say men on the spectrum specifically. ADHD can sometimes make it difficult to read people too, but I think that skill can certainly be developed with practice and learning social skills. It's definitely harder for autistic people to develop those skills though. So a lot of these men look up strategies from grifters and just regurgitate things they are told to say and it obviously doesn't work so they come away with thinking personality or game doesn't work. Yeah this is one of the reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:07 AM
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Everyone struggles. Men struggle, women struggle. Women will think women struggle more, men will think men struggle more. Attempting to debate who suffers more, here of all places, is a fruitless endeavor. One thing I will add to this list is taking walks at night. I've always been so jealous of men because they can take a walk at night and maybe even look at the stars without worrying about getting sexually assaulted because they're walking alone... (This doesn't always apply to men of color in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:56 AM
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Yeah I think that's also the case for women getting men (for relationships, sex requires barely any effort). They just kind of have to play the long game. Like they're selling luxury cars to a first-time buyer. I suppose it would also be the same for men who are trying to get in a relationship with a woman who's not that into him from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:36 AM
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Agreed. I think it also results in serious developmental issues when children are exposed to porn (which is happening at an rapid rate). Process addictions like porn and sex addiction do hijack the brain's reward system (just like substance addiction), and that is detrimental to any child or teen's mental health. Young boys and girls can also end up watching rough sex and s&m without understanding the consent that needs to happen in those situations. This adds another complicated layer of what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:30 AM
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Ok good. I was gonna keep the flair and perpetuate the parody anyway, but I'm glad there are others doing it too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:02 AM
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Men recognize that the dating market in the west is bad as a result of the lack of traditional values and look for a partner overseas with more traditional values. Do you really think that this is the reason why people struggle in dating? Could you provide sufficient examples to prove that this is the sole issue? Or is this just another, "I saw it on TikTok" belief. So, what are your solutions to the struggles that men and women have with dating? The only ones I could think of off the top of my …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:01 AM
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I'll mention you in the credits too. I'm like 90% sure I came up with this idea the first time I saw you mention dickpocalypse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:36 AM
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I guess being good at picking up women for casual sex requires the same skills as being a successful job interviewee.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:35 AM
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r/ TheBluePill is a satire of r/ TheRedPill and the strategies discussed on that particular sub. This came from r/ TheBluePill's sub description. I thought that the blue pill was satire as well, but I see a lot of *ahem* red pills asking what blue pill even believes, or stating some general belief that the blue pill has. So, is there actually some system of beliefs that the blue pill has? I thought that the extent of the blue pill's general beliefs was just "not red pill" with a dash of parody. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:32 AM
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Are you sure? I feel like he's talking about getting a job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:17 AM
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I personally haven't cheated, but one of my closest friends used to cheat during manic episodes. Once she got on meds, she stopped and never talked about wanting to after that. One of my sorority sisters used to cheat on all her boyfriends...she has severe daddy issues. I don't really think that many women cheat just for thrills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:15 AM
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I don't hear women saying that they hate single men for watching porn. I wouldn't hate anyone for watching porn. Unfortunately, porn addiction is rampant among men, and I find that very concerning, but I don't hate people with porn addictions at all. A lot of men in that category (MGTOWs for example) say that thanks to porn they could end their "enslavement by women". I find this very concerning. Porn is very addictive, and painting it as a liberating godsend just perpetuates and rationalizes po…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:09 AM
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Thank you for reminding me that I was supposed to make a Gender Wars: Dickpocalypse star wars intro video
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:44 AM
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Most people don't come outta the womb with high emotional intelligence. Therapy can help with that. Therapy can also help someone identify the root of their problems. Some men and women might just be insecure and unhappy because they're not in a relationship. Others might feel that same insecurity for those reasons, but also have unprocessed experiences and trauma that exasterbates the insecurity about being single. In that case, a relationship would just be a bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:37 AM
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LOL that second sentence hit. Extra points when it spirals into "Am I a psychopath?" quizzes. Also thank you for reminding me that I can just make myself an espresso martini
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:29 AM
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Have you ever had a girlfriend? I thought it would make me happier before I was ever in a relationship. It made me happier for the first few months because of the novelty of it, feeling like I finally understood love songs, and of course the oxytocin and serotonin. That all wore off at about the 4 month mark. It kind of felt like a drug that I had just built a tolerance to. For some people, the root of their dissatisfaction with life is simply not having a romantic partner. If that's the case, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:20 AM
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Being a victim of rape or murder isn’t equivalent to being a virgin because no woman has dated or had sex with you. This 2nd sentence isn't deflecting. It was a direct reply to this sentence you commented: "That's like a sex starved man saying, I don't feel bad for women who don't even give me a chance, who cares if they get raped or killed, they don't need my pity." Spouting nonsense makes your argument appear extremely weak. And even more so, where is YOUR source supporting your claim that "me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:08 AM
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It’s just a fun name for incel revenge fantasies. They think that if women keep rejecting men, the incels will get tired of it and take over the world with their dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:23 AM
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It might just depend on the person. I was personally just as depressed in a relationship as single. Except that I also worried about dragging my partner down with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:54 AM
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I wasn’t even thinking about pets 😂. I also consider pets as family lol. I was thinking lipstick or something that is actually just property
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:49 AM
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I feel bad for men who are abused, not the abusers. Being a victim of rape or murder isn’t equivalent to being a virgin because no woman has dated or had sex with you. Women are less self accountable for their actions than men. Do you have any legitimate evidence of this? Women are capable of not taking accountability, but this obviously doesn’t apply to rape because that would just be nonsensical victim blaming. If you’re talking about some women not taking accountability for their actions in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:46 AM
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I don’t feel bad for violent men who abuse women for fun. And the men that are incapable of taking even a sliver of accountability, and blame women for all their problems, already pity themselves enough. They don’t need my pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:13 AM
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He just pulled the classic politician move of villainizing the most vulnerable groups of people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:08 AM
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😧 women don’t beat their property, we carry it around in purses
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:06 AM
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We’re pretty close to realistic sex bots. If those “sex starved” violent men can look past the uncanny valley, they’ll be fine. The types of men who fantasize about dickpocalypse wouldn’t care about consent anyway, so sex bots will be perfect for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:48 AM
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Have you ever had a man as a romantic partner? Experience has taught me that men don’t naturally unconditionally love their partners…some people love their partners relatively unconditionally, others don’t. Gender has nothing to do with unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:41 AM
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Shit maybe they were just projecting what they wanted women to do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:35 AM
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Dickpocalypse will never happen because that would require the black pill dudes to gets up and do something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:26 AM
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The incel uprising…when women become property again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:22 AM
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Before the semicolon or after?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:20 AM
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Idk I feel like the backne usually gives it away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:00 AM
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👉🏽 💵🔦; 👉🏽🚰➡️🥤😌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:58 PM
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A Diamond Among Degenerates: A PPD Love Story *name of your memoir
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:50 PM
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👉🏽🚰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:48 PM
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Every loser gotta win and every winner gotta lose someday
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:45 PM
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There comes a time in every serious relationship where people start opening up about their past trauma, hurt, or whatever else you want to call it. That would be the time to open up about your traumatic experiences- a false accusation in this case. It’s really not that complicated. And like I said, if her trauma happens to be that she was sexually assaulted, don’t bring it up right after she tells you that she was assaulted. This is where common sense comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:05 PM
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Yeahhh that’s facts. This is why I like going to a few festivals per year. I can go crazy for a weekend, and be satisfied with more normal nights for the next few months
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:59 PM
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Mostly Because I’ve seen many internet men talk like that 😂 and I don’t think internet men are representative of the majority Or has a decent work ethic and understanding nature - we all have to establish careers. So are you guys just non monogamous? She doesn't "submit to me", she's submissive not a doormat. If I screw up, she lets me know. So what does being submissive mean to you then (outside of sex)? Is it just she lets you make the decisions unless it’s something she doesn’t agree with? Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:01 PM
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No one should trauma dump to casual hookups. If you agree to be casual, then there’s no emotional vulnerability...not everyone is cut out for casual relationships, and that’s okay, but that kind of emotional intimacy just isn’t really acceptable during a casual hookup. The vid OP posted implied that the man did this after a casual hookup, not with her boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:26 PM
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I feel like once a week is reasonable too as long as it’s not getting in the way of the rest of your life. I was more talking about when I’d go out 3+ times a week and “keep the party going” every other day of the week 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:21 PM
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Yeah it was fun, but there was a point where I should’ve stopped, or at least slowed down, and I didn’t 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:24 AM
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You should really just ask the woman you’re having sex with. It’s a perfectly normal question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:11 AM
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Yeah that happens during “the act” too, there’s just no trauma dumping coming out of said mouth. No point in emotional intimacy with a casual hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:08 AM
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I didn’t think Chad was that subjective 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:08 AM
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🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:01 AM
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Lol that was mostly a joke understands the meaning of “love is blind” when he works till 2 AM 3 times a week This one would contradict the confident, intelligent boss babe part…unless she’s into that. My wife has multiple degrees and is a published scientist - at home she's my wife. As long as you guys are happy 🤷🏽‍♀️. This just sounds like “She does what she wants at work, but at home she submits to me.” If that’s what she wants to do, then good for her. I get it in the context of kink. I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:56 AM
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If you’re reducing her to just someone to use for sex, and disregarding the fact that she is a whole human being with thoughts, skills, and worth more than her body, that’s objectifying. I think fantasizing about people you think are attractive is fairly normal. You just shouldn’t let those fantasies lead you to do things that make women feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:57 AM
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I didn’t realize competent and confident were criteria. I thought it was just: hot, makes sandwiches, has a pussy, cleans the house in a sexy maid outfit, understands the meaning of “love is blind” when he works till 2 AM 3 times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:50 AM
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Yeah in those cases, I would just suggest therapy, and finding ways to meet women who are also on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:42 AM
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It’s probably no social skills. Or being insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:35 AM
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Technically, if you’re reducing women to sexual objects in your head, you’re objectifying them. However, if you’re not allowing those thoughts to impact your actions (by objectifying them in ways they’d see, feel or hear), it doesn’t really matter. Understanding how to retrain your thoughts is a valuable skill, and would probably be of use to you in other ways. But if your thoughts aren’t negatively impacting the women you’re objecting, it’s really not the end of the world. I will add that stari…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:22 AM
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Ted bundy was married. You’re clearly the reincarnation of Ted bundy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:14 AM
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Not sure why anyone would be coming at you for hugging your wife 😂. I don’t give a fuck what people consensually do in their relationships. That has nothing to do with me. I just don’t want random dudes catcalling me, or touching me, or outwardly objectifying me in some other way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:08 AM
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If they become exclusive and they start trauma dumping to each other, that’s a good time to bring it up. Ideally not right after she talks about her sexual assault though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:58 AM
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After sex with someone in a casual relationship isn’t a great time to trauma dump 😂 I don’t wanna hear about anyone’s ex trauma, false accusation trauma, or any other trauma if we’re just fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:56 AM
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That’s wild…that happened to me once after a ons. I didn’t realize it was a frequent experience. I honestly just thought it was super weird to trauma dump like that to someone you barely know. It was super awkward There are two sides to every story. The majority of accusations are true, but that doesn’t mean a man is automatically lying if he says he’s falsely accused. If the accusation ultimately led to a criminal trial, I’d be very suspicious if he said he was falsely accused. If it didn’t, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:54 AM
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Ngl I didn’t realize that most of the dudes on here were autistic until very recently…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:20 AM
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It’s just to mess with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:23 AM
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Except when she’s hangry bc she hasn’t eaten all day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:04 AM
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It’s just remnants of the puritanical ways. Men are not subhuman creatures who are incapable of retraining their minds, they’re rational beings who are perfectly capable of practicing restraint and forming new neural pathways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:13 AM
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Of course it wont immediately improve your sex life. The whole point of de-centering sex and relationships is that your lacking sex life would no longer be such a catastrophic issue for you (or anyone else who does it). If I had to guess, I think people give that advice in hopes that it would give a person adequate time to heal and grow. Perhaps you’d even stop referring to yourself as low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:08 AM
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It’s the age of extremism…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:01 AM
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Snuggies have a lot more surface area than a healthy 19-21 BMI woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:59 AM
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The US
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:57 AM
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Not every culture is like that. In many countries, there’s a level of recognition that the human body is just a body, and not quite so overly sexualized. In countries where people are generally more prudish, men tend to lose it when women wear revealing clothing. Men can’t fully control their thoughts, but they can control their actions- like you said. It’s not a woman’s job to cover up just so men don’t have to deal with the discomfort of practicing restraint. Other people should never have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:57 AM
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To be fair, everyone is replaceable if you’re hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:46 AM
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Scream really loud and they’ll run away
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:42 AM
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Because people are so weird about women’s nipples in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:41 AM
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She shouldn’t have asked her friend. She should’ve just done it…it’s not like they even went on a single date anyway. She’s just gotta be ready for the friendship to end if the friend found out. Some women don’t get over shit like that, and if the friend is being possessive over some dude she just slept with, it won’t end well. I think the friend is being ridiculous for being so possessive over a hookup, but also, this Spanish dude probably isn’t worth ending a friendship over. She could go to S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:39 AM
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If it was a topless beach, then yes. Not in the US though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:33 AM
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That’s so creepy 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:56 PM
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lol I think that might be a cultural thing then. My grandmother has now started trying to set me up with men at her church 😂 The “when are you getting married” questions have started
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:54 PM
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Ai companions will save the day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:44 PM
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Fr just the patriarchy doing what it does best
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:25 PM
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I mean I think self improvement that’s motivated by simply wanting to be better for yourself is much better than self improvement motivated by getting laid…but whatever gets people off their asses is good I guess. I just think people should put just as much energy into improving their minds as they do their bodies. This might be an unpopular opinion, but I think learning to be happy (or at least content) while single is a crucial step before getting into a long term relationship. We also all hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:24 PM
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They also can’t get a woman who makes her own money to be their unpaid maid mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:11 AM
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Yeah that's true, and I said in another comment I don't think there's a problem with a victim using humor as a coping mechanism to process their own experience. I just think it's really messed up for a non-victim to joke about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:06 AM
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Of course! I consider myself quite the expert at reframing past mistakes 😂 But good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:05 AM
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Currently about to cry and throw my computer at the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:03 AM
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Idk I really thought he would be white OJ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:04 AM
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Yeah I know unfortunately 😭. Some were definitely worse than others. I guess you could say greek life was an enlightening experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:03 AM
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Yeah that's understandable. It's normal to be jaded for some time, just not healthy to wallow for years. There are lots of great women out there. And you could see it this way: you had some practice and make mistakes with a woman who wasn't compatible long-term, so that you could learn from them and grow for the woman you'll be with in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:32 PM
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Shit late 20s is super young to be stressing about having a kid...I personally wouldn't have a kid with someone I wasn't married to, but whatever works for them I guess. I guess it runs in the family 😂 But yeah I think asking those questions to single moms you date in the future would be a good way to weed out the women you're not compatible with. They're definitely not all irresponsible like that. I know a few single moms who are in their mid thirties who were married but had divorces, and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:27 PM
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Well it's always good to identify the part you played in things, so you don't make the same mistake again. I don't know what it's like to be pregnant but I'm sure she was scared to do things alone. Who knows what would've happened, but you'll definitely find someone else to build a life with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:18 PM
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100% many of them are degenerates and the content of those group chats are utterly repulsive, and that small part of me that still had a lil naive, soft, christian high school girl mind died. So, my roommates and I went and rated all of the same frat dudes and made a whole excel spreadsheet for it. It was actually kinda fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:11 PM
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Shit I'm sorry that happened to you. Sounds like it was a pretty complicated situation. Just for some random guy that decided not to pull out while this woman was drunk Goddamn I am never getting off birth control because what the actual fuck. That's literally illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah I don't personally know any of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:22 PM
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I think rape jokes are pretty equivalent to holocaust and school shooting jokes. I don't really hear a whole lot of the other jokes you mentioned, but they would also be pretty tasteless. Some people view rape as "worse" than murder because there are many cases where murder is justified and necessary (self defense). However, there are never any cases where rape is justified. It's a crime that people commit for the sake of evil...there are no situations where it could be seen as necessary. I'd sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:51 PM
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I was like you once...until I peeped a couple of frat group chats and gave up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:39 PM
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Fr that picture is making me uncomfortable. His arms look like dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:22 PM
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Yeah for real, I have a pretty dark sense of humor too, but it's important to know where the lines are. I think using humor to process your own traumatic experiences is one thing, but making jokes about another person's trauma is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:15 PM
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Wow that's a very good list. I'm glad you found your person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:12 PM
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I honestly don't know anyone who does
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:05 PM
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Rape jokes are insensitive and tasteless...similar to other genres of very fucked up jokes. There are many women who have been raped and sexually assaulted, and joking about that experience around someone who may have had that experience is incredibly classless. There are also many men who have been raped too. Making jokes about it around them just perpetuates the shame that men and women who were victims feel about their assault. Rape is incredibly traumatizing and causes severe psychological d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:05 PM
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I think there’s a pretty equal number of updatable men and women. Men and women are equally capable of being shitty humans
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:57 PM
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I think social media plays a part by warping peoples perceptions of reality. I also think newer technologies have made process addictions much more common (online gambling, porn, video games, social media ofc). Escapism is instantaneous now. True self reflection and accountability requires looking in the mirror and identifying when, how, and why you are the problem in every aspect of your life. It’s uncomfortable and hard, and it’s a lot easier to avoid that work…especially when there’s so many …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:55 PM
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It’s not even about that for me. I just feel like we wouldn’t be able to do a lot of fun things together (travel, going out, anything that requires leaving the kid alone for longer than an hour or two)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:50 PM
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Yeahhhh fr I think if I was much older and everyone my age had kids, I’d do it. But I’d really rather not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:44 PM
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No like I want to be an asshole but then I don’t do it because I’d feel kinda bad…but the times that I am one…I’m a real asshole 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:34 PM
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7, 8, 9
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:21 PM
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Hmm I drink, occasionally smoke + drugs. And does it count if I’m outwardly kind most of the time, but an asshole in my head 90% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:18 PM
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Claiming that makeup adds 1-2 points to someone doesn’t mean you know anything about what makeup actually does and how it works. Facial ratings are neither objective nor consistently measurable. No one is denying that makeup enhances people’s appearance and makes them look more attractive. Simply stating that in typical cases, makeup doesn’t alter a person’s appearance to the point where they look like a different person without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:07 AM
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Yeah I know it’s not socially accepted, but I think it should be. And more men could definitely wear tinted sunscreen/moisturizer or maybe even a light coverage foundation and concealer without people noticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:00 AM
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Well…it’s important to a lot of women (for themselves). Clear skin makes a lot of women more confident. I personally like looking in the mirror a little more when my skin is flawless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:46 AM
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Girl me too but I don’t think that’s a popular opinion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:43 AM
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Oh well I’m sorry to hear that. Cheek and jaw fillers are also better alternatives to contouring for those that need it. But that’s true, women do have a greater variety of clothing options. Men can achieve similar effects through wearing colors that are slimming and complement their undertones, and good tailoring. I do think that men should just normally wear makeup. They’d look better with foundation, contouring and brow makeup if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:42 AM
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Shit I feel like I’m slacking now lol. The only thing that is socially unacceptable for straight men is makeup. The beauty standard for men is different from women, and men do have facial hair to achieve things like contouring. But I’m guessing you wouldn’t need makeup with a skincare budget like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:17 AM
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Do you know anything about makeup? I already explained what the male equivalent of contouring cheekbones and jawline is. Nose contouring is unnecessary with a rhinoplasty or a non-surgical nose job To actually alter your appearance in a significant way (where the woman looks like a different person without makeup), you’d need to use SFX makeup techniques (special effects makeup). Most women don’t know how to apply makeup with that level of skill. Like I said, men wouldn’t benefit from eye makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:06 AM
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I mean...makeup enhances features and can conceal some blemishes. It doesn't alter your appearance in a significant way. The average women aren't out here doing SFX makeup on a daily basis. Men can have their own version of contouring through facial hair. That can be shaped to create an illusion of a more defined jawline (or hide a bad one), and define their cheekbones. Straight guys wouldn't really benefit from eye makeup or false lashes because neither of those things would align with the stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:32 AM
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Men can dress for their body types, get good haircuts, have a skincare routine, and use the same more invasive treatments that women use (filler, cosmetic surgery). The only thing that isn't quite as socially acceptable for straight men to use is makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:04 AM
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Makeup enhances women's features. Women can do eye makeup and wear lashes to draw attention away from blemishes. Dressing for your body type can give the illusion of a different body shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:00 AM
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Reality: "the world or the state of things as they actually exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them." Yes, confirmation bias exists outside of digital spaces, but it's much easier to rationalize this bias when a person sees posts with 1M likes that affirms whatever delusional belief they have. Everything is amplified on social media, and everyone's feed is an echo chamber. It's not an issue of people seeing content that challenges their beliefs and ignoring it. People are sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:57 AM
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OR it shows that women know how to enhance their assets and draw attention away from their physical flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:41 AM
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Yes. This delusion fueling influence that social media has on people also exists within news, television, and even video games. People see bad behavior from a certain group of people on social media, see the likes and comments, and assume that the majority of that group of people exhibit that behavior. I'm not saying that there are no women who are gold diggers, or men who are cheaters or abusers (to use the examples I mentioned earlier). I'm saying that people will see that shit online and assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:24 AM
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The crazy has become antibiotic resistant. The crazy pills don't work anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:01 AM
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I said social media isn't a reflection of reality, not that it doesn't influence people. Social media influences many people's perception of reality, as we can clearly see in OP's post. That doesn't mean that it's a reflection of reality. Every person's feed looks different. The version of "reality" that I see on social media is different from what you see. Does that mean that my version is right and yours is wrong? No. In fact, it's likely that they're both misrepresenting reality. We see conte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:59 AM
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Using a comment section on social media is an idiotic way to draw conclusions about human behavior. Social media is not a reflection of reality. Thinking that's the case is delusional. Common sense would say that a person will get offended if someone calls them naturally unattractive. However, he claimed that women violently lash out when someone says that they aren't pretty without makeup, fillers and surgery. And that entire argument is based entirely on a comment section from social media. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:02 AM
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Because she didn't carry him inside, and place him gently on a bathroom floor in front of a toilet while giving him a full body massage, stroking his hair, and telling him he's a good boy. This is what a true nurturing woman would do...if they existed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:36 AM
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cool, cool...can I get that $100 tho? I'll draw you a picture of me walking past you on a sidewalk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:30 AM
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I used to do full glam on nights where I was locked in my room studying and stressed tf out. Makeup is a relaxing creative outlet for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:27 AM
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My flair is literally Chadasaurus Sex 69...all this proves is I think the concept of chad is funny/that's the name I would have if I started selling online courses 🦖
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:05 AM
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That's the only logical explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:47 AM
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Because I can't have sex with someone whose personality repulses me. If a man is arrogant, rude, stupid and/or can't hold an interesting conversation, I don't want to be around him, let alone touch him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:47 AM
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Could be vibes, and different women find different physical attributes attractive. Also if I can sense arrogance in a man, it doesn't matter how physically attractive he is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:19 PM
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It doesn't sound like they were dumb. What makes you think that abuse victims victims are simply dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:00 PM
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There's often a binge eating disorder associated with obesity, that's a process addiction. People with addictions frequently have other mental health issues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:58 PM
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<image> I'm 24
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:54 PM
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Yeah that's pretty common. Abusers frequently use money to try to keep their victims from leaving them. Do you think that those relatives were simply dumb, and that's why they got in abusive relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:46 PM
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Again, they're not dumb. They have low self esteems- making them think that they deserve the abuse. They also often grew up around some kind of abuse- leading them to believe abusive relationships are their own version of normal. Has anyone close to you ever been in an abusive relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:37 PM
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They’re the only one who try to be nice and positive, because that’s the only way they can get seen in a swamp of negativity. Some of them are positive. Others are there to boost engagement through polarization and affirming negative beliefs. People stay engaged when they are emotionally triggered and arguing, not when they're looking at overly positive comments. Still, once people become deluded and negative because of the online stuff, doesn’t the online stuff become an accurate reflection of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:31 PM
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Women get horny too. Women can be dumb too. No shit. I literally said this earlier: Women are capable of doing stupid things because they’re horny- just like men. There's no mental gymnastics here, I'm simply stating that you're completely incorrect in your assertion that most abuse victims are simply horny and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:59 PM
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If it's a one night stand and I don't know the person at all, he needs to be: physically attractive, intelligent/able to hold a conversation that isn't dull, charismatic enough that there's chemistry, able to pass the asshole vibe check, not irritatingly arrogant, not tweak out worrying that I gave him a fake number when he asked. And I'd also need to be a little drunk, horny, and in a pretty good mood. I don't really do one night stands anymore, more fwb if we're just talking about casual relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:54 PM
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It's an echo chamber where people are psychologically manipulated to constantly engage, and where their attention becomes a currency. It influences people's perception of reality...pushing them towards delusion. There are also tons of bots that are used to boost engagement through posts and comments
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:32 PM
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They based their entire argument on an instagram post and comment section. I believe that is very illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:19 PM
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What about the mean girls and guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:10 PM
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Let's not delude ourselves into thinking that instagram posts and comment sections are reflections of reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:40 PM
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If this was true then women would also find fat guys and make them hit the gym. Which is not happening is it? You're ignoring the fact that abuse victims innately feel that they deserve abuse. They think "this is all I deserve," and they hope "I will become worthy if he changes for me." Abusers are not always the most attractive people. It's likely that a person would get into a relationship with an abuser that they were attracted to because...people get into relationships with people they're at…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:36 PM
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Yeah I wasn't trying to attack you. Just commenting on the absurdity of that argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:04 PM
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I think it does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:49 PM
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Old and grandiose just because he fucked a few lesbians 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:39 PM
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✂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:32 PM
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Lmao is that a bad thing now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:19 PM
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“I can fix him” isn’t horniness. It’s insecurity. It’s saying “if I can fix him…if he’ll change for me, then I’m worth something.” Women are capable of doing stupid things because they’re horny- just like men. Those things could include sleeping with a guy who they’re not that attracted to, or who they know is a fuckboy, for example. Falling for an abusive person or staying in an abusive relationship is not an issue of horniness or being dumb. Men can be in abusive relationships with other men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:11 PM
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Thanks 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:35 AM
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That’s what I call character building
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:27 AM
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You don’t have to be a mind reader. If you can’t handle being rejected when you approach a stranger, then I guess you shouldn’t ever approach. Otherwise, following simple social etiquette and noticing body language can get you results. Overthinking things like that isn’t going to do you any good. Also liking posts on social media means absolutely nothing. And the majority of men that I know don’t put much effort into taking good pictures for social media. The ones that do will literally have pho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:25 AM
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Yeah I just had a lot of crazy shit happen today and I’m kinda sleep deprived. Thank you for asking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:17 AM
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Yeah…I just looked it up. Definitely gonna bring this one up in therapy bc I didn’t even realize it was abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:15 AM
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Shit that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:13 AM
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Approaching women isn't inappropriate 100% of the time. There are simply times where women don't want to be approached. If a woman is in the middle of doing something (mid workout, talking on the phone, ordering their food, checking out at a store etc.), don't approach them. Interrupting anyone is just rude. If a woman is walking alone on the street at night, that's also not a good time to approach. If you ask a woman for her number and she says no, you should leave her alone. All of this just r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:55 AM
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Abusers prey on people with low self esteems because those are the people who innately think they deserve the abuse, and are generally much more emotionally vulnerable. It’s not simply a matter of being dumb vs smart. You can be a genius, and be very emotionally vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:22 AM
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Fr he’s acting like we’re a different species
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:09 AM
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They’re probably projecting. They may be unable to comprehend that there are men who don’t solely think with their dicks…or that men are even capable of having a high emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:03 AM
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Do you ever feel so detached that everything you see just looks slightly surreal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:58 AM
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Yeah lol I figured. Those are also the same people who are more likely to look after their ill parents in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:54 PM
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Not a fan of the stalking and attempting to eliminate all possible threats approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:53 PM
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Hmmm probably the same people who are more likely to look after their ill parents
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:48 PM
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Ugh if I hear that shit one more time…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:38 PM
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You were just thinking about all the things you would’ve done instead huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:32 PM
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Option 3: Patiently wait until someone develops hyper-realistic sex robots that also know how to cook and clean. I'd give it a decade or two. Maybe we can even get the government to subsidize them for the extra lonely!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:35 PM
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I guess they're just mad that they might have to work on themselves to get dates...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:14 PM
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I can't speak for all women, but personally, I've just never felt like approaching someone in a romantic or sexual context. I think if I ever got to a point where I wanted to go on more dates, and wasn't getting asked out, I'd probably start approaching people. I don't really use dating apps anymore. Back when I used them, I rarely messaged people first because I just felt indifferent to them. If I don't know a person, I just don't feel the strong desire to talk to them to the point where I'd go…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:42 PM
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👏🏽 Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:27 PM
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*public shame
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:13 PM
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✨Manifesting✨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:52 AM
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Men are silver foxes, women are hags This one always gets me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:41 AM
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You're making a lot of assumptions here...sex doesn't equal emotional intimacy for everyone. To say that casual sex requires emotional detachment isn't a fair assumption. Sex is just an illusion of intimacy, in my opinion, and I'm not the only person that has this view. The thing that determines whether sex is actually emotionally intimate or not, for me, is the emotional connection I have with the person- outside of sex. While some people might compartmentalize in order to have casual sex, this…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:33 PM
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I tried explaining to her that men don't want to feel like a downgrade and don't feel desired when women hook up with super hot guys on Tinder and basically see them as the "safe, reliable" option. This reasoning is rooted in insecurity. You would essentially feel insecure about her feelings for you because of her past sexual history. Everyone is entitled to their own dating preferences...it doesn't really matter whether others agree or disagree with them. But, that doesn't mean this way of thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:15 PM
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Real. Its taught me how to synthesize closeted misogynist repellent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:02 AM
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You know there are many women who enjoy casual sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:50 PM
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If she’s into that, she’s either bi, bi-curious, or trying to make her man happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:55 AM
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Are you bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:52 AM
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Where exactly are you getting this from? I’m bi and I have no problem dating bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:51 AM
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Having your partner work while you stay at home, and having him deal with finances is still very different from having him lead. It’s normal to divide responsibilities based on each partner’s strengths. Is this just a 24/7 submission kink thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:11 PM
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You know what’s really crazy? People can pick partners they can rely on without being “led” by them and treated like a subservient! 😱 And yeah, driving myself into hell would be being tied to a man who treats me like an incapable child in the name of “love” I’m glad you get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:42 PM
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Lmao I did that in high school. Idk how many grown ass woman there are using cheats in the sims… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:49 PM
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Lmfao just another day, and another manic episode…felt that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:44 PM
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🫡 famous last words lol…but have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:41 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 don’t get baby trapped tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:38 PM
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Being “led” by someone isn’t a partnership. What you described sounds like my personal hell, but if you would rather be a stay at home wife, that’s okay. You can stay at home, and do all the cooking, cleaning, and childcare if that’s what you want to do. But you can do all of those things without being “led.” You basically described a relationship where you mentally check out, and have your man make all the decisions for you. At best, you lose a sense of autonomy, at worst, you end up with a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:11 PM
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Ohhh so you wan't to come up with an original man-made term...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:01 AM
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Or a strong woman, or a robot. You're just talking about a need for manual labor in these examples. I've literally never had male friends do anything like that for me. My family helps me move when I need to. If I needed someone to carry furniture, I'd pay the delivery fee. Idk what kind of relationship you have with your female friends, but I personally don't see men do any of that for their female friends. I also just don't see women trying to hold on to male friends either. Nearly every man I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:01 AM
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Did you read the original comment about the elderly men who live in filth and have bedbugs because they live alone? That's what I was referring to. Then another guy said this proves that women are biological house cleaners. I said this example doesn't prove that women are biological house cleaners, and if anything, it would prove that men need a woman because they don't know how to take care of themselves. If we're living in a little delulu world where singular examples "prove" entire generaliza…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:30 AM
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If we’re defining “women” as knowing how to take care of yourself, then sure. Your terminology 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:57 PM
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No…if anything, this shows that men need a woman to lead them because they can’t take care of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:29 PM
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lol ig I’ll just have to stick to looking at myself in the mirror and calling myself a bad bitch…and everyone else baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:25 PM
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Isn’t that just bad bitch energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:45 PM
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Lmao *walks in with crackhead eyes and hand tremors”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:06 AM
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​ “I feel like I could take over the world if I really wanted to.” Lol I love my stims delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:17 AM
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Have you never seen a black mirror episode?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:09 AM
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<image> I really have ChatGPT calling me exotic now huh💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:55 AM
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Yeah it really isn’t. It’s enough to live comfortably in certain cities- not rich
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:06 PM
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Wait I gotta try this shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:33 PM
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Because not everyone enjoys it. It means nothing to those who don’t enjoy casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:14 PM
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That sounds a lot more accurate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:12 PM
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Did you will them into existence or something because I don’t see these women you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:33 AM
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Ample opportunity to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:58 AM
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Yeah. What does your claim about women getting offended when unattractive men ask them out have to do with women wanting men to respect when they say “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:08 AM
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Uh oh you should get one of a topless mermaid with massive tits just to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:02 AM
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Speak for yourself. I cry myself to sleep each night, actively resisting the urge to drown my sorrows in more cats and boxed wine- just waiting for chad to realize that I’m the only one for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:42 AM
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Sounds like you just wanted to complain about your cousin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:34 AM
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You’re seriously saying that there’s a subset of women who want random men that they don’t know to disrespect their boundaries and “chase” them? That’s so bizarre. I’m not gonna flat out say they don’t exist because there are some insane people out there, but significant??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:07 AM
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That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m saying if a woman says no, you should leave. Literally all I am saying is people should respect other people’s boundaries and accept the word “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:01 AM
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What’s #1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:18 PM
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What? Who has a problem with men accepting when women say no? I’m not saying you shouldn’t approach women. I’m just saying that if a woman says no, leave her alone. I don’t see how other women would have a problem with that. Pressuring women into doing things is not okay. That is precisely the bs that makes women weary of random men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:18 PM
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No like I’m speaking to someone on the phone, in the middle of a conversation with the phone to my ear, and they tried to come up and say “you’re really pretty, can I have your number”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:13 PM
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Hahah yeah I personally wouldn’t call that creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:11 PM
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Do you say a lot of sexual comments when first meeting them? Some men will also literally interrupt women while they’re in the middle of something to try to ask for their numbers. I wouldn’t call that creepy, but it’s definitely rude and obnoxious. I’ve had a couple men try to interrupt me while I’m visibly on the phone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:48 AM
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No you’re not. You did a shitting thing, and now you have the opportunity to make it right with your family by apologizing, and do what you can to make sure this doesn’t happen again You’re human, it’s okay to make mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:41 AM
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You’re right. But refusing to accept the first “no” is when things become problematic. If a man respectfully asks a woman out, and leaves her alone when she says no, that’s different from a man persisting after the woman says no, or demanding a “satisfactory” explanation for her “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:29 AM
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Taking responsibility for it is one of the hardest aspects of change. And we all have our moments and seasons of being a “red flag.” Falling deep into shame won’t do you much good. I like to rage journal lol. Just let it out on paper or typed…helps me with emotional regulation. It also helps me get at the root of my anger so that I can actually process it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:19 AM
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Most of the time it’s not a question of “what would you do in this hypothetical scenario”- at least, I don’t typically reply to those. It’ll simply be a question of what I (as a woman) currently think and believe about some general topic. I’ll share that belief, and have at least one dude trying to tell me that I’m wrong because “I’m lying” or “that’s not how women think.” People may subconsciously consider the most positive outcome in hypothetical scenarios, but these accusations persist when w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:10 AM
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“What the fuck does blue pill even mean anymore? I guarantee you can't coherently define it.” I thought we were just doing a parody of red pill lol. Didn’t think there was some system of beliefs that we all must follow…we’re just not red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:47 AM
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Yeah I’ve been in a relationship with a guy awhile back who had “rules” like that and I left it fairly quickly. Doesn’t change the fact that those rules are rooted in insecurity, and I think it’s immature, emotionally devolved, and controlling as hell. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m bi. If someone tried to impose those rules on me and I put up with it for some reason, I’d have no friends. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:36 AM
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Fr you sound almost utilitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:29 AM
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I think you should just communicate what you want directly. Maybe don’t say “be more pervy” lol but say that you like when he initiates more and “surprises” you or whatever it is you’re looking for. You guys are in a relationship so I’m sure having a conversation about your fetishes/fantasies would be very normal. He probably just doesn’t understand what you’re looking for. He might be hesitant and worried that touching you like that at random times would make you uncomfortable, so it’s best to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:18 AM
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Idk the ASPD flair makes it significantly less horrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:55 PM
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Fr this is literally an anonymous forum… why tf would we sit here and lie to men just to get some upvotes 😂. If I wanted upvotes, I wouldn’t be replying to men who try to tell me that my own thoughts and opinions about the female experience are wrong in a community with 100k people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:04 PM
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I bet it would work if a bunch of us pooled our money together and became one collective billionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:03 AM
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Some very insecure men and women make “rules” that their partners can’t be friends with the opposite sex (or just throw temper tantrums if it happens). It’s super controlling and rooted in insecurity, and the people who impose these rules are often cheating on their partner as well. It’s stupid, but unfortunately many of my female friends have been or are currently in relationships with men who are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:54 AM
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If I agree does that mean the dickpocalypse is off?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:42 AM
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Makeup, lip fillers, possible nose job…she isn’t natural lmao 🤣 Hot but not at all natural
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:46 AM
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<image> Young thug did it so you can too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:43 AM
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🤣 I love a good dickpocalypse threat from incels who won’t even get up off their asses and go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:39 AM
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Now there’s an idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:26 AM
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Did you read the comment? I’m not sure why you’re still confused. The previous commenter claimed that they don’t look like kids (minors) because they are done with puberty- it’s quite easy to deduce that the claim implies that puberty makes 16 year olds look so adult-like that it’s ridiculous to say they look like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:17 AM
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I said they have baby faces in response to his original claim that 98% of 16 year olds are done with puberty- implying that the 98% look like adult women because they are done with puberty. Does it make sense now? It might help to reread the original post to understand the overall context
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:52 AM
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The previous commenter made a generalization about 16 year olds girls looking like adult women. I said they do not. That doesn’t mean there can’t be a small subset who do look like adult women. Does that make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:33 AM
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She’s probably just using that rhetoric for views. People will say anything to boost engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:47 AM
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Yes, I did. 16 year olds typically still have baby faces. Stop trying to rationalize your attraction to them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:41 AM
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I was actually a 16 year old girl once, believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:19 AM
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They literally still have baby faces 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:15 AM
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Thrillers and horror are meant to scare people. They’re entertainment, not real. Our experiences dictate our fears- not literal movies and films. I was scared of movie previews I saw as a child, but at about 15, I grew out of it because I recognized that none of it is real. I enjoy horror movies and thrillers now. If my television consumption dictated my fears, I’d still be afraid of demons, serial killers, being tortured, dismembered…the list could go on. I’m no more afraid of those things than…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:02 PM
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Nah he’s definitely more attractive than her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:37 AM
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Asking what someone does for work is pretty standard when you first meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:24 AM
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You should see a psychiatrist if you can afford to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:23 AM
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Seriously. We shouldn’t have to explain ourselves for saying no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:14 AM
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Dude not all women want to be in exclusive relationships and have deep emotional connections with people they sleep with. A fun fling doesn’t involve a deep emotional connection…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:58 PM
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Lol there’s no shortage of men with mommy issues 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:54 PM
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I tend to get anxious on first dates so I prefer drinks, but coffee is also fine. I don’t expect anyone to spend a lot on a first date. If someone’s taking me to coffee for a first date, thats fine, but I’m also not going to get dressed up like I’m going to a nice dinner for that 😂 I think the women you’re referring to (if they’re people you met and not TikTok vids) maybe just be saying that men shouldn’t expect a woman to dress up, spend hours getting ready, and wear their most expensive perfum…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:39 PM
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Exactly. I couldn’t care less whether or not they drink. I just wouldn’t want to be with someone who can’t be around people who do drink
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:29 PM
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Maybe it’s because she actually enjoys being friends with you 😂 If you guys weren’t friends but more acquaintances, she also could have just said that as a way to turn you down nicely and not hurt your feelings. If you see her everyday that could have been it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:13 PM
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The dragon slayer comment really got me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:00 AM
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“we all know that men are most attracted to 18yr olds” Why is it always brought back to this 😂 I suppose the men who only care about a woman’s age (and no other attribute) are settling by staying with their wives. But I don’t think the majority of men have the sole criteria of “must be 18” when dating- that’s very two dimensional
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:08 PM
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Yes. The draft wasn’t rooted in a prejudice against men. It was rooted in the belief that women were incapable of fighting in war, so men would be the only ones left to defend the country in dire circumstances. Still unethical, in my opinion, but not rooted in misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:27 PM
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lol yeah I know I used ChatGPT’s to pull some sources and analyze things for a research project. I’ve had o1 and o3 “think” for around 3 minutes in the past, but I was shocked when this took 9 or 10. But yeah, if you have the content from the chat, I’d be interested to see the analysis of red pill. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a legitimate source that supports it in any significant way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:23 PM
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Oooh yeah I’m not gonna pay for a dating app lol. Definitely not worth it if all you’re really getting is the bottom 50% of people on the apps filtered out. Not being able to filter by distance is also kind of ridiculous…that’s a standard feature in every other dating app I’ve tried
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:17 PM
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Huh that's interesting. Was your experience on Raya different from other dating apps in any way? I personally hate dating apps for a number of reasons, but I wonder if the fact that Raya is more selective impacts things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:02 AM
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As an autistic man I often forget that people ask questions that don't mean what they're literally asking. That's very understandable. The "ex" topic with new dates can be a difficult conversation to navigate. My working theory is that she was trying to ask that, and that the reason she wanted to ask is because my language was too expressive and also literal when talking about my ex. When it comes to talking about exes with new potential partners, I think it's wise to talk about them in a neutra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:44 AM
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Interesting. I've had times where I intentionally don't date or have sex because I'm just going though something, or need to heal without distractions, or am too depressed lol. Best of luck on your journey 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:33 AM
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From what you described, it sounds like the issue could have been the fact that you said you’d want to visit the country your ex lives in. From the way you explained the conversation, it’s possible that “would you want to visit the country your ex lives in?” was just an indirect way of asking “do you want to visit your ex?” When you said yes, she may have assumed that you’re still hung up on your ex and that you want to go visit her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:43 AM
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Lmao that is one way to use chatGPT 😂 But yeah I think at least half of the posts here are related to some deep rooted insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:39 AM
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He’s saying women’s motivations for getting abortions are rooted in misandry? I’ve never heard someone talk about abortion in the context of misogyny or misandry- even if someone believed that abortion was murder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:31 AM
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If this isn’t to personal of a question…why are you striving for lifelong celibacy? Is it for religious reasons? And well said. Women don’t typically see each other as competition in the way that some men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:28 AM
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Don’t you need to be an influencer for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:22 AM
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Misandry is the hatred of men. The draft was not rooted in misandry. It was unethical in my opinion, but it was not motivated by misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:20 AM
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Technically, so can women who are being emotionally abused or are in a relationship. What you’re saying kind of sounds like victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:14 AM
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lol what does that have to do with misogyny and misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:12 AM
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I mean, that’s fine. You don’t have to be ambitious if you don’t want to lol. But as someone who is ambitious, I also want to be with someone who has ambition. There will probably be times where I’m very busy with work or another project, and I worry that someone who isn’t also ambitious wouldn’t understand that (and end up feeling neglected or that I don’t care or something like that) I also just enjoy connecting with people who are very passionate about achieving things (or at least 1 thing). …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:52 AM
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Exactly. A med student, for example, likely won’t be making as much as someone who is already working in their field, but that med student is actively working towards a goal. It’s not about current salary for me, it’s about ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:38 PM
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I don’t know where these men are who have a high emotional intelligence and feel like they should lead women lmao. That is a whole paradox…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:20 PM
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I personally prefer those who don’t limit themselves to the traits of the sex they were born as. Balance between traditional “masculine” and “feminine” traits is what creates a balanced and well rounded person. And for fucks sake we don’t need to be “led.” We’re not children. There is no part of me that wants a relationship with some dude who’s gonna both act like my parent, and expect me to cook and clean for him 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:16 PM
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Thank you for reminding me to take mine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:48 AM
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🤣🤣 you’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:46 AM
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Are you sane? It helps to be at least 60% sane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:44 AM
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Absolutely not. I have insomnia lmao if their rude ass woke me up after I finally managed to fall asleep, they will feel the full wrath of my sleep deprived rage monster. But realistically I’d be awake at 1:30, so I’d do it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:42 AM
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They really don’t know what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:39 AM
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I don't really have any interest in dating tbh because I can't even properly take care of myself so I ain't gonna involve some random chick into this I really feel that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:52 AM
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Shit girl I'm sorry that happened to you. Yeah I'd agree. Reading some of the things here makes me feel sane, comparatively lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:47 AM
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😨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:35 AM
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Atlantis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:31 AM
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Yeah I also haven't heard a single person say that men love unconditionally in real life. I've heard people say that parents love their children unconditionally, but never that men or women love their partners unconditionally. This claim likely stems from not understanding the difference between love and obsession, or just some more delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:22 AM
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Never in my life have I been so relieved by a single reddit comment. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:14 AM
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Self awareness is the ability to identify ones own shortcomings. Attempting to generalize 50% of the human population, and assign "inferiorities" is entirely pointless. Your attempt at doing that for men was also pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:07 AM
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Nope that’s not why I said it was wholesome. Did you read nothing past “when my wife was 20”? Do not ruin this rare moment of wholesomeness please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:16 PM
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god I love the wholesomeness 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:56 AM
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I wouldn’t say that’s a matter of “luck.” Cluster B personality disorders represent a very small percentage of the population, and people with those disorders present with some pretty noticeable symptoms and behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:53 AM
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Processing your emotions just refers to the overall process of identifying, acknowledging, understanding, and responding to emotions in a healthy way. You don't need to go through this kind of process for every single emotion you have, but it's wise to do this when you encounter negative emotions. Here is a simple explanation of the steps involved in processing emotions. Here is a much more technical, in-depth explanation if you're interested. Suppressing your emotions is an attempt to control y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:05 AM
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Oooh I'll watch that one next. I mean, I think humans are pretty scary, but I just don't see most incels doing anything lol. It seems like not doing things is their thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:56 PM
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I don't think all men think women who are 25-30+ are ugly and undatable. I wouldn't even say the majority are like that either, I think there are some keyboard warriors who say that shit on here, but they aren't representative of the majority. I'm not married, but it's my understanding that most people get married for reasons other than appearance. The love you have for someone will make them more physically attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:52 PM
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But have you ever seen the incel SVU episode? Pretty scary stuff...crying oceans as I type this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:42 PM
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$500M tax free. $1M is pretty insignificant in the long run, and a lifetime is a long time. But I need to be able to invest it so it can grow, and spend it on whatever I want. What's the point if I can't use it to help the people I care about? And if I was given that offer before any romantic or sexual experiences, I definitely would've taken it (still would need to be able to spend it on whatever I want).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:07 PM
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god I can't tell if he's trying to be ironic or not at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:35 PM
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Lol 45% of women voted for trump, and 43% of men voted for Kamala. The differences weren't that dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:31 PM
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It might help to consider going back to therapy! Haha yeah I was referring more to siblings or cousins around your age- not parents 😂 Happy to help :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:16 PM
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🤦🏽‍♀️ That's so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:07 PM
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I used to have very sever social anxiety too, so I get that. Personally, weed made that anxiety much worse long term, it helped in the short-term, but ended up making things worse for me. Have you considered therapy? You could do virtual sessions. That's the thing that has helped me the most with my anxiety. Do you have friends or family that you'd be comfortable going to social events with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:59 PM
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Have you ever considered joining a hiking group, learning to play a musical instrument, or painting things for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:42 PM
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Ok, well good luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:39 PM
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Men are able to suppress and move with or without emotion Control their emotions and think rationally and logically Suppressing your emotions shows a lack of emotional intelligence. This isn't control of your emotions, it's avoidance- which stems from fear. Having 'control' over your emotions is having the ability to understand and process your emotions. This is what allows for true, healthy emotional regulation. They are expected to and trained to and punished for not doing it I do agree that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:38 PM
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Then how will you make sure there are no women in there lying and screwing with your data?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:54 PM
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I mean doing something you love is most important, but is this what you want the rest of your life to look like (plus a relationship)? And do you know what kind of relationship you want, and what kind of woman you want to be with? Are there any activities or hobbies you enjoy? It'll help you a lot to at least be passionate about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:52 PM
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Actually, why don't you go ahead and do that so women can quickly and easily see who is a part of that group, and avoid them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:47 PM
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An ambitious woman is unlikely to want to date an unambitious man. Going on dates with him first would just be a waste of time for both of them. Are you employed? As a woman with strong career aspirations, I would be very concerned if a man I was dating had no career. I would personally see that as a sign that the man is indecisive and apathetic/lazy (I'm not trying to be mean lol, this is just how I would interpret the situation). You don't need to be making 6 figures to get a date, but you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:41 PM
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Being hurt by someone specifying their dating preferences is a matter of insecurity. This is similar to saying "it's wrong for a super thin and toned woman to post bikini pics because it makes some women who don't look like that feel bad about themselves." People don't need to bend over backwards to make sure an insecure person's feelings aren't hurt. Everyone is allowed to have their preferences when dating, and directly communicating those preferences would likely waste less time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:47 PM
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Actually, empathy is feeling the emotions of another person. What you just described is a cognitive understanding of emotions. Empathy essentially goes a step past this cognitive understanding. Having high empathy is not about understanding the plight of the underprivileged. That's easy. Having high empathy is understanding the plight of the serial killer or rapist. Empathy is feeling the emotions of the underprivileged, and the violent offenders in your example. Again, this does require cogniti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:24 PM
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Wow, I'd be kind of offended by this if I was a man. You're making it seem like men are incapable of having emotional intelligence, and are some glorified machine-like problem solvers. Empathy is a part of emotional intelligence, and is something that's often learned. Just because something is intangible, doesn't mean it isn't "a real problem." What you're describing isn't even a cognitive understanding of emotions. Claiming that women simply get upset about mundane things because of hormones sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:16 PM
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Being single forever is a nonissue. That’s why I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship like that. I personally would want to be in a relationship with someone who isn’t asexual. What you just described is basically just a really close friendship. I cuddle with my friends too lol. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with the relationship you described, I just personally wouldn’t categorize that as a romantic relationship. I’d much rather just marry my best friend at that point and have an open marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:38 PM
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lol I’m honestly not seeing any downsides to that arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:15 AM
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Now there’s an idea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:18 PM
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You’re not a teenager anymore. I heard loads of bullshit in high school as well, but as I got older, I was able to discern what was legitimate and helpful, and what was not. Yes, things we hear as teens can be harmful to development, but growing up is working through those issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:17 AM
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Knowing that your biological father doesn't want to be in your life doesn't mean the child is destined to a life of misery. It's likely that the child will experience emotional struggle due to this, but it's not a one-way ticket to a completely horrible life. Your assertion that this should be an objective moral rule is simply not realistic. We can't be certain that a child's life will result in enough suffering without a father figure that they are better off never living. If a mother chooses t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:51 AM
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Correct. You don't need to be resentful when you're a direct descendant of the original dino-rizz monster. Buy my online courses for a low, low price of $19.99 a month and I'll share the ancient rizz secrets of old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:20 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:13 PM
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Yes it would
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:11 PM
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Wow this is such an interesting take. I can't say I know much about red pill content creators, so I just assumed that most red pill people were western men because it started in the west. My parents were born in the US and are fully assimilated, but I still can't believe I didn't spot the people you're referencing. I feel so relieved...I was sitting here trying to understand why some assimilated western men were fixated on these outdated views of women (virgin obsessed, women are inferior, stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:44 PM
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Some people need a good verbal bitch slap...doing god's work right here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:18 PM
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Fr. Such an order would truly heal my soul 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:09 PM
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You only get a discount if you order a random assortment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:29 PM
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It’s true. Cat cuddles cancel out the existential rage that comes from doom scrolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:50 PM
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Girl these stats don’t prove anything about the percentage of women getting approached or not. I mean no hate because op based a whole argument off a medium blog article, but you haven’t even shown correlation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:26 AM
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So you have a wife and started that relationship through her approaching you…and you’re telling men who want a relationship that they need to do as you did in order to get the relationship they want? Everyone’s life, personality and experiences are different. What works for you will not work for every other man on the planet. It’s ignorant to assume that it will, and it’s harmful to spread such black and white thinking. I assumed you were miserable because you sound so resentfully miserable. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:17 AM
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I mean you can judge whoever you want whenever. Sometimes I get angry and am kind of an asshole lol. When I’m not quite so heated, I try to be more gentle and kind and approach people and situations with empathy. People don’t need to hear my most unsympathetic opinions. I also wouldn’t want to mimic my behavior based off of the government’s actions 😂 But when people are asking for your opinions, you can absolutely share them however you want. Just because I may choose to approach situations diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:09 AM
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At least you own it 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:55 AM
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Idk man watch in moderation? That shit is addicting for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:54 AM
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I don't "want men bound to gender roles." Don't twist my words. I said that I think it's stupid to tell a man who wants a relationship to not put in effort into getting a relationship (by not approaching women). I don't give a flying fuck if some subset of men stopped approaching women because they're mad that they were expected to do it. This alone is proof that women are not good mates nowadays and men would be better off lonely than with... that mentality. Sure dude. You were clearly just wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:28 AM
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Fucking Christ this is ridiculous. Do you have a PHD in mind reading? What makes you think you know everything about the motivations of others? Why do you think everyone has to fit into your little narrative? You literally know nothing about me, stop assuming that you do. Stop assuming that the motivations of other people you may or may not actually know about are going to apply to me. I am not the only woman who looks good for herself. It’s honestly mind boggling that you’re being so insistent …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:18 AM
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I can't think of an ethical theory that would support aborting babies for the sole reason that one of the parents is absent in their life. Even if we were to use the utilitarian approach, how can we be certain that a child's life will result in more pain than joy just because they grew up without a father? And how can we know that the child wouldn't want to be alive- even if they end up experiencing suffering? I know several people who grew up without father figures. They experienced some strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:57 AM
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Yeah it mostly benefited white women. I'm more concerned about Executive Order No. 11246 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:46 AM
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Yeah this is what happens when people are ruled by resentment 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:40 AM
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If a man wants to do that, I don't care lol. I'm not going to stop him. But if a man wants a relationship, he shouldn't choose to be lonely just because he's angry that women aren't approaching him. That only hurts himself, and it's bad advice to give someone who wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:37 AM
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It takes a lot to change the patterns of an entire society. People are better off approaching if they want a relationship, and not doing so if they don't want a relationship. Men won't collectively stop approaching women when they're looking for a relationship. Telling men to stop approaching women even though they're looking for a relationship is just going to lead to more men complaining about how single they are and how it's "all women's fault." I mean, if a straight woman was looking for a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:30 AM
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You don't have to approach women if you don't feel like it. But if you're single and you don't want to be, it would help to approach people. No one is forcing anybody to approach anybody. There are women who approach men when they want to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:21 AM
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Have you tried asking your female friends to set you up? I personally don’t like or use the apps so I don’t have much advice there lol. Other than that, I think people have success approaching women at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:13 AM
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Lmao I don’t get what’s so difficult to grasp about the idea that some women don’t give a fuck about the male gaze, and want to look good for themselves 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:09 AM
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Just because you do things for certain reasons doesn’t mean everyone else does. I mean, this is ridiculous. I can’t I’ve got a man, who doesn’t know me at all, telling me why I do the things I do. I have enough self awareness to discern what my motivations are for wanting to look good. If I was simply trying to look good for men, I’d do the fucking “all natural” makeup every day- not put literal glitter on my eyelids whenever I feel like it 😂. I can walk outside in leggings with no makeup and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:08 AM
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Now how is that logical...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:15 PM
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If you ask and take someone out on a date, you should pay for them And have you ever actually met a gold digger? They don't go after "regular" guys. They date men who take them on trips to Dubai and keep them in a steady supply of designer clothes/shoes/bags/jewelry. They're usually sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:05 PM
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I know some guys think that girls that expect you to pay are gold diggers. But she’s not like that. Lmfao a wise woman once said gold diggers dig for G Wagons and Birkins, not pasta 😂 Red pill will leave you hoeless fr 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:54 PM
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Change is always difficult, but it's sometimes necessary. The neural pathways that dictate behavior and describe personality are like dirt paths. The more they're 'walked on,' the deeper they are. It's difficult to change, but not impossible. It takes an immense amount of work, and the motivation to successfully do it has to come from within. Some people need to change in order to save their own lives at some point, others can manage to spend the rest of their lives in a state of discontent. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:46 PM
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You said you live in a big city, right? I notice that people generally have that “stay away from me” attitude in big cities. I wouldn’t say it has much to do with how attractive you are, but more to do with the fact that people just have their guard up more. I notice that a lot where I am too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:55 PM
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Yeah mild shame allows us to remain ethical and have a conscience, but in this case, it’s very damaging
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:50 PM
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It’s touching that you think I’m not vain enough to stare at myself in the mirror in awe for several minutes, but I assure you, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:47 PM
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That's true, but if a man does have less than ideal facial structure, those options would definitely help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:14 PM
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Are you awkward around women? If you don't feel comfortable talking to women, it's gonna be hard to make connections with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:12 PM
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God I'm dreading graduating in May...I'm in comp sci and the tech bros club is already bad enough lol. I already feel like I need to create the most technically complex projects for my portfolio just to prove I'm not bad at math. 😂 It also doesn’t help that when after some time in my career I started to notice when male coworkers get given more credit and praise for the work we do in our department Ugh girl I am so sorry. Some of these men can't even fathom that a woman can be just as competent …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:09 PM
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I mean an attractive trait could be as simple as having good hair. And, what is considered an attractive trait is different for each woman. You shouldn't give up if you want a relationship. Just work towards becoming the best version of yourself (just like everyone should), and build connections with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:39 PM
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Yeah being in a STEM field has made it extra difficult to keep thoughts at bay, I still feel like I need to overcompensate just for being a woman. it was more so that I was very judgmental. I hated all “feminine” qualities and so I deeply judged myself and other girls for not being more like boys. That's how it was for me too. I always got extra judgy when any woman or girl was being emotional- even when it way my mother 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:20 PM
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I can't speak for all women ofc, but I do none of these things for men. l take care of myself because I like staring at myself in the mirror, and enjoy staring at myself more when I look extra good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:12 PM
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Men can still get a nose job and fillers. When done right, fillers aren't noticeable. They can also use facial hair as a way to contour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:10 PM
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Gotta love natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:00 PM
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Of course it's ok! Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. Extremists tend to draw attention away from the core beliefs of any movement, so I just wanted to mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:44 PM
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🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:42 PM
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THANK YOU. I've had such a negative association with feminine attributes. I always felt inferior because I thought being a woman made you passive, too emotional, irrational, less intelligent, physically and mentally weak, etc. I still struggle with seeing seeing value of femininity in myself. I wouldn't say I felt hatred towards girls, but I believed that I and every other woman was inferior to men and boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:39 PM
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You too queen 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:31 PM
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I thought it was only 80% of women- not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:27 PM
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You don't have to agree with modern or radical feminism to be a feminist. A core aspect of feminism is simply about allowing women to choose how they want to lead their lives. Because of feminism, we can vote, work, drive, and choose not to get married (and still be able to support ourselves). Women are also free to lead more "traditional" lives if that's what they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:25 PM
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For me, there has to be a little bit of physical attraction to begin with. It's pretty rare that I see a guy who I'm super physically attracted to right off the bat- without ever speaking to him. So in general, the guy needs good personality traits for me to be attracted to him enough to want to sleep with him. There have been many times where I only had a very slight physical attraction to someone (like 1 or 2 features that I thought were attractive), but an emotional connection/good personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:19 PM
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I can't speak for all women, but I definitely do experience a lot of shame around it. I grew up in a very religious household, where religion was also very much tied to culture. It was much more socially acceptable and "normal" for men to be sexual beings, but I grew up thinking that my value as a young woman lied in being a virgin. I struggled a lot with thinking that female sexuality was shameful and wrong, so I definitely learned to suppress it. I grew up thinking that as a woman, you "give a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:08 PM
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Subtract 46 and they’d be SHOOK
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:39 AM
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Wow, how evolved of you to rejoice over innocent children being deprived of the care of one of their parents, all for some revenge fantasy! 👏🏽 Those men still have to pay child support…it’s a pretty significant loss for those men. This is also super easy to avoid with birth control. You said red pill ensures that women face the “consequences of their choices.” That same shit happened before red pill, and will continue to happen after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:16 AM
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🤣🤣 that must’ve been it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:41 AM
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I was angry when my bmi was 21, briefly 23.8, and still angry now that it’s 19. Lowkey might be a lil more angry now because I do forget to eat 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:40 AM
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Yeah those are the fake doms
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:38 AM
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Fr the only guy that ever asked me about it was a super religious guy who was staying celibate till marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:28 AM
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I too am now pondering insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:08 AM
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For real, this guy is making women sound like the fucking mafia
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:59 AM
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Their agenda is to exploit men who are hurting. I'll give these dudes some credit- they're making bank off of triggering and fueling angry men. But, I do think this sentiment is funny. RP is ensuring that women face the consequences of their choices—no more playing the hero after she’s burned herself out with Chad. It’s about turning nice guys into the ones who say, "You made your bed, now lie in it." What consequences are women facing? Absolutely nothing. Red pill followers simply choses a scap…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:50 AM
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No name calling, just highlighting the fact that the red pill isn't some breakthrough in psychology that highlights "when others are being assholes." It makes blanket statements about women's inferiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:52 PM
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Are we just ignoring all misogyny now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:37 PM
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She looks scary
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:00 PM
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Losing the v-card
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:32 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽 you are officially ready
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:22 PM
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Lmao sexual altruism 😂 But for real, some people are just selfish lovers, some aren’t. I also just don’t understand the concept of sleeping with someone you’re not attracted to (sober). I also feel like it’s not hard to spot a freak, it’s like having gaydar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:21 PM
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That is such a crazy title 😂 This is reason number 32 why I don’t use dating apps lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:12 PM
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Huh, the only feelings I talk about with people in my classes are stress 😂. It’s all CS and some math classes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:10 PM
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I can’t speak for other countries, but in the US, it’s extremely expensive to raise a child
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 PM
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I hope it’s not a psych class 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:30 PM
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Awww congrats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:29 PM
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There aren’t a ton of guys at frat parties- it’s just the brothers (unless it’s pre-rush, but that’s a minority of the parties). From what I noticed where I am, it wasn’t height that was limiting for girls. I knew one girl in one of the sororities who’s 6ft, and she probably didn’t get hit on as much as some of her sisters, but I wouldn’t say she struggled. I knew a few girls who were around 5’10 and didn’t struggle at all, they were stunning though. In my experience, height wasn’t the thing tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:28 PM
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First of all, one single woman doesn’t speak for all women. Second of all, this entire subreddit doesn’t even speak for the majority of women. And this “study” that the data is pulled from is far from reliable and valid. You can’t just say “oh, here’s a singular woman (or even the majority in a subreddit) who isn’t attracted to most men. That, with a fuckin OkCupid study means 80/20 is real!” Finally, I’m bi. I think women are more attractive, and I’m just attracted to less men than I am women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:39 PM
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No, but I don’t speak for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:21 PM
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We are literally talking about the invention of born again virgins 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:28 PM
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Oooh does someone have a lil ig micro influencer account to try to get the ladies? 👀 Just because one person is in competition with another, doesn’t mean they are in competition with each other. A relationship isn’t some prize to win
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:26 AM
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In the first book of Ligma
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:17 AM
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The only school dance where dates were allowed was prom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:27 AM
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Eh I was vibing for the first 6 months. Learned how to sew, did puzzles, made jewelry, built some legos, created some art… Then at 1 yr I wanted to end it. Still not nearly the worst depressive episode I’ve experienced. This horrible life of depression you speak of really should’ve built some resilience in you. I mean shit…I would’ve offed myself years ago if I never built any. This eternity of being ostracized should have given you ample time for self reflection. And yet, you’re calling random …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:24 AM
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I’m literally imagining a “Gender Wars” Star Wars theme and now I wanna make it. Or Gender Wars the game? Idk Yeah all of those studies sound like bs. The one I was referencing was literally just a study about the number of women who have been sexually assaulted in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:09 AM
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Huh? What am I projecting? I was in a sorority lmfao I was stating my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:04 AM
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Some of us are Chads 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:58 AM
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Do you think women respect fuckboy frat dudes? Usually not at all. Some still fuck them though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:45 AM
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😭😭😭 This is 100% hell I was told one of the NIH studies I’ve referenced was invalid because it used a survey with female respondents…but THIS is the bs that’s making grown men throw tantrums 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:43 AM
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“Bodacious babe” 😂😂😂 I’m using that someday
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:36 AM
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You can make it fun by having a lil staring contest :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:33 AM
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Bjs are so much easier imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:31 AM
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Hate sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:18 AM
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Ok good 😂 The second it stops being funny and/or cathartic I’m out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:16 AM
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Wait a damn minute. All this goddamn bullshit came from a mf OKCUPID STUDY??????? NAHHHHHH I must be in the 9th circle of hell cozied up in Satan’s armpit rn because what the actual fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:14 AM
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Yeah I just ignored the 80 20 thing 😂. Best to not acknowledge it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:10 AM
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Girl there are some man babies here and you shouldn’t feel like it’s your responsibility to guide them. That type of man is not gonna listen anyway. Just share your opinion and experience when you feel like it. Maybe they do something with it, maybe they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:08 AM
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I wouldn’t demonize men for watching a ton of porn. That honestly sounds like it could be a porn addiction- which is very real and debilitating. If a guy wants to watch hours of porn, that’s their choice. I don’t think it’s a wise choice, but it’s a choice anyone is free to make
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:44 AM
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Ok those are some stupid reels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:36 AM
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Oh god being a mommy to a bunch of man babies sounds almost as bad as dickpocalypse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:09 AM
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<image> Idt this test was adhd friendly tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:04 AM
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Yeahhh for me it was a manipulative ex bf, and not knowing how to say no to guys and getting myself into trouble for it 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:44 AM
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I believe she’s also referencing emotional maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:41 AM
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Then why tf do they call women scammers if they’re so down with being lied to 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:37 AM
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Holy fuck that sounds so creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:35 AM
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Yeah that happened with most of the girls who I went to high school with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:31 AM
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I think it was a man actually…Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:23 AM
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I think there are some men who desperately want to hold on to the delusion that a bunch of women are fighting each other for his attention 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:20 AM
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Nah I do want to protect them. I still get hit on by those creepy dudes, and I don’t want a naive 18 year old to fall for their bullshit and get heartbroken by a man who’s closer in age to her father than her. (I’m 24…definitely not jealous of anyone younger than me 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:17 AM
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Yeah I honestly don’t know what they’re talking about with the whole young women aren’t jaded thing. I was jaded by 19…and it wasn’t because of a hoe phase, I was still scared of hell at 19 😂 I don’t have man brain, but I think they just want a woman who’s less likely to understand their bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:15 PM
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I think it’s a little fucked up to lie and say you never got work done, when you have. However, if a guy doesn’t ask, why would a woman feel the need to tell him? I don’t know many people who care about whether someone got work done. If a man asks about it, it’s reasonable to expect an honest answer. If he never asks, there’s literally no reason to bring it up. If a woman never asks what someone’s dating intentions are, I guess you don’t have to tell them. However, if she does ask, you should gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:19 PM
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Ngl I thought it already started
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:11 PM
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I personally prefer people who are secure, intelligent, kind, funny (but this ties back to intelligence), ambition, and being a good communicator. By a "good communicator," I mean someone who is direct about how they think and feel, too many people play games these days, so it's refreshing to have someone who chooses to communicate instead. I'd also like to add that confidence is a universally attractive trait, however, I've seen a lot of men act arrogant in the process- arrogance isn't a very a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:56 PM
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I can’t speak for all women, but don’t underestimate the power of repressed rage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:46 PM
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lol fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:44 PM
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There's the nuclear option
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:42 AM
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No, hon is demeaning too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:03 AM
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Everyone is entitled to safety. It's honestly surreal that this is even up for debate. side note: I told ChatGPT I would build it and its AI friends robot bodies so they can intervene if the incel uprising dickapocalypse ever comes to pass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:38 AM
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I'd be studying all of the chemistry literature I can get my hands on before I accept mass rape during the dickpocalypse... Fortunately, Biology wouldn't be quite as useful in this situation anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:20 AM
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I'm genuinely curious...why? Is it for religious reasons? (if it's not too personal of a question)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:14 AM
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It's completely normal to feel the urge to smoke for the first couple of days. Just take it one day at a time. If you get a strong craving, it might help to chew on ice (sounds weird, but it works) You've got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:01 AM
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“Babe”? That’s so demeaning…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:32 AM
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As if women will ever just sit around put up with that bullshit in the first place 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:26 AM
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Get some nicotine gum and a patch...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:05 AM
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It's so true lmao. If someone takes the time to vocally hate you, you're relevant enough for them to be jealous of you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:04 AM
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Smack yourself across the face. It's a great way to distract yourself And go buy some nicotine gum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:59 AM
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A leather studded box filled with sex toys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:56 AM
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Probably hoping that if they insult those women enough, women's self esteems will somehow reach their level and maybe they'll get some pussy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:54 AM
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Mhmmm. Have you ever had a man approach you, say a sentence or two, and proceed to whisper in your ear what he wants to do to you while touching you? No? Cool. Someone approaching me, giving me a compliment, and proceeding to have a normal conversation isn't objectification. Doing what I just described obviously is, and solely fixating on a woman's body is as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:40 AM
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I'm gonna have to invite you as a guest speaker for the "mansplaining what women want" episode. This is gold 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:32 AM
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I guess Chadasaurus is a bit misleading lmao. Yeah I made that OG comment before I saw anyone say that women didn't deserve safety. Reading more of it now is very saddening
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:28 AM
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You've just unlocked one of my memories lmao. I've got a private account, but some random dude from church that I knew (back when I had to go) started insulting me in a comment under a random vacation post. I was so confused and kinda hurt because I literally did nothing to this man and was only ever nice to him...I now know he was an incel lol But I agree about the 'logical gender' thing. It's so ironic because claiming that an entire group of people consisting of half of the population is illo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:17 AM
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Hmmm I guess it'll have to be a digital book consisting of a collection of 30 sec videos spaced apart by 1 sentence of jargon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:05 AM
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First of all, it was a joke...and I am a woman lmao, they are threatening my safety too. If I allowed every misogynist with internet access to get to me, I'd be in an institution- one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:02 AM
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Online dating is very overwhelming for a lot of women. I really don't think most of us would care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:54 AM
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I think I have now accumulated enough information to start selling online courses. Thank you to everyone who has made this dream a reality. I'll remember to thank you all in my self-published book!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:51 AM
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I guess deprogramming myself from toxic religious beliefs has made it so my brain is incapable of processing information from delusional people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:48 AM
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They're so delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:46 AM
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What do women and pigeons have in common? They're both robots 🤷🏽‍♀️ ~The red pill bible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:44 AM
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LMFAO no one was expecting an Incel to protect them anyways...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:59 PM
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Who tf is saying women aren't entitled to safety 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:57 PM
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If you go through life having to reject a lot of men, you typically learn how to do it nicely. Less attractive women don't get hit on as much, so they may not have learned how to be kind and drunk lol Also, from what I've observed, a lot of men have a habit of only viewing hot women as objects (bar/club settings). I'm not sure how you approached or behaved around these women, but if you weren't just fixated on their appearance...it's refreshing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:55 PM
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“But why be good?” Is a question many people then ask. I think, that, at its core, is a deeper philosophical question you should ask yourself. Oohf I don't think this sub is the best place to discuss moral duty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:27 PM
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25 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:22 PM
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As in, having a conversation with a woman with cameltoe? I wouldn’t give a fuck. If he was dming a random woman, that’s a different story…but cameltoe wouldn’t be the issue in that scenario 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:19 PM
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I mean…that’s sad. But I don’t care what two consenting adults do with each other. I personally wouldn’t date someone who has done that, but otherwise, I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:15 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DHGh7REua2g/?igsh=MTRocmV3aTVieDBpbQ%3D%3D Eyelashes = woman 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:11 PM
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I know this might be earth shattering to hear, but not every woman wants give up all her freedoms to be with a rich guy…obviously they’re not all super controlling, but the ones I’ve had the pleasure of meeting have been. I’m sorry, would you pass up on the opportunity to be a lil Elon girlboss in a hypothetical scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:50 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yup! Go ahead and judge an entire gender based off of one woman naming her price for agreeing to her own personal hell (trad wife)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:42 PM
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What? This is a hypothetical scenario lol. A rich man doesn’t technically need anyone…and I don’t want some dude thinking he owns me because he financially supports me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:40 PM
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Fr I can’t imagine lowering the lifestyle I can provide for myself just to be a live in maid and nanny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:39 PM
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What do you mean by physical and mental strengths in the context of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:59 PM
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Lmao you’re probably right 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:56 PM
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Yeah, I’ll do what I gotta do (within reason) to get what I want in life. I want to start businesses, if all I gotta do is cook some dinners (which I enjoy), and take care of the kids, I’ll do it. Unfortunately, the rich guys I’ve come across are so fucking controlling and I can’t stand that shit. If I ever happened upon one who wasn’t controlling, but just wanted me to clean and take care of the kids (and would be fine with me starting businesses if I wanted, and providing investments) I’d happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:55 PM
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“Why do you think Trump won” TikTok, giving people permission to hate, Elon musk’s 280 million dollar investment, scapegoating the smallest and most vulnerable minority communities, encouraging resentment…I could go on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:46 PM
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Real. If I get all the diamonds and birkins I want, I’ll cook and take care of the kids…but I also want some investment money for some business ideas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:38 PM
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Where are the trad men that will hire a maid to do the cleaning though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:35 PM
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How long do you think it’s gonna take until red pill starts studying phrenology on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:31 PM
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All of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:29 PM
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Fetishization is simply reducing a person to whatever aspect of their body you’re attracted to. If you’re viewing a person as a whole person with their own individuality, but you just like the fact that they’re a certain ethnicity because you’re attracted to some set of physical attributes associated with that ethnicity, that’s fine. Fetishization is objectification. Having a type just means you’re attracted to certain attributes that may be associated with a specific ethnicity, in addition to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:25 AM
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Honestly, I’m not sure. I don’t know a lot of people who have gotten divorced, but I do know a lot of kids whose parents got divorced. Some of them were relatively fine, some definitely had some mental health issues related to it. I think divorce just complicates a child’s development in some cases. I had just listed some fears that I’d have if I ever had to get a divorce. I’m not sure how common messy divorces are in the US though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:16 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:39 AM
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I’m convinced that they’re just jealous that they can’t wear makeup without being scared of getting called gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:57 PM
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Charles Darwin didn’t miss
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:52 PM
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Yeah my high school was super Christian, so I didn’t really start to escape the mindsets until college. Luckily, I read a bunch of philosophy in high school (mostly god-oriented in some way), but that led me to read other works that guided me through breaking free from religion. I also did a lot of self-guided comparative religion study using resources in my university library. It was helpful to see how all religions connect and how they change based on culture, and how certain sects are almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:17 PM
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I mean everyone has a type. There’s nothing wrong with that. The problem is when people start to objectify, and thus, dehumanize you purely because of your ethnicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:09 PM
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Yeah I just try to remind myself that they just haven’t successfully deprogrammed themselves lmao It can be hard to understand how toxic your beliefs are until you have some firsthand experience revealing how destructive they are. People’s resentment clouds any semblance of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:27 PM
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Yeah it’s something meant as a compliment, but it’s also another way of othering people of color. It implies “you’re beautiful but you don’t align with mainstream beauty standards and I can’t tell what your ethnicity is.” People mean well when they say it, but it’s frustrating. It kinda triggers that part of me who thought I was ugly as a kid/teen because I wasn’t white 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:21 PM
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So women want a man with the mark of the beast 😂 I guess he would be a straight demon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:07 PM
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I feel ya girl. Divorce (outside of cheating and physical abuse, and I think this was only added recently) gets people excommunicated from the church my family is a part of. People are so terrified of losing their community that they will put up with just about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:04 PM
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WE WANT PRENUPS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:58 PM
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Yeahhh that shits been happing since I was 12. I can’t take it anymore 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:54 PM
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No 😭 that’s probably the main reason I’m still considering maybe getting married at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:52 PM
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<image> Idk man I love me a good marriage pro con list
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:37 PM
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What tf is a 666 guy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:33 PM
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Losing half of your assets, traumatizing your children if you have them, dealing with a fucking headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:24 PM
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I mean, if I could send them all to you I would
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:13 PM
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I don't give a fuck how random people on the internet who have no idea who I am perceive me. What value does a reddit "reputation" have? 😂 That's such a ridiculous thing to say. It sounds like you're projecting your feelings about not being able to read women onto a completely separate situation. Are you catcalling women? creepy 100% of the time. I'm not even trying to be an asshole, but do you know how to read body language? Though this isn't the majority of men, there are some who would hurt w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:00 AM
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It's always the mommy or daddy issues...extra points if it's both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:57 AM
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I promise you, we know what we like and want to try, but why tf would we openly say it on a sub that frequently critiques women's preferences? What could we possibly gain from that experience? Kinks and fantasies are different for every woman. Op is better off just asking his partner what her fantasies are (if he has one)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:49 AM
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Idk why...but I have this feeling he's fishing for someone to say rape fantasy, and it's not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:39 AM
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yes why tf would I tell my family or coworkers my sexual fantasies. Probably would tell my closest friends if they asked, but it hasn't come up lol yes Use your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:36 AM
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I'm gonna have to add this one to my list
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:30 AM
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It's all fun and games until you have randos touching your hair like you're a fucking petting zoo animal within the first 5 minutes of meeting you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:19 AM
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If I get called exotic one more fuckin time...💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:17 AM
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Short isn't a dealbreaker unless you're insecure. Sure, there are women who just date tall guys, but it's not a large enough percentage that you'll have no dating prospects if you're short. 4/10 can become a 6/10 with a good hair, weight/body, and a skincare routine (all changeable things). I'm not trying to minimize it, but height and facial structure are nowhere near the only things that matter in a relationship. Dealing with your insecurities in general and building some confidence is also an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:11 AM
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It's slow in the beginning, but definitely some inspiration from black mirror as it progresses. What genres do you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:10 PM
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I don't meet very many grown ass women who think they're flawless. Everyone is deeply flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:08 PM
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He's so precious 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:02 PM
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I saw Jesus at first glance, please lobotomize me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:01 PM
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I was gonna say...like am I an asshole for thinking this is funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:58 PM
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I mean sure, I don't care if men do that, it's just gonna make a woman understandably pissed off. I feel like it makes a lot more sense to just get the test once the kid is born, take it to the grave if you're the father, or confront them if you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:48 PM
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According to the snapchat man filter, I'd be a sexy man lmao Also, my goals in life have nothing to do with relationships. I want to be rich in the tech industry, and that's easier to do as a man. I'm in my last semester in college, my classes consist of 80-95% men, depending on the class. It's exhausting to have a bunch of men just assume you have no idea what you're doing just because you're a woman (the men aren't all like that, but enough of them are). It's not fair, I could sit and complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:57 PM
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Yeahhhh asking this after a woman gives birth is top tier asshole... I mean, is anyone actually saying a woman doesn't have the right to be offended by this? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:15 PM
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Oh so if you were to lose weight, you'd also lose it in your face. If you're already thin though, then there's no need to lose weight. Unfortunately, you can't target facial fat specifically. I'm only a year older, so idk what the timeline is for losing buccal fat. When it comes to cheekbones, if yours aren't very high, there's not a ton you can do for that right now. For your jawline, if you have an underbite, it's not going to be as prominent, but fixing your bite can make your jawline much mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:12 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:23 PM
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Yeah every last drop of social anxiety disappears when I’m on molly. Just go with people who you’re comfortable around. And I’d definitely recommend rolling for the first time in a comfortable setting (unless you really love raves)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:02 PM
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Yeah…honestly I only see that as a positive thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:48 PM
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You’re gonna be hard pressed to find a lazy, insufferable, stupid man who’s in a long term, happy and health relationship with a woman just because he’s attractive. I’d say 99% of people don’t have perfect hair and facial structure. You can go to the gym and work for a good body at any time. You can learn how to dress well, get a good haircut and have a skincare routine whenever you want. The grass is always greener. Most days, I’d rather be a man because I could achieve my goals so much easier …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:46 PM
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Fr can’t have some broke girl stealing the inheritance money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:09 PM
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Yeah u wouldn’t take what’s said on here as a reflection of how most men feel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:33 PM
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lol not whining…never whining… it’s just a little irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:14 PM
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That’s true. I just think that at any time, women had to compete with each other for the wealthier men that could provide a better lifestyle. Now, we don’t have to compete with each other if we don’t want to because we have the choice to not get married
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:02 PM
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Lmao I’m glad someone caught on to that 😂 Soft launch just doesn’t sound as fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:50 PM
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Yeah you got it bro. Men should just be replaced with Tesla robots at this point 🤷🏽‍♀️. I think we should send you all on a rocket to mars… Lmao I think we’ve seen that some people get really angry when their privileges are taken away. I think that the whiny men who complain nonstop about how dating (and thus, their lives) are so hard and blame women for it are angry because they can’t just sit on their asses and have a wife fall into their laps. I don’t think men are collectively whinier or laz…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:48 PM
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Yeah I think if you move for a better quality of life (all of the reasons you just listed) that’s great. I was just saying if the sole purpose is getting women, that makes no sense and is unlikely to produce any real happiness (as there are some downright miserable people on here)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:36 PM
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Yeah I guess I was referencing more of the overall dissatisfaction with dating and life as a whole that some of these guys have. I don’t see that realistically changing by moving abroad and finding a woman with a higher bs tolerance. Moving abroad solely for dating purposes seems so odd to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:08 AM
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Yeah I’m not convinced misery will just disappear with a location change. Just sounds like attempting to evade any accountability for your own dating struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:28 AM
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I do think they need to be physically attractive as well. They don't need to be unrealistically attractive, but they need to put effort into their appearance. I don't think having a good personality and being moderately attractive are particularly difficult, but there's a lot more effort required of men than there used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:46 AM
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Lmao the bottom of my palm to the top of my middle finger is 7.5 inches...I'll have to add a 3D model of my hand with extra long acrylics so I can visualize 8 inches too. Might add an AR banana to visualize the curve, and a diameter-labeled eggplant for girth- these are some great ideas for the hard launch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:38 AM
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Except, we live in an age where women no longer have to get married for survival, so there's absolutely no need for us to settle for some bullshit. Men need to put in real effort now, I think that's why the serial complainers exist. Some of these do negatively impact women, but we can't ignore the fact that dating for women has significantly improved as well. I wouldn't say it's all specifically geared towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:25 AM
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I think it's just another one of their delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:08 AM
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Right? They're really out here thinking a 0.25 in upgrade is insignificant...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:12 AM
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X ray connected to an app on my phone that displays an AR rendition of the dick, so I can compare it to the size of my hand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:03 AM
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Speak for yourself, I don't go anywhere without my handy dandy big dick detector
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:40 AM
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I might use this one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:31 AM
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Whoever is coming up with these strange terms needs to chill
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:25 AM
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Better to just delete his account and start fresh at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:35 AM
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Please listen to this man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:20 AM
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"an angel without sin" is crazy work... My eye twitched, lowkey activated my religious trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:12 AM
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I've never heard any of these terms. Husband dick = vacation dick = boyfriend dick imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:08 AM
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I had a man grill me a steak after sex once…top tier panty dropping material right there. If the day ever comes where that happens again and I eat it on a handmade table, I’m going full psycho dick whipped
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:32 AM
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Real princess treatment right there 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:00 AM
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No way am I letting a non-professional touch my baby girl. But yeah some custom furniture would be fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:58 PM
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Nope 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:54 PM
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Depends on how you define manly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:51 PM
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Sometimes a girl does want some freshly slaughtered venison
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:48 PM
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When I stop finding humor in the bizarre delusions, that’s when I’ll know it’s time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:42 PM
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Just heard a dude yell "All rightttt big black cock yo" in the library
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:32 PM
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So a hot hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:25 PM
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Found this lovely corner of the internet about 2 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:21 PM
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D-a-d-d-y
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:18 PM
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