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Why should a man get married in today's culture?
/r/MensRights26/05/19 01:53 PM
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Where are all these really neato feminists that are fighting to remove sexism in law like the Violence Against Women Act? If they are so prevelant, where are they exactly?
/r/MensRights19/05/19 09:59 PM
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Ok. See ya.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 04:39 PM
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No contradiction. In the OP you said women should take responsibility for themselves. Doing your own work is taking responsibility. I've given you a direction to look. Now it's up to you to put in your own effort.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 04:37 PM
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One of the pitfalls of research is that you will come across bogus information. This cannot be avoided if a thorough search is being conducted. If you truly want equal treatment then take equal responsibility for doing your own research.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 04:33 PM
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Use the search feature to explore the posts here at this sub. You will find all the information you need to understand.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 04:23 PM
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Feminism is a supremacy movement that was established a long time ago.
/r/MensRights19/05/19 04:19 PM
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The legal system is our best attempt at holding people accountable. In theory lady justice is blind, you know the statue of her holding the scales wearing a blind fold? This is meant to illustrate that nobody is special, equal justice for all. Unfortunately people are imperfect, the system is corrupt, and although it is our best idea to date, it still falls short. how can we prevent reverse sexism happening if women do take accountability for their problems? I'm not sure how the two are related.…
/r/MensRights19/05/19 01:59 AM
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but then how the hell do you fix that? Hold women accountable to the same standards as men. You want equality? Then take responsibility for your actions. Not to rehash the situation but you exhibit this very problem. You are very aggressive and confrontational. When this is pointed out to you, you try to flip the script and go all crazy with insults and verbal abuse. For a time you refused to acknowledge you did anything wrong. I was holding you accountable and you rejected it. When society is u…
/r/MensRights19/05/19 12:24 AM
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Bookwala, Sobin, and Zdaniuk (2005) reviewed data from the National Survey of Families and Households and found differences in how conflict is handled, both by gender and by age. Men were more likely to have calmer discussions than women; Our very own conversation is a good example of this. these findings were particularly noticeable with age, with younger women being the least likely to have calm discussions. Heh. You don't say. On the other hand, younger men were more likely to report injuring…
/r/MensRights18/05/19 09:38 PM
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Or, do we hurt each other in ultimately the same ways? You answered your own question. We would need to know what kinds of threats men make, and weigh those different types of mental abuse cumulatively. Both men and women use physical and mental abuse. The methods are different. I've provided information that displays differences in how men and women hurt each other. Do you have information that contradicts this?
/r/MensRights18/05/19 09:03 PM
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But your assertion was that women are knowingly more abusive because of the unfairness of the system. Again I direct you to the last part of this paragraph about more likely. "Systemic abuse can occur when a woman who is abusing her husband or boyfriend threatens that he will never see his children again if he leaves or reports the abuse," says Philip Cook, program director of Stop Abuse for Everyone. "A man caught in this situation believes that no matter what his wife or girlfriend does, the c…
/r/MensRights18/05/19 07:56 PM
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Similar categorically - physical abuse. Different methods. Another distinguishing factor is that while women who are abused are more likely to be pushed or shoved, beat up, or threatened with a gun, the women who do the abusing are more likely to throw something, kick or bite, hit with an object, threaten with a knife, or actually use a knife, according to the National Violence Against Women Survey In that paragraph is detailed the difference in abuse. Women are more likely to do this while men …
/r/MensRights18/05/19 07:34 PM
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This demonstrates a difference in physical violence between men and women and the prevalence of women to use mental abuse to protect themselves from repercussions of their physical abuse. [There] is a distinguishing factor between battered women and battered men, explains Brown: Men -- like this one -- are more likely to be embarrassed by their abuse, making them less likely to report it, according to the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men web site, which states men often worry, "What will people t…
/r/MensRights18/05/19 11:21 AM
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Good, now get in there and give it everything you got!
/r/MensRights17/05/19 10:42 PM
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I like the grown up you much better. Still need to work on a few things but there's hope for you.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 08:53 PM
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And all this time you thought I didn't have a sense of humor.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 07:59 PM
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No. 😉
/r/MensRights17/05/19 07:11 PM
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But you got so defensive about it. Your insecurity about it was telling to me, No. Reasserting boundaries is not getting defensive. I gave you a two word response to your question and moved on. Your exaggeration and embellishment is designed to manipulate as well. You can only guess at my motivations or insecurities hoping to elicit a response. My speculation is that you have an agenda but I'm not being a willing participant. Your reactions to my refusal suggest you aren't used to not getting yo…
/r/MensRights17/05/19 07:01 PM
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If you haven't already, I highly recommend you research identity theft. You might be surprised how it happens and how much damage it causes. It was all relevant to the discussion. You asked what I do for a living. No matter how relevant you think knowing what I do for a living is to your discussion, if I choose not to disclose that, that is my prerogative. No amount of manipulation to get me to reveal any piece of information is ever acceptable.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 06:17 PM
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Does life imitate art? Does art imitate life?
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:47 PM
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At the very least it is a horrible idea to give personal information to strangers online. This is what we teach children early on. Your assumption of fear is just that, an assumption. You really don't know my reasons but you are welcome to speculate if you like. Regardless of my reasons for not sharing with you, it is never appropriate to violate clearly stated boundaries. Do you agree?
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:42 PM
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Thank you for apologizing for attempting to manipulate me in order to garner personal information that was already refused twice.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:10 PM
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The amount or severity of harm inflicted can alter the penalty but it does not change the fact that harm was caused. There are varying degrees of larceny for example. Whether you commit petty larceny or grand larceny does not remove guilt. Personal boundaries are incredibly important to maintain and when somebody attempts to violate them the perpetrator should honestly reflect on their actions to understand the wrongfulness of what they are doing. This is the exact argument for protection of con…
/r/MensRights17/05/19 04:17 PM
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The Romans died from within through corruption first which led to their eventual demise. Your point still stands though.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 02:24 PM
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In my experience, many women use manipulation of every kind in an attempt to get what they want. Crying, tantrums, lies, ultimatums, exortion, false accusations, you name it. I recently had an encounter where a woman refused to take responsibility for wrongs she had committed. Instead of being an adult and recognizing her abusive behavior, she persisted in finding no fault in her actions. I believe she is just young and immature but this could be the signs of a serious problem that will lead to …
/r/MensRights17/05/19 12:42 PM
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There has to be a point Why does there have to be?
/r/MensRights17/05/19 01:19 AM
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I'll be here when you're ready to apologize.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 01:17 AM
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Did you know you are denying your abusive behavior?
/r/MensRights17/05/19 01:13 AM
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Does that mean you approve of manipulating people to get what you want from them?
/r/MensRights17/05/19 01:01 AM
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Now that is an interesting question. Where do you get the 10-20% stat from?
/r/MensRights17/05/19 01:00 AM
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I'll be here when you are ready to apologize.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 12:32 AM
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Asking a question does not entitle you to an answer. First we must resolve the wrong you committed before anything else can take place.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 10:36 PM
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Yes. It's an attempt to defeat an indomitable foe. Guerrilla tactics if you will. When you can't outmatch the opponent, use any means possible. Manipulation is the weapon of choice. By manipulating the common perception of men into a horrible, toxic creature that deserves no rights, you can rally large numbers to your cause. I just finished an episode with a feminist here who repeatedly tried manipulation. It didn't work heh. They ran away.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 10:29 PM
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See ya.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 09:35 PM
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The apology is not for inquiring about my personal life. That is more manipulation on your part. The apology is for continuing to inquire after being told no. The apology is for then trying to use more manipulation to bully me into giving you what you want. I set a boundary and you cannot respect it. Now you throw another tantrum because you can't have what you want. Run away. You still won't get what you want. Or be an adult and accept that you are in the wrong, swallow your pride, say you're s…
/r/MensRights16/05/19 09:19 PM
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Why do you dislike being held accountable for your actions?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 08:34 PM
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No, if your marriage is held together only by a piece of paper, it's nothing more than a business contract for sharing resources. Marriages that work do so because they want to continue being together. If the time comes when one or both decide they are finished being married, the paper does not stop them from ending it. And if you did use the paper as a tool to force people to remain married, wouldn't that be on par for extortion?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 07:51 PM
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When another tribe comes along and wants to destroy you, what will you do then?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 07:38 PM
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When you have wronged somebody, what should you do?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 07:05 PM
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Does your response indicate you will not be taking responsibility for your inappropriate behavior?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 06:37 PM
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Hmm. Your attempt to excuse your inappropriate behavior with jokes has failed. Now you try victim blaming with a side of minimizing their experience. You don't respect boundaries and when called on it you try to bully the situation. You realize this contradicts your whole be kind and compassionate to others schtick, right?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 05:42 PM
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Because I set a hard limit and enforced it?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 05:04 PM
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I was teasing you. It is absolutely unacceptable to excuse your abuse by claiming it was a joke. No means no, regardless of any reason. Or is that only applicable to women?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 01:37 PM
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Before we can continue we must address your manipulative behavior. Twice you'vr asked for personal information from me. Twice I have told you no. Now you escalate to manipulation in an attempt to bypass my boundaries. Ok so you're afraid to tell me about yourself? You are not demonstrating the positive you claim to be by trying to violate another's hard boundaries. Feminists claim this behavior is abusive and considered rape. How do you plead?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 11:16 AM
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Eats grape leaves ?
/r/MensRights16/05/19 12:51 AM
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I don't agree with your notion of a hypermasculine society. Women are the protected class in society. They are able to get away with murder at an alarming rate. No matter what happens, don't ever hit a girl. Prove your love by buying a ring that costs two months salary. If a woman uses a man for a free meal calling it a date, no problem. If a man does the same thing? Yeah. Happy wife happy life. If momma ain't happy, nobodies happy. If a woman cheats it must be something the man did to push her …
/r/MensRights16/05/19 12:35 AM
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overall hypermasculine. That even goes for women, especially feminists. You'll have to explain this. A few days ago you were going off about how women have discovered masculine power and they aren't going back. Now you say it's a problem? You are really scattered about what you believe. I'll be honest, it was the day before my period which is when I get the most volatile. This is no excuse. If you want to be powerful like a man you have to learn control like a man. The proper response is to apol…
/r/MensRights15/05/19 09:57 PM
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it's that they don't know how to nurture themselves This doesn't affect all men and it isn't a male only problem. like having explosive bouts of anger Heh, definitely NOT a male only issue. You've raged on me already in our short time together. higher rate of suicide I disagree completely that lack of self nurture is a top cause of suicide. But some men repress it, are insecure about it, or even look down on that side of themselves. Many times this happens because of women around them. So many w…
/r/MensRights15/05/19 09:11 PM
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Hell, if anything it is to protect the wife and husband from cheating This is very false. A ring or a piece of paper does not prevent adultery.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 06:30 PM
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Let's leave the personal demographics aside for now. So you would say it helped but not worth the $100 fee. Fair enough. Going back to something now. You mentioned previously that men could benefit from learning how to nurture. This makes it sound like you don't think they can. Is that true? Do you believe men have no capacity to nurture?
/r/MensRights15/05/19 06:27 PM
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Nah, no therapy needed here. How do you measure success in your therapy?
/r/MensRights15/05/19 04:42 PM
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I picked up on your controlling behavior when you repeatedly withheld answering my questions until you had exhausted your loaded question about sameness and diversity. Right observation. Wrong reason. Try again? How do you measure success in your therapy?
/r/MensRights15/05/19 09:16 AM
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Jesus Christ. You just went off on a strawman rant based on a misunderstanding. I laughed at this. One of your weak spots is to get angry and start swinging when somebody calls you out on something. You believe men would benefit from being more kind and understanding but when it comes your turn to show this you go all hulk mad hulk SMASH! You can deny the wrongness of what you said but it doesn't change the reality that setting limits on how much somebody can cry is controlling behavior. Just be…
/r/MensRights15/05/19 12:55 AM
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learning how to articulate and express their true emotions and to be vulnerable, not that they need to do it. What makes you think they don't? If you aren't able to understand an emotion from somebody else, why do you think it's a false emotion? If you believe that women should be strong and powerful, why do you think men should be weak and vulnerable? It's up to men to decide if they want that for themselves. It is up to each of us to decide our path. There is no one right path for all people. …
/r/MensRights14/05/19 11:07 PM
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That's awesome! You no longer think men need feminization! So what changed your mind?
/r/MensRights14/05/19 09:47 PM
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If a man is a happy, healthy, and productive member of society, do you accept him without judgement?
/r/MensRights14/05/19 09:19 PM
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Do you think we should accept people for who they are? Without judgement or reservation?
/r/MensRights14/05/19 08:24 PM
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One thing you are right about is that we disagree on much. I notice you have a really bad outlook on men. You've made several comments that display your bias. Being female, you won't ever truly understand the male experience. And any insight you might be able to have is hindered by your bias. You can't develop a positive, intimate understanding with something you detest. I hope one day you overcome that.
/r/MensRights13/05/19 09:57 PM
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I have explained this already. I am of the mind that men and women are beautiful in their differences. If you erase the beauty of our differences you will lose that which makes us who we are as different genders. That which makes us unique. This is why it will harm society. We will become homogenized and indistinguishable. Men do not express femininity well because men are masculine, not feminine. Women do not express masculinity well because they are feminine, not masculine. You propose to teac…
/r/MensRights13/05/19 12:58 AM
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I've already explained my position. Do you have something against masculinity? Why do you want to emasculate men? Why is it wrong for men to be men and women to be women? Why do you rage against the preferences of those who want to find a woman who wants to stay home and raise children? If they are happy with the arrangement why do you even care?
/r/MensRights13/05/19 12:03 AM
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If your bias is blinding you to the reality that some women are as evil as some men, nothing I could say will help you see the truth. You will have to work that out for yourself. If you read this sub you will find plenty of examples of evil women. It is up to you to accept that reality. I've already explained why homogenization of men and women will not solve any difficulty we are experiencing. See #2. Life is what you make of it. In the US, you can become anything you want to be. Stay at home o…
/r/MensRights12/05/19 10:58 PM
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Men would benefit from being more feminine. men becoming more like women will Become women. It is a common theme today. Many women think men are broken and need to be fixed. Their solution? Turn them into women. Homogenizing the genders will not solve the problem. I disagree with your assessment of men being the root of the world's problems. You conveniently blame them for nearly everything without one word of the evil women have perpetrated. It reveals your bias toward them and explains why you…
/r/MensRights12/05/19 10:30 PM
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A 6 week course in tending a bar is not the same as a 6 year study of law.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 09:46 PM
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Yesterday you said If humans are homogeneous in terms of gender roles, humans can still distinguish themselves as diverse individuals, even more so than before. When we are first being formed in the womb we are completely androgynous. No distinction what so ever. Then hormones kick in and we begin to transform into boys or girls. Having more than one gender creates diversity. If we were all one gender, indistinguishable from each other, that diversity would not exist. Not all boys are the same. …
/r/MensRights12/05/19 09:45 PM
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Ultimatums won't work either. If you want to stop our conversation, by all means go for it. If you want to finish our original conversation before starting a new one, let us continue. I'm working to understand how creating similarities will result in diversity. These two ideas are in opposition to each other. The more things become the same, the less they become diverse. Can you explain how making everything the same is going to increase diversity?
/r/MensRights12/05/19 09:18 PM
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When we have finished exploring the original subject, we can work on some others.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 09:03 PM
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My question to you is about diversity vs homogenization. You aren't interested in discussing that. What more is there to say?
/r/MensRights12/05/19 08:33 PM
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Insults don't work either. Your true colors are showing.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 08:19 PM
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Yeah, a bartender, not a lawyer, You definitely want to keep that in mind
/r/MensRights12/05/19 07:36 PM
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Throwing a tantrum will not get you what you want.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 06:32 PM
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You'll figure it sooner or later.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 06:29 PM
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Nope. 1 Many people pass out at bars. The staff is not accountable simply because a patron passes out. 2 If a patron receives drinks from other patrons while in the establishment, as is often the case with women, the staff did not over serve the woman and are therefore not liable for over serving. You cannot prove how many drinks she had from other sources. For all we know she could have brought some in with her or she could have been taking drugs as well. There's also the issue with locking her…
/r/MensRights12/05/19 05:13 PM
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You haven't proven they over served her.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 03:41 PM
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Your premise is that the bar staff is somehow responsible for her being drunk, locking herself in the beer closet, damaging their property, passing out, then trying to claim she was raped. Your premise is not legally actionable. She is the perpetrator in this case. Nobody locked her in the closet. Nobody raped her. She got drunk and behaved like a drunk. There is no case against the bar.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 03:05 PM
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Prior to the formal imposition of dramshop laws, the court system often discouraged or even prohibited lawsuits against the sellers and servers of alcoholic beverages due to the notion that serving alcohol did not actually cause the damage that may have occurred as a result of the actions of a heavily intoxicated individual. There appear to be two specific categories of dramshop cases: first-party dramshop cases and third-party dram shop cases. This situation is a first party case. First-Party C…
/r/MensRights12/05/19 02:41 PM
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Many patrons leave bars visibly intoxicated. Some then drive and get caught for driving while impaired. The staff is not held liable for a patron getting a DWI. That's not how it works.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 11:39 AM
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If you believe in a balance of all things then our conversation must be balanced as well. I think that's why you don't want to answer it. You are projecting your insecurities about the question I've asked. You claimed you would not diverge from the topic yet here you are insisting on answers to a question that is not relevant to our original discussion.
/r/MensRights12/05/19 11:33 AM
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You did not reply to any of my questions. Instead of staying on topic you went on another tangent. It seems that you do not agree to my terms.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 10:46 PM
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I might add that homogeny naturally comes about when people realize new things, such as that all adults should be allowed to vote. Now men and women are more similar than before. No. This is not germaine to the subject. Having the ability to do something like voting versus expecting everybody to act the same are two completely different things. For the record, your feminist stance on the history of voting is inaccurate. Not the current subject but didn't want to let it slide either. If I underst…
/r/MensRights11/05/19 09:13 PM
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There is a problem with educating children about everything. It just doesn't work. A hundred years ago were not near as advanced. Before that even less. To avoid the cost and wasted time of that endeavor we use aptitude tests to narrow down the focus. Curiously, boys display affinity for certain things, while girls display affinity for other things. You suggest going against that. Strangely I might add seeing as how in many places you can do anything you want. Still you keep avoiding the actual …
/r/MensRights11/05/19 07:19 PM
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And as you also said, they are different emotionally. Men and women are biological similar in some ways and different in some ways. They both need to eat, sleep, exercise, ect. They are not similar in how they think, how they express emotion, how they work, ect. To force everybody to do the same things is not creating diversity. Men are not women. Women are not men. Trying to force them to be the same is not progress.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 06:51 PM
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Previously you argued that men and women are fundamentally different. Now you say they aren't. You need to take one position or the other or our discussion will go nowhere.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 06:33 PM
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I dont need to know exactly how much she drank Yes. Yes you do. To prove negligence of the bar staff you need to know a BAC.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 06:29 PM
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The motives are the same, but the way they go about achieving those goals can vary. This is a complete understatement. Some behaviors are similar while many are drastically different. The problem is, what are we gonna do about the reproductive system? Technological advancements could somehow give humans the ability to have both types of organs, hypothetically... but I'm not sure that process could ever truly be complete. So you are aware, I am not in favor of homogenizing men and women. I was as…
/r/MensRights11/05/19 05:56 PM
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If men and women are disctintly different in their behaviors and you get rid of that identifying difference you will homogenize the genders. Once the homogenization process is complete, men and women will no longer exist. They will be one and the same. The push for diversity is a push for less sameness. That is the core concept. Yet this desire to make men indistinguishable from women is removing those diverse characteristics.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 05:11 PM
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You don't know exactly how drunk she was. She vandalized the business and trespassed after closing hours. You want to blame the bar staff instead of her. How much have you had to drink today?
/r/MensRights11/05/19 05:06 PM
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In your opinion are men and women disctintly different?
/r/MensRights11/05/19 04:52 PM
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Diversity does not occur when men and women are indistinguishable.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 04:44 PM
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Actually the bar staff is responsible for over serving her. If they were acting responsibly and within the confines of the law this woman would never have gotten that drunk. How drunk was she? Do you have a blood alcohol analysis we can consult? The bar is responsible for the responsibly serving their patrons why arent you angry at them? I'm not angry at anyone. I don't know how much alcohol was in her system. I watched a 45 year old man puke all over himself and puss his pants at the bar the ot…
/r/MensRights11/05/19 04:15 PM
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Gender equality and gender homogenization are two different things. I'm asking about homogenization.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 04:12 PM
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The focus is on her because these are her actions. She compromised her safety by making poor decisions. The bar staff are not responsible for her decision to drink. They are not responsible for her being at the bar alone. They are not responsible for her claiming to be raped. She is responsible for herself.
/r/MensRights11/05/19 02:48 PM
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Where does HER personal responsibility begin?
/r/MensRights11/05/19 02:22 PM
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If a goal of the current social justice war is to diversify the world, why are they trying to homogenize the genders? Wouldn't that be counter productive?
/r/MensRights11/05/19 01:42 PM
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Using your logic, every question you can't answer must therefore be taken as truth? Why does God kill his children?
/r/MensRights11/05/19 12:58 PM
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Where does personal responsibility begin in this situation?
/r/MensRights11/05/19 01:33 AM
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Wouldn't it be prudent to examine your life choices if this is how you find yourself in the morning?
/r/MensRights11/05/19 01:04 AM
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