Slow_Lawfulness_2539 Archive

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3	As a man, what does “bringing value” vs “taking value” actually mean in cold approaches? Bringing value as a man means you enter the interaction already being full. You’re not looking to extract any attention, approval, or validation. You offer your presence and good energy. “You seem cool”, “this is a cool vibe”, I enjoy my life. Taking value is when you come in trying to get her number, attention, or validation before offering anything to make her feel safe, interested, and seen. “You’re so pretty”, “please like me”. Women aren’t rejecting you. They are rejecting the feeling of be…	/r/seduction	20/05/25 12:36 AM
2	What people actually mean when they say ‘you shouldn’t focus on girls until you have built your self up’ Gym and college are a cool start because they show discipline and direction. But purpose isn’t just about where you go or how you look, it’s about why you’re doing it and who you’re becoming in the process. You could be in college and the gym every day and still be mentally lazy, emotionally unstable , broke, or simping for attention or validation. That ain’t the move. I believe Women are drawn to men who are building something, not just muscles or grades, but motion (momentum in life). If your …	/r/seduction	19/05/25 02:43 AM