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/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:57 PM
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Sweetheart, anyone can be aggressive yes. But don't sit here and act like we're comparing apples to apples when we're comparing the aggression and violence women have perpetrated to men. Not even close to being the same and the fact that you think it is, is incredibly disheartening as another women. You have anecdotal evidence for individual men facing violence after rejecting a woman, which basically amounts to bunk. Whereas there is statistical data to support the ways in which men become aggr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:11 PM
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Babe, you're such a pick me it's not even funny. Not responding to this at all. I hope you're just young and haven't seen enough of the world yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:05 PM
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And you can take your little pick me response somewhere else. You know there's huge difference in those types of threats when they come from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:54 PM
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Well, your sister seems to have mental health issues, stalking is really scary behavior. Most stalkers are men though. And I think you're missing the point. Being bullied is not the same thin as the possibility of extreme bodily harm, even being threatened by it. This is not the first time I had been told I would be followed home and raped when I was actually walking home by a GROUP of men who are hyping each other up with bad behavior. I have been followed by men in their cars while I was walki…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:53 PM
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Have women ever told you they’re going to slit your throat, curb stomp you or follow you home and rape you? Cause a group of men said that to me on the street 2 weeks ago, because I didn’t smile when they asked. You may have been made to feel dumb, but I highly doubt you ever been threatened with bodily harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:05 PM
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Yes, because someone’s online bio is the entirety of who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:42 PM
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Exactly. I never liked Amy Schumer but that really cemented for me when she told a story about raping a guy who was black out in college. In fact, I think it was Teen Vogue that did a whole call out article about the story and her. If anything, its other men that don't uphold these moments as assault or rape, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:50 PM
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This is a little all over the place but bear with me… My previous point if you read everything I’ve said, is that you acting like things are just as they were is not going to work. Men need to evolve to modern times, especially since it seems they only regress when they start living with a woman! My husbands place was clean, dishes were washed, cat taken care of garden flourishing. He cooked for himself and he always seemed to have toilet paper and paper towels available. And then it became well…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:10 PM
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No he’s doing them because he realized he was taking advantage my labor. That he was being a bad husband by expecting me to pick up his slack when we both work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:31 PM
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So, there are days where I come home and I'm like can't cook can we order food, and we just chill. But you can't order food every night, you can't push back the dishes every night (no dishwasher), all other chores are done on the weekend, but I also want to relax on weekends and do nothing. Previously stuff would pile up and you know who was the only one to tackle it. Me! So yeah, my husband now knows if he wants to keep me as his wife, he as to participate domestically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:27 PM
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BUT IF THERE IS WORK TO BE DONE, NO ONE SHOULD BE RELAXING, THATS THE POINT... We're co-CEOs of our home. If I was co-managing a department at work, I wouldn't be able to just chill on my phone while my counterpart was managing our team, right? It genuinely seems like men, yourself included, seem to think some things are just for women to do and that they do way more than they actually do. Like my husband said (in front of me) the other day that he's been so stress planning our wedding reception…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:24 PM
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I mean the only window into your life you gave was that men don't see dirty dishes and that you do chores, so you don't have to listen to your wife complain. Neither of those statements outline your contributions nor do they make it sound like you like your wife....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:14 PM
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I also have a battery to recharge though.... Do you think women don't want to relax after work? How is it fair that we both work all day, both make roughly the same amount, but you think I should be the only person that comes home to make dinner or wash dishes or fold and put away laundry, something both of us benefit from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:08 PM
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Did I say he should be cleaning the toilet every other day? Hubby and I clean the bathroom every week. It takes an hour. This person said they MAYBE clean if they have guests. MAYBE! That’s absolutely disgusting. My husband and I make sure our home is clean enough that if someone randomly stops by, they won’t walk into a pigsty. I don’t think it’s too much to ask from your partner. And if you want to live in your own filth, have at it. But the likelihood of you finding someone to live in it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:58 PM
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True, but many also don't. Speaking of my own husband, his place was always clean, dishes washed and he had the basics bought. We had fought about the way he showed up via domestic labor for YEARS until this past winter. I had to be in my home state for a few weeks and he was alone. He realized he hadn't had to think about TP for years because I always remembered it. He then took stock of what else he didn't have to think about because I took care of it and came to the conclusion he had been tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:45 PM
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That's so gross and also not a partnership at all. There are somethings I don't care about but my husband does (food in the sink trap for instance), but I do for him because I love him. The fact that you would be ok with your partner living in a cesspool is really sad and why women are moving away from having male partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:10 PM
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This is a cope... You can't SEE the dishes? You can't see your wife cleaning the bathroom or cooking dinner? It took a lot of discussions for us to get here, but if I'm doing a chore, my husband immediately starts doing another chore. It not only shows me that he sees me doing work for our home, but it also shows me he understands that it's just not me who should be doing the work. Men don't live like slobs when they lived alone, right? My husband was able to cook and clean and buy toilet paper …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:57 PM
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If I'm not relaxing and cleaning or cooking, then he should be too. I also work, I also have friends and hobbies and want to relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:48 PM
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You literally just said the same thing I said back to me. There is no world in which men get punished for being “creepy”. There’s no creep police, and more than likely, other men will come and make him feel better when he’s called creepy. But yes, women use creepy as a way to signal to other women that a man is at minimum a boundary pusher and if you’re interacting with him have your guard up. If you think that’s punishment, then I guess you a. Probably push women’s boundaries and are a creep an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:01 PM
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Ok… so take that thought of how humiliating it would be to be called a creep and apply it to women and the fear of being raped. Like this sub love to spouts “it’s a small percentage of men behaving badly”. We know it’s 25% of men who sexually assault women. And you’re mad we won’t take that risk and that we use language amongst each other to keep each other safe. And you’re willing to give up dating over fear of the 10% that may call you a creep. Some of the men in this sub… really prove our poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:53 AM
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Creepy does not mean the man is breaking the law. It means he didn’t take no for an answer or followed a woman or tried to peel her away from her group. There are no laws for being a creep, and police wouldn’t take it seriously anyway, so creepy is short hand for “don’t be alone with that guy, he doesn’t seem to respect boundaries and may sexually assault you”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:48 AM
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Theres a huge difference between women talking about lived experience with men and men making up science to try and explain women's behavior bud. Like to compare to real world, it's like women are Aristotle trying to prove the world is round and men are TODAY's flat earthers, spouting nonsense because they have nothing better to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:52 PM
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It would be propaganda if there wasn't any truth to it. What women are talking about online are their own experiences rooted in truth. The statistics back them up. The manosphere teaching men that women are too stupid to not go against their own biology for hypergamy but also tricking the men the "settle" for is absolutely propaganda, as none of that is functionally or scientifically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:06 PM
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I meant fantasy as in the woman’s fantasy, not fantasy genre babe. Again do you expect your sexual partners to be like a porn star in bed? If you do, then you’re not going to find it because that type of sex is typically not enjoyable for women. Have you ever read any of those books? 80% of the books tend to be about the man creating some sort of emotional safety prior to getting physical. Do expect that in the real world? No, experience has taught me that usually doesn’t happen with cis het men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:56 PM
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As someone who reads these types of books on the beach, it's a fantasy. Like porn is a fantasy. I hope you don't think the way sex is portrayed in porn to be how it is in real life. I don't expect relationships with men to be how they are in these damsel in distress books either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:51 PM
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So strange that you’re all desperate for finding a woman to fuck you and that the reason women don’t want to fuck is because you’re so insufferable that you build up these narratives of how women’s poor interactions with men is all women’s fault. But when a person of the gender you’re seeking this deep needed validation from counters your little made up story with her own real life experience, you demean and denigrate her. And you’re all wondering why we want nothing to do with men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:32 PM
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Wow, you gleaned that all from my comment? Or are you an incel that can’t understand anything outside of your own experience. I didn’t grow up with a lot of people who look like me in my area, so there’s that. But I’ve dated Asian men, black men, Hispanic men and ended up marrying awhite man. Editing to say… none of the second paragraph changes the fact I had issues dating looking the way I look, which is exactly like Logan Browning
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:51 PM
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This is not true. Not to toot my own horn, but I'm movie star beautiful. Like told I'm gorgeous by strangers DAILY. I'm also Black and had a really hard time dating because of that. Men will absolutely pass up a beautiful woman for small potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:31 PM
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They're successful AT FIRST, because they tend to be liars. They love-bomb you and usually pretend to be people that they're not. They're generally incredibly insecure and make terrible partners. It also depends on what everyone is looking for out of the situation. When I was dating, I knew who a jackass was and followed PUA content and really just saw me as a living flesh light. When I just wanted a living dildo, these guys were perfect, because I didn't want any sort of commitment anyway. Out …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:11 PM
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Sure, but I think that person was saying we can tell when men ONLY talk to women that they find attractive, verse men who talk to women because we're people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:42 PM
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We do, but also those are the spaces that I expected to meet someone organically, when I was open to it. Some nights I just wanted to hang with my friends, or I was already partnered. But most nights, I was open to meeting someone. As people say all the time, no group is a monolith. Some women are open; some won't be for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:40 PM
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Yes, exactly. It’s another way for some women to feed into the patriarchy and center men for validation. More like, “if I put down other women for the purpose of gaining male approval, then I’ll be picked by one of them to be a romantic partner”. Like a woman agreeing with man that women shouldn’t vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:33 PM
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We're not having them, I don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:32 PM
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You said "Women also don’t require psychological stimulation for sexual attraction. They have sex with men for doing things so minuscule like showing her a good time on dates and making her laugh." I'm telling you that showing up and seeming like a kind and considerate person is the psychological stimulation that a lot of women need to have sex. The feeling of someone being emotionally invested in us, often leads to us feeling physically invested in them. I would argue to say that's why there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:27 PM
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My husband asked if I wanted to take his, I then countered if he wanted to take mine. He told me no, and then I told him he had my answer too. If the expectation is just that a women gets absorbed into a mans identity, then no thank you. We're partners, not each others property.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:20 PM
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Women definitely need psychological stimulation to have sexual attraction. What you described is that. Like if he cares enough to have VEILED INTREST IN ME, maybe the sex won't be selfish and awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:08 PM
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Here here!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:58 PM
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Yes, self described as bald and pudgy. But if he and I divorce or god forbid something happens to him, I’m never being in a relationship with a man again. I love and adore my husband and him me, and our relationship still more fulfilling for him than it is for me, because of all the extra work I have to do to keep it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:24 PM
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But there is no panic. Women aren't upset by attractive men not dating. Women aren't up in arms over MGTOW existing, we're up in arms over men using it as a shield to be misogynists. I don't care if men never date women again, I think most (liberal, feminist) women would agree. I would love if me went to wherever the Kens went in the Barbie movie and left us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:58 PM
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I can guarentee you as a woman, a married one in fact, that we don't care if ugly or attrictive men dont want to date us. We're all very aware that our lives are less complicated with men in them. Your post oozes with resentment towards women. You should seek thearapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:56 PM
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Because he made this post dripping in resentment about women who don't exist getting upset over "Chads" not dating. That literally is not happening anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 05:28 PM
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I mean you called men “minorities” first. I was just clarifying for you. And do you think women are only assaulted in college? And did you actually read the studies you presented or just cherry picked? Your first study showed the difference between women commuters and dorm residents facing sexual assault and whether it’s harmful for women to go to college because of the high statistics. Your second is about reported rapes. Which if you read, was above the national average that was reported on co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:34 PM
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And?!? Many more men hurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:03 AM
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Babe, men are half the population of the world! Yall are not a minority group. And one you have a pretty low chance of encountering and one we have a very high chance of encountering. It’s not the same as racism as there are statistics for women to back up us being wary. White men still perpetuate the most gun violence and petty crime, which is not backed up by the racist dog whistles. 1 in 5 women have reported rape, 1 in 3 sexual assault, almost every woman I know has been harassed. Those numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:02 AM
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Well yeah, it's also very easy for women to spot the creep on the street. And this is the exact thing other women are saying. Women aren't mind readers, nor are we mystical with our EQ. We're socialized from the time we're 9-12 to be wary of men because that's when grown men tend to start hitting on little girls. I started getting hit on by grown men at 10. But you're little point about stranger danger completely misses the point that most men that end up assaulting women know those women, at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 08:36 PM
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I have been more disappointed by men than by kinder surprises, so I beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 08:30 PM
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Fair. But you’ve also heavily pushed back on the comments that have answered your question without referencing dating or sex, so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 08:04 PM
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Because it's a sub to discuss dating?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:38 PM
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Oh we know its them being pathetic....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:18 PM
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Thank you! And I love your suggestion about asking women when they first received attention from a grown man. For every woman I know, it was pre-pubescent. I was 10 myself. Shopping for my 5th grade dance dress. A man commented on my breasts in front of my mother. And that was the first talk I got about being wary of men. I have not had any sort of experience that has changed that perspective. Not all men, but always a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:15 PM
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Yes, but that's like saying you can tell what's in a kinder surprise before opening it. We don't know which men are violent, just that its men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:47 PM
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OMG selective service hasn't been used since the 70s. You're more likely to be murdered by... OTHER MEN. You're more likely to be in jail, because men commit the majority of crimes. Women in jail are treated worse than men in jail, though they do receive it. Men are treated with less empathy but again its by OTHER MEN. Women make up just under half of the work force. You're not expected to be a provider anymore. That's other men saying that. You have access to all of the same national and state …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:08 PM
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BUT IT WOULD HAVE TO BE MEN THAT DO THAT?!? Men make up 72% of congress. Trump has already fired 2 of the 4 women in his cabinet. Men are 90% of CEOs. Why is your focus on women online rightfully complaining about how men have treated us for hundreds of years and not the rich men making all of our lives miserable and pitting you against us? And for you to think hurt feelings is the same as knowing if you willingly get pregnant and have a complication you'll probably die if you're in a red state,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:19 PM
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What would be the equivalent of an abortion be for men ? An abortion is a medical procedure which you can't force someone to have or not have. If it's to not pay child support, only 40% of men pay it on time anyway. It's also legal to perform female genital mutilation in several countries despite WHO classifying it a human rights violation. And FGM would be the equivalent of cutting off the tip of your penis, while MGM is the equivalent to a labiaplasty. Men are the people who have instated cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:13 PM
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I live in a major city and grew up in a walking town, so I may just be more primed for it. Most of my day to day transportation has been on foot or public. My husband’s white and being with has really opened his eyes. Men have said and done absolutely disgusting things in front of him towards me and with his family being very MAGA and me being who I am, he’s seen how micro and macro racism affects others. I’m the first nonwhite person in their family and my almost 50 year old brother in-law told…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 07:03 PM
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Absolutely! You’ve been so generous with me. Grown men have viewed me as a sexual object since I was 10. My friend and I had men in their 30s following us home (was also taught from a young age that if a man is following me, to not got straight home) starting at like 13. I’m 35 now, and I’m still followed home by men in their car while I’m walking or told I’m a cunt if I’m asked to be left alone. I’m also black and grew up in a very white area. I faced a lot of overt racism and micro aggressions…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 09:50 PM
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Sorry for the double response. I guess because I’m a women, because I’ve been sexualized by adult men since before I had a period, I assumed (white) boys and men sought out red pill and alt right content on purpose. Especially with how intertwined they’ve become. It makes a lot more sense to me that it finds you it’s most innocent form only for you to be dragged into it. Doesn’t necessarily make me feel safer, but definitely more understandable.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 01:41 PM
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Thank you so much for such a detailed response. I really appreciate it as you certainly didn’t owe me that. I too am interested in psychology and anthropology, specifically with fringe social networks, which I still kind of thought red pill was until 5ish years ago. It also sounds like we’re aroundish the age, and yeah we weren’t really taught how to navigate the whole rubbernecking part of the internet when we were kids. I can definitely understand going from questionable but palatable content …
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 01:34 PM
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Can I ask, then why even entertain it? It makes me sick and absolutely terrified even thinking about those things, so how does one contemplate them for fun?
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 02:50 AM
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This is literally almost a year later and I’m a mid-30s married woman going down a manosphere rabbit hole cause… WTF is a “pairing bond”. I’m literally with my husband because he talked about his therapist on our first date which meant he’s a man that seeks out emotional support and was not going to put that responsibility solely on me. I love our sex life but it is literally the last reason on the list for why we’re together.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/26 04:11 AM
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