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I think most women at some point learn the lesson that shy introverted boys don't make better boyfriends. Turns out, they're no better than everyone else. And conversely, being an athlete does not make someone less intellectual or a worse partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:43 PM
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So are you going around reddit writing "No, it's not lol. This is literally from PPD."? I mean I would. If not then you obviously hold PPD in a higher regard and think it represents women much more than FDS. I do not.. Which, again, is ironic considering the difference in the female populace. Just by reasoning alone, FDS is 10x more representative of the female population than PPD is. I agree, actually. Doesn't make FDS not a poor representation. Hm, what might be your opinion on TwoXChromosomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:21 AM
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I'm not say that PPD represents women either? Obviously FDS doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:03 AM
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No it doesn't. You genuinely think the average woman has a no alcohol rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:34 AM
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FDS is objectively not a representation of the average woman, and that list is objectively not a representation of what average western women require. Me being here doesn't make me wrong. There are literally things on that list like must make 100k and no drinking alcohol. Literally most women drink alcohol and are not setting a 100k minimum for their boyfriends. Then we have a mandatory six pack and no guns? I mean...cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:17 AM
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PPD wouldn't really be representative for that. PPD definitely isn't representative of how average men or women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:11 AM
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Not really. Men are more willing to put up with crude humor from men than women are even if it makes them uncomfortable. Just how women are more willing to put up with obnoxious girl-bosses or whatever the opposite is, even if they think it's stupid. The opposite gender is always going to be more judgy/less open to people with more extreme personality types. But the average person doesn't have to walk on eggshells around the opposite gender because they aren't itching to say something annoying o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:36 AM
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I know I have a good personality and would make a great bf How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:32 AM
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I believe you. I'm just saying plenty of guys don't have to walk on eggshells around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:31 AM
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walking on eggshells I think this just says more about your social skills and communication style than women as a whole..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:25 AM
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Unless you're one of the local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:16 AM
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Women are picky by nature. Men are horny animals by nature. What can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:49 AM
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This is absolutely not how the average woman thinks. Women have high standards but they aren't that ridiculous. Plenty of women are very into firearms, want religious men, are into men in the military, totally fine with drinking and smoking, don't require a visible six pack and will date men making under 100k. Half this list is just "I'm not conservative." This is literally just an unhinged very liberal woman's list of dumb demands. The actual core of "how western women think" is they want someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:13 AM
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Sounds like you're an average dude with an average personality. Dating is hard for average dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:53 AM
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Do you go and introduce yourself and make small-talk with people/other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:30 AM
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I've tried joining groups like that, the same problem happens. What happens? Do you just stand in the corner silently and not speak to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:26 AM
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Why aren't people willing to interact with you? People will interact with you automatically if you join a club/sport/meetup etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:44 AM
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personality doesnt matter if you never get a chance to show it. I think when it comes to people with truly outstanding personalities they don't need a chance to show it. All it takes for them is to join a club/sport/have a big friend-group and it shines. And these are usually people that have tons of friends to begin with. I think the reality that a lot of people don't like to accept is that most people, including them, have mediocre personalities. A lot of people like to think they have a great…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:53 PM
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Fair enough, I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:58 PM
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I did say it would be sad, No, you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:36 PM
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No, it's not lol. This is literally from FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:20 PM
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No. Most guys are going to say no to this question. That is such a lie. Your BEST FRIEND. Someone pretended to be your BEST friend, your brother, and it turns out he just wanted to fuck you. Of course you'd feel bad! Why wouldn't you? Only a psychopath wouldn't care. It's normal to be sad to lose friends. It means you're a human with emotions. You can both respect his decision and feel sad. Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:19 PM
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that women of previous generations earned more per Capita then late millennials and zoomers. Not compared to men of previous generations, which is what is relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:37 AM
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True. That doesn't make men not gold diggers. They would if they could. They don't because they can't, not because they wouldn't. Men have fewer options so they can't be that picky. Historically, wealthy men marry women from wealthy families and reap the benefits. He's up for banging the hot alehouse wench but he's gonna pick the girl whose parents will give him a job at the family gold mine if he can. Everyone is motivated by money/status. Else kings and dukes would be marrying farmer's daughte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:38 PM
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"Women" aren't gold diggers. People are. There are lots of men and women willing to do lots of stuff for money, including dating unattractive people. Money doesn't make anyone more attractive. They're after the money not the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:53 PM
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Nah, nice guys are friendzoned forever. They aren't friendzoned because they're nice. They're getting rejected because they aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:29 PM
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It's the other way around. If you are drained by work, you do not want to put in the time and effort to cook, clean, workout, or pursue hobbies that have a time/skill investment or learning curve. I was drained by work when I came home and watched TV all night. I'm much less drained when I move my body. It's a shame that my finances, healthcare, work, and social life all need wifi. Otherwise I would disconnect more often. The average person's social life doesn't need wifi. For the average person…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:41 AM
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I've worked full time for a long time and I make time. So does everyone else that I know that works full time. The people that don't make time are alone, single, and with no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:03 AM
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What time do you get home? Do you also drive home all weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:14 AM
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What do you do every day after work/weekends that you only have free time once or twice a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:42 PM
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I don't think his niceness was the problem. It was his denial of a field of red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:26 PM
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which is why there's no female version of this manosphere stuff There is. Ever heard of FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:24 PM
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It's like a 1 hour once a week. As a single person if you don't have 1 hour once a week you probably don't have time for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:19 PM
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It's all cold and calculated in a way. For men and women. Attraction is just our brain's way of determining who has desirable genes for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:24 PM
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Not at all, but that doesn't apply to me. I'd spent enough time with him before coming to that conclusion. That being said, a date can give you a lot of information. Say they're rude to the server, or are pro-life when you're pro-choice, or want kids and you don't, they talk about themselves all night, etc., A first date can definitely be more than enough time to figure out that you aren't compatible. It's just not enough time to figure out if you are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:48 PM
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Do they have the other qualities I listed? Look at unattractive celebrities if you don't know any irl. If you're unattractive you have to have something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:15 AM
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Unattractive people have causal sex all the time. This is silly. They usually have something else to offer, like they're charming or wealthy or famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:50 AM
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So... it's just general male validation? That's the core of it. Honestly seeking to understand, as imo "pick me" indicates she wants a specific man to "pick her" and will change her behavior accordingly to make herself a good fit for his lifestyle. Pick me is less about a specific man and more about men in general. She wants validation from men, she wants men to like her, to flirt with her, to see her as better than other girls, to want to be friends with her and think she's a "cool girl". She'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:48 PM
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That's not what a pick me girl is. Thats a traditional girl. A pick me girl puts down other girls, is constantly seeking male validation, and molds her personality to be what men want her to be even when it is inauthentic. It's a girl that will do anything to get validation from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:15 PM
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Women want men that wouldn't pump and dump them if they could, not just men that won't pump and dump. Looks makes no difference. Good looking men can be good people and bad looking men can be bad people and vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:30 PM
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If they set it up that way then great, but that's not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:55 PM
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People behave differently in matters in which they feel responsible for something and differently in matters where they do not feel responsible. For sure. But as you've agreed, he's responsible for chores b/c he uses the house. He dirties the floor with his feet, dirties the dishes, dirties the shower, etc. etc. No one is saying he's responsible for decorating or deciding where the teacups go. He's responsible for 50%ish of the chores because he creates 50%ish of the mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:05 PM
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He's living in the home and using the things. How is he not responsible for putting stuff back? Because he didn't decide which cupboard the dishes go into he's not responsible for washing the dish he ate from. Friend, come on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:44 PM
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It's nonsense to expect 50/50 responsibility from him when he doesn't have 50/50 decision-making powers. If the decision making is something he doesn't want to do, it's more that he doesn't have to do the decision making. It's another thing off his plate. By your logic he should have more chore responsibility because he didn't have to make the decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:13 PM
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Not really. I'm pointing out that marriage isn't a bad idea just for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:35 AM
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Whoever has options gets bored. Women have more options on average, but attractive/wealthy men are in the same boat as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:05 AM
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bad idea for men. *bad idea for whoever earns more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:10 AM
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I didn't like his personality for anything more than a casual fling. Not enough in common, no common values or interests, mismatched communication styles, things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:23 PM
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Haha that makes a bit more sense but is still a bit odd/out of the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:25 PM
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he felt American women always seemed to want him to buy them something. That's odd and certainly not the norm, unless he meant they offered to pay for coffee/food, which is nice? Women don't normally go around buying men stuff. He was a college guy, and young, and its just one dude I know. But I figured there was some value in relating to you the lived experience of a Filipino guy who was born and raised there and came here for college, if only to slighly broaden your perspective. I mean his exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:52 PM
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The US does have a BMI problem, that's super true. But I don't get the handbag comment. Guess that's just a social circles thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:13 PM
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That woman is also your average Filipina No, it's not. They're just regular women with all the same flaws, just as materialistic or not materialistic, just as narcissistic or not narcissistic, (but yes probably more traditional). But they will go out of their way and make sure you think they're all those things you listed. Ask local men what Filipina women are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:54 PM
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I've dated that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:16 AM
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If you marry for economic reasons then you really didn't care about concepts of romantic love. Maybe, maybe not. Depends on your culture, expectations, and circumstances. Actually it is un-progressives, that's how traditional marriage worked since the wheel's invention. Progressivism isn't about getting rid of traditional marriage. It's about letting people choose what kind of marriage/relationship they want. The point is that if most people are marrying for status, money then we really haven't …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:42 AM
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There's a difference between loving someone and marrying someone. The person you love might not be the person you marry for economic (or other) reasons. And this isn't un-progressive. Progressivism is about people having choice and not dictating how people should or shouldn't act (within reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:26 AM
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I did this my freshman year of college. Guy was attractive but we had no connection so we had a casual thing and it was fun. Lots of girls I know have done that. Maybe it's just that girls like that aren't on PPD as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:12 PM
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Do you think it's just some crazy coincidence or conspiracy that all man dominated societies end up with men working and women staying home? Women still worked. They were denied education and the opportunity to work for the same wages as men, but they worked. Do you think women fought for the right to work in the 20th century so they could become more attractive to men? Nope. Do you think men were on board with the feminist movement as a whole and it was just the top 1% that needed convincing? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:20 PM
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As a woman I always suggest coffee dates or walks. I love them. It's a no-pressure way to get to know someone. Expecting men to pay is sexist. You can both have high standards and go on coffee dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:21 AM
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The average man had no choice but to work. You work or you starve. The men that made the rules were 1% of men and the average man had much more in common with average women than with the few privileged men in power. "Men" didn't make the rules. People in power did. Your average farmer/coal miner/factory worker/soldier had no power and no way to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:16 AM
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All of history men have supported women and not had a problem with it. Men never had a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:35 PM
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The relationship can be built on respect and this could still not work. Having opposite views on corporate tax law is one thing, but having opposite views on issues like abortion, social services, religion, race, marriage, education, immigration, etc., can (and probably should) make a relationship not work out. Even economic issues as taxes fund a lot of programs. It's easy to have opposing views when those views don't impact your/their life. Everything changes when you're pro life and your part…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:52 PM
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their struggles aren’t correlated with their self-worth or financial status Women absolutely struggle immensely with self worth and finances, and much more so than with how men behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:43 AM
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They continued to oppress the Kens. That makes them villains. I wouldn't call them villains, but their continued oppression of Kens was intentionally bad. You can call them villains if you want to. Retaliation against the Barbies shitty behavior. Instead of the barbies just giving the Kens equal representation of power, they them little court representation. Yep. This was how that part was supposed to make audiences feel. You're not meant to see the characters as fully good at the end. But appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:29 PM
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The Barbies were a matriarchy that treated Kens badly. They weren't villains, but they were in the wrong. Just how Ken was in the wrong when he set up a patriarchy in Barbieland. You're not meant to see the characters as fully good at the end. You're meant see them grow and start to become better, which is a reflection of the slow process of growth and progress in real life. Barbieland was meant to be a reflection of the real world, not to give you flawless characters. Humans are flawed, and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:40 PM
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It went back to a matriarchy with a couple of lower ranked judges being Kens. Meanwhile, America has far more female rep in government than that. That was intentional. The end of the Barbie matriarchy was meant to mimic the "end" of the patriarchy. It took years for women to even begin to climb the ladder and decades to get to where we are today while most positions of power are still male-dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:20 AM
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