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practice and look for women whom with you would like to talk about things you are doing in your life rn oh, and live your life, so that you can talk about things you are doing, otherwise, you'll have to find a girl who lives a similar life to yours (I don't know your circumstances), that's just my two cents
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:09 AM
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"A girl just bent her knees, like doing a frog pose to pick weights up at the gym in front of me. It feels like she’s trying to get my attention, just from her body language. Anyone ever had any similar experiences? From what I understand I thought this is how woman flirt."
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:56 PM
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but you can't say his apartment is tasteless
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:24 AM
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Do you find them shallow and double faced? Partially. There are shallow and cruel women, who don't care about you truly, only about shallow outer things. If you have these shallow "shell" elements from the getgo you might not even realize how some women might treat you for who you are inside. And even if you are lame from outside, it might be true to your inner skills/values/ideas too, maybe you WERE lame not just in outer things, maybe cruel women laughed at you inner shortcomings too (e.g. thi…
/r/seduction15/04/22 10:19 PM
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The problems usually start when they get to know do you have any hobby? what do you do in your freetime?
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:04 AM
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she might have been intrigued until you opened your mouth, don't take it the wrong way, maybe she imagined your inner self differently. Being introvert means sometimes girls mistake you for being "mysterious" and a "lone wolf" - not being a cheery, warm personality, who is open and talkative from the first moment you meet new colleagues or group members and you just like hanging out by yourself and avoiding social interaction. Lone wolf and mysterious guys are more than this on the other hand, c…
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:19 PM
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maybe invite her for an icecream and a walk in the park, that would be a sweet move, wouldn't it, u/asscrack_icecream?
/r/seduction29/10/21 11:50 PM
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Get. A. Job. FFS people, that's like the very first step, don't give him books and shit, just start working and your life gets more organized, you'll get self-confidence and some money to spend or spare, for a future house or something . Then get a psychologist. Visit him/her regularly. After that, maybe start a course in something you are interested in (economics, chemistry, IT, some random vocation etc.), and you can get ahead in life with education. Everybody has to take these steps.
/r/seduction25/04/21 12:32 PM
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"I prefer humongous, keep that in mind till next time."
/r/seduction23/04/21 08:09 PM
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It’ll be weird at first but eventually you either develop a thicker skin best advice I was afraid of certain situations at your age, now, I can navigate through these same ones (e.g. small talks and meeting random people), and even enjoy the hell out of them. A few days ago I had one of the biggest laughs I've ever had in my life with one of my female colleagues and it was so random, it came out of the blue and still, it was only a friendly conversation. Once you socialize it is like an odd drug…
/r/seduction28/02/21 10:02 PM
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I agree, but I always start with the third step, before the other two, but I totally agree other than this
/r/seduction01/08/20 02:12 PM
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knowing that I am a piece of shit a WORTHLESS PoS, don't forget to keep your own worth in mind
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:50 PM
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I legit misread the title as "Theory guy taking acid DAY 2" now THAT would be a dating experience that'd open up a whole new approach technique
/r/seduction28/06/20 11:44 AM
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For prom, get another girl to dance with you, don't rely heavily/only on this girl in order to avoid a harsh rejection, when the date of the dance approaches (if you have like a plan A, and she is only plan B or C, then alright). And a similarly good advice for getting the strength to talk to her is to meet with and date other girl(s) in the meantime. This way you won't feel/seem desperate when you text her during all these new experiences and you'll also have more to talk about. You're in your …
/r/seduction04/03/20 04:51 AM
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I'm personally not down to be fake acting like you don't care might count as fake, when it is done to achieve a goal in interactions, even if it is with a female acquaintance or friend. I really like experimenting with situations, even if it feels like something I wouldn't say, like, I hae a gut feeling to behave a certain way, but maybe try acting in a different way to get what I want out of this situation. It might sound fakish, and it is, but you know, acting already happens when you mask the…
/r/seduction04/03/20 04:42 AM
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Most of the time I just triple text her. If you ALWAYS send her 3 messages, she will be conditioned to EXPECT 3 messages when you message her. Not more, not less. 3. Of course, you can send signals with how much you take away from or even add to this treble de messages, it has three levels to shape the content of the message. I fancy myself as an occasional, burst fire quadruple texter, but most of the time I just stay at the magical trifectors trifecta
/r/seduction04/03/20 04:16 AM
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maybe the guy was like a czech Jared Leto, who looks 20, but is actually a 40-50 something dude, a dad of 3, who has been working there his whole life
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:07 AM
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try thinking about what this person knows that actually interests YOU, maybe he/she has a new info about something that is useful to you OR it is interesting. I've talked with a guy at a train station whom I've never would've guessed to have heard about a certain movie, a movie I've wanted to watch for a long time, and he knew BTS things about it from FIRST HAND. It was a bizarre, yet amazing moment, and it all started by him showing a picture of his dog on his phone. The ice-breaker was just ta…
/r/seduction18/02/20 12:29 AM
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"She then said she doesn’t fuck till the third date " " I asked her what dates we’ve been on " "[she] thought this was our 2nd " oh man, the next one will be great
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:14 AM
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your buddy is a friendo, that's a good idea actually, the cockblocker's reaction will tell you where you stand with the crush. If you act, you won't feel like a pussy for not trying this out at least. Even if she rejects you, you will feel more self-confident, knowing that you'e tried what you wanted to, not brooding about the "ifs" in the future. And if someone says you'll feel desperate, yeah, most of the times when I had a good time with a girl, I had to open up and feel vulnerable, even if i…
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:05 AM
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Yeah, sailing is actually something that would make socialization easier, there are clubs, you should definitely invest in that if that's something you'd want to try out! Even building a car or pimping it out yourself sounds like a hobby that would help meet new people (maybe a little harder, but not that farfetched IMO). Good luck and have fun, I think that's the most important part
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:22 PM
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that's actually a tough situation. My dad is a teetotaller, he had to come sober too and he's never been in a pub since he was like 21. So I respect people who are very determined to keep their addiction at bay, you sound like someone who is doing alright, so congratulation for becoming sober! I don't know how ex-alcoholic people need to think about going to the pub, other than my dad's example, so stay strong and don't do stupid shit if you feel that it would make you relapse. Or maybe tell the…
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:10 PM
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you need a social hobby, to get more acquaintances, so basically, you'd still follow the abovementioned rules, but not with close friends my best bet would be something mundane, like watching american football in a pub, or taking up the hobby to play darts or something, hell, anything goes as long as you like it and meet people while you're out. It could be pétanque or bowling, ANYTHING, as long as you go out and meet people through it. But still, you have to like it to make it effective IMO. Or…
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:42 PM
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you should realize why you were rejected, if a woman says shit, like you're boring or have an ugly face, you're better off this way than her acting up, and THEN realizing that she is totally not compatible with you. Most of the times when she acts nice is worse, because she may manipulate you. Look for a girlfriend who has the same values as you and accepts you when you think you've given all that you've got (if not, then go to the sidebar to better yourself buddy, if I look neglected orshow how…
/r/seduction10/01/20 05:23 PM
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The part when " She never replies to you and you awkwardly have to reopen her with another text, therefore rewarding her massive defiance" - is grade A BS, this is like text-book case oneitism, it is not even working most of the time. And a simple message is not working in that case either, you need some wit or some other shit to get her attention. Followup message will be read unanswered just like the first one and not because she wasn't in the mood, that's BS. She just wasn't interested, not b…
/r/seduction13/11/19 01:56 PM
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But yours is witty and succinct, confident. And this is what works. This comment just showed what OP missed out on, because he downplayed humour way too much. I think that if you're funny, even a lost cause can be salvaged, while the "nice guy" way of acting too compliant and boring, not taking risks is the best way to not get a response.
/r/seduction13/11/19 01:45 PM
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I'd advice you to not act like a creep when you meet women in your surroundings (workplace, while doing the regular shopping etc.) BUT do talk to people (everyone, men, even old women, just socialize) when you have the chance, like, when you are at the line in the grocery store make small talk, even if it is just 3-4 lines, socially interact with the people around you, don't feel shy, humans need social interactions. It will help you to get better at talking to girls romantically. I feel you are…
/r/seduction21/09/19 09:52 PM
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I think you are the typical dude, who is alright in every sense, and I mean it. Everything seems to be good in your life, you should be more thankful for that! Being a software developer still makes you stand out from the "crowd" I think. It is good that you don't play videogames, as that would have bee na big obstacle I think. Just because it's male dominated, that doesn't mean that you are totally unable to find women in that field IMO. You just have to go out and attend events that are fun fo…
/r/seduction10/09/19 11:06 AM
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America still has more chance to be who you want you to be, than for example, Estern Europe, so you're lucky in that sense. You have to prioritize those few prospects that are available for your situation, as much as you can, or even find new ones. You have to build a career from these if you can (even if it seems underwhelming, a job that you had for years still builds a career). I still think that a convention would be the best way to find a girl who understands you. Wish you the best and keep…
/r/seduction10/09/19 10:52 AM
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For me, dating is finding a girl whom I comfortable with, and "compatible". I mean, the best relationship I've had was at the dorm. I was always studying, but also worked out, like you said, and went to play football with friends, even went down running in the morning. I was also paying attention to my clothes and hair, skin and all that stuff. I wasn't going out that much though, and I preferred reading and hanging out with close friends besides the things I've mentioned in the last sentence. I…
/r/seduction09/09/19 06:47 AM
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Mental disability is the worst setback, not gonna lie. But i had a roommate at university who was like you, for half a semester. He had a girlfriend who was in a similar situation - I think that your description fits them properly. They are still together, they have just got married this summer. Maybe try going to conventions where people with autism go to socialize. It might sound like an excerpt from a dystopian novel, like Brave New World from Huxley, but it's not true. All I'm saying that yo…
/r/seduction08/09/19 03:53 PM
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Fake it till you make it man, but not faking in the everyday sense. Hear me out. I had trouble in high school, but tried acting as I thought I should be acting at university when I finally went to university (didn't change that much on my looks BTW), as I thought that at uni people should become more mature. I only adjusted my clothing and the way I talked to them (also the topics), but voila, girls looked at me like a mature guy, and they were more interested, than when I was acting like a dick…
/r/seduction08/09/19 03:34 PM
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Which video is this?
/r/seduction08/09/19 10:27 AM
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I'm done, this is the peak of this sub
/r/seduction07/09/19 02:47 PM
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Also regarding your ethnicity and height, your attitude is marvellous!!! That's how this should be done! I had a friend who was shorter than me, but had more success with women, because he was confident and had his shit together, made me respect him even more. If you manage to become the best version of yourself, and be confident out in picking up women, you'll even going to inspire your friends around you. I genuinely respect you for not taking that incel bullshit road many people seem to regur…
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:41 PM
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Be open towards acquaintances in your surroundings. I've found my best friend in the most unlikely place, just talk to people wherever you go ,and ask questions related to your hobbies and goals in life, job/course during the small talk, and you might find similar people who are open to hang out. From there, you just have to spend time together and maybe discuss how you envision going out to events and tryign to pick up girls. Or just go to IRL programs that your hobby has, and open girls there.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:33 PM
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best advice, a good friend is the first step in building a life in which you'd want a girl to be part of (and girls are more open to well-rounded people e.g. who has a job/course in his life with goals and friends)
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:28 PM
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Wow. That's a lot to unpack, and there are some I think are going to be useful for my experience (1st and 3rd points). Thanks for the thorough answer, now I have some things to ruminate on
/r/seduction31/08/19 02:54 AM
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it doesn't matter now, she's got a boyfriend, and I live elsewherecause of my work, I was just curious about this part, why women doesn't want to commit. Isn't it that every girl wants a steady relationship and start a family in her 20's (by the time she's 30)? I mean, I thought that was the tendency, finding a steady background and start a family. Maybe this question is still relevant for me, could you elaborate what's with girls between 21-25 about this issue? I dont even know why I'm writing …
/r/seduction31/08/19 01:53 AM
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So it was still trust issues towards me? but she was the initiator when I first met her, she was very open (things got more serious after 1,5 years friendship)
/r/seduction31/08/19 01:48 AM
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Why is it that a girl fears commitment, once we get to know each other MORE? I don't think that she was a slut, but once commitment was in the picture this girl just froze everything (maybe it is not even the good subreddit to ask these kind of questions)
/r/seduction31/08/19 01:41 AM
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Ah, the magical cokeheads. It is an arduous sacrifice, but having the face of Brad Pitt makes it worthwhile... uh... that's the moral of the story folks! JK, seriously, very odd story. Hope your friend made it and lives a clean life! (I do hope)
/r/seduction29/08/19 12:26 PM
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Not necessarily under the sheets, as in between the sheets, am I right fellas? Ok, I'll leave now... But seriously, learn making cocktails, such as Between the Sheets), it is a huge improvement in the home activities department. It is not that hard, and one of my university friends who was popular with girls had a mixer set in his dorm room, it was incredible, he could mix a cocktail right there if you asked him.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:03 PM
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Reinstate dominance, post your own nude too
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:45 PM
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But don't forget that there is a type of confidence in constantly approaching women! I think what you mean is that outside validation is not that important, but what you've just described is, I think, a type of "frame" that you can build and comes from within, and frame DOES give you confidence to not pussy out from approaching women. But I get it now what you meant by the previous comment, I understand it now.
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:00 PM
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Ok, thanks for the clarification! I'll definitely check those books out
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:56 PM
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Mini habits is the name of the book? And did it introduce Kaizen for you, or was it from another one? How does your daily routine look like?
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:33 AM
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Once a group of university classmate girls and another guy I was hanging out with started talking about boyfriend issues. One of the girls dropped a name that everyone knew, and they suddenly started talking about her sexual encounter with him. Then one of the girls (whom I know had a liking of the other guy in the group) asked how big this guy's D was, whom everybody knew in front of this other guy in the group. I acted like I didn't care ( I suddenly put on my pokerface), but I was screaming i…
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:30 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:20 AM
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Like the girl next door from rom-coms? Yeah, well, if she only pretends that she likes you, while she dates other guys, and only comes back to you for your attention when she is dumped or is ignored by this other dude, then I think attention whoring is more fitting. I knew girls that you described (almost similar), they were open for dating, and didn't gaslight me.
/r/seduction31/07/19 06:41 PM
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So basically, in the first case, you feel trust and "compatibility". Yeah, that sounds like attraction and invitation to ask her out and it seems like she wants a date with that person. OK, thanks for clarifying.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:35 PM
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You don't ask her out, as you already fear rejection. If you already think about how she'll tell her friends that she rejected you, you already presuppose that you'll fail. At least I sense a negativity from this comment, as I wouldn't care about her rejecting me. Abundance mentality helps after rejections. But you know, I have to admit that it sounded funny when I've read it for the first time, so it is just a joke that makes a twist on the question that you've asked.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:18 PM
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I had another girl who was seeking attention and she was basically gaslighting me with responses like this, so yeah it's a friendzoning slash milking your attention by giving just enough so you still care syndrome (this attention whoring has another term, but I can't remember it). But this other girl... I don't know, we were on quite good terms, that's why I'm asking how she is thinking in the latter case.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:17 PM
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What does "100% sure of the way we are taking things" mean? Does it mean that it is an invite for the guy to make a move basically?
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:05 PM
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I had a similar story, where a girl was talking about guys wasting her time on dates, and later I've realized that she was also interested in me, based on other clues. In this case, even if you end up not getting together, you still have to ask her out. I think that it matters, what kind of relationship are you in with the girl before she even starts telling this story. However, why do you fear that she might tell other guys the same story about you, who cares? If that's what is important to you…
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:02 PM
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I'm over 25 but I think that you see the situation in a good way. The part where you describe the relationship just consisting of you believing her to be what you want her to be, still resonates with me. You need trust and the only way you can get it is with hard work, and a girl who is ready for a relationship like that. That is why you need to go out and search, seduce girls, to find your soulmate, someone who is up for this relationship. I guess if a woman is down with you to sacrifice parts …
/r/seduction30/07/19 06:20 PM
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Yes, since I've started reading the sidebar more in-depth, I think that you've summed up quite concisely the goal of r/seduction. One thing I'd like to add is that confidence can be faked, but you are better off building a life that naturally strengthens you in this sense. Your points can be seen as the goal, the consequence of having your shit together, which is the cause. This enables that you don't need to act confident, you can genuinely feel more confident by improving your life.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:38 PM
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Some good advice there, I agree with them
/r/seduction25/07/19 03:36 PM
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Did you hang out with him during these pickups, and if yes, could you tell us an anecdote involving his pull technique and him deflecting shit tests about his physical appearance?
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:25 PM
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I really don't want to be rude or sound self-important, but I can't stop thinking about the possibility, that some short dude in the history of picking up women has deflected this kind of button pushing somehow with some batshit insane confidence paired with strong frame and a witty comeback, followed up by intrepid continuation of where he had left off when she interjected this high level shit-test.
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:55 AM
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I see that you aren't taking to heart the oft said advice here that you need to socialize and take risk more, go out more, as you don't seem to know enough about the BDSM community to catch on the lingo used there to find suitable pairs for certain roleplays, such as dog-dominatrix etc.
/r/seduction24/07/19 11:18 AM
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I mean, yeah, your friend was just trying to shoot the shit with some buddy talk, don't be harsh on him. But you should definitely talk to your best friend about what would you say in these situations, its a good way to be "prepared," and also to work on wingmanship with him (imagine if he's present when you freeze up while talking to a girl at a party or something, he could help you stay in flow). Prepared is not a good word, as it always makes it sound anxious, "sprezzatura" is better, oh, and…
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:59 PM
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Oh boy... I had some cringey situations because I was not perceptive enough and couldn't read the room. Of course, you won't tell a raunchy joke to someone you don't want to get embarrassed in front of. Like you could tell her something real, like you don't have time nowadays as you work a lot, and then make the story go in hilarious directions. Like tell her: "I work a lot nowadays, and the spare time I have, I need to spend it on the most important people in my life. Like my good friends and m…
/r/seduction18/07/19 06:42 PM
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You can go two ways. You can be "unresponsively" blunt, indifferently staying serious and nonchalant by saying no (but not negging her or being rude), and usually the followup question is "Why?" Then you can actually talk about your life and what kind of women are you looking for. Or you can just go the other way and make up a string of jokes in your head in advance, thinking about their possible responses and already coming up ways to deflect her in a hilarious way (like making fun of her assum…
/r/seduction18/07/19 06:14 PM
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Up until the point where you use this line, make sure that everything you write is written in impeccable English grammar and style, in order for the line to be surprising and powerful. And of course tell us what happened aftet that.
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:53 AM
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He needs someone who's just as good at bounty hunting as a mercenary in the intergalactic space, someone with whom he can get to be the Boba who he really wants to be. He needs his Jango, to get to do what he feels he needs to do, to satisfy his most important needs in order to fulfil his lifelong dream, and get the closest relationship humans can have, to be more than just a soulmate, to have an actual connection on another level, deeper than anyone else, your other half, your perfect doppelgan…
/r/seduction13/07/19 10:14 AM
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u/recyclablebanthas said it right. The first point from him is the most important. I always say that everybody has something interesting for you, you just have to find it. I was at a party, and I've found myself surrounded by people whom I rarely talk to, and was nervous. I took a deep breath, and thought that I shouldn't be rude in the first place and strike up a conversation. But how? Then I've started thinking about the person in front of me, and what I know about him. It has just dawned on m…
/r/seduction05/07/19 11:48 PM
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Yup, totally agree. One girl might find something 10x more attractive than the other girl, who might not even like the same damn thing
/r/seduction26/06/19 10:03 PM
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The key point of your post is that you are 18 years old, and you had trouble with school, don't know what you want to be. You should work on this. I think that you don't have your life together, and don't even know what to do. That is still a natural state when you're at that age, but you need to go get education, whether a university or a vocational one, doesn't matter. Get into a profession, and then get a job. That's your first priority. Then you can have a car, and go where you want to, go o…
/r/seduction19/06/19 09:40 AM
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You need to find a girl like you, who was focusing on her studies and was shy too. That way you can have a long term committed relationship. And I don't think that only gold diggers are up for sexual exploration, that is just the pitfall of oversimplification. If you state from the beginning that sex is important for you, you can pretty much screen even the girls who are like you, that are up for such exploration (and girls who who have a mature attitude may not be open about their sex life firs…
/r/seduction12/05/19 10:14 AM
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