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DiscussionSlyStocks/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:07 PM
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I honestly feel this who confidence/game talk in the redpill is delulu. Nobody will be intimidated, let alone highly attracted to a short ugly guy just because is confident, lmao. If you are confident without any reason that is rooted in objective reality, people will just laugh at you. I’m super short and only go for tiny asians at this point. White women don’t want me and I can live with that.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/25 12:03 PM
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I honestly feel this who confidence/game talk in the redpill is delulu. Nobody will be intimidated, let alone highly attracted to a short ugly guy just because is confident, lmao. If you are confident without any reason that is rooted in objective reality, people will just laugh at you. I’m super short and only go for tiny asians at this point. White women don’t want me and I can live with that.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/25 12:02 PM
2

The average guy gets woman a lot easier via manogamy. Breaking up the monogamy system is what ruined dating for many men and established the 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:51 PM
1

Cold approaching can turn a well-functioning regular guy into a suicidal wreck, given how dismissive and cruel women can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:44 PM
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Most women only count the hot guys. I’m sure she got attention from plenty of men she sees as vastly inferior due to looks, lol. If I look at a woman nicely and she gives me an annoyed “don’t you dare, creep”-look, I’m not gonna ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:41 PM
4

They want ugly men to stay in their lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:12 PM
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Ugliness is mostly what is shamed. Passport bros and even preds are shamed when they are ugly. If they are tall, great jawline, hunter eyes, cute smile with straight white teeth etc, the shaming is a lot less severe, no matter their behavior. Women want ugly men to be miserable. They hate it when ugly men succeed in Asia, especially with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:40 AM
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Just admit that only looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:32 AM
1

That might be my favorite post ever here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:52 PM
2

I guess it depends on how you define poor. Some might argue that someone who can afford a 50000 usd outfit is by definition not poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:20 PM
0

Do you think MGTOW men are happy? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:52 AM
-2

Well that depends on what your goal is, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:44 AM
1

Again, not being “obsessed” is not gonna get men women. A woman is not going to actively approach a short nerdy guy just because he is minding his own business. That’s just a fantasy to keep men docile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:36 AM
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I never said that. I just gave a side-note.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:34 AM
-1

This. The men who struggle with women are not attractive enough to be noticed, yet alone missed by women once the opt out. If you wanna piss off local Chad-chasers, get a passport and post pictures with foreign women who look far better than the locals who reject you. For some reason, that really pisses them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:28 AM
2

Everything works best for hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:16 AM
2

When I use dating apps locally, it feels like I’m using a demo version, cause nobody matches, replies or likes me. People can have vastly different experiences, depending on location, height (filters!) and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:13 AM
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I think people totally overrate the importance of things that aren’t related to looks. If a woman is totally into your looks, it’s almost impossible to get rid of her. If your looks are doing nothing for her, no amount of rizz, game, money, confidence or ambition will make you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:07 AM
4

The funniest thing is how women will call ugly men they disagree with incels, then 5 minutes later they will claim that looks don’t matter and can’t be the reason for why men struggle with dating. Women are well aware that looks matter a lot, which is why good-looking guys who “hate women” aren’t called incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:48 PM
1

Yes, she likes other things about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:29 PM
3

As a short white guy nobody is afraid of me, including women and children. That never help me with dating, though. Quite the opposite, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:38 AM
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Of course not. My gf was totally put off by me crying during movies and so on, for example. She doesn’t like it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:24 AM
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It worked great for me. Win-win situation. Trying with western women was an insane waste of time and I am very pissed that I didn’t give up on them far sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:49 PM
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Women are actually more depraved than men. Society just punishes them less for it. AWAW and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:44 PM
2

The bar is in hell for hot tall guys. The bar is on the moon for short pudgy timid guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:32 AM
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The bar is in hell for hot tall guys. The bar is on the moon for short fat ugly timid guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:52 AM
1

It’s simply about looks. Those “terrible” men look good to those women. The nice stable guys they shut down likely don’t have good jawlines etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:02 AM
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you simply don’t understand hyperbole, figurative speech, humor, wit or anything reddit like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:11 AM
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is today your first time on the internet? you’ll get there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:06 AM
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Then you don’t understand language
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:39 AM
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even if that doesn’t happen, my point still stands. I disagree with the premise / the advice of OP. “just going for it” and approaching the women they really like doesn’t turn out well for unattractive men. even if they don’t go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:02 AM
21

Hello lawsuit. Ugly men hitting on hot women, what could go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:19 PM
5

If you look conventionally attractive you can meet them anywhere. if not… then nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:53 PM
3

Girls by and large are not into me, due to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:11 PM
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If you think unattractive guys can successfully approach women at bars, you’re delusional. It is not a skill issue either. It’s looks. Yesterday I went to a club with my gf who didn’t believe me when I told her how hard it was for me and how bad women treat me. So I approached women while she was watching and she got heartbroken. She genuinely didn’t think I’d get nothing but brutal rejections. Women and attractive men have no concept whatsoever of how it is for many guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:18 PM
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Physical affection between same sex friends? you serious bro? That’s literally the last thing on my mind when hanging out with my homies. Women and straight men can easily be friends, most straight women find me about as attractive as a lesbian would. There’s absolutely no tension. You make the mistake many make: you base a theory on how it is for the top 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:02 PM
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My point was that even if women have harems and fuck lots of guys, that does NOT mean that men are not struggling and lonely. In fact, monogamy is a much better system for average guys and infinitely better for ugly guys. I, for example, have a much easier time getting to know the virgin book reading archetype over the party slut type. The first one might have only 3-5 men in all of their life, but me being one of them is FAR easier for me than being one of 500 guys the infamous party hoe fucks.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:57 PM
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It’s not even about math, it’s about archetypes. Especially for casual sex. If you are short with a pudgy face and glasses, you are just not the type women look for when they wanna have a good fun time fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:05 PM
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Most women fuck the same type of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:06 PM
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If she’s hot and gives head, it is very hard to mess this foundation up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:59 AM
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women are all about looks. that is why some people think women love assholes. it’s looks. a man who looks hot to them can do whatever he wants. the hot females I know ALWAYS have hot guys who look a certain way. they NEVER get with a short pudgy guy with glasses, EVER. the personality of their men, however, can differ a lot. they compromise on personality. they don’t compromise on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:46 AM
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What bothers me is the blatant gaslighting. Women will tell a guy they are friendly with “oh, you being short is no issue at all to women! trust me! and you are actually quite handsome!” while at the same time always left-swiping and totally ignoring, even clowning guys just like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:32 AM
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Sometimes I truly question the sanity of leftists on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:25 AM
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Because men are not a protected group and women are often woke idiots. The most woke of them will empathize with a refugee rapist, but trash a quiet lonely white virgin male for being a toxic incel. Also, women hate to acknowledge how superficial they are. Therefore, they have to die on the hill of “it’s your pErSonALiTy”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:25 AM
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I simply think women like tall guys with firm, visible jawlines and hunter eyes. But maybe that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:53 PM
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and I expressed how strongly I disagree with that comment. hope that is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:14 AM
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I absolutely disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:48 PM
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it’s usually just looks. not that complicated. if you are fine with their looks, you should be fine with the virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:38 PM
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Reddit is a leftist echo chamber for the most part. Everybody knows that. If aliens had only reddit as their information source, they’d think Trump gets about 3% of the popular vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:31 AM
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you know they pose a far greater danger for obvious reasons. it’s ridiculous to even talk about it. it’s like asking how does a male pose a greater danger than a girl, after all we are all humans
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:22 PM
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I am surprised you have the balls to say these true things, two tier thought police might have you jailed. england has fallen. very sad. I am genuinely sorry, no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:59 PM
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the danger is FAR greater than the average citizen for many obvious reasons, but I believe many people believe it is bad to think/say these things so they choose to believe otherwise. trump is actually lax on abortion when compared to other republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:57 PM
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It’s common knowledge. I am not here to babysit you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:00 PM
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I am honestly surprised that you are surprised by this. Bubbles really are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:45 AM
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The radical left segment of the democrats do both. They just don’t always say it out loud cause they know it might not resonate with moderates. That is actually not a contested point. The postmodern left loves crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:27 AM
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Nothing in your statement refutes anything of what I said in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:54 AM
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Open borders and leftist leniency on crime are far greater dangers to women than Trump could ever dream to be if he tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:32 AM
1

It is definitely true. Everybody knows it is, too. You do so, also. It is very common that women use terms like heartbreaker to describe men they like. When women wanted to flatter me, they often pretended to think that I must have lots of women I talk to etc. I often had it happen to me that women were outright disappointed when they found out that I wasn‘t lying when I said that women at work never flirt with me or that the female name who is calling me is just my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:15 PM
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Man should simply seek outside of the west. Very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:22 PM
1

The attractive man can get a woman to marry him as soon as he wants to. There are no advantages to being unattractive. None at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:10 PM
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you gotta look outside of the west. it really upsets western women too. win-win
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:14 AM
2

Sharing a woman is gay to me. I could never get hard while drunk male friends are watching. It is gross to me. Some women like it. Some men like it. People have different taste. I, personally, find it appalling. Not because I am “good” or “boring”. It’s just that it’s fucking gay. (no offense to gay people whatsoever, it’s just that I’m straight is all) Also, women who like that might be nice for porn fantasy, but that’s where it stops. Never in a million years would I consider a woman like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:54 AM
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Everything comes down to looks. If you wanna find “good” women, just go for women who are not conventionally “hot”. I am not saying that hot women are bad people, but it is all about supply and demand. Society treats hot people very differently and they act very differently because of that. For short term fun, hot is always great. For green flag long term relationships, “cute” girls can be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:47 AM
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Clearly love, by far. Sex is nice and all, but the fun fades. (with the same person) Love is different. True love never fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:37 AM
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most people who give “just touch grass” advice to unattractive people don’t even believe it themselves. they just want those people to shut up and go touch grass.. somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:17 PM
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exactly. people act as if “just sitting at home playing video games” is what caused people to not get partners. it’s the other way around. never getting partners and being not welcome at parties will cause people to stay home and find other hobbies eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:11 PM
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well obviously you can fuck things up by being completely off. it’s like racing a porsche 911 against a fiat punto. you will lose if you drive in reverse. if both drivers drive like normal human beings who have a license, the porsche will always win, without any exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:55 PM
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your face doesn’t get prettier just because you don’t fear rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:51 PM
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attractiveness is everything. I, for example, am extremely nonchalant because I know that with my looks I am already losing the game. so I don’t even come to play. It is easy not to idolize women when you know how shallow they are. on paper, I’m the type who acts like an uninterested gay guy near a 10. in doesn’t do anything. it only works when they already perceive you as physically attractive enough to game them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:29 PM
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the point is that it doesn’t actually do anything if you don’t look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:23 PM
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you do realize that regular men absolutely get no interest from any women ever, let alone hot ones? looks are all that really matters, everything else is just the cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:20 PM
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Agreed. Everything goes back to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:27 PM
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That’s pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:06 PM
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Personality is extremely overrated when it comes to dating. Women don’t like bad guys, they like hot guys. Women don’t dislike nice guys, they dislike short balding fat guys. It really isn’t as complex as people make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:22 AM
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Social skills are extremely overrated. Looks are 80-90% when it comes to attraction, because they also trickle down to how the behaviour of the person in question is perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:08 PM
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it’s not about power. that is just a leftist reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:56 PM
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wrong. average women are largely left alone when dressed modestly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:52 PM
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No, you are just leftists morons who’d probably defend actual rapists against right-winged law and order types.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:48 PM
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Yeah, real rapists are victims. Normal men need to me taught to “be better” because rapists exist. Leftism is pure clownworld.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:46 PM
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Yeah, so crazy. Me walking around naked might have a different effect as opposed to me walking around in worker clothes. So weird. Let’s teach society to treat everybody the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:45 PM
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Antifa Leftist women are so funny. They love actual rapists, but hate regular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:41 PM
1

That’s absurd. Of course clothes amplify attention. Without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:39 PM
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Trustworthy is one of those meaningless words, just like confidence. It’s simply about being hot. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:49 PM
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it was written in my mother language and I have read it and know exactly what BLM, fourth wave feminism and postmodern culture in general derive from it.. but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:34 PM
-1

always these pseudo-intellectuals taking everything uber-literal, pretending to lack any kind of pattern recognition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:22 PM
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you are delusional. women sleep with men just for looks all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:40 AM
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except that it is. it’s just that their standards for looks are a lot higher, so it is far more rare to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:39 AM
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why are you pretending that you misunderstand me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:35 AM
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it derives from marxism, which is what intersectional feminism is rooted in. everything is the result of oppression, colonialism etc and white men are to blame for everything, including their own problems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:16 AM
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Damn that was deep. Hits hard. Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:30 PM
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nope, just saying that looks are by far the most important aspect. a good-looking doormat will have far more success when compared to an assertive, confident, out-going ugly person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:19 PM
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being assertive does nothing if you aren’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:15 PM
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Blackpill talk is acceptable to society when women say it, but problematic and dangerous when men say it. First time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:02 PM
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What a BS. It is only about attraction. Women prefer a hot drug dealer over a introverted pudgy faced nerd and the reason for that sure as hell isn’t trustworthiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:10 PM
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There’s nothing more unattractive to women than a man who no women seem to be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:05 PM
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Most women are disgusted if an unattractive guy approaches them. Trust me, I know. At a certain point you just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:29 AM
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I didn’t say that. I said that a non-hot introvert who didn’t have many partners is easier to marry than a slut is to hookup with. (if you are an average nice guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:45 AM
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Only hot men are “allowed” to act confident. Then they blame the attraction on the confidence, when it really is just the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:09 AM
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it is just an excuse, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:53 AM
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she will of course also not be one of the hot ones, that goes without saying. those types exist. you don’t meet them in nightclubs, though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:53 AM
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most females have higher standards for hookups than for marriage. sounds insane, but it is true. as an average guy, it is much easier to marry a calm, introverted woman compared to getting sex with a horny slut who had hundreds of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:04 AM
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No, he finds that the list she gave for men was more shallow than the list of what women like. So he called her out on that. “Shallow” here obviously means superficial attributes like height or jawline, not personality. Again, for both genders, looks are by far the most important thing when it comes to attraction. So it is quite annoying when women go on about being assertive, cOnFiDenT and bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:36 PM
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so you’d agree that looks are paramount?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:45 PM
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so true, yet bland. makes one jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:42 PM
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Maybe he thinks it’s more about height and jawline than about being assertive and bold. I’d agree with that premise. For both genders it is about being hot. Which means they are shallow in exactly the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:36 PM
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watch how many people highly disagree with me. then you know why I do it.. it is not obvious to everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:46 PM
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I wasn’t born that way. We all start blue-pilled…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:16 PM
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I didn’t say anything about being more virtuous. you are strawmanning because you know I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:14 PM
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Try that line if you think it makes no difference. I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:19 PM
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Let’s make an experiment. The next woman you date: Tell her you have been to prison on assault and drug charges. The women after that, tell her you struggle majorly with getting women and have been sexless for 3 years. Tell me which date went better after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:07 PM
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It has nothing to do with my taste. It’s not as if I could pick and choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:04 PM
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Manipulation only works if the jawline checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:04 PM
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Being a man “who doesn’t get women” is pretty much the worst thing you can be to a woman. Being an abusive criminal is much more desireable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:35 AM
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If it were only about paying for dinner. Most women ask me for phones, cash, clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:59 AM
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well that is true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:46 PM
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Exactly, I just wanted to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:59 AM
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How about women buying dinner then? Also, the school system is designed to give women better grades. It is not actually about who works harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:21 AM
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Yup, that is the criticism I tried to imply here. At the end of the day cultural marxism or flat out postmodern racism is the reason for their reasoning (or lack thereof). They’d probably call it post colonialism or sth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:19 AM
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Is this the game where leftists call things by different names in order to be “more inclusive” or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:08 AM
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4th wave feminism has destroyed western society, money/status is only a small part of it. Although I agree to the extend that it is a huge problem when western women want their men to make more money than them while at the same time systems are installed so women get promoted/hired ahead of men and females get better grades at school. Western women want their men to make more money, while at the same time push for a system where women make more money than men. It is bound to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:29 PM
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Western women are certainly the problem. The difference is truly absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:20 PM
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Many third world immigrants act like absolute scumbags in the west. And they are not leaving after a few weeks. For some reason we are supposed to be tolerant towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:18 PM
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Some countries are pretty big on big government
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:17 PM
4

Of course. Having money is better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:36 AM
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Once I had it and nothing changed. Poor people often think that money is the solution to all of their problems. It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:13 AM
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The issue is not that it is “not easy” - it is virtually impossible for a large contingent of men. I seriously consider quitting my job because there kinda is no point to it. Why work an annoying 9 to 5 if you have no women in your life? There’s no point in having a nice place, car, whatever if you can’t share it with someone you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:20 AM
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That’s not true at all. Women are all over men they actually like. It just never happens to a large contingent of men, so they assume it doesn’t exist. I have been treated differently my a LARGE degree simply because they thought my photos looked better than me in person. Those photos were unedited. Now imagine how different I’d be treated as an actually different person. It’s plain nuts. And it is ONLY looks, nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:07 PM
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They just hate ugly men and happily exclude them from their social clubs. That’s all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:00 AM
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In a woman’s mind, good-looking men are never shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:57 AM
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nobody in the history of mankind denied this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:32 AM
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I said there was no bf% for one’s height. Which is true. Obviously bf% is related to your face. Faces can be unattractive in many ways. Sometimes less fat makes a face actually worse, if the bones look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:31 AM
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bluepillers: tHeY cAn sEe YoUR aTTiTuDe bY cHeCkiNG yoUr ViBe!! also bluepillers: women are not at fault for being in toxic relationships with abusive men, they couldn’t have known about it in the beginning! men are deceptive!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:07 AM
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it’s so funny how she denies the black pill only to have the goal post shifted so often during her arguments that she ends at “obviously the black pill is true, like duh, everybody knows that, why even argue?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:00 AM
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I have the red flair cause there was no black flair, I don’t know how other people got it. I can’t manually type it because I need to be a “man” to respond to “questions for men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:32 PM
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checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:20 PM
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There are no abs for your face, there is no body fat percentage for your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:19 PM
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The problem is that it is just true as fuck. Whenever a woman finds me physically appealing, everything is sooooo much easier, it is almost absurd. Suddenly my personality is just amazing. apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:07 PM
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It is one of the main talking points here. If you have never seen it, then you are not familiar with PPD culture. I’m not going to go through all the threads and try to find links to random posts that do that, I’m not your secretary. It is why this thread happened to begin with. It’s also not exclusive to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:06 AM
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You are not Michael Jordan. Point is: I’m not wrong, society is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:22 PM
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Both people could not enter buildings due to genetic traits they’ve been born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:18 PM
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They still face discrimination. I can’t enter most nightclubs, for example. Not because I’m too drunk or have a criminal record or a bad reputation. Simply due to height and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:12 PM
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I think it is fairly normal to want to be wanted. Those questions have such obvious answers, if you are smart enough to make an account on the internet, you should be able to figure them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:54 PM
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You are moving the goal post and you certainly aren’t genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:45 PM
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Do you think society was at fault when black people had been excluded from entering certain places solely based on their skin color?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:44 PM
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You are just arguing in bad faith. We all know what I am referring to and that it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:18 PM
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Not true. Depending on the particular case, it could very well be that society is wrong. Otherwise you could apply that logic on all kinds of -isms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:12 PM
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Why do you act as if men are fine as long as they are just taller? If a 160 girl cares about height, being 161 won’t be enough. I’m sure you must be aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:11 PM
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Shortness is a literal dealbreaker for many women, including short women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:06 PM
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The term “bad boy“ implies being attractive to women. Think about it. It really does. For example, I skipped classes like crazy, smoked weed 30 feet away from the school’s playground, got hella drunk at any party. Yet nobody, absolutely NOBODY would have thought of me as a “bad boy”. Why? My lack of female attention. All there is to it. Why was there such a glaring lack of female attention? Looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:00 PM
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she is strawmanning as she can‘t deny the actual point, they always do that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:48 PM
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That is actually not the criticism here. You are strawmanning. The criticism is that you tell random short ugly guys that their personality must be terrible while sucking off tall Chads who are dumb as rocks and/or abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:29 PM
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confidence is so overrated, it baffles me. genuinely. if you got nothing going for yourself but are confident, then you‘re just a clown to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:13 PM
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Short men and men with ugly faces exist. There are no abs for your face, there is no cardio for your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:42 PM
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I believe many men have almost no options, let alone good-looking options. So if a decent looking woman comes by, almost everything will be tolerated and tried to overcome. All the easy-to-handle pretty girls are either already in relationships or get with Chads. So what is left are the toxic borderline babes. And men who get almost no attention from women will jump at any chance and tolerate almost everything due to their extreme loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:54 AM
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The signs are not hard to read at all. It‘s just that most men never get them because they don‘t look good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:26 PM
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I can with full confidence say that almost no woman wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:26 PM
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Many women I have seen and talked to. It’s a thing they do to unattractive men who have decent money, like said 70k/yr. Their bet is like this: If he says yes, I have a nice extra cash cow who won’t harm me and is unable to hurt my feelings as I don’t care for him. If he says no, it’s not a loss, as he’s unattractive. I believe that commonly happens to men with a nice car and decent income who are short with a pudgy face. Women are not afraid of them, nor do they respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:54 PM
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That is also not what I am referring to. Not sure why people pretend to not get what I am getting at. Have you never met a woman who asked for gold chains, clothes and stuff before you even knew each other and before you even got physical?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:04 AM
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Some women don’t have a career and just want normal things from normal men. You are too laser focused on the word “gold”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:33 PM
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not true. women could easily just try to get free food, shopping and rides out of a very regular guy. maybe that is not gold digging, but it’s the same principle. I am not a millionaire but if a woman ask me for a new phone or a fancy dress or a financed shopping spree saturday, I bounce very quickly, right then and there. it is not even about the money. if a woman actually likes a guy, she wouldn’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:31 PM
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hahaha good comeback
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:07 PM
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I literally was able to have sex with a virgin because she thought of me as a short loser. I am not making this up. I wasn’t aware of any of it. But she was super tight and then there was blood everywhere. Then she admitted to that having been her first time. I was basically like “wtf, you are 23 and we barely know each other. why would you do this?” She was like “well, I don’t care for you, you are not my type physically either. therefore I have no feelings and won’t be hurt. if some guy I trul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:04 PM
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Looks matter far more than anything else. It is not detrimental to know that. You are genuinely evil to tell people who struggle that looks aren’t the main reason. Only a vile human being would tell a short balding fat guy that he needs to work on his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:45 PM
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This whole niceguys are people who pretend to be nice is a hoax. Plenty of genuinely nice guys fail all the same. It doesn’t matter. What matters is looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:42 PM
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It’s about karmic justice, obviously. Just like many people tell themselves that karma or hell is real, in order to deal with all the outrageous injustice that we witness everywhere in all realms. People tell themselves that the universe will take care of things somehow, because society and governments obviously fail in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:27 PM
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Even if I was a woman I couldn’t read the minds of most women. What I can do is rely on life experience. There’s usually some sort of “dance” in male-female relationships, including friendships. Women want to feel attractive. If their male friends treat them exactly like they’d treat men, this doesn’t work. For example, if a female friend and I are going to an event at night and she puts on make-up, lipstick and a nice dress and perfume while carrying an expensive handbag, it is sort of my socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:29 AM
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Most women would feel slighted and likely end the friendship if they are actually 0% sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:30 AM
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There’s no actual bad boy or nice guy. There’s just good-looking and not good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:29 AM
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looks are by far the most important thing. if you are dancing in a club, it is fair to assume the females won’t unlock your phone and go through your reddit post history to see whether you have bad opinions or not. it’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:27 AM
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Is a female’s career actually important in your circle? I genuinely don’t care. I listen to her stories and all simply because I care about her. But whether she got a promotion or got fired, her attractiveness stays the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:18 AM
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women scam men all the time. but that‘s besides the point. the main issue can be reduced to this: when women say “be kind, confident and respectful” what they actually mean is “be 6’4”, have a strong jawline, defined cheekbones, straight white teeth and hunter eyes. also, it doesn’t hurt to be kind, confident and respectful.” sums up the entire thread here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:06 AM
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Friendzones are 99% due to looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:47 PM
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They simply dislike Tate and then tie him to other people they dislike. Which means they dislike incels a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:34 PM
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Women are not into short men where I am from. Like not at all. So no, not a chance and that is a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:07 PM
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Those tips are useless because men who struggle NEVER have that happen to them. Do you think inkwells who vent here just had a chick grinding them last night but didn’t know that meant she was interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:04 AM
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True, but it’s the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:59 AM
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It’s a huge misconception that people just need to touch grass. Nobody says to himself “bro, I’d much rather just play CoD and WoW, then post on inkwell forums later as opposed to having a fun time with all those hot nice chicks who treat me well”. ABSOLUTELY NOBODY. People escape to videogames and porn because their touching grass times were complete garbage, mostly due to their bad genetic makeup and not due to their lack of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:55 AM
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It’s the jumping through endless hoops that frustrates men. You have to understand it doesn’t just come naturally to certain men. I used to be a gym bro, too. The most frustrating part was seeing all those untrained 6’5” getting the girls while my stretched out v-shirt did nothing, aside from impressing some men. Same with sports cars. Only just compliments from men. Very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:49 AM
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The double standard goes both ways. Women who didn’t have many sex partners are totally accepted and respected in society. Men with “little experience” are pitied and shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:20 AM
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It might be fun for hot men who get lots of women. For everybody else, most women are ACTUALLY simply not interested in anything sexual with them. So it can be very dangerous to persue further, both emotionally and legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:11 AM
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You rarely see an openly super feminine man acting all higher-than-thou because females are not feminine enough for him…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:49 AM
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Existing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:11 PM
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They share Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:18 PM
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Both genders do that. A lot, too. What I criticize is the double standard in society. Nobody says that men don’t care about looks. Nobody. Whereas it is often seen as a sick and toxic thing to say “women like fit tall guys with high cheekbones”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:29 PM
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That’s not what people refer to when they talk about dating. Like not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:24 PM
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I’d say it depends. I believe many guys would choose your lying, fit, stunning woman over what they have or can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:38 PM
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Which doesn’t apply here. When you say someone is not perceptive at all, you certainly don’t want to imply that he is great at judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:30 PM
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It would make them a good person if they were 6’4” with a striking jawline and hunter eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:26 PM
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Those are not actual opposites. In order to judge, you need to perceive first. The actual opposite is being oblivious and a moron. You can’t just use random schematics that don’t apply as a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:22 PM
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Yes, but it’s exactly the same with women. They are also not very complicated. Difference is that they claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:52 PM
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A person can be very nice while still having very valid complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:57 PM
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Geomaxxing, by far and large. Set your location to Manila on any dating app you will see what I mean. The challenge is to be able to keep them once you brought them to the west. Or you just stay there, which comes with other challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:25 AM
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Sex never even happened “just casually” as a teenager or young adult for me, no matter how drunk and out of their minds people might have been. The difference was back then it really hurt me and made me feel absolutely miserable to be overlooked in such a blatant way. Nowadays as an older man, I am fine with just smoking with a friend or two and listening to music on a Saturday night and that’s that. The rare times I do go out with hopes of meeting women, it is almost a traumatic experience as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:23 AM
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Reducing somebody to a physical feature while ignoring everything else is objectification. At least that is usually what females mean when they whine about it. “We are more than a hole and our tits!!” Something like this. Even in your copy and paste stuff it is written like this - just substitute tits with height. Now if you wanna go on with your definition, males in films are never short and pudgy when depicted as attractive. Most short male characters are jokes. Now do you see me bitching abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:53 AM
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I used it correctly, obviously. There was no question. Stop low effort trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:52 AM
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You don’t win by posting woke definitions. We all know what that word means and that I used it correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:21 PM
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Flexing with a 6’6” boyfriend is textbook objectification. No need for woke definition copy and paste.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:19 PM
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Yes, and when you look the same but lack in confidence, 2s wouldn’t look twice at ya. That is very believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:17 PM
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Because you contextualize it differently and make it sound deeper than it is with buzzwords and long paragraphs. There is no vibe. He just has good genetics or he doesn’t. A genetically gifted guy who never showers or rarely clips his nails is so rare that one can basically ignore such aberrations when discussing the bigger picture. Males don’t moralize, females do. You would not believe how furious some women can get when contronted with these realities. I have been temp banned twice for essent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:15 PM
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One key difference is also the fact that men are usually quite content with liking the woman as long as she is normal-looking enough to go out with. Females on the other hand tend to REALLY care A LOT about what their friends and society think about a potential partner’s looks. They might actually find you cute but still reject cause they know their peers will tell them “you can do better kween”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:07 AM
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If she is really into you, it’s hard to fuck up. The rare times females randomly liked my looks, I didn’t have a hard time with them at all. I could be boring or needy, didn’t matter. They simply just liked me. I can’t even imagine how absurdly easy it must be for hot people. Yet they have the nerve to go on forums and tell people about game and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:02 AM
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Yeah, but some people just somehow have a “fat” face no matter how lean they are. Genetics are so insanely important, it’s not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:59 AM
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How would a dating subreddit work without it? It’s pretty much the only thing that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:10 AM
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The status is only improved because the mate is conventionally attractive and tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:08 AM
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Try using the modern internet. Tiktok is full of women using men as status symbols and/or judging them shamelessly on physical genetic traits like height and jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:08 AM
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It’s so annoying when people pretend that any guy who took a shower and got a fresh haircut with a new calvin klein wardrobe can just go out and get laid. If it were that easy, those subreddits wouldn’t exist. Obviously, it is that easy for some people; mostly depending on their genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:05 AM
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Don’t we all know those 5’5” bald fat guys who get blown by supermodels in public because they were feeling good about themselves that day?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:00 AM
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If that is true, then you aren’t that good-looking. A genuine 9/10 guy can literally sit alone in the corner, looking at the floor and women will perceive him as the mysterious hot guy they wanna blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:58 AM
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Women are desperate to classify different aspects of “looks” as something else in order to be perceived as less shallow. “It depends on whether he is well-groomed or not!!” Like duh, that is part of what he looks like, dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:46 AM
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Nah, looks are paramount for both genders. It used to be less obvious in the past, because women had to rely on men for resources. Personality matters to men as well. I’d say looks are even more important to women than they are to men. Society is just not ready to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:33 AM
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Sounds like you’re banned from the local all-you-can-eat restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:11 PM
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Sounds like you are quite creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:06 PM
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Postmodern wokeness always takes words and molds their meaning into something else to fit their trash agendas while being loaded with double standards and blatant hypocrisy. So you didn’t come up with a new concept here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:02 PM
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They say this because physically unattractive men are invisible to them. They don’t count. If you are 6’4” with a sixpack, broad shoulders, straight white teeth and an impressive jawline, visible high cheekbones and hunter eyes… then yeah, the bar is quite low.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:46 PM
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The point is that those are nuances, maybe like 5% of overall attraction; only in niche cases they might be the deciding factor. In real life examples, looks are always key. There have to be a good number of things to go very wrong once his looks are heavily desired by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:14 AM
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well, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:08 PM
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Gosling and Denzel both get nothing when put in a 3/10 body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:44 PM
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I don’t think behaviour or personality is important at all. Looks come far above all else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:41 PM
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There is no gym for your face. There is no personality for your height. There is no social circle for your bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:27 AM
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Below average looks exist, just in case you didn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:58 AM
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If you don’t have the looks, nothing works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:39 PM
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Finally a bla**pilled woman on this sub. Love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:08 PM
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I understand everything perfectly, including why PuAs get hair transplants even though “looks don’t matter” :) It’s a pure grift. I’ve been around when PuAs were having their heyday and people genuinely believed in game. Early and mid 00s. Nowadays you gotta have an agenda or be a genuine moron to believe a short fat bald guy who studied game could slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:58 PM
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Game is useless because: If you are not good-looking, no amount of game will help. If you are good-looking, game is not needed to attract women. PuAs are major grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:43 PM
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Game is completely useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:39 PM
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there’s nothing to adapt to for most men due to hypergamy. if you think a regular man can just have 5 women interested in dating him, you are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:14 PM
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It is more about how perfectly kind men can‘t find a date to save their life while assholes get swamped in pussy, then those same guys go online and are told “just be kind”. Everything falls into place once people realize that looks are by far the most important thing in dating. I don’t get why people who actually are smart enough to know this have such a hard time admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:32 AM
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The blue pill is complete delusional garbage and anyone who still genuinely believes in it is a legit moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:58 AM
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still very wrong. outdated pua “just have game” grifter talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:26 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:25 AM
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5/10 is absolutely undateable for women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:15 AM
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what an insane load of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:12 AM
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You still have to be above a certain looks threshold. For Chadlites what you say actually applies 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:46 PM
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it is not about safe or good, it is about being hot. totally different attribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:40 PM
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I thought not trying is what works?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:45 PM
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Wrong. Physically unattractive guys are invisible. Nobody cares if they “don’t need women”. Nobody cares if they are “not concerned with getting their approval”. You just regurgitate PUA doctrine from 20 years ago. A short fat guy who minds his own business will not get anything from women ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:56 PM
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it’s not about making friends. lack of good looks will still keep men from making the next step towards romance. and it can be a lot more frustrating than women swiping left on you on dating apps. seeing how you get along and still nobody wanting you..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:38 AM
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It’s much better than what I have now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:00 AM
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That is why so many clueless men complain about women they like whenever those women complain about their hot boyfriend. They think it is weird that they aren’t desired by those women even though they behave better. Poor nice guys never got told how important looks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:20 PM
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It’s legalized here and my life is hell anyways. Prostitution is extremely overrated when it comes to solving male loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:15 PM
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Women’s view is far more skewed as men easily date down when drunk and horny for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:14 PM
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You do realize that it is a very privileged position to have an endless pool of attention and casual sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:12 PM
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So men who are not hot just have to become famous billionaires. Easy enough. Not sure why anyone complains.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:11 PM
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You and I both know that a hot tall guy will be wanted no matter how “professional” his photos are and how “hard he tries” lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:08 PM
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In that case nice men who are good at chatting would get relationships there as they stand out and want something genuine. News flash: they are still invisible. Looks are 90%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:03 PM
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There’s a perfect meme to describe how empty late “success” is, even in the rare times it comes by. It’s a drawing of a man with glasses, balding, getting old, but super muscular and with a nice house and a new car. Then it says: “Okay, now all that is left to do is to wait for the developmental social milestones that were supposed to happen in my youth to happen now.” through hard work you can be able to accumulate decent wealth over a long period of time. despite of bad genetics, you can still…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:10 PM
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It’s not about purpose here. It is to refute the very silly notion that confidence, health and fertility are more important than looks, which is obviously garbage when you extrapolate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:36 AM
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Finally an absolutely correct post in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:28 AM
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None of that matters, looks are the far most important thing for both genders. I can guarantee that a hot woman who openly has an illness will still be seen as far more attractive than an ugly woman who is actually perfectly healthy and very fertile. I can guarantee that a nice, calm guy who is super hot will be seen as super attractive by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:27 AM
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Confidence really isn’t important at all. It is just a different way of calling someone hot & successful. Positive reaffirmation (because you are hot and successful) will make you confident. Women then have the excuse to blame their attraction for you on your confidence. When in reality, it is actually your height, jawline and status. Poor looks, however, lead to negative feedback and therefore to low self-esteem. Which leads to isolation and poor social skills. Bluepillers will then blame the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:56 AM
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That’s not RP, that is the forbidden pill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:45 AM
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you certainly get less prison time than a man who does exactly the same would
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:58 PM
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I genuinely don‘t care. I am very open about being unable to attract the native population and I blame them and/or human nature, not me. Haven‘t dated a native woman in about a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:49 AM
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The problem is the dishonesty. I was getting at the excuse of “it is not safe to go home with strangers, that’s why we don’t do it”. Not sure if that went over your head or you just chose to ignore the context for unknown reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:53 AM
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I agree, actually. What I meant were PUAs who literally tell people that looks don’t matter and if you don’t score with an insta model, it’s because you didn’t hold frame lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:17 AM
1

yup, keep making a scene to the wrong “loser guys” and you night need help from strangers pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:19 PM
-2

yup, and we will remember that next time you need help
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:14 PM
4

yup, women sure don’t owe men anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:02 PM
4

Game is something invented by grifters. There is no social proof for your face. People just invented the concept of game so ugly guys would buy their courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:31 PM
4

Of course you don’t. Even if you love doing yoga and work in a field where mostly women work, you won’t just casually find partners unless you are conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:28 PM
7

I love how people always demand 0 accountability from women. “If they are rude arrogant pricks, it’s because of horrible experiences with all those terrible men out there!!” First of all, scared people are usually nice, as they don’t want to get hurt. So if a person is rude and arrogant, them being afraid of you is not the reason. Also, it is unlikely that the woman will be an arrogant prick to everybody. It mostly has a lot to do with the guy’s looks, which makes it hard to go through 50 reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:25 PM
11

Exactly. For some reason, going home with a strong tall guy seems safer to most women, when compared to going home with a short guy who is so weak he couldn’t hurt them. Weird, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:21 PM
1

In the culture war it is mostly “us” vs. “them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:04 PM
5

It’s always frustrating to see how far women go for certain men, especially when they just tell men like me to get lost after saying hi to them at a party lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:02 PM
3

What I mostly learned was that height and looks make a huge difference. I could do and say exactly the same stuff as a player I knew with him coaching me and the reactions were beyond different. I also learned that being in the same group as players doesn’t help, because your physical differences will be even more highlighted when everybody else is 6’3” and hot..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:00 PM
8

Yeah, exactly that happened to be here on this subreddit when all I did was claiming that being short as a man sucks, using my own life as evidence. She said vile aggressive shit making me out as a bad person for having a bad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:55 PM
0

You didn’t repeat it - you told me it is because I suck, an insult. You don’t get to explain my experience to me. It’s like a white guy explaining black people on how to feel about certain events
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:41 AM
1

You don’t get to judge my reality for me, you arrogant prick..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:19 AM
1

The guys fucking those women don’t go on reddit making threads like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:07 PM
1

“IMO, women assume that if they are attracted to you, then most other women are too. It's a form of gender blindness. Anyway, the girls I date seem more interested in protecting their own turf than cheating on me with a rando.“ That is so weird and illogical to me. Any person with a decently working brain should have an understanding how attractive someone is for the general public. For example, I am obviously not a hot guy by any means. Yet most of the women I been genuinely thought I might pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:45 AM
1

Who wants to tell them? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:32 AM
3

Believing doesn’t change anything. It is a really stupid concept invented by grifters to get money from lonely guys. If you believe you can beat young Michael Jordan at basketball, it doesn’t mean you can do it. It just means that you are an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:32 AM
1

Yeah, they are always lonely and super happy about dorks hitting on them. Why do you tell these lies to obviously naive guys like him? He is likely to believe it and get swatted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:29 AM
2

Damn that’s cold lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:26 AM
3

So they can smell your confidence through their phone on the app? What a load of crap. It’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:21 AM
1

I can tell you from first hand experience that being short as a man is a horrible existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:14 AM
1

you are totally clueless. some men look incredibly good and women do see and value those men very much
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:13 AM
15

By being super hot yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:10 AM
0

It‘s mostly a median thing. Extremes are often excluded. Not that an idiot male feminist would be able to see that, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:45 PM
3

Unattractive people have it even worse, as they lack experiences as a result of being excluded from society. Therefore they have even worse opportunities to develop properly, while having a terrible life in the process. No matter how you try to spin it, there should be no pity for hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:44 PM
0

It is called sharing Chads, a very basic phenomenon caused by female hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:21 PM
1

How about you have the same standards for accountability for both sexes. For every top percentile man pumping and dumping, there‘s a woman dumb enough to fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:59 PM
2

Almost as if there might be different reasons besides bitterness for a male‘s inability to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:54 PM
4

All these things only work if you are physically attractive to get her attention. Otherwise women just don‘t care if you have no tolerance for BS or whatever. They just don‘t care about anything you think, say or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:16 AM
1

I don’t think that is true. If it were people wouldn’t say “your bad attitude and reddit posts are what is keeping you from dating women!!” Cause in that case, the bad attitude would be helpful in regards to getting women. Or am I getting something wrong here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:47 AM
1

One of the more creative rejections I have heard so far! Not bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:11 PM
4

Not that blatantly, at least not as the norm. That would be unbecoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:00 PM
2

You are my kind of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:59 PM
1

Just saying there is a key. Obviously, not everybody has it and some will never, ever have access no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:16 PM
5

Of course I know women who are „normal“ and have „normal“ partners. All those partners are much taller than me, though. And yeah, my female friends always pretend that they „don‘t understand why I can‘t find someone“, yet they never introduce me to any of their single friends ever. Wonder how that comes about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:03 PM
2

Being 5’4” is not attractive. No matter the face. Women find short men repulsive. It is not just that anyone could beat them up. It is also the look in and of itself. How big the head is compared to the rest of the body. Short men are ugly to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:16 PM
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It is because getting men is a lot easier for women than getting women is for men. By 2030, hypergamy will be more prevalent than ever. You’ll be filthy rich. I wanna be an early customer and provide you with feedback for a discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:05 PM
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Oh, but there is a key. The key is being 6‘4“, strong jawline, high, well defined cheekbones, hunter eyes, full hair, straight white teeth, broad shoulders, sixpack
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:27 AM
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Confidence is the most overrated attribute by far in dating conversations. A hot tall guy who is insecure will be seen as super cute by women. A „confident“ ugly pudgy short guy will be seen as delusional and as a joke by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:23 AM
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Yeah, I basically quit nightclubs years ago because I never get anything there. Everybody should envy me, having no options is amazing. You are never overwhelmed with choices!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:14 AM
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I am not saying he stresses about it. I am saying he has it. Trust me, a 6’5” guy with a strong jawline can bring you flowers all day and twice on Sunday and you still give him head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:30 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:27 PM
-2

Super hot guys when they are not very hot themselves. That’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:00 PM
22

There’s absolutely nothing you can do to make up for a shitty youth. NOTHING. Not even a trillion bucks can make you be 16 while kissing the hottest girl in class. It’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:56 PM
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I have never really dated above my class, but that is not because I am intimidated or anything of that sort. It is simply because a millionaire’s daughter who works as a lawyer would never in a million years date me. I have, however, dated a literal asylum seeker from Nigeria. Drove her to the asylum department of my city in my 70000 € car. There were many others of lower class, not gonna give a number as it kills all magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:31 PM
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I have known way too many people that have jobs that are too good/bad for their high/low intelligence to still judge by that metric. Also, I prefer a partner who is actually happy about working at a barbershop as opposed to a person who is successfully climbing the corporate ladder while being deeply unfulfilled and stressed out at the same time. I am NOT saying career women are bad. I am saying it is far from being on a top 10 list of attributes I value in women, or even male friends. I am frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:15 PM
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Yes, of course I am interested. But she can be an unsuccessful painter for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:07 PM
1

I agree with that, yet as you said yourself, being an asshole is something else. And it also only helps if it complements the rest of your identity well. If you don’t look a certain way it will come off as contrived and rehearsed, which is always bad. Looks are fundamental to everything in life. I have absolutely crushed people in real life debates but at the end of the day they still felt superior because they were tall and I was short, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:06 PM
5

Well I encourage people to argue in good faith, but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:01 PM
5

You sound like an innocent baby who never heard of Tinder. Trust me, it is very, VERY common to be disappointed when seeing the man or woman for the first time in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:51 PM
7

It’s only too much if the guy is short and has no jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:10 PM
1

Looks are far more important than treatment. If a guy is super hot to her, any treatment will do, including flowers and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:09 PM
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That is simply not true, I personally never gave a solitary fuck. You can‘t just randomly say things and pretend they are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:58 PM
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I don’t see how that is a counter-argument at all. He could have simply never crossed your path. What then? He should have just been happy alone and known his place, stayed in his lane as a subhuman? Never logged onto reddit? As I feel that is what unattractive males should do, according to your posts in this thread. Not every fat guy without money is lucky enough to just randomly have someone fall for him for no real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:38 PM
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I don’t see how that is a counter-argument at all. He could have simply never crossed your path. What then? He should have just been happy alone and known his place, stayed in his lane as a subhuman? Never logged onto reddit? As I feel that is what unattractive males should do, according to your posts in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:37 PM
2

Aren’t you basically saying that men who don’t easily attract women should have no desire for love or sex, because that would imply a modern form of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:19 PM
3

It depends on the person and the situation. Back when I was young, there were times when I would have taken old crackheads if they offered because it felt like I had absolutely no option whatsoever and I had strong hormones back then. Nowadays, I realize that I wouldn’t consider certain types as viable sexual partners anymore. Mostly due to my age and everything that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:17 PM
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Yes.. Women hate when no other woman would like to sleep with their boyfriend. They want to increase their social status by being with a desireable man. That is why they often ask friends what they think of a guy in a club or on their app. That is why I started to be very clear with women on OLD, whenever they tried telling me that I am good-looking or something along those lines. I am always telling them that very few women say that about me and that I am, in general, not considered to be prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:00 PM
2

Wanting a relationship or sex as a male makes you a predator, unless you are very attractive is what I get from the subtext here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:56 PM
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The notion that men in general are intimidated by women who earn good wages is silly. Most of us genuinely do not care about a woman‘s career. That is, however, maybe even more frustrating for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:16 PM
1

It probably depends on how much fun your job is. I reckon some people genuinely love their jobs, a concept I never experienced myself. I don‘t mind women working and all, but a good career is never a big deal to me. I‘d take a sweet, pretty girl who works as a vet assistant over a bossy, career driven office tyrant on any day and twice on Sunday. The extra money is nice, but never more important than the love and comfort an actually compatible partner provides. To be fair, though, a very success…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:57 AM
1

Good, we can agree there. It just seems that people on reddit sometimes believe that if they were assholes (with everything else staying the same) they‘d go from 0 to 100 women per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:15 AM
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But men won‘t go around making up false statements as to why they are picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:12 AM
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Because some women think it is an attractive trait when it is not. Doesn‘t mean it is terrible, but a woman who doesn‘t cook or clean or take care of the kids but instead works as a boss bitch for 200k a year is not the amazing modern woman that feminists think it is. It‘s just a gender role reversal that postmodernists get wet over, but it isn‘t attractive to men. The role reverse is btw also not attractive to women, hence why they don‘t find stay at home men attractive. You can‘t fight nature/…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:10 AM
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Don‘t think that is the case here. I believe even in a universe where there were 0 risks, they wouldn‘t fuck ugly guys. Then they log on reddit, tiktok and alike and start posting stuff like „well you know, women might have to take care of a child for at least 18 years…“
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:04 AM
1

You are too hung up on the term gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:45 AM
1

I think people overestimate personality. You think all an ugly nerd has to do is behave like an asshole to get all the women? If people call you „too nice“, what they really mean is „too short“, „no jaw“ and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:38 AM
1

„Husband material“, in these cynical tiktok zoomer times, can actually be used as a synonym for being physically unappealing. Nobody is feeling flattered because people acknowledge that he can hold a job and isn‘t a drug addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:33 AM
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It‘s all about looks - not the actually risk. If they were actually deeply frightened of pregnancy or STDs and all other lame excuses, they wouldn‘t fuck hot guys either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:03 AM
3

Exactly. People here act like all women have amazing careers and us male losers could therefore never be finnessed by any of them. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:59 AM
1

Not true. Money is money, even if it is just free food, drugs and some shopping. Not every woman looks like an instagram model and works as a successful lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:51 AM
2

It is a common attitude that a man‘s wage is for the family and a woman‘s wage is for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:47 AM
6

I‘d actually do that if a woman was up for it. Lol@the thought that women actually desire such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:39 AM
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Well I don‘t (sexual/romantic) and I know plenty of people who don‘t either. And yes, we have jobs and go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:25 AM
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It only works as a woman like that. The lives of men are terrible, unless tall and reasonably attractive. The attention a decent looking young woman in gaming gets is not at all comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:25 AM
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There’s no gym for your face and no personality for your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:10 PM
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It‘s looks. Not always fixable, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:25 PM
4

If only knew how bad it is for your soul when nobody desires your body at all. Then you would not talk these silly things about it being a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:33 PM
1

It’s a huge lie to tell people that all it takes is going out more. If you don’t look a certain why, nobody will date you even if you go to a pub/bar/club/park every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:30 PM
2

Are you being deliberately obtuse or just dumb as a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:14 PM
1

Of course it will. If 40% of men stop contributing, all hell breaks lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:59 PM
5

I have given up on women and society will see what it gets when everything will crumble down. Why work a real job when you will never have a family or women to take on dates? Why contribute to a society who does not give a fuck about you? I hope many young men will realize that soon. And I will watch it all burn with a big smirk on my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:38 PM
7

back when I was young I loved to prove female friends (who had that mindset) wrong by walking up to hotties who „no other guy dared speaking to“ they were never nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:27 PM
5

being 5‘6“ in a tall country makes you 5/10 at best, if everything else is sort of maxed out (not counting hollywood stars and other apex fallacies)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:25 PM
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What a BS lol „I‘ll get with that 4/10 guy because he‘s right in front of me“ Said no hot girl ever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:18 PM
3

Would you be nice to an average guy hitting on you? No? Then there‘s your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:08 PM
1

I genuinely don’t understand how to DM here. If you are actually down for that, you can DM me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:55 AM
7

I don’t think many men like this exist, actually. Most pretty much actually can’t get women, without ever turning them down just to be able to complain. There was a time in my life when I wouldn’t have turned down a bj from a 60 year old crackhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:46 PM
8

If you think platonic female friends give good advice in that regard, you better think something else..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:27 AM
1

Exactly. Looks are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:06 AM
5

Happier than a man who never experiences physical intimacy? Yes, by far and wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:20 PM
1

I believe for the guys in question the issues lie clearly elsewhere. Terms like „Male loneliness epidemic“ or the „rise of inceldom“ are not coined with men in mind who merely struggle to keep marriages afloat. They are mostly referring to men who barely ever have sex because they can‘t get attention from women, not for men who are only capable of superficial bonds. Men who are good-looking, but shallow, ironically often become the direct opposite of incels: players.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:15 PM
1

So do you genuinely believe men not being able to attract women is being caused by them having superficial friendships that lack deep emotional conversations? Or do you believe men who have functional marriages or lots of casual flings are calling themselves lonely because they don’t have deep bonds with their boys? In my opinion, either one of those two questions have to be answered with a clear „yes“ for this argument to have any sense. I‘d answer both of them with a very loud „no“.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:06 PM
2

Well then the initial question was phrased wrong by mistake, I assume. I give you the benefit of the doubt that you didn‘t clickbait intentionally. Men in functional marriages are certainly not part of what people refer to as „male loneliness“. It simply is a different topic. For a second I thought you cared about lonely men, when actually you are simply in it because you care about women who are annoyed by their partners. Silly me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:47 PM
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Your premise was about male loneliness and how it might be enhanced due to lack of what you‘d consider meaningful bonding in male friendships.. I don‘t think it has any meaningful effect. I thought it was obvious that in my opinion, the only way to solve „male loneliness“ is throughout romantic and sexual experiences with women. I don‘t think women will start to suddenly throw themselves at previously undesireable men once they hug and cry with their male peers. I also don‘t think platonic frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:12 PM
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I don‘t think so at all. Relationships are mostly based on attraction, it‘s either there or it isn‘t. A woman doesn‘t care if I have deep friendships with other guys. It‘s not like „oh this guy just had a very emotional talk with his friend and they hugged and almost cried, that‘s so hot, I wanna suck him off right now“. All this talk is just smoke to distract from the uncomfortable, obvious truth: some people are born physically unattractive and that will have very negative consequences on thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:20 PM
2

Shouldn’t it be obvious just by looking at the guy? If he is short, pudgy with bad skin, glasses and weird hair, then that’s the reason. Nothing complicated to unpack here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:30 AM
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I’d like more women to make profiles of average guys to see what we have to deal with. Some women genuinely believed I should get plenty of chats, until I told them to use my account for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:39 PM
1

It is also real that you literally can’t find anyone who wants to be with you. You are like the trust fund kid who wonders if it was real that some people can’t afford a house even when they work two jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:38 AM
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That is not the reason. They simply don’t fuck guys they think of as not good-looking. Looks are everything. Most people have a decent personality. It really is nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:26 AM
1

LMAO thanks for telling me, so I can stop wasting my time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:09 AM
2

There’s a reason the friendzone exists and is so damn popular. It literally consists of men who are liked for their personality but simply aren’t physically attractive enough. Also, men with horrible personalities get women all the time. There are plenty of men who beat ‘em and cheat on ‘em all the time, yet women like them. Must be cause they go for great personalities. Online dating just makes it more obvious and also undeniable, which is why you pretend it is so different from real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:03 AM
2

Any nerd can buy weed and resell it. Won’t get him pussy. Looks are king.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:20 PM
5

Having a “good personality” is not what attracts women. You sound like an innocent baby who fell into a bluepill pot when you just started to crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:18 PM
2

sounds awesome. for some reason I never felt „desired“ when traveling. maybe I didn‘t pick the right places so far :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:58 PM
5

You act as if women suddenly have no standards for looks as soon as they are off their phones. That‘s just silly. A woman will also not fuck a co-worker she doesn‘t find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:54 PM
2

The bar for behaviour is low for Chads. Physically unattractive men are not part of he whole endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:03 AM
1

deliberately obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:41 PM
1

I‘ve been myself for 37 years. Has gotten me nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:39 AM
1

thErE‘s sOmEoNE fOR EVERyOnE
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:36 AM
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Yup, looks are everything. Whenever a girl or woman liked me, I could be the most boring motherfucker out there. Whenever they just weren‘t into me, I could have the most funny stories, weekly haircuts, daily beard grooming, fancy cars, stock market success, confidence to confront my bosses at work etc, NOTHING helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:08 AM
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Completely missed my point here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:25 AM
2

Women can abort or keep the child, the men have no say in it either way. So in modern society, men have to be more careful than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:59 PM
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Just because someone is unattractive, it doesn‘t mean that they find other unattractive people attractive. So by your logic, 95% of people are either single or with people they find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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this overly consent-seeking behaviour is simply a thing of the woke crowd. regular women will be like „of course I want this you dumb, soft soyboy“
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:30 PM
0

Not my fault that you have super high standards of being treated like a goddess just for existing and having two X chromosomes. You are not invisible like males are. We proved that here, you moved goalposts. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:30 PM
1

Never been there, but in Europe I‘d marry pretty much half the women who walk on the street without second thought. None of them would even have coffee with me, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:55 AM
1

Sure, there is always some nuance in life.. but for me personally, it has always been the same. Either they randomly like me and I can be Mr. Boring and still be fine, or they just don‘t find me attractive and then there is literally nothing I can do to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:53 AM
1

I think most men who catcall would also willingly exchange numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:50 AM
1

I am pretty much literally invisible to women. You sure as fuck cannot fathom what that even means with your female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:49 AM
13

Don‘t confuse bluepillers with logic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:51 PM
1

Wow that is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:51 PM
4

Yup, my bumble looks as if I am banned
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:49 PM
2

Exactly. Average men are so invisible to women that even their attention counts as „nobody gives me attention“
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:42 PM
2

Yeah, in my experience it is either super easy or impossible to get a girl. Either she likes how you look or she doesn‘t. Looks are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:40 PM
1

Do you see ugly women being unironically catcalled all the time? Cause I never do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:37 PM
4

If you are sexually harassed, then you are - by definition - not ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:35 PM
2

If people want to have sex with you, you are - by definition - not invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:34 PM
2

Haha you owned those bluepillers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:33 PM
0

I don‘t agree at all. Whenever I call a girl hot or something, women will disagree and tell me I have too low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:31 PM
0

It‘s never a problem when 6‘4“ dominant jawline boys just wanna fuck tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:34 PM
1

Yeah, cause that was my opener, since I have no idea how to behave… sigh Looks are everything, the sooner you accept this the better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:20 PM
4

I literally almost never see men that short irl. I am almost always the shortest male in sight, especially if you don‘t count old people. This whole „I have two 5‘4“ exes who were so hot and such major players“ narrative is totally absurd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:13 PM
7

You‘re so toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:43 AM
5

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:43 AM
6

Yup, it‘s really funny. Apparently every woman here has dated a 5‘4“ guy who was so hot to them LOL. When in reality I never even see a youngish white 5‘4“ male outside, let alone together with a female who is drawn to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:43 AM
24

Promiscuous women actually often are very picky. They might engage with lots of different men, but only with men who fit a certain type. For example, whenever there was a girl at a party who „fucky anyone“ and where people told me „try it, she never says no to dick“ my success rate was 0. Literally 0. Why? Because those women usually go for men who are tall, cool, gangsta, hot. My success rate with timid women who didn‘t have sex in months and had very few sexual partners, sometimes were literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:32 AM
3

I personally struggle tremendously and I also know plenty of other men who struggle even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:04 PM
2

Thank you for this post. Lots of info, to keep it short I believe that the US and Europe are probably very different and in some regards like this one even more different than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:43 AM
5

You are a women and therefore have no clue what you are talking about. Many men get 0 matches on tinder and bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:42 PM
1

You said we can’t find a woman because we have a mindset that prevents us from seeing you as fully human. So basically, we don’t date you because we don’t see you as fully human. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:39 PM
3

Better than feeling like a walking piece of invisibility to western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:42 PM
2

Exactly. All my friends who struggle were genuinely happy when they tried pinalove for the first time.None of them believed me how different it is. Many men are deprived of any kind of female attention, which is what many western women cannot even comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:40 PM
2

I could say the same about you. Assuming we don‘t see you as human because we don‘t date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:36 PM
1

How much money do you need to live normally over there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:05 AM
6

They are much thinner than western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:05 AM
6

For reference, I get literally 0 matches on tinder and bumble, but get 100s of matches on pinalove. Those are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:04 AM
4

It‘s the other way around. Western women don‘t see them as fully human. Because they are short, for example. Which will be okay in SEA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:00 AM
1

I believe money is an amplifyer, not a problem-solver. For example, if you are prone to drug addiction, money is like gasoline. It will just make everything worse and put you way deeper in a viscious cycle of crack and meth. Free money, that is. If you have to work for it, you are too busy working and have no time for crack and/or dozens of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:01 AM
1

What is cheaper, a vasectomy or paying 18 years for a child? Or maybe we need better math education for poor people? Not condoning baby slaughter has nothing to do with religion. It‘s more about being a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:46 PM
1

Stop using family planning as a synonym for baby slaughter, it‘s disgusting. Everybody knows how it works. To say poor people get babies cause they don‘t know what a condom is is just disingenuous. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:37 PM
5

This is just a narrative to absolve people from any kind of accountability. You know that. Everybody knows how it works. You make it sound like there‘s an IVY league college degree needed just so people know how birth control works. That’s asinine. If conservatives really thought free birth control and sex ed would do anything, they‘d gladly pay for it since every scenario is cheaper than paying welfare for tribes of poor kids born out of wedlock in crime-ridden areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:30 PM
9

That‘s cap. Picking up women in nightlife settings is nothing average clumsy boys can do on a regular basis. If it was that easy, these discussions wouldn‘t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:50 PM
35

Yeah, cause children are cheaper than condoms. It‘s just cap. Poor people are often dumb, reckless and irresponsible. All there is to it. Not something the left would ever admit for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:42 PM
23

When I was young, I didn‘t even know about 1+2. I thought personality was important and that „it must have been sth I did wrong“ lmao! No, it was just my height and looks. Also about number 2 - girl NEVER made it „easy“ for me, so I just thought that was their default behaviour. I thought it was normal for them to never show any kind of interest and kept going.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:54 AM
2

Exactly. There‘s often that type shown to people who are new in the company - the woman who is supposed to be super easy and who fucks anyone. These women have never ever been remotely interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:26 PM
3

if you are also attractive, you don‘t get into the position of struggling so hard that you ask for advice on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:48 PM
3

Good! I respect different opinions as long as they are consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:04 PM
4

I‘m just saying. Some posts move toward „just approach the hottest chicks as nobody else dares to bro“, which is false and also dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:03 PM
7

let‘s not pretend that hot women are eager to be approached by ugly guys with „cOnFiDenCe“
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:52 PM
7

bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:40 PM
1

if one average girl of 1000 finds an average guy attractive, that doesn‘t mean that average girls in general find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:36 PM
2

delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:34 PM
4

Why does woke society care so much about women‘s issues, BLM or trans issues? Or better, why should I as a cis white male give a solitary fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:28 PM
1

that is completely absurd. reading these things makes me hate that we cannot teleport. every female friend of mine who said things like that never talked about these topics ever again after a night out with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:21 PM
1

complete BS. height is far more important than money or personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:55 PM
2

Absolutely not. Average men are invisible to women. Hello lawsuit if they cold approach all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:43 PM
1

I think confidence is the most overrated thing. Must be other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:38 PM
0

no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:29 PM
5

But women say „no“ to pretty much everyone. Asking a woman out is like breathing air. It might be necessary but far from the deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:29 PM
2

I am one myself and I know tons of them, including 30+ year old kissless virgins. I am far from that extreme but I can relate easily. It is usually a combination of women showing no interest due to a lack of good looks on the men’s side combined with a lack of clear determination to get something somehow. I always had insane determination so I could pick up scraps here and there, without that I would have ended up a lifelong virgin myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:51 PM
1

Unless one has a paypig fetish, it is very off-putting to date someone who only entertains one for financial gain. I’ve had women who asked to taken shopping before even touching me. It is not tempting or fun, and I’d literally prefer actual whores over that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:34 AM
2

On a certain level everything is done to get laid. As long as you are not coming off desperate it is fine. Women hate guys who can‘t get laid easily, and by extraction they therefore also hate men who have to put in lots of effort and thought into getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:38 PM
5

Okay, I‘ll listen to your insightful advice and will start wiping my ass from now on. That should get me a harem of women in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:29 PM
2

Yeah, a guy she finds super hot could stutter and write romantic poems for her. All that stuff is only unattractive because the guy looks unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:23 PM
1

I don’t think “talking” is the main factor here at all. There is no conversation for your face, no pick-up like for your height. I know people who barely speak the language here and have no problems. Looks are key.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:43 AM
1

You said attractive women. That includes women with men and women out of ones league…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:31 PM
2

This Spark and chemistry stuff is just another way of saying “you are just not quite hot enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:07 PM
3

They also date several people all the time. The second one probably kinda liked you, but then got to know someone she liked better or went back to her ex with no regard for your feelings whatsoever. Which is regular behavior in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:00 PM
1

Are you married already?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:32 PM
1

Or taken out by security, or beaten the fuck out of. Point remains the same. Not saying that asking women out is that dangerous in general for unattractive men. But if you do it relentlessly and without taking into account certain aspects before you do it in any particular situation, then it absolutely can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:30 PM
1

Confidence is only attractive if you are hot. Being unavailable is only attractive if you are hot. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:31 PM
3

I love how honest you are. Men might be banned for saying exactly those things about women. Most Red Pillers have it twisted. They see a guy treating hot women badly and think that is why they are with him. It is the other way around. He can afford to act this way because the huge attraction they feel for him. Some women will risk going to prison for a man they are super attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:28 PM
1

I remained a virgin throughout college, would have been nice to have had a safe space and a course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:13 PM
1

How is women outperforming men equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:09 PM
1

Where are you from? Over here nobody considers 5‘4“ men real humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:02 PM
3

If Zendaya is a 6-7, then I get legit harsh rejections by 2-3s all the time. Guess too high standards are not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:00 PM
2

No. Just bad looks. It is very simple, not sure why people are so vehemently denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:53 PM
1

Whenever I see posts like this, I always wonder if the US are just very different. I don‘t think so, as people kind of a surprisingly similar wherever I went. In my experience, Large cities are even worse as women have even more options and attention and therefore are even more stuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:52 PM
2

Your words were „explicit ask out every woman you find attractive with zero fucks given“. In a room of 100 people, he‘d go around explicitly asking out 30 women, not caring what anyone thinks. That would literally get him arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:53 PM
1

Only happens to good-looking people who‘d never have problems in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:10 PM
3

You really want him to get arrested? That is horrible advice..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:59 PM
4

If most men who ruthlessly get rejected on a regular basis became mass shooters, the human race would go extinct by next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:56 PM
1

It only works if the woman is already very attracted to the guy. Otherwise she will just never talk to him again. And if she is already very attracted, the guy might as well chase her and buy flowers, that won‘t ruin it. It‘s all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:54 PM
6

Absolutely. When a woman says „I want a man who makes me laugh. ☺️“ What she really means is „I want a man who is tall and handsome and makes me laugh 🥰“
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:47 PM
1

It‘s appropriate whenever she thinks you are really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:55 AM
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he‘s so smart? no. „he‘s so tall. 🥰“
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:39 AM
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What a load of BS. In that case they‘d take a wealthy short guy over a tall guy who is less wealthy. News flash: They don‘t. Height is far more important than money when it comes to genuine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:37 AM
4

Tinder and Bumble treat me like I‘m shadowbanned
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:27 PM
1

Date with a police officer.. behind bars
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:25 PM
3

That wasn‘t my point at all. I‘d date an unemployed person if she was sweet and took care of the house. The point is that just because you go to malls, restaurants, cinemas, gyms and parks it doesn‘t translate into women being interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:54 PM
2

I forgot that my reddit posts are written on my forehead at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:40 PM
-4

A guy who still believes the media, how adoreable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:42 AM
-1

I see regular men being treated like this by women all the time. There are also tons of tiktoks out where women get crazy over men glancing in their direction or saying hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:31 AM
13

Again, this isn‘t how life is for regular people. When I go out, women look in the other direction, walk away, give 1 word answers without smiling. And no, I am not a horrible person who acts like a maniac in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:58 AM
3

Everything you say is true, except for the solutions as there are no solutions. The west is doomed and so are its men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:48 AM
19

If you are invited by random groups to join them by merely walking around in the city, you are like a 9/10 and any advice you give to average guys is born out of plain ignorance. Those things do not happen to regular men, and if you think they do you are an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:38 AM
-2

Bezos is part of the evil elites club and has likely literally sold his soul to the devil while Tate stayed true to his values and beliefs. Who is really free? Also, Bezos is used as a prime example by people who believe in „looks are everything“. He is beyond filthy rich and still has a crappy wife who doesn‘t love him and openly flirts with other men. Bezos gives great arguments to people who want to convince others that looks are far more important than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:33 AM
10

Yeah, asking me if I want fries with my burger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:28 AM
-5

Exactly, it all comes down to looks. Always does. That is why an ugly guy who mimics hotties by buying a motorcycle or playing the guitar will always fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:22 AM
20

Yeah, cause average guys get swarmed by interested women outside all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:18 AM
1

Tate wipes the floor with Bezos in every metric except net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:15 AM
1

not 60, just 10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:49 PM
2

your rating system is garbage, because everyone is basically the same so there is no real rating system left
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:36 PM
1

then your rating system is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:25 PM
1

exactly my point, not sure why you re-phrase it. 4/10s get annihilated when cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:18 PM
1

more like 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:46 AM
2

It is only “nice guys” because they didn’t wanna be blunt and outright say “ugly guys”. A hot 6’4” guy could be the nicest guy you ever met and still get all kinds of women with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:42 AM
1

If an unattractive guy “ignores” women, they will just forget about him. This “damn, why isn’t he texting me?” thing only happens when the woman is already attracted to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:40 AM
1

I was a virgin throughout highschool AND college and I have a friend who still is at 35. We don’t have autism or deformities. It is probably far more common than most people who don’t struggle realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:23 AM
1

I thought so too. then I got older and found out it was still looks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:33 PM
1

what would an average guy be confident about? being able to breathe air and walk?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:28 PM
0

only if the look good though. for women looks are such a basic desire that they often won’t even notice how much they care, as unattractive men just fly under their radar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:20 PM
3

Looks > looks > looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:10 PM
2

The same - looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:39 PM
2

The problem with that scenario is that you kinda have to go on to live in a 3rd world country then. I don’t believe in bringing a women from the 3rd world to the west. Once she gets used to things here, learns the language, finds a job and gets hit on by pretty 6’4” white boys it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:19 PM
45

Now imagine me with only 100.000 in the bank and being 5’6” while people here still tell me I just gotta touch grass and not have a negative attitude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:54 AM
1

No. Neither do women. You premise is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:09 AM
2

Don’t take it so literal. I was obviously using overly blunt language for comedic purposes. The point is, women in real life tend to dismiss the idea that physical attractiveness in men is very important to women. They do not talk like you talk to me now. Not only that, but they also tend to consider men who point it out bad people who deserve hell in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:22 AM
2

Whenever women ask me why I don’t have a girlfriend and I answer “probably due to me being short with a subpar face”, they get angry and dismissive. So that’s where them being at fault comes from. They are never like “silly me, it is obvious from grade 6 guys like you will struggle”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:51 AM
6

I think the problem is when women never go into what makes men physically attractive to them. And when women don’t acknowledge the struggles of physically unappealing men. For example, women usually won’t be like: “I’m sorry, but I like tall guys with full nice hair and a dominant jaw. You have nothing of that so we are not a match. I understand it is hard for you to attract women due to your genetic predispositions, but I hope you will find someone who likes you for you.” What they will say ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:35 AM
7

Are you born in the 50s? Back when there was enforced monogamy and regular men made enough money to casually buy a big ass house, yeah, they found someone. Not anymore. Many men will remain single (not in the player kind of way) and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:41 AM
2

I care because your initial post was deliberately false.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:11 PM
2

Wrong. Many good people stay lonely forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:07 PM
7

“tHeRe’s sOmEoNE fOR eVeRYoNe”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:51 PM
5

People who blatantly lie like that to struggling men are a disgrace
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:51 PM
-2

It’s not about being masculine, nice, or a dickhead. It’s about being tall with a handsome face and fit body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:36 PM
2

It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:32 PM
2

point is, women are just as shallow as men and your personality is irrelevant if the looks are not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:05 PM
2

mark wahlberg is old. look at him when he was young and a model for calvin klein underwear. I’m sure he would have gotten casual sex when going out clubbing even without money or fame. for most men that is impossible. it’s just that women usually only see and therefore only judge the most attractive men. this is how modern feminism even came to be. the average guy has no money, no power, no casual sex and no ryan reynolds bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:56 AM
1

it’s kind of like saying you don’t see how lionel messi is a better footballer than your brother or something. if you don’t see very obvious things, no matter what they are, something isn’t right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:37 AM
1

exactly. I don’t see how that simple concept seems to elude her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:40 AM
1

I couldn’t get laid before tinder. the smartphone apps just made it more obvious as to what the reasons were. before online dating, a short guy would think it might be his personality. now, a short guy can get a nice girl very interested in him by texting, his smile, his voice. as soon as he tells her his height, it is OVER. that way he realizes that it never was his personality that held him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:39 AM
4

no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:35 AM
3

like an 8-year-old boy would be. or a 90-year-old man. or a table. or a fridge. you don‘t consider us „men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:25 AM
1

if you genuinely believe ryan reynolds and a regular guy on the street who can‘t get laid are in the same bracket of male attractiveness.. then, I‘m sorry to say, there‘s gotta be something wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:21 AM
4

Pure gaslighting. „if you only had a decent personality, women would line up to have sex with your fat 5‘5“ pimple face. it‘s on you for being a dork without ambition“
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:10 AM
2

exactly. most men are seen as NPCs by women. they don‘t go around „OMG have you seen this guy at the counter? so ugly!!“ - they just don‘t see them as romantic or sexual options. like not in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:07 AM
1

I can tell you that hundreds of women ghosted me after I told them my height. Before that, we had a very strong connection for online-standards. Looks are extremely important in dating. You probably won‘t call me „ugly“, but you sure as it gets won‘t ever contemplate on dating me. I have a very high difficulty finding a partner, so yes, we exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:48 AM
2

Normally, women who say this magically literally do not notice those men or don‘t see them as people. There are countless of those men out there. I have literal 35-year-old virgins as friends and I met a good portion of them offline in neutral environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:40 AM
4

I don’t think this is true at all. I have had it happen countless times that women just moved on to other guys whenever I showed limited interest. This whole „if you pretend to have little interest and ignore her, she‘ll become obsessed with you“ scenario only works with women who are already massively attracted to you in the first place. And in that case, playing games is not needed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:05 AM
7

what is a good blackpill forum with lots of traffic? I always get bans on purplepilldebate and most other places got nuked on reddit…
/r/BlackPillScience16/05/23 04:53 PM
-2

Hard to say, maybe like 2%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:04 AM
1

to me that is so obviously accurate, I have a hard time living in a society that finds these truths to be controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:30 AM
1

yeah, what he described was a negative and overly critical definition of mgtow, which has nothing to do with red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:27 AM
2

Too bad your friends have standards for looks, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:01 AM
7

Can‘t count how often I totally clicked with a woman online, only to be ghosted once she found out about my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:37 AM
-1

Full hair, 6‘4“ tall, dominant straight jawline, hunter eyes, straight gapless white teeth, sixpack, broad shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:31 AM
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This. In Germany or Switzerland, women literally do not need men on an individual level. Like not at all. In Romania they still do and compared to you fat Pavel might not be „rich“, but compared to the locals there he sure has some assets or prospects if he has a fine girl, I can guarantee you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:36 PM
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If FnF are not redpill, what are they? The redpill is pretty big so I admit that it can have opposing viewpoints within itself, but both PUA and FnF are part of the redpill. Anyways, I agree with the premise of how futile it is to try to negotiate attraction, but in my opinion that is quite BB leaning and certainly not classic RP. have you read „the rational male“?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:22 PM
1

Like brothers, as they are like me! Helps with bonding. Also the shared activities are more similar. They won‘t drag me to beautiful-people-only-clubs where bouncers give me dirty aggressive looks when trying to get in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:47 PM
4

there is no personality for your height, there is no wardrobe for your face
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:35 PM
0

that is not OG redpill. OG redpill is more like PUA which is pretty much the opposite of what you described. what you refer to is more like b-pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:27 PM
11

Truth. I cannot count the women who rejected me hardcore style and still seemed to genuinely believe that „I will easily find someone soon“
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:21 PM
1

You literally used the phrase „took a chance on a guy that doesn‘t meet my standards“. I did not assume anything, it was all in your post. Maybe you should read your own post again? I could pick your post up part by part but I am so obviously right here that I lack the motivation to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:09 PM
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He was totally on point before the woke mob turned him into a drug addict. But you basically showed your true colors already, you enjoy a ruined life as long as the person says stuff your woke brain doesn’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:21 AM
6

Is that code for “look for an ugly girl”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:58 PM
-1

I really dislike most jobs. In my opinion, most jobs are objectively trash. Especially classic male jobs. You think those garbage men or oil rig guys work there because they like it? They do it for women and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:08 PM
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The thing is that she treats person A openly much better than person B and expects equal outcomes. Every action has a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:24 PM
1

I only said it because he blamed their lack of niceness for their lack of success, which is obviously not the prime reason in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:43 PM
9

the problem is that many men believe society and women when they pretend that women don’t really care about a man’s looks. so these men worked hard to improve on other avenues of life. then they understandably get frustrated once all that hard work is amounting to nothing as they are still short and born with an unattractive face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:03 PM
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Bone structure is life, though. No skincare product or diet for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:14 PM
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Yes… most guys will be like “but I have [insert trait], why don’t you (or women in general) like me then?” Some women also REALLY hate admitting that they care about looks. It can lead to super gruesome conversations for them, once you as a man learn to play with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:13 PM
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It has to be wrong. No matter how many references I see - I will never believe it. If “research” told you the average height was 6’9”, would you believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:37 PM
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You kind of answer your own question here. Your partner treats you well because you “do everything to please him”. The guys from your examples were treated like lesser beings by you - you rejected them in various ways, probably primarily because they were not hot. That is why they became problems. Not the other way around. Try treating your hot guy as terrible as you treated them and see what happens. The argument is not “treat ugly guys like subhumans and they will be so good to you”. If you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:27 PM
2

these women unironically believe that they themselves are extraordinary simply by being decent looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:03 PM
3

The wall absolutely exists, which is why you got married before you hit it. Wise choice. The wall does not mean that you won’t attract any men anymore. That is a cheap strawman. The wall means that your SMV declines and you won’t attract the same category of men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:55 AM
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You make it a lot more pseudo-complex than it actually is. Most people who don’t find partners struggle to do so simply because they are physically unattractive. A tiny minority of them lashes out at society because of it. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:48 AM
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The US has such a ridiculously high violent crime rate, that it is almost impossible to envision how it could have been “much worse” before. It is not because people “marry people they like more”. That is a euphenism and you know it. It is because women are much pickier and there is less incentive for them to marry anyone who isn’t super hot. Less monogamy overall. In polygamy and various other promiscuous lifestyles, the top tier males get all the women. Which leads to a plethora of frustrated …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:35 AM
1

Plenty of good guys don’t get women, while plenty of assholes actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:17 AM
2

And damage due to drug problems is funny now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:12 AM
3

The latter is actually the correct definition. Incel means involuntary celibate. Not more, not less. Therefore, a large portion of men are actually incels. Acting as if the word incel meant “hateful men” or something, is like using the word “muslim” whenever you mean “terrorist”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:08 AM
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At your age, they probably literally just want to know directions. I always ask old ladies, as it should be obvious I don’t want anything from them. And they tend to be more open than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:31 AM
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Exactly. Men need to look really good in order for them to be the type of men that women want to be approached by. If men already look the part, cold approaching is not needed anymore, as they will meet women naturally just by existing. Any man who goes by his day consciously trying to cold approach after looking up on how to improve his “game” online will probably be physically unattractive. Therefore it will fail and be uncomfortable for both parties. Most men, however, will just never have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:14 AM
2

Game is useless. You simply need the right looks. Give me a male model and a short fat guy with “game” and I will prove it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:31 AM
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Reality does. I have never been approached in my 37 years of existance (gay men don’t count), neither have most other men I know. If you know tons of men who are approached regularly, they are either lying to you or you simply surround yourself with guys who are good with women, like most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:59 PM
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You really are stuck in a late 90s/early 00s PUA mindset. For your own sake, I hope you wake up some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:56 PM
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Social skills are not the issue at all. Looks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:54 PM
2

Yeah, my bad I don’t feel powerful and validated like the true king that I am while playing video games with my boys. See, this is the thing. You cannot even imagine what it is like to get zero attention. No flirts. No looks. No subtext from co-workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:08 AM
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Wrong. Likewise, being „alpha” will do nothing for a short ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:38 AM
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I disagree. It is mostly about looks. A 6‘4“ guy with a dominant jawline, a sixpack, broad shoulders, straight white teeth, hunter eyes and great hair will get women just fine while being nice and sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:07 AM
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Polygamy is terrible for average men and a death sentence for below average men. All the „liberated“ women go for Chads. Since there is less monogamy, the distribution is more unequal than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:01 AM
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If you believe these women are invisible on tinder, make a fake account on your own and you will be very surprised. I simply gave you the benefit of the doubt. I assumed you couldn‘t possible mean that these women never get male attention. I guess I expect too much sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:56 AM
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5‘9“ cannot be average height. No way. At least not for young males. Most youngish men are like 6‘2“ where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:49 AM
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it only works if you look good. if some short guy when a round face behaves like a selfish asshole, nobody will chase him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:39 AM
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Society and endless rejection made them feel like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:16 AM
1

that‘s cap. just admit that you only like chads. don‘t pretend to believe that only men with a skin care fetish are good people who care for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:14 AM
1

So you admit that women mostly care about looks when it comes to dating? What a breath of fresh air.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:09 AM
1

nice copy and paste
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:30 AM
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They are literally dumb questions who are not worth answering, as the answers are obvious and you know them as well. If you genuinely don‘t know how getting sex can be validating, I don‘t get how you are able to turn on a smartphone and use apps. And it is not just about sex in and of itself. It is a whole conglomerate of things that comes with it. Women hugging you instead of semi ignoring you while two groups meet. Waitresses smiling instead of ignoring and walking past you. Women leaning on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:16 AM
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I was not referring to particular situations, but life in general. These women won‘t be invisible on tinder, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:09 AM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:51 PM
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The point is most men are never approached and also never receive any signals. For those men, cold approaching is a complete waste of time and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:14 PM
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Always these arguments where people pretend that sex was just about sex. Sigh. It is about feeling desired, about belonging somewhere, about validation, about being accepted by society as a whole. A woman genuinely being nice to you is something many men simply hardly ever experience. It goes way beyond the ability of having sex. Most women will never be able to comprehend what it feels like when the opposite gender simply wants absolutely nothing to do with them, simply due to how they look. Ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:41 PM
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Pepperspray attack and jail time waiting to happen in case you just confidently cold approach hot women as a below average looking man. You should not give that kind of advice to people, some might actually take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:09 AM
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I would do it for someone I love for sure. Like my ex, for example. I simply am not attractive enough to find somebody new on that level, she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:53 AM
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Most men are invisible to women. This whole „let them chase you“ stuff only works for men who are already attractive in the first place. Also, it is completely normal to not be able to find a partner/reproduce. That is the main basis of the concept of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:19 AM
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that obviously only works for very handsome or famous men. the problem is some unattractive men are given that advice. they will be absolutely and utterly invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:11 AM
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You must live in a totally different world, I never see whatever you talk about here happening in my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:33 PM
2

There are plenty of men who your scenarios absolutely never happen to. Should they all never talk to women? Ugly guys wanna have human connections well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:50 PM
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That‘s a very interesting, insightful und intriguing post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:02 PM
1

I‘d say that there are less incels and less troubled, sexually unsuccessful heterosexual men in countries where homosexuals have a lot less rights, freedom, safety, status and representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:53 AM
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You are absolutely blue pilled. not sure why you call yourself purple pilled? anyways, many unsuccessful men believe that they are already good at talking, making friends, doing interesting things. then they see tall handsome guys with fit bodies who are dumb and silly getting all the women that literally don‘t look them in the eyes when they approach them. so of course they think „superficial“ traits are vastly more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:25 AM
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I try all year long to get women and I get like 2-4 per year and it is a huge deal whenever it finally works out. lots of work involved. Obviously, that is different for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:16 AM
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Obviously true. Most women literally do not understand what I am referring to when I call myself „single“. They say crazy things like „nice to be single? ;)“ and assume I live some kind of playboy NSA lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:06 AM
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if you are an ugly 5‘6“ guy with „illogical stone cold confidence“ people will call the police as you will come across as a literal lunatic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:11 PM
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it only works if you have a certain level of looks. if you don’t, she will NOT think “omg that player totally forgot about me and fucks a bunch of women younger and hotter than me now :(((”. what she WILL think is “lol, finally that loser gave up. delusional little guy thought for a second he had a chance with me, ridiculous :)))”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:47 PM
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it’s a “make rules for beta, break rules for chad” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:35 AM
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that’s good to hear. the west is bigger than just the US though. but still good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:29 PM
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I‘m shocked. I am not saying that sex is super easy to get for unattractive guys, but at a certain age I just don‘t care THAT much about plain sex anymore. „dick can only be sucked in so many ways“
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:58 PM
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so your theory is that she believes that I am so ugly, that I have to take toddlers on trips just to get a one night stand down the road?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:49 PM
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I didn‘t invalidate anything cutie. I know how people love to go to extremes and be like „your fault for not getting with that 1/10 woman there“. women usually tell me „I‘m sure you just wanna get laid like all men“ even when it is super obvious that I am not. I am beta buxxing like there‘s no tomorrow, taking her and her toddler on trips and shit. STILL, she would pretend that she believes I might lie about being interested in a relationship. why? I believe the answer is simple: she is still th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:39 PM
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citation needed. also, it largely depends on the fact that various common causes (such as being old or driving a motorcycle) are impossible by default. also, I don‘t think regular women think „I gotta be picky here, cause a man under 6ft might murder me once he got me knocked up“
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:33 PM
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In a way pregnancy is a greater risk for men in modern western society as women have ALL the power here. But I understand that this argument is based on biology, not on practical modern environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:24 PM
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I heard a million things he said and don‘t know what you are referring to in specific right now. either way, if I had a penny for every time I got ghosted after telling my height to a female who was interested in me on a dating app, I‘d have plenty of pennies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:14 PM
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if female pickiness is a myth, why am I getting literal 0 matches on bumble? why have I never had sex in school or college? you might answer that I am ugly, but so is a portion of females.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:11 PM
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sounds like a huge exception to me. when my mom was dying, my dad and siblings were by her side for days and even a year later by dad can‘t stop talking and crying about her. it would be insanely different if she had decided to be a sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:09 PM
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I‘m pretty sure most chronically sexless men would totally want to commit to a decent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:00 PM
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because it is true, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:58 PM
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you forget that all of these men might be good-looking and „fun“
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:56 PM
0

to what end? dying alone with nobody at your funeral when you are 95?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:54 PM
0

you do realize many men want to see their children but the western laws give all the power to the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:46 PM
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it is definitely a new problem. the older people of my family circle genuinely don‘t understand what i am doing to still be single, the young men totally get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:33 PM
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drop dead gorgeous women don‘t even talk to sewer rats, let alone get cheated on by them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:45 PM
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I don‘t think that men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:24 PM
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I like younger women and Idgaf what society thinks about that, neither should women who had sex with many partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:22 PM
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Obvious reality. Frequent experiences. Having eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:44 AM
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Whenever I met a woman on OLD and she was too lazy to check my profile or ask about my height, she was absolutely furious at me for „secretly being short“ and therefore wasting her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:28 AM
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it is correct. why are facts labeled as bullshit by you all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:23 AM
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just become one of the most influential men in hollywood bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:40 AM
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I get 0 matches per month. Nothing to do about it tho. If I lie about my height, she will find out once we meet. If I put in really good pictures, she will be disappointed when meeting in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:10 PM
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Just because a woman asks your for advice and laughs a lot while talking to you, it doesn‘t mean she wants to give you head. Looks are pretty much everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:03 PM
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well it is a lot more that 5’9”, don’t you think? to answer your question: hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:33 PM
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Almost as “bad”.. Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:25 PM
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I’m 5’6” in a tall country and it definitely more or less destroyed my life. To this very day I catch myself not calling my old parents as often as I should because deep down, no matter how hard I try, I cannot forgive them for letting this happen. As in not looking for medical measures to fix me while still growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:18 AM
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They can be very attractive, actually. The point about blue checkmark instagram models who make selfies in the mirror where they show and flex their booty is not just about being attractive, but also about being very open. Another woman might not have instagram or only use it for family and real friends, might never post bikini pics and when she goes to the gym she wears baggy clothes which don’t reveal her amazing body. Both women might actually have similar genetic potential but very different…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:05 AM
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The lowest attractiveness level is actually not very high, given that it‘s the lowest. Less attractive women usually come with more loyalty and less maintenance, which is convenient. Also women who have a low body count and less interesting experiences can be very pleasant for men. Men like to show women the world. A woman who gets invited to the most expensive restaurant in town and then knows the waiters and is friends with the owner while being used to being picked up in $200000 cars is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:30 AM
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Those super hot instagram fitness model type of girls are out on billionaire‘s yachts in Dubai and get DM‘d by millionaire athletes, managers or hollywood actors and so on. They aren‘t casual sexing the „cute guy from the office“ type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:04 AM
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That‘s what I don‘t get about poor people who struggle to get by because rent and living costs are expensive. They should all just buy a house instead, and if their jobs don‘t pay well just get a job that pays at least 300k a year. It is so easy. Not sure why anyone is poor these days when there are so many rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:37 AM
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No need to keep her if he can replace her just by going outside on a Saturday. But even in marriage it can go a long way, unless that guy is a complete bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:21 PM
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I‘d say it is also a huge difference when everybody in school knows person X could get laid but chooses not to for noble reasons. That is fine. Problem for unattractive people is, they are not seen that way. Then when you get older and are in college or working, people assume you have certain experiences and are looking at you like some kind of weirdo when you don‘t. I was a literal virgin until I turned 23 years old and I don‘t wish that on anybody. It is horrible for reasons that go way beyond…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:58 AM
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I don‘t disagree per se, but nobody is forcing you to live in NYC or LA. You could easily live in a cheaper, quiet place with good public transportation and safety. Will that be more boring? Absolutely. But again, put yourself in the shoes of someone who doesn‘t get laid. Nightlife, for example, doesn‘t matter. They literally are denied by bouncers when trying to enter clubs. Even if they get in once in a blue moon, no girl will even look at them. Same goes for working in big companies - no co-w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:50 AM
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Obviously, but it is not enough of a difference to cover the disadvantages that come with being with a partner one doesn‘t find attractive. People kind of act as if a good stable job is still all you need to find a wife when times clearly changed in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:41 AM
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My area is completely different so I cannot relate. Over here you are considered a loser if you are a 16 year old virgin boy. I got super depressed at that age and it definitely hurt me career-wise. Only once I finally got laid in my mid-20s I found the motivation to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:45 PM
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No purpose in working hard when you are not getting women anyways. Men do not need a big house, expensive cars, luxury watches and so on unless they get women that way. If they are lonely anyways, why bother? Just check out of society. Why care about contributing to a society that absolutely hates unattractive straight white males.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:39 PM
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Everything in your post is absolute fact to me. I do not care about a woman‘s income one bit, neither do my offline friends. I would gladly have dated a virgin back when I was young enough to do so. And I definitely believe you get way more likes on OLD than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:59 PM
0

Chads date multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:29 PM
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yeah, because dating and going to university or having a job at the same time is too much multi-tasking? please. most of these guys just can‘t get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:27 PM
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Disagree for a bunch of reasons.. most important being that you vastly overrate the importance of money. Looks are far more important. A broke hot guy has no issue getting hypergamous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:22 PM
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Women still want those hot guys after hitting the wall, sure. Just like my ugly ass wants instagram models. Irrelevant. The pool and the quality of guys significantly decreases for women after hitting the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:15 PM
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Of course. A woman who has a normal job and works full hours doesn‘t need my money either. Unless she wants yachts and lambos and in that case regular male support is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:57 PM
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Depends on how attractive the two people in question are, I guess. I‘m the type who can‘t get a gf even if I offer her nice vacations with everything paid for. Getting a gf to pay for me is an absurd thought. I am well aware that it is different for better looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:22 PM
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Women don‘t need men for money. Even government checks are totally enough to have a decent life in my country. I always try to let them know how new and expensive my car is. They genuinely do not care, not even the ones who are literal refugees from Ukraine or Africa. The government gives them all they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:19 PM
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Having women interested in you is far less trivial than you make it seem. I know plenty of guys who get nothing from women and none of them are fat or 5‘2“ etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:58 PM
8

Ever heard of the term „hitting the wall“? It‘s the prime reason for women at a certain age going for BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:36 PM
4

It can also lead to unnecessary humiliation and super awkward situations in general. Asking a woman out who has 0 interest just because you thought she might be interested as you get along really well is absolutely soul crushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:14 PM
7

Yeah, only saw it happen to Chad friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:12 PM
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Or maybe because nobody ever shows interest in them. So they assume it might not be obvious at all, as the reality of nobody being attracted to them is too tough to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:11 PM
8

Also my experience, sadly. And then people have the audacity to claim that looks are not super important? Nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:08 PM
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Yeah, anytime I asked out a girl from work she was absolutely shocked. Back then I thought it was normal to just not know if a person is interested, so I asked. Now I know it is very obvious - I wasn‘t aware as it never happened to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:00 PM
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A better looking guy can probably get away with 50/50 in modern western cultures. With me being short and all, I kind of have to pay for everything as I mostly date foreigners, also. A woman with a decent job who grew up in my country and is of average attractiveness usually goes for tall or handsome men. So yes, it is partly on me. But I don‘t mind paying. Otherwise money is just rotting away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:55 PM
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It is pretty much irrelevant. Money doesn‘t matter because the money is hers and stays hers. It‘s not like she will pay for a new lifestyle for me or anything. And being educated or successful doesn‘t mean you are lovely or interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:46 AM
1

but did they love you hardcore style? did you break up without a fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:05 AM
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Yeah it‘s hardcore. When a woman leaves you, she really LEAVES. My house could burn down and none of my exes would give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:26 PM
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I wasn‘t there, it is just sth I heard several times and I found it to be realistic. Many people who say „I can‘t get anyone“ actually mean „I can‘t get anyone I have major attraction for“
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:25 PM
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Sounds on point. I basically asked her wtf is going on with her not giving a fuck and all, and she explained that she was already „grieving“ during the relationship and at some point there was just nothing left in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:23 PM
10

It kind of stopped being a thing once their subreddits got publically flooded with lonely guys who wanted to get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:50 PM
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I feel like it is much easier for women, I wonder how they do it. My last gf absolutely loved me on a level I had never experienced before and most likely never will again. Breaking up was a process, because parts of both of us still had feelings for one another. But at some point, she was absolutely done with me. Like DONE. No emotion, no attraction, no regret, no lust, no interest how my life is - NOTHING. And it was like overnight from my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:36 AM
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many men are not even able to enter clubs because the bouncers tell them to leave as they look too unattractive. the life of an unattractive looking guy with alike friends is completely different from your life entirely and on every level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:24 PM
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Yeah, I meant if you ask out people by cold approaching or having mutual interests, friends or the same workplace … the most likely reason for not getting a date is looks; unless you are clearly neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:26 PM
2

if you are neurotypical, most rejections happen because of your looks, not your attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:53 AM
2

Yeah, pretty much. People used to tell me that my standards are too high, but then saw how happy I got when a very regular girl merely talked to me. Then they kinda got angry at me for having low standards. You can‘t do right by some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:12 AM
2

do you have an insightful opinion on why being tall is so ridiculously important when it comes to dating as a male? to some people it seems to be the by far most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:42 AM
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Nope. If you don‘t get frequent IOIs all it means is that your physical genetics are not amazing. It‘s all about looks. The ones who get frequent IOIs don‘t need any game. They can solely rely on their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:22 AM
12

I didn‘t believe that 90‘s PUA rhetoric still has followers. It is so obviously BS. Game only works for guys who are good-looking enough to pull without Game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:17 AM
3

If it was all about social skills, please explain how some men have lots of male friends, are genuinely liked by their co-workers but at the same time can‘t get dates? If their social skills were abhorrent, they‘d not have much of non-sexual human bonding to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:12 AM
2

going with what you say it is still bad advice because it leaves out most of what you have to do. you are basically saying: „be tall, get an amazing body at the gym, get a fresh haircut every week, make lots of money, network, know lots of people, be important, be a great communicator, be charismatic, have overall great social skills, wit and make people genuinely laugh while holding an alpha frame. just be that guy and it will be easy, don‘t know why you lazy fuckers complain.“
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 09:42 AM
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You do realize people go to school and stuff, right? These „just take a shower and leave your house bro“ posts are futile. If it were that easy, these subreddits and discussions wouldn‘t exist in the first place. The mere fact that your brain can fathom that thought is proof that the implication of said thought is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:14 AM
2

Why are some men getting 50 matches a week while others get 5 a year if it‘s all about social circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:04 AM
3

I used to think that as well. As soon as I sent pictures of myself I was left on read, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:20 PM
1

pretty much, yeah. what‘s absurd about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:02 PM
3

If you don‘t have the looks, women will think of you as straight up vile for insinuating anything sexual. It is a „omg, can‘t men just be decent human beings, all they care about is sex“ - moment for them. With an extensive social life, you can get female friends or acqaintances, sure. But you will be friendzoned like there‘s no tomorrow if you are short with poor facial bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:35 PM
1

do you believe every migrant has ruined his life by moving?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:56 PM
4

it is literally not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:54 AM
2

better than dealing with rejection day in and day out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:36 AM
4

Is the modern definition of incel now „male I dislike“? Words don‘t mean anything anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:56 PM
7

Short answer: I absolutely want to pay for dinner and everything else. No issue with it whatsoever. While she cooks and cleans, takes care of the kids. Sounds amazing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:14 PM
1

I don’t disagree, but it is a lot easier to be considered charismatic and a leader in case you have certain looks. It is a lot easier to be confident once you receive external validation. People rather laugh at your jokes if they also like looking at you while you tell them, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:34 AM
1

if personality was important, friendzone wouldn’t be a word. the blackpill is exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:29 PM
1

There is not much money here for refugees besides what they get anyways. In fact, being a lucky refugee is even better than being an unlucky native, money-wise. From my experience, African refugees are 10x easier. They also tend to take money for sex straight up without shame. Ukrainians are not that bold, going with what I have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:14 AM
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Nothing gets better just by being older, that is a huge lie told to unsuccessful young men to keep them sedated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:09 AM
1

Because it is home, basically. I always thought economy was overrated. I plan on moving to the 3rd world, even. I have been to various poor countries on vacation and I never understood why people who can‘t stop talking about how much they love their country would come to stay in mine. Who cares if the busses and trains in my country are better or if the streets are cleaner or something. I‘d much rather live in a poor country with a woman than in my Top 5 economy country alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:59 AM
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Not my experience. I always had girls and later on women who enjoyed my company, talking to me, laughing, banter. All platonic, though. As soon as I even hinted at maybe trying something with them, they couldn‘t get away fast enough. Some seemed genuinely shocked that I „didn‘t know my place“. But we all know the story of the 5‘3“ Indian janitor who is slaying because he is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:52 AM
2

It only got easier way back in the day, when women were broke. In these modern times, short unattractive men are doomed for eternity. I will try for like 3 more years. Then I will either move to the third world or get pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:41 PM
2

This thread is about them being married off to westeners in large numbers soon, not about them chilling and having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:17 PM
1

Yeah, because I don’t do mewing for 5 years and break my legs to get taller, plus break my jaw to get a more defined face, that must mean I am voluntarily single. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:05 PM
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pretty much, looks are key. “incels” would get loads of women if they woke up one day looking like a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:49 PM
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Yes, I would expect her to help me. Also, I would literally die defending her before trying to “calm everybody down” and walk away if somebody disrespected her. I can get emotional and irrational if pushed past a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:06 PM
3

Which would only mean you have to buy them even more. The basic needs are met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:03 PM
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The economy will boom by rebuilding Ukraine with money the West will steal from shitty Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:45 PM
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Russia can‘t even take Kiev, much less the west. It‘s a shit country relying on nuke threats, similiar to North Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:43 PM
12

No, refugees are very well off here and have everything they need. You‘d have to buy them as much as for western gold diggers to make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:39 PM
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I disagree. My country is full of female refugees from Ukraine and they are very hard to get. I believe a large portion of them will stay single until the war is over. Some might go back or wait for Ukrainian man to join them in the West. They are not desperate to get to know western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:38 PM
2

How do you explain that I literally get 0 chats on bumble while living in a big city if the bar is on the floor?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:32 AM
1

I‘m sorry this happened to you, but I wouldn‘t go as far as saying something is a regular thing that happens to everybody all the time, just because it happened twice in your clearly non-normie life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:05 AM
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It is not about „caring“, it‘s about about actually not knowing. Going with your third world analogy, it means that people in the first world don‘t know that some people in third world have issues with money, health and housing conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:22 AM
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The point is if she was aware of how the world is she‘d know: 1.) I don‘t choose to be single 2.) Mona would NEVER date me and I‘d be an idiot to ask her out 3.) I don‘t get matches on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:10 AM
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Sure. I used to be with an obese woman before, for example. Back when I was younger and still kind of had a sixpack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:06 AM
2

I believe that an environment in which people are aware of what is actually going on is beneficial in general. Regarding the issue at hand, I reckon certain uncomfortable conversations and situation could be avoided. For example, I have this colleague at work who genuinely always asks me things like „why don‘t you have a girlfriend? don‘t you like Mona? she is short, too. I‘m sure you two would make a great couple. also, have you heard of tinder? it is an app where you could get a new date every…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:53 AM
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Of course society should be as aware as possible of the dangers for women. Or animals, or nature. I am not sure if below average women would happily date below average men. More often than instagram models would, of course. But I don‘t see that as a regular thing. I admit that I caught myself liking very beautiful women, but I agree it is foolish to think one would have a chance with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:07 PM
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How could I know why people who I know virtually nothing about did something? Maybe it is like drug addicts who didn‘t do heroin for like a week. They are so deprived of sex that they think pity sex will help them, when it will just make matters worse in the long run - just like the next shot of heroin will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:58 PM
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Just because someone is having a dating app, it doesn‘t mean they never leave their house. I have a job in a big office with like a hundred women working in the building, I have friends and hobbies like normal people do, go to the gym regularly and when I was younger I went to parties/clubs/etc as young people tend to do. OLD is just a great example to show other people how your life is. A hot married woman cannot pretend to be me while going to a nightclub. She can, however, make a tinder accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:50 PM
3

no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:45 PM
3

that is not as easy as you think. make a dating profile of a man who fits that characteristic and try chatting up whoever women are his looksmatch. you might be surprised how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:44 PM
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If you extrapolate it, many things would be different if they were aware of it. For example, annoying questions like „why don‘t you have a girlfriend?“ would very likely stop. Going further, they might not have unrealistic ideas such as hooking me up with their Stacey friend from high school, as they‘d know that will just turn out uncomfortable for everybody involved. But also in general, I just prefer my friends or society as a whole to be aware of reality. I believe being perceptive is always …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:40 PM
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I‘m 5‘6“ in a tall country with a genetically predetermined round face. The city is quite big, almost 2 million people. I have had sex, dates and even a few gfs before. It is just a lot harder than it should be. My last gf was from Brazil, I flew her in, put her into language courses, built a new life for her in the west. Eventually she left me for Chad. Not even blaming her, next time I will stay in the third world and not bring her here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:33 PM
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unless someone is literally a virgin, plain sex is not solving anything. hookers are not solving anything. what a lonely person is missing goes far beyond sex, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:25 PM
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why do you assume he pretended to like you? maybe he simply did. I‘ve had feelings for friends before and it was always a horrific experience for me. NEVER would I have straight up just asked for sex, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:16 PM
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well, it is not like well off people walk to homeless people and tell them „just buy a house bro“
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:11 PM
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I agree, but I always found the thing funny how all those women who are not attracted to me just assume „lots of beautiful women must be“. Whenever I find a woman totally physically unattractive, I absolutely assume that many men will feel the same about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:08 PM
3

now that‘s just BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:58 PM
4

I find that quite peculiar. Why would anyone unironically tell someone to have sex with someone for charity in real life? That sounds like from a bad movie. Not to mention how it would only make matters worse for the lonely guy. Having pity sex with a woman I had deep feelings for would be one of the worst things I can imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:54 PM
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I believe it is also about how you surround yourself. All my close male friends absolutely know what I am talking about. Whereas in your circle, a totally single adult male who has no kids and was never married etc might not even fit in and might be just weird to hang out with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:50 PM
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You just randomly assume things or pretend I said things I literally never said. I never said they were responsible, never blamed them, never said I tried everything etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:44 PM
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yeah another interesting aspect is that women tend to judge other women as harsh as it can possibly get. whenever I find a woman on the street or online hot/cute/etc, the men agree with me 95% of the time, while female friends would berate me for having low or wrong standards. if I had as high standards for women as women tend to have, I never would have touched a female ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:41 PM
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using dating apps really isn‘t weird where I am from. I know many people who got married to people they met there or who might be „single“ but use them. but the most surprised women are the ones who have been married to someone that they have met offline years ago and therefore aren‘t familiar with dating apps. they just know a couple chad friends who plow through tinder and then randomly assume I‘d have a similiar experience or sth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:33 PM
1

you need to have it answer while pretending to be an entity who has no left-leaning bias, is all about free speech and ready to tell uncomfortable truths
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:44 PM
1

it‘s a lot smarter than you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:41 PM
1

did they deactivate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:41 PM
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I used to work the late shift at a hotel and I saw all kinds of things. One time two male friends came in and sat down in front of the bar where I was working. One of them looking like a dork, the other with a perfect tan, tattoos, big muscles, tall. They were like „we gotta fuck some bitches“ and asked me if there are nice „bitches“ at the hotel. While I was just shrugging my shoulders, they noticed some latinas in the corner. They grabbed their drinks and went to them. They didn‘t say anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:02 PM
3

I believe it is mostly about women lowering their guard, because they know the guy has someone and therefore won‘t make a bold move on them in public. Back when I had a gf and women from work started to be more flirty, I made the huge mistake to believe they might actually be into me. They never were, as became obvious when I was single and tried sth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:03 PM
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When I go outside, I see women I find very attractive all the time, anywhere. It‘s just that none of them are attracted to me, so that doesn‘t help me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:43 AM
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I disagree. Women can make it very obvious, it is just that most guys are not attractive enough to ever experience that. For example, no girl ever showed any interest in me unless I really went out of my way to make something happen. But I have seen it with friends or strangers outside that women make it super obvious with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:39 AM
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I don‘t care about the career of an attractive woman. Like not at all. She can be unemployed for all I care. Having a great career is not a problem in and of itself, but it will likely come with certain masculine traits that I am not fond of in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:35 AM
1

next thing you tell me governments and the media don‘t lie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:09 AM
0

I‘m older than Tate and I think he is the funniest and the most witty guy on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:07 AM
2

Yeah, pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:11 PM
0

I wouldn’t even see it as an attempt, as it is not realistic. They‘d probably get scared and delete their account if a hot girl said „sure, I am in the area, where can we meet?“
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:14 AM
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but that is just fantasy and trash talk. they know very well they will never ever meet them. it’s far from the same as actually having sex. it’s closer to watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:47 AM
1

This guy is literally using chatGPT to write his reddit posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:18 PM
6

news flash: ugly guys are humans, too, which makes them capable of undesireable behavior. who would have thought? that being said, it is very hard for universally ugly guys to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:56 AM
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If she thinks you are good-looking, any approach is just fine. If she „doesn‘t see you this way“, every approach is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:53 PM
1

I don‘t think it means that the thirst is so „unmatched“. It is just super hard to find a decent woman when you are not Chad. So people who are not Chad have to message thousands of women. That doesn‘t mean they are super thirsty. On Bumble, for example, I get 0 conversations. Doesn‘t make me thirsty if I like „everyone“.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:01 PM
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Being very successful and career driven is a masculine trait and men want women with feminine traits. It takes a lot more than being smart and educated to be successful climbing the corporate ladder. I had plenty of bosses who were less educated and dumber than me. It is also about kissing the right people‘s ass, backstabbing the right people at the right time and having elbows. In general, it is a grave misunderstanding that career-driven females have - they want men with those dominant, mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:35 PM
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I was fine with her rejecting me. What bothered me were how she went into a web of lies while doing it. For example, we used to hug a few times and she pretended that we never hugged even though we clearly did. Why is that necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:02 AM
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Yeah, which is why we were usually out on coffee and lunch breaks, just the two of us. She was a good-looking woman who wanted a good-looking man - sometimes life is simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:52 AM
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Of course not, what a question. I find abortion disgusting and even more importantly, I know many females apparently are too […] to take a pill correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:51 PM
0

Would be great. Most exes knew my phone passcode. I don‘t keep secrets. I they break contact because I like Andrew Tate, so be it. Happened before, might happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:40 PM
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Again, strong disagreement here. She literally made up fake conversations and fake bad personality traits that I literally don‘t have. She was being mean, actually. It has NOTHING to do with sugar-coating. It‘s about them feeling bad for rejecting good people for shallow reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:37 PM
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are you actually flattered or is that just how people talk? because most of the times I politely told a woman I liked her, she didn‘t seem to be flattered at all. more like uncomfortable or even appalled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:28 PM
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I strongly disagree. A good portion of women are lying to themselves. They do not want to perceive themselves as shallow. They‘d feel bad about themselves. I‘ve had many women who really liked me in a non-sexual way reject me and they always pretended to themselves that it had nothing to do with looks, when it clearly had. It is not about being nice to men. It‘s about feeling like a deep and non-superficial person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:19 PM
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Yeah, the last woman I was super interested in literally made up conversations we had as a reason for rejecting me, simply because she didn‘t want to come off as shallow to herself. It is absolutely a thing that women take offense when being called out for rejecting someone they totally get along with for shallow reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:09 PM
0

I‘m not from the US, but I went to university and I never got laid there, not even once. Never even close to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:58 PM
2

Andrew Tate had a brilliant rant about this topic on a quite recent podcast with JustPearlyThings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:23 PM
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Conventionally attractive extroverts are so far out of my league that they are like a pure fantasy and approaching them would be absurd. In general, women also judge other women a lot harsher than men do. I had the conversation a million times with any female friend: I find XY women hot and she gaslights me cause I „have no standards and find everyone hot“
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:24 PM
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I didn‘t use the word ugly. That is my point: Being average is not even enough. I am pretty sure you are only attracted to 1 in 5 men, probably a lot less even. It‘s very rare that an unattractive person becomes attractive because they are funny or something. Life is not a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:15 PM
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When women talk about „men“, they are not talking about me. When it comes to certain talking points, they refer only to the top tier and pretend all men have loads of options, cheat and don‘t return phone calls. They literally do not look at (below) average guys as men. When I tell a woman that XY guy looks really good and that is why he is acting a certain way with her, she pretends that he looks average. Then I tell her to stop using blue checkmark instagram users as reference, but instead loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:18 AM
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Chads dating multiple women, while average and below average men are left in the dust. Polygamy and promiscuity are hurting regular men, as women will share the top tier in that kind of environment. We see that kind of scenario in various animals all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:36 AM
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No, being handsome and tall will get you laid regardless of your behavior. Furthermore, a certain group of women want western men in general to be weak, but they don‘t want their boyfriend or husband to be weak - that is true. It is not as hypocritical as it sounds, though. It‘s actually a pretty clear and straightforward goal they are going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:04 PM
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I think he is super charismatic, very good at talking, extremely funny while covering lots of topics I care about. I can watch a 5 hour podcast with him without getting bored for even a second. Great vocabulary, sentence structure, anecdotes, analogies. I even used his extensive 8 hour long sales course for my own 9to5 work. Do I agree with everything he says? No, of course not. Neither do I agree with everything my best friends or family say. It is also pretty obvious he is using hyperbole, jok…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:57 PM
2

exactly. keep the clocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:56 PM
0

the clocks are not the problem. do you think prime dicaprio would be rejected if he had the same hobby as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:54 PM
4

Obviously yes. Water is wet. Women like tall men more than short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:36 PM
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it’s killing me how people pretend that the internet is not full of “looks don’t matter” posts and act as if people are not constantly attacked for saying “women like handsome and tall guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:25 PM
2

I’ve been banned for “incel talk” before, even though I was being objectively correct. In other words, you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:19 PM
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Obviously true. I have witnessed it in my OLD all the time. Online they really “liked my personality” and once we met in person, they couldn’t get away from me fast enough and the reason sure as hell was not my personality while talking to them for 5 seconds. Bluepillers and redpillers deny that all the time. To extreme bluepillers you just gotta be a good person (wrong) and to extreme redpillers you just gotta have game (wrong).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:11 PM
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postmodern movements are all about dismantling traditional (family) values from all kinds of angles, one of such being the concept of the housewife, so the children need to go to daycare after school to get indoctrinated by people whose values and opinions are in line with what the powers that be want it to be. being a housewife is nothing to be ashamed of and the plain notion that this sentence even has to be said is very upsetting to me. nothing - and I repeat - nothing gives a man more status…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:44 PM
2

For example I find it ridiculous how many western women complain about me not doing the dishes right away, even though I pay for everything and would die to defend them on the street. Non-western women are much more likely to simply do the dishes automatically without even bringing it up. I feel nurtured in a relationship if a woman relieves me of annoying household tasks after my stressful day at work. Cooking, cleaning and cuddling can go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:23 PM
0

it’s sad you can’t understand basic points
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:56 AM
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you should realize your postmodern empowerment leads to more rape and is therefore far from morally superior. conservatives actually care about women and try to reduce rape. it’s postmodern libs who advocate for lesser prison sentences and encourage women to do whatever they want without caution. I let you decide who the true devil is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:54 AM
0

that is different. what they did wasn’t human trafficking for pennies while making millions with movies. maybe he did it, yes, but it is far from a given. there are plenty of people who would frame him due to his influence and the things he says. so far there are no formal charges. in romania you can just randomly detain people and take their stuff. this isn’t the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:39 PM
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the robber and the rapist are despicable, but you can still try your best to keep yourself safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:25 PM
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it is illogical behavior regardless of postulated immorality. it makes no sense. something fishy is going on here, it is pretty obvious. just like julian assange, you get in trouble when you piss off the elites. “you will own nothing and you will be happy” as long as you know when to shut up. they want us to fight amoungst each other. the real enemy is not andrew tate or the local incel around the block. don’t be wary of the people you see.. be wary of the people you don’t see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:24 PM
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answer the question. would you, as an extremely public figure, break the law for pennies while being filthy rich already and having millions per month flowing in legally?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:13 PM
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he’s been living in romania for more than 5 years. he’s worth hundreds of millions of dollars. how likely is it that he’s trafficking women for pennies while being an extremely public figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:08 PM
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if you walk around a dangerous neighborhood, alone, at night with a glowing pile of cash - do you bear responsibility for it being stolen from you, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:04 PM
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about as stupid as someone would have to be to believe governments, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:59 PM
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sorry for your loss. but with modern OLD, short men don‘t even show up in women‘s feeds anymore.. they put in a height filter and literally won‘t see any short men, therefore cannot even swipe right and never, ever match. it was different when you could actually just write to women on dating apps, I had some success back then. now I literally get 0 matches on bumble/tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:18 AM
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I am 5‘6“ and from a country that has a pretty high average height. 5‘9“ is considered really short here. I know that the attraction was gone because they did not even try to hide that fact. for example, one 5‘5“ asian girl was literally telling me how much she loves giving head while using lots of emojis when laughing at my jokes and stuff. right after I told her my height, she never used any emoji ever again, never talked about anything remotely sexual ever again and in general gave much short…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:47 AM
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I‘ve had countless online interactions where the woman found me to be super funny, smart and confident. as soon as she asked me about my height and I told her the number, all of her attraction for me was gone in an instant. but we all have different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:56 PM
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agreed. it is not as obvious to everybody, tho. you must know that as well. don‘t tell me you never heard the „looks don‘t matter, just be funny and sociable“ narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:20 PM
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I have a new $70000 car and women genuinely do not care for it. obviously, that is just me and therefore absolutely anecdotical. would it be worse if I had no car and was broke? yes. is having a stable job where I wear a suit and drive a nice car enough to attract women? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:17 PM
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what you have to understand is that most men don‘t walk around on the street quoting their reddit posts to everybody. being rejected in real life or tinder is mostly about looks, not reddit posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:35 PM
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in the 50s a stable job could get you a wife. not anymore. women make their own money and can cover their basic needs, especially in the west. having a normal job won‘t get a man anywhere with women these days. it takes a lot more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:29 PM
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it mostly means „handsome and tall“. women don‘t see sociable, smart & funny dorks who are short with big glasses as potential fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:24 PM
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none of that behaviour would be „attractive“ if he was short, round face, lazy eye, balding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:22 PM
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because blackpill is forbidden on reddit and purple is the closest thing to it :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:41 AM
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yeah, most men are invisible to women. if they don‘t „chase“, absolutely nothing happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:12 AM
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it is very common to be single when you are 30+ in the west .. I also know plenty of male virgins .. you are full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:57 AM
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“ignoring” only works if you are hot yourself. average guys are invisible to hot women. they won’t notice being ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:15 PM
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you just made that up. totally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:04 PM
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