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So in other words "both sides" agree that men still have to rigidly conform to male gender roles, they just disagree on the wording and messaging. There's no wiggle room for individuality or being anything even slightly resembling sensitive, we all have to go through the same 1000 bullshit hoops to be clones of each other just to have a shot of being acknowledged and acknowledged by others or live and die lonely. I hate it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/25 09:02 PM
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The overwhelming majority of men's self-improvement is centered around the notion that men who don't fit in (socially awkward, unattractive, neurodivergent, mentally ill, GNC, and generally considered "abnormal") will never be good enough or seen as worth loving or respecting no matter how much of a good person they are. And they must devote their entire existence putting in a herculean effort over multiple years transforming their entire personality/being in conformance to the heavily curated r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/25 08:56 PM
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How is the left opposed/offended by the idea of self-improvement? Not trying to be snarky or confrontational, genuinely curious
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/25 08:29 PM
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This stuff is honestly why I totally gave up on life a long time ago and have just hit a completely stagnant slog as a man with autism, ADHD, CPTSD and severe depression (which already makes me worthless in the world's eyes). All of the hundreds if not thousands of intricate and hopelessly complex bullshit hoops I as an "inadequate male loser" am expected to put 100x the excruciating Herculean effort into leaping through for literal decades just to even have a *chance* of being treated like a pe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/25 03:18 AM
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> it should be about helping men...all men...fulfill these expectations in a healthy way. How lovely. ALL men must be completely identical in their conformity to the role of a conventionally attractive, extroverted, assertive, **neurotypical** and confident masculine provider to even have a chance of getting others to acknowledge and respect their existence since that is the **only** type of male personality that is accepted. Zero individuality or room for diversity, all men must have the same s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/25 02:56 AM
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It's... horrible. Like, genuinely horrible. I've basically given up on myself and given up my hope and light because of it. i can't even take care of myself or do anything right, and nobody would care or notice if my health plummeted or I never spoke to another person again. Why should I care?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/25 07:08 AM
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Seeing posts on this sub is always a great way to worsen my mental health for the day, seeing how desolate and miserable the world is for the kind of man i am
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/25 09:33 PM
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>...this has nothing to do with women, it’s the expectations other men put on eachother which are unrealistic. Who wants to tell them that women grow up and live in the exact same society as men and are perfectly capable of being pressured/influenced by and being complicit in upholding those exact same societal expectations against men the same as any man? It's like the idea that women are entirely capable of adopting and adhering to a problematic worldview or ideology that don't conform to the …
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/25 10:57 PM
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The only kind of man that society accepts/approves of are those who conform to the role of a conventionally attractive, stoic, emotionally reserved, socially validated, highly charismatic and extroverted neurotypical providers who does all of the initiating and courting early on in a romantic relationship with flawless confidence and charm who's fully financially independent and out of their parents' house ASAP with a lucrative career that supports a certain lifestyle and carries with it social …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/25 02:02 AM
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r/thanksimcured ahh response
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/25 08:29 PM
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What is the point of making a declarative statement and then refusing to provide evidence when asked? I think it's pretty clear by all of your responses in this thread that you have zero interest in acting in good faith and are simply looking to insult and talk down to all these lazy entitled incels about "personal responsibility" or whatever other drivel so you can feel all smug and superior, and any further engagement with you is simply a waste of time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/25 08:26 PM
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Idk man, I feel like I’m at my absolute wits end in terms of life. I’ve had so many horrible and traumatic social experiences my whole life that have crippled me mentally and emotionally, and I’ve made so many terrible decisions that have made it all worse. A guy like me that’s socially awkward, unattractive, autistic, low status, mentally ill, and doesn’t conform to traditional gender norms can’t possibly ever be seen as worth loving by any woman in comparison to a normal neurotypical guy who’s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/25 04:27 AM
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Same here. My father is a totally dysfunctional, alcoholic narcissistic psychopath who abused and tormented me and my siblings for our entire lives and we only just moved away from our hometown to get away from him. My life is an absolutely horrific dumpster fire in every single way you could think of, partially due to having a totally inept and ineffective support network oblivious to the fact that I was a complete pariah in school actively being tormented by all my peers while I was completely…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/25 08:52 PM
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Honestly what are you even supposed to do as a nd man? Literally everything you do is perceived in a negative light and you will be roasted alive the second you make even the tiniest mistake, every single time you ever try to socialize or put yourself out there and nobody will ever forgive you for anything ever. It seems like the only thing you can possibly do as a nd man is just accept that you will spend your entire life as a socially crippled pariah who will never be attractive to any woman o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/25 03:02 AM
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That’s not really that encouraging. Knowing that you’re so horribly repulsive by default that you need to put in 100x the effort for possibly decades to be worthy of being treated like a person that your peers didn’t have to do because who they were by default was good enough for others to want to be with them, and they will still always outclass you in every single regard.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 10:47 AM
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Honestly, what solution/Hope could there be for all the guys who aren’t considered to be “desirable” or “masculine”, even on an individual level. Personally speaking, i’m a extremely socially awkward, shy, timid, mentally challenged, disabled, and ill, unattractive autistic dude who has never had anything resembling a relationship in my entire life and hasn’t a lick of traditional masculinity. I feel as bottom of the pit low on the totem pole in terms of desirability and value as one can possibl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/25 11:09 PM
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