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| 1 | 80/20 scenarioIf women couldn't get laid by the top 20% so easily, their standards would lower for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 10:39 AM |
| 7 | 80/20 scenarioI know there are many men that think that way, but I suspect it is purely about availability. When individual men are in enough demand to be in a position to be selective (which some definitely are), then they will be selective. If you were in that situation with 100 women, you would fuck the top 10 multiple times before you even thought about moving down the list, and I very much doubt you would ever hit the 80th. I can't state this as fact by any stretch, but in talking with women, they like s… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI am very skeptical of that claim as well. Being gay seems unlikely to be a genetic trait or, at the very least, a solely genetic trait. There has to be some level of environmental component, whether that be developmentally in the womb, social or specific individual trauma. I certainly can't remember a trauma, but there is much evidence to suggest that developmental traumas are often blocked out. Thanks again for your time and thoughts. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI thank you both for at least attempting to help me. I admit I an unsure if I even need help to change my current state. I do however recognize my current place and do seek to understand it. I don't think I subscribe to any particular myth and have come here mind open, not closed or forwarding any agenda or viewpoint. I don't, at least consciously, seek validation. I know that I exist, I know I am not "normal". I am interested in how I am your enemy. I certainly in no way want to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyMay I ask where it states that rule? I have read through much of the sidebar and I don't recall ever seeing that. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyThank you for taking the time to share that. There is definitely truth in how I react to feelings of sexual weakness (is maybe a little closer to how I experience it than "inferiority"). There is definitely a correlation with the gap in perceived masculinity and my attraction and levels of arousal. That being said, despite my psychology, I don't think many would know I am gay simply by looking at me or even talking with me. I'm not particularly feminine in my manner and I am not slight, both of … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI think I am trying to find the truth, rather than explain it or invent some rationalisation or theory. I know I am without doubt an outlier and in some ways I could be considered a mistake of nature, but I also don't know how, or if, I can change myself. However I am not a once off, so there is some mechanic in biology, with the right stimuli, that creates someone like me. If I am to understand what you are saying, it is a product of being sexually abused at a young age? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Let's talk about this interaction I had on Facebook100%. Also, I fail to see in anyway what this has to do with TRP other than you need some serious self improvement. Edit: To be clear I am talking about OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyBeing valued as highly as a woman is a rare thing in my experience as a feminine male. Even for dominant bi men, I suspect that most find women more visually appealing. In the few examples where I feel like I have had an equal or higher treatment than a woman, it has typically been in a situation where a man has been frustrated by "high maintenance" and is seeking a a fuck without any hassles. My approach is to try and embrace the feminine role as much as I can. So while I can't offer child birt… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI definitely want to be top 20%. I have no doubt that for most dominant bi men I am the second choice after most women so I want to be the first choice of the men in that market. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI've always tried to be an improvement in their life, even if it is just for the night, and never a burden. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI totally agree there is a form of targeted dehumanizing of white straight males. Like the idea that because they haven't been historically discriminated against is something they should be punished for and it is totally hypocritical of the stated goals of many of the activists who do so. Of your first point, I also share your belief that submissive feminine men provide less value than other men. One of my goals in learning TRP is to learn to maximize my value despite this, given I am unsure of … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyIf you would be willing to share I would be interesting in how you have seen TRP principles apply to feminine males. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyYou are welcome to shit on those concepts. I am in no way seeking support or validation. I am just trying to learn about TRP and asking questions, not looking to debate. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyTRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. I understand if you don't want to discuss it further and of course you are no way compelled to do so, but I would have thought this was all on topic of male identity. I also haven't see a rule limiting the discussion on sexuality and I was actually asking you to expand on a topic you raised. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyIt is entirely possible. The site suggests reading could be dangerous. Would you be able to give a high level explanation of what it contains? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI understand that, and am not suggesting it isn't true. To use your analogy (which to nit pick sounds more like the composite pattern than pure OOP polymorphism) there are many other categories of chunks beyond XX/XY that define how a person will behave. I get that some will be nature (i.e genetics) others will be nurture, but most will be a combination of both, i.e. your genetics provide the predisposition and the environment provides the conditions for it to flourish. A perfect storm if you wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyMale - XY Female - XX I am fairly sure that there is a lot more concrete in an individual's nature than just 1 set of chromosomes. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI have always felt like it is a biological driver that makes me the way I am and felt that way from quite a young age. I have seen that there are studies that the brains of gay men when scanned are closer to that of female brains than male brains, however I am in no way an expert in how to read or analyse such a thing. So you appear to be saying that LGBT is nurture over nature? Can you expand on how such a mechanism might work? And do you consider LGBT as Blue Pill? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyI am really curious to hear more about this view of the transgendered. One if my reasons for reading into TRP is to gain an understanding of LGBT's role in the larger picture. Also is there anything of note about the dominant bi men who fuck TG and gay men? I don't necessarily consider myself transgendered, but I don't feel like a real man (despite genetically being one) and that sometimes leads to me being more feminine and definitely taking the submission feminine role sexually and in relation… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the problemI don't believe I equated any civilisation with the natural order. I mentioned the natural order purely from a biological perspective, to highlight the innate biological programming common to females and how holding that belief whilst also ascribing responsibility to females for following that programming is a contradiction. To put it another way it would be like blaming someone for sneezing. That being said, I agree with much of what you described (in great depth, thanks!) about marriage. I do … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the problemThis mess is not the result of an act of collective consciousness on behalf of women. Collectively, women are simply a product of the environment we created for ourselves. Current conditions allow for unchecked female hypergamy to run rampant. I agree with much of what you said, but I think you are kind of making my point here, which means I probably didn't explain my question well enough. I am essentially asking how can it simultaneously be someone's (in this case females) fault when those same… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Women are not the problemI preface this comment by saying that my motives for being here are to learn, however maybe for very different reasons that most. There is what appears to me to be a contradiction that confuses me about the red pill approach/ideology/mentality/whatever you call it. TRP seems to be based on, at a base level, an idea of a natural biological order. While a generalisation, I can see a lot of truth in it. Ultimately it carries with it the idea that there is a great deal of commonality within the fema… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 08:34 AM |
| -2 | Don't Cheat On Your GirlfriendI don't know about women, but I know if a man I am with others, I work even harder to please him as I know I am easily disposed of. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Using women's social nature to your advantageI'm trying to understand why the extent of women's sexual history is significant to some men. Is it because there is a biological desire for monogamy from women and being "slutty" suggests a likelihood of them cheating? Or is it a purity thing like she has been spoiled? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Using women's social nature to your advantageIt sounds like you have a great thing going on!! I get the sense that some here would feel like she is only doing that to get what she wants from you. While it is probably true that some girls do act this way, I believe that some women do genuinely feel like they should belong to a man. I know I do. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Using women's social nature to your advantageI am more than happy to accept it. You clearly do. I am not trying to argue against you, I hope you understand that. I am just trying to understand it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 02:33 PM |
| 19 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread July 10I've always had a theory that when nature required alpha men to help protect the pack, that beta men and below were socially considered the same as women and were subservient to them. I have nothing to back that up though lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Using women's social nature to your advantageI get fucked in the ass a lot. What risks are you talking about? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Not sure about my situationOK, so 1 man a week is too many. Is 1 man every 2 weeks too many? 1 every 3? You are getting hung up on numbers that really don't mean anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Not sure about my situationI've never really understood why it matters how many men a girl as been with before. Apart from the obvious risk of STIs if she hasn't been safe I guess. She is going to be a much better fuck if she has experience than a virgin. Just enjoy that she is yours at the moment and for however long you are together. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 12:06 PM |
| 4 | Not sure about my situationThere is the old rule of 3. When a man tells you how many women he as been with, divide by 3, when a woman tells you, times by 3. Rightly or wrongly, many people judge women for having many partners. She told what is ultimately a little (and common) lie, if she said she was a good girl, to preserve people's opinion of her. If you feel bad, that is on you. She owes you nothing. I am by no means an expert on TRP and I am sure others will correct me if I am wrong, but how you feel can ultimately on… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Yet Another Height ThreadI can comment on the gay front :) Physical nature is still a factor and depending on whether you are more dominant or submissive being smaller or larger respectively can play a role in you attractiveness. That being said that isn't really what you were asking. You are right in that it isn't something you can change. Some will say don't worry about what you can't change, which I think is true to an extent, but you also need to accept it and work around it. As much as you can work around that from… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 08:35 AM |
| 1 | The Race RedpillSurely culture plays a significant part here. Culture (in particular fashion) dictates a large portion of what people find attractive. Also coupling isn't entirely random. People meet others where they work, socialise, etc. The more segregated a portion of society is the less likely you are to mix. My, admittedly anecdotal, observations in Australia are that the longer a particular nationality has been in the country, the more likely they are to be in mixed relationships. Also being a minority c… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Using women's social nature to your advantageIs being fucked in the ass a bad thing? Is it any worse that being fucked in the pussy or a blow job? Also, is it any different to wanting to fuck someone in the ass after 4 hours? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Using women's social nature to your advantageI understand a lot of what you said. However I feel like you have simplified things a bit. Surely the various abilities one requires to be able to acquire and provide resources are in someway genetically correlated. You also have edge cases of so called gold diggers, where resources are clearly valued over physical attractiveness. Maybe I am trying to find too many exceptions rather than looking at the overall trends. I do believe that it is the feminine role to be submissive and obedient, not j… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Using women's social nature to your advantageWhat is the biological driver for a woman to not want to procreate with a man who treats her well? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Using women's social nature to your advantageI may not be understanding what you are saying, but it seems like you have put women in a situation they cannot win. Surely the man who is "good for her", as you put it, is responsible for taking the sex he wants. While women can act as the gatekeeper of sex, surely it is the man, as the dominant, active sexual participant, to control much of how the act takes place. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Using women's social nature to your advantageInteresting. I hadn't really thought of it being a weapon in that sort of context. I know there is a practice of withholding sex as a weapon, but it is new to me the idea of it being used as a trap. The man on man market is definitely different. While many men are versatile in their sexual role, the majority skew towards being the bottom as a preference and there are definitely more exclusively bottoms than exclusively top. So those of us who are exclusively bottom very much need to demonstrate … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 10:42 AM |
| 5 | Using women's social nature to your advantageSorry I should have made it clear. I'm talking about when men choose me. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 10:32 AM |
| 10 | Using women's social nature to your advantageI know from my experience that it makes you feel special that you have been chosen over others. You have been chosen over others making you better than them. It sounds petty and pathetic but it doesn't make it any less true. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 11:19 PM |
| 15 | Using women's social nature to your advantageYou don't respect women because they want to do whatever it takes to please a man they are attracted to? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Too Much Attention Kills AttractionAs someone who seeks male attention, the right amount of validation is an amazing way to gain a strong mental hold over me. You keep coming back for more and working harder for it. However if it comes to easily the desire to gain it can go away. I don't like that it can do so, but it is just my nature. It might sound kinda sick to some, but it is a bit like how you would get someone addicted to a drug and then withhold it to get them eating out of the palm of your hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.I think there is a lot of truth in this. I know my perspective as a submissive gay "man" might not quite align with what this group typically deals with, but I at least feel like I play the same role as a heterosexual woman. I gather incredible satisfaction from pleasing a man. His pleasure and sexual gratification are my sole focus. I often don't cum when fucking as I expect no attention from the man nor do I give any to myself, but I still feel amazing when he enjoys himself. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 02:23 AM |
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